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law-cookie-central · 2 months ago

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hi do you like boba 🧋

I like milk tea, and I like boba but I have a certain incident related to boba that made me have flashbacks, but it's good

#you dont need to know #what i meant by incident #zippy the ask yapper #I'm giving you a sepcific tag #because you're the one who gives me asks the most

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trans-leek-cookie · 2 months ago

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yknow what. I wanna say: CSA and COCSA survivors are all incredible, but I also wanna give a shout out to ppl who were exposed to sexual stuff or had any kind of sexual experience as a kid that they either aren't comfortable labelling as or don't consider abuse, but they know it still fucking sucked and shouldnt have happened. Even if that changes later in life and you identify as a victim/surivor, it can be messy to have to imagine those labels applying to the ppl in ur life and that can take time.

The most important thing is to prioritize your recovery + health, and to support other victims + survivors.

#COCSA ment #CSA ment #This is like. V personal and venting (maybe over sharing)#It's. I'm going to be honest recent discussion really brought this back into my brain aaughhh. Not in a bad way necessarily #Just. I know I've had experiences that I think others might label this way and I struggle to really understand that #Beyond the gut feeling of ''it doesnt count'' there's the understand that I might be denying it bc of shame or even just. The fact I have #An internal definition of it that excludes myself. And that I don't want to imagine the other ppl as 'abusive' and I don't think they had #The intent to hurt me. And the fact in one situation I know none of us understood boundaries or consent bc we didn't #Actually talk with adults about what like. Sex and sexuality meant so all out fucking context was porn. And just idk #I have specific experiences but those Memorable Incidents were just part of a larger pattern of me learning Abt sex young #And then failing to get proper sex ed for years. And the internet. And the Fucking Internet #(fanfic is like. Anti sex ed. 70% just the fucking worst shit to internalize 30% ''hey this is actually Okay'')#Sex Ed... Like in school... Needs a fucking HEAVY overhaul but it's still better than nothing usually

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isuggestwishcraft · 2 months ago

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partys cooking headcanons from my brain best to worst:

- bonnie: canonically good cook, proficient in the kitchen, 10/10 no notes

- isabeau: can make a couple of semi-complicated things, although often miscalculates the seasoning. given explicit instructions may be able to cook Very good dishes

- mirabelle: prone to anxiety attacks wherever the list of instructions is given or not. is able to make simple soups or dishes with very little amounts of steps

- siffrin: can successfully boil water on the stove and put/get out something in oven. mostly okay to leave in the kitchen but is Very Likely to mess up the ingredients and/or add some stuff that will make whatever he cooks inedible

- odile:

#greching origins #in stars and time #isat #isat odile #isat isabeau #isat siffrin #isat mirabelle #i think odile has xie lians level of cooking #despite what you might think.#shes not allowed near a stove ever again after The Incident no one dares to mention and is very happy about that actually #BONUS ROUND:#loop: actually better than siffrin and mirabelle somehow??? theyre actually third most trusted person in the kitchen. surprisingly #petronille: odile part 2 #upd: when i said siffrin is 'mostly okay to leave in the kitchen' i meant like literally. leave him in the kitchen #no cooking no baking no nothing. just let them stand there #the only proficiency he is allowed unsupervised is chopping stuff up. and also gutting fish and meat #thats it

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puppyeared · 24 days ago

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oooh wait so the plot hole of “why doesnt a spirit medium just channel the victims spirit” is literally bc the DL-6 spirit channeling cant be repeated huh

#im so fucking slow I was brushing my teeth thinking abt Gregory edgeworth in mayas clothes #and I haven’t played aa1 so I don’t actually know the details of it in case I get to play it for myself #but they brought up the spirit channeling mistake with misty and how it basically shot down the kurain techniques credibility right #and like. I guess trying to do that again would be a repeat of that incident which ended up with an innocent person being convicted #so Phoenix not only has to channel Mia because she’s the smarter better lawyer but also because summoning the victim #isnt exactly the first time it’s happened and gotten someone the guilty verdict. huh #replaying justice for all 2-4 so the case with Maya spirit channeling #and after playing aa3 I can really appreciate how much thought they put into the fey family and how a lot of the games events #revolve around it.#Mayas powers arent a ‘long lost ancestor’ as an excuse for her having powers. it is clearly and heavily expanded on #and the infighting makes so much sense when you consider the power differences between branch and main families.. and Mia becoming a lawyer #to find out what happened to her mother AND after being aware of that bloodshed and what it means for Maya #the way she chose Maya and didn’t want that for them. the way she put distance between them on purpose so they wouldn’t become like that #and Pearl is acknowledged as having more power than Maya but she’s fucking eight and loves Maya that she doesn’t see that as any #kind of power imbalance. heck when Morgan uses her for her plan in bridge to the turnabout Pearl was happy to do it #because Morgan said it was for pearls good and Pearl assumed that meant it would be good for Maya too and I 😭😭#the branch system was originally made so that even if you weren’t chosen as the master you could still support the family by protecting the #main branch. and the irony of that being the reason why main family members are targeted to be usurped #iris outright rejecting the notion of communicating to the dead and everything the fey clan stands for #there’s so much fucking lore to this and I don’t see it talked abt enough?????????!?????#yapping #ace attorney #as

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hers-underwraps · 3 months ago

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I feel like these two would be k-pop stans

(Also sorry about the shitty image I need more dashi and peso images)

#octonauts #not actually a K-pop stan myself BUT my friends are they look like they would fuck with it #like I can imagine them getting together and learning the dances #peso would LOVE newjeans #and TWICE because hey we love girl groups #and Dashi would LOVE black pink #like imagine these two just vibing to Magbetic together #they both cried when jungkook got shipped off #they probably have a countdown until he gets out #I also reckon when like kwazii or tweak gets pissed off with them they’ll be like I hope jungkook dies in battle and they would just like #die but like in a silly way #they would also fw straykids cause yes #I know too much for someone that doesn’t even listen to kpop #they also would’ve been hysterical when mingi got arrested for that escooter incident like what a loser #Octonauts dashi #Octonauts peso #yeah so that was a rant #Octonauts music hc #kpop aesthetic #also sorry I meant Suga I get them mixed up lol

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witchspeka · 1 year ago

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I dont think Mob is naive as much as he's socially unaware, like the reason why he trusts Reigen so blindly is a bit more complex than just him being naive

Cause Mob reached out to Reigen because he was desperate to find someone like him, someone who understood his psychic specific issues, someone that could truly know what he's feeling and going through and give him guidance and support

Post incident Mob's thinking process was something along the lines of my powers hurt people -> my powers are bad -> my powers (my emotions, my instincts, myself) cannot be trusted

So he lost all confidence and trust in his own actions, resigning to being as passive as possible to avoid any further damage to anyone else, thus he started doubting his own perception of reality too

He's a kid already struggling with being ostracised for being socially inept, who just got traumatised and all of his insecurity increased by the tenfold, he doesn't know how to process what he's going through. He needs help.

And here comes Reigen, seemingly reliable, a responsible adult in a child's eyes, someone who claims he can understand him

Even tho Reigen doesnt. But it doesn't matter, because Mob finds comfort in his words and takes them to heart

Even if Reigen doesn't fully get it, even if he doesn't see the bigger picture, even if his advice isn't always the best

Eventually, Mob grows up, realises Reigen isn't as honest as he seemed through his 11 year old perspective, but like most things, he refuses to acknowledge it on a deeper level

Mob knows, but never tells Reigen, never thinks about what all those lies mean to him (ofc until he forces himself to face those doubts regarding Reigen, to properly acknowledge both of their flaws and accept them as they are, I should scream into the void about Confession Arc more God)

Due to his lack of trust in himself, Mob has relied on Reigen for years now to shape his moral compass, his thoughts, his decisions

Because well, Reigen lies, sure, but he isnt a bad person. When he hurts Mob, it isn't intentional or with ill intent, he still wants the best for him, what's the issue?

Except that it stunts Mob's growth. He doesn't develop as a person, doesn't have goals or wishes or ambitions, can't make choices on his own, he doesn't even let himself acknowledge his own emotions, he refuses to let himself exist

But Mob realises in time that he wants more than that, he wants to become better and be independent and feel again

Still, he puts the acknowledgement of the lies on hold for as long as he can, unwilling to question the way things are

This can make him feel a little naive, he constantly relies on Reigen and trusts his decisions and raises questions rarely until separation arc when he finally puts his foot down

And I do think that moment is the most resounding proof we have that Mob knows and allows himself to be used by Reigen, not wanting to shake the status quo, until he gets fed up

I mentioned the social ineptitude at the beggining but idk if I should even elaborate on that, you've watched the show, you know what I mean

He's blunt and can't read social cues or tonality that well and can't speak in front of crowds and is overall pretty awkward and I do think some people conflate that with naivety

Mob is still a child, he doesnt fully understand how the world works at the ripe age of 14 years old, but some folks take that as him being inherently naive/innocent/whatever which I don't find true

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fanofcarson · 4 days ago

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Fucked up how an adult can make a simple benign poor choice of words one time and give a child a complex forever

#at this one teacher #where are you now teacher #were you ever aware that ur choice gave me crippling self hate and shame for years to come #did you ever know it was even a poor choice of words and that it was bad? or did you never think o it again #like tell me #YOU NECER SPOKE TO ME ABOUT IT OR ANYTHING #would you have???? did you ever want to?!? I’ll never know #i don’t even remember what u look like it ur name but I remember sitting at the beach at 11 years old thinking about how I was #was too dirty and evil to be a woman and that I had let all women down #that I was a monster #i remember my stupid ex friend couldn’t even be ducking nice to me one ducking time about it either #i don’t remember what the class was about but I remember looking at the other girls and feeling like an ogre who didn’t deserve to be in #their presence #i know this incident was not the root of these issues and probably just a catalyst but it sticks out as easy to remember for some reason #i know you were a psychology/PSHE teacher and would end up preaching mental health to us in a lecture many years later #i wanted to take psychology for my GCSEs because I was really interested (and good at it I think)#but you were the only teacher for it so I didn’t take it #i remember at parents evening my mum and I sat opposite you and we talked about how I wanted to do psychology #but I declined and refused to tell anyone why #it was because you were the teacher and I felt ashamed #you couldn’t have known but I kind of wish you’d asked me why I changed my mind or at least something #instead you just looked at me as if you knew #but said nothing. AS IF YOU AGREED #THAT I WAS BAD.#so that settled it #you made it clear to me you meant what you said #and there was no point in me trying to fix it #so I never took psychology #i think I could have been so good at it #do YOU

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frameconfessions · 15 days ago

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What I love about Warframe as a newcomer is that there doesn't seem to be any sort of shipping wars or fandom discourse at all. I've been into a lot of shooters before (ie. Overwatch, Apex Legends, etc.) so Warframe is a huge breath of fresh, clean air.

💯

#yeah there’s no warframe shipping wars that I’m aware of tbh lol I know people heavily ship Stalker and Hunhow but you probably won’t meet #those two for a bit. not a big emphasis on fan service or shipping for this game tbh #only discourse I know about was rightie incels getting mad about Equinox being nonbinary and the devs made the pronouns she/her to calm #everyone down about the whole thing but that was many years ago #and on the women’s day Facebook post Equinox was noticeably absent from the image they made for it in recent years :)#so that implies equinox is nonbinary and uses she/her pronouns which I think is cool and a clever way to go about giving us nonbiney frame #outside of Xaku of course! but that’s the biggest incident I can think of and I think there’s a polyamory frame too can’t remember which 1 #accidentally progressive W giving a nonbinary character she her pronouns ngl #any sort of ‘discourse’ I’ve seen usually comes from #comes from queerphobes (idk why it sent I wasn’t done typing) who are acting in bad faith #and comes from bad faith folks who have no reading comprehension about the lore and anti-capitalist messages of the in game story #I’ve seen a lot of self shippers here too; one of my moots self ships with Solaris which is cool #cephalon simaris* is what I meant damn autocorrect #if there are shipping wars and discourse I’m not very aware of it and it never gets big enough to breach containment or make its way to me #I can’t find the specific women’s day image unfortunately anymore but I remember being like oh hell yeah #warframe confession #warframe #mod rose

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bentacled · 5 months ago

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it's been one day and im still pissed when will this end. season 4 had some neat assassination scenes but none of them shined as bright as the writers assassinating the characters like go off monarchs

#like dude #all of these characters have SO MUCH potential #and it's wasted time & time again #LUTHER MY SON why do they keep portraying him as himbo material #like sure he can be goofy and fun whatever who cares but???? it's like they keep using him for JOKES #klaus idk dude they just wanna torture him ig?#in every single season they put him in yet another traumatizing situation and for what lol #they don't even use it for character growth it's just?? angst for the sake of angst atp #ALSO STOPP LUTHER DIDN'T EVEN GET TO GR I EVE SLOANE #five...............#marvellous five writers have already talked about his character assassination and no one knows better than them ok #im just soooo tired #also LOL BENNNNN #im a ben blog AND HERE I AM SAYING NOTHING #BC WHAT THE FUCK WAS THAT JENNIFER INCIDENT HUH #sparrow ben was a mistake there i said it i don't care #sparrow ben has no connection to the hargreeves !! fight me if u disagree #viktor wanting to save him and their little bonding scene where ben says 'im scared' is cute & all and was probably meant to parallel +#ben comforting viktor in s1 i if i remember correctly??#BUT THAT'S NOT EARNED u know why #bc ben <3 doesn't get <3 bonding moments <3 with <3 them <3 #bc he IS right #they're not his family. his family was KILLED #they fumbled so hard with the jennifer incident im so pissed #really went & made his death so... idk how to explain #a plot device #that's all ben is #he IS a plot device #literally gets no growth whatsover #avril's ramblings

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wizardnuke · 1 year ago

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anyway. fully in the "those wizards didn't even consider getting together until the hot cocoa whiskey panic attack at the EARLIEST and they both need 1-3 business years to fully sort that shit out" boat

#im gonna watch the essek supercut. in such an essek mood. i adore essek. and caleb. what the hell is going on in there #like NO OFFENSE MEANT rock on etc but it was NOT love at first sight and the nicodranas incident was a frantic scramble to contain a nuke

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todayisafridaynight · 7 months ago

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re: last anon i definitely think it comes from the uhhh whole threatened thingy. Since most of y3 is. Well. Uhm. Daigo Coma Hours we spend a lot of time w/ that guy in a threatened state. Hence the more “violent” interpretations bc. Well. his sillyguy’s in a coma. Though I’ve definitely seen Mine’s more… stressed (for lack of better words) state being misinterpreted as his natural state and I can see how that would lead to more frequent violent kirinmine takes etc. (Hopefully this is coherent I am soooooooooo tired rn)

for Last Anon

#snap chats #even throughout y3 tho mine's generally calm even when we know he's probably stressed out internally #he's very level-headed despite it all- it's only the end with kiryu where he really loses it and we see How stressed out he is #like of course there's the plane That Was Unnecessary but its with kiryu where he gives a verbal outburst and he's at his wit's end #we know what im saying ? like even under presumed stress mine still presents as calm and as if he knows what to do next #the plane incident was mine acting 'in defense' of daigo not wholly an act of stress (tho he could have been as well)#like once mine stabs the man he's done and over with it and calmly goes back to his seat. he's very 'careful' in how he acts #he doesn't do more than necessary and has restraint. for the most part #it takes a lot for him to be skittish or 'pressed against the wall' so to speak- like with kiryu calling him out #we see this 'calm visage' break when he shoots at kiryu and yells- and we KNOW this was done out of stress because he misses #Shit Shot Mine jokes aside he can aim when he wants to as shown by rggo- he was really just In The Shit in this moment mentally #also with 'violent mine' takes Personally i think its just funny JVLEKJVAEKL like pl e a s e relax.. ... it is not that serious mine...#and theres little else much cooler than seeing a giraffe god start stomping people and how else to do that but through violence #honestly i feel like ive actually seen more depictions of kirin mine be gentle and just Chilling.....#BUT thats /my/ internet experience. Long Unnecessary Ramble over sorry i didnt meant to write a thesis #i just like thinking about mine...

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tj-crochets · 9 months ago

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Hey y'all! I am in the mood for some new (to me) music. Do you have any recommendations for songs that make you want to dance? No limits on genre or language, but if you're sending me a link to a specific music video please give me a heads up if it has flashing lights (if possible). Thanks!

#the person behind the yarn #I heard a song playing at the local Joanns the other day and I regret not writing down the lyrics so I could look it up #very very dance-able #I remember none of the words at all lol #I do not care what language the songs I listen to are in #if it's fun to sing I will learn the lyrics regardless of language #I mean most of the songs I listen to are in English but I have songs I sing along with in several other languages #...I might only know what like half of the words actually mean but I did know the meanings at one point!#I just learned a lot of the lyrics before I got sick and those memories are Gone #oh wait if the lyrics are not in English and the lyrics are propositioning someone I would like to know that #so there's not a repeat of the 'the only French I knew as a child was song lyrics but I very much didn't know what they meant'#like I do not mind the lyrics I just want to avoid another Incident #I cannot tell you how many adults (in retrospect) heard me singing that song. CLEARLY had a face journey about it #and were like...she can't know what that means. Should I tell her? That would be so awkward. I'm not going to tell her #I thought adults just didn't like French for so long

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chirpsythismorning · 2 years ago

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Mike being the OG protagonist + Will having some girl crushing on him almost every season, tells me everything I need to know...

#byler #the protagonist's love interest is almost always framed as being wanted by everyone #they're framed as unattainable basically #bc they could literally have anyone #and so why you?#you could make the argument that its meant to hint at will not liking girls...#but the first mention we get of a girl liking will...#will isn't even present for it? and the boys assume he would be excited about it...?#the boys are all reacting to it including mike #s2 girl incident heavily involved mike..#this is what I was thinking about the other day too #bc lucas tries to call out mike by saying he's just blind bc he likes that a girl isn't grossed out by him...#mike is seen as weird and a nerd by girls in his hometown #no girl was going to walk up to him to dance that night at the snowball #even dustin had to get humiliated trying to ask a girl #lucas was fortunate enough to have met max and now they were getting together #otherwise #the only one in their group to get asked to dance by a girl casually #was will #WILL PULLS bitches!#and mike is there to witness it half the time #in s4 mike isn't there and so i think that moment was meant for us to start to fully realize will wasn't attracted to girls #but then she just so happens to have the same hair as mike and be in the same pose as him in the junkward during the triple take #like the madness never really ends #will is the love interest!!!#why do you think he's glowing all the time!?!!?!?!?#why introduce him from the beginning as liked by the most popular girl in school like it's just such a weird choice #but not if he's the protagonists love interest...#mike being jealous of max and her friendship bond with el in s3 #i've connected the dots

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lunarrosette · 1 year ago

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Dndads characters as things I have done/do

Taylor - recapped the newest episode/developments of current hyperfixation to my therapist instead of actually doing therapy

Link - tried playing soccer by myself in the backyard

Scary - cutting my own hair in the bathroom with shitty scissors

Normal - read y/n fanfic (it was middle school man)

Hermie - studied to musical theatre instrumentals

Lark - Carries around two (identical) knives

Sparrow - wore cat ears to school (it was also middle school ok [im sure this is shocking but I was actually a total loser])

Nick - avoids my problems by doing something else

Grant - read a fanfic abt being gay as someone raised Christian while working at a Christian camp [also getting rejected by my crush at a football field (I’ve already posted abt this twice but it’s funny) ]

Terry - cried watching the beetlejuice musical

Henry - was a Girl Scout

Glenn - never actually addressed my issues in therapy

Darryl - reading bad dad jokes to stall for time

Ron - skipping all the sex in any fanfic

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fideidefenswhore · 1 year ago

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#AnneBoleynWeek, Day 2: Monday, 25 September — favorite historical Anne quote (either by Anne herself or about Anne)

"Once she was a wise woman, [endowed] with [many] outward good qualities […] and such [...] courtly graces […] as few women were of her time; with such an outward profession of gravity as was to be marvelled at [...]" William Thomas (1524(c.)-1554)

"Had audience of the King this morning and thanked him for the love he bears the State, and did the like by the Queen, who said she knew that God had inspired his Majesty to marry her, and that he could have found a greater personage than herself, but not one more anxious and ready to demonstrate her love towards the Signory." Carlo Capello, 1533

"As supper prevented further conservation I returned to my inn, and went next day to Court to pay my respects to the Queen, who, after keeping me a long time, being reminded by her attendants, sent for me, and received me very kindly, saying to me, “I am aware, my dear Winter (Vintere carissime) that you are beloved by the King and have many friends who wish you well. Reckon me among the number.” And then she added that she would not fail to serve me wherever she could." Thomas Wynter, (1510(c.)-1564)

"Considering the Word of God, to do good to one's enemy, I wished to warn her before hand, because I have daily experience that the King's wisdom is such as not to esteem her repentance of her rudeness and unnatural obstinacy when she has no choice." Anne Boleyn, (1501-7(c.)-1536

"[...]Given her great faith and wise patience, which rose above womanly courage. [...] Such that everyone [...] judges her life to have been prudent, and believes that they have committed a great offense in having thought so ill of her." Lancelot De Carle (1508(c.)-1568)

#chose some quotes that really counter the more popular narrative that she was; idk...volatile and frivolous?#anneboleynweek #she was a bon vivant but it seems she also had this depth #they need not be seen as mutually exclusive #as for the quote from anne's letter that's probably a controversial choice #since paul friedmann it's been termed 'pathetic' which is like...why?#she was right? that is quite literally what happened #i chose it bcus although it seems harsh to our standards it does seem also demonstrative of that 'prudence'#there also seems to be this tacit misunderstanding of what contemporaries meant when they referred to her 'grace'#it wasn't usually about skill at dance unless it was explicitly connected to this (although they praised that too)#grace was a manner #a way of being #a sense of composure #AB is not typically thought of someone with composure because her biggest detractor wrote with unsparing detail of all the times in which #she lost it #to the extent that i think we're losing the forest for the trees even to focus so much about the extent to which dispatches about incidents #concerning AB were 'accurate'#even if they all were which seems unlikely. they're not the sum of her life or character #they are just these snapshots #chapuys didn't attend court events with anne. he was personal witness to her demeanour literally only once when she was queen #(by which he remarked she was 'gracious enough'. so. there's that word again)#and once before (if he could have been a great judge of it from that one moment in which she's watching his conversation with henry above #from a hanging gallery of sorts)#the images chosen are more the vibe for the quotes but the one from BSR is very specific #it's a great scene and it's so well-acted bcus she feels BAD for him here. she pities him.#she feels bad for him because he's losing her bcs she's not going to settle for these terms #because she knows she's amazing and she's so self-posessed in the scene #and he cannot handle this and so it manifests in the reaction #(you're making a big mistake; except that is his own big projection)#she's willful and knows her worth and won't diminish herself for anyone

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imminent-danger-came · 1 year ago

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Watching Wish rn, girl why did the climax happen 20 minutes in

#like they meant it as an inciting incident but it was a climax like #what is happening #imp tag #wish critical #I guess

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