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Another meme I made and gotta share with my fellow Reesemancers

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This is basically the only mouthwashing post I made a while ago but worded a lot better

I rly dislike all fanarts that are like those described here they miss the point of the game by Miles

I genuinely think Mouthwashing fandom is a good example on how real life misogyny is very wired on people brains and influenced how they engage with fictional misogyny.

You have a story about a woman being assaulted and telling a man he trusted but being dismissed because he is friends with the attacker, and people fixate on shipping her with either of those me.

You have a story about how men that downplay their male friends violence, assume neutrality is the safer option, unintentionally help create an environment that's unsafe to vulnerable people, at a risk becoming a victim themselves. And people make it about toxic yaoi.

You have a character kill herself because she didn't want birth the child of her abuser. And people make AUs where she happily keep the baby.

Misogyny isn't just "I hate this women", it's also downplaying their trauma, defending those who caused it, and reducing them to mothers or wives against their wished under this idea of what womanhood is about.

I don't think we can separate fandom misogyny from it's real world influence, not yet.

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Good Intentions?

So my mom asked me an interesting question: "Don't you ever feel like an asshole when you think you're correcting people? Especially if the thing they believe makes them happy?"

In this conversation specifically, about science and health facts, my answer is "No."

I don't feel like I'm being an asshole when I tell you the thing you believe about a health fact is wrong. I feel like I'm helping you learn the correct way to keep yourself healthy. I know I might sound like an ass, and be perceived as an ass, but I know your intentions are good, you might just be understanding 'the thing' wrong and I want to help you actually be safe.

For context: My mom has a fear of having a heart attack or stroke, but she doesn't talk to doctors or health professionals about staying healthy or safe. Instead she found this "Influencer" who gives "health advice", but this person has also been banned from Australia because their 'advice' was so wrong, it threatened peoples' health. My mom thinks eating excessive amounts of Celtic Salt will provide her with minerals that will boost her health, and EVERY TIME we talk about her salt, I tell her that she's eating so much sodium, those minerals mean nothing.

I know that often, people feel like they're being insulted when someone corrects something they say, but that's not always the case. In the above situation, I correct mom's misinformation because I know the thing she is doing, is going to greatly increase the chances of her experience the thing she's trying to avoid. I'm not mean about it, just persistent. I don't tell her she's stupid or anything. I don't really tell her "you're wrong". I remind her of a health fact she used to know as true, but has since been convinced to forget it?

I did tell her, when she asked why I keep talking about it, that "you might be lucky and nothing will happen, in which case I'm just annoying and we cannot have a good conversation about salt with each other. But a majority of cases show, the excessive amount of salt people eat can lead to greater risk of stroke or heart attack. And if you are unlucky and have an event, don't be surprised if the doctor talks to you about your salt."

I've been corrected too, but I've always thought it of someone trying to teach me something. And sometimes what they say is wrong, but I appreciate their attempt to help me. They state their case, I state mine, then I move on to another topic that we don't disagree on, but sometimes something they say has me questioning, and then I get to do more research :D

There's another guy at the homeless shelter who is giving me advice on how to start my own business. I cannot talk health facts with him because he believes changing his body's PH balance will protect him from cancer and that the oncoming eclipse is caused by excessive amounts of chemicals the government is exposing us to. He speaks so often and with so much confidence and authority, that I still feel bad voicing any opposing opinions. But I still try, sometimes.

( other side note, as a presenting woman, anything I do is often brushed aside as me "being a bitch", so very often anything I say or do is dismissed or taken with skepticism. Occasionally, I do find someone who is interested in learning and we ask questions together and do research and have good fun :) )

What do you guys think? I genuinely want to know your stance on correcting people or being corrected.

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Man I love Tabitha Chrysanthemum Scarlet

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Color Sans

I don't know anything about Color!sans, but i've been seeing him a lot. Anyone have links to his story or info? Maybe some stories that show his personality well?

All I know about him is he's a good emotional influence with Killer, often portrayed as killer's friend or someone who saves him from Nightmare. Annnnnddddd..... no thats it....

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this is why whenever I see a post that I disagree with - even if I think the other person is being a dumbass - I try to reduce my pesonal opinion to the point I'm trying to make and not focus it on the person making the original statement in the end we're all people in front of screens

You're not immune to being the bully btw. You're not immune to being in the wrong

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Casual reminder that I will explode into fanart and serotonin once Scarlet Hollow updates with chapter 5 🤗💥

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Just looked up my playtime because I was curious and I don't want to compare these two games cause I love them both sm for different reasons but stp just doesn't scratch my brain the same way sh does

Like I hold Slay the Princess in my hands and I adore and admire it like the beautiful piece of art it is. I put it on my wall to appreciate.

Scarlet Hollow I grab and shake and put it in a mason jar and study it like a bug and I prod at it until it tells me all its secrets.

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it's good I don't actually have a monster boyfriend because I would literally just ask him to eat the people who annoy me/are being mean to me

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Thank you I used it for good

burning text gif maker

heart locket gif maker

minecraft advancement maker

minecraft logo font text generator w/assorted textures and pride flags

windows error message maker (win1.0-win11)

FromSoftware image macro generator (elden ring Noun Verbed text)

image to 3d effect gif

vaporwave image generator

microsoft wordart maker (REALLY annoying to use on mobile)

you're welcome

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I saw this ship chart on @/crumb-crumblet-s-crumbington's acc and made one for Matricide / Hardcore Run Wreese

Interpretations of Reese's personality are mine obvsly, it's okay if your interpretation of him is different <3

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small housekeeping thing again

I finally made some accounts for the sort of art that is uh --- too spicy to post here.

It's binkbonk on bluesky where you can properly tag things with warnings and binkbwonk on twitter (locked acc, gotta request to follow). Both accs are still empty as of now, but I wanted to have a space for the thirstier sorts of arts

Suggestive content art that I post on here will continue to be labeled with a warning first while keeping the actual content under the cut - like I did before. Just to ensure everyone's comfortable with stuff I put on yalls timelines

That's it, have a nice day yall

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I did a sticker challenge at connichi: buy as many baldur's gate 3 characters as stickers from as many artists as possible and I love the result

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Please join us on Bluesky, it's so much better over there!

In case any of you here also use X/Twitter.

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Oh dang it my borfday

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I am so normal about Reese Kelly y'all