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I may be a simple self ship blog
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see below in the tags for my thoughts because this shit is wild
#imagine being so fucking insane over a fucking character choice that#you harrass and bully people about it#dont worry this isn't selfship tumblr#this is just weird and chaotic BG3 drama about#Astarion because somehow he is always dragged into weird shit#i dont have the game im an xbox owner and like#how fucking insane do you gotta be to be so up your own assholes about#the direction a character takes? like HEY YOUR CHOICES MATTER?#and dontget me started on vampire brides shit#yall pulling that shit from DND editions that don't matter! cause thats not the EDITION BG3 IS BASED ON#yall can make your choices but what do I know im just a self ship blog making commentary from the outside#yall are adults grow up#and stop harrassing people for goodness sake yall aint teenagers no more#maddi rambles#maddi vents#like yall gotta grow up
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as time passes by and the older i get i really do not give a fuck. i love and appreciate fire emblem if for what it is. the storys fun messy the characters are lovable and dramatic and stupid and the tropes are what i eat for BREAKFAST. age gap. siscon/brocon. gap moe. surprise cousin incest. faux incest. being able to woo a shota/loli. being able to woo old men who literally watched you grow. camilla va sawashiro miyuki. Fire Emblem If (2015) you will always be my top 3 favourite fe game
#one thing about fe is that when it reaches the western fans ofc some of its ideas/tropes/archetypes do not reside with them#while fair and understandable#i do not need to see the constant backlash lmao my hobby is having fun#like. ok the reason i love fire emblem is coz its messiness is what draws me in#each fe game has its insane themes that make me go OO#fea has its future children shtick#fe if has. all that#fe 3 houses has student/teacher#even fe7 has some of these tropes but ofc the intense drama is what got me#fe8??? LMAOOOOOOOOO DONT YALL STAY BLIND AT EPHRAIM/EIRIKA that shits so wild#not my cup of tea but i love how they will use the brocon/siscon as a thing#not as obvious as if tho#and then fe4.....when will fe4 remake come oout#OH N THE FE WITH MICAIAH IN IT#what was that dudes name...sothe??#immortal/mortal who grows up to be an adult n falls for the immortal who takes care of them#you will always be special to me#fire emblem is truly the game tht keeps giving#fafar yaps#about fe14
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my little sister is honestly the most violent lil shit i've ever met and personally i will not handle her without the safety of oven mittens but like tell me why whenever she gets vulnerable and actually admits she cares abt i just burst into tears
#we don't have much of an age gap but we used to live a shitty home life and so i pretty much had to raise her#its always been us against the world#and now she's all big now and an adult#got her own girlfriend and she's going to get an apartment soon and im just so emotional#like when did my baby grow up so quickly#just remembering how when we were still so young and she always did what i do and thats why she got into art#and im bawling on the ground#im so sorry yalls its the period my period is acting up#dean rambles
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Yall the college drama is real who tf has time for this i just wanna go to bed ;-;
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Dino dance party cause it’s all gonna be okay and life is worth living
#gif#chaoticbuggybitchboy#idk if this is because I’m entering a manic episode or if just because my life is genuinely better (could be both)#but like chat imma be a grownup soon#chat it’s gonna b okay life is worth living it gets better#<- it gets better I fucking promise it does#Ik younger teens be following me here:#you will not be 12 13 14 15 16 forever#you will not be trapped in the hell of ‘expected to be an adult while being treated as a child’ forever#have whatever fun you can and just exist and don’t worry so much#also I’m exploding like. half yalls parents w my mind#<- btw when you grow up you can move out and just never talk to them again that’s allowed
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hey just a couple things bc my step-dad really pissed my off yesterday and I need this to he out there:
People mature at different rates
And it's hard for autistic people to mature (quickly) because autism is a cognitive disability
Autism is a cognitive disability
#he- in a nutshell- told me to get my shit together that I'm a fucking idiot and I need to grow the fuck up.#okay first off what I did was an honest mistake. And I handled it for the most part.#second off I'm a teen and autistic. Quit expecting me to be a fucking adult when I'm not#and let me learn the hard way if I fuck up! Stop riding my dick!#Something I should also mention is that he's a bit of a hypocrite (I won't elaborate here)#It's really hard for neurodivergent people to remember simple things. Yall know this#And he basically told me that bc I forgot this simple thing that it wasn't important (I need to get a ride for today)#IF ITS NOT CONSTANTLY BROUGHT UP IM GOING TO FORGET. AND ALSO I FORGWT SIMPLE THINGS. ITS THAT FUCKING SIMPLE.#my step-dad is great when he's not a dick and most of the time he is.#bear rambles#vent
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i'm getting a 90 min massage tmrw, thank god but then later that evening, i'm going over to this potentially new friends house. it's... okay well so a friend of mine works in kids ministry and i went to help her a few weeks back for an event (we met in church when we were kids) and she introduced me to this other woman she knows, and we were stationed together and chatting. and she was so sweet to let me know she was starting a woman's group, and so she text to invite me. and i'd feel bad if i said no bc basically i haven't been to church and/or the religious thing for years (my faith is what i make of it imo), and now i'm like ok so maybe new ppl to meet (which i desperately need) but also theyre all probs church girlies and my ass can only handle so much of that. we're gonna see how this goes, lmao.
#x#as i'm sure many are aware church ppl got a diff mindset and that's fine#i am just not one of them lol and im rly gonna have to reign in my personality#bc i think it might be A Lot given the crowd and by personality i just mean im sure ceratin opinions will not vibe#not that anything like that will be a topic of convo but having to fake understanding is exhausting and i rly just... no im getting ahead#of myself i havent even met this ppl i full capacity yet lmao#there was no context either for the group so idk if this is gonna be just a chatty get together or if theyre gonna pull out the bible#and if that's the case... LMAO @ me. omg do i bring my bible just in case like do i fake it to fit in YALL#the joys of growing up in the church but not being in it as an adult /sigh
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why do older family members get mad when you have no relationship with them like sir *i* was the child for the bulk of your time knowing me and you made zero effort to foster any sort of long lasting relationship dont be mad when we're not close now that im an adult
#i will acknowledge i have no relationship with any family im not living with because my brain just doesnt work that way#its amazing i even have the one friend i do lmao like#im truly an out of sight out of mind person and not in a mean way its just that if youre not in my daily life its harder for me to reach ou#compound that with the fact all my extended family is states away from me and growing up i only saw them once every few years#AND im so much younger than everyone#like the closest person in age to me until my brother was my cousin who was like 10+ years older than me?#maybe a little less#she was like graduating high school when i was in elementary school#these are not the conditions for me personally to thrive in any sort of relationship sorry#also now that i am an adult and seeing everybody for who they are... i dont really wanna fuck with yall anyway lmao#we simply do not have things in common besides a bloodline
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Fuck discourse about serious topics, I'm talking discourse about who we consider short again. I do NOT think you are short if your height doesn't impede your daily life in any way. Not to gatekeep "being short" but y'all have a weird complex where people of average height get called "short".. Like, these people only think they're short because they're comparing themselves to those who are really tall, but *I* think I'm short when:
I struggle to reach the lowest shelf in a kitchen.
I have to actually get out a stool to reach certain things.
I had to find the smallest bike at school during sport and STILL had to adjust the seat to sit lower.
In the majority of seats, my feet can't fully touch the ground.
I cannot hold bus handles comfortably.
I have to like... think about how I'll set up a sewing machine so that I can use the pedal properly.
People straight up assume I'm a teenager still.
Like, I do not know how to tell you this but the world is made in your image. The one place I can think of where the shelves are super accessible to me is my local library's section for young fiction.. You know... The place where they purposefully design it to be accessible to children... If you're not constantly made aware that you are short, I'm sorry, but people are lying to you. You are average height.
^^^ WE HAVE TO KILL HIM FOR SAYING MOST PEOPLE (average people) ARE AVERAGE HEIGHT............
#📚 my posts#📌 thoughts#im meant to be in bed but i had to rant abt this becus its a pet peeve of mine#im around 5'0 - 5'1 btw#i think most ppl who are like 'im that height too!' are always minors who are still growing up and like bless ur hearts#but i am an adult and this is most definitely as tall as im getting#i actually enjoy being short and i never think of it as a bad thing btw. its just like. annoying to see ppl obsess over their heights#i guess yall be lacking perspective because you're literally not my height LOL#chilchuck tims is my man he would get it
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Early 20s Ghost and Gavin drawing inspired by mah frienndddd (you know who you are)
(Full version on my twitter , 18+ pls 🙏)
#taleblr#johnny ghost#gavin toast#sorry yall ive become gay#well ive always been gay#im only just now fully posting the Really Gay stuff tho#character development or growing up take your pick#been on this website since i was like. 10#at least i waited to post this kind of thing until i was a legal adult LMAO
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anytime i wanna complain abt cleaning my room i feel like such a kid lol
#like you're 24 years old wdym u get overwhelmed by the thought of cleaning ur room#i have a lot to complain abt it n its mostly bcs i dont have a space to leave my shit bcs my wardrobe is full of my stepfather's clothes n#stuff my mom has put that isnt mine like 😐#that and the drawer in my room thats full of my grandma's stuff like 😭 i could use it for my own stuff n yet :-/#it has like 5 things to use n i only get ONE#and idk it frustrates me so much bcs yeah im a messy person!!!!!! i know!!!!!!!!!!!!!#but i also have no space for my shit!!!!!!! and of course in 10 years i'd get more stuff!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#plus i also have a disorder that makes it harder for me to be organized!!!!!!!!!!!#and when i was a kid no one ever treated me like that!!!!!!!!!!!! no one ever took the time to teach me on how to be organized with that#disorder and now im suffering the consequences!!!!!!!!!! but i can't rlly blame the adults bcs none of yall knew!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and it just#frustrates me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#i ended complaining either way lol anyways.#i feel like a lot of my frustration with cleaning up is that growing up everyone treated it as a failure#i've always been a messy person and everyone treated me as if that were a failure n not smth that was enhanced by a fucking disorder!!!!!#'ohhh you're so messy!!! your room is so messy' n u couldn't have helped a kid to be more organized#if i were diagnosed younger i feel like lots of my frustrations wouldn't exist#jo.txt
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jackson has this vcr in his concert about self discovery, hope in youself and love for yourself, and i sobbed like a child and continued sobbing all the way through the next song. i do not believe in faith as such but moments like this make me believe it. last year i realised that i am super unhappy with myself and my life. i have known it for a while but it took me time to face it. i woke up one day in june of 2022 sobbing and told myself that i do not want to live my life like this and i have all the means to change it if i just stopped being scared. i went on to consider what in life i would like to be to become happier and one of the things was travel. the concept of travelling alone has bothered me for years and my first venture to get rid of this fear just happens to be a jackson wang concert in paris where he talks about the samw thing i have been going through for a while and the path of self discovery.
#idk how to put a read more on mobile so enjoy this on yall dash#but i think that as we grow older we feel so much pressure about adult life#like jobs#making money#rent#houses#we lived on fight or flight during the pandemic trying to aboid it and stay safe#idk about you but i just woke up one day and realised idk who i am#anyway#i guess i felt heard#and understood#so i cried like a child for a few songs
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me, looking at my baby cousin with eyes full of care and love: i love you!
my cousin, briefly glancing back to me from watching tv: yeah ok
#like. you buttfart id give both lungs for u 😭#hes so sassy and hes growing up and talking a lot more the cutie#i need yall to know moments before this i said im going to the bathroom and he grabbed my hand and went 'lets go!'#he was very disappointed when i told him adults go to the bathroom alone 😂😂#he also jumped on me while i was laying on the couch#after he was done eating his dinner and w mouth full of food#peeked up at me and went 'heheh. cheese on your shirt'#and im there like :| thats a new shirt u adorable gremlin#aunty soph rambles on#but hes the cutest kiddo in existence ok. i never knew id care for another human this much#burrito talks#delete later
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having feelings for and being romantic with a woman for the first time in forever*, forcing me to resume unpacking the whole internalised lesbophobia feeling profoundly predatory for my attraction thing and let me tell you. not fun. wish i could get over with so i could like. be normal about it as opposed to aggressively repressing 99% of the time and becoming unhingedly dykeish the other 1%
#*as i was writing this post the tv show currently playing had a scene where a creepy older lesbian assaulted a woman. lol.#please release me from this hell#i want to be normal about it so badly you do not understand. shes into me and we are both adults capable of communication i should not be#this terrified of my own feelings lmao#there is a second secret non lesbian reason for this as well but im not telling yall that because yall are not safe#i tell you this specifically to taunt you the person reading this about the fact you may not be as tolerant as you think you are#for reasons that you may be aware of but may think are stupid#god knows that was the case for most of the ppl around me growing up including amongsth progressive queers
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yall idk wtf is biting me in the ass, maybe its bc i got financially spanked last month but holy shit am i ON TOP of my finances this month
#clown horn#august is abt to be so boring in the best possible ways lol#i just opened another savings acct with my credit union after i found out#that they have one specifically for compound interest on savings!!!!#3% apy yall..... THREE PERCENT!!!!#AND IT COMPOUNDS#and i didnt even know it but my regular savings acct has compounding interest too!#the way that i was so geeked to find that out was just.... i literally couldnt sleep last night i was so excited#lmfao#goddamn i really am growing up to be an adult huh 💀💀💀#excited over compound interest on my savings acct...... bruh#ALSO i bought my first share of an ETF last night :3#no index funds for me.... yet. vanguard's index funds are EXPENSIVE#lucky for me my brokerage acct also has compound interest so ✌️#gonna try and really be intentional with my money from here on out#i hear everyone online saying that if you start in your 20's youre already ahead of the game#esp on 401ks but.... i really wish i had started sooner ngl LOL#had i known abt compound interest and dcu's incredible apy rates i wouldve switched to them rather than fuckin SANTANDER#god#anyways#now i know better and i intelligently moved most of my money to dcu a couple years ago#BUT STILL#well now hopefully getting started on my finance journey today will be more helpful to me in the future#rather than starting in my 30's lol#im also gonna see abt opening a roth ira as well... if vanguard would like to work on my computer lol#but still. kinda proud of myself! mhmm
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people in the fall out boy community still having beef with me and spreading false rumors about me for something that was resolved like a year ago is actually fucking hilarious im sorry. y’all call me obsessive then pull this shit vro 😭 stay mad I guess… I won anyway
#trick shit#trick shut the fuck up#it’s just so funny to me like oh my god#there’s NO way you guys can be serious like all of you are grown adults#grow the fuck up#im a 17 year old boy who moved on with his life#yall should too
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