#you're welcome to reblog this if it's something you relate to haha

[dont-leafmealone]

Jetko fic rec list

Feel free to add your own recs, and if you do read any of these and like them, comment something nice on it! If I find anyone hassling authors for updates I will drop ferrets down your chimney!

Modern AU

the things we leave behind - Mai and Ty Lee start a ghost hunting channel; their roommate, Zuko, cannot stand their new cameraman, Jet. Meanwhile, Zuko's sister just moved into their shared house, and forms a reluctant bond with Zuko's friend, Katara. Multiship, rated M, 200k, complete, HIGHLY recommend (also check out the rest of the author's works! She's amazing!)

never believed in meant to be - Zuko gets in-school suspension and meets Jet, who's cool enough they spend the day together. It's their first and last meeting. Rated T, 5k, complete. (Check out the rest of this author's stuff too!)

you're built to fall (beautiful) - in between the struggles of figuring out life as sixteen-year-old caretaker of kids, Jet finds himself falling in love with a handsome merman. rated T, 8k, complete. Amazingly written <3

paint it red, they'll cover it up anyway - Jet and Zuko are both kindergarten teachers, and both dealing with a lot of complications in their life. and in love. Rated T, 34k, in-progress

Ba Sing Se

up in the city (until the stars lost the war) - canon divergent AU where Jet doesn't see Iroh heat the tea, and Zuko's a little more receptive to city life. Absolutely gorgeous series. Rated T, 50k, in-progress

(Dont) Lose yourself into me - another canon divergent AU! Featuring rebel shenanigans, betrayal and angst all laid out beautifully. Check out the author's other works too, there's some really good ones! Rated T, 80k, in-progress

clay kids - after a misunderstanding about Zuko's - or rather, Lee's - parentage, he and Jet form a relationship built on lies of omission. Rated T, 35k, in-progress

a lesson in new beginnings - the author's summary probably says it best: 'zuko has bad coping skills, jet has a hella crush, and war is hell. welcome to ba sing se.' Very sweet with plenty of angst, drama, and misunderstanding. Rated T, 6k, in-progress

Post-canon

Like The Fire In Your Heart - Zuko's carriage is ambushed by thieves, and he finds that his old friend Jet isn't as dead as certain playwrights would have him believe. Rated M, 9k, in-progress

Miscellaneous

learning how to use a weapon (& other such tragedies) - flood-based apocalypse au! Beautifully written, possibly one of the first jetko fics I read when I was first starting to like Jet as a character. Rated G, 11k, complete

heat and sand - by the same author as above, au where a race of winged beings live among humans, and wouldn't you know it, they're not exactly welcomed by the likes of Ozai. Zuko finds himself taken in by Jet and his freedom fighters. Rated G, 16k, two completed fics. Honestly check out the rest of the author's catalogue it's all A+

Hearthfire- Jet is taken prisoner by the Fire Nation after his village burns. Rather than be put to work or executed, he becomes the young Prince Zuko's ward and they form an unlikely relationship. rated T, in-progress, 41k, covers canon books 1-3.

Perpetual - Jet, not quite mid-redemption arc, kills a firebender. Zuko can't actually die. Jet decides to make this his own problem. Rated M, 180k, in-progress <3

Sthe song in the secret room - haha second lesbeanlatte work on here 😈 a modern/time travel au based off of the Disney channel show Secrets of Sulphur Springs, if it were PG-13 and involved gator-related manslaughter. Hilarious and heart-wrenching 💚 Rated M, 280k, complete

Some further additions found in this reblog

This list will probably get updated if I remember any more or read anything new. And not to shamelessly self-promote but I have a variety of jetko works of my own, linked here if you're interested at all. :)

[l0v3lett3rs4u]

Ee- sorry for buggin tryna get used to tumby and meet new ppl! Hi I'm ivory! Tryna get used to people here haha- My fwb recommended me this app.. any tips please?

Yes, yes of course!! Don't hesitate to pop into my asks, I appreciate questions!!

Blog tips:

Have a welcome/intro post pinned to your blog! Your bio is good for explaining things in small details and giving a small run over, but your intro will go more in depth about yourself, your blog, and anything you might want to cover! (Ex: pronouns, gender, sexuality, fandoms, hobbies, links to your websites/accounts, etc etc!) There are plenty of things you can do with your profile, like using a website for cool symbols (type: kawaii emoticons into a search engine!), adding pretty gifs to your posts, coloring the text, and some blogs make banners to use in your own posts!

This is a 'me' thing, but I like to have the colors of my profile picture, banner, and blog (background and accent) to match, it pulls the aesthetic you're going for together, whether that be chaotic neons or easy in the eyes pastels. (Or anything, really!)

Random posts about your day, rambles, or even just small tidbits about your interests are also fun to look at, and read! I find myself drawn to blogs who share 'what ifs', or head canons about their fandoms. (I'm a sucker for head canons and AU's!)

Find what you're wanting to post. Do you want to post art? Writing? Random thoughts at three in the morning? You most definitely don't have to stick to one thing or medium, experiment a little with what you want to do! Adding tags to your posts will get it more traction than without, don't be nervous to add some fun tags!

Interacting tips:

I tend to leave likes rather than comments, unless I have any questions or just want to point something out! Other than that, I'll reblog things I relate to, and sometimes add my own comments onto them as final thoughts or just agreeing with the original poster!

Mutuals!! While not being a necessity, I find having people to interact with and talk to daily fun! People--i will admit--are scary. But go express yourself, comment, reblog, you might find yourself a group of people you click with! Remember: we are all just people online disregarding the 'stranger danger' rule.

Checking out someone's profile before you follow them is how you should usually go about things, they might have an intro post of their own that states boundaries. There might be certain things they don't want others to do, or don't want certain people to interact.

I think that this is it? Maybe I went a little overboard lmao, if you have any other questions about the tips above, comment on this, send in another ask, or my DMs are open! Welcome to Tumblr!

[thoodleoo]

hey I just wanted to ask you something, I had a post come across my dash of yours from October about grieving as an adult (specifically it mentioned a dentist appointment if you don’t remember it lol) and I just wanted to ask if it was ok to reblog. I know it *has* been reblogged a lot and I didn’t see it marked otherwise/reblogs turned off otherwise but. I did find it very relatable and I’m kind of in my own personal grief feelings right now and I didn’t want to rub salt in someone else’s haha. Anyway hope you’re doing well and have a good day,

you're welcome to reblog it if it resonates with you. i would have turned reblogs off if i didn't want people passing it around.

the nice thing about grief is that we are not alone in it; in many ways my dear stazzi's memory is preserved in that post, so i don't mind it getting shared.

[ohshy]

Proper introduction

hello and welcome !! my name is Ohshy, but you may call me Ilias or Percy. Any pronouns, 20 something years old. this is my art blog slash internet scrapbook. I like a lot of different things, including art, drawing, character design, movies, cartoons, video games, furry stuff, and generally weird things that make me feel deeply.

My biggest special interest is the ocean and it's critters, hence my username (haha geddit). You'll often see me reblogging stuff related to it.

I'm also a selfshipper, current F/O is King Hippo :3

Some things to keep in mind:

I will occasionally reblog the suggestive joke or adult topic, but never straight up NSFW. This is why id rather I only be followed by people who are at least 16+ years of age. People who break this rule will be blocked.

That said, please don't try and befriend me if you're a minor. I'm ok with being casual mutuals, but nothing more than that.

I don't have a DNI but i block freely, esp terfs, kid/adult plus inc/e/st shippers and people who participate in exclusionist/identity discourse. Zionism won't be tolerated either.

Art tag is #monkey brain draws. For those that want an art only experience, my art blog is @ohshy-art.

Feel free to hmu in tumblr DMs and/or ask me for my discord, im always open to meeting new people !!

That is all, let's be friends :]

[mandokero-eboy]

Should probably make an intro post huh?

Hello there. I'm Dan. I am 23 years old. My house is in Venezuela. My home is in Toronto, and I am ideologically opposed to the institution of marriage. I do software stuff for a living but my passion is game design, and it feels very weird to say "design is my passion" in light of memes but I'm committing to it. I am now deviating from the Yoshikage Kira monologue to let you know I'm a queer anarchist, a kinky hedonist and AuDHD. When I have the pleasure of being away from Venezuela I enjoy going to social and kinky events and I have a lot of favorite spots in Toronto, but that's a bit difficult here because nothing ever happens.

The main purpose of this blog is mostly to talk about my hyperfixations, my kinks, and probably game design stuff but mostly probably where it intersects with the above. DMs and asks are welcome.

Describing one's queerness with labels is cool and all but I'm going to do use TV Tropes on top

Extreme Omnisexual: Label of convenience is bisexual, I have a preference that varies depending on mood but I will flirt and engage in Casual Kink with a really broad range of anything which falls under the Harkness Test.

Marry Them All: I'm polyamorous, this is my preferred solution to any love triangle real or fictional. The expectation of monogamy makes me actively uncomfortable and I think monogamous people are really insecure.

Ambiguous Gender: Gender is weird, use whatever pronouns you want I'm not your boss.

What is this thing you call "Love"?: I am not straightforwardly aromantic but I have some trouble relating to traditional ideas about romance. I've heard this be labelled as Nebuloromantic or Idemromantic (yes the trope choice is problematic when applied to real people bear with me)

I occasionally post about politics. I am sex positive, queer positive, and an anarchist and these are my main political priorities. But that's not the main purpose of this blog so I won't elaborate unless I'm actually posting about that. I might get into a slapfight if something makes me mad on my dashboard and for that I am sorry.

Kinks + Tags under the cut

The Kinky Part:

I'm a switch. Broadly I'm interested in hypnosis, tease and denial, dollification, exhibitionism and honestly most things. One of the things I'm most fixated on at the moment is the intersection of games and kink, particularly analogue games but I think sex video games are underdeveloped as well. Casual sex is good but ranked competitive sex is better.

You can use most titles for me if you're so inclined except goddess and if you're interested in domming me let's say i have pretty high standards. Minors obviously DNI, don't try to play with me if you're under 20+ (but you can still hang out) and if you're above 35 you better be extremely hot and have money or so help me. Otherwise go ham

Limits: sissy, bathroom things.

Will straight up block you: raceplay

My cool + epic tags:

#eboy shitpost: for when i make funni hahas #eboy hornyposting: self explanatory really #eboy slapfight: when i'm fighting people. feel free to mute this. #eboy politic: when talking politics #eboy sadposting: for sadposting #eboy ramble: otherwise generic textposts in long form #eboy gamedev: if i ever design to post about my regular game projects i'll do it here #eboy audio: TBA :3 #eboy script: TBA :3 #eboy writing: If I write fiction or anything like that I'll put it here. #kinky games: will use it to reblog hornyposts from other people about making sexual games. #kinky game dev: for when i make kinky games myself #hypnosis ideas: this is my main kink so i'll reblog things to do to my subs sometimes #hypnosis games: for when the kinky games and the hypnosis intersect, my favorite kind #hypnok1nk: for more general hypnoposting #my butt: if i ever feel like posting selfies #meme: if i make a meme image myself, not a repost #hyperfixation: for writing about whatever i'm currently watching #Invisible Pants: This one is for posting specifically about my current DnD game with friends and my character in that campaign, Invisible Pants the Tabaxi Rogue

More generic tags

#art reblog #ttrpg #anime #gaming #neurospicy #gamedev

Gotta tag these retroactively.

[chucapybara]

—the night beckons its sweet dulcet tones.

midnight lilies in bloom,

a little capybara gazing at the moon.

[ A STORY . . . ]

hello there, and welcome to this messy all-over-the-place blog! i'm noah, and i write sometimes. i'm presently an english arts major with a penchant for a bit of gaming, a bit of sketching, reading too, and i am very much indeed a lesbian. 👋

i reblog more often than i make something, but i'm slowly working on bringing things together and putting my words to good use. if you've found yourself here to this evening garden, welcome! i'm honoured to have you!

here's my MASTERLIST for my writings, mostly consumed by hyv (genshin) and oc stuff! below are also some other related links:

[ ART TAG ] — mostly oc artworks

[ ASKS ] — the moon's responses

i'm open to asks and queries alike (be it about me, my faves, hyv games stuff or my thoughts on things etc.) but i don't take requests, unfortunately. i'm not at a point to do that yet, haha.

likewise, there exists mature content on this blog, so please dni if you're a minor, for your own safety, of course. such content will be tagged nsft.

and just a little getting to know utc!

[ TALES . . . ]

a little getting to know here;

favourite books, hands down, come from the Roots of Chaos series by Samantha Shannon! i've always been fond of fantasy and RoC's queernorm setting is just so wonderful and lovely. absolutely amazing novels (but quite meaty at a chonky 800 pages!). Tunuva Melim is very dear to my heart. <3

i have two cats named Solace and Luna :] a siamese and a russian blue respectively! when we got solace as a kitten i was absolutely enamoured with her blue eyes, and i thought easily of the sky; luna's a skittish little rat, but a sweet little lady.

my favourite hyv ladies: eula, shenhe, ei and arlecchino (genshin impact); yukong, jingliu, acheron, feixiao (honkai: star rail)

fave song vibecheck: Hymn For Her by Ames :] (yes i discovered it watching warrior nun!)

alright, i'm running out of stuff to say ahsdlkah thank you for making it this far if you have!

one of my most impactful games to have played is Spiritfarer! it's very dear to my heart and absolutely ruined me while we're at it. (oh, and i cry very easily... ;;")

CURRENTLY PLAYING: monster hunter freedom unite & animal crossing new leaf <3

until then, have a wonderful day! 🌙✨️

[thermelalters]

🌀📖⋆ 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐦𝐞𝐥 𝐅𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐈𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐨 ⋆🏩🧃

Welcome to our blog random people on the internet and thank you for reading the intro post, here you will find the important information about what this blog's about

This blog is runned by 4 alters who share source and are a family, yes we're introjects! Octives to be more exact

We were thinking about doing our own blogs, but after some discussion we ended up deciding to do a shared blog, the four of us are gonna use it as a personal blog living our sign-off or name at the end of each post and in the tags for order reasons

Please read the rest of the intro before interacting

Don't expect a specific and static topic regarding our posts, is gonna be what we feel like posting or reblogging, very chaotic for a chaotic family haha!

Some posts are gonna be in spanish, we're bilingual and can speak both english and spanish, sometimes we'll feel to make a spanish post more than a english one... Yeah, expect both languages

Also, if you want to know what a specific post in spanish means you can comment and the one who made it is gonna translate it for you in comments

As we said, we're fictives and have vivid memories of our source, mostly...- So we might talk about our sources here too! We expect people to not understand it or know about them because our sources are a very private story, but you're free to ask about our source without a problem

Although only one of us is chatty you can ask us things, send us messages/submissions and we're gladly gonna answer them, feel free to interact and make it like a little cool space with friends!

For order reasons we're gonna use special tags to divide our posts and have more order, for us and for anyone who is seeing our blog, we're gonna be updating the "Tags masterlist" (You'll find it in another post we're gonna do) everytime we add a new tag, so please be sure to check it

Though we're four one of us might not be that active, they have the front kinda forbidden for they own protection, so it's mostly three alters here, but we didn't want to exclude them so if they front this blog's also for them!!!

This blog would contain some NSFW topics and mentions, this isn't a NSFW blog, but is going to contain some posts like that, ofc we're gonna put the appropriate tags so I recommend filtering tags like #TW NSFW and #CW NSFW mention to be safe and don't see that kind of content, we wouldn't safe this is a unsafe blog, but neither a safe one, be cautious when interacting and seeing it

Idk what else to say for this part... If we need to add something else we're gonna edit and say it

About the owners!

Calbriet, any pronoun you can image but have a he/him preference (use others besides he/him PLEASE I BEG YOU), sign off:💅🏩

Linomiz, She/Ellh/Hg with preference to Hg pronoun (except when I'm talking in spanish, in that case would be ellh), sign off: 🌀🛡

Charlie, He/Him, sign off: 🐟📖

Igley, They/Them, sign off: 🧃🍨

Linomiz has a container subsystem, but because is rare for them to switch we're not gonna add they're subsys alters here. If they present themselves we're gonna add them in a separate list below here!

Boundaries are very simple, we're open to a lot of talks and interaction

But please try to not bring syscourse here, we don't like entering in syscourse topics... Ofc we're gonna talk about it in some cases, but we don't want syscourse here

Be sure that if you're going to do jokes and comments that are NSFW or dark are done to the correct alter, some of us don't like that kind of comments, be sure to check the personal

Hate comments/asks or things related probably gonna be post with one of us making fun of it, don't do it or cope with it

DNI:

Endos & pro endos (Sorry not sorry, we just don't feel comfortable around them)

Radical anti endos (Yeah, we also don't want some anti endos here, they might get so fucking mean /neg)

Fetichize and sexualize introjects

Force source separation or think that don't source separating/detaching is anti-recovery

Anti therian/otherkin

TransID of any kind, sorry not sorry lol

Radqueers and TERFS, both of you

Basic DNI

Might do a better DNI later, idk

Userboxes

This ones are temporal, our host is making better and more personalized userboxes for the blog, just imagine they say "This group of alters" instead of user/alter/system till we finish the final userboxes, ok?

[risingsidesakira]

Greetings wonderful Citizens, and you nerds!

My name is Rose, mainly they/them pronouns but I enjoy the occasional 'he' figuratively thrown in there as well :P I've been following Sanders Sides for ~5 years at the time of writing this (that's my best estimate at least) and it's meant a lot to me, but beyond a couple of reblogs on my main here and there and comments under AO3 fics, I've never really participated in the fandom much and don't really know anyone who's actively into the series. I'm hoping to remedy all of that with this little side blog!

Now, a couple Side-related things about me...

Current Favorite Side?

Logan for sure- Though, Roman might have recently become an additional favorite as well. Those two have SO many issues I love them so much...

and if you're wondering if that "them" right here refers to the Sides or their Issues™, you'll find that the answer is simply "yes" :P

Initial favorite side?

Early on it was Virgil, I believe! Followed by the microsoft nerd in second place, then on equal footing. I don't actually remember at what point that stuff changed and Logan became my fave🤔

What about the other sides?

Well, first of all how I feel about Janus changes every other day, lol.

Patton has been getting a lot more interesting! I used to not be a big fan because I'm not really one for the extremely bubbly characters - much like I used to not like Roman as much as the others, actually. But nowadays Patton himself is having some Issues™ and that is something I very much enjoy hehe

Virge used to be my favorite, but for some reason my brain doesn't latch onto him as much as it used to. Still love him! But, he's a bit more in the background when I think about the Sides nowadays.

Remus is a trash goblin. He can be really funny sometimes and I love some of his mannerisms, but alas I'm not the biggest fan beyond that- Well, not the biggest fan of him, but I'm still very glad that he's a part of the series. DWIT and WTIT are two of my favorite episodes, actually.

And as for the orange side... at the time of writing this, we don't know anything about orange other than his appearance in WTIT and a couple of theories. Personally, I really really want Logan himself to be orange. I think that would lead to a lot of interesting growth for him as a character and would really shake up the entire cast - along with bringing some more context to his general tendency towards being a little hot-headed on occasion.

Favorite ship?

I don't really do a lot of shipping. If I had to choose one it would be Logince - Logan and Roman both have SO MANY ISSUES that they're just burying or hiding and they just. They fit so well together, whether platonically or otherwise.

Any AUs?

As of writing this, I've not really delved much into the realm of AUs. At least not ones that aren't canon-adjacent.

But I am working on one within my brain-cage! It's likely gonna stay there, beyond some art if I feel like it, unless someone ends up messaging me about it. It also doesn't really have a name set in stone just yet, so as of right now I just refer to it as the Lost Sides AU. It moves the timeline around a bit, particularly on how early Creativity split, considers the sides to maybe be not entirely imaginary (magic stuff. still trying to work that part out properly), and gives Logan a hell of a lot more trauma, haha. I'm working on spotify playlists for the guys from this AU right now, too :V

Favourite types of fics to read?

ideally? hurt/comfort, platonic logince-centric, somewhat canon-adjacent universe, no nsfw, if orange is in it he's not a separate side but rather just another part of Logan

But I also just generally tend to enjoy Logan and/or Roman-centric canon-adjacent sfw hurt/comfort stuff. I'm a sucker for angst but prefer when it has a good ending eventually :v

Okay, that's all i can think of right now! Welcome to my blog lol

[moved-to-void-kissed]

One of these days, I might finalise my self-inserts’ designs

However, that day is most certainly not today

[love-amihan]

✧ masterlists ✧

BRAIDING TOKYO REVENGERS BOYS' HAIR

warning: unedited so grammar errors can be for sure seen :p

amihan's note: saw a tiktok and suddenly had the urge to braid pretty boys' hair :') up to you if you view this as platonic or romatic, for me it's more of a platonic relationship ^-^ happy reading!

mentioned charas: [pre-timeskip] sanzu haruchiyo, haitani ran, ryuguji ken, hanemiya kazutora

**kazutora is definitely longer than the others haha also sorry had to pull out takuya bcs of writer's block T-T

-sanzu haruchiyo

toman!sanzu is generally a calm and composed person. it is rare to catch him off-guard but as soon as your fingertips comes in contact with his scalp, he can't help but feel his eyes get droopy immediately relaxes under your touch. "done!" you announce in pure triumph, proud of the beautiful double dutch braid you've done to his beautiful bleach blond locks.

"huh?" his voice hoarse and raspy after falling asleep the entire time you've been weaving his hair. "you look pretty, love" you compliment him while showcasing the two braids in front of his shoulder, "hmm, i wanna sleep more," haruchiyo mumbles, chasing your touch that left his hair. "you're that tired?" you chuckle while cradling his face closer to your chest, his arms loosely wrapped around your waist. all you get is a drowsy hum from him as he snuggles closer to you.

-haitani ran

tenjiku!ran is not particularly new to other people braiding his hair. well, the only ones who have the permission to touch them is limited to you and his brother only. ran have his back turned to you while he's going over with what seems to be a gang-related matter with rindou, though one thing is off, he's oddly wearing his hair down today. without thinking of the consequence, you approach him without any precaution which resulted to you pointed with his baton in a swift motion.

"oh it's you, babu" ran's stance loosens and retracts his baton. ran later added, "don't sneak up on me like that," he grumbles and turns back to his brother, "can i braid your hair?" you ask him before he can resume with whatever they're talking about. the older looks back at you, you smile back at him with your hands clasped together. after contemplating with his choices, he nods at you, "fine but braid it like usual, no other ones like that one time" he says with a sigh of defeat. rindou snickers at his brother and mumbles under his breath, "pushover."

-ryuguji ken

similar to ran's situation, toman!ken is not new to braids. it's basically his signature along with the dragon tattoo he have on the side of his shaved head. although, compared to all of the scenario, ken himself asks you to braid his hair for him. "please?" he looks at you with a small elastic hair tie in one hand, the other holding a small comb. "sure, sit here," you make a space for him in between your legs. deciding against on having the usual banter with him after seeing the faint dark circles under his eyes.

obliging your instructions, ken settled in between your legs, arms instinctively resting on top of your knees. chills runs down his spine when the pad of your finger grazes his scalp while untangling his hair, "you stayed up late?" you try to hold a conversation while prepping his hair. instead of an answer, you feel his head leaning back on you with his eyes closed. you chuckle at him and stop your ministration, "i can't braid your hair if you're gonna lean back ken," he merely hums, not processing any of your words, hand reaching out to return where your hand was before.

-hanemiya kazutora

valhalla!kazutora is someone you would like to keep a distance from. though unlike others, you are weirdly gravitated towards him just like how keisuke stood by his side the entire time. kazutora feels your intense gaze causing him to shift from one foot to the other, "something wrong?" his voice strangely quiet and small today.

"don't you get annoyed with your bangs basically hindering one of your eyesight?" you genuinely ask the boy. he is taken aback by your question and how you hold significance to it as if it's a crucial situation. he breaks eye contact and chuckles, brings a hand up to toy with his bangs, "well, it does get annoying once in a while."

kazutora looks back at you with a genuine fond smile, a rare sight that is preserved for his loved ones only. "you have any solution in mind?" your eyes lit up at his question and instantly give him an answer, "can i braid your hair?" at the very least, he did not expect that answer from you nevertheless he shrugs it off, curious on how he would look like with his hair up. after the agreement and you struggling on his unexpected unruly hair, "there we go," you cheered and mentally give yourself a pat on the back.

kazutora enthusiastically takes the hand mirror from you inspecting the great waterfall braid you did to him which is complimented with his blond locks. he looks back at you with wide eyes, "i love it!" after exclaiming his excitement, he looks back at the mirror craning his neck side to side, occasionally rocking his head to see the braid rocks with his movements.

better ready yourself because kazutora would go to you after liking the first time you braided his hair. the valhalla gang will never get used to seeing one of their strongest in different pretty hairstyles every other day.

copyright © 2021 by love-amihan all rights reserved. do not repost in other platforms. reblogs are welcome and highly appreciated! <33

taglist; @miya-sun @sukunas-left-nut-sack

[ltleflrt]

Just food for thought - didn’t want to reblog your post with this because I didn’t want to derail your lived experience as a bi person on your personal post, or the experiences of others who relate to that post - but as a bi woman in a long term relationship with a man, I will never ever say my relationship with him is “straight” because I am not straight. And it deeply aggravates me when other people outside my relationship call it “straight”, because it’s not - even if they see it that way, I don’t, and how I define my relationship is more important and more true than how other people do. Sure, I get that bi people are often multiple things at once and have a hard time picking between things, I experience that too, but I don’t call myself straight when I love a man and gay when I love a woman; I’m just bi, that’s just one thing. And these waters get further muddied when you consider nb bisexuals - there is no “opposite” sex for them because they are not a part of the gender binary, so then you would HAVE to call any relationship they have (including with cis/straight people) “queer”. But an nb person is not more queer or not more frequently queer than I am just because they approach all their relationships from the perspective of being nb - you can’t quantify queerness, it’s a state of being, not something you measure. You are more than welcome to call your relationships with the opposite sex “straight” and your relationships not with the opposite sex “queer” if that’s something you like doing or identify with, but many many bi people I know (including myself) will not do that, because our existence in a relationship inherently makes it queer, because we are queer.

Funnily enough, the person who irked me into making my post about multiple definitions being true at the same time was someone who stated their relationship as "opposite sex" rather than "straight" because they were a nb bi person in a relationship with a nb bi person. And they were arguing with a bi person in a relationship with another bi person who defined their relationship as straight. And I thought to myself... if you're both nb, then it's not really "opposite sex" is it? But they also stated that because of the nature of being nb, and that they sometimes present as specific genders because they have to, because That's How Society Is, that they are often perceived as "opposite sex". So I can see how they'd prefer to label their relationship as "opposite sex" rather than "straight" or "queer", and I support them in that. So they don't HAVE to call their relationship queer either, and unlike what you have done in your statement, I would never go up to nb people who apear binary to the outside world and tell them they can't use "opposite sex" because they're nb. That's just rude, and dismissive of their lived experiences, which I have no insider knowledge of.

Which circles back MY point; that we get into these arguments about semantics while still making errors in semantics. If a bi person in a m/f relationship wants to call it a straight relationship, I support them. If a bi person in a m/f relationship wants to call it an opposite sex (or any other iteration of queer) relationship, I support them. If one or both of the partners is non-binary, and they want to use any combination of straight/gay/queer/unlabeled because fuck society norms, I support them.

What I don't support is bi people lecturing other bi people about the language they choose to use. Because after reading through multiple arguments about this, what I have seen is that both parties are right and wrong at the same time. And I think it's especially funny (in both the ironic and the haha ways, because that's the theme of this argument) when people who identify multiple ways want to police other people who identify multiple ways in how they want to identify themselves or their relationship status.

So how about this. If I define myself one way, that you don't agree with because you don't define yourself that way, and vice versa, we step back and go "that's not my lived experience, English is a fucking nightmare anyway, and I'm going to mind my own business", and move on with our lives, rather than continuing to get into these arguments about semantics.

If it's not an outright attack or hate speech, let it go.

Signed - a queer, bisexual, autochorissexual, lithromantic, gnc woman, in a m/f relationship that I like to alternate between calling queer and calling straight depending on my mood and the phase of the moon, with a partner who always prefers to define it as straight.

[addoration]

hey! i feel like writing some cute letters! if you reblog this post, i'll write you a letter! i'll include some stickers, notepapers, washi tape samples, and maybe some of my own artwork (which i very rarely post online!)

things to know:

first 5 reblogs will get a personalised letter from me! unfortunately im gonna say that my current penpals are exempt from this (we already send each other letters haha!)

please be following me if you reblog this post! reblogs to spread the word are also accepted.

you must be comfortable sharing your address with me! send me a dm with it formatted the way it should be on the envelope. i can guarantee that i wont share it with anyone. i keep all my penpals' addresses locked in my writing box, so not even my family will be able to access it.

if you like, tell me a bit about yourself/what you'd like to see in the letter! your favourite colours etc. i'll try my best to include things related to what you tell me! and i'll write about your interests, if i share them myself!

if you like the letter once you recieve it, you're very welcome to write back to me and we can become penpals (i put my address for returns/undelivered post on the back of the envelope)! however, there will be no pressure to reply to me after this letter - if you just want to expect something nice in the post then thats ok!

i will pay for postage, no charges for you! it's my pleasure to send letters. all i ask is that you send me a message to say that it's been delivered when you get it, just so i know it arrived safely.

oh and international (non-uk) followers are 150% allowed to reblog! i encourage it even!

okay.... go!

[hush-writes-preg]

Would you happen to have any advice for someone who wants to get into writing erotica on tumblr?

Hello there! It's always a pleasure to meet a fellow writer here.

Well, that's a pretty broad question, so I'll have to give you a pretty broad answer, otherwise I'll be here all night, haha. Here are a few of the main things I like to mention.

First, I'd say find a niche and stick with it. If you want to write for several niches, it's probably worth thinking about separating them to different blogs, since just because there's some crossover doesn't mean that everyone will like all of the same things. That's why, while I enjoy writing about a variety of topics, I try to keep this particular blog focused on pregnancy.

Second, Tumblr is a social media platform, so you'll want to interact with your audience so that people can see that you're more than just a robot who hammers out porn. Keep your ask box open, interact with the posts of others in a non-creepy way, and reblog related content that makes your audience want to stick around.

Third, you want to be posting consistently. The queue is your friend, sure, but you also want to make sure to share original content on a regular basis. If your blog is dead, why would anyone want to follow it?

Fourth, you NEED to get a grasp of the tagging system and the popular tags in your niche. Otherwise, you'll just be spewing your words out into the void, and people aren't likely to find you.

Fifth, you should be able to self-edit and format your posts. If you want to write, you should already have a decent grasp of grammar, spelling, and how to separate paragraphs. The last is especially important if you're copy/pasting from a word processor, because sometimes paragraph breaks don't paste correctly on Tumblr. Open up your blog in Dashboard View (https://www.tumblr.com/blog/view/YourUsernameHere) and see how it looks. I personally skip right over big "wall o' text" stories because they're just... not readable.

And one last thing-- It's worth mentioning that getting your blog marked as explicit (and ending up with the little censored profile pic like you see on some blogs) because you're posting/reblogging nudes and the like is not something you want to happen as a writer. Posting adult content is one thing, but getting flagged like that will make it very difficult for people to see your content. So avoid it if you can.

I think that's it for now. If you have specific questions, you're always welcome to ask!

[blorbocedes]

i used to see your posts all the time bc the people i follow reblogged them a lot yet i was always hesitant to follow you directly just bc my petty ass couldn't stand anything that was related to merc and, well... everytime i would read your username i'd just pause and then move on lol.

still since every single post of yours that appeared on my dashboard was an absolute banger that i agreed with i decided to get over my prejudicial (and idiotic?) mindset and finally followed you like, a month ago or something??

and blorbie, let me tell you that it was literally the Best™ decision ever lmao. it only took a few weeks but you've become my favourite blog already haha 😭 AND your unhinged anons (i feel like they're also a part of this whole thing, u know) are my faves too♡ lovely and nasty girlies♡♡

anyway keep doing what you do, you're my precious

ASSIGNED MERC FAN NOOOOO 💀 imagine tho... but I understand I'm naturally wary if someone has Lewis in their @ and go through their acc with a fine comb before following

i chose the name cause I thought I was being very clever, get it? it sounds like brocedes but they're my blorbos??? but then I found out about britcedes, sebcedes, hoecedes, cuckcedes... and i am just one in a line of many 🫣🫣🫣 but I am also a little trickster and I enjoy misdirecting people so imagine you think this is a merc blog and be hit with a barrage of max loving 🤭😁 ultimately miss gardenia did way too much work archiving my blog for me to change my name and break their links. miss blorbocedes is here to stay 🥰

hehe im glad you're having a good time here!!! a LOT of credit goes to my anons absolutely!!! they set the tone and start new aus and I'm just riding along the wave, and I'm happy to welcome you in their ranks 🥺🥹

[tranquilstudy]

Hey everyone! So I've seen a lot of these floating around and I've always wanted to make one but just never had the creative incentive to do so... until now! I think these are pretty cool in how they allow people to get to know each other and bond on the studyblr community and as a community of welcoming and acceptance. Not all of the challenges on here are study-related but I think they make pretty decent conversation starters for people to get to know you and your studies better! Because this may be a time for people to take a break from school as well, I think the questions are fairly fitting. But, it's my first time doing this so who knows, haha.

Basic Information

The challenge will run from kind of a weird time: May 2nd, 2021 to May 27th, 2021. However, you can start or stop at any time! Feel free to participate in this whenever you feel like it. Everyone is welcome!

There are 25 26 prompts / challenges, and they range from strictly academia to just fun prompts to spruce up your posts. It's honestly more about getting to know yourself and where you direct your energy. There's questions for productive days and questions for days when you just wanna crawl into a ball and fall asleep forever. The most important part is having fun and connecting with others here, that's why I decided to make this. They're meant to be answered once a day, but know that you can answer however your posting schedule fits you! I know for me I don't typically post everyday so I'll probably be answering these in a bit of a wonky fashion. Feel free to join me or answer them on the dime!

If you decide that you wanna participate, whether at the designated time or not, feel free to use the tag #tranquilstuddybuddies ! I'll be following it and I'm excited to see what you guys come up with. Also, please reblog this post so that I know you're at least thinking of doing it! Even if you don't end up doing it. I'll create a taglist below as I see more people becoming interested and reblogging this post so we can all stay connected!

Questions

Daily Question: So, I've been doing a lot of yoga lately.

...I swear this will all make sense.

And I've been doing a lot of Yoga with Adrienne on YouTube, and in her practices she always tells her followers to set intentions for themselves, which I thought was really cool. So, I'm gonna borrow her idea here!

For every day of the challenge, you can answer one or two of the following:

1. Fill in the blank: Today, I choose _______. (Kind of like an affirmation for your day.

2. Fill in the blank: Today, my goals are __________. (Like a to-do list! what are your plans for the day? What do you want to accomplish?)

These are meant to be done along with the prompt for each given day. So , for Day One you would answer the daily question(s) as well as the prompt for Day One, and so on. They don't have to be answered but it might be a nice way to set yourself up for success, both in an academic and a mental mindset.

...

Prompt questions:

Day One: Tell us a little bit about yourself! What classes are you currently taking, if any? If not, what are you currently studying or what is your current long term productive projects or goals?

Day Two: Choose one: "True love flows like water, coming and going, surging and receding, and must be followed accordingly." or "True love is choosing someone or something, over and over, no matter what." Explain your choice if you'd like! Kind of a philosophical way to get the brain churning.

Day Three: Share some pictures from your favourite vacation or travels. What's your favourite part of this place? (Or, if thinking of travelling makes you sad because of covid restrictions, take a picture of your study area and tell me what you love most about it!)

Day Four: What are you doing to take care of yourself today? Show us a picture of your favourite face mask, tea / coffee / hot beverage or your comfort activity.

Day Five: What is your favourite band? Share some of your favourite songs from them! (Bonus points if you also share your study playlist with us, or what you like to listen to to get in "the zone").

Day Six: What do you do on days that you feel blue? Share three songs that help you feel better.

Day Seven: What type of learner are you? (Visual learner, audial learner, etc.)

Day Eight: Tag someone that you would love to stargaze with, talking about anything that comes to mind deep into the night. Can be a studyblr, or it doesn't have to be!

Day Nine: Tag someone that you think deserves to have more recognition in the study community. What are two things you like about them?

Day Ten: What would you love to learn more about or do more of?

Day Eleven: What article of clothing that you own makes you feel your best? Share it today!

Day Twelve: Do you have any pets? Share a picture and an interesting fact about them!

Day Thirteen: What class have you had the most fun in during your academic journey? What class have you learned the most in?

Day Fourteen: Do you believe that dreams reflect real life? What do you think dreams represent? (Kind of a random one, but interesting I think)

Day Fifteen: Within your field of study, what particular issues are you the most passionate or interested in? OR, what subject or class in school is your favourite?

Day Sixteen: What is your process for writing notes?

Day Seventeen: What time do you usually go to bed? Do you find falling asleep easy or difficult? How do you cope with not being able to fall asleep?

Day Eighteen: If you're comfortable with it, share an experience or a struggle that has helped you to become who you are today. (If you're not comfortable, share a picture of your handwriting instead!)

Day Nineteen: How would you describe your best friend? How do you think your best friend would describe you?

Day Twenty: What book(s) are you currently reading, if anything?

Day Twenty-One: What keeps you motivated? What motivation tips would you give to someone in a slump right now?

Day Twenty-Two: What do you use to escape from reality, if anything? Do you think it's necessary to escape from reality every once in a while?

Day Twenty-Three: Tag yourself: Team "late night matcha lattes, snuggled up with a blanket for one last late night review session" or Team "staying out late at the soda shop, drinking a milkshake and popping quarters into the jukebox, dancing your cares away"? (Team cozy matcha or team sodapop for short)

Day Twenty-Four: Share your favourite recipe for one of your favourite dishes to make! Can be cooking or baking.

Day Twenty-Five: Tag someone that gets you. On, like, a higher level. They just get you.

Day Twenty-Six: The end of the challenge! What did you like or dislike about this challenge? What did you enjoy? What did you learn? What are your plans for the future now that this challenge is over?

Well, I can't count. I thought there were 25 questions... *sigh* this is why I failed stats...

Taglist

@lampstudy @notionblr @asterinunfathomed @predvmstudies @itsleahstudies @divinity-study @helianthuscryptid @jkjustplanning @econtwin1 @leillee @mangofiend @mangomybeloved @agriblr @fromtheatretomedical @elentiascodex @finchleaf :)

[levi-supreme]

Hi Rei! It's your non-anon here. I have two things I want to say. One, I'm burnt out and tired and sometimes I find it so hard to even scroll through Tumblr because it just reminds me of all the things I wish I could do if I had the time and energy to do them, but because I don't, I end up making myself feel guilty about not being good enough. What do you like to do in these situations to make yourself feel better?

Two, what is something you like to talk about? I like trying out anon haha but I never know what to say XD

Oh yes, hello!!!! Anon!!!! Ahhh can't believe people are actually entertaining me in doing this xD as usual, answering below the cut because I'm too fantastic at verbal diarrhoea haha

Regarding your first question, yes I totally understand whatever you're feeling! Every time I scroll through tumblr, I see people posting and reblogging fics that others have written, and it just makes me go "okay when was the last time I wrote something????"

I feel bad to my followers because (a) I'm a slow writer, (b) I don't really have a lot of content written, so even if people want to binge read my stuff, they don't have much haha, and (c) I only write for Levi, so my audience is very small.

It's normal to feel burnout, anon!! Me too!! There are days where I stay away from tumblr because it kinda drains me (idk is it some people here?? Or the same old dark content that irks me all the time?? Lol) and on days I just let my blog run on queue.

Haha and I don't really have a proper advice for this tbh??? Because I don't think I'm dealing with it well too xD but some things I do when this happens is to detach myself from whatever that's stressing me out.

So if I'm stressing over the fact that I have no writing juice and inspiration, I stay away from writing, reading, and anything related. I'll go watch some of my comfort anime, watch my favourite YouTube videos, and go play games to de-stress. A clear mind really sets me in the right perspective and I'll be able to focus better next time.

Also, I feel like there's too many things in our lives stressing us out? We have work, our family, our own me time etc, so it's really hard to squeeze out time to sit down and focus sometimes. All I can say is, we need to stop stressing ourselves over things we can't control haha. Just because some people on tumblr can multitask and handle things well doesn't mean we have to be the same!

After my down phase, I stopped trying to compare myself to others and I realised that I actually feel less stressful to be on tumblr, because there are no expectations. I do things at my own pace, I ignore whatever annoying people and/or things I don't like, and I scroll tumblr for my own enjoyment. I don't know if I'm giving you good advice anon, but haha, I hope tumblr will become a more welcoming and comfortable space for you!!!

And regarding your second question!!!! Tbh I really have no restrictions though!! You can literally send me anything on anon. You can send me thirst thoughts, any tea you want to spill, complain about your s/o, complain about life, seek advice on anything, discuss snk or any other anime etc. The options are endless!!!

Don't be stress anon, you can really talk to me about anything. You can even tell me about your favourite fruit and I'll be more than happy to answer!! Or you can simply tell me about your day too ~