#zehrathezebra

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The following was sent in a private message to me, but I had asked permission to share it because I thought it was important for everyone to see. It is something we all need to hear again. We need to learn to love ourselves. 

Tips on loving yourself:

1) JOURNAL. 

I can’t emphasize this enough. I journal EVERYDAY, every morning when I’m drinking some hot lemon water. It’s so important to spend time with yourself and write down how you feel. Respect your emotions and feelings. You have to become your own best friend.

2) Forgive yourself. 

It’s one of the hardest things to do in life but it’s so important. Forgive yourself of all the hateful things you once told yourself. All the bad things other people have said to you that you let get to your head. Take as much time as you need to forgive yourself. But once you do, you will feel so free.

3) Believe in yourself. 

You can achieve your dreams. You can be the best version of yourself. Every day is a chance to be a better person, everyday. Take the time out to be extra nice to people even when you are having a bad day, you’ll be surprised on how it affects the person and yourself!

4) Everyday take the extra time to look fab for yourself!

Dress nice, wear a nice perfume, put on some makeup if you want to. Just do whatever you have to to make yourself feel good! Put a face mask on, wash your hair, moisturize your skin…you will feel amazing.

**And know that there will be days when you don’t feel good and that’s okay. It’s ok to cry and it’s ok to be upset. It’s okay to make mistakes and feel embarrassed as long as you learn from your mistakes. As long as you learn something about yourself from every experience in life. 

And lastly, be grateful. 

Thank the Lord for everything He has blessed you with. I honestly believe that gratitude is the key to happiness.

Something I do myself when I feel down is remind myself that everything will be okay.

That my current situation is not my final destination. That I am not my past. I am not my mistakes. I am not a bad person. I am perfect the way I am. I am worth everything good in life. That today the sun will set and tomorrow it will rise again and tomorrow I will have another chance to be a better person.

I am worth my dreams and I am worth more than the bad, negative people who drain me. I choose to be happy and love myself. I choose this path and I will continue everyday to build myself up. Always.

—The beautiful, wise, and loving, @zehrathezebra​

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"Hi. ❤️ Once you get this you have to say five things you like about yourself, publicly, then send it to 10 of your favorite followers!"

Sent by: zehrathezebra basicallyanythingcute sharbalibiya <3

1. I like that I'm an awkward, unusual person (even if others don't).

2. I like my taste in people. I feel like a Mom because they're always on point on whether you're best friend is a backstabbing beotch or an angel descended from the heavens.

3. I like that I'm kind of a pushover, but that's better than the opposite right?

4. I like my knack for writing.

5. I like my hands. Lol is that weird..they're like the perfect size, not too big and not too small. 

Thanks for sending this :)

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Thank you Allah.

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You have an amazing blog!!! Oh my gosh I love it soo much!!! Just followed and reblogged lots and lots of stuff!!

Thanks hun

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Going to watch Man of Steel! 

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Goodnight loves <3

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