#you're aware I'm queer
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I did not expect to start my morning by having my father call me the f-slur, but... uh, here we are, huh.
#I'm alright#it was at least just over text rather than in person#it just took me a minute to process considering it's been a few years since he's dropped that particular bomb#i love family 🙃#personal#thoughts#tw homophobia#but also#can i just say#wtf#yeah#you're aware I'm queer#but I've never officially dated a man and you have no knowledge of men I've seen casually or anything#you Are however aware that I've had multiple girlfriends...#what#like#what do you gain by calling me a faggot? as far as you're concerned I've never 'proved' my sexuality#so#fuck that lmao
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i have no caption for this other than i hope anyone else who read That report - especially those of you who under 25 - are doing okay and keeping yourself safe today and that it's okay if you need to log off and find a distraction for a while (that's exactly what this piece was to me!)
[IMAGE ID: "salvation exists in the eyes of any transsexual who sees their own divine potential" in white wavy text which a dark pink border. behind the text is a collage of white eyes with pink hearts in the pupils. white starts and heart decorate the image. the background is pink and the border is white. END]
#the report i'm referring to is primarily for UK trans people so don't worry if you're not aware of it and don't live here#though please understand everyone is scared right now#trans art#trans collage#digital collage#trans artist#trans#transgender#transsexual#queer art#queer#lgbt art#lgbt#digital typography#eyes#transmonstera
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'Safequeer' mfers when people are queer in a way they don't like:
[GIF ID: a toy decor skeleton getting absolutely eviscerated in a blue shredder with silver blades. Said skeleton looks like it's thrashing and flailing about as it slowly gets consumed. End ID]
#tw discourse#how are you going to claim you're anti exclusionist but two lines later be like 'l*sb*ys are icky!' fuckin loser💀#like that's blatant exclusionism in your 'anti exclusion' space hon idk what else to tell ya#the absolute lack of self awareness makes me feel like I'm seconds closer to an aneurysm every time I'm subjected to anti mspec les etc shi#oh yeah also 'safequeers' are against nontraumagenic systems so it's the whole nine yards of bs with them huh💀#use hazardqueer instead cuz that label is truly anti exclusionism#queer#lgbtq#lgbt#mogai#liom#hazardqueer#mspec lesbian safe#lesboy safe#endo system safe#endo safe#friendly reminder that all system origins are valid btw. not just endo and trauma
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i don't think our #doomed girl number one is actually gonna die anytime soon* but now my brain is going mag 40 mode like "alice, you didn't die here did you?" anyways if she ends up either already being some sort of undead/construct or turning undead at any point i'm a genius and otherwise i was just kidding teehee
#*the writers know damn well the implications of killing off their only canon trans character#esp since jonny's spoken about queer rep and queer horror#and he's even said in one of the qnas that he tried to be aware of harmful tropes to avoid them (paraphrasing cuz i'm not gonna through all#5 magnuss qnas to find his exact words)#and even from a like. marketing standpoint you're not gonna advertise your show as being about a duo and kill off half of the duo in the#first of 3 series. if she dies in season 3 in the oiar then sure but i don't think there's anyway she'll stop being a character any timesoo#tmagp#alice dyer#fuck with me#the magnus protocol#tmagp spoilers
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"how do you make your boyfriend understand the concerns you have regarding trump becoming president but he's being a dense mf" Google search.
#LISTEN IM WORRIED ABOUT MY RIGHTS AS A QUEER PERSON AND AS A WOMAN MORE SPECIFICALLY#IM TERRIFIED OF WHAT HE PLANS TO DO IN OFFICE#And my bf doesn't seem to get it!! He thinks I'm a dumbass for not knowing how the government when I've been following this shit#since the race started!! And im well fucking aware how the government works!!!#I love you but you're literally denser than lead. Please open your fucking eyes.#bear rambles#tw rant
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I will delete this in a few hours because I don't like to leave these things up on my blog that is dedicated to queer affirming plushies but to all those who are leaving upset messages in my ask box regarding the vinician puppy design - I did do extensive research beforehand in regards to which mlm flags to use! If you have concerns about the ocean mlm/vinician flag I will ref this post to you which has sources and clears up several misconceptions about the flag. tldr (but I seriously recommend reading it) the creator of the flag is a completely different person than the problematic person who people often claim is the creator, and all pride flags take influence from each other.
it is important to me to spread queer positivity which is why I aim to be as inclusive as possible with my pride puppies. I was requested to make a mlm puppy quite a lot and I initially did not want to use this flag due to the controversy I had seen around it. Because I wanted to be inclusive I looked into it and learned that what I had heard was incorrect and changed my perspective.
#delete later#not plush#just want to spread the information I found in my research!#if you have sources that are not listed in the post I linked above please let me know!#I am well aware that there have been pride flags in the past created and intended to perpetuate harm to marginalized people#and I do want to avoid those so I do my best to look into it!#if you're hear to tear down other people in the queer community I'm totally fine if you need to unfollow bc I don't want that on my blog <3
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I think it may say something about gamer culture that one of the oldest first person shooter franchises¹ only has two canonically queer characters², and both of them are from the same short story released in 2009³, where they are both killed.
¹: Halo
²: Felicia Sanderson and Allison Stark
³: Dirt
#which like halo is awar story death makes sense#I'm not really complaining about that part#but it's criminal that is been 15 years without another queer character#i love halo but uh#goddamn y'all#you're getting your ass whupped by star wars#they even put queers in their shows and video games#chessie chats
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saw a post that was like
'i'm so floored by the fact that this mid-20th century author of historical fiction wrote about queerness as though it was natural and important!'
and it's like. the author in question was queer! queer people have been writing work in which queerness was natural and important since much earlier than the 50s—forster wrote maurice in the 1910s! whitman was writing poetry that celebrated queerness in the mid-19th century! i'm sure that if i did any actual research into the history of queer fiction instead of just whipping out the things that spring immediately to mind for me, many more examples would present themselves!
anyway i just think like. that sort of reflexive naive modern chauvinism is a real mistake (especially considering how things have been going in america lately…), and for anyone who is, or wants to be, a serious student of the past, worth scrutinizing and uprooting in oneself. queerness is present and positively depicted in some of the oldest literature we have; and when we encounter matter-of-fact, even celebratory, representations of it from eras we reflexively conceptualize as more conservative than ours, i think we need to be aware that any startlement we feel at that is an artifact of the repressive, erasive, homophobic thinking inculcated in us by our own particular milieu(x), and not in fact a neutral or historically informed reaction?
#like. idk. whether a period Was Homophobic depends enormously on the exact scene you're examining#and i don't think it should be surprising that a queer author of any era would portray queerness as a natural integral part of the world#homophobia has existed in most cultures i'm aware of AND queer people have lived & loved & fucked & felt in most cultures i'm aware of#lots of other people would be better equipped to make this post and it's also obviously unhelpfully divorced from its catalyst#but. idk. i just think like. always good to scrutinize one's startlement‚ bc it's fundamentally signposting one's unexamined assumptions#and the idea that The Past Was More Homophobic is like. sometimes yes sometimes no.#sometimes it's exactly the same bc we swallowed their attitudes whole. see like. our views on penetration vs romans'.#but like. hello. artists were gay in the fifties too.
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do secular people who didn't grow up with religion even know how many gay academics studying religion there are
"my academic study of christian apocrypha makes me anathema to all other gay men" have you tried meeting ex-catholics, or current episcopalians. maybe hanging out around seminaries. come on man it's like you're not even trying
#read something recently that just has me at. wall stare mode.#like maybe i'm just unusually aware of this but pretty much all the people i met when i was first entering the irl gay community were xian#and many of them were 1) former seminary students; 2) current priests; or 3) former priests#and once you start getting into the apocrypha you're getting the AUTISTIC queers who are EVEN COOLER#this fictional guy i read about needs to AT LEAST start networking (wink) at conferences he will be a lot happier
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queer discourse i hate you. do whatever you forever i literally do not care what labels people use i cannot imagine caring that much about what arbitrary words people use to describe themselves. gender doesn't make sense because it's a social construct so if you want to not be transphobic you have to completely omit enforcing gender entirely when it comes to labels. nobody is forcing you to date people you're not attracted to so if someone who identifies as a lesbian isn't your type you can still exist peacefully with them you ignorant conservative fucks
#'men can't be lesbians' bigender people? genderfluid people?#and yes! sometimes they ARE MEN. you're being transphobic if you go through hoops to only refer to them as nonbinary 100% of the time#sorry some people don't want to use some big fancy word that specifically only applies to them#sometimes it's just easier to call themself a lesbian and move on with their days#maybe they are like me and don't give a single flying fuck about labels and only use them when it's convenient#like i hate labels but if i need a word i'll spin the fucking wheel and use whichever works in the moment#that doesn't appease my oppressors at all. i'm so aware that's kinda the whole point#i'm so tired of seeing queer discourse every year
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Now that some of the biggest voices in right wing media is openly attacking asexual people the same way they've been attacking LGBT people, you think all those aphobic queer people are gonna have a rude awakening and realize just how fucking stupid they've been, or are they just gonna keep following in the footsteps of TERFs like they've always done and go "well the fascists are right about this one!"
#Sunny Life#if you're trans and aphobic I cannot begin to comprehend the complete dissonance that must be bubbling in your head#''actually the way transphobes talk about trans people is funny and correct when it's done towards someone else'' bro do u hear urself#like ppl tell us to kill ourselves and that we're broken and ''just haven't met the right person' and face some of the highest#rates of corrective rape among any demographic and somehow some other queer ppl look at this and go#'yeah it's good when it happens to ppl I don't like for no real reason!! I'm the good guy here!! I have no self awareness!!'
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dear god that would be turbo cringe or whatever, but seeing all those annoying little things in fics over and over again really makes me want to write one in which they're not obligatory funnymoments but rather like, words that have meaning and weight and so on
#shrimp thoughts#like. 1. characters acting all cryptic and condescending when their friend who isn't aware they're queer and in love comes to them for#advice like 'oh figure it out yourself baby :)' that's so obnoxious. this is a romcom not a hero's journey you're TWENTY not a Wise Mentor#2. characters acting condescending and rolling their eyes soooo hard about how their friend hasn't figured/took them so long to figure out#they're queer because it was so obvious! how can you be so dense! or: how can you be IGNORANT of kink matters (that we never told you about#3. characters making retching noises and complaining how disgusting/gross their friends are once they get together. the friends aren't#like frenching or fucking on the dining table but just smiling at each other. free pass at homophobia nonetheless ig#4. characters reacting to any sort of doubts/internal conflict their friend has with 'omg who cares just do the thing! stop overthinking!'#ETC ETC#so many times i've started reading a good fic with an otherwise engaging characterization only for the writer to pull an Easy Fan Favourite#like one of the above and like ggggghhhhhhhhhh#if it was one (1) character in one (1) fandom or even just a type of characters i wouldn't mind AS MUCH but it's everyone whether it makes#sense for them or not. is this guy calm and sensitive? doesn't matter! he's going to do and say the same things a silly chatterbox type#of a character because telling your friends they're gross for being a couple is universal now#OH i almost forgot. everyone's having kinky sex of many different kinds but react like twitter teenagers to any mention of sex in general#'ew! TMI! i don't want to hear about all the insane shit you do in your bedroom! not in front of the children! not while i'm eating!'#'just read better fanfiction' look i'm TRYING i'm TRYING OKAY
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every time. every time i'm like I Just Think This Person Is Neat, it turns out they're some flavour of queer and i'm just sixth sensing it
#if i think you're neat and you're cishet no you're not#think again#me: i'm over here like i don't think i'm crushing and it's not just that they're attractive...what am i feeling....i just...they're neat#every single time: they're somewhere in the queer alphabet#there hasn't been a single exception so far#now that i'm self-aware the next time i'm like i just think this person is neat :) i'm gonna double take
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"The handmaiden is male gazey" did you know lesbians like fucking other women sexy style? Did you know that a large theme in the handmaiden was the male gaze and misogyny and if you can't separate explorations of a harmful idea from endorsements of it you may be hopeless?
guys I knew it I knew that would be a comment inflammatory enough to attract my first hate anon cut the cameras we did it bois :D
#did you know *I'm* a lesbian that is into that shit also? no because reading comprehension website#they're shot like they're doing that for the cameras not for each other so kind of shoots the message on the foot depending on how you look#never said it's endorsement I said it made *me* uncomfortable and bored because I've seen a dozen movies like that and I'm tired#not to mention this is a critical darling of a film#I'm well aware it isn't the movies fault that a bunch of film bros talk about how hot the scenes are but it still irks me#and were the people in charge of the filmaking process women btw? NO much less queer women they were mostly cis men#she had absolutely no qualms about playing a homosexual character#which in Korea actors can be considerably reluctant to do.#<- those two are straight from an interview with the guy the gayness was novelty and shock value#not to mention bestie it was inspired by a book go sing the praises of that while you're at it#that's where the thread of criticism towards the institutions of misogyny were pulled from#In Fingersmith Waters uses her depiction of lesbian love between Maud and Sue to challenge a variety of hetero-patriarchal norms#my god that name's hilarious#you don't need to defend the honor of a queer story that was adapted with a straight audience in mind#and this convinced me to check the book out idk about you but I'd rather see the version actually told by a lesbian 😊#a tag for asks#also ut's queerness is very gender identity related and I think people generally don't appreciate that as much as they do sex stuff
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unpopular opinion but a ship being queer coded doesn't make it compelling
#the dynamic between the characters‚ on another hand‚ does!#sometimes ships from certain media are carried by 'queer coding' instead of being relevant because of the actual relationship#that‚ to me‚ means very little#what does it matter if their colours compliment each other or that their names are intended to hint at something if the relationship in#the story fails to portray anything romance-like or their dynamic is just poorly written?#i could go on a tangent here because this is coming from me wanting to rant about a specific genshin ship but i will shut up#i just want to be a hater#i don't even hate the ship itself it's the fans who take scenes out of context and depth from the characters to make the narrative fit#also the constant idea in fandoms that friendships/platonic relationships can't have depth or be the reason someone cares deeply for#somebody else. or even the idea platonic feelings can't be complicated.#i think it's also hard for me to swallow every genshin ship because it's obvious they use queer coding without compromise as a way to#profit with both the staights and the lgbts but whatever#yes i am aware of the censorship but i'm also aware they're a multi-millionaire company that keeps repeating the same 'formula'#for marketing everytime new characters are released... and it works.#genshin will never be as gay as actual gay media from gay creators and i think people have a hard time grasping that#a bit unrelated to my original point but also not really because i do think it influences the way people interact with the story#i'm not trying to say people can't have fun by the way 😂#this all started because i dislike a popular ship and that makes you feel like you're somehow missing a few screws#how come i'm the only right person here 🤣 (joking)
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God I truly truly hate the way people decide to engage with art based on the social context around it rather than anything to do with what the art is in itself. Obviously almost everything I like has an audience in mind to some extent (as most everything does under capitalism) but there's something that deeply fucking bugs me about the way people decide whether or not to engage with something based on whether it's "for" them, rather than engaging first and deciding if it's for you as a specific person after the fact.
I understand that art (and especially discussion of art) exists within a social context but why should that context override a person's own sensibilities and experiences? Outside of like, shit that is personally off-limits (for trauma reasons or smth similar) I think people should at least try to keep an open mind about as broad a range of art as possible.
Go watch Eega, The Wicker Man (1973), whatever's the highest rated episode of Bluey on IMDB, Terrifier, Double Indemnity, an uncommentated playthrough of Heaven Will Be Mine, and the 1980s soviet-produced adaptation of Treasure Island.
In that order.
Now.
#Posting Through It#ignore the fact that all of them are movies except Bluey and HWBM lmao#I wanted smth targeted at a VERY young age group and something that was closer to my favored kind of high concept queer type of shit#neither of which they make a lot of movies for (at least as far as I'm aware)#ah well I guess it makes the point about having as broad a spectrum as possible of things you're willing to engage with#without needing to change the word 'watch'
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