#we need feminism so bad we need it so bad.....
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one reason feminism has taken so long to take off is because propaganda has convinced us that we can positively socialize men to improve by acting nice to them which (ironically) has only ever re-enforced their behaviour. "killing with kindness" is literally rewarding him for bad behaviour. being nice to an asshole tickles the "reward" signal in his brain. he does not need gentle parenting. he needs to fear disapproval and even bodily harm for behaving badly. like this is basic social maths. and that's why separatism and misandry are the correct responses. hostility will rewire a man's brain more than pandering will. i've literally seen men gain consciousness and the capacity to introspect once a woman called them an evil fucking idiot
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everyone shut up look at hansumfella. i need him so bad
unfortunately i will never stop loving white boys 😞🙏🏽
#meerkatz 🦎#hansumfella#can we talk abt him fr tho??#he’s so hot and funny#i need him so bad it's not even funny anymore#i need him so fucking bad#i need him in a way that is concerning to feminism
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like i believe there can be a middle way, a golden mean, between tolerating "men are violent misogynists bc women aren't nice enough to them 🥺" and tolerating those users. i believe it's possible to just not give way to either
#tolerating transphobes and passing on their stuff. like i am personally not fine with the meaning hidden between the lines and i'd prefer we#made our own organic man-hating posts instead of terf-made ones#and i feel like. it's hard i know like it's bad that the general userbase is stupid and advocates for men's rights. and often women and#lgbt+ people who think of themselves and call themselves progressive and call themselves feminists#often act. out of misogyny. this is sad. i know! but i'm worried about being pushed towards the other side#NOT worried about too much feminism fucking obviously but let's not leave trans people behind. you know?? does anyone at all get why i'm#frustrated sometimes.. i'm a woman and i want to understand and respect other women's anger and concerns and attitudes and wishes#and know where it comes from#and let it have space because it needs space#but not so much that it's at the expense of trans women........
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The owner of an orchard hired two females to guide his apple picking customers. One of the women became obessed with one of the old wood buildings coyly teasing the owner that he was going to take them to 'the woodshed' for a 'butt whopping' if they didn't behave. The owner was intriged, imagining how such a spanking would be like. One day as he organizing his basement he found a large leather strap. He oiled it with olive oil and baked it in his oven to restore the leather to the supple and bendable condition. After a few days of consideration, he offered the leather strap to the spunky, female employee who had continued to tease him and ordered her to bring it to 'the woodshed' and find a good place to hang it just in case it was needed. Her eyes went wide and she cautiously took the leather strap and soon ran off towards 'the woodshed' with the strap. A few days went by and the teasing female employee made no additinal jokes about being taken to 'the woodshed'. However on a slow day, he was looking for the female employees and got a hunch. He went off to 'the woodshed' and crept silently to the window. The two females were talking in hushed, excited tones.
"No, it will hurt, stil. Doesn't matter that it is soft. He can swing down like this.... Right on our booty." The teasing female explained.
"Do you want to try it?" Her female companion teased.
"Sure, get your skirt hitched up and your panties down and I will fix you up." The teasing female encouraged.
"What? Bare? Are you crazy? He wouldn't bare us. That would be ridiculous." Her female companion.
"No, with a leather strap like this. Needs to be done on the bare!" The teasing female employee explained excitedly. "Wouldn't really feel it over our skirts."
"He wouldn't will he?" Her female companion protested quietly.
"Come bend over. I will show you he will need to bare us." There was some shuffling inside.
WHhhhhapoop!
A whoping sound bounced out the woodshed as the leather strap hit against one the female's clothed bottoms.
"Ohhh." Her female companion whined.
"You see? Makes more noise then soreness." The teasing female employee said dissmively. "Here let me give one real one." There was more shuffling inside.
"What? No. Stop." The female companion protested while laughing.
"Hold still. This beautiful bum needs it."
Whallop!
A stinging whallop with the leather strap sounded from inside the shed.
"Owe!" The female companion whined.
"Which one did feel more?"
"The second one. Let me up." The female companion begged.
"You think you would be better employee with your bum spanked?" The teasing female pried.
"I guess so." The female companion relucantly agreed.
"Let me give another two as a taste." The teasing female proposed excitedly.
"No, you said you would give me one." The female companion pleaded.
"Well, yes, but I thought you may want a few more. After all since we are working for him we need to be ready to take a spanking. If we are too weak we need to quite." The teasing female explained as some shuffling was heard.
"He really is going to whope us?" The female companion asked.
"Of course, he wouldn't buy this quality leather strap if he wasn't going to whallop us when we misbehavied." The teasing female explained. "So, two more, alright?"
"Alright." Came the submissive answer.
WAaaalop!
A femine grunt was heard as the leather belt sunok into her bare bottom
WaaaaaaLOP!
A femine yelp was heard in response to the leather's bite.
"Alright feel the sting?" The teasing female asked. "That is a small taste what we will get when we are bad."
"But bare though?" The female companion asked.
"Always needed with the strap. If it was a paddle maybe, but no he bought a strap. He will need to have us bare at least our bottoms." The teasing female explained with assurance.
"At least?" Her female companion questioned.
"Well, sometimes in the olden days. Women were undressed completly before being sent out to the woodshed."
"Really?"
"Yes, it was meant to humilate them for bringing thier deed that brought shame."
"What about neighbors?"
"Chuckling and enjoying the little look see I am sure."
"I should give you a spanking now."
"No, thanks, but I wouldn't mind you telliing our boss I was messing around." The teasing female employee offered.
"Really?" The female companion asked in disbelief.
"Yeah, and if you see a naked nymph running for the woodshed, you can be assured I will be geting it good." The teasing female said.
There was some shuffling inside and the owner of the orchard owner walked away hurridely. After all the customers were to leave he was going to confront both of them for being lazy and inform they were both going to be taken out to the woodshed for a butt whoopin. Through out the day he was already making future plans to buy a horse saddle for 'the woodshed'. He would have the females climb aboard the horse saddle, put thier feet in the stirrupts, and stick out thier bare bottom behind themself for him to whip with his leather strap. As for having them strip and run to the woodshed in the nude, he decided to leave that oppurtunity to be explored in the future.
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Ok!.. that's enough angry feminist posting for me. No more for 36 hours.
I'm losing perspective. idk if I agree with half of what I'm posting.
#“men are so bad!! 4b now!!!”#half of men voted for Harris#and white women voted for Trump at the same rate as men#“men are saying all these bad things on twitter!!”#ok but how many men are we actually talking about?#times and weird and bad#times are worse than usual#but many men are feminists#and are trustworthy enough to at least be friends with#I need a break#imo maybe 4b now because pregnancy is no longer safe#but I'm already not fucking men so what do I care?#men#feminism#trump
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oh my god re: your recent post... the 'girl dinner' shit. omfg. idc if it's 'not that deep' you're still reinforcing terrible shit!!! and also the like 'boys when they see a stick/cool rock' and 'girls when they time travel vs boys when they time travel' wojaks. the gender-fication of barbie vs. oppenheimer. why the fuck is the recent internet zeitgeist hyper stereotypical cisnormativity. like. i thought we had collectively outgrown this.
exactly. And that’s all just some parts of it too. People pretend they’re so on top of things but it’s just because they don’t want to seem out of touch and offensive. It’s wild watching people barf out gender binaries with new terms and new ways to categorize trans people as not their gender and new ways to reinforce the same gender roles on ourselves but in “good” ways now. It’s just….really frustrating and pretty terrifying at the same time
#asked and answered#anon#I don’t know bad example but like.#feminism when I was growing up was gender equality#getting rid of gender roles and stopping gender based discrimination#and it feels like at some point we lost that track#and went straight from that to Girls Rule Boys Drool arguments wrapped in new language and memes#like. when i was a kid#i remember people saying shit about how its okay if a woman asks for a date first or if a woman proposes instead of a man#and yes those arent the most progressive things in the world and those actions are not the most important thing women need to be allowed to#do. but…thats kind of my point. those arent groundbreaking actions.#and if you tried to spoonfeed a BASIC idea about destroying gender roles like that to the online community today#youd get slammed with people saying no woman should ever stoop to beg a man#or that a guy should always propose because dating a woman is a privilege so men should earn it#or how ‘maybe its just me personally but i could never propose to a man like ew thats cringe my man better have enough balls to do it!’#or ‘me personally i could never let my girl propose id feel like i failed her as a man if she had to do that’#or just. on and on and on and on and on#like. we somehow circled all the way back to the ORIGINAL gender roles we were supposed to have broken by now#and its getting worse snd the social media companies are fueling it#have you SEEN instagram and tik tok comment sections lately???#people are just. insanely obsessed over gender and enforcing how they see each group and constantly posting about it online#go outside smell some fucking flowers and recognize your internal biases#like maybe breaking gender roles like thst iis uncomfortable not because you hate men#but because you have gender roles engrained in your BEING from the moment you could walk and you just wrapped them up with a new progressive#bow while not making any changes#anyways.#rant over
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dabi making his claim on you by giving you a piercing... sterilizing the needle with his flame...choosing the jewelry(it's gonna be silver like his he doesn't give a shit 'what looks best on you'- HE looks best on you)
STREI. Do u want me to die be honest this is making me so so so so crazy the build up to it is insane he’s the WORST all eye contact so many comments abt not being able to sit still bc he’s taking forever touching everywhere cause he’s not sure where he wants to pierce GOD. I will wear silver I will wear whatever he wants me to wear idc idc he does look best on me I AGREE
#messages that made me rock back and forth w my knees to my chest#tbh I need him to repierce my septum but that’s another story#I think we would have matching dangly earrings also#anyways#I want him so bad I want him in a way that is concerning not only to feminism but to mankind#I want him in a way that makes people a little sick#ask#mutuals!
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life after seeing people start waking up and stop idolizing elitism and celebrity culture, feeding their pockets while the working class and third world countries suffer..is the human revolution near?
#is freedom soon attainable?#is white feminism neo facism and capitalism dying?#and yeah even your fave celebrity#they’re on a private jet drinking champagne while your parents work their asses off to provide while you will study and work your entire#-life to have 0.1 of what they do and they get all their earnings from us. that’s how celebrity culture works. we’re the consumers and it’s#it’s a market and we’re the consumers so without us the market will evaporate#your ‘fave’ celebrity loves your money not at all you😂they don’t even care abt children women or being raped killed bombed nothing so you#anyways#best believe we’re still boycotting it’s a permanent life decision. just wish there was more coverage on congo/sudan and iran#everything is something!#this is just the start#make aure to go to jimmy fallon on instagram+block everyone he follows then block jimmy himself#really think they care abt you lmao#if not then take the divk out your mouth#we need to stay united omg the worst is rheir fans defendinf them like are you getting payed?#if you need to escape reality that bad then invest in russian/japanese media#generally asian middle eastern balkan too#native indigenous african irish alllll#irish are an exception of the western#i live in the west btw#talks
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so things are not going well with my new elderly socdem friend unfortunately.
#she said this RIGHT after talking about how bad yt misinfo is... which she followed up w SO I WAS WATCHING A YT DOC ABOUT WW2 & LEARNED THIS#youtube 'historians' are literally the most fascist breed of youtuber. avoid the vast majority like the plague lmao#i asked if the video was sourcing the hollow dahmer & the black book of communism & she didnt seem to know what those are lol#to her credit i told her straight up that she was incorrect & she at least faked being curious about doing more research but i am doubting#she also 'learned' that lenin killed trotsky lol get your propaganda right lenin was dead by then STALIN icepicked him <3#anyway im making jokes bc the worst part was a different conversation where she spoke positively of israel#THAT'S gonna be the one to ruin our friendship. fuck you & your war tourist friend who fought in the 1960s landgrabs that youre now#telling me as if this is a cute story. nahhhh lmao i looked her straight in the eye & said i will NOT debate this#so she dropped it like the true enlightened centrist most socdem cowards are and i kept cleaning her house quietly#turns out You & Me We're the Only Ones Around Here Who Aren't Complete Fools was premature *kicks the poorly rendered gravel sadly*#shes otherwise a nice lady & i know i need to be more flexible in order to hopefully change ppls minds...#but also when people say awful & untrue things it makes me not want to talk to you 🤷♂️ srry 2 b a freak like that#also i know shes not transphobic but i havent sniffed her out well enough to know if shes safe to come out to#so its hours of misgendering (which isnt her fault she doesnt know) bc shes obsessed with neoliberal feminism and inappropriately brings#gender into conversations that it does not belong in#'did you know all the countries that handled covid best were ran by women?' 1) untrue 2) dont care finland still sucks#she also tried to tell me that european rich people learned to be nicer after the french rev & thats why europe is better than america...#girl shut up we learned how to be so good at racism and capitalism BECAUSE of europe. there is no such thing as a good rich person!!!#i pick my battles (genocide & anticommunist genocide revisionism) so i let her cook w that one & was not left convinced as you can imagine#ANYWAY rant about today's weird day done. gonna smoke weed & rim some skies 🥵 while listening to the Khrushchev Lied audiobook i found 😘
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millie bobby brown your future in romcoms could be huge if you get out of that damn netflix contract…. no one believes in you more than me babygirl i’ll watch anything you’re in… um except that godzilla movie with so much peace and love of course honey you were barely in that i love your starring roles… millie you’re a star you need to exploit netflix into getting you in a room with shonda rhimes so you can be in her post bridgerton return to film that i’m predicting…
#i respect her clear love for genre work but one romcom couldn’t hurt anybody…#we need to let her work with someone awesome#and whatever we as a society do we CANNOT let her work with greta gerwig. or emma watson while we’re here#i say that because these three women are the same brand of. celebrity feminist. and i don’t want to see what a combo looks like#yes we saw greta and emma but crucially emma was not playing the protagonist there#i don’t necessarily mean any of this in a bad way i think their genre of famous woman feminism is still leagues ahead of what many#people these days are doing. so i won’t fault any of them for not being like. leftist enough that’s not a big deal to me#i just think. there are certain combinations of actors/directors/writers that shouldn’t come together#like cole sprouse should never be in a christopher nolan movie. and he won’t
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transmisandry cunts have the least interesting views on ~queer masculinity~ ever
#oh do you wanna talk about how there’s too much emphasis on feminity in ~queer circles~? do you?#i wonder why the fuck gay/bi/trans men might find a celebration of the feminine healing or uplifting or transgressive#is perhaps. because feminity in men is demonized?#or that the perceptive of men’s femininity literally gets their asses jumped and beaten half to death?#by god no couldn’t be that. must be because feminine good masculine bad so we need to change our perspectives#<- forgive the light incoherence. it’s 3am#& i was scrolling through an author i like’s twitter (first mistake) and saw some dumbass shit#like ok! we can talk about how the idealized form of ~~queer masculinity~~ is skinny white tmes#but i don’t think y’all (transmisandry cunts) actually want to talk about that. y’all just want to be transphobic to transfems lol#because literally in the same thread from the rt the person was shitting on trans women! like the transmisogyny really is not that hidden!!#y’all fuckers do it with a smile on your face and with such a thin veneer of progressivism you can see right fucking through it
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yeah femc has some really solid romance routes but i just cannot be assed to care too much because there are some crazy level yuri goings on in this game
#bobtalk#yeah i’ll max shinji and ryoji of course. ryoji especially he’s my bestfriend. akihiko…sorry lmao.#maxed saori and put my head in my hands. PEAK. i wonder what she’ll say in march. letter like temperance?#i feel like she’d really benefit from watching r/gu. by the way. she started talking about princes and princesses#p3pposting#anyway every girl you spoke more than 2 sentences to in male route was inexplicably madly in love with you. but femc has Charisma.#(still very funny how people line up outside your classroom to speak to you btw. lmao)#i want to do more junpei link cuz it’s been Very good but he’s occupied by the plot rn. sad! started shinji though (september)#anyway. every time i play portable i’m reminded how much girls rule. i love you girls. i finally got megido on my mothman.#i’m also reminded how sad i am about reload. WE DONT GET VOICED OR MODELLED SAORI……..THEY HATE WOMEN!!!#by the way yukari peak as fuck. shes so good. i’m trying 2 like mitsuru more because the student council type personality#never really appeals to me that much. <- im also trying to hack my brain to like makoto more. for feminism. i’m sorry women i’m working oni#she’s really pretty in arena btw. <3<3<3#i also don’t especially care for akihiko i KNOW i’m SORRY. he’s fine. i like his dynamic with shinji and ken. sorry. lol#but yeah. i need aigis SL NOW!!!!#(theodore sucks btw. maybe that’s just because i don’t like men but i miss liz so bad. sigh.)#when my laptop works again maybe i’ll post some screenshots. <- playing on vita btw#good game.#(oh yeah i’ve maxed all social stats except i’m two from max on knowledge. whoops! at least it’s enough for Dying Young Man.)
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i have such severe beef with the "all these male characters are women actually so it's #feminism and yuri" crowd because like. why are you making them women. what is it about these characters that makes you see them as women, as opposed to actual female characters. do you headcanon female characters as trans men? do you headcanon female characters as trans women? are you headcanoning these male characters as trans women, or are you just she/her-ing them?
if you have to make jokes about how male-centric your series is and you spend more time doing that than you do thinking critically about why that is, keep the word yuri out of your mouth. keep the term "final girl" out of your mouth. go find some female characters. go find some transfem characters. i promise you the representation is out there. there are a million webcomics and novels.
#haterposting#negative#sorry gang this pisses me off real bad#i feel like we've shot past feminism into grasping at she/her headcanons because we feel it makes the characters “better”#but it is still very much a boy's club#“haha why is there so much gay sex in minecraft roleplay” gee i wonder. i wonder why women would feel uncomfortable involving themselves#in these places.#i wonder why wlw ships are tokenized.#to be explicitly clear: i am not against trans headcanons#i am not against she/her-ing characters.#i think that stuff is awesome#and you should do whatever you want#but when it's all you consume i think you need to broaden your horizons
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i couldnt sleep last night because i was passionately ranting to myself about how the changes in the themes, messages, and general structure of the Disney Princess movies reflect the changes in generational perspectives and the socioeconomic factors of our society 🤦♀️
#its not JUST about feminism okay#its about how the makers and marketers and audience of the classic and renaissance movies were willing to believe that things would be okay#so all you had to do was wait and try to do good where you are#so we got stories where the protagonists didnt necessarily set out to save themselves or others#but modern makers and marketers and audiences cant believe that things are going to be okay if we dont do anything about it#so we get stories about Being Right and The Real Solution Was You#and neither story is bad!!!#we need both kinds of stories!!!#just like we need princesses who got married and princesses who didnt and princesses who saved themselves and princesses who didnt#i just. ksjdfnhjkahfiauwesjcnfwe.#maybe this is a ''ive connected the dots''you didnt connect shit''ive connected them'' moment but. it makes sense to me.#disney
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back in the city. watched It Ends With Us with my roommate.
#it ends with us#we've been hyping it up since the trailers. i love taking her to see Bad Theatre#this one was uncanny valley not good enough to be a good film not bad enough to be a good bad film#i rlly enjoyed it!! colleen got me to denounce feminism; victim blame; and be an abuser apologist#it's so funny bc halfway thru i realised this wouldve been fixed if this was just set in an a/b/o au#pleasepleaseplease sony fund a second film for the sequel. i need to see more ryle. i can fix him hes willing to get better we can fix him#this film feels like a litmus test to see if someone was/is/could ever be a Reylo(tm)#(i fuck with reylo btw)#but like yea i LOVED the vibes of the theatre audience for this one. mostly straight women w their straight female friends#had an old woman duo at the side and a group of girls that started crying halfway through at the back#(roomie kept telling me to stop laughing bc she thought it was insensitive when multiple ppl were crying but she didnt get why either lol)#there was also a guy who ended up leaving halfway thru like 😭😭😭 the entire theatre just looked at him fuck off#i recommend it 👍 it felt like an anthro-sociological glimpse into a straight woman's mindset/worldview#movie talk
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am i literally crazy or are the women in black sails written really poorly
#or#4 all of the ppl talking about how good this show is (it's fine. like it's. fine. if ur show takes 2 seasons to get good#idk. it's fine !) im surprised i havent seen Anybody mention that the women are just So fucking .#Boring. im trying so hard to be interested in what they have going on but they Really said#and our show about outlaws Must follow Strict gender roles even as we try to put women in positions of power hashtag feminism#eleanor in particular is the wwwwooooorrrsssttttt like every character calls her this genius puppet master#and she's been taking Only losses and not even compelling losses for two entire seasons . making Only bad choices#and i Know that her constant need for male validation is written as like a character flaw but it's still so Annoying!!!!!!#like oh my god how are you going to run a tight ship pirate economy when you're dickmatized !!!!!!!!!!!#and the way in season 3 like. Half of the characters are completely different people with no explanation. Am I Crazy? Am I Losing It?
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