#yeah nonbinary bigender and genderfluid people can be lesbians obviously and a lot of relationship nuance will depend...
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Post: gender identity is complicated and everyone has their own unique relationship with it. Presentation does not equal gender and not everyone likes strict labels!
Me: Yeah! True! This is great so far please don't turn this into-
Post: I will now use this as an excuse to obsessively list every possible way in which a lesbian ends up with a man. I will equate butches and gnc women to men, completely missing my own point when I said presentation doesn't equal gender. Also being transmasc is always the same as being male aligned btw. I'm going to find a way to fit dissociative identity disorder into this for some reason. I'm also going to be really condescending and talk like no lesbian has ever understood the concept of gender noncomformity, ambiguity and complex relationships to gender. No, I never talk this way about gay men and nblm why do you ask
#it's like. idk. for a certain niche group of people ''complex gender identity'' just means ''maleness included''#yeah nonbinary bigender and genderfluid people can be lesbians obviously and a lot of relationship nuance will depend...#... on the specific people involved. But also gender can be complex and nuanced and strange without involving maleness#why does non standard gender expression always seem to mean proximity to manhood for a certain group of people and why are they obsessed...#with attaching lesbians to men but never the inverse?#also do we forget that unaligned people exist. Like did we forget there are people who are attached to neither#or do we just have 4 genders now. boy girl nb(boy) and nb(girl)#really frustrating to genuinely consider no longer calling myself transmasc bc people point and go MAN! BOY!#even though part of the reason the terms transmasc and transfem exist as terms is to cover folks transitioning in a specific direction...#...without necessarily being the opposing binary gender#like idk. you can be cool with complex gender without also being gross towards lesbians who set reasonable boundaries regarding men#yes including trans men#Obligatory disclaimer this is a specific niche kind of post no I don't think everyone talking about nonstandard gender expression is doing.#... secret anti-lesbian dogwhistle posting there's just a specific brand of weirdo who are always strange about this
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I forget how to do readmores on mobile so haha sorry everyone long post!!!! Doing it in alphabetical order for no reason lmfao.
Also these are just my silly lottle headcanojs, they change sometimes and arent set in stone qnd obviously you dont have to agree with them its just for fun!!!! :)
emma: transfem genderfluid lesbian!!!!! she/they I think also with acting stuff if theure working on a role for a long time she kind of ends up during that period of tome adopting the gender of the character LOL
hajime: Im partial to transmasc nonbinary hajime lol i like bigender hajime a lot thats what my favorite has been lately. I think hes gay as well and i thinj that being bigender for him is like being a trans guy + being a girl in a gay man way if that makes sense. I think hes he/him but other gay dudes and specific people who undersrand his gender and he trusts can use she/her
hibiki: Sorry the twins are cis to me :( shes either bi or pan as well. I think she does like to play with her gender presentation too as a performer but i think thats less her veing trans and more of her maybe being gnc. Yeah i like gnc cis hibiki sure lets go with that.
iroha: I think gender is far too confusing and iroha gets all confused wheneber she thinks about it ao she doesnt. Shes fine with any pronouns but she hasnt really said anythint about thqt so she usually just uses she/her. I genuinely could not tell you her sexuality because to me iroha is just iroha. Creature. You know
kanade: cis lesbian. I have a very complicated relationship with the twins kanade especially bc some parts of their story hit too close to home with me so i havent tjought in depth about this. I dont think her sexuality is of much importance to her because shes got much more importqnt things going on and hinestly same with gender but for now ill say shes a cis lesbian who maybe that would change if she looked into it more
kokoro: Cis girl and i genuienly dont knwo what to say her sexuality is. I dont want to say aro kokoro because like i feel like she wouldnt be particually good representation and it feels weird to me in the same way that saying light yagami is aro feels weird to me. Like I dont really like that headcanon because it feels kind of “all aro people are EVIL LOVELESS CREATURES” idk if its actuwlly that deep or not wo no hate if you (responsibly and respectfully) headcanon her as aro i just personally dont like that one. I’ll say either het or bi for her.
mikado: transmasc nonbinary boy adjacent. Bisexual. He/they/it/whatever i dont think mikado cares much about pronouns. His gender is guy who listens to oingo boingo if that makes any sense
nikei: I will always be a firm believer in trans guy bisexual nikei but ill be honest i think thats me projecting. I totally can see why people say gay nikei too but i see his liking of women as a little too real for that and i like him having an unrequited crush on bestie setsuka too much to have him not like girls lol. Plus i think having a crush on a very beautiful and sweet woman as well as a grimy rude stinky man is absoltuely 100% bisexual culture (i say this lovingly as a bisexual dude with the same taste as him. Oh also he/him
Setsuka: trans lesbian!!!!!!!! Although i also do like trans girl bisexual setsuka as well. I like trans lesbian setsuka more though. She/they
shinji: TRANS GUY BISEXY SHINJI!!!!!!!! He/him
sora: i like a lot of flavors of nb sora i think my favorite atm is transmasc agender lesbian sora atm. I like bigender and genderfluid sora a lot too though. Any pronouns
syobai: Well i also like transmasc bi syobai as wwll as transmasc gay syobai. i 100% think hes transmasc though and i think he did his own top surgery with a knife and lots of patience. He/him. I think he doesnt really think too hard about gender as a whole either i think hes just always been like that and didnt think much of it because he makes up so many fake names and stuff lol. Love this guy
Teruya: Absoltuely genderfluid my genderfluid pansexual friend Teruya. He/she imo.
yoruko: TRANS LESBIAN YORUKO!!!!!!!!! FOREVER!!!!!!!
yuki: I know this one probably is not going to be the most popular headcanon bc i understqnd why ppl like trans guy yuki but I like cis bi yuki. I like the subverting expectations of him being cis and shinji being trans. Sorry if this breaks anyones heart </3
yuri: i know that trans girl yuri is popular but im more partial to trans guy yuri. Obsessed with letting the girlies know hes “one of the good ones”. Either trans het or bi. Also (insert real world yuri) He is on T. He/him
Grrrr now i wanna post my sdra2 pride headcanons too i dont know if ive ever gotten around to doing that. Well would anyone be interested in that
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