#we dont kinkshame here

[sulfies]

Desmond would 100% have a praise kink. He can flirt like no one's business, but the minute any of the boys start telling him what a "good boy" he is or that he is "doing so good", his brain shuts down and he melts.

Or him having a horrible realization he has a daddy kink would be funny.

I think we can agree All the Assassins have praise kink... They all havent been appriciated enough lol. I think All (including Des) would be emberassed by it lowkey tho

Connor would say "hmm...better than how I would set it, good job" to Ezio after he sets a snare trap and ezio is like "...learned from the best" inside he is yippiiii~

Altaïr would praise Desmond in training and Desmond would instantly put 100% more and try to show off that he can fight like Altaïr lol

Ezio would say smthn like "Your thirst of knowledge makes me jelous Altaïr, You got a good head for a lot..." First altair would snip back at the innuendo but also be smug about Ezio calling him smart the whole day (even tho yes ofc he is duh)

Desmond would patch Connors wounds and be like "goddamn what did they feed you, how are you built like this, where did these genes go and why did they miss me?!" Admire his muscles and Connor slowly blushes more as he stares at the ground and if he maybe flexes his bicep or stuff a bit when Des touches...who can blame him

Someone could ask one of the 3 about a memory or something and they would be like "oh I dont remember it was yrs ago wasnt that big of a-" and Desmond would be like "I fkcn do, here is how it went and how awsome it was" and the other would be like trying to not grin the whole time like lovesick dumbass

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Now

Im such a fkcn party pooper but I dont like Daddy kink😭 no shaming those who like it tho, I do enjoy a hot father figure character. I think its the same w me not liking english petnames it just sounds weird to my ear lol 😭 Turkish also use "Baba" so I cant have him say it in other languages as well like for Altaïr lolol

[decaydanceredacted]

anyway I would pay un unhealthy amount of money to see current Patrick wearing nothing but a thong on a stripper pole while his dick falls out of it cause it's too big ok byyyeee

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[satancopilotsmytardis]

I’m wondering why in so many of the fics Dabi is feminized? Like I understand it’s a kink but I’ve seen so many people do this to try and make an mlm pairing het or as close to as possible or some have used it in a stereotypical manner as in “one of them has to be the girl” or in a very homophobic manner. I really enjoy your fics but it still concerns me considering I haven’t seen many people use feminization in any other manner

I like feminization as a kink/fetish because it's fun and hot, it's unfortunate that in your experience you've found it to be used in a homophobic manner, but that's not what I'm doing with using it. If feminization as a kink/fetish is concerning to you, then it's probably best that you don't interact with my stories that feature feminization in them. I try to tag my fics as comprehensively as possible so you can filter them out and not interact with it!

[chiimeramanticore]

ok im sorry i HAVE to ask what's with the armpit obsession on this site

[ahappydnp]

tbh i'd rather read arm pit hair asks over knotting related questions anyday, as a guideline for your future content xoxo

i don't any knotting posts drafted up at the moment but i'll be sure to keep this feedback in mind if the opportunity arises

[softshuji]

Hal one step from making the guys have a competition who's gonna sucessfully breed her first lmaooooo

y'know for someone terrified of birth and having babies (despite wanting them) i sure talk abt it a lot don't i? I think it's just my unfortunately very apparent breeding kink. Sad isn't it?

[ah-sure-look-sure-listen]

... The addition kills me

#not the first time i've wanted to be someone's dog

MONKEY MAN 2024 | dir. Dev Patel

[weebsinstash]

Do you ever wonder how complicated or nuanced it might be setting personal boundaries with a poly yandere Asmodeus and Fizz. Like do you ever workshop Lust Ring worldbuilding culture and realize "oh wait shit wouldn't it paradoxically be really easy AND ALSO borderline impossible to be open with and enforce your personal boundaries in a place perpetually encouraging the most openly brazen of carnal displays"?

Like. Obviously I like one of them more than the other but silly little guys are growing on me and, just. Imagine being a Sinner and being down in the Lust Ring and realizing they have a completely different culture around just, showing your body and being open with yourself and your desires and, you're suddenly not sure what things are sexual harassment or considered their normal culture and you're not sure what you're even allowed to verbally express discomfort against because. Is it actually something normal and YOU'RE being weird and mean to THEM? Or, are you unintentionally letting people do REALLY creepy things to you?

You move out of Pride and your new coworkers in Ozzie's building are constantly eating dick and pussy shaped foods? Your coworker is throating a dick shaped ice pop at their desk? Your coworkers are varying levels of half naked? That's not perverted, it's normal and healthy and they're confident in their healthy sexuality :) oh, but you think that's weird? You don't want to look directly at someone's tits when they ask your opinion on their new nipple piercings? Aw, aren't you cute, being too shy to be open with yourself! maybe we all need to show you a few things to welcome you to Lust--

Like, I know Ozzie is dead set on consent but I often brainstorm different variations of those opinions or otherwise in a yandere setting. Ozzie is accepting and open and body positive! Therefore he might be completely in the nude while he sits in a recliner and you're asked to bring him something and he ISN'T EMBARRASSED AT ALL. Aw, he doesn't care if you see his dick, he's not ashamed of his body :) and you don't want to tell him to cover up because he's so nice to you, right? Like..... the perfect fucking gentleman BESIDES these um. Conflicting opinions on modesty and boundaries. Like genuinely he is such a good man fr i want him biblicly 😩❤️

These two out here with their fucking "what are you talking about, this blatantly sexual thing we're doing isn't sexual at all, you're being weird and seeing things thst aren't there and also dont kinkshame us wow thats rude?" bullshit. Oh so you got too drunk at an office party so they made sure you got home safely so no one took advantage of you? Yeah that's cool! Or it would be if they didn't take you to THEIR home though! Oh, it was weird for you to wake up literally sandwiched between them in a pair of pajamas meaning they undressed you? Yeah? Well you had to get your sleep and there's only one bed and they wont make you sleep on the couch and Ozzie's chest is nice and broad and warm and Fizz can rest his face on your tummy and-- why are you scowling and looking grossed out, they were just making sure you were warm and cozy, but if that made you uncomfortable, they're sorry you felt that way from them just trying to so something nice for you--

I recognize it's canonically antithetical to his actual beliefs but yandere Ozzie who is like "oh you're not comfortable sharing details about your sexuality or your body or your sex life with me? I mean. Oh gee it would be like so awkward if we were having drinks as friends and I charismatically loosened your lips over time by repeatedly pressing the issues until you give in! It's not a real 'no' if it eventually becomes a 'yes' right?"

Fizz is like. A fucking jester. He's a clown. He's THE silly little guy. So you almost regard him as this nonsexual cartoonish entity until he occasionally has shit slip out of his mouth that reminds you No Honey That's A Grown Ass Man, he's saying shit like "oh wow seeing that crop over there reminded me of the other week where Ozzie and I were doing horseplay and you should've SEEN when I took one to that huge butt of his, he was SCREAMING into the bridle gag and-"

I FEEL LIKE YOU'D CATCH THEM LIKE, ULTRA WEAPONIZING T H E I R RULES. Yeah, consent is important! That's why you're not allowed to flirt with that dilfy incubus, because, what is that in your hand? Gasp, is that a single shot? You've been drinking therefore you can't consent and you're being CARRIED away if that gets you to stop talking to this guy

Like imagine you're this shy bullied little thing and Admodeus is treating you like this precious egg that he can't wait to hatch and then it's like, you're dressing up sexy and coming on to someone ELSE talking about how you wanna suck THEIR dick and suddenly he's all "uh um uh hm you know what?you're moving too fast, people are gonna take advantage of you, you're not ready, let me take you home--"

"BLOWJ0BS FOR ME BUT NOT FOR THEE" for reeeeeeeal!!!!! You're sitting in like, the living room, basically forced to be celibate (unless ya bone them) and in the next room over IN THE ONLY BEDROOM you're hearing like *spanking* *bicycle horn* *that one oh yeah sound effect* *shaking tin sfx* *water splashing* *rubber ducky squeaky noise* *slide whistle* *whoopie cushion* and then the both of them limp out of there visibly disheveled and asking if you want to order a pizza because WOW THEY'RE JUST WAY TOO HUNGRY TO COOK DINNER TONIGHT FOR SOME REASON--

[trashworldblog]

or do

Goodnight, don't let the bedboogs bite

[yaknowlikenyah]

how would you go about telling your partner youre into something that youve seen them kinkshaming

cuz like its not a relationship i want to leave nor do i want to keep secrets from them but i also dont want them to a. take it as a joke or b. do that thing where people just stop listening to you and start reacting based off of their bias

thanks big bro 👍

So this is one of those things where the longer you leave it to rot, the more it's going to fester until it becomes a major problem. The last thing you want is to become resentful. Ya know? And the reason that shit happens is because it hurts.

Going into a communication like this there's a couple things you're going to have to keep in mind.

1. Set expectations for reactions.

Set the tone. You don't want them to make fun of you or call you gross or anything, obviously, but you have to communicate what is/isn't expected. Set the discussion up for compassion and make it clear that being teased or ridiculed would make you uncomfortable.

2. State how the thing influences you.

This is the devil. Absolutely the fucking devil, but you have to express what the action in question is doing to you. Yes it hurts you, but "hurt" is abstract and makes it hard for the other person to understand exactly how their actions are influencing you. Does it lower your self esteem? Is what they're doing influencing your thought patterns or making obsessive thoughts worse? Giving you body image issues? If you specify the cause and effect rather than just stating the feeling, communication will be clearer.

3. State a reasonable outcome for resolution

You know the thing and how it hurts you, and now you have to give a suggestion for how you want to fix it. It keeps your S/O (or whoever else) jumping to conclusions on what you want and helps to assuage any rejection sensitive dysphoria or guilt they may have.

So your ending communication will look something like:

"Hey babe, can we talk about something seriously for a second? I want you to hear me out about something that's been making me feel uncomfortable and I'd like if you wouldn't make fun of me for it, but I have that [insert here] kink you've been making fun of. You don't have to like it yourself or do it with me, but I'd appreciate it if you could stop making fun of it around me because it's making me feel gross about kinks I can't control."

The not fun bit of this is that if they react badly, if they make fun of you and double down, you have to think about if you want to be with someone who would make fun of other people like that in the first place and who would double down instead of reacting with compassion. It doesn't have to be a deal breaker, but don't tolerate making yourself more and more palatable just to keep what you think is a good relationship. That's the high speed train to waking up one day and realizing you're miserable trying to be someone else.

[rubyrose-isms]

🐕‍🦺 faunyguy Follow

Maybe if CERTAIN people didnt feel the need to wear bows on their head faunus wouldnt need to hide...

♻️🏳️‍🌈 name-means-rainbow Follow

Petition to ban vague posting in the beacon tag?????? Also, as a faunus, I'd like to point out u literally have a dog on a leash as ur profile pic. and ur a dog faunus. dont fucking even, bootlicker

♻️🐕‍🦺 faunyguy Follow

Wow, are we kinkshaming on here now? Thought this was a safe space

♻️🐈‍⬛️ bellabookitty

SSFHGDSGFSS op did you think the beacon tag was a kink safe space???

♻️🌹 rosethorn

Did u think our dorm was? (Love y'all, but text us next time)

♻️🐈‍⬛️ bellabookitty

SHUT!!!

♻️🌅 lil-firecracker

Bow chicka meow meow

♻️🐈‍⬛️ bellabookitty

GODDAMMIT YANG

[onlyjaeyun]

I feel what that last anon said, it's ridiculous, like I had to block two of my favorite authors since all they write now is inc*st and noncon, and I just can't with it. Like it's so hard to find anything that isn't either of those, it's like some of these people took calling your bf daddy and literally made him the mc literal dad, like I don't support kink shaming, but I do for that.

NOTE: this is in no way directed at anybody in particular and i'm really sorry if this may offend you, yet thdse are just my thoughts. i genuinely understand the whole using kinks as coping mechanisms thing, i promise. sending everyone love 🩷

honestly i've always been the last person to ever kink shame bc you do you boo but when they take over the whole tag it's just a big fat sigh bc ik this sounds like i AM kinkshaming but those heavy kinks should NOT be normalised, especially in fandoms which include actual people bc...they're actual living human beings to start off and ik this will not make sense to some of you but there are so many minors wandering around here and they'll get the completely wrong picture of those people AND sex and can barely tell fiction apart from reality anyway yk? like yeah, they shouldn't be on here reading smut but they are and we all know it and URGH this topic gets me so heated bc again, do whatever feels right to you but like :/ am i the bad guy for not wanting incest, cnc and straight up rape fics to be associated with a group i find comfort in?

i've always been so torn about this topic which is why i dont really talk about it and dont geg me wrong i'd NEVER hate on a creator for that, seriously, i get it. thats why i usually stay away from writers who write that stuff OR i don't associate/interact with that side of their content and usually just block the tags they use but its deffo a bummer knowing it's taking overhand in this fandom as well bc incest kinks were the reason i left the anime fandom and why i got hate for being too "vanilla" like sorry?😭😭😭😭

[01131974]

so i may be out of touch but what do FUBFREE, SALS, and YKINMKATIO mean?

FUBFREE = follow, unfollow, block free. basically means i dont care what you do and that theres no hard feelings associated with following unfollowing or blocking me!

SALS = ship and let sail. this means ship whatever you like!

YKINMKATIO = your kink is not my kink and that is okay. very long one LOL but it just means what it says! kinkshaming is something we dont really do over here :P

[frankfukers]

I've always wanted a REALLY DIRTY smut where frank is a bully and hates y/n 😭 I feel so guilty/ashamed

baby we dont kinkshame here you arent hurting anyone you are so valid

im not an xreader writer but someone else might be and will be able to fulfill your request

[laced-containment-chamber]

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hi im lace. i go by she/her only. i tried other pronouns for a while and hated them. also im bi/omni/pansexual with a preference towards feminine body types and a hate for any facial hair that is more than a stubble

im a sexual protector alter in a system (the cringe collective). im also a non-human alter (succubus) so if i refer to myself as such remember its not an rp or anything. 2 of my alters (@eeemerald and @patchymoon) have their own tumblr accounts but they post content thats very different from my own. please treat us like separate people bc we are separate people with different opinions and beliefs (shocking i know)

i like weeb garbage like vtubers (specifically hololive), vocaloid, and touhou. i also REALLY like tf2. medic is my wife

oh yeah did i mention i write fanfiction. my ao3 is average_redacted_enjoyer (NSFW) and i am nowhere else except for discord (i will only give away my discord user in dms).

(q&a/faq under the cut (includes discussions of NSFW topics but thats basically this entire blog))

Q&A

q: can you do a fic for (insert fandom/ship/etc. here)? a: probably not unless its something i'm familiar and comfortable with writing about

q: do you have a pregnancy fetish? a: yes dont kinkshame me

q: your fanfiction makes me uncomfortable. can you take it down? a: no but you can exclude tags that ick you on ao3. if i forgot to tag anything though let me know and i will add it to the list

q: why won't you write fanfiction about vtubers? a: it borders on rpf and writing anything close to rpf is outside of my personal comfort zone considering how i primarily write smut (its fine if you enjoy it tho we all have our own preferences)

q: when is the next fic/update coming out? a: i try to post at least once a month but remember that i cant always update as much as i want to due to having a life outside of fanfiction. btw if i say i will maybe do something chances are i probably wont lmao

q: why do you say "lmao" so much? a: it helps me set myself apart from my headmates

[lutawolf]

hi luta, i just want so slide by and say thank you

for bringing kind metas (posts) on lita/prapaisky , and mame's a bit too. i am forever grateful.

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im a tumblr user for bl stuff in 2020, followed some huge blogs & learned a lot about bl cuz im fairly new. i had forgotten about it until i rejoined a couple months ago for prapaisky' lita -- expecting to share the same excitement / reading wonderful metas / learning things again

i ... im pretty perplexed to read the blogs i used to read for info / metas im looking forward to ... expressed mean, mean, things.

i felt nauseous. i didnt realize the people whose metas i used to love can be so. cruel. i had hoped i can find some articulation of what I felt, as a shared feelings, but not only i didnt find it, i, felt ashamed to even had my feelings from the first place. i had to dived in the tag rabbit hole and finally found blogs that expressed the opposites, and thank god i did. thank god i did.

(followed them right away, n unfollow thw prev blogs that i now, see, as ... no)

this tho, had me actually ignored the whole tag whlist it airs, and put notif on for the ones i now value, yours included. it got me thru the whole journey of ep11-13, especially, Especially, 12. the special ep tho, the special ep got me branched out again towards the tag and see people bashing it again undermining it as the sex ep. and kinkshaming rain. is it so bad to have a happy, mutual, consent sexual relationship? i thought we dont kinkshame now

i . i dont know what to think. i am sorry to barging in like this. i just. all these upsetting experience piled up and i just. had to. express my gratitude that u at least shown me the kind side of this perspective.

i apologize for the incoherency, english is not my first language, i wish this isnt too rude..

no need to answer this if u dont want to, i just, had to say it to you. all the love, anon.

Hey Hey lil 🐇,

First, let me say welcome back to Tumblr! I'm actually pretty new. I reached a year anniversary this month. Though I am not new to bl at all. I'm OG there.

Negative reviews are a part of life. However, there is a difference between being hateful and writing a neg review. There is a difference between cancel culture and I don't watch this or participate in this type of art. I think that people are failing to see the differences. Life is not white and black.

There will always be kink shaming. It's not from men though. It's from women. These same women that are talking shit, reading romance on their kindle when no one is looking and wouldn't think twice about their boyfriend asking them to wear a French maid costume. As an amazing friend once told me, this is your room and you cultivate it the way you need to. He blocks people left and right, creating the atmosphere that he wants on Tumblr. I've learned to do the same. I may end up in a bubble but it's a tiny community of people I truly enjoy and love.

Never apologize for English being your second language. Being bilingual is an accomplishment that should only get love not judgement. You guys will never and I mean NEVER see me criticize the way someone writes, from spelling to commas, to anything. I'll never do it. I might ask for clarification but there will never be criticism. We are all here to learn and better ourselves and that is not accomplished by sitting in judgement.

I really appreciate that you read my blog and enjoy it. It means the world to me that you guys reach out to me. All the love. Wishing you the best. Thank you, 💜💜💜