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[evilpixiea]

I love Selena. I genuinely do. Great character. Great concept. A cat burglar who dresses like a cat. 10/10. No notes. You're doing great sweetie.

BUT

Leaving Bruce at the alter on your wedding day? Brutal. Like, the genuinely worst. This man is already a walking talking textbook for attachment issues and trauma and then you do this?

He's never going to be able to open up to anyone ever again.

Well.

No.

He'll open up to Clark. But it'll take time. A lot of time. And when Clark eventually decides he wants to marry this grumpy old man he's been in love with since forever, he'll have a hell of a time trying to convince Bruce to go along with it because THIS IS HOW BRUCE'S LAST RELATIONSHIP CRASHED AND BURNED.

Wedding day rolls around, and Bruce is probably hyperventilating in the bathroom, terrified Clark ain't going to show. Which is irrational, of course, Clark has been waiting for this day for years, but STILL.

Anyway, then everything goes smoothly, and it all kind of hits Bruce after it's done that he's married now, and Clark didn't run. THEN he's happy about it, but it took a lot of panic and stress to get there.

Selena really should've just called things off from the beginning. Like, you're not that keen, that's fine, just don't lead him on up until the alter. Jeez.

[genacity]

thinking before i go to sleep 😴😴😴

i really want to eat childe’s ass idk

like; having him sit on my face and grab onto the headboard as he’s sobbing out, hiccuping and crying as i rim him up for the fourth time that night… he’s shaking, trying not to collapse from all of the overstimulation as i keep ravaging his hole 😁

“fuck— fuck, please—” childe is wailing, not even attempting to keep his voice down! pale knuckles growing paler as his head slumps and his hips buckle at the sight of his ass getting eaten into oblivion ❤️

[whenimhomealoneijustdance]

Oops

[loveshotzz]

God -

trying to run a million dollar store while maintaining a social life, navigating a new relationship with lots of childhood trauma, making sure i’m talking to and keeping up with all of my friends, while also keeping up with a diet and five day a week work outs, all while raw dogging bpd is fucking exhausting!!!!

[baufive]

This will probably sound like a rant - its not a rant - it's a plea. I have removed the comment to keep anonymity, but this has presented a bit of a quandary.

I have to say - this sort of comment is exasperating. I have waited a week for an answer and, honestly - with no reply, it feels more like an empty zing. That makes *ME* sad. What is "temporarily"? - as in - you took it out and everything is okay? Exactly what broke? Do you know what piece(s)? What happened exactly? How can I improve this situation?

*I* don't know a single creator who releases their hard work only to go - oh well, broke your game - that's a you problem. I'm sure they exist. Not this guy.

I want to release the best possible product. My style is not for everyone - I am abundantly clear on that point. That said - with this particular set I was transparent with the issues I was encountering and it took, in some cases, weeks (actual weeks) to get something to work correctly with the little amount of time I have to give to this hobby. Quirky stuff like alpha phong/transparency issues/eyedropper not cloning issues. Not a 'my game grew an arm and has become a menace to my pets' kind of problem.

I was honestly horrified that someones game could be impacted by my wares - like - heart heavy/floor sinking sort of thing. I cannot underline this point enough - I desire critiques to improve - most creators do - at least the ones I respect. I might not be the fastest at fixing patch broken items, but when something is wrong with an item I just released, I make it a priority - with what time I have - to fix it. My site is littered with "whoops" add-ons.

PLEASE: My inbox is open - my comments are on here and at my blog - I have a contact page on my blog. If you ever find a problem with something I have released - please let me know. I will do my best to attend to it and if that is not possible, I can at least wave the red flag and hope someone in the community would have an answer to assist. Please be clear what happened so I am not forced to guess. A statement that feels like a lack of contentment is challenging to address.

[womenaremypriority]

just saw a post that (among other things) talked about how it was bad that gay trans men were having to perform masculinity and I think ‘gay trans men’ should feel bad for making the world a worst place by being homophobic actually. I think it’s good if they are excluded from gay male spaces. They should feel remorse for what they’re fucking doing

[trashogram]

I’m tired of this yaoi, grandpa

[humblepoet26]

We're not going to talk about how messy my niece's room is, but the fact that I am in actual ultimate comfort in this fit ✨️

[corkymcdavo]

Im so tired of existing. Things have never felt so low and the hole grows deeper.

I’m just.. I’m so tired. Nothing feels enjoyable anymore, I have no excitement for.. anything. I’m so tired of feeling permanently disassociated.

It’s times like these I realize how much of my life I’ve really fucked up and didn’t learn from mistakes.

[wildbornsiren]

You know what sucks.

Is when people you've worked with for 6 months do more for your birthday than a person who calls you their terror twin, who's kid calls you dad, does.

Not for the first time she's forgotten my birthday and it fucking hurts so bad because we had planned something together.

It's a fucking milestone birthday. I'm 40.

I didn't think I'd make it to 40. And coworkers and people who have never met me in real life are trying to make it so I have a good day. When someone who calls me a sister goes to a music festival and "forgets" it's my birthday.

Happy birthday to me. (Tomorrow). Here comes 40.

[ali-ali-al1]

One second you think you’re basically over your attachment issues, the next you’re searching up emotional regulation worksheets. Oopsie doopsie woopsie

[a-god-in-ruins-rises]

i think there is a certain....spirit...required to enjoy peace and quiet. i was just at the cemetery, visiting my grandfather's grave. and i was sitting there just enjoying the sights and sounds. trying to indulge in the moment. contemplating my grandfather and his life. contemplating myself and my own.

but my brother would not stop yapping and complaining about how long i was taking. i know he doesn't have anything pressing that demands his attention right now. he's always been this way. impatient and prone to boredom. he can't sit still and he can't be quiet. not for a moment it seems. again, he's been like this all my life.

and he is not a very bright person. probably the lowest-iq person in my family. and that's saying something. i still love him. he is my brother. but man! my god! these moments of peace and quiet are heavenly to me. i am rarely bored in my life. i am pleased to sit alone with my mind. there are worlds hidden within that still wait to be discovered.

and i mean it's not all bad. he is a very hard worker. he loves to work. he is a workaholic. he hates being idle. that's what he calls it. "idleness."

okay fair enough. i can respect that. but can't you respect my peace and quiet? my love of my idleness? i can work when i need to work. but i don't take much pleasure in being a human-ox. on the contrary, that is what bores me most. i take my pleasure in sitting awhile by the sea and thinking to myself. it's when i have my best ideas. it's like a moment when the muddied waters can settle and clarify. i cherish that.

[ladamedusoif]

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me: things have been really hard but I think I want to go back to tumblr more, I miss people on there and maybe my writer’s block will ease if i am more active

tumblr: passion and frivolity are more common in 20-something women actually and they’re the majority on here

me: well shit

ETA: please recognise that making a massive generalisation based on age is in fact ageism

[fiona-fififi]

"Just block."

Yeah, okay, no shit. But also, I have to SEE the shitty takes before I know to block them.

[marleysfinest]

typing out a little mental health wordvom because sometimes when u don’t take ur tablets for 6 days u get a little ✨spicy✨ and feel compelled to rant so. here I am mentally unloading sorry in advance

being the idiot that I am and having this accidental week off has reminded me why it’s so important to pay attention in the first place. I ignored the state of my mental health for a long time and tried to navigate my chemical imbalance using mindfulness and materialistic self-care alone. needless to say it did not work. do not do this, especially when you know there’s a bigger problem. I was formally diagnosed with anxiety and depression just over a year after I gave birth but should’ve paid attention to it way before that. even then I didn’t start taking it seriously until january ‘23 after a pretty severe breakdown following months of inconsistent medication taking. one thing I started doing - besides being strict and regimented with making sure I take my tablets - was acknowledging my “problem”. realising this is the hand I’ve been dealt and running with it, and actually building life including it rather than building my life around it. I chose to stop letting myself get in my own way and indulged in what makes me genuinely happy. I no longer drink to get drunk (in fact, I hardly drink at all). I’m honest and speak my mind. in acknowledging the fact that I have this imbalance and stopping ignoring it I’ve actually flipped myself around completely.

something that I think separates how I feel about it from the norm is that I do let my anxiety and depression define me. I don’t let it overtake me, and it is not all that I am, but it is part of who I am. denying that and putting it on the back burner has only ever harmed me, and so yes, it defines who I am as a person. I can’t remove it, but I don’t let it win. I don’t know if it’s right, but it works.

the broad conversation surrounding mental health is, I think, changing for the better, but I think we as individuals are obliged to take ownership of this conversation a little more. yes, we can applaud the celebrity that discusses their depression in terms of voluntarily not working for a while and the TV personality that manages their anxiety by cleaning. these are their experiences and they are more than valid. what I think (and this is just my opinion) is that we need to get a little ugly with it. I survive because I take 50mg of sertraline every day. yeah, I get a lot of mental peace from vacuuming my house and practicing mindfulness brings me calm more often than not, but I need antidepressants to live. that’s the long and short of it. I want to see these conversations. I want to know that people rely on antidepressants/anti-anxiety medication to get through the day. I want to know that people go to therapy. I want to know that this isn’t a “problem” we need to be quiet about and chip away at in private.

idk I guess I’m just trying to say I want to have hard conversations about mental health because doing this, even just having those hard conversations with myself, has made me want to be a better person. they have made me a better person, and if this can help even one other person it’s worth it. I luv u take ur medication

[cowboytarotcard]

Year anniversary of being broken up with btw. I guess I’m “over it” in the sense that I don’t cry every single day multiple times a day and have panic attacks over it constantly. I feel more stable in myself. But I still think of him constantly throughout every day and still love him as much as I always have. I don’t feel like every day I need to be trying to get him back. But I feel like I’m bettering myself and getting my shit together finally and I feel optimistic that we will at least be friends again in the future. I really can’t imagine my life without him and even if romance isn’t a part of it at all, I want him in my life again. It’s so unbelievably important to me but instead of wanting to kill myself over it I’m wanting to better myself and work to slowly find a place in his life again.