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The Favourite: Queen Anne [INFP]

OFFICIAL TYPING by Charity / The Mod

Functional Order: Fi-Ne-Si-Te

Judging Functional Axis:

Introverted Feeling (Fi) / Extroverted Thinking (Te)

Anne is extremely sensitive and often easily hurt by Sarah’s blunt comments (telling her she looks like a badger and doesn’t want to embarrass herself with a foreign ambassador), which is why she latches onto Abigail’s kindness. She eagerly introduces her to her bunnies, and tells her about how they represent her seventeen lost children. She continues to keep them, despite Sarah telling her that they are “morbid,” and wants her guests to “greet them” whenever they enter the room. Since she loathes conflict so much, she is rather easily influenced and badgered by Sarah into compliance with her wishes – but as the film goes on, she becomes more stubborn about having her own way, and asserting her rights as the queen. Her low Te shows in how compliant she is with allowing Sarah to “take care” of all the court policies, how oblivious she is to how others are draining the royal treasury (since she never looks at the books herself), and how she can be assertive and rude whenever she’s upset.

Perceiving Functional Axis:

Extroverted Intuition (Ne) / Introverted Sensing (Si)

She is something of a dreamer and naïve. Impressionable, she believes anything anyone else tells her, and is more preoccupied with her thoughts than attending to affairs of state. Anne spends most of the film in a Si loop, where she’s preoccupied with her physical aches and pains, her ongoing battle with gout, her long-term relationships, and mourning her dead children. Toward the end of the film, she re-awakens her Ne and starts taking a big picture interest in ruling her kingdom. She is also, in some instances, aware of when Abigail is manipulating her, and also aware of Sarah’s motives.

Hogwarts House: Hufflepuff

House Traits: hard work, patience, loyalty, and fair play.

Anne has far less interest in ruling than in having a quiet, pleasant life full of entertainments, good food, pleasurable companions, and quiet. But she is no fool. She does sense what’s going on between Sarah and Abigail, and plays them off one another for her own amusement.

Enneagram: 4w3 sx/sp

Tritype: 469 The Seeker [4w3 6w7 9w8]

Emotional, passionate, and melancholy, Anne finds ways to express her displeasure, she feels instant jealousy when Sarah dances with someone else (even in a platonic way), and she focuses largely on what is missing in her life – her lost children. She immortalizes them through her pets. She can complain about her feelings and expect others to cater to them, showing a tendency for drama. Anne pushes people away, then pulls them in close, then pushes them away and makes them see their place, in the habitual “tug of war” internal conflict of being a 4. Her 3 wing makes her showy and care about her status; she becomes more assertive and authoritative once Sarah has gone. Her 6 is anxious, full of self-doubt and distrustful of others, but too trusting of Sarah. Her 9 hates conflict and capitulates to pressure easily.

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Enneagram 469: The Seeker

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Enneagram Phobic 6 sx Aesthetic

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Other people:

Fi:

Ne: *trying to do Te's job and save money by suggesting selling all our stuff and moving into the near by bog*

We could do it. It's possible.

Si: oh god

Mean while, Blind Se:

My inferior Te: Hey, scumbag. I’ve shown up to dispute a tiny insignificant fact, so tighten your asshole because things are about to get overly critical.

Me: Hey, Te. Where have you been?

Inferior Te: Figuring out the most practical layout for your wardrobe for the last 17 years of your life.

Me: But you know I just throw everything at the bottom?

Inferior Te: Yes, that was my brilliant plan to save time, but my plan might need an up date since I came up with it when we were a toddler. Now shut up, I’m trying to figure out whether this source is dodgy. I’ve got work to do here! These asses need a thrashing. Morons wouldn’t know logic if it hit them in the face, and it will if I have something to do with it!

Me: Okay, I’ll talk to you later…

Inferior Te:

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My inferior Te: Hey, scumbag. I've shown up to dispute a tiny insignificant fact, so tighten your asshole because things are about to get overly critical.

Me: Hey, Te. Where have you been?

Inferior Te: Figuring out the most practical layout for your wardrobe for the last 17 years of your life.

Me: But you know I just throw everything at the bottom?

Inferior Te: Yes, that was my brilliant plan to save time, but my plan might need an up date since I came up with it when we were a toddler. Now shut up, I'm trying to figure out whether this source is dodgy. I've got work to do here! These asses need a thrashing. Morons wouldn't know logic if it hit them in the face, and it will if I have something to do with it!

Me: Okay, I'll talk to you later...

Inferior Te:

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469 Communication and Compatibility

(phobic 6 only)

469 may say a lot of things like "I thought maybe", "it could be", "that's what I thinking so far, but I'm not too sure," "I imagine," "I'm not too certain, but," "just an idea I had, I'm not too sure of it," and if they can they will phrase the things they want to say as questions instead of statements. If you don't do this you probably don't have a p6. I'm not too sure if cp6 would act that way, they are unlikely for this tritype and it's kinda hard to imagine the 9 with 6cp.

If they are 6w7 4w3 they will be more likely to seek and be open to people and socialising. 4w5 6w5 will be more take-it-or-leave-it, do-it-you-self, withdrawn and aloof. Although this tritype is shy and withdrawn regardless.

They may have unique styles of speech. They will most likely be very agreeable, but questioning. They may even make you question yourself.

They are most likely to get a long with 2s, 9s, 5s, 7s, and p6s. Least likely to get a long with core 8s with no 2, 5 or 7. Although this is just my calculated guess.

They will probably feel uneasy around people who seem too loud, critical and complaining as they fear being wrong and don't like conflict.

My best friend is a 952 the problem solver. It seems like a pretty ideal pairing, they are well equipped to deal with the seeker's questioning and doubting with their problem solving nature. The 9 makes them calm, the 2 and 5 give reassurance to the 6 and the 2 give the 4 caring and understanding. And it would probably be beneficial to the 259 as well as it suits their nature.

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469 vs 459: Independent? Or very very not?

I remember reading a post somewhere saying that the main difference between these two is that the 459 is very independent whereas the 469 is very very not. I can't find the original post, but I want to address this.

The 459 certainly is very independent, being the most withdrawn type. But this can vary to some degree. A 4w3 5w6 9w1 so/sx will probably be the least independent of the tritype, although still would be very independent. The 4w5 5w4 9w8 the most independent and erasures of this tritype.

As for the 469, I think this vary a lot more than the 459. 4w3 6w7 9w1 so/sx will be very dependant, especially with the 6 in charge. Whereas a 4w5 cp6w5 9w8 sp/sx will still need people and reassurance, but a lot less of it, especially if the 6w5 is at the bottom. The 6w5 has a very do-it-yourself attitude, along with the take it or leave it mentality of the 4w5 and more balance nature of the 9w8. Even more so if they are introverted, which is likely.

I felt like I should say something as it did not align with my experience. I'm 9w1 4w5 p6w5, so with the low 6w5 and the closeness to the 149 and 459 I'm a much more self critical, withdrawn and independent seeker.

Then how do we tell 459 and 469 apart? At the end of the day the 469, no matter how many 5 wings, needs the reassurance of others. They can't be to sure of their own judgement, they fear get anything wrong especially when they have company. 469 may say a lot of things like "I thought maybe", "it could be", "that's what I thinking so far, but I'm not too sure," "I imagine," "I'm not too certain, but," "just an idea I had, I'm not too sure of it," and if they can they will phrase the things they want to say as questions instead of statements. If you don't do this you probably don't have a p6. I'm not too sure if cp6 would act that way, they are unlikely for this tritype and it's kinda hard to imagine the 9 with 6cp.

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Could you please describe an INFJ 469? ( 4w5, 6w5, 9w1 )

An introverted, questioning, cautious, melancholy INFJ prone to dramatics (4 + Fe) but who also worries that their neediness may isolate them from their friends and/or cause them to be truly alone. Fearful of abandonment. Will back away from people (4) and run toward them (6). Strong aesthetics. Channels fears into creativity. Inconsistent. Fearful. Passive. Will not act easily. Asleep to their anger. It hides behind their desire for uniqueness and their anxiety. Double 5 wing will add a heady, introverted nature and introvert the 6. 9 allows them to merge to some extent with others and remain open-minded and able to see everyone’s point of view, which is a natural compliment to Fe. 1: will nag at them to do the right thing and avoid criticism. 

- ENFP Mod

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Vanity Fair: Amelia Sedley [INFP]

OFFICIAL TYPING by Charity / The Mod

Functional Order: Fi-Ne-Si-Te

Judging Functional Axis:

Introverted Feeling (Fi) / Extroverted Thinking (Te)

Amelia is a warm, generous and forgiving friend to Becky, willing to open up her heart and home to her when she’s in need… but once she senses her husband pulling away from her in pursuit of Becky, she becomes self-pitying and self-absorbed. As Makepeace Thackery says, all of his characters are “striving after things not worth having,” In Dobbin’s case, that’s Amelia. She accepts his friendship and gifts but offers him little in return, ignoring his feelings while asserting her own – because she’s out of touch with the way he feels about her and selfish. She prioritizes how she feels over what is sensible most of the time – insisting on staying in a town about to be overrun with French troops (and in the depths of despair) because she won’t abandon her husband, rather than escaping with her brother; turning down her father-in-law’s desire to educate her son, because it would mean separation from him. Amelia continues in this pattern until Dobbin makes her realize she needs to move past her feelings for her dead husband, and embrace the life right in front of her – and the love he has to offer her.

Perceiving Functional Axis:

Extroverted Intuition (Ne) / Introverted Sensing (Si)

Amelia lives most of her life in her head, and in a dream. She is out of sync with the real world, and somewhat idealistic, prone to romanticism, and naïve. She can be naïve in assuming Becky means the worst, then flip completely around and accuse her of trying to seduce her husband. She can open herself up to Dobbin and then slam the door in his face. She’s caught in a torrent of changing her mind… but also, she’s romanticizing and focusing on the past, the trait of an unhealthy Ne/Si. She’s avoiding the real world, and a new relationship, by dwelling on a dead man and what they had together, remembering him subjectively and not for who he truly was – but she admits to Becky later on that she knew it was all a lie. She just could not face the truth, so she used her intuition to change it, and deny it. She has a tendency to want to believe the best of people, which allows Becky to prey on her… and also allows her to ignore, downplay and not notice warning signs in her fiancé’s behavior.

Hogwarts House: Hufflepuff

House Traits: hard work, patience, loyalty, and fair play.

Amelia was willing to be a tender, loving, and dutiful wife to her husband. She focuses all that love and hard work on her son in his absence, trying to make his world the best it can be, but not letting him go until she realizes he will be far better off as a “gentleman” than with no education and a poor mother.

Enneagram: 4w5 sx/sp

Tritype: 469 The Seeker [4w5 6w5 9w8]

Amelia has the classic 4 problem of focusing on what she lacks, rather than what she has, and romanticizing it until it threatens to destroy all her potential happiness. She can be melodramatic and easily hurt, using her dead husband to define her in terms of having a “tragic” life. She also clings so hard to his memory that she neglects to see Dobbin’s love for her, or appreciate it – pushing him away in favor of a corpse. Only when she LOSES him and fears he may never come back does she realize she cares – and wants him. But even though they find “happiness” at the end, Amelia finds a way to inject misery into her current situation – saying that he no longer loves her, he loves their daughter more (which may or may not be true, but she has to turn her life into a tragedy). Her 5 wing contributes to her romanticizing and withdrawal from reality. Her 6 fix is anxious, reactive, and suspicious, trusting too much or not enough. Her 9 makes her hate conflict.

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INFP / 469 

Requested by @ifn-crusader

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Hi, which enneagram type is likely to want to express anger but feel compelled to repress this emotion because of external factors/environment, and is frustrated at the fact?

1 but could also be 9. 1s repression is more on the “I shouldn’t do this” side and 9s is more on the “Why bother and irritate this environment” side. So it could be both but since 9s get angry less often and “why bother” is a less strong motivation stereotypically 1. Also not so blind. 

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Enneagram temperaments

Phlegmatics: 1, 5, 9

Melancholics: 4

Cholerics: 6, 8

Sanguines: 2, 3, 7