#your mental health means more than the person you unnecessarily verbally attacked

[anti-transphobia]

Holy shit op you're clearly the asshole here. YTA YTA YTA. Yes it sucks to be reminded of something that triggers you but when your trigger is a disorder or a minority group it is 100% on you to recognize that and understand that it's not an excuse to treat people of those groups poorly.

There is a difference between saying something in the moment and defending/seeking validation for it. Yes, calling a person with a delusional disorder crazy is an asshole thing to do. Yes, even if you're triggered. I don't think being an asshole in one situation makes you a bad person or anything. I think it would be excusable! However, you took it too far, even for someone triggered. Not taking someone's delusions seriously and saying you think that if they don't move out they'll try to KILL you? Asshole. If I were your roommate I'd never forgive you for that shit

HOWEVER your saving grace here is that you acknowledged that what you said was bad. You seem to know it's fucked up. The WRONG thing to do was go to aita about it. If you want to know if the way you treated a delusional person was wrong, don't go to a blog for literally everyone to comment on regardless of how much they care about human rights. Those are the sorts of people who say delusional people deserved to be locked up for truly harmless beliefs. Go to schizospec advocacy blogs. Go to actual psychotic people. Don't seek validation from people who would do far, far worse to your roommate if given the chance

aita for calling my roommate crazy?

I (28f) live with 2 other people, a former college roommate who I’m pretty close with (29f) and 2nd roommate (28nb) who we both met when we moved in together 2 years ago.

Let me start this out by saying, this isn’t a fandom aita, it’s going to sound a bit weird at first, but bear with me.

I have a medical condition (relevant later) which stopped most of my bones from maturing past puberty (growth plates closing, cartilage not hardening into bones, ect.), so my skeleton is basically stuck somewhere between 13-19, (I look about 17-19, but the last time I tried to buy hard cider, the cashier thought I was 14, so that’s how young I can look). I also have very pale skin (unrelated to my disorder, just a ginger), and (related to my disorder) lack some liver enzymes so I need eat meat or I get sick (the same reason why cats need to eat meat), I ended up in the ER when I lived with my vegan sister for a week and ate the same veggie diet as her.

Trouble is, Roommate 2 is really into conspiracy theories and other fringe stuff. Nothing alt-right or anything, just like, (for example) they fully bought into that Mermaids: the body found show, and wouldn’t be dissuaded, even when Roommate 1 googled it and showed them solid proof that it was fictional. Wholeheartedly believes the US government preformed 9/11, does alternative medicine (homeopathy, ect), wishes there were ‘all natural’ vaccines (still isn’t an anti-vaccer though, just needs to be persuaded that Bill Gates didn’t put microchips in them).

Anyway, Roommate 1 and I have a recurring joke that I’m a vampire because of the meat thing and the pale thing and the not aging thing. Roommate 2 overheard us and laughed, but weirdly. She kinda joked along with us, but she seemed...odd. About a week later, they start asking me stuff about being a vampire. But they seemed friendly and not nervous then and I was hoping they were just joking and I also sincerely thought they were just asking me about how vampires work on one of my shows (I’m a big fan of Carmilla and the Originals), so I tried to explain, but I cited each show when I’m explaining a thing. This continued for several weeks, but getting worse and more weird every time, eventually culminating about 2 and a half months later into them asking me more stuff about life as a vampire and I really realised that they were serious. Bear in mind, Roommate 1 and I were trying to be very clear that we don’t believe in vampires this whole time because we both know how Roommate 2 is about this. As a result, this was the first time I really registered that they seriously seemed to genuinely believe I was a vampire. I firmly told them that I am not a vampire and that vampires aren’t real, they’re fun to joke about, but they aren’t real. They implored me ‘to be straight with them about being a vampire,’ and that ‘I could trust them,’ and I’m ashamed to say, I kinda freaked out at this point, cuz I was afraid that they would be scared of me and maybe try to hurt me, since they seemed kinda unstable because of this.

This is where I think I was an asshole, I am usually very sensitive to mental health issues. I have some c-PTSD myself and there are a lot of mental health issues in my family (unfortunately, I think some history with my own mentally ill father may have made me react this way, since he has very similar issues to Roommate 2 (vaccines, alternate medicines, specifically involving me in his delusions) and I had a very bad experience in my early teens where he thought I was a demon and ‘sent to destroy him’). Anyway, I got very upset and I yelled at them, I told them they were completely crazy and needed to get mental help and said I thought Roommate 1 and I needed to move out because they might try to stake my heart or something. I feel really bad for calling them crazy, especially because Roommate 2 has some very mental health issues and words like crazy make light of and stigmatise that and I’m very big into not blaming people for their mental health problems, but this was very triggering and in this moment I was very distresssed.

So, aita, all things considered here? I’m still gonna feel like the asshole no matter what, since mental health problems aren’t to be taken lightly or blamed on the person, but I’m curious what the internet thinks.

What are these acronyms?

[cuddliestbear]

Alright....11 PM VENTING TIME BECAUSE I HAVE TOO MUH ANXIETY AND BUILT UP BAD FEELINGS

Trigger warning: mentions of panic attacks, emotional and mental abuse, suicide and self harm

So, I used to live with my...for lack of a more apt term, Father for an extended period of time (from 11-ish to 18 exactly), so seven years. He married an absolute horror beast of a human with uber conservative everything is a sin family.

So, in short i endured about seven years of emotional abuse and verbal degrading from all members of the family with this man(if you can even apply the term) standing idly by or backing them up. I get that him and my mom had different parenting methods. Its just how it is. And that would have been fine IF the hell hound herself hadn't fucking changed him as a human. Before he got married? He was a great dad, sure he worked a lot, but he actually talked to me, like had conversations with me and didn't speak to me like some lower life form just because I was 11.

Like every parent, there were days that were good and bad, I got snippy and talked back sometimes because well, as I have been told hundreds of times, I am my mother's child.

Now, skipping past the good days before the marriage and into the thick of it. I was degraded about how I was as a person on a daily. Basis. Told that I read too much, should go outside more, told I didn't dress good, told me that it was immature to still like any sort of toys, etc. It started with that. Simple things that maybe if I was really squinting, seemed sort of rational.

Then it escalated. You behave just like your mother, you'll never amount to anything, why are you so lazy, you are so antisocial, you're clothes are wrinkly you look like a homeless person, you are useless around here, you can't even clean a pan right are you stupid? ,etc. And worse things that for sake of my own sanity in seeing it in text form, I won't reiterate.

How condescending they were!

You're really going out like that?

Do you even care about your grades anymore? Are you even trying? You must be stupid to be doing this badly.

And other sublter things like.

Making me feel like an insignificant speck in the household of about eight children. Being told that because I am the eldest, I should be an example. At the point I turned fifteen, I was miserable.

We had just moved to florida, new state, away from my "bad influence" of a mother. Who now I would go months without talking to or seeing. Not allowed to call her, wasn't allowed a cell phone, even to contact my mother. Wasn't allowed to have friends over unless they had met their parents several times and even then, usually it was a no. I holed myself up in my room because whenever I exited I was subject to ridicule and criticism.

Ridicule amongst family members? Normal. This type of ridicule? No. Not normal, not okay.

I ended up cutting to punish myself for being as worthless as they told me I was. I spent more nights crying myself to sleep than I spent falling asleep normally.

I contemplated suicide many more times than anyone knows. Than any of my friends know. They have tumblr so they will see this probably. I nearly did commit suicide at least five times within my biological father's home, because I was worthless, I meant nothing and I had no one. But, I'd always remember my mom and little brother when I was about to enact. And I stopped. I never got admitted to a hospital, because any blood I shed I cleaned up and always wore long sleeves and once I heard that "cutters are attention seekers" I started in areas no one would see. I never wore shorts anyways if I could help it.

Going past all of that, I have left my sperm donors house, I live with my boyfriend. Every few months they try to contact me. And every few months, I block or delete their message because every time I see their name or number panic sets in. I have nearly gone into a full blown panic attack tonight because he made a new facebook page just to contact me.

I am at my limit. No matter what I try to do with myself or my life, I can't fucking escape them. Maybe I'll talk to him again one day. Maybe me ignoring him is childish and is proving to all of them that I am just a coward and worthless and immature. No. I may be afraid but I don't answer and I block him for my own mental health. I neglected myself for almost two years after leaving them, because I never learned how to give a fuck about my own mental or emotional health. I still unnecessarily apologize for things that don't require it. Loud noises make me panic and cry. Any sort of yelling causes me to freeze up in fear. I can't even go into Ihop anymore because that's where he used to work and I have no idea if he still does. I look over my shoulder whenever out in public late at night in places I would never have been allowed to on my own before. I search crowds in supermarkets for any familiar faces to know whether I need to escape or not. I cannot enjoy most outings to their fullest anymore, even if it seems like I am completely engaged. I am still looking over my shoulder.

It has taken 2 years of therapy and medication to realize that I am not worthless, that I am loved and wanted around and that I mean something to the people around me. It has taken 2 years to realize that I am not a piece of shit. I have been away from that place for 3 years. I fear abandonment because of how absolutely alone I was for so long. I fear rejection because I spent seven years being rejected by the very people I lived with. I fear punishment for small mistakes such as spilling drinks or making a mess, even if I am going to clean it up anyways. Nothing is a 'whoops' every moment is wracked with guilt over tiny insignificant mistakes.

Why am I typing all of this? Why am I retelling my story? To let people in those same situations understand that the people treating you that way are the problem. It has taken me years and the help of my boyfriend, mother and best frienda to realize that people making you feel like less of a person are the people who are lesser, not yourself.

Be brave, get help if you can, and remember above all else. You are NOT alone.

[christinegphillips]

Keeping Calm When The World Feels Like It’s Falling Apart

Wow “keeping calm”. Easier said than done right? Everyone says to me that I am the calmest and most laid back person they know, but it wasn’t always like that. I used to get overwhelmed with anxiety to the point where I thought I would lose my mind and have to run from situations that made me panic all the time. So below I am going to give you some hints and tips I used personally and how they will be able to help you learn how to keep calm too.

I will also discuss different scenarios where you might need to remain calm and some ways to stay calm in those given situations. It isn’t easy at first but when you master these principles, you will get used to the feelings of anxiousness and you will be able to lower your worries to a more manageable state of mind, stay calm under pressure and remain calm for the rest of the day.

Keeping Calm – Photo by Hello I’m Nik 🎞 on Unsplash

My Top Tips On Keeping Calm When Your Mind Is Going Crazy

Controlling your thoughts – The thoughts you have are the one’s that make your mind start to spiral out of control. The what if’s that cause you to question yourself and ask yourself a million questions. The overthinking process that kicks you in the teeth and stops you from keeping calm in the first place. All these thoughts are doing, no matter how crazy they might appear are just there to protect you. When you learn to talk to yourself in a positive manner by answering those questions sensibly then your mind will start to believe what you say. If you tell yourself over and over however that this is going to be bad, your going to have a panic attack etc then that is what your mind will believe also. So it is about conditioning your thoughts to answer those questions in a logical state of mind. This type of assertive behavior will stand you in good stead.

Exercise – Most people really hate this answer but a part of looking after yourself should include a good exercise program. I have tried all sorts of medication, meditation and everything else and the one and only thing that truly helped was getting in shape. When you push your body everyday to do more, your mind relaxes and those what if’s become more manageable because you are not panicking about things. It is easier to keep calm because you are processing your thoughts in a more sensible manner. I exercise 3 times day from full workouts to just a nice walk with the family and it does wonders for your overall mental health.

Stop worrying – Worrying about things is probably one of the biggest contributors and overthinkers there is. Your mind is full of doubts about a situation or you worry about small and big things happening before they have even happened. Learning when you do these type of things and when they occur you can proactively stop yourself from thinking. My daughter is only 16 and she was talking about driving when she is 17 the other day and saying things like – what if I break down on the motorway, what if I run out of petrol. These are the type of thoughts that can cause you to worry unnecessarily about something which then causes doubt in other areas of your life. So you need to answer these questions with suitable answers and provide a solution that addresses them straight away. Once you have the answer move on and put it to the back of your mind.

Rushing around – Nothing will dent your confidence more than rushing things. If you are rushing around consistently you will cause yourself unjust anxiety by trying to get everything done. If you don’t have an agenda and a plan of activities either to measure against, then this will cause you to panic and keeping calm will be the last thing on your mind. If you are late you are later, if you cannot do something today then do it tomorrow but stop rushing around.

Leaving things to the last minute – You need to stay motivated and get things done. If you are putting things off because you are worried about doing them, then you are causing yourself more anxiety along the way. Never react to things but have moments of clarity and schedule time to get all those things out of the way as quickly as possible. Not only will this give you more time to do what makes you happy but you will stop all the worrying as then it is out of the way. Always be on time however for things as it is always better to be early as you can then prepare for the events ahead instead of panicking about being late.

Speaking to others – It doesn’t matter what scenario comes up here learning to think before you speak needs to be taken into consideration. You are not going to be able to remain and stay calm if you have said the wrong thing. This will just go around in your head and you will lose confidence in your ability to keep calm and panic will set in. So don’t react quickly take your time to think about your answers to the situation and use the THINK methodology to work out the best answer.

Manifestation – Take as much as you can from manifesting situations in your mind before you get to them. This one might sound a little cryptic but for instance if you are worried about a given situation. Then close your eyes and visualize the situation and make it clear in your mind. Then visualize your desired outcome of the situation and how things are going to great. When you do this you are being assertive about the outcome to the event and come the time this will be imprinted in your mind and the outcome will be more positive than you expect.

Trust yourself – When those self doubts come in just take a deep breath and believe in yourself and the outcome of the events being positive. The thing that keeps me calm most of the time is because I really do trust myself and my ability to not only remain calm but accept that sometimes we all mistakes, sometimes we do do things wrong and I strongly believe everything happens for a reason. By believing in these things it doesn’t matter what situation I have put myself in I am able to remain calm because I am not scared of the outcome itself. When you can apologize for your mistakes, discuss openly and learn from your mistakes, take others into account with your decisions, empower yourself to change your mind. Then you become the controller of your own destiny because the power is in your hands to do something about it.

Don’t be scared – Life can be scary sometimes for lots of different reasons and it can cause you loads of anxiety will just stop you from being calm in your tracks. Do you remember when you were a child and you had nightmares? Your parents would said it’s okay there is nothing there and you would go back to bed. You would probably lye there for ages thinking there was a monster under your bed or at the window. When you are older you know that situation would never be real, but when you are a child you don’t and it is scary. So if you managed to survive the battle of the monsters as a child be thankful and grateful that you can also pluck up that courage now and remain calm and tell yourself over and over there are no monsters, this is going to be great, it’s going to be cool, everything will be oriet.

Talking positively to yourself – You are capable of achieving anything you want to in life with the right education and the right mindset. So for every opportunity you get in life always tell yourself these things, you can do this, you are amazing, you can have whatever you want in life, you got this, this is going to be awesome. Sometimes we get so carried away with all the negative thoughts about things that we forget to enjoy life along the way. So stop telling yourself negative things and just try and see the positive in life when you can.

Being nice – Learn how to be nice to other people. If you have great manners and you are kind to everyone that you meet. You help them achieve their best, take comfort in providing value to their lives, then you learn a deeper respect for yourself along the way. When you are nice to others they will generally do anything for you and that is what life is about living a fulfilled and enjoyable life and being able to sleep at night. I know it sounds like a crazy one in order to keep calm, but keeping calm means taking control of your thoughts and that means stopping all the other negative thoughts that come into your mind too.

Scenario’s Where You Might Want To Keep Calm And The Solutions

Staying calm and not getting angry – There is a time and place for every emotion but if anger is taking over when you are trying to keep calm then you need to look at this. If we are attacked verbally by someone then our instant reaction is to retaliate and staying calm just goes out of the window. The best thing to do here is listen to what the person is saying or the situation that has occurred. Process it properly by thinking about the situation without reacting first and foremost. Anger will almost definitely make most situations worse, so just take your time, take some deep breaths and pull in your emotions and speak wisely and calmly with your answer. I can honestly tell you that by whispering something softly in someone’s ear in an assertive tone will get you the required result. Shouting at someone will just annoy them and you will then have trust issues to deal with after the event. When someone can’t trust you then that leads to other problems too.

Before a job interview or presentation – Everyone can suffer from panicking in these situations. The one major thing you can do before either of these is in the preparation. If you are prepared and you know about the subject, business and you are prepared to answer questions and you have manifested what your outcome should look like then it is a case of taking your mind of it until the event. Keeping your mind occupied and sometimes on other things wills top the worrying about that actual subject. Learning to build your confidence is another thing you might have to learn on top of staying calm to be successful with this one. Always remember everything happens for a reason so if you don’t get the job or the presentation doesn’t go well, just learn from it and do better next time. There is nothing wrong with failing at times as long as you are learning along the way.

Before exams and tests – Knowing your subjects and putting in the work is paramount here. Concentrate on going in there and doing the best you can. Take deep breaths and read all of the questions first before starting to provide answers. If you cannot answer a question move on and come back to it but do not let it unsettle your confidence. Just concentrate on the next question and don’t panic. Remain calm and make sure you review every answer you gave before leaving the room. This is all about the confidence you have in the work you have put in. Don’t feel the need to rush it through either, as above, take some deep breaths and just take your time.

Driving test – Yay the day of freedom when you pass your test and can go anywhere on your own. A tremendous amount of pressure building up right, so deep breaths again, don’t panic and take your time, listen to the instructor properly and observe your surroundings. Tell yourself you’ve got this it’s all good you will pass.

During an argument – When I met my last wife we would quite often bounce of each other in arguments. By learning to remain calm however and explaining I was trying to help you move away from the you did this – you did that attitude. Arguments can be hurtful so listen to what the other person is saying and don’t interrupt them. Tell them you value their opinion if you don’t agree with it. Learning to communicate with people is the real key to staying calm and that means do not take things personally. Take your time and clearly explain things so you both have the same understanding moving forward.

Stressful situations – With this you have to try and eliminate the stress and look at the situation logically. Don’t worry about the outcome but concentrate on the task in hand. One of the lessons I have learnt is to stop and think clearly about the situation. Reassure yourself that everything will be fine and if it isn’t that you will deal with it. Take some deep breaths and just remain calm.

Frequently asked questions about keeping calm

How can I train my mind to stay calm? Think of all situations you are in with a positive outlook. What will be will be and what isn’t you will deal with. Taking control of your own thoughts and your own actions means that you can tackle any situation whilst remaining calm because you are prepared for the outcome whether that is good or bad. Building confidence is key to doing this and not putting yourself in stressful situations where you are like a fish out of water. There is nothing worse than throwing someone in at the deep end that cannot swim. So always so no to things that you are not comfortable doing and build your confidence by saying yes to more things that are you are really good at.

How do you stay calm in stressful situations? Some people will excel in these situations and others will drown. It really depends on your confidence to deal with the situation in hand. Which is why it is better to remain calm by, listening to what is going, coming up with a sensible solution to the problem, providing a solution if it goes wrong and dealing with the outcomes whether they are positive or negative. Just take your time and think of positive outcomes

How do I stay calm all day? This is one of the reasons I exercise throughout the day as it gives clarity of mind and you are able to mentally deal with any situation that arises. As an example I was getting married on the 11th May and the Coronavirus outbreak started that week. I was worried at the time that we everything might be cancelled. But instead I turned my thoughts to thinking how great the wedding was going to be, manifesting all the guests were going to have a great time, how beautiful my wife to be would look, how happy my kids would be again. This is the big thing about controlling your thoughts from panicking to thinking good things instead.

So that is everything I have on how to keep calm in everyday life. I put together a transformation proram on when I was rebuilding my life and going through divorce, losing my job, finding my new wife that you can find here https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk

Please feel free to join as it will show you all the steps I took in life to changing my life around by being kind, generous to others, remaining calm, staying positive and just moving forward in life. In the meantime I wish you all the very best of luck in your life too Scott.

Keeping Calm When The World Feels Like It’s Falling Apart published first on https://changeurlifeforever.blogspot.com/

[artworktragedy]

[NOTE:  While I am spiritual, let me make it clear: I am NOT a Christian, but I do know what their ‘savior’ teaches, and I do know only a FEW, such as Dr. Parker, actually practice what they preach…So for any women who are christian’s and hearing hurtful LIES; please look into his book, his interviews, writings and work….]

As these INSANE, cruel, deceitful lies are trying to be pushed back into law, sending us back in time- to a time of women dying unnecessarily because of lack of access to the legal medical procedure known as abortion I hope all women -especially thoseseeking or considering abortion, who have had an abortion, whatever the situation… I hope you will keep the following words in mind be it my video or the writing that follows. This is a very scary time for women, but abortion will always be there, and history proves the only thing banning it does is kill women who otherwise would have lived.

And they are using these anti-life freaks to try and make women feel less than they are. DO NOT BUY INTO IT! 

These woman hating, non-medical, non-scientific, non-moral proposed bills are like those who propose and support them: inhumane and psycho. We see this in “people” just like Trump and the current admin, and all those who support these death penalty, life in prison, heartbeat, personhood, and all other anti-LIFE (aka, anti-abortion and anti-woman legislature).

As all this is going on please remember, you are not a bad woman, abortion is NOT murder; BE PROUD that you are strong enough to do the right thing (if abortion is/was right for you… DO NOT be ashamed! You are being responsible. A child is a HUGE, life changing (or it should be) ordeal. And unless you want that, and can do that, and are prepared for all that you have to give up and all that the potential life will go through… I believe anything other than abortion is wrong. If a child is unwanted, it should not be, like me, brought into this world to be damaged, broken and abused, neglected, harmed and forgotten. ALL children deserve love and family. A mother.

Be proud that you care enough for yourself and for life and that you are strong enough to take responsibility instead of conforming to your “role” as an incubator. [note: of course if you want a child this doesn’t apply to you. so if you are one of the many moronic anti’s who stalk my pages, don’t bother trying to waste my time… You all say the same pathetic thing, and you all have made it clear you don’t and can’t follow what I just said and grasp the fact that abortion is a medical procedure; it is health care, and god how I wish we could remove their deceit and abuse for women deserve better- HUMANITY deserves better… But for health care and life, women especially deserve more than lies and deceit, hate, and harassment.

Pro Life ? That is to be Pro QUALITY of life, which is to be pro-choice which is to be, for REAL pro-choicers, like me, to be pro-ABORTION (meaning, if you want one, no need to explain; it’s totally normal and it’s yours)- Anti-abortionists are NOT pro-life��. As I explain briefly below the video. Oh, I don’t think I mention it but let us not forget, the violent attacks and murders these proLIFERS commit. …. You have a brain please use it… Don’t fall victim to this… sickness…

Women deserve better.



*Ignore my sloppy writing style lol, i was going to post this on facebook but decided to do it here as it turned into a rather long – and so true- post. so!

Yep! i post this randomly and semi often lol but as i keep anyone interested waiting for new video and blogs, etc, i wanna make sure this video especially (antis tried to get it banned on youtube; failed tho when i appealed it). i do not regret ANY of my abortions; i do use birth control, sadly, it doesnt always work. and even if i didnt- it is no ones choice or business but my own whether i bring an innocent being into the world. abortion is not murder; it stops the process of the development of a POTENTIAL (for no1 knows you won’t miscarry etc) life. 2 late term, 1 1st trimester; i believe in QUALITY of life – not controlling others, judging others, gossiping, abusing, deceiving, etc….

please remember, you are not a murderer, sinner, evil, slut, bad woman, less of awoman, etc… if you do what you know is right and if that is abortion, then rock on- you are a GOOD and strong woman. don’t let ppl who dont have to deal with things after those 9 months ruin you-and the potential innocent childs- future. do what YOU know is best. and you do know inside. abortion is but a medical procedure…anti’s do not care for life- if they did….

where are they with all the kids who are alive and need a home, love, help etc? … where are they when the cops abuse or kill children? or stray bullets in violent neighborhoods?…. they want to control women, and they could not care 2 fks about the well being of you or anyone but feeling ‘better than’ when in fact, they are LESS than.

anyone who has to resort to their tactics of lying, creating false clinics, pretending to be doctors, pretending to have scientific evidence, abusing women verbally, mentally and emotionally, trying to get women to give their developing embryo or fetus up for sale before it is even born with an emotional guilt trip…. creating fake images of alleged unborn “babies” which is a sick psycho JOKE!… not giving a damn who they hurt and not knowing one damn thing about medicine, or personal boundaries. not to mention, failing to give full information on all options including not informing fully the damage of adoption, the pros of abortion, the pros and cons of raising a child… or how about offering to help her as a new mother if she wants keeps it and not pushing for her 2 put it into the failing adoption world that brings in a billion annually in the US alone….. name calling… trying to use guilt and fear tactics…..

i could go on, and on.

but please think about it. anyone on any topic that has to resort to these things is not someone to listen to- you are not the cruel names they say, you are not doing any thing wrong or evil; you are not the first, and abortion is not new and it was not always shunned, even in america. but more on that another time. don’t let cruelty keep you from doing what is best for yourself and the future; whatever that may be. a child is a big deal; something these soulless people seem to not be able to comprehend.

As Anti-Abortion Deceit & Abuse Puts Women & Life At Risk, Please, ALL Women, Remember This FACT (Video) As these INSANE, cruel, deceitful lies are trying to be pushed back into law, sending us back in time- to a time of women dying unnecessarily because of lack of access to the legal medical procedure known as abortion I hope all women -especially thoseseeking or considering abortion, who have had an abortion, whatever the situation...