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i dont wanna get a surgery!! im healthy!! im a healthy person!!! my organs are all functioning properly!!!!!! what have i done to deserve getting a surgery?!?!?!?
#dont be concerned im just getting my wisdom teeth out#but i didnt even get lucky and only need two out i have all four and they all need out :(#what gives???#have i not had a cavity at almost every dentist appointment since i can remember?#have i not had to deal with getting said cavities filled every time even though i BRUSH MY TEETH??#did i not undergo 3ish years of the torture known as braces?#why more dental work and WHY A SURGERY????#i dont wanna go under anaesthetic and wake up two seconds later without teeth!!#i dont want a possibly week long recovery period!!!!!#this sucks!!!!!!#anyways dont worry about me just treating this webbed site as my own personal diary again#this is the culmination of a year long of knowing i need them out and having my appointment scheduled for friday#there is so much stress in my body and it makes me upset because this is a procedure most everyone (in the states) has to have and ive#gotten away with putting it off until my early 20s which is considered later than most anyway and if this happened in my teens i wouldve#just died about it and i have a better handle on my health anxiety now because i know it exists and gave it a name which is an improvement#venting#ugh#cloudy rambles
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︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ "unrealistic" things i manifested
keep in mind, nothing is unrealistic.. these are things people have told me are unrealistic before i manifested them !
1. dual citizenship; i didn't want to go through the process of having to get a temporary visa in my desired country, i also didn't want to get a "work permit" and stuff like that. i wanted to work and live there without any restrictions. so, i manifested dual citizenship.
2. dental repair: dental care is expensive and in all honesty i didn't want to get a temporary tooth replacement or veneers, so i manifested my tooth filling on its own. i spoke about this on earlier posts more in depth. i could've just manifested free dental care, but why when i can manifest perfect teeth!
3. changing my voice: i also spoke about this in earlier posts but i changed my entire voice, both speaking and singing.
4. changing my grades + college acceptance: i changed my grades from barely passing to meeting the standard for the college i wanted to go to. i also manifested getting into a college my guidance counsiler told me was "impossible" and discouraged me from applying to. on top of this, i manifested low tuition, a government grant and a free meal plan.
5. my girlfriend: people always say things like "the lesbian dating pool is horrible" and when i told my friends my ideal girlfriend they always said it was "unrealistic" or i need to "lower my standards". now they all talk about wanting a relationship like mine.. so remember, the dating pool is what you make it !
6. weightloss; "you can't loose weight without eff-"
*LOUD INCORRECT BUZZER*. i've lost half my body weight + changed my weight distribution without any surgery or diet. i eat so freely without worrying about weight gain and i did it in a very short amount of time. people always told me it would take at least a year & a few months to loose the weight i wanted to loose, i didn't give a fuck nor did i listen to them.
#loablr#manifestation#manifesation#manifesting sp#law of assumption#manifesting#loassumption#loa tumblr
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It's been announced that clinical trials for a potential tooth regrowth treatment are set to begin in July 2024, building on decades of research in the field. If those trials are successful, therapeutic drugs could be available by 2030. A team from the Medical Research Institute at Kitano Hospital in Japan is in charge of the trial, which is targeting people with anodontia, a rare genetic condition that prevents baby teeth and adult teeth from growing in the normal way. The treatment would initially target young children with the condition, but further down the line, the researchers think it could also be used more broadly – with people who have more common dental problems, such as gum disease, for example. "The idea of growing new teeth is every dentist's dream," Katsu Takahashi, head of the dentistry and oral surgery department at Kitano Hospital, told The Mainichi. "I've been working on this since I was a graduate student. I was confident I'd be able to make it happen." Here's how it works: having found a link between a specific gene called USAG-1 and limits on tooth growth in mice, the researchers then moved on to tests that tried to block the expression of USAG-1.
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Delirious
Lip Gallagher x reader fluff
Warning: A very soft and cuddly Lip Gallagher
(Thank you to @theitgirlnetwork for checking my work before I posted it 😅)
Enjoy!
You immediately shot up from the Gallagher’s couch when you heard the door click open and sighed with relief. They were finally home.
After a lot of annoying jabs from his siblings (some pleading from you), and the convenient dental insurance that his new job came with, Lip had finally decided to get his wisdom teeth out, and thank god too. He would never admit it, but it was starting to hurt like a bitch. It was just going to be a simple routine surgery, you knew he would be fine, but that still didn’t stop you from fidgeting and worrying all day. you had wanted to tag along but had been immediately turned down by Ian and Mickey who were picking him up from the dentist’s office, (Mickey would never miss an opportunity to see his brother-in-law hopped up on drugs and making an ass out of himself) they knew you would get upset and work yourself up. No matter how little of a dosage he would be on
Lip hadn’t wanted you to see him like that, so reluctantly, you stayed home.
“Alright, come on.” You walked over to help Ian who currently had Lip’s arm slung over his shoulder, struggling to get him inside. Mickey was following behind, phone in his hand recording with a smirk on his face.
“Hey, thanks for the help asshole” He glared at his boyfriend as he pulled his limp brother along.
“No problem.” Mickey smiled as he made a beeline for the kitchen.
“Is he okay?” you asked Ian as you gently pushed some of Lip’s curls back. He instantly melted into your touch as his eyes glazed over. He then reached over to grab your wrist and squeezed it affectionately. Well… that’s new. You thought as you squeezed back. It’s not that Lip wasn’t much for physical touch, in fact, once you started dating, he realized he preferred it, always choosing gentle kisses and soft touches (among other things) as his way of saying “I love you”, but public affection? Usually just a simple pull of your belt loop, or grazing of one anothers fingers would be the most on display.
Ian sighed as he wiped his forehead, “Yeah, he’s alright, just kinda’ out of it, the doctor said it should wear off in a bit, he should probably take his pills though.’’ You go to follow in pursuit, when a hand pulls you back down.
“Lip? You okay?” He responds by taking a piece of your hair and analyzing it with precision.
“I’ve seen you b’fore”
You giggle as you reach up to stroke his swollen cheeks, you decide, why not? Might as well take advantage of the situation before his stubborn pride comes back. “Yeah?”
“Yeah… you been around” he analyzes you once more, “You’re hot”
You can’t help but grin at his comment, although dumb, has you blushing like a schoolgirl. “Thank you, you’re not so bad yourself”. Ian entered the room with a glass of water and pills in his hand.
“Ian!” Lip whispers with no attempt at being quiet, “ook at er! She’s so hot! Isn’t she so hot?”
“Mhm, come on, you need to take this”
“She is so pretty!” Lip turns to you and boops your nose, “you’re ‘ust a pretty, pretty little lady-”
You lean in to cup his cheek and whisper. “Hey.. do you want to know something crazy?”
Lip, now absentmindedly playing with your fingers, whispers back to match your volume, “Yeah?”
“I’m your girlfriend”
“No!”
“Uh huh”
“I ont believe you”
“Would you like me to prove it to you?” Before you wait for an answer, you gently grab his chin, as he had done for you thousands of times, and place a long, sweet kiss on his lips. When you look back, he looks as though he could melt right there, in your hands. Usually you were the one that got flustered and awe-struck by Lip and his flirting, it was fun to be on the receiving end”
“You guys done?” Ian asked sardonically as he still stood in front of you, pills in hand.
“Jesus fuckin’ Christ Phillip, you’re such a pussy-wipped little bitch”
“Shut up Mickey”
Well, this would be a fun couple of hours.
#shameless#jeremy allen white#lip gallagher#lip gallagher x reader#lip gallagher fluff#lip gallagher x you#lip gallagher x y/n#shameless x reader#shameless x you#shameless fanfiction#masterlist
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poly!marauders ft. lily evans x reader (platonic?) dental office!au ★ 400 words
"It truly made my skin crawl."
You shuddered as you retold your coworkers about walking in on one of the doctor's more intense surgeries.
"That's why I work up here, where it's clean." Lily chirped, pumping hand sanitizer onto her freshly manicured hands, rubbing it in more than what was usually deemed necessary.
"Well not always, there was that one patient who's gums wouldn't stop bleeding over the counter-"
"Peter, please!" Lily gasped, hastily rummaging through her desk drawers to find her antibacterial wipes.
"C'mon Pete, you know how Lily feels about invasive periodontal surgeries." the office hygienist, James, strolls up to the front with his current patient. "Now let's get Phoebe scheduled for her next cleaning, please."
While your coworkers handled the scheduling, you followed James to the back to help the assistant clean the rooms for the upcoming patients.
"Hey sweet tooth," Sirius grinned at you, perfect canines on display. "Did you get all dolled up for me today?"
You rolled your eyes in return and helped pick up the trash in the room while he collected the used tools. "I'm wearing the scrubs as you are, Sirius."
"And you're making them look fantastic. Sexy, if I may."
"You may not. But, you may finish setting up room four, that root canal should be here any minute."
You shook your head with smile as he huffed and turned on his heel. Tossing the trash in the bin on the way to the break room, you see Dr. Lupin leaning against the counter with his eyes closed, fingers curled around his steaming mug of coffee.
"Still not awake, Remus?" you teased, opening your locker to replace your scrub top with your fuzzy jacket.
His eyes slowly peeled open, "I've done a root canal and two extractions already, with another root canal on the way."
You send him a sympathetic smile as you go to leave the break room, but James blocks the exit, insisting that you two just have to hear his new joke. Remus and you exchange amused glances before letting James continue.
"What's a dentist's favorite time of day?"
The hygienist looked back and forth between the two of you with the shiniest grin, leaning in as if to tell you his biggest secret.
"Tooth hurty. Get it? Two-th hurt-y. Like two-thirty? Why aren't you guys laughing? I worked on that all—"
"I'm going on my lunch."
#marauders#marauders era#marauders x reader#sirius black#james potter#remus lupin#peter pettigrew#lily evans#poly!marauders x reader#poly!marauders
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Help for dental revision surgery
Hi folks. This is the last thing I want to be doing again. The thought of having to reach out during this past hellish year of my life makes me sick to think about. But someone told me this is what a community is here for, to help when it is needed <3 Last year I was physically assaulted (related to transphobia and abuse) which resulted in me losing a front tooth and fracturing my jaw. Its was the most pain I physically had to go through and just in general this past year has really tested me. With all those medical bills is the reason why I fell so behind with rent an utilities, but with the help of a dear friend, @julykings and so many of YOU I made it out of that and have had a place to stay, which I can't thank you enough <3 I have been experiencing severe pain in my jaw again and went to go get it checked out last week. I've been told that my jaw has been shifting again, which will cause trouble with speaking, eating etc in the long run. So the terrible news is that I've been scheduled for revision surgery on the 20th of January. If I don't get the surgery my jaw and quality of day to day life will be in jeopardy. Since I don't have medical aid I have to pay out of pocket. In total the surgery will cost $2000, which makes me want to cry. Also because I live off the little freelance work I do while actively looking for a more stable job after being laid off last year. If at least a $1000 can be paid by the 20th I can go ahead with the surgery. I know I've asked a lot from this beautiful community and all the help has not gone unappreciative in the slightest. I truly do need help with this. I get emotional just thinking about all the support and love I've received. I was thinking of setting up a GoFundMe, but that didn't generate much the first time around when the assault happened. So if anyone has the means to spare a few dollars to help me get this surgery it will truly save me
Donate here PAYPAL or type in CaptainBabeville
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To the extent you feel comfortable sharing ofc - why do you need a mouth reconstruction? Is that something dental insurance doesn't cover?
Best of luck for your recovery <3
I have a combination of very weak enamel and furious teeth grinding. The combination meant that my teeth were sheered down until the enamel was gone. I was down to just the dentin underneath, which means my teeth were only going to start eroding faster. Multiple dental providers were saying that I was on track for dentures by fifty. I was super cold sensitive on one side, and I had a tooth pulled on the other side due to a botched root canal, which meant there was no way to comfortably chew many types of food. It was affecting what I’d choose to eat, and buddy I do NOT need more obstacles to eating. And just aesthetics-wise, my teeth’s appearance didn’t bother me enough to pay this much just for them to look better, but I didn’t love that they were permanently yellow and that my face was losing height due to how small my teeth were.
(I’m convinced my prosthedontist and my dental surgeon were both more bothered by the aesthetics of my mouth than I was. My surgeon literally said, “I bet you were pretty insecure about your teeth before this, right?” And I was like “ummmm not really?“ and he was like “really? I mean good! But please understand they look so much better.”)
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So I got gum surgery and a base for a dental implant installed several months ago, and now I’ve got temporary crowns in which are actually these connected blocks of teeth that I need special floss to take care of.
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They’re So Big and So White.
And tomorrow I get my permanent crowns which should look and feel like real teeth! And then after that I get fitted for a mouthguard to prevent me from wearing the new ones down to nubs as well. (You can use an over the counter mouth guard for grinding, which is what I was using while I was buying time to get my teeth fixed. I’m getting in custom fit in the hopes my jaw will be less sore when I wake up. Any mouthguard is better than no mouth guard if you’re a grinder though, trust me. Save yourself the enamel and the money.)
Speaking of money, I’ll be super blunt: in total, I paid about $8000 for the gum surgery and implant, and $36000 for almost entire mouth of new crowns (I’ve only got two original teeth left). Insurance covered a little over half the surgery fees and like $2k of the crowns. (My insurance will pay for up to 50% of the price of a crown every two years, and I need about twenty crowns all at once, so. Yeah.) I investigated going to Mexico or Canada to get the work done, but ultimately my dental situation is complicated enough to require coordination of multiple providers and regular check ups over many months. It was going to be to complicated to arrange that internationally, plus travel and lodgings, to be worth the diminishing amount of money I would save. I do think I could have gotten all this work done for cheaper, but I’m not sure if it actually would have been something I followed through on. And basically, the sooner I get this work done, the better in terms of face shape and teeth migration and all that, so I was like “fuck it let’s go,” so here we are. In twenty-four hours, I’ll have a brand new mouth.
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Hey everyone! In all the bad news going on right now, here's some good news! I'm scheduled for top surgery! I'm well aware that there's so many other more important things to donate to right now, which is why any funds I don't end up using to pay for the surgery costs will go towards ZaKa, a humanitarian organization that's been working hard to recover and identify the bodies of victims of war and all mass casualty events. This cause is really important to me, which is why the funds will go there.
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Summaries under the cut
Smile by Raina Telgemeier
Raina just wants to be a normal sixth grader. But one night after Girl Scouts she trips and falls, severely injuring her two front teeth, and what follows is a long and frustrating journey with on-again, off-again braces, surgery, embarrassing headgear, and even a retainer with fake teeth attached. And on top of all that, there’s still more to deal with: a major earthquake, boy confusion, and friends who turn out to be not so friendly. This coming-of-age true story is sure to resonate with anyone who has ever been in middle school, and especially those who have ever had a bit of their own dental drama.
Arc of a Scythe by Neal Shusterman
Thou shalt kill.
A world with no hunger, no disease, no war, no misery. Humanity has conquered all those things, and has even conquered death. Now scythes are the only ones who can end life—and they are commanded to do so, in order to keep the size of the population under control.
Citra and Rowan are chosen to apprentice to a scythe—a role that neither wants. These teens must master the “art” of taking life, knowing that the consequence of failure could mean losing their own.
Maximum Ride by James Patterson
Six unforgettable kids — with no families, no homes — are running for their lives. Max Ride and her best friends have the ability to fly. And that's just the beginning of their amazing powers. But they don't know where they come from, who's hunting them, why they are different from all other humans... and if they're meant to save mankind — or destroy it.
From the Mixed-Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler by E. L. Konigsburg
When Claudia decided to run away, she planned very carefully. She would be gone just long enough to teach her parents a lesson in Claudia appreciation. And she would go in comfort - she would live at the Metropolitan Museum of Art. She saved her money, and she invited her brother Jamie to go, mostly because he was a miser and would have money.
Claudia was a good organizer and Jamie had some ideas, too; so the two took up residence at the museum right on schedule. But once the fun of settling in was over, Claudia had two unexpected problems: She felt just the same, and she wanted to feel different; and she found a statue at the Museum so beautiful she could not go home until she had discovered its maker, a question that baffled the experts, too.
The Wind in the Willows by Kenneth Grahame
For more than a century, The Wind in the Willows and its endearing protagonists—Mole, Water Rat, Badger, and, of course, the incorrigible Toad—have enchanted children of all ages. Whether the four friends are setting forth on an exciting adventure, engaging in a comic caper, or simply relaxing by the River Thames, their stories will surprise and captivate you.
Hailed as one of the most enduringly popular works of the twentieth century, this story is a classic of magical fancy and enchanting wit. Penned in lyrical prose, the adventures and misadventures of the book’s intrepid quartet of heroes raise fantasy to the level of myth. Reflecting the freshness of childhood wonder, it still offers adults endless sophistication, substance, and depth.
Abhorsen by Garth Nix
Sent to a boarding school in Ancelstierre as a young child, Sabriel has had little experience with the random power of Free Magic or the Dead who refuse to stay dead in the Old Kingdom. But during her final semester, her father, the Abhorsen, goes missing, and Sabriel knows she must enter the Old Kingdom to find him.
The Westing Game by Ellen Raskin
A bizarre chain of events begins when sixteen unlikely people gather for the reading of Samuel W. Westing's will. And though no one knows why the eccentric, game-loving millionaire has chosen a virtual stranger—and a possible murderer—to inherit his vast fortune, one thing's for sure: Sam Westing may be dead ... but that won't stop him from playing one last game!
Gone by Michael Grant
In the blink of an eye, everyone disappears. Gone. Except for the young.
There are teens, but not one single adult. Just as suddenly, there are no phones, no internet, no television. No way to get help. And no way to figure out what's happened.
Hunger threatens. Bullies rule. A sinister creature lurks. Animals are mutating. And the teens themselves are changing, developing new talents—unimaginable, dangerous, deadly powers—that grow stronger by the day. It's a terrifying new world. Sides are being chosen, a fight is shaping up. Townies against rich kids. Bullies against the weak. Powerful against powerless. And time is running out: On your 15th birthday, you disappear just like everyone else...
Heidi by Johanna Spyri
Little orphan Heidi goes to live high in the Alps with her gruff grandfather and brings happiness to all who know her on the mountain. When Heidi goes to Frankfurt to work in a wealthy household, she dreams of returning to the mountains and meadows, her friend Peter, and her beloved grandfather.
The Neverending Story by Michael Ende
The story begins with a lonely boy named Bastian and the strange book that draws him into the beautiful but doomed world of Fantastica. Only a human can save this enchanted place by giving its ruler, the Childlike Empress, a new name. But the journey to her tower leads through lands of dragons, giants, monsters, and magic, and once Bastian begins his quest, he may never return. As he is drawn deeper into Fantastica, he must find the courage to face unspeakable foes and the mysteries of his own heart.
#best childhood book#poll#smile#arc of a scythe#maximum ride#from the mixed up files of mrs basil e frankweiler#the wind in the willows#abhorsen#the westing game#gone#heidi#the neverending story
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A collection of my Asa Emory headcanons [PART 1]: Shit he does to his body and his stupid bodily quirks <3
I need y'all to see the version of Asa in my mind :3
RULE OF THUMB: Asa is autistic. I do not take criticisms on this.
Asa bites his lips a lot, peeling off the skin of his bottom lip, either by biting or picking with his hand in general. He does so because he is either bored, anxious, or stimming. It goes to a point where his lip would bleed, and scars, which causes little black spots to form on his bottom lip. --
His teeth is slightly crooked. A bit yellow too. But his dental hygiene is on point, he flosses everyday, and does everything he can to avoid having to go to the dentist. Because the idea of some stranger digging around in his mouth makes him anxious. I think he was afraid of going to the dentist as a child and it persisted until adulthood, which is why he didn't get braces for his crooked teeth. But I think he also applies that fear by inficting it on his victims instead, because even HE thinks it's scary. --
His eyes look like that due to a birth defect. He was blind for the first few years of his life, which made his hearing develop way more than the average person. Even after the surgery, his vision is still affected and he has to wear aiding eye-contacts to see properly, or else everything would just be blurry to him. Sometimes trade the contacts for prescription glasses. --
Asa smokes, sure, but he doesn't do it often. He'd mostly have one or two cigs during long periods of working/planning. You won't catch him smoking anywhere else that isn't the hotel, his home, or behind the university at night. --
Asa doesn't like being seen/watched while he's eating. Asa has a weird relationship with eating i guess. He hates eating in the presence of people who he doesn't trust. He thinks the sight of his chewing makes him look clumsy, or "not up the image he made for himself" infront of the people who looks up to him (or afraid of him). --
Which is why bro fucking eats his lunch in his car during lunchbreaks at the university. God forbid you dare find him while he's chewing on his food, he might just put you in the collection for that reason alone. --
Stims very quietly, usually goes unnoticed. He'll stim by flicking his tongue inside his mouth, or does light tapping with his hand under the table, wriggling his toes also works. When he gets happy and needs to stim, he'd just stare into the distance with a fuckass smile on his face, before walking around aimlessly. He'd try to make sense of the walking by sitting down, and try to do something, but would end up getting up to walk around again. Rinse and repeat until the excitement fades. --
Hates sudden and/or prolonging loud noises. --
Asa loves the rain, but absolutely hates the sound of it. If it gets too loud, he's putting on ear muffs. But due this hatred, it makes it very hard for him to drive home during rainstorms bc the sound of rain is amplified in his car. So usually he'd choose between waiting for the rain to calm down; Ask someone to drive him home so he can have his earmuffs on during the ride; If it's at the university, he'd just sleep in his office. (Asa has a stash of his stuff in his office at the univeristy, just in case he has to stay there overnight) --
Absolutely has a 2nd job or does some shady shit at the side. Because I refuse to believe he has the money to afford all that gear, resources, materials and drugs for his Collection, with a Uni Prof's salary. (His pest control business might be a front for money laundering lmao /j) --
At night, while it rains, Asa would brew Jasmine tea before bed to help him sleep. --
Light sleeper. Will literally wakes up to anything that sounds out-of-place. He also sleeps straight like a log, hands on stomach and all. God forbid he has a stuffy nose or else he'll snore for the neighbors to hear. --
He eats primarily simple, easy and and quick-to-make food due to his... busy schedule *cough*. This also includes frozen dinners, takeouts and left-overs. But he tries to cook at home whenever he can. --
Asa only visit a specific restaurant for a specific dish, he will not order anything else, nor would he go to any other restaurant for that dish. He can taste it whenever the recipe for the dish changes, to which he will evaluate and decide whether he should stick to the same restaurant for that dish anymore. --
He judges a restaurant based on their mashed potatoes. I will not elaborate. --
Asa likes mushroom cream soup :3 --
Fav flavour of ice-cream is pistachio :3 --
It is also mentioned in an interview ( I can't fucking find it yet ) that Asa is a coffee snob, so I won't be surprised if he wakes up at 5AM just to make his morning coffee to perfection. --
His hands aren't as smooth as one like to think. They feel a bit sandy and rough. Stiff. You need to slightly squeeze in order to feel the squishiness of his flesh. This is primarily due to his exposure to chemicals, and all the disinfectant damaged some of his skin. --
Sleeper build. He may look stocky and a bit blurby, but he got good muscles under all that fat hehe. All that hauling and carrying and running and killing and torturing people leaves him exercised enough lol --
Nature, history, science,... documentaries are his go-tos, he'd even listen to some podcasts or audiobooks about them as he works on other projects. Currently subscribed to AntsCanada on Youtube. --
His guilty pleasure is watching shitty reality TV shows and judging the contestants' skills. --
Hypochondriac. He especially does not want to die from a random stroke. --
Hygiene must be on point. He shaves regularly, but his bush does get kinda crazy. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE STOP HIM FROM ERASING HIS HAPPY TRAIL PLEA- --
Asa dresses like his father. He doesn't want to admit it, nor does he realize it, but he dresses like his father. Denims, jeans, trousers and old dress shirts... His style hasn't changed much over the years. Because it is the "appropriate" style for men like him to wear, apparently. One of the few clothing items he ever strays away from that dress-code is his signature turtleneck. He has like 6 of them in the same color. --
His daily life is a constant carousel of tasks he NEEDS to get done. They don't have to be on time, they just need to be done. Or else he'd get very upset. One can say that his life is motivated by tasks. Once he ran out of tasks to do, he'd just make up one to distract himself. Even resting, is a task. Because he knows if he doesn't choose a time to rest, his body will do it for him. One can even say that Asa is dependent on these tasks to keep going, or do things "on time". For example: He wakes up at 5AM on the weekends, because there are plants that NEEDS HIM to water them. And because of these plants, he is able to wake up at 5AM on the weekends. --
Gets hurt more than he'd like to admit. But most of the time it's just small injuries or cuts, or him bumping into something. Nothing too dangerous. He knows how to keep himself safe from the maze he built at the hotel and avoid all the neccessary attacks from his victims, and that's enough. --
His favourite weekend activity is catching, pinning new INSECT specimens, and visiting the local museum- which he had already visited hundreds of times, and can recite most of the descriptions word for word. --
He gets jealous of the families outside his window sometimes. Whenever he sees them, he'd just draw the curtains close. --
He lives in the same house his family was murdered in. (Buying a house??? in this economy???) He just renovated the first floor, the 2nd floor is almost untouched. He sleeps in his parents' old bedroom. His sibling's bedroom got turned into storage. His childhood bedroom is behind a bookshelf. The layout is the same, but he moved the kitchen and livingroom to a different area. He can still recall where he saw his mother's and sibling's body laid. He put storage boxes and crates over those spots.
That's all i can remember for now lmaooo, might come back from time to time to update it :333 -More parts abt other aspects of Asa coming... soon >:)
#rottingcitrus#slasher#slashers#asa emory#the collector#the collector 2009#the collection 2012#headcanon#headcannons#writing
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Joseph’s dental surgery
Joseph had long wondered how long he could go without brushing his teeth, unbeknownst to him he would soon find out in a “routine” visit to a new dental clinic in his town after his previous one had closed down some years prior, they didn’t look horrendous- to him- of course most others opinions would vary from bad to worse. as it happened his appointment was scheduled to be the last of the day- this was because they knew of his attempting to avoid brushing as long as possible. The time finally came for him to go over, the building it was in was very nice, new, sterile feeling as many doctors offices are- part of the reason he picked this facility was their offering general anesthesia for dental phobia patients among other things he was not a fan of dental work done to him. He walked up to the door opened it and was greeted by Suzie the busty brunette receptionist wearing pastel blue scrubs and a scrub cap
Hi you must be Joe ❤️ she chimed
yeah that’s me, here for my appointment with Dr Grace Wheeler.
I’ll let them know youre here
I sat down in one of the tiny chairs and picked up an old magazine to flip through and before long they came for him.
“Hello, Joe “Dr Wheeler greeted and retrieved him personally wearing her wine red scrubs and glasses framing her face under her dirty blonde hair tucked in a cap.
those scrubs are cute Joe said
“Thanks, you won’t be seeing them much though!”
”Why would that be?”
you’ll see, come on back with me, gotta get you ready for your sleep!
“That’s why, I’ll be asleep, alright” I follow her down a long hallway with doors lining each side of the hallway until we arrive at the last one which looks different from the others!
I see some a teal gown, purple cap and blue grippy socks on the big navy blue debtal surgery table with a cup shaped headrest with a loaded mayo stand next to it full of tools and supplies but covered with a green towel. Next to it, a quite advanced looking large anesthesia machine
Just undress and put those clothes on and leave your belongings in this bin please! I’ll be back shortly!
I started to undress all the way and put on the patient attire before sinking into the immense surgery table awaiting my sleep
Then Dr Wheeler came back this time with 2 scrubbed-in figures in tow, they were wearing pale green gowns, blue, full head hoods and white tie-on surgical masks. you could tell they were women, busty at that.
“oohhh, is it time?”
I make myself still on the table, arms on the armrests, as one grabs a wipe and wipes his arm, before sticking a needle in and attaching a bag of saline to the new port in the crook of my elbow.
Then the other one grabs a big fluffy blanket and puts it over me , securing straps over my torso down to my feet.
“We don’t want you falling out now, do we?” Wheeler says, now dressed similarly to her helpers in a green gown, white mask and dark purple gloves
time to sleep you hear as a scrubbed figure places a mask over your face, at first it tastes normal but quickly you feel the flow change and become more chemical smelling, we’re just giving you some nitrous now, as she loads a syringe into your port filled with a strange white liquid
“this may burn or sting slightly”
she was right and soon in addition the back of your throat tasted a bit coppery, before long your vision began to blur as well.
you’re falling down so good, joe, keep falling ❤️ only a matter of time now!
pretty soon what was left of your vision finally faded out and you were in a state of anesthesia.
alright, he’s out , ladies get to work
the mask was renoved from your face then the restraints on your lower body loosened before your legs were moved into the frog pose and your groin shaved and wiped with warm water then painted with betadine followed by a syringe of sterile lubricant injected into your urethra and a catheter placed before the blanket and restraints were replaced.
While that was happening a nasotracheal tube was being introduced into your right nostril, and attached to the ventilator to keep you under and a ring mouth-gag sewn in place simultaneously, before a tube of opthalmic ointment was squirted over each of your corneas and they were sealed with surgical dressings then green towels were placed around your mouth and secured around the tube to keep it in place followed by the mayo stand being wheeled to hang over your insensate body and your chair was raised to just over 4ft off the ground before one of the assistant’s began painting the lower portion of your face with antiseptic, then placed a throat pack with the surgical clamps.
Now it was time to work, Dr Grace Wheeler made quick work of your full clearance, removing each tooth individually before leveling the bone along your gumline with the piezoelectric grinder and sewing your new gums shut, who knows you might just learn a thing or two from being toothless now
hope you all like this story, i wrote it in one take, i know the grammar a d whatnot aren’t all there but the concept sure is
#anesthesia#intubated#surgery#medfet#surgeon#intubatedlover#female surgery#medical equipment#anesthesia mask#intubation#dental surgery#tooth extractions#dental implants
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Nikolai: Look, Sasha, who's that? Is it Grandma?
Alexander: *squeals*
Elena: You used to make that same noise whenever your Grandpa came home from work, Kolya. You always got excited to see him.
Nikolai: I'm not sure if I should be embarrassed or amused by that
Elena: Amused. It's much better for your mental health.
Alexander: *happy noises*
Elena: Come here, Sasha. Let Grandma give you a cuddle.
Nikolai: Thanks for agreeing to take him.
Elena: I should be thanking you. I get to close the shop tomorrow and spend the entire day with my grandbaby.
Nikolai: You're going to close the shop? Where are Deb and Rose?
Elena: Debbie is on holiday with her husband, and Rose had dental surgery yesterday, so she's taking a few days off. I do give my employees personal time, you know.
Nikolai: I never assumed you didn't. This is going to inconvenience your customers though, isn't it?
Elena: Any more than you staying home tomorrow is going to inconvenience everyone at the rink? They'll survive a little inconvenience.
Nikolai: Okay, point made.
Elena: Silly Daddy, worrying about inconveniencing people. Everyone knows the world revolves around you, don't they, Sasha?
Nikolai: I'm pretty sure he does think that, actually.
Elena: As he should. Have you packed his bag yet?
Nikolai: No, not yet. I kinda had my hands full with Mishka, and I was busy making Sasha's formula for you. Oh, he should eat before he goes, speaking of that. When I got home, he and Mishka were both passed out on the couch, so I have no idea when Mishka last fed him. He's probably starving.
Elena: I'll feed him.
Nikolai: Thanks. Would you mind packing his bag too?
Elena: Of course.
Nikolai: Mishka made you a list, although you probably don't need it.
Elena: I'll look at it, since he went to the trouble of making it. Then you can tell him I checked off everything on it.
Nikolai: Thank you. He'll appreciate that. He's really worried about being away from Sasha for the night.
Elena: That's not surprising. I was beside myself the first time I left you and your sister overnight. Grandpa took good care of you, but that didn't stop me from wanting to burst into tears every time I thought about how much you might be missing me.
Nikolai: So, it's normal? Mishka isn't overreacting because of his anxiety?
Elena: Well, I can't say if he's overreacting or not since I haven't seen him, but if you're asking if it's scary to leave your baby with your in-laws overnight for the first time, then the answer is yes. No matter how much you love and trust them, they're not your parents and there's bound to be a tiny bit of doubt.
Nikolai: I never thought of it like that. I guess that explains why I'm not as worried as him.
Elena: That, and you've always been fairly unflappable. It must be hard for little Mishka, not having his own mother here.
Nikolai: I think so. He talks to her almost every day, but it's not the same as being close by. She's coming to see us before the end of the summer though, and I think Vika is coming with her too, so that'll be good for him.
Elena: And for this little one as well. Your babushka is going to travel a very long way to meet you, Sasha, and I know she's going to fall in love with you.
Nikolai: I hope she does. I got the impression she's really coming for Mishka, not for Sasha or me. She's not a huge fan of mine, and neither her nor Dr. Vasiliev are particularly thrilled by the whole science baby situation.
Elena: Dr. Vasiliev? You don't call your father-in-law by his name?
Nikolai: You met him at our wedding. Would you call him Ivan?
Elena: You're asking the wrong person. You know I would, if for no other reason than to knock some of the pride out of him.
Nikolai: I don't think I'm as brave as you. The man intimidates me.
Elena: Don't let him do that. He may not like you, but he doesn't have the right to intrude on your happiness, or to impose his opinions on your family. If he's not pleased with Mishka's choices, that's entirely his problem. You and Mishka are grown men, and you don't need anyone's permission or approval to create the life you want for yourselves.
Nikolai: I... yeah. I'm not going to tell him that.
Elena: If I ever see him in person again, I might. If we can embrace little Mishka and welcome him as part of our family, the least your father-in-law can do for you is have the courtesy to respect you.
Nikolai: Remind me never to get on your bad side.
Elena: Don't worry. I can't even imagine what you'd have to do for that to happen.
Nikolai: I know I don't say this enough, but I'm really glad you're my mother.
Elena:That goes both ways, and it goes for Mishka too. I'm honestly glad to call him my bonus child, and I'm especially glad we have this little man. Your father and I don't even care about that science lab business. As far as we're concerned, Sasha is perfect. How you and Mishka had him doesn't change anything.
Nikolai: That means a lot.
Elena: It's the truth.
Elena: There we go, little man. You're all done with your late dinner. Can you burp?
Nikolai: You should probably have a towel or something. He spits up a lot.
Elena: Grandma doesn't mind a little spit. That's what the washing machine is for.
Nikolai: You think Grandma can teach Daddy how to have a stronger stomach? The first time he spit up on me, let's just say he wasn't the only one doing it.
Elena: *laughing* You didn't tell me that before.
Nikolai: It was a little embarrassing to admit. Mishka's like you, though. It doesn't seem to bother him, and he doesn't use a towel on his shoulder either.
Elena: It gets easier, I promise. Here, why don't you wash his face, and then maybe you can hang out with your father for a bit while I pack his bag.
Nikolai: Okay.
Mike: You were in there for a long time.
Nikolai: Sorry about that. Sasha had to eat, and Mama wanted to feed him, so I just stayed in there to talk. You could've came in too, if you wanted to.
Mike: It's fine. The cats were keeping me entertained.
Nikolai: They're not very good conversationalists.
Mike: Neither am I, so it worked out.
Nikolai: You shouldn't underestimate yourself. Being shy doesn't mean you have nothing to talk about.
Mike: Have I ever told you how much like your grandfather you are? That sounds like something he'd tell me.
Nikolai: Being told I'm like Grandpa is a compliment.
Mike: That's how I meant it. What's your mother still doing in Sasha's room, by the way? I thought you'd both be done in there.
Nikolai: She's putting some stuff together for him. I didn't have a chance to do it before you guys got here. Mishka needed me, and I was kind of frazzled trying to figure out how to do all the things by myself.
Mike: I guess it's a good thing that we're running off with the grandbaby, then.
Nikolai: As long as you bring him back.
Mike: You know your mother. She'd keep him forever if she thought she could get away with it.
Nikolai: She could, but then she'd have to keep Mishka too. It took some convincing for him to let you take Sasha for the night. If you don't bring him back tomorrow afternoon, I wouldn't put it past Mishka to come looking for him, sick or not.
Mike: We'll bring him back. If Mishka isn't feeling better by tomorrow evening, maybe your mother can stay here with you for a couple of days instead.
Nikolai: Could you manage by yourself? Like, with meals and everything?
Mike: Probably not, but you have a kitchen. I'd just come here to eat.
Nikolai: Why don't you just come and stay as well? That'd make more sense.
Mike: Well, if you insist...
Nikolai: *laughing*
Alexander: *giggling*
Mike: Did he just laugh too?
Nikolai: Yeah, he's been doing that for about a week now. He does it when he sees somebody he likes. Mishka, me, Beth-Anne... He goes wild when he sees Beth-Anne.
Elena: *from the doorway* Look what Grandma has, Sasha! It's your overnight bag.
Alexander: *excited squeaking*
Mike: I guess the sleepover is already off to a good start.
Nikolai: Sasha, you be good for Grandma and Grandpa, okay? Don't give them too much trouble. Papa and I will see you tomorrow.
Mike: Don't worry. We'll look after him, and I'm sure he won't give us any problems.
Nikolai: I know you'll take good care of him. We're going to miss him, that's all.
Elena: We'll call you in the morning so you can say hello. And you tell Mishka not to worry. He can FaceTime me as much as he wants.
Nikolai: I'll suggest he tries to keep the FaceTime calls to a reasonable amount.
Elena: What did I just say, Nikolai? As often as he wants. I don't want him to feel like he can't check in. That's not going to help him learn to trust us, is it? Better for him to call me twenty times to assure himself I'm taking care of his baby as well as he could than to give him a reason to think we don't want him to know what we're up to.
Nikolai: I guess you're right.
Elena: Of course I'm right. Eventually, Mishka won't be so upset about being away from Sasha, but you have to let him work up to that point. You shouldn’t rush him into anything.
Mike: Like all those kids you teach. You wouldn’t rush them.
Nikolai: Mishka isn’t a kid.
Elena: No, but all of this is new to him.
Nikolai: It’s new to me too.
Elena: It is, but he’s not as resilient as you. I think you imagine risks are like speed bumps. For him, I’d say he sees them more like mountains, and you’re going to need to let him climb at his own pace.
#ts4#sims 4#brindleton bay#nikolai pavlenko#alexander pavlenko#elena pavlenko#mikhail pavlenko#stargazersims
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They identified the body by her dental records. Her bag was full of them.
"Well, she was definitely some kind of dentist." Detective Sidwell dropped the copies back to the desk. "That should make the identification easier."
"Dr Jane Doe." Sidwell's colleague, Detective Lita, was inspecting the other crime scene photographs. The gory ones. "With a nice big cavity, it seems - carved right in the middle of her chest. She bled out all over the place, although she'd probably say that's because she didn't floss."
"What are we thinking for our suspects?" Sidwell asked, ignoring the jokes. One of them had to stay professional, to focus on the job at hand - and somehow that burden always seemed to fall to him. "A colleague? Patient?"
"No, it looks pretty frenzied to me."
"I'm serious."
Lita took a moment to think it through. "I don't see it, to be honest. I know people hate going to the dentist, but not to the point of murder. In fact, I'll bet you it's nothing to do with her job at all. Dentists can get stabbed for the same reasons as anybody else, right? A fight over her love-life, a mugging gone wrong, heading down the wrong alley at the wrong time, that sort of thing."
"I'll take that action," Sidwell said, holding her to the bet. Professionalism had its merits, but the job could get pretty bleak if they didn't find their own ways to keep things light. "What's your wager? Buy me a coffee?"
"Sure, you can pick me up a latté from the new place downtown." Lita smiled her crooked smile, her teeth stained brown from coffees past. No sugar, though. I wouldn't want to be disrespectful."
With his compensation agreed, Sidwell knuckled down to work on the case. He knew he'd need to do the lion's share of the investigation, as he always did, and the bets were a way of getting something out of it. Or motivating Lita to put a shift in, when it looked like things weren't going her way. She wasn't often too focused on following up leads, but could roll her sleeves up when a bet was in the balance.
Theirs was an unusual partnership, and certainly not an equal one. Lita's lack of professionalism extended far beyond the jokes, and Sidwell often felt that she was less of a help than a liability. He was left to follow up forensics requests she'd forgotten to send, rewrite notes which she'd misplaced on the landfill site that she called a desk, and generally carry her through the working day.
She sometimes apologised, or thanked him with a drink, but showed no sign of trying to be better. Even on this case, charged with catching a murderer, she seemed disinterested in the details. A savaged corpse was enough motivation for Sidwell to chase down every suspect, and he wondered what exactly it would take to capture Lita's attention in the same way. If even this case failed to move her, he didn't understand why she'd wanted to become a cop in the first place.
"Tell me again," Lita asked. "You think she was some sort of orthodontist?"
"A rogue one, according to these reports. She messed up people's teeth intentionally, just so they wouldn't match their dental records. That's why she had so many in her bag. It looks like some local crime ring hired her to sort out their goons, so that they'd never be identified if they were killed."
It had been a tough one for Sidwell to get his head around - it felt like getting laser eye surgery to make yourself more short-sighted, or asking a plastic surgeon to add more wrinkles to your forehead, but it did seem to make sense from the perspective of a killer. If teeth could be reshaped at will, anybody on the system could be fitted with a brand new set, removing any prospect of a match. It was certainly easier than having to dissolve them.
He hadn't realised how often the police relied upon dental records to identify bodies - especially those who'd been disposed of carefully, with the rest of the face disfigured and hands removed - or quite how malleable those patterns were. It was like if there was a whole industry for designer fingerprints or DNA, shaping perfect whorls and helixes, and the state still treated them like unique identifiers. How many past matches had they missed because of Jane Doe's meddling? Even she could be on their database somewhere, hidden behind an unrecognisable overbite.
"A heterodontist, if you will." Lita brought him back to the present.
"No."
"I didn't realise the mob had a dental plan. So what are we thinking? One of the grunts saw their disappearance coming, and swung by to give her a stainless steel filling?"
"This feels like a professional hit. Maybe the higher-ups, if she knew too much. But either way, this isn't just a random attack, right? She's not been murdered for something unrelated to all those murders she helped to cover up. You have to concede that would be too big of a coincidence."
"Yeah, yeah, I know what you're saying," she conceded, hands up in mock surrender. "I'll buy you your drink. Where do you want to go?"
Even then she dragged her feet. Lita made him wait outside whilst she went back to get her jacket, then spilt his coffee at the first attempt and had to go back to the counter to replace it. Sidwell might think her a sore loser, if she wasn't like this about literally everything. Even when he finally had the cup in his hand, he suspected that she'd somehow got his order wrong.
"What's in this drink?" He recoiled at the first sip, but went back for a second. It wasn't unpleasant, exactly - just unexpected. Notes of almond, and something he couldn't quite place. "You just asked for normal milk, right?"
She shook her head. "I added a couple of shots. You deserve a little treat."
"That's not going to be good for my teeth."
"I'm sure our victim will forgive you." Lita grinned, as if to prove his point. "You're the one who was right about her, so you're allowed a little indulgence."
Sidwell tried to be polite, to set an example to her as much as anything. No wonder she'd been at the counter for longer than usual. The coffee wasn't awful, if he ignored the other flavours. Was this what she went for every day? He wondered if the sugar was to blame for her performance, which alternated from erratic to lethargic, like a hyper child who crashed in the afternoons.
Lita watched him drink in silence for a while, then seemed to find the courage for a question.
"Do you think that I'm incompetent?"
Sidwell weighed it up - probably for a second too long. So this was why she'd wanted them to grab a drink together, one way or another. She needed to talk about her career, away from the precinct. "I wouldn't use that word."
"So what word would you use?" she pressed. "Competent?"
"Well... okay, maybe not. Sorry."
Lita nodded. "No, that's good to hear. It'll work on the next guy."
"Huh? Are you transferring from the squad?" Sidwell tried to feign dismay, but knew that she'd always been the better liar. "Is this goodbye?"
"Sure," she said. "Call it a leaving drinks."
"You don't want something?" He gestured with his cup before another deep sip. "Gods, this is potent stuff."
"Only the best for my old partner." She sat back, watching him with something almost like nostalgia in her eyes. "A way of apologising, I suppose. How many of our cases have I delayed, or outright obstructed?"
"Oh, I wouldn't say obstructed," Sidwell told her, trying to find something nice to say. The truth was that she'd often been as much a hindrance as a help, and he'd be glad to get a better partner in her place. "That suggests that you were doing it on purpose. You were just... there's a lot to learn. I'm sure that you've always tried your best."
"That's right," Lita said, although she didn't seem too worried about it. "And if criminals profited from my mistakes, even the failed prosecutions, that's just because I was learning the ropes."
"Yes, I'm sure it's something like that." It didn't sound great when she said it. They were supposed to be detectives. Not for the first time, Sidwell wondered how she'd earnt such a sacred responsibility, or why she'd even wanted it. "But that's why you have a partner. To support you."
"Like you've almost solved this dentist case, all on your own."
"Almost, yeah."
"And you're sure it was a professional hit, from the group she did the work for? There's nothing I say that can persuade you otherwise?"
"I'm sorry, but no," Sidwell said. "You can check out the other angles if you like, and I'd never dissuade you from doing so, but I'm pretty convinced by my current leads. Why, do you know anything you haven't shared?"
"Of course not," Lita said, lying through her crooked teeth. Had he ever noticed quite how bad they were? "You've won me over. That's why we're here, right? I'm sure your theory is correct, and you'll get their names in due course. You just enjoy the rest of your drink to celebrate. Like I said, you deserve it - every last sip."
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Above all else it should be universally acknowledged that pregnancy is an injury you never fully recover from
After you give birth you have a dinner plate sized wound inside of you.
Your pelvic floor never ever recovers. Pelvic floor therapy helps but can never fully restore your strength, and it gets worse and worse with each vaginal delivery.
You experience incontinence, painful sex, weaker/fewer/no orgasms and pleasure
It's not uncommon for your vagina to literally tear apart during delivery (this is made worse w/ western medical practices that make women lay down on their backs, which is not the optimal way to give birth vaginally)
And C sections are a whole other issue b/c C sections are intense abdominal surgeries where the nerves that connect to the clitoris and the sensitive areas inside the vagina and on the vulva are all in the line of fire and can be severed. If that happens to you then you're just plain SOL! This can be improved w/ further research into bodies that can give birth, but point being that being cut open like a fish should not be considered an acceptable alternative.
Also it's very common to get gum disease, cavities, and other dental issues due to morning sickness and the fact that your body is literally siphoning calcium from your teeth (and your bones!)
There's a reason why in so many religions and cultures pregnancy and childbirth are considered women's punishment for being mischievous, stupid, etc. And then take into account how common it is to die in childbirth. Ancient peoples were more in touch with and honest about the brutality of this and their societies wielded it to men's advantage
And because of all of this, there is a part of me that believes you have to be sorta kinda evil to inflict this upon someone else. Looking at it without cultural baggage, how is it any different from beating someone to a pulp?
So why is only ~50% of the population capable of pregnancy and childbirth? Well it's evolutionarily advantageous to have different types of bodies that do different things, esp. Something as risky and lethal as childbirth, because less death is pretty much always a good thing. That's really truly the only reason, but as per usual humans have mythologized it in a million ways, none of them accurate or helpful.
Its important to know that pre-agricultural humans didn't have dozens of kids, and that pregnancy and childbirth were made significantly less miserable by the lack of misogyny and the fact that after you were done breastfeeding you were no longer the primary caretaker of that child. Remember this was before children were legally considered property. Add to that the fact that ppl have been pulling out & tracking their cycles since forever. These are not super effective methods of contraception but they do work a certain percentage of the time.
Interestingly pregnancy, childbirth, and motherhood are almost never radicalizing experiences for women, (though they should be), but rather women often sink deeper into the clutches of oppression. They think they are better for having endured this because that's the only way they can rationalize why it happened. Looking at the situation logically women's quality of life decreases in every single meaningful way during pregnancy and motherhood.
The reasons women as a class are in such denial over this are multifaceted but imo it basically comes down to women and girls not being afforded enough accessible opportunities in society to actually make something of themselves whereas getting pregnant is very accessible (most can do it) and getting pregnant and being pregnant cost no money theoretically. This is most obvious when you examine the phenomenon of teenage pregnancy, where the girls who seemingly enthusiastically give birth to and raise their children (as opposed to getting abortions or giving the baby up for adoption) are pretty much universally impoverished, socially ostracized, not high achievers, come from dysfunctional or abusive families, and end up spending their lives addicted to substances and/or the attention of men and/or their child(ren).
Then there is the fact that pretty much everybody has been abused or traumatized during their upbringing (women especially, because little girls are lightning rods for the violence of the family and patriarchy) and consciously or not relish in the idea of unleashing that onto someone more vulnerable because that is the only way they know how to process what theyve been through. For women, motherhood is the easiest way to accomplish this, because the opportunities afforded to men to achieve this same goal are typically less accessible. I really believe that being a parent (the way we define being a parent currently, not simply reproducing) is similar to being a cop in that it's a role that exists for the sole purpose of committing abuse and maintaining oppression
Tldr abolish the family and invest all time money and other resources into artificial wombs now!
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Well. Fuck.
Pumpkin has had a few days off his medication and his overgrooming has started back up again. Just as bad as before.
Good God I can't go through all this again. I just can't.
Long rant below the cut
There is something wrong with what they did during his surgery. There has to be something that went wrong - did they damage a nerve? Damage a bone? Left tooth in there? Damaged his throat? I have no idea - and neither do they!! Every time they look in his mouth they're like ??? It looks fine???
It's clearly not fine or he wouldn't be stressed out to the point of overgrooming !!
Last time she was fairly confident that it's just where his bottom fangs (the last two teeth in his whole mouth) were catching on his top lip. But it's been months and he's still not used to it??? I thought cats were adaptable with those kinds of things???
Did they not anticipate that happening when they left those as the only teeth????
I wish they'd have just taken the entire lot. But she said that they can't take healthy teeth from the bottom jaw or they risk fracturing it. Okay so now he's just going to have chronic pain for the rest of his life??? Cool cool cool
That's the thing that's bothering me so bad is that he's clearly in pain with SOMETHING and nobody knows what. It just means he can't meow without being bothered by it, can't wash without being bothered by it, can't drink without being bothered by it. He eats okay, but he drops a lot of the meat as he's "chewing".
What am I supposed to do????? I don't know what to do.
The gabapentin he was on before isn't a long term solution. (And it was £60 for a month!!!)
He can't keep going back and forth to the vets all the time, that was adding to his stress. And I literally work in a coffee shop - I already have to pay a lot for the only cat litter he'll use, his special easily digestible food, the monthly refill of his calm diffuser, pet insurance, his flea and worming pet plan..... I can't afford much more. I'm already in the red each month, I can't add another bill to that.
What's the solution here??? Do I demand that they do a proper investigation under anaesthetic?? (Which will cost a few hundred pounds, not covered by insurance because it's dental) or do I try out some different anti anxiety medication???
I don't know what to do
I can't watch this little thing suffer and pull his fur all out again. I can't do it, it hurts me so so badly to see him so agitated and clearly hurting and not be able to do a thing about it.
I usually don't care that I live alone - I thrive on it most of the time, I'm quite a solitary creature - but this is one of those rare occasions that I am craving just one other person here right now to help me out with this.
Regardless of anything else there's at least one more vet visit I'll have to do to get something to keep him from ripping out all his fur. The vet said they would think of something less intense than gabapentin if he started up again but they'll have to examine him again first. Yay
Tooth extraction for cats is such a routine operation why has it gone so wrong it's not fair
#literally sat here crying at 1.30am because he's pulling his fur out again and even if I try to stop him he just reaches around my hand#he's like a cat possessed#if he cant reach the bit Im trying to stop him from ripping out he'll just move onto a different patch#or pull at his claws#he just won't stop#he chews on his own mouth and flicks out his tongue terribly when he's meowing and it's so sad to watch#they broke my cat and I don't know how to get him back. or if I even can#pie says personal stuff#pumpkin the cat
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Here is an update on my cat's medical situation. I have technically raised enough money for the higher end of the vet's estimate (near 900$) for his dental surgery. But I do not know how much his aftercare will cost, and I also know I will need to buy him softer food for the rest of his life- so I would also like to try to raise a little more money for his long term care. His blood test came back normal so they are ready for him to come in for surgery on April 19.
This is my current list of commissions, if you are not on this list and believe there to be a mistake please contact me! https://docs.google.com/document/d/162m7HWXDG8QqifAHc-6P7x5l9rN9FCjTEcA9-4pS460/edit I finally finished one of the more complex commissions (someone donated a lot!) so I am finally working on the next commission on my list. That's why it took so long for an update. The more you want to donate the more complex of a commission I will do for you. Attached are some examples of what I've done so far. :> https://ko-fi.com/aeolian
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