#youcantchangeme

[sjmore88]

More memories:

Dear friend,

I am writing to you about a disagreement I’ve had with a coworker at the factory in which I work at. She attacked my personality as well as questioned why I would want to be an educator.

She seemed cruel and didn’t seem like she wanted to hear my comments on the situation. After all she was attacking me, didn’t she think I would want to defend myself?

We were previously engaged in a heated disagreement about another issue we were having when all she could fall back on was the fact that I’m quiet and shy.

“You’re so quiet, you never say anything, it’s no wonder why you’re not a teacher.“

“I’m just introverted.”

“What does that got to do with anything.”

(in case you’ve never met or considered what an introverted person is please look at the cartoon below. Dr. Carmella’s cartoon.

“Everything, I only need to talk about the important and serious issues, I don’t need or want to talk about trivial matters. “

“How can you be a teacher then? If you never talk or say anything? “

At this point I wasn’t standing up for myself it’s obviously she didn’t know anything about me and wasn’t going to.

What are the time I was seriously hurt and tearful since I rarely get angry. I’m more likely to disengage from the conversations and retreat but throughout the entire conversation I stood my ground in quietly noted that she and I were never going to get along.

As for her last question, I get along with students quite well. I’ve had other teachers remark on how well I communicate with them. It’s not all about just talking at them. Sometimes it’s about listening to what they have to say and responding accordingly. Besides it’s easier having materials ready and providing detailed information on the SmartBoard or paper or book then it is to have a outright conversation with someone..

Fortunately I move to another state and I never have to see her again. So whenever she has the gall to ask my mom how I’m doing or we see her at Walmart, I tried to give a polite and curt answer and then turn my back and leave. Some people are worthy of my time and she isn’t one of them.

[waylynnpitts]

I'm not bitter but.... The word appreciate is very important... Grown ass men/women need to learn to APPRECIATE people and NOT take people's KINDNESS as a sign of weakness. When you USE people that is a sign of WEAKNESS in YOU and not them. #Waylove #WayloveTheLifeCoach #Usersneverwin #itstemporary #iwillneverstopbeingkind #iwillchoosebetterhumanstobekindto #iloveluv #iloveme #youcantchangeme #beconsiderateofothers #DOBETTER #makesuretheydeserveyou https://www.instagram.com/p/CSsLtyKlPgV/?utm_medium=tumblr

[1estherrose1]

I'll watch you as you walk away. I'll stand my ground. Photography: @erikbeachamphotography #gazing #goodbye #youcantchangeme #imfree

[thephoenixreigns]

[valehexagonian97]

✌🏻🎶 #dondiablo #YouCantChangeMe #music #electronicmusic #Future #hexagoniansforlife #hexagonians #hexagon

[mwbostonian-blog]

#YOUCANTCHANGEME

[bloodskyangel]

As a bisexual girl I know how hard it is to feel like there's no one who understands. I'm lucky to have support from family and friends but everyone I know is completely straight. It would be nice to talk to more people from the lgbt community. I only know one pansexual and I rarely see her. The support I receive is outstanding and I would never take it for granted. It means the world to me to have so many who loves me despite being told their whole life that people like me are evil or broken. And so I want to show my support. #lgbtplatypus #lgbt #bisexual #pansexual #gay #lesbian #transgender #godlovesgays #wewerebornthisway #youcantchangeme #idontneedtobesaved #youarestrong #dontgiveup

[darkredphotography]

I swear this is me! Sorry, not sorry! #bipolar #adhd #teamsingle #baeless #blocked #unblocked #buttheylovemyazz #butwhycraig #ilovemylife #youcantchangeme #stoptrying #temperance #howimaeat #huh

[wubwubnparmaham]

Also here, suck my dick anon.

[allilove15]

“If someone is spending all your time telling you to change, its obvious who really needs to change" #lovethis #youcantchangeme #iamwhoiam #lovemeorhatme

[rain-avenues]

Happy Birthday best friend, love you. I know you want a long essay from me but I prefer something short and simple. Muahaha #YouCantChangeMe #vsco #vscocam

[booteri]

Don't let people bring you down. #rumors #why #youcantchangeme #life #stayposittive #strong #noshade #doyou #inspiresomeone

[my-never-ever-after]

i don't know what you want me to do . if you don't like the way i act then you definitely don't love me . #confused #blackandwhite #bw #bouttocry #cantcontroleverything #youcanonlycontrolyourself #youcantchangeme #iamwhoiam

[havelovedyoulikeafool]

I never said you had to like it. And I really don't care if you like it or not. #iamme #youcantchangeme #thisiswhoiam #dealwithit #asamoodakongmagpostngayon #bereadytobeflooded #lol #pinquotes #instasize #igaddict (at Blair's Wonderland)

[drak-ken]

lol his hair. #tattoo #harrystyles #edsheeran #youcantchangeme #idk #something #curls #hair #onedirection #1d #follow (Taken with Instagram)

[trailsofhope-blog]

Yep, ask limit. Come to my ask? x