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rowanthestrange · 6 months ago
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I like Martha, I do, but people complaining Ruby hasn’t shown enough character flaws in the first two episodes like if you took “was willing to put up with his shit for way too long grrl” away from Martha she wouldn’t be so flat that she’d disappear if you looked at her side-on.
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isfjmel-phleg · 4 months ago
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Damage #1
I reread this issue this afternoon and had a sort of idea about a series of posts walking through Grant's solo and early appearances. So if no one objects too much to that, here we go.
The very first appearance of Grant Emerson: Damage #1, entitled "Damage," written by Tom Joyner and pencilled by Bill Marimon.
The first page: we meet Grant in his powered-up form, grotesquely muscular in a way that clashes with his youthful face and haircut, rubble at his feet, wearing his costume and an expression of rage. A very 90s look in general, but the absurd proportions do also give a sense of the uncomfortableness of the physical changes that Grant experiences at full power.
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The captions introduce us to a boy frustrated by a lack of control in his life after constantly having to move, and how he has developed the Emerson System of five rules to survive socially as the perpetual new kid. And this system has failed. (I've already discussed the Emerson System in depth as a trauma response, and you can read about that here.)
Grant's school is in Marietta, Georgia, not Atlanta. He has never lived there, just in one of its suburbs.
Then we get a very different view of Grant as a typical lanky teenager, trying desperately to join the track team (Rule #1: Go out for the team, any team. Being on a team changes you from "the new kid" to "the new kid who's on the team.") even though it's not his first choice of sport, hoping to win but resigning him to settling for second place when a bigger guy shoves him around (Rule #2: Make friends, not enemies. If you don't have any friends, enemies are luxuries you can't afford.), and getting distracted by a girl who's watching him run (Rule #3: Don't even think about girls for the first two months in a new school. Girls cause you to break Rule #2.)
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We can see that he's analytically minded, views social interactions as strategic, and tends to be a people pleaser at his own expense.
But then he somehow manages to come in first, "a few seconds off Olympic pace," which surprises him.
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He has done a lot of odd, unexplained things lately: pulling the kitchen door off its hinges (his dad says the wood was just rotten), surviving falling out of a tree, and now being "fast enough to try out to be the new Kid Flash." Surely these are coincidences that will have no bearing on anything.
There's a lot of stock characters and situations for a teenage superhero comic: the unattainable and personality-less love interest, the nerdy friend, the bully, the soon-to-be hero struggling socially at school. It's nothing out of the ordinary, and perhaps that's intentional--lulling us into a certain set of expectations before throwing in the twists (such as: the hero's powers are actually a problem for him, not a source of liberation).
We're introduced to a significant trait of Grant's--his lack of emotional control. Enraged by getting bullied in front of his crush, he punches the nearest car--and destroys it. He instantly regrets this and runs away in a panic. Before Grant ever has explosive powers that he can't manage, he has explosive emotions and not the healthiest way of dealing with them, which will complicate the powers.
Note the 'Keep Out" sign on Grant's door. It's a typical item for his age, but in light of what we find out much later about his home life, it's not surprising why he would want to (futilely?) try to keep his parents out of his bedroom.
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Our introduction to Grant's relationship with his parents reveals that they are not close. (Rule #4: Never tell your parents what's really happening with you. If it's good, they won't get why. If it's bad, they can't handle it.) They have a tendency to dismiss his concerns and here seem to be trying to gaslight him out of believing that he destroyed that car.
Grant has a very teenage outburst about how they never listen to him and don't care what he thinks. His parents' shocked expressions suggest that this isn't normal for him. When he punches a wall, he finds his powers are gone.
John Emerson plays the disciplinarian, ordering Grant to calm down and telling him to stay in his room for the night, while Kate Emerson positions herself as the "nice" one, promising to bring him his favorite dessert later. This seems to be the established family dynamic.
Grant's punishment isn't abnormally harsh, but his dad is clearly just enraged as he was a moment before, and Grant seems to fear his dad's anger. There's a pattern developing of mounting frustration, reacting and losing control, and regret.
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(Note the glimpse in Grant's interests that we get in his bedroom--that model of the Enterprise hanging from the ceiling!)
Meanwhile, his parents are calling somebody to report that "Subject Telemachus is active" and rejoicing that "By tomorrow, he won't be our problem anymore," which is a totally normal and reasonable thing to do after your teenager yells at you.
The Emersons keep a photo of Grant by the phone...for reference? if they ever need to describe him to somebody?
The attack that leads to the complete unleashing of Grant's powers occurs in the middle of a history lesson on Pearl Harbor (which is an odd place for a history class to be at the beginning of the school year). There's a comparison being drawn between Japan's having "woke the sleeping giant" of America's power and America been irrevocably drawn into war and leading to the use of the atomic bomb and Grant's powers awakening, leading to his being drawn into another sort of war (being a hero) and causing great destruction.
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Grant's first fight is with the supervillain Metallo, who has been contracted to kill him and breaks into the school looking for him.
But Grant doesn't go down easily: he survives being thrown through a wall and across campus, feels stronger, finds that his hands are glowing with power, and starts to expand in muscle mass.
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As Grant punches Metallo, he is both trying to understand the situation and distracted by how cool his powers are.
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By the time that he's gratuitously shirtless and able to lift a bus over his head, he's quite confident that he can outlast Metallo, but he's starting to be overpowered.
Grant is overwhelmed and in pain but decides to put everything into one punch. He can feel energy building in his glowing hands, but it builds up too fast and he can't hold it in--and he explodes!
He destroys his high school and has "skipped straight to Rule Five" (Rule #5: When you're ready to make your mark, make it big. Never be afraid to make a name for yourself.)
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The first comment he hears in the aftermath is "Look at th' damage!"
Having expended his powers, Grant is now weak and exhausted. He appeals to his track coach for help, but the coach won't come near him and tells him to wait for the authorities to take care of him. He calls to his classmate Elliot, but he won't get too close either.
Grant is crushed to realize that everyone is now afraid of him, and he agrees that they should be, because he's not normal! So when Mandra, the girl he likes, tries to approach him, he runs away, afraid he might lose control again and hurt her.
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Out of control and with no rules or anyone to look to, he heads home...
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...only to find his parents gone and three costumed guys with weapons telling him to come with them. And that's where we leave off until #2!
The editor's page offers some background to the story's origin and creators. Damage was created by Bill Kaplan, Tom Joyner, and Bill Marimon, and was originally called Nuke, but Marvel already had that name in use (for a supervillain!). Kaplan ended up leaving DC for another job, so Joyner and Marimon took the book from there. At the time of writing, Joyner was getting his BA in English. (Imagine co-creating a successful comic book character as a side gig while you're an undergrad. I am impressed.) He has a website where he discusses his work on Damage (among other things), and he does seem to still have an affection for the character--he refers to Grant as "our boy" a couple of times.
My observations: This is a very 90s comic in general, and while the scenarios are bizarre (it only gets weirder from here), what makes it stand out for me is Grant himself. His "Emerson System" approach to life and how this controlled, analytical method conflicts with his inability to contain his own emotions make him believably human--and his powers tie in with this struggle. This isn't a story about a downtrodden kid suddenly empowered by acquiring amazing abilities; instead, power is a danger, something alienating. His problems have not been conveniently solved--they're only beginning.
Next time we'll take a look at #2 and find out where the Emersons vanished to.
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lea-heartscxiv · 2 years ago
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Schneider Family
The Schneiders are composed of: Edward and Jokan (Ed and Jo), twin brothers. Ann and Anne also twins, although their maiden name was Becker, when they married the Schneider twins they changed to their married name. They met at a party, became friends and after a few years, they became engaged and soon after married. They are from Germany, although they live elsewhere.
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First Name: Ann
Last name: Schneider
Job: Trendsetter
Ann as a young girl looked a little different, even wearing contact lenses like her twin sister Anne, in blue. Her hair was blue,black,purple. But she finally decided to have blue hair in different shades. She has the job of her dreams. She has a son and a daughter who are twins, but they both have very different powers, by the way Ann is not and has never been supernatural.
Ann is starting to like sports, is it because she sees Ed doing sports so much in the morning?
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First Name:  Edward  (Ed)
Last name:  Schneider
Job: University Rector
Edward, or Ed as he is called by those closest to him, like his brother Jokkan, has never changed his appearance or even the color of his hair. He, like his twin brother, works in the field of education, they both work at the same university.
He likes sports and always tries to do some in the morning before going to work.
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First Name: Alice
Last name: Schneider
Job:  Student
Alice, as a child has been a very obedient infant, she grew up with the typical problems that a young witch has, but nothing more, now being a teenager is when her magic is more noticeable. High school grades go like a roller coaster.
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First Name: Spencer
Last name: Schneider
Job:  Student
Spencer is a vampire who despite his youth has come a long way, between classes he has been developing his vampire powers and has been learning everything about them, he is currently Vampire Supreme. Although he is a vampire he can not neglect his studies and tries to carry them as best he can. Alice and he both have the trait of Advanced Infant.
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First Name: Anne
Last name: Schneider
Anne, when she was young she wore her hair to one side and blue contact lenses, now as an adult she wears her hair to both sides and no longer wears contact lenses. She has a mole on her right side. Her nephew Spencer turned her into a vampire, although we don't know if she wanted it or not. She has no job because she is afraid of getting fried in the sun.
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First Name: Jokan
Last name: Schneider
Job: University Teacher
Jokkan, like his brother, has never changed his hair color, nor has he had any tattoos or anything else done. He works at the same university as his brother Ed, he is a teacher.
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First Name: Markus
Last name: Schneider
Job:  Student
Markus was an infant vampire, but something happened between his infancy and childhood because when he reached adolescence, he is no longer a vampire. In high school he is a bit bad, and his grades are not very good, since he hardly presents his homework. His hair color became lighter as he grew up, and his eyes became the same color as his twin brother's, since he had blue eyes when he was a child.
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First Name: Paul
Last name: Schneider
Job:  Student
Paul, as a little boy, was already a bit of a cheeky dresser, and like his brother, his hair had lightened. He is a normal student like his brother, but he does his homework every day, so his grades are better than his brother's. He is a very good student. And both brothers like physical exercise. And both of them have the trait of learning ace.
The 8 members of the Schneider family were created on December 08, 2020.
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your-brilliant-lady-m · 4 years ago
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South Korean music industry at a glance: an outsider perspective
I watched one particular AMV last week. The song used for the video was “I’m afraid” by Korean rock band DAY6. I was pleasantly surprised as someone who values lyrics in song first and foremost. The music itself was great. I’ll listen to their songs again. It’s a nice fit for my music taste. Naturally, YouTube’s algorithm decided that I’m a fan of everything Korean after 1 video and started spamming my recommendations with k-pop songs, documentaries and everything in-between. 
I watched a couple of videos, listened to some songs and discovered fascinating patterns. So, I went down to the comment section. And it was rather interesting experience, should I say? The concept of entertainment industry in South Korea simply begged to be explored more after this. I dug deeper and visited Tumblr k-pop tags and briefly glanced upon Instagram and Twitter. And, oh...
I am a big picture person and I enjoy both studying and creating systems. This one was particularly fun to explore. I discovered a lot of new things for myself. Perhaps, you can discover something new for yourself too or take a step back and look at this from a new angle. 
Disclaimer: it’s impossible not to offend someone on Tumblr, so keep that in mind. That being said, I do NOT intend to insult of offend anyone. It’s just a little research done for fun, because I love research with a purpose. This post is NOT A HATE post. No hate intended for fans, artists or other people involved. It’s meant to be a discussion, nothing more and nothing less. If it sounds like hate, it’s just my sarcastic sense of humour.
Content Warning: I mention suicide, death, depression, rape in a couple of sentences. There’s nothing major or graphic, but it’s there. 
In this long post I decided to share with you my opinion, a so-called outsider perspective, on the world of music entertainment industry in South Korea and people involved in it on different levels. I use the word “outsider” mainly because, that’s exactly what I am in this case, as someone who is in no way involved in k-pop community. I can’t name you a single band or their members. I don’t know any solo artist and can’t neither sing nor name you any song. 
And to be completely honest, I don’t think I will set my foot into k-pop fan-circles ever again after everything I saw. 
Think of this as “In this essay I will...” meme, except there’s an actual essay.
As far as I know, in South Korea “k-pop” refers to all music produced in SK, including solo artists, various bands, singers-songwriters. It doesn’t even have to be pop music. Koreans include in this definition all genres of music. However, around the world “k-pop” means primarily music made by idol groups and bands marketed for children, teenagers and younger people. In this post I use the latter definition, because that’s how most people understand “k-pop” in other countries. Therefore, my statements, opinions and conclusions here would concern only idol music. 
The music industry in South Korea is heavily influenced by culture and traditions of the country, just like all things are. And there’s nothing wrong with that. After all, different backgrounds are what makes people so interesting and unique. However, when combined with consumer mindset, desire to generate profit at any cost and fast-paced nature of modern life these neutral cultural elements could produce something concerning, and it can lead to disastrous consequences. 
1. Idol
These people are called artists, musicians, singers, bands, groups, performers. In South Korea and in Japan, however, people call them Idols or Stars. I’ve also seen Muses, Princes and Queens. Interesting, isn’t it? The terminology used to describe these musicians in South Korea is one of the key elements in this whole entertainment system. You’ll see why.
But who or what is an idol exactly? Let’s take a basic definition from Wikipedia.
“In the practice of religion, a cult image or devotional image is a human-made object that is venerated or worshipped for the deity, person, spirit or daemon ... that it embodies or represents. In several traditions, including the ancient religions of Egypt, Greece and Rome, and modern Hinduism, cult images in a temple may undergo a daily routine of being washed, dressed, and having food left for them. Processions outside the temple on special feast days are often a feature. Religious images cover a wider range of all types of images made with a religious purpose, subject, or connection. In many contexts "cult image" specifically means the most important image in a temple, kept in an inner space, as opposed to what may be many other images decorating the temple.
The term idol is often synonymous with worship cult image. In cultures where idolatry is not viewed negatively, the word idol is not generally seen as pejorative, such as in Indian English.”
Cambridge Dictionary defines idol as follows:
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And here’s the definition from Oxford Dictionary: 
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This is a centrepiece of this tapestry. Surely, you have noticed by now what these definitions have in common. 
Idol = a cult image of a god, a deity 
By calling these musicians “idols” industry makes society and audience treat them in certain way, namely as gods. What characteristics do gods possess? They are beautiful, talented, funny, confident and graceful, blessed by eternal youth of immortality. Gods have no flaws, they do not bleed, they are above human concerns. They are an embodiment of perfection. They are stars, you could not reach. 
But real people are not like that. They can be sad and angry, insecure. People don’t have perfectly symmetrical faces. They can’t dance in sync without preparation. They can’t sing like angels at any given moment throughout the day.
What happens when idols accidentally reveal their humanity? What happens when people see, that they make mistakes and do stupid things, that they need to train hard to appear graceful on stage? 
I will tell you. And it’s not pretty. But, first, let’s look at other elements of this system. 
2. Y/N and Self-insert fantasy
Aside from the music, K-pop sells the self-insert fantasy to the audience. It’s carefully arranged to appear real, where the cracks are masked and every word is scripted. The reality is so vivid that one doesn’t even have to use imagination all that much, because all scenarios and decorations already exist. Countless interviews for TV and magazines, fan meetings, talk shows, reality shows made sure people are privy to all juicy details of personal lives and opinions of musicians. And also one word - merchandise. Some of that merch made me question my life choices. Some of it is, ah, creepy or has weird vibes. All of this provides plenty of material for people to work with. Fans can effortlessly imagine themselves beside their idols or even in their place. 
In a highly competitive society, where people throw themselves into studying and work since young age, forming deep and lasting connections with others is very hard, sometimes impossible. As a result, people long to have a group of close friends with similar interests, a loving partner who would cherish them endlessly. People want to be rewarded for their backbreaking efforts to succeed by the carefree life of fame and music, everlasting friendships and love. And in a way you can’t really blame them for his. 
Does this dream life sound familiar? We are looking at K-pop bands here. It doesn’t really matter if their members don’t always get along or that they can live in debt, that fame is fickle and adoring fans can tear your self-confidence to shreds. Audience wants the glamour of fantasy and the industry is more than happy to cater to these desires. 
Perhaps, knowing that even for idols this fantasy is sometimes unattainable makes the whole set up feel just a little cruel. 
3. Fans, stans and fandom culture
We’ve already established earlier that idols are gods in the eyes of people and listed traits they must possess. So, what else do gods need to exist? Worshippers. Because a cult is worth nothing without its followers. Gods need a group of people to worship them and spread their beliefs. The role of worshippers is performed by a fans in this case. 
Apparently, there is a running joke that girl groups need to win a general public popularity and boy bands need a big passionate fandom. It seems to be true according to my observations. 
In k-pop fandom people use the word “stan” to state that they like or support particular group. Now, I am sure everyone here knows that in other fandoms, dedicated to movies, shows, books and games there’s an important distinction between being a “fan” and a “stan”. What is it? 
A fan is someone who likes a ship or character, creates and/or consumes fandom content, supports certain ideas, discusses things they enjoyed and disliked, criticises canon. Stans, however, are a different breed. They engage in all typical fandom activities, but their support and enjoyment becomes obsession. Stans believe their favourite characters and ships are immune to criticism, that they are superior no matter what others say. Stans start shipping wars, send anon hate, death threats over fictional characters and hurt real people. Stans are considered toxic fans. And majority of normal civilised people don’t like them and try their best to let stans hang out in their echo chamber by themselves. 
In other fandoms and communities, to be a fan means to love, support and enjoy something, while to stan means to obsess over and hyperfixate on these same things. Words “I stan” rarely mean “I support” for most people, and if they do mean that, it’s only used in a joking manner (”We stan procrastination legend!”, “I stan our miscommunication kings”).
Everywhere else “stan” has only negative connotations, except in k-pop. But what has changed? What’s the difference? Why do international fans scoff at “shipper stans” and then turn around calling themselves “stans of X k-pop group” at the same time? Does it make you wonder? 
And this is another core theme of k-pop, in my opinion. In fandom where stan = obsession = support, you can see interesting patterns. 
Fandom loves their flawless gods. But watching them from afar is not enough for some people, because unlike deities in different religions, these gods live among us. People are very much aware of that. Industry has created a cult and laid the groundwork for worshippers to express their adoration in every way including personal contact. And who wouldn’t want to meet their god? Who wouldn’t want to know more about them or tell them how much you love them? In talk shows and fan meetings there is only so much one can do after all.
People desire to know more, to have more so much that their obsession transforms into concerning stalker tendencies. These crazy individuals follow idols, stalk them on social media, in hotels, research flight numbers, bribe security. Musicians were attacked and poisoned. I strongly suspect there were cases of rape that no one knows about. There is even a special term for these fans - “sasaeng”. 
Is there a definition for stalkers of actors or musicians in western world? No, I’m pretty sure there isn’t. They are just called “invasive/obsessive fans” or “stalkers”.
Also, there are sasaeng memes. Yeah, you heard that right. I enjoy some classy dark humour as much as the next person, but there is a fine line between normal and questionable. 
Back to the topic of stalkers. Do you realise how disturbing that is? Such behaviour is so common that there is a term for it. You create a fandom-cult, encourage people to worship k-pop idols as gods and then act surprised when members of said cult become fanatics and their adoration becomes obsession.
And it’s so easy to step on this slippery road. The system makes it ridiculously easy. Lines begin to blur. How much is too much? Where do you draw the line? 
While sasaeng fans engage in extreme real-life obsession, people online aren’t that far off, to be honest. I’ve seen it all: imagines, headcanons, fanfiction, real-person shipping, reactions. Real person shipping is a controversial topic. Some people support it, others don’t. I suppose I’m among those who don’t get it. I’m not exactly against it, but I find it strange. Mainly because it’s based on assumptions made by fans about personalities and behaviour of real people. 
Assumptions. Dear me! K-pop fandom has this thing with video compilations. I’ve never seen this phenomenon being so widespread in any other community or fandom. Basically people edit together a collection of short clips from talk-shows, interviews, Instagram stories, some YouTube videos, etc and then proceed to analyse every gesture, word, facial expression of idols and provide both audio and on-screen commentary. These videos and many other forms of similar analysis allow people to imagine what kind of personalities idols have, what kind of life do they live. It’s the source material for fanfiction, imagines and headcanons. 
But it’s not real. It’ll never be real. It’s an illusion, an image, a stage persona. They fall in love with a face and made up personality. And I think that when people create this content they can forget this. Fans can develop certain emotional dependence and unhealthy attitudes in the long run. In some YouTube comments even supportive and encouraging words sound whiny and obsessive. And semantics of being a “stan” of certain group or individual doesn’t help. 
4. Industry, companies and liars 
At last we arrive at the most important aspect of music entertainment industry - its creators.
Have you seen “The Road to El Dorado”? It’s one of my all time favourites. It has iconic characters, adult jokes that I didn’t get as a child and iconic soundtrack. I’ll quote “It’s Tough To Be A God” a lot here. 
In South Korea music industry is a factory, the production line to be exact. This kind of set up affects everything in the grand scheme of things. Companies and agencies play the role of training centres and record labels. And there are so many of them that a whole new scamming system developed based around fake idol agencies. It implies that there are people who fall for offers of these agencies and continue to do so. I suspect that victims must pay a fortune upfront before they realise their mistake. Are there any kind of legal protection against such scams? How can people verify the authenticity? Because a well masked scam can exist for a long time before someone discovers it and calls them out on their nonsense. 
As far as I understand legal companies work like this. After high school, which is often focused on performing arts (and private schools can get away with using talents of students for personal gain, which is totally not surprising), young people can audition for an agency and become an idol in training or idol-trainee. And passing audition is hard. But good recommendations can help, connections too. 
During training you don’t get paid. Only a few companies pay aspiring musicians. People can spend years in training and don’t debut. But rent, necessities, clothing and food (not that you need much of it, but more on that later) cost a lot. Where do you get the money to live then? Support from parents, one or two part time jobs at most and bank loans. Surprise! We found an unexpected (just kidding, it’s very obvious) party, who reaps benefits from the system. 
You need skill to be an idol. Natural talent helps too. The more skills you have, the cheaper and faster your training is. To level up your game you attend classes every month offered by your agency, which are not cheap (dance classes range from 400$ to 1000$ per month, sometimes more). There are four main categories in evaluation process: vocals, rapping, dancing and visuals. Idols are multitaskers, to have a chance on stage one must be perfect at everything. And people are ready to invest thousands of dollars into their kids training so that they could have a chance in entertainment industry. South Korea thrives on revenue k-pop industry generates every day.
Let’s pause here for a second and think about what kind of people come to these agencies. The answer is easy. People who have a dream, a desire, a real goal. You don’t wake up one day and decide to become a k-pop idol. Sometimes people get invited by agencies (after prior acting, modelling career or any other form of exposure). These people are usually very young. Some start straight after high school, some after university, but 25 years old is considered a late start. Compare that to western musicians who start singing at any age and still become famous. 
But why this age limit? Because idols are eternally young. So that in public eye musicians are remembered as 20 year old gods. People would listen to their music and imagine a young attractive face. Career in k-pop is short, it lasts 5-7 years, rarely longer than that. It’s even less than modelling or acting can offer. And professional sportsmen retire in their late 30′s. Some play longer, but usually, that’s it.
If you live in Los Angeles and say that you want to be an actor or performer, no one would bat an eye. It’s like saying that you want to be an engineer or accountant. Similarly, in South Korea becoming an k-pop musician is a real career. Because part of the self insert fantasy that the industry sells is the idea that anyone can be an idol. It’s easy after all. Anyone can pass auditions and become a trainee. A trainee with no guarantee of debut. But one should never underestimate the power of idol-dream. After all, idea is the most resilient parasite.   
“My friends started training in kindergarten. They have wanted to become idols since young”
“A lot of young kids get interested in Korean music” 
A 6-year old child sees the performance of k-pop group for the first time on TV. Let’s say it’s a girl. She is enraptured and decides that she will be like that too someday. She grows up, while being part of the fandom, just like all idols are in one way or another and whose fan-obsession transforms into desire to succeed. Her parents spend time and money to find her tutors, to fund dancing and singing classes. Perhaps in high school this girl decides to fix the shape of her eyes and make nose straighter. She trains hard and passes the auditions in her dream agency. And during training this girl faces the reality of behind the scenes life in music industry.
“Why are you crying? I’m not even pushing you”
“How many times have I told you? The rest are doing it perfectly”
“She is dancing like an elementary school student“
“I watched your performance as a spectator who bought a ticket to your concert. I want a refund“
“You make my ears hurt. I don’t want to listen at all”
“Listening to you was tiring”
“I’ll kick you out instead. You won’t debut”
“I thought I was going to die. That’s how determined I was” 
While I do understand that keeping a high quality standards in media industry is important, there are more productive and healthy ways to motivate someone to improve and be more passionate, you know? Constantly insulting people with sadistic glee and putting them down at every opportunity or calling them ugly to their face doesn’t do much. 
Do you think that children know about this? Do they know about soulless teachers and belittling managers? Do they know about friends who are really your competition, so you shouldn’t get attached? Do they know about living in debt? Do they know any of this? No, I don’t think they do. 
Children dream about the stage, about the sea of lights and crowds who chant your names. They want adoring fans and photoshoots. They want to appear on TV and magazine covers. Teenagers want the thrill of performance, they want to share their music and dancing with others. 
“I don’t know how many times I cried alone”
The truth is cruel. But they won’t give up easily even if it means sleeping 4-5 hours and consuming no more than 500 calories per day. Because giving up means that your whole life was a lie. One can’t afford not to be good enough. Giving up means admitting that all efforts and money your family invested into your dream were in vain. It means losing face before your family and friends - a fate worse than death. Imagine living this idol dream and building your whole future around it and then being told that you’ll never debut because of the circumstances outside of your control or something minor, like face shape or 1 kg of weight that your body refuses to lose. It can break you. Especially if you are like 18 or something. 
5. “And who am I to bridle if I'm forced to be an idol If they say that I'm a God, that's what I am”
“I don’t think there’s anything a tough as being a trainee in Korea”
Once you are a trainee at the agency your personal life does not belong to you anymore. You can’t go out without permission of the agency. You phone is taken away. Your diet and weight are monitored. Bad habits are not allowed (no smoking, drinking or drugs). Oh! I think I found the good thing in the system! Unfortunately, it won’t last. Trainees can’t date or meet with family without permission of agency. Dating is very taboo. Even established idols can’t openly date. 
Why is that? Because gods can’t belong to anyone. Their lives are property of the fandom. Because openly dating idols destroy the self-insert fantasy. There was a former idol girl who dated another musician. She was called a whore by her fans, her loving and adoring stans. You might know who I am talking about. Would you call an American actor or singer a prostitute for dating someone?
Trainees sign the contract. And how can a young person straight out of school or university know much about what makes a good contract in entertainment industry or what makes a good contract in general? Even if you do understand the terms fully you would still sign it because if you have come so far, you can’t let your dream slip this easily. There isn’t a choice. Not really. If you want to debut, you will agree to anything.
What about life after debut? You have to pay off your loans. And company takes 60-70% of your group’s earnings. Artists themselves get 30-40% and split it between themselves. K-pop groups have from 5 to 10 members or more than that. Each person gets less than 6%. Idols are not filthy rich. They are not. These earnings are practically nothing compared to the work you have put into this. 
Idols are musicians, who often don’t even write their own songs, music or create choreography. But if public doesn’t like the song and musical number the company created, they blame idols for the failure. Such an amazing logic we see right here. But people say that sharing music is the best part of idol life. But whose music? 
Models on catwalk are not there to demonstrate their physical beauty, they are blank canvas for works of clothing designers. Same with k-pop musicians. They act like puppets in a way, whose faces and voices are used to show audience someone’s music and songs. Some groups do write their own music and lyrics and it’s nice to know that. But those, who don’t are rather unfortunate. It’s a nice tool of psychological control and pressure for an agency. They can hold it over group and use the following rhetoric: “We gave you everything! Why can’t you follow the simple instructions” or “Where would you be without us? It’s not even your music!”
I called k-pop industry a factory. That’s true. Dozens of people become trainees every year. These talented young people are fully prepared to do anything to achieve their goal. They are ready to practice until they collapse, starve themselves and pour themselves into every song. Companies know that. Tell me why would they value their idols as individuals, as people, as human beings if they always have a replacement? Why bother with mental health of their artists if next year they could have a fresh set of people, who are younger and prettier? Why try to improve relationships inside groups if you could fire any member and replace them within a month or two?
In western countries famous bands have different stories. Some were friends since high school, who played in bars and during festivals and then they were noticed by some representative of label company, who offered them a contract. Some groups were formed by like-minded people who bonded and decided to share their music with the world. There are many stories, but ultimately the have one thing in common. Bands in the West often form themselves. These people had time to bond, connect, discover each other, solve some disagreements and learn to work around their differences. 
K-pop groups are formed by their agencies. They are their property in a way. Company selects the best and puts together these total strangers, appoints the leader with marketable face and personality and then expects them to work together like a well-oiled machine. No one has time to bond during training, because other people are you competition, not friends. And then you must learn to work as a team and be best friends on camera for the audience to support the self-insert fantasy. It’s no wonder that k-pop groups don’t get along sometimes. And every member knows that they are replaceable. It doesn’t help in forming connections. Groups can’t just terminate contract and go to work with another agency. I heard it happens sometimes, but it’s not a done thing. Unlike in other countries where bands just sign the deal with a different label and release their music under their name if they don’t like the old conditions. 
“It's tough to be a God But if you get the people's nod Count your blessings, keep them sweet, that's our advice Be a symbol of perfection Be a legend, be a cult Take their praise, take a collection As the multitudes exalt Don a supernatural habit We'd be crazy not to grab it So sign up two new Gods for paradise”
But is it really a paradise?
Idols are expected to act cute, to match personalities created for them by fans or media. They have to act according to the concept of their group. They have to be a symbol of perfection: skinny, single and with a face perfected by surgery. They are allowed to mess up, but only in a cute way. They can break down and cry, but only if it’s “aesthetic”.
Weight issues are a separate topic. Sometimes I wonder whether managers in companies understand how weight loss or human body in general works. To be honest, I think that scales in agencies are rigged. And only managers know that. I know it can be done from personal experience. Some beach resorts tweak their scales and make them show 4-6 kg less than actual weight, so people wouldn’t get upset if they gain some. There is no way a girl as tall as I am (173 cm) could weigh like 47-50 kg and be able to perform complex choreography on stage and sing without being out of breath, visit the gym on a regular basis and generally function as a normal human without fainting every other day.
“I developed a lot of eating disorders”
“I think I consumed about 300 calories today“
“Someone, please, trim the fat off her arms”
If you grow up thinking of idols as gods and then, when you become one of them you think that you must act as one too. But being an easily replaceable god is a heavy burden. The industry, companies and audience want you to be perfect, to always be on your best behaviour. And the thought of not being good enough or divine enough terrifies you, because stans have no mercy (black ocean concept is the most stupid thing ever by the way). This kind of pressure can destroy even the most resilient. And it does. 
Almost everyone knows that situation with mental health in South Korea is not the best to put it lightly. In many ways it’s a cultural thing. But in k-pop mental health issues are treated with even less care. Gods are not supposed to be depressed or suicidal. They are not supposed to have fears or insecurities, can’t be upset or angry. They try hard to be this deity, this image. So, even when they realise they need professional help or even a friend to talk to, they either won’t seek said help or reach out only to be met with silence. Some agencies disapprove or forbid therapy altogether. 
Sometimes fandom becomes self-aware.
“Don’t forget that idols are people too!”
“Your favourite idols are running out of breath just to keep you entertained“
“They are humans, who have feelings!”
Oh, but here’s the thing, my friend. The industry doesn’t want you to think of them as people. Companies and media repeatedly reinforce the idea that they are not people, they are your idols. And strangely enough, the audience supports this idea. People continue to call them idols, developing worshiping tendencies in the process, imitate them, scrutinise their flaws and triumphs. Because, you know, only “real and ordinary humans” can have flaws, not “idols”.
So people who say “they are human too” and people who say “wow, this concert was amazing, but vocals in the beginning were so off-key, I simply can’t” are one and the same.
This thought process would have been funny if it wasn’t so disappointing. But that’s just my observation.
And here’s another thing about sexualisation. I said before how appearances are everything, marketable face and body could drastically improve your chances to succeed. Companies know about this too and concepts and aesthetics of groups are designed accordingly. Girls are dressed in skimpy outfits, their dances are unnecessary suggestive, they wear heavy make up and try to have “mature” vibes. Boys don’t avoid such objectification either: suits, tight pants and dress shirts along with make up and hairstyle to give audience a promise of the things to come. Grown adults are not supposed to lust after 15-17 year olds. You can’t just create a sexy stage persona for teenagers. Do you remember my earlier words about creepy merch? Yeah. All of it neatly plays into the self-insert fantasy and encourages obsessive behaviour. 
This happens in western countries too. In some way that’s understandable. Beautiful and sexy image with a hint of innocence attracts more people and sells, because it caters to one of the base human instincts. But some things make your skin crawl. 
Sponsorships are another topic. Some k-pop bands seek out sponsors to provide financial aid and cover expenses, when earnings are not enough. Sometimes these sponsorships are fine, perfectly civil. But sometimes it’s a prostitution. Girl groups receive money and provide sexual favours to their patrons. It’s a way for the group to gain financial support and even find new opportunities in the industry. Companies can encourage such deals. Let that sink in for a moment. 
6. “Any advice to those who want to become a k-pop idol?”
A lot of former idols and trainees have similar responses to this question. 
“I don’t want to discourage anyone, but think twice”
“You only see the glamorous side, but don’t see all the hard work that goes into it”
“It’s not what you think”
“They think ‘Since I am good looking and can sing and dance really well, maybe I should become an idol?’, but there is much more to it“
“They think it’s something that is easy and will keep their family set for life financially”
And this implies that most people don’t know what kind of lifestyle k-pop stars truly have, despite the amount of information available online about “behind the scenes” proceedings.
7. Moving on
I am a practical person and every decision I make is subjected to scrutiny. And after seeing everything I can't help but wonder whether idols believe it's truly worth it. What keeps the industry alive is the idol-dream, the wilful ignorance of its reality and youthful idealism, the beautiful naïve belief that it'll get better, even if it never does in the end.
Sure no one would ever admit it out loud, because it's one of those things you never say on camera, no matter how sincere you have to be. It's the matter of professionalism after all, and idols have it spades. And also, because admitting this would equal admitting that you spent your best years doing something you both loved and hated, admitting that this was a mistake.
When you grow up in a society where appearances matter the most, where saving face and being polite is more important than staying true to yourself, where individuality is tolerated only to a certain point, it takes a lot of courage to admit that you need a break. I greatly respect those who decided that idol lifestyle is not for them and moved on.
8. Conclusion
To sum up, I hope you enjoyed my small research and this perspective, since you have read it all the way to the end.  
You have noticed that entertainment industry is an intricate system and its every component makes sure nothing changes. Companies have power over idols and audience, fandom has power over idols and their careers, and musicians themselves have fame and their music, but not always the promised fortune or happiness. 
It’s important to understand the big picture to draw your own conclusions and encourage positive and heathy attitudes in fandoms. Being open minded and allowing people to make mistakes and live their lives the way they want to is a part of being a decent person. People don’t owe anything to others. Art is about sharing your thoughts and feelings, promoting ideas and spreading beauty. It’s not always about money. And I think that this is what k-pop lacks as an industry. It turned dreams and human need for self-expression into business. Here everything is turned into a product. Everything idols touch can be sold, sometimes literally. Industry created problems, which can’t be solved anymore, because doing so would topple the system. And I find it tragic. Trapped in an endless chase after perfection creators of k-pop forgot that beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. 
If you take a look at comment sections and posts on different platforms, what will you see? What kind of things resonate with audience? What makes people laugh and cry? When people start to appreciate the substance?
“Everyone needs to hear this song in their darkest moments”
“Thank you for your music!”
“They always deliver! These guys can’t make a bad song!”
“It inspired me to write again!”
“Their songs brought me and my sister together once again”
“This is what happens when you let groups write their own music - they make incredible things”
“They really are legends of k-pop! I love that they are not afraid to show their inner strength”
“Stay strong! You rock!”
I believe that the answer is quite simple: when it’s real, sincere. It’s all about the message you choose to send to your audience, because only superficial things cause obsession. When you say that the sparkly façade is all that matters, then that’s the only thing people will ever care about. Your audience will never give a damn about the meaning behind dancing, music or lyrics, if you tell them that performance is more important. No one would praise WHAT k-pop idols sing, instead they would prefer wasting breath to criticize HOW they sing or look or move. 
I dare the k-pop industry to prove people that it’s not just about looks or perfection, or laser shows, or being a branding machine. Prove to your fans that k-pop artists are also passionate people with big dreams and talent, who love every moment of their job, who live and inspire, who are human just like us and whose humanity is real!
Do it, you cowards!
And now, I’m finished. I can hear the raging crowd of k-pop fandom in the distance, which means it’s time to hide. See you some other time! 
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Mostly random disjointed thoughts, some randomly introspective attempt to consider violent femininity oops (i should have gotten deeper in my analysis about what that might mean for phil)
-Does Phillippa offering a last name, albeit a clearly fake one, relate at all to the fact that Phil’s own last name was unknown? Was that something people even thought about, or was it just super normal not to know his last name and thus not something “Phillippa Jonas” would evoke at all?
-I also wonder about age in the characterization of Phillippa; from the pigtails to kittens and unicorns to the Joe Jonas crush, Phil seems to have chosen a very young type of "femininity," but then again, his own branding had a lot of youth to it as well.
-I’m realizing that “Living With Robert Pattison” is actually a weird!phil vid... and positions Robert Pattinson in a parallel position to Dan, and alludes to Phil showering with him... Guess that’s on the analysis list.
-We get a hint of more vampire reference in the presence of the Once More With Feeling poster on the wall. 
-Overall, I wonder if there’s significance in getting a less typical view, with Phillippa on the bed rather than in front of it.
-I think Phil’s fem!phil AU supports my writerly decision to give my fem!phil a crafting channel; he structures her channel around how-tos in a way that he doesn’t do in his overall content at the time.
-Apparently the voice was from an ASMR channel? She doesn’t have any videos up anymore.
-The violent femininity theme is one that generally resonates and appeals to me personally, and definitely did for me as a teenager. I’ve been consistently into blood and vampires and especially things like the Monty Python killer bunny (very Phillippa, I think) that are cute and badass/edgy/violent. For me, as a small cis girl, I think there was an element of finding power and individuality in bringing an edge and a violence to the expected sweet-little-girl things and behavior. I could be a girl and challenge the assumptions of what that meant (even though I also didn’t fit the mold for a tomboy). And likely, there was some not-like-the-other-girls internalized misogyny in there too. And how does this fit with Phil, and his choice to focus on violent femininity as a cis man in his early 20s? There’s clearly a seed in Phillippa of looking at his own less-than-Manly traits, of leaning into a feminine interpretation of himself. He has, like me, a clear interest in weird creepy things, as well as in cute animals. He created Phillippa as a closeted gay man who is at a point where he can laugh about pressures to be more Manly, but the pressures are still there. Even when he’s creating a Feminine Alter Ego, he doesn’t go so far from himself; he frames things in femininity, and perhaps most importantly, Phillippa wants to be feminine, to draw a line and put herself on that side of it even when the blurriness is clearly there. Phillippa isn’t using her edginess to distinguish herself from the other girls; she’s showing us edginess and telling us it’s all part of her very feminine self thank you very much. But as for Phil? I think there could be internalized misogyny there in the desire to show us his femininity without letting it get too feminine, without letting it get vulnerable. Humor and creepy weirdness can both function as defense mechanisms, as ways to keep us a little further from what he’s actually dealing with. He’s not owning his femininity as a source of empowerment or pride in the way that drag might do. He also largely retreading the territory he’s already shown us re: gender in pinof. In pinof, he uses humor (and Dan’s presence) but not the creepy edge to talk about gender in a way that’s comfortable. And the main thing that he seems to do as Phillippa that he couldn’t there is talk about attraction to men. And be a fangirl, really. Maybe he needs the layer of presenting a female alter ego to do that. And  maybe he needs the edge to feel comfortable (and not vulnerable) presenting a female alter ego? Then it’s just Phil doing more of his weird Phil stuff, it doesn’t have to Mean Things?
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I think a lot of people see the great power/great responsibility thing as spinning out of the guilt thing, or take it as a neat little in story justification for why Peter happens to beat up criminals whilst the character and story is ‘really’ about this guy with crippling guilt problems.
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Let’s put aside that the narrator/Stan Lee and Steve Ditko literally TELL you what the story was about in the last caption with the famous with great power there must also come great responsibility line. That ALONE proves ‘yeah he’s about responsibility that’s what the story/character was about’.
But in truth the ENTIRE story is about that power/responsibility thing.
Consider the very first time we see out hero. Oh no, I’m not talking about page 1, I’m talking about the cover!
“Though the world may mock Peter Parker, the timid teenager it will soon marvel at the awesome might of...Spider-Man!”*
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And THEN we dive into page 1.
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An idea reaffirmed as the story moves on. We see he lacks physical power but also social power within his school, his good intentions, acclaim from teachers and intelligence amounting to nothing.
We then get a panel where he is literally crying and delivers a line about how someday his peers will be sorry that they laughed at him. This is a borderline villain origin moment for Peter, imagine being a 1962 reader not quite sure where this story is going beyond it not being anywhere happy.
Then Peter GETS the power he could use to MAKE everyone who laughed at him sorry.
And he almost immediately uses it for financial gain, and enjoys in exerting his power over others, specifically Crusher Hogan an even bigger muscle head than the school bullies. However the dialogue doesn’t really talk about the money. Peter wants to test his power.
THEN he dives all in on using it to cash in on show business, designing his suit and we-shooters and talking about how his much mocked intellect allowed him to do that. He again calls out the fact that his peers specifically laughed at him for being a bookworm.
Soon after of course we have Peter choosing to NOT use his powers to stop the burglar which is followed by his rising fame and then...well you know the rest.
Guilt as a theme doesn’t factor in until literally the last page and even then it’s not on full display until the penultimate panel.
The story from start to finish was about power and the responsible and irresponsible ways we should wield it.
It wasn’t simply that Peter was wrong to have not stopped the burglar, an act he could’ve done without his super human power. He was wrong for having ever indulged his power selfishly. He was wrong for using it to play around with Crusher Hogan, wrong to use it to seek fame and fortune, wrong to have designed the web-shooters purely for show business and wrong to have been so motivated by resentment of everyone other than May, Ben and himself. What he SHOULD have been doing as the story makes clear is using his power to HELP others.
In essence Stan and Steve provided a subversion of then-typical superheroes who got their powers and then used them immediately altruistically because of course you would.
However it was a subversion which wasn’t a true deconstruction of the genre, it reinforced it’s guiding message that you SHOULD help people, it just had the protagonist learn that the hard way.
See as far as their reasons for being heroes are concerned Superman and Spider-Man are on the same page, Superman recognizes his great power obliges him to help others too. He just didn’t need anyone to die for him to get that, Peter unfortunately did.
And not for nothing, the majority of the Lee/Ditko run even kicking off with ASM #1 concerned itself with Peter feeling it was his obligation/responsibility to support for Aunt May, specifically financially. Hence why he considered dropping out of school to get a job, but was made by May to keep that responsibility whilst ALSO taking on a job (another responsibility) and the latter was where he spent most of his free time outside of costume.
Responsibility is all over this character!
I’m not saying guilt isn’t a theme but it’s a guilt born FROM Peter’s sense of responsibility not the other way around.
And it’s a richer story for it.
Spider-Man by design was supposed to be a different kind of super hero, but stil a super HERO nevertheless.
If Spider-Man is a guy who basically could or would stop being a crime fighter if he found out actually the Burglar had nothing to do with Uncle Ben’s death or that Ben’s death wasn’t crime related and he could’ve have done anything about it, then how heroic is he really?
Not much.
How heroic is he really if he has a crippling sense of guilt that propels him to be a crime fighter, something that presents a huge risk to his and other people’s lives and compromises his overall quality of life?
At that point he isn’t a hero, he’s a guy with a self-destructive streak in need of medical attention.
I’m not saying mentally ill characters can’t be heroes but it shouldn’t be that they literally wouldn’t have any desire to be altruistic if not for their mental illness, unless it’s for example a case of their illness opened them up to the suffering of others.
In this case it would literally be that Peter wouldn’t help anyone if he got enough good therapy. Which is part of why I have very mixed feelings on Child Within actually.
By making Spider-Man’s true motivations be about responsibility he just makes much more sense as an overall character and as HEROIC character in particular. Also a more relatable one as he must juggle his heroic responsibilities against those of his normal life, creating tension and drama.
*Let’s also ignore the ‘he’s about youth!’ BS, this post is about the guilt angle. Yes the cover points out Peter is a teenager but enough Spider History even during Ditko’s run disproves he’s ABOUT youth. And the cover conveys the theme of power much more strongly than youth.
 ** We might take this for granted now, but try to put yourselves in the context of a kid in 1962 picking this up off the racks.
You’ve NEVER seen anyone who looks like Spider-Man before. In fact by 1962 standards he looks borderline villainous, or at the very least not a typical clean cut super hero. He’s named after a spider, those creepy crawlies people hate and fear and more often than not are conveyed as monsters in comic books or at least bad. Sure there are exceptions, but they tend to be darker protagonists.
On top of that this is Amazing (Adult) Fantasy. It is a anthology comic book chock full of Aesop Fables, stories where more than once people who do bad things wind up being their own undoing. Even AF #15 contains another story sans Spider-Man which exemplifies this.
So when you see this not all that heroic looking guy holding someone who seems scared and he’s talking about how he was mocked but now everyone will marvel at how powerful it is, you might not immediately jump to ‘oh he’s another good guy’. He might even come across as someone set up for an classic Aesop’s Fable where he goes bad and is his own undoing. Which wasn’t far off from what actually happened.
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Vitiligo can be hard to talk about with your kid — particularly interestingly, Dr. Schuster said. She prompted moving toward the subject by clarifying that individuals are comparative from multiple points of view, however can likewise have contrasts — and that is OK. She said guardians of youngsters with vitiligo ought to examine the shared traits between individuals just as "the things that make us remarkable and uncommon" — including vitiligo.
A typical test for guardians is clarifying vitiligo in words that a kid can comprehend, she noted. Rather than attempting to make them handle the logical detail of how vitiligo creates, start by sharing the essentials: basic, clear data that will fulfill their craving to comprehend the condition. For instance, you can say to a youngster, "You have white spots on your skin. It's actually similar to spots or a skin coloration."
"With the more youthful children, it's truly about utilizing extremely basic language that they comprehend," she said. "Talk about [vitiligo] in extremely basic, clear terms, making an honest effort not to terrify them or construct nervousness. Increment their comprehension of and solace with what's happening."
You can clarify vitiligo similarly to different kids and relatives with whom your youngster collaborates. Giving essential data about the condition will assist them with getting it, and can permit you to scatter errors (for instance, you can clarify that they can't get vitiligo from somebody who has it).
"I think it is significant for different youngsters to comprehend that this is definitely not an irresistible infection, since we need them to realize that they can have close actual closeness with a kid who has vitiligo and it will not come off on them," Dr. Schuster said. She likewise noticed the significance of comprehension — especially for relatives — that "the kid with vitiligo is commonly not in actual agony, so they are not harming, yet we need to acknowledge them." This incorporates recognizing expected passionate torment.
While youngsters might be befuddled by specific contrasts for all intents and purposes, it very well may be astounding how rapidly they will acknowledge and accept these distinctions when they get them. One MyVitiligoTeam part, for example, shared the accompanying: "I was conversing with my little girl while petting her canine, who ends up having white hide for certain enormous tan spots. I said, 'For what reason do we feel that spots on a canine are excellent, yet not in an individual?' She then, at that point said, 'You're the one in particular who doesn't consider them to be wonderful!'"
To help youngsters feel more open to connecting with the individuals who have vitiligo, Dr. Schuster proposed essentially beginning a discussion regarding the matter. Urge others to pose any inquiries they may have, and address their inquiries in a direct way. "It builds understanding, which expands acknowledgment, which is the thing that we at last need," she clarified. "We need kids to feel like they are perceived."
The most effective method to Discuss Vitiligo That Affects the Genitals
Dr. Schuster recommended opening up to kids while talking about vitiligo that influences the genital region, much as you would while suggesting the topic of their condition overall. Tell them that people are one of a kind in an unexpected way, which likewise continues to private spaces of the body, and that everybody's genitalia looks marginally changed.
For teenagers, it very well might be useful to discuss how they might want to examine their vitiligo with sexual accomplices. For example, do they need the other individual to know forthright, or would they rather not overplay it? Basically, Dr. Schuster said, you need to standardize vitiligo — regardless of where on the body it happens.
Treatment Options and Decisions
The objective of treatment for vitiligo is regularly to reestablish lost skin tone. While vitiligo can't yet be relieved, there are different treatment choices accessible for dealing with the deficiency of skin pigmentation.
Skin drugs — Typically the principal choice for overseeing vitiligo, skin prescriptions will in general work best on the face, chest area, and recently created patches, particularly on individuals with hazier skin tones.
Oral prescriptions — This classification typically incorporates oral corticosteroids (steroids), which might be compelling if vitiligo is advancing rapidly.
Phototherapy (light treatment) — The utilization of UVB lights to reestablish pigmentation is viable in 65% to 75 percent of cases. This strategy requires a period responsibility.
Different medicines — Options including a medical procedure and depigmentation are normally viewed as more appropriate for grown-ups who haven't had accomplishment with different therapies.
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When settling on treatment choices for a kid with vitiligo, the kid ought to preferably be available at all times. Schuster said. What sort of treatment they'll get — on the off chance that they might even want to seek after treatment — ought to be their own choice that you help them make subsequent to conversing with a specialist. More established kids ought to be permitted to settle on educated decisions, with guardians guaranteeing that the kid comprehends the data and likes the ramifications of treatment.
Furthermore, Dr. Schuster underlined the significance of explaining that these medicines are not fixes, however approaches to assist with overseeing vitiligo. "Talk about whether it's something they are willing, prepared, and ready to take on," she focused. "Comprehend that it's anything but's a win big or bust circumstance."
A youngster can choose to acknowledge certain treatment choices, while declining others. "Recall that a kid may at first deny treatment, yet later decide to go through treatment when they feel prepared to make the responsibility," she said.
Numerous individuals with vitiligo choose not to go through treatment. Some may utilize beauty care products to disguise depigmented regions, while others are happy with allowing their skin to show. On the off chance that your kid isn't prepared to settle on a choice, give them an opportunity to consider how they'd prefer to continue and show regard and thought for them with respect to the decision they make.
Emotional well-being and Vitiligo in Children
Vitiligo can influence a youngster's enthusiastic and mental prosperity. They may turn out to be less dynamic, lose fearlessness, or have a negative mental self portrait, all of which can prompt misery.
A pediatrician and other emotional wellness experts can help your youngster address potential or existing psychological well-being issues.
Instructions to Recognize Depression or Mental Health Issues in a Child
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Perceiving the indications of melancholy and other emotional well-being issues is the initial step to tracking down the right treatment and backing. Dr. Schuster brought up certain examples that may propose your kid is discouraged:
Huge changes in temperament, including a discouraged or peevish disposition
Unexpected withdrawal from the family and social exercises
Helpless dozing propensities
Changes in hunger
Self-expostulating remarks, for example, "I'm useless"
Saying they are discouraged
In the event that you notice these examples, urge your kid to impart their sentiments to you, and show that you comprehend. Moreover, counsel an expert, as they will actually want to recognize the best assets for your kid.
Talk With Others Who Understand
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habeascorpseus · 4 years ago
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not particularly even that, because the fanbase LOVES tubbo. and tubbo has proved himself to be just as immature as tommy (if not more), but because tubbo acts more "young" the fandom, instead of getting upset, babies him. like ok here's a list of the traits of tommy, tubbo, and ranboo, just for some fun comparison
tubbo
- short
- higher pitched voice
- not very well-spoken
- often has to ask what certain words/phrases mean
- often uses the wrong word/phrases to describe stuff
- has difficulty reading and spelling
- visibly stims
- immature
- likes cute things
- not emotionally open per say he just doesn't hide them very well
tommy
- tall
- loud
- deeper voice than tubbo but not yet adult
- immature
- brash/rude
- sometimes doesn't know what certain things mean but normally looks it up for himself instead of asking
- ranges from eloquent (his twitter debate about why Alpha is the best minecraft ost) to poorly spoken (90% of everything else he says)
- goes out of his way to be annoying sometimes
- talks very loudly and very suddenly about various topics that most people roll their eyes at (bathroom humor, how much he likes women)
- not very emotionally vulnerable
ranboo
- deep voice
- tall
- can't see his face so really all you can go off of is his voice
- well-spoken
- self-aware and jokes about his own awkwardness
- the voice of reason/dad friend
- highly sensitive to what is going on around him
- takes the role of the personal dictionary to tubbo
- often is the one to speak up when things get out of hand or uncomfortable
- pretty open about his emotions
- immature but in a tasteful(?) way
- talks with some level of authority about life
ok so like looking at these traits (there are more but I really don't have time to list them all) you'll notice that even though they share some common traits (all of them are some level of immature, ranboo and tommy are both tall, tommy and tubbo both are normally ineloquent), tubbo's traits all point to someone stereotypically younger and more "childlike" while ranboo's make him look stereotypically older and more "mature". the traits tommy shows on camera, however, are those typically associated with teenage boys. he acts his age. he acts like any other dude in a highschool classroom. but for some reason, people treat that like a bad thing. ranboo gets respect (and treated very creepily by his chat whenever he's alone and not around someone that puts his youth in perspective), tubbo gets babied, and tommy gets shitted on. one could argue it's because tommy is rude and often uncontrollable but tubbo has said the exact same things he has before and gotten babied for it. it's not that the fanbase is "ew kids" it's the fanbase going "ew, teenagers aged 14-17". which makes me really sad (and confused) because MOST of the fanbase is in that age range. idk man. just let kids be kids. let them grow up at their own pace. it's really not that hard.
have a hot take about how the fanbase shits on tommy for acting like a teenage boy but praises ranboo because he acts more "adult" even though they're around the same age but y'all aren't ready to hear that
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                                           ▲ breccan prescott. ▲ 40 ▲ alive ▲
▲ basics. ▲
nickname: utp occupation: Damari Institute Doctor   family: n/a gender: male sexuality: utp
▲ background. ▲
Breccan was born by a house wife and her strict and traditional husband, who worked in the medical field. His mother was practically forced to stay home by Breccan's father, who believed that a woman's place was in the home and to take care of the children. As Breccan grew older his father started taking more interest in his young son and began to have the boy take on tasks that would later benefit Breccan in his future career. A career in which Breccan's father had long-planned out for him, which was to also be a doctor. Over the entirety of his teenage years, Breccan began to adopt certain traits from his father. He made sure that his grades were almost absolutely perfect all throughout school. He had no intention of losing the respect of his father and so he would end up doing anything the elder Prescott asked of him. Breccan had one hell of a busy schedule you could say. When he wasn't learning the 'family business' he was ordered to play a sport. By the time Breccan had finished high school anyone outside his family would say that he was a well-rounded and intelligent young man.
After years of college and figure out just what sort of career path he wanted to go into, with what little opening he had to choose from, Breccan decided to eventually join the staff of a psychiatric hospital. The beginnings of his work were typical and overall, boring, at first. He managed to gain affections from most of the staff. This lead to his figuring out just what he could get away with while he worked in the ward. As his job had him deal with the patients that were more or less forgotten by their own families. Breccan came to realize just how cruel he could be to these patients. It became clear that Breccan was not the 'well rounded' individual that most initially thought of him. Unfortunately, anyone who cared about the patients didn't see his true nature, and those who knew about it simply did not care how he treated the patients.
Breccan's home life is completely different to that of his work life.  At home, Breccan is seen as a loving, if not a tough father to his children. Always guiding them to do their best. He is an over all wonderful husband to his wife. It is only in the ward where he takes out his anger and darker desires. Until one day, something unfortunate came to pass. A patient he had been working on by the name of Tasmin had started to get on his nerves. She was a very forceful woman. He decided after a rather annoying encounter with Tasmin that he had to get rid of her and over a small amount of time Breccan began to poison her. To the other doctors, this was simply a new test he wanted to experiment with. Eventually, Tasmin had ceased all her activities. Breccan had forgotten an important piece, it was an oversight really. Nathan Douglas, the boy wrapped around Tasmin's finger had taken notice of what Breccan had been up to. This eventually lead to Nathan confronting Breccan and the boy soon attacked him. After the attack, Breccan was of course seen as a victim of a violent youth losing their temper. As the boy was sentenced to another stint in solitary confinement Breccan took that opportunity to finish his job with Tasmin.
Tasmin died a few days later and Breccan was allowed to carry on his activities as usual. But he knew he had to get rid of Nathan. Waiting out the remaining days of the boy’s confinement to end, Breccan made arrangements to kill Nathan and make it look like a suicide. He threatened one of the interns to follow his plans and once Nathan was released he'd ordered the woman to his room where she slipped him enough pills to cause Nathan to overdose. After a week Nathan and Tasmin's death's were forgotten about. No real investigations were held and Breccan was free to continue his practice.
▲ personality. ▲
Breccan is the type of person who will most definitely hurt you for the smallest infringements. He isn't very sympathetic to others, despite his job. He usually sees patients as lesser than him and so he thinks he's allowed to toy with them as he pleases. Breccan projects a warm and welcoming persona outside of his work and with anyone he wants to like him. He is a master of manipulation and can seemingly talk himself out of almost any situation.  Even though many are fooled by his act, they wouldn't say that Breccan is a push over. Breccan is cruel and brutal to anyone who has the misfortune of getting on his bad side. And it would be wise to stay off his bad side if anyone knew what was good for them.
▲ after the blackout. ▲
On the night of the black out Breccan was at the ward finalizing some things with his new batch of patients he was to take on the following week. As the days passed and the completely unusual things going on after the black out, with the dead rising, he started to find he was growing even more interested in these people who came back to life. Even after years of being dead. Breccan knew that this was a chance of a life time and so he'd set out to capture one of these dead brought back to life. He knew he couldn't just leave to go hunt down these strange individuals though as he had a lot of work to do in the ward. But he swore to himself that as soon as he was able to get the proper free time he would find a way to get one of them into his hands, preferably have them placed in the ward where he was free to do experiments as he liked on them.
▲ relationships. ▲
▲ Hayley Fredericks: Breccan has taken an interest in Hayley since she was assigned as his intern for 6 months. A couple weeks into her internship he’d manipulated a situation in order for to have killed a patient. After that, he blackmailed her into helping him with his plans or else he’d tell the director of Damari what she’d done and warned her she’d probably go to jail. 
▲ Spencer Robinson: He dislikes Spencer because he thinks of Spencer as a weak coward and annoying. There's really nothing much else, as Breccan usually just dislikes people for the smallest of reasons. This usually leads to him being disregarding. In the case of dealing with Spencer though, Breccan might just be willing to step out of his normal habitat and murder Spencer. Though for the most part, he likes to play little mind games with the other, while still seeming pleasant on the outside.
▲ availability ▲
Breccan Prescott is an OPEN character and is portrayed by Michael Fassbender who’s FC IS NEGOTIABLE.
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Micah Toll → John Cho → Rat
→ Basic Information
Age: 81
Gender: Male
Sexuality: Straight
 Born or Made: Born
Birthday: August 2nd
Zodiac Sign: Leo
Religion: Deism
→ His Personality Micah is a visionary and natural born leader. He is seemingly stern, hardworking, and higher ranked among the SCOOBY team. Outside of his team he plays the role of moral compass, protector, provider, teacher, coach, and playmate. Micah has a confident demeanor, often keeping his cool when tested, and is considered one of the well known multitaskers within the pack. Everyone is different and he knows that. Micah is great at finding and respecting people's values and opinions within their pack, the supernatural community and humans; as long as they don’t harm the family/pack or anyone else. He’s one of the few pack members that enjoys spending time with everyone. Taking the younger members out to the mall or movies, attending important performances and games. He also volunteers to help with homework when he’s not on duty. With the older pack members, Micah is always available to lend a helping hand or ear, be supportive and lead by example.
Because of his own history, Micah has shown a sympathetic view toward those like him, who seek refuge from other packs. Micah has taken it upon himself to greet newcomers and personally make them feel welcomed. He cares deeply about others and is bothered greatly when he can't save people or hurts people by accident to the point that he even has nightmares about it. His nightmares are usually about him taking over packs and forcing them to choose to join him or die. He has shown a capacity for self-sacrifice and because of his desire to protect his loved ones, he can show a ruthless side to himself at times. Micah’s protective instincts are in fact, so strong that he will retaliate or turn against anyone if they have hurt someone he cares about.
→ His Personal Facts
Occupation: Full Time Head of SCOOBY
Scars: A few scar from escaping torture
Tattoos: None
Two Likes: Date Nights and Martial Arts/Judo
Two Dislikes: Coconut Water and Botany
Two Fears: Outer Space and Incurable Illnesses
Two Hobbies: Carpentry and Jigsaw Puzzles
Three Positive Traits: Brave, Conscientious, Active
Three Negative Traits: Malicious, Negativistic, Oppressed
→ His Connections
Parent Names:
Akemi Toll (Mother): Jalissa reminds Micha a lot of his mother. She was the caretaker of their pack and looked after the youngins. Akemi always wanted a house full of children but it never happened. Micah is sure she would have adored her grandbabies and his new pack.
Munni ‘Michael’ Toll (Father): Micah's father died during the infiltration of his old pack. His father was his mentor and best friend. He was able to discuss everything with his father.
Sibling Names:
Ambrocio ‘Ambros’ Toll (Brother): Ambros died at a young age. Micah does remember much about his little brother but he’s sure Ambros did not live to make it to grade school. His parents never talked about it either.
Children Names:
Kya Toll (Daughter): Kya was a surprise to Micah. She was a serious baby that reminded him of typical first born alpha children. Kya changed a lot from the serious, unsmiling baby, to an intelligent 8 year old shadow of her mother.
Lila Toll (Daughter): Lila was the polar opposite of her older sister. She came out with a blowing cry and swing arms. Now 4 years old,  she still keeps him on his toes. He has lost her on more than one occasion within the pack house because of her constant wondering and independent tendencies.
Noah Toll (Son): Micah was relieved when he and Jalissa found out that their newest addition would be a boy. He loves his daughters but his son has a special place in his heart. Noah is just 6 months and has excelled in his motor skills. The best part of Micah day is introducing his son to solid foods.
Romantic Connections:
Jalissa Toll (Wife): Jalissa is his wife, best friend and mate. He harbored feelings for her since he first walked through the door of the pack and saw her. Micah finds the specific details of first meeting Jalissa fuzy. He can remember the smell of his mother cooking human flesh or his father's homemade aftershave but he cannot for the life of him recall the initial smell of Jalissa when they first meet.
Platonic Connections:
Hanna Moore (Co-Worker): Hanna is a sweet girl that Micah is slowly but surely getting close to. She gets the job done and Micah is proud of having her as his second. Her curiosity is the only thing keeping him from calling her a friend.
Duke Thornton (Acquaintance): Micah has spoken to Duke on multiple occasions. He once feared the coldness in his eyes but they talked and set boundaries, Duke wasn’t as bad as others made him out to be. Micah is one of his secret keepers.
Louis Martin-Rovet (Friend): Louis and Micah bonded over finding and comparing information about Duke. Now they work closely together to keep the information out of the hands of the supernatural community including their pack.
Ray Hamelin (Good Friend): At first, Micah was sure Ray was hovering over him when he first joined the pack. He quickly learned that it was the youngest Hamelin personality. Ray reminds Micah deeply of home and he respects the relationship the man has with his older brother, Nick; one he was never allowed to have with his own younger brother, Ambros.
Isaac Owens (Friend): Micah was there when Isaac first took over the wolf pack. He was surprised when the new alpha asked him for a copy of the information he had on the pack for his own reference. Over the years they’ve built a solid friendship that doesn’t affect either of their work.
Hostile Connections:
Alan Thomas (Dislike): Alan went after one of Micah’s trainees during a rampage. It is one of the only times Micah has ever lost his cool and one of the only times he’s allowed retaliation against the wolves.
Noel Crais (Grudge): Noel laid down the trap that broke Jalissa’s tail. Jalissa got over it, seeing it as a part of the job, but Micah still resents her.
Pets:
None
→ History Micah was born to the rat pack of Sacramento in the late 1930s. He spent most of his childhood being raised to become Alpha, and take over from his father. His family had great ambition, and conquered most of California, with Micah and the other spies leading the charge. They would infiltrate, and then attack, taking out the higher pack structure and forcing everyone else to pledge allegiance or perish. By 1965 they’d taken over all of California and had taken up major roles in Nevada, Washington, and Colorado. Instead of continuing their trail from the West to the East, Micah suggested they hit Chicago and have a central base to expand from. He went alone and began surveillance on the pack. He was quick to befriend the higher ups, including Nick, Ray, Jim, Mills, and Jalissa. About 4 months in they cornered him with the truth. Ray had investigated his claims of being the only survivor and found out the truth. They tortured him for the information of the infrastructure and map of packs they had taken over. Once they had gotten everything they needed from him, they brought in a witch from New York who erased, and modified his old memories, and fabricated ones that made his story of being a survivor real. While he recovered they went and destroyed all aspects of his past life: killed every member of a pack who pledged allegiance to the Tolls and threatened any neighboring packs to keep their memories of the Tolls silent.
Micah Toll was born to a small pack outside of Las Vegas in the late 30s. Las Vegas had yet to become a monolith and was only populated by the rats, wolves, and heavies. He spent most of his youth on the up and coming Strip, learning how to distinguish supernatural species from one another. As more species moved in, it became very apparent to him and his pack that each required a unique strategy to be dealt with. Micah took a special interest in the wolves, who tended to act rowdy and disruptive in the casinos and clubs where he acted as an enforcer for the pack. He quickly gained a reputation for his skills with guns and interrogation. In the mid-60s, a rat came in and got chummy with his alpha. 6 months later everyone was dead from the infiltrating pack and Micah was covered in marks from their torture. He made a run for it and somehow got away. He got to Chicago and asked for refuge and was taken into the pack.
After settling in, Micah started getting close to Jalissa. She took it upon herself to introduce him to everyone and help him get comfortable with the way they ran things. Micah fell for her kindness, humor, and the way she tried to relate to everyone. It took a few months, but he eventually asked her out. They dated for a few years, and then eventually mated. In this time he got to know the rest of the pack, especially Jalissa's close friends; Nick, Ray, Jim, and Mills. He and Nick began talking about his past experience with the wolves in Vegas, and how he spearheaded his old pack’s procedures with dealing with species. Nick brought him into the fold, and had him create HOWL, or SCOOBY as it is known now.
→ The Present
Many people call Micah the pack dad. He’s not sure if it's in reference to Jalissa being pack mom or the fact that they’re the only couple with three children in their pack. However, he does often take care of the younger members of the pack. Since Nick and Ray are both banned from PTA meetings, Micah attends regularly. He and Jalissa are the emergency contacts for all the children and teenagers in school. Micah really pushes for a lot of human “normality” for his family because he feels a part of him is missing, but doesn’t know how to fill it. He knows he lost his pack and wonders if this is the source of the missing feeling. He worries that he’s probably trying too hard to fill those gaps with his current pack and family. A few members have suggested for him to go see the local supernatural psychiatrist but he is unsure.
Micah knows there’s a lot of ‘need to know’ information within the pack and he is sure he holds one of the most unbelievable ‘need to know’ intel. Nick, Mills, Conrad, Ray, Louis and himself know the truth about Duke Thornton’s origins. Duke was a warlock with the Cleirigh mark cursed and changed into a wolf animal shifter. After a failed ritual to change Duke back that led to a supernatural catastrophe, the council placed everything on a need to know basis for the safety of everyone, including hunters. Nick shared the information with those affected by the information; Mills as pack second, Conrad as pack third, Ray as the pack liaison, Louis as the head of GOLD, and himself as the head of SCOOBY. Recently, Hanna has been curious about how he handles the information on Duke. He knows she’ll try to get to the bottom of it and is unsure what Nick’s response will be to her finding out but also him being unable to control his second. He’s currently unsure of what to do and has expressed his concerns to his trusted friends, Louis and Ray.
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biofunmy · 5 years ago
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Finding Victory: Speaking out for intersex girl after attack
When doctors said her youngest child would be a girl, Amie Schofield chose the name Victoria. Then doctors said the child would be a boy, so she switched to Victor.
It turned out neither was exactly right. The blue-eyed baby was intersex, with both male and female traits.
So Schofield and her husband decided to call the infant Victory. The name is a hope for triumph over the secrecy and shame and the pain and discrimination suffered by intersex people.
Amie Schofield knows the suffering better than most: This was not her first intersex child.
Some two decades earlier, she gave birth to another child whose body did not align with common expectations of boys or girls. Schofield agreed to have that child undergo surgery that tipped the scales of gender to masculine.
But the operation did not settle the issue of gender in the child’s mind, or protect them from a savage beating decades later.
With Victory, Schofield has been given an opportunity to try again. Her parents want her to be accepted for who she is. Instead of changing Victory, they are intent on changing the world so it is more accepting of intersex people.
“What I hope is what every parent hopes for their kid,” Schofield said. “We don’t want her to look at herself and think there’s something wrong just because she’s different.”
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Amie first married when she was young, and had her first child more than 20 years ago. Instead of having one X chromosome and one Y chromosome, as men have, or two X chromosomes, as is typically female, the child had two X’s and a Y.
Intersex people are not to be confused with transgender. Intersex is an umbrella term for a number of conditions where internal or external sex characteristics aren’t exactly like typical male or female bodies. They are a larger group than is commonly acknowledged; estimates range from about 3 in every 200 births to 1 in 2,000.
“I’m convinced every single person on this planet has met someone who’s intersex,” said Georgiann Davis, a sociologist at the University of Nevada-Las Vegas who is intersex and is the board president of interACT: Advocates for Intersex Youth.
Some intersex conditions are known to run in families, though that’s rare for XXY chromosomes, said Dr. Adrian Dobs, director of the Klinefelter Center at Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine. Not everyone with the disorder is considered intersex, and most identify as male.
Doctors have long performed surgery and administered hormones to intersex kids to make their bodies more like typical boys or girls, but there’s a growing pushback. Five states have considered banning surgery until they’re old enough to consent, citing serious potential side effects, but most bills have stalled amid pushback from doctors’ groups who say the proposals go too far.
Amie took doctors’ advice and raised her first baby as a boy, agreeing to surgery to bring down undescended testicles.
But the onset of puberty brought hips and breasts, something that didn’t go unnoticed by other teenagers in the small Idaho town where mother and child lived at the time.
“It’s not something I really thought about until they started making fun of me,” said Amie’s eldest, speaking on condition of anonymity because of fear of violence.
The teenager developed a kind of armor: binders and sports bras, then layers of shirts for bulk, followed by a jacket that never came off, all in a goth style to create a distraction. There were beatings, and the teen developed a strategy: Keep a straight face. Don’t scream. Don’t say anything. The startled bully might just back off.
Amie Schofield allowed her child to experiment with nail polish and dresses at home, but in the years after the fatal beating of gay man Matthew Shepard in nearby Wyoming, she was terrified to go public. She aches when she thinks about those years.
“I wish that we could have been open,” she said. “I wish I had understood more so that maybe I could have made it easier.”
The move to Utah put the teenager in touch with other LGBTQ people, and for the first time exploring femininity publicly seemed possible. Instead of a beating, wearing a dress might earn supportive shouts like “keep doing you!”
That all changed one night in 2014. As they (the pronoun preferred by this person) walked to a Salt Lake City bar wearing a favorite tie-dye dress, a man shouted, “Where you going mama? You’re looking pretty good in that dress!”
Never having been hit on before, they turned to say thank you. But the man’s face changed when he heard a deep voice that didn’t match that female body. He blew up, spewing gay slurs, and charged, weighted pipe in hand.
He landed a number of powerful blows. Blood sprayed everywhere before he fled, leaving the young person for dead.
A large gash to the head was treated with staples at a hospital. Police investigated, but couldn’t catch the assailant, according to officials.
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Amie was in the hospital after giving birth to Victory when she heard about the attack on her eldest child. She felt angry, helpless — and determined to protect her baby. She didn’t want her youngest child to live with the secrecy and fear that colored her first child’s teenage years.
“I don’t want her to live that kind of life,” she said.
Like her half-sibling, Victory has XXY chromosomes. She also has a separate condition that means her body doesn’t fully respond to male hormones. Her genitalia are ambiguous, but due to the Y chromosome doctors marked the birth certificate as male, and encouraged Victory’s parents to raise the baby as a boy.
Amie and her husband took newborn Victory home. The family lives north of Salt Lake City on a plot of land ringed by mountains where they raise chickens, goats and pigs along with Victory and her two brothers.
They decided to raise the baby without pushing either gender. There would be no surgery. At 18 months, Victory began gravitating toward dresses and bows, and loudly insisting on wearing her hair long. Their then-pediatrician Nisha Baur said Victory’s parents took things as they came during her earliest years. “They were very open to just accepting whatever was going to happen,” she said.
Today, Victory is a vivacious 5-year-old with a toothy grin, blond hair and a quick mind. She’s mostly deaf due to a separate genetic condition, but communicates clearly with signs, some words and sheer force of personality. She runs around the house at top speed, cradling a reluctant kitten, perching next to her great-grandmother to read a book or running for the bus in a sparkling silver backpack with butterfly wings.
Victory knows her body is different from those of her mother, father or brothers, but it doesn’t seem to bother her, Amie Schofield said.
Her eldest child lives outside the state. They recovered physically from the attack, but for months afterward there was a constant sense of deep fear. They retreated into masculine clothing, affecting as deep a voice as possible, attempting to grow out what little facial hair they have.
Knowing Victory was born intersex brought a sense of comradeship but also fear for her. “I’m scared of how society will treat her,” they said.
Victory’s parents share that apprehension. There are so many hazards ahead.
Victory’s father, Michael Schofield, formally left the Utah-based Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints shortly after she was born. The faith doesn’t have an official position on intersex people, but is doctrinally opposed to same-sex marriage and intimacy.
“Will she marry a boy or a girl? Which one is right? Which one is wrong?” said Schofield, a federal worker. “I don’t want to do that … she’s free to make her own choices.”
Her parents would like to change the designation on her birth certificate from boy to girl, but Utah law requires a court order and some judges in their area won’t approve the changes. Amie Schofield and Victory have gone to the capitol to speak out in favor of changing the law, so far unsuccessfully.
The deaf school she attends has single-user, non-gendered restrooms, but what happens if she changes schools? What will dating be like one day? Will she have trouble as she applies for jobs, or apartments, or schools? Could she also be targeted by violence? How will she feel about not being able to have children?
Her mother can only hope to teach her to handle these dilemmas herself. “It’s not something I can save her from,” Amie Schofield said.
But whatever comes, the family isn’t going to hide.
“I hate the secrecy,” she said. “She’s just so smart, so full of life. She’s just a normal girl.”
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I was born at The Rosie Maternity, in Addenbrookes Hospital on the 12th December 1996 in Cambridge, United Kingdom. I was born at twenty-six-weeks, fourteen weeks prior to when I should of been born. Which ultimately contributed towards an abundance of complexities during my prematurity. Many of the doctors that worked tirelessly with me, thought that ‘it would be a miracle’ if I stayed alive not to mention being able to walk and talk… as any other child would (with a normality). Four excruciatingly vague months had passed, with being optimistic amongst the abyss proved arduously typhlosis. Where even the most ingenious surgeons  would easily be contradicted against their most contested professionalism.  I came to a house that was seen as persistently unfamiliar (at first) until I will later acknowledge it as my home.  Many months and years would pass within these four walls slowly began to suffocate my very existence that was described as ‘special’ by my very mother herself. That very word formalised new definitions as I would reluctantly express myself divergently within my exploration of a place that they called the world.   During my exploration of this place that everyone seemed to call ‘The World and life’ as we all know it. I came into connection with a catalogue of convoluted physical and abstract dictators that tried painlessly to crucifix  my individuality and childhood that seemed so innocent that turning people’s eyes into tears was known as a understated easement.  This easement would unfortunately become apart of my personalistic umbrella far into my life, (even today) shall I say. Each of the crucifixion I received during my youthful years, was like being given a commandment for betraying a code I knew so little about: and that was allowing the emotional turmoil to become a normality- that giving it this royalty I would be gifted with nothing but acceptance for everything that was spiralling my presence during of which. Waking up each day in my house, was like waking up in a populated Siberia, where I woke up walking down the stairs onto a dominated coldness that plagued our very floor with the stench of endless alcohol lurking amongst the kitchen top and floor, and where my mother would stand there on the living room floor; with the words- ‘SUICIDE’ written all over her eyes it was like she was crumbling to the very sands that we called reality. Not to mention that there was no whereabouts of my father, neither his safety (which was typical for a drunk). This diminishment of sensation came with a homeward and school-like phycological turmoil. It was like watching two superpowers trying to pull myself from left to right: with the left within the corner with a overpowering sense of confusion and unanswered questions, because of this t confusion came an element of unknown-full brimfulness and uncivilised apatheticness. During a time that was suppose to be known for being my formative years… became a tussle between my likelihood and livelihood. The livelihood in being waking myself up at around 06:30am (each day) to the stench of beer, wine, weed, dampness of impulsive sex and a fear of the unknown and uncertainty that dominated my unsociable and sensitive self. I spent many a year waking up to the same stench, wondering if those squabbling tyrants would ever leave, wondering if my mother was going to be alive the next day, wondering if I had to run to my grandparents for sanction, wondering if I was going to beaten up/or picked on just because I went to a specialist school, wondering if I didn’t wake up to the sound of painful tears gleaming upon my and my mothers innocent face, wondering if my father would ever spend time with me, wondering if I didn’t wake up during the night… to the sound of my mum being manipulated to the rustle of hiding drugs,  wondering if there was a day where I was tossed out of home and on to the darkened confined contents of a mattress that should of been on a bed (full of sheets) and lights awakening this depressive room, wondering how it was I was going to feed myself, or that I should of just dealt with it, like a time full of malnourishment, dizziness and forgetfulness, wondering if I wasn’t sexually abused just because somebody else couldn’t patiently hold it within their pants.I wondered all these questions, I wondered if I was ever going to let them go or would I just let them dominate my gullible mind- to the day it left on the line staring into the desolated abyss, ahead laid an ocean, that looked deservedly worthy of having me drown within it’s depths. I wondered all these questions, this curiosity left when found secondary sanction at my school, that  was nearby to our home, so I would sit on my mother’s bicycle seat whilst my two sisters would walk/run ahead of us until we reached the gates of our school. When the moment came I would become emotionally insecure, and did not want my mother to go to work as I hated the feeling of being isolatedly hesitant. I would some of that time either crying, or screaming for my mother in the purified hope of her taking me to work with her. As soon as I came to the conclusion she was not- I would begin to cry until such time it was seen as petty.  This pettiness would soon shallow back into my soulful wardrobe, as soon as class would start. Looking back at a time where most children would accomplish being able to read and write; this was seen as completely different, as I was unable to do both till very later on in life. I would spend most of my time becoming increasingly frustrated and rather envious of not being able to write. instead writing jagged ineligible letters and speaking with a profound confusion of establishing the most simplistic sentences (saying, “Hello or Good morning”) was proven to be very strenuous for myself, most upsetting for my teachers, my mother and grandparents. Which would later be why I would be referred to my local GP on whether being Autistic was plausible for my ‘somewhat’ considered strange behaviour during my early years. After my assessment I was later being diagnosed as Autistic- which would later manufacture a socialistic barrier in embracing it later in during my teenage years… After this obvious conclusion was made, I was put in a variation of specialist schools where seen (at the time) best of help could be given to my fragile needs. I found integrating in my new school very hard, as I had some friends and teachers that (I thought had a definitive understanding of myself) and saddening as I saw them as a great salvation during those earliest of formative years. Some few months had passed during this acclimatisation, and I had found myself slowly settling into my new school. I had some great friends whilst there:- (George, Robbie, James and Emily) who shared an understanding of myself, knowing they were mostly all Autistic themselves. I mostly spent my time with either Robbie or George, mainly as we were in the same tutor groups at school- but also as they were my most loyal friends who I had known for a long time prior. As well as my social prowess improving fractionally day-by-day, my learning also fractionally improved, as I began reading books that had little context in it, and that speaking to my friends and teachers with determined enthusiasm (I showed throughout my education) would become a very normality within my life at last, and treasuring it was my biggest obstacle yet! This understanding would be later seen as temporary given the paths we were all destined to take in life and later life. That pathway became paved more-so (each day) knowing that a destined intuition would be found amongst through the fogged dust that tried effortlessly to block my way, during of which. Some later years had passed, and I had discovered myself becoming efficiently intuitive; to the extend where I was being consistently challenged when in class. Which in consequence left a withering question under my lightful-generality that begged what it was that set me apart from others?…Throughout this time, I had always found myself contacting my sensation of dissimilarity that ‘academic-tyrants’ would label myself as, and would pigeon hole as consequence to this. What came of this, was a purified notion of emotive arrogance that would rub (wholesomely) on others around me… this arrogance was plagued with an unconquerable sense of injustice that became energetic clairvoyance given to myself and the academic enigma that surrounded me. This feeling of unjustified arrogance would later self-sufficiently adopt itself within my personality. Which in essence would contribute towards me thinking myself better than others, to the point where I demanded an extremely high level of myself academically, and generally as a person, and that if I would receive otherwise (making a mistake) I would use internally punch myself until pinpointed where I went wrong- with the result me coming back 10 times better than did last time. Which ultimately gave me this unique edge as well amongst others, a professionlistic determination more than most traits that described my very personality thus far within my young life. Some more years had passed, and I had found myself studying innumerably hard both within and out of college. I came to Cottenham 6th Form, with a point to prove… where that point was to finally flame my unjustified sense of unordinary. A few months had passed during.  I saw myself making an abundance of friends within quick succession… which hence applaudably made my existence a little more fitter than it already was. When starting lessons there, I saw myself being ‘pegged-back’ and restricted from the chances that I felt deemed to be rewarded with, when away from Castle School. But tried readily to show that I was capable of demonstrating higher standards of Linguistic and Mathematical questions when delivered within my presence. During this time of grieved annoyance, I realised myself falling out with various people that I would state ‘as friends’ back then. But soon came to the conclusion, that they picked on me, one as they were curious of me as an individual, and that partly they (even) found themselves beginning (with clearance) envious of the fact that they could not define what it was that was spiritualistically, but rhetorically slapping them in the face every 5 seconds they saw themselves questioning what it was that making them ever-so jealous. Prior to this, I found this stage of college becoming increasingly difficult attaining, mental capacity when in and outside of the classroom. In compensation I would see myself blanking this with a purified sense of graft. Some of the teachers I did enjoy working with:- (Mr. Daw, Miss. Lancaster, Miss Halliwell and My form tutor) during this time, which I found them becoming a crumbling comfort for the little time I ended up spending there. In comparison  my day at college would end, I would see myself struggling to get home whether that was walking, or getting the bus, or cycling amongst the agriculturally-deformed roads, where getting hit by getting almost hit by a car, or  crashing into another cyclist was a normality for most people using these treacherous roads, that was so obviously deemed an understatement to many. When I did finally arrive home, I would quickly say ‘hello’ to my mother, where she sat there in a endless puddle of smoke that governed her fragilely-coldened face. From which, I would rush into my room, that sat a mattress  in a beleaguered room full of darkness, where the sunlight was evidently blindfolded immeasurably away from the light of hope… amongst this cauldron of sadness bought an atmosphere of melancholic ambience that seemed destined to overhaul that everyone saw as different. As well as this I had a tempestuous relationship with my mother’s boyfriend (Mark) who from the off-set made he’s feelings of me were made very clear that he wanted no recognised role to play within my life. Which in some respects was very understandable acknowledging that he did accommodate me a room, though it was gleamfully depressive it was seen my sanction away from the volcanic depths I found myself within. Within this volcanic regions of eggshells that I found myself walking upon with echoing failure ringing into my shattering ears with endless haemorrhaging… that was thirsty for some food that would comfort my very spiralling mentality. This spiral would first formalise when I had left college- prior to not affording to go into college (I had finished my exams and was awaiting my results)- and that prior to this I had came to the conclusion that I had to leave college, if I was seen fit to live a basic existence. I had no choice but contacted a man who bought endless uncertain sadness amongst myself and my families life… that was my father. That although he was an abusive alcoholic that took ‘somewhat’ satisfaction from beating my mother and us children up, and did nothing but leave a massive void of never really seeing him. I called him, and asked for some work- as I know he wouldn’t consciously help me (prior to the  financial orientation he was engulfed within. He gave me three days work, where equalled £60 was paid for my seemingly endless graft, I stood annoyed by his financial stubbornness, but remained modest as this was the normality I found myself always facing.  From this point onwards I found myself being thrown from one corner of Cambridge, to many others… where some of which was spent with my uncle who was a dying alcoholic (at the time). I would fall asleep most days, to the endless sound of snorts of cocaine, and the rattling sound of beer cans  on the service or table, where countless disrespected-heightened-laughters kept me awake for some of the night. The same very much happened when I woke up in the morning, but awoke to the sight of my uncle downing the strongest beers down his neck, to numb any sensitive insecurities he had left. Away I went with that image, left to go to college, or that I went out into the city with my cousin. After staying with my uncle for some time, I came back to Mark’s place where sinking deeper into the darkened cave became more of a normality for me. From this life of untold sadness conjured a dream to escape, a dream to be happy, a dream to live a new life away from the one that was evidently so apparent within my life thus far. Part of that dream was to explore the world. So I got a job as a kitchen porter at village pub nearby to where I live… I thought if I had worked some 6 months or so, there that I would have enough money to go Scandinavia to see my friend Henry who I had met in a previous holiday in Spain (my father threw money to lick the wounds he had created for us children). I worked tirelessly hard 6 days and 42 hours a week, getting praise for my work ethics and concentrated motivation to work and ‘plod-along’ as most people describe it as… frustratingly I got sacked, as I wanted to change me day off from Wednesday to Sunday just so I can play football with some friends. I again shrugged this off, and began working as a cleaner at Cambridge Train Station, which was in the centre of the city, and that I was placed in the South. Where getting to and from everyday took 2 hours, on top of working 40 hours. I worked with who I describe ‘the-best-person-I ever-worked-with’ that was a man known as Patrick O’Riley who like me endured an endlessly saddened life… so I worked there from November to January, where during that time I had saved enough money to go to my trips to Finland and Denmark, to exploitively explore, and to socialise with purified abundance, whether that was with Henry or others… arrived in Tampere (South West Finland) with an overhauling optimism of adventure. I arrived in Tampere Airport, and there I saw Henry standing there with his girlfriend (Roosa) who came and collected me from the airport so they could take me to there a place (in Jÿvaskÿlä) which was almost two hours away. During the prolonging journey through the Finnish motorway, I and Henry could not help but enthusiastically-reminisce from the time we had met in Spain, and the joyfulness that was swiftly met upon meeting one another. We found that when meeting that there was an abundance of commonalities that were established within quick succession (dark sense of humour, socialistic quirks and curiosity of the countries that we came from), it created a sense of Bolshevistic blissfulness and that consequently made us endlessly laugh with purified happiness during of which. In amongst of our blissful mirthfulness, I could not help but witness a catalogue of wholesome beauty presented to my gleaming eyes… it was like watching a cinematic vector run continuously (without stop) satisfying my very stimulation towards exploration that I had and have… with that I could harbour a bustling amount of confined Msprusi Trees that had aeration of snow upon it, with a seamless notion that greenery would never return upon, as well as this I could witness an innumerable feet of snow that blinded the very road, with obvious desolation. We arrived at Henry’s place, in a quietened-darkness, I placed down my backpack with swift tiredness, but Henry was hardly sympathetic and decided to start drinking… I decided to join in, as I thought the memorabilia would continue… and I did for some time until I woke up in his bathroom surrounded by puddles of my own puke, with recollection destroyed with a bombardment of guilt. I woke up the next day with that very sensation of guilt but remained adamantly shrugging off the regretful emotions I was feeling at that point. I remember Henry slowly crawling out of bed like a caveman waking up to a normalised civilization, that shrugging to define was a rhetorical question. We got ourselves showered and dressed, and then headed out, so he could show me around Jÿvaskyla. During our exploration of the town, we first went to McDondals (normally I would resist) but I remained evidently modest for a close friend that is Henry. We finished our meals, and then Henry took me through the steep hills that were covered in an extrasentential amount of snow, that even the tallest man would struggle to plough through… through the difficult nature we found ourselves in, I could not help but be happily exposed to an affluence of vibrancy amongst that slowly peeked over the hill with persistent… it was like seeing an endless amount of rainbows besieging our very eyes, which ultimately gave me the indication that I found myself in Finland. Some days had passed, and I still found myself tirelessly exploring Jÿvaskyla. Throughout this exploration Henry had shown me the many ski slopes that were usually used for one of the countries national sports, that was skiing (obviously) and that nightlife that was very much gleeful as there I had met Miika who at the time was serving in the Finnish Military, as a compulsion due to the Finnish government (mandatory to do military service in Finland), who consequently told me stories of drunken times, and moments that he spent in Lapland (Northern Finland) whilst in the military. After which we found ourselves drunkenly dancing to the sound of either nothingness or a sporadic sound that dissimilar to my memory. Some more days had passed, and Henry was hosting a Christmas Party in a cabin that was nestled in the heart of Eastern Finland, that there laid Leppravita. Leppravita was little known throughout Finland due to its wholesome isolation, but for those who did know it… knew that it was renowned for its bustling beauty of unconquerable Msprusi trees, that had a purification coat of snow upon, and that the roads were like being on the moon, as it was camouflaged with endless snow.We arrived at our destined cabin that Henry booked for both myself and Roosa, and his friends that would soon arrive shortly after us. When upon arriving there, I could not help but stimulation-of-nature climatically excite for a while longer, as the snow (yes) was endlessly camouflaged, but surrounding us was a myriad of trees… that almost looked like we were being rounded by an endless stream of moons, the purification was durability capable of blinding (more-so) those that were looking straight into The Great Sun itself.  Some moments had passed amongst arriving, and during that time arrived many of Henry’s friends of whom where:-(Jaako, Ossi, Toni, Ardi, Toni, Jukkis and Eetu) all of which served in the Finnish military, but we’re all undertaking various jobs either to pay the undergoing degree or traditionlistcally their bills. But what set them apart from the congregated normality, was that they all had stories of old to tell an abundance of people, most of them all, but especially Toni, Jaako and Ossi who I formalised strong friendships within quick succession of which (around a large table) that was traditionally Finnish (oak).  All Toni, Jaako and Ossi were not seemingly talkative as some others were… but what they replaced that with was an enjoyability that I found when being within in their presence, with this they would become very humorously quirky when talking to one another, they would un-regrettably become drunken without will and that they shared similar aspirations in life (a desire to become successful) which I enjoyed above all else. Some few days had passed, and I found myself regretting my drunken rebelliousness, as I remember sharing laughter amongst a typical Finnish Sauna, where within myself and the others (stated) had to get in all naked, and that after which we would do snowmen in the darkened forest, with popping into the jacuzzi to warm-off, though the regretfulness was soon forgotten as I would treasure those memories forever knowing the explorative happiness it created.  I left Finland, with a new happiness amongst the ordinary I found myself within. I hugged and shook hands with all the people I had met during the cabin party, and that I promise to all meet again soon was imminent. I arrived back in Cambridge for a short period of time, before setting out yet again, to the fringed edge of Scandinavia that was Denmark. I was there for 6 days, during which I would spend within Copenhagen, and that I would be accompanied by Henry yet again, along with some of his friends:-(Ardi, Jaako, Lauri and his girlfriend Roosa) most of which would stay in a hotel nearby to the hostel I was staying in. I arrived in Copenhagen on the cold desolation of darkness, that within peered a gleefulness that there were Henry and Jakko welcoming me with open arms to this socialistic atmospheric atmosphere that seemed to echo deep into my ears, that the only voice I could hear, was my own that was confidently talking to myself. Some hours had passed, and I found myself annoyingly waking up to the sound of silence, that during of which appeared a bruise on my eye… that undefinability was noticeable, as it came out of nowhere. As my confusion remained, I hurried downstairs where I asked the troubleless barman for some ice to rest upon my bruise. During of which, I coincidentally bumped into two guys, one that was named Jacob who was from America and the other Ivan who was from North London, United Kingdom, throughout our swift discussion of friendliness we both striked commonality; to which I asked that I could join them in the bar that they were going to in the city.  arrived in Tampere (South West Finland) with an overhauling optimism of adventure. I arrived in Tampere Airport, and there I saw Henry standing there with his girlfriend (Roosa) who came and collected me from the airport so they could take me to there a place (in Jÿvaskÿlä) which was almost two hours away. During the prolonging journey through the Finnish motorway, I and Henry could not help but enthusiastically-reminisce from the time we had met in Spain, and the joyfulness that was swiftly met upon meeting one another. We found that when meeting that there was an abundance of commonalities that were established within quick succession (dark sense of humour, socialistic quirks and curiosity of the countries that we came from), it created a sense of Bolshevistic blissfulness and that consequently made us endlessly laugh with purified happiness during of which. In amongst of our blissful mirthfulness, I could not help but witness a catalogue of wholesome beauty presented to my gleaming eyes… it was like watching a cinematic vector run continuously (without stop) satisfying my very stimulation towards exploration that I had and have… with that I could harbour a bustling amount of confined Msprusi Trees that had aeration of snow upon it, with a seamless notion that greenery would never return upon, as well as this I could witness an innumerable feet of snow that blinded the very road, with obvious desolation. We arrived at Henry’s place, in a quietened-darkness, I placed down my backpack with swift tiredness, but Henry was hardly sympathetic and decided to start drinking… I decided to join in, as I thought the memorabilia would continue… and I did for some time until I woke up in his bathroom surrounded by puddles of my own puke, with recollection destroyed with a bombardment of guilt. I woke up the next day with that very sensation of guilt but remained adamantly shrugging off the regretful emotions I was feeling at that point. I remember Henry slowly crawling out of bed like a caveman waking up to a normalised civilization, that shrugging to define was a rhetorical question. We got ourselves showered and dressed, and then headed out, so he could show me around Jÿvaskyla. During our exploration of the town, we first went to McDondals (normally I would resist) but I remained evidently modest for a close friend that is Henry. We finished our meals, and then Henry took me through the steep hills that were covered in an extrasentential amount of snow, that even the tallest man would struggle to plough through… through the difficult nature we found ourselves in, I could not help but be happily exposed to an affluence of vibrancy amongst that slowly peeked over the hill with persistent… it was like seeing an endless amount of rainbows besieging our very eyes, which ultimately gave me the indication that I found myself in Finland. Some days had passed, and I still found myself tirelessly exploring Jÿvaskyla. Throughout this exploration Henry had shown me the many ski slopes that were usually used for one of the countries national sports, that was skiing (obviously) and that nightlife that was very much gleeful as there I had met Miika who at the time was serving in the Finnish Military, as a compulsion due to the Finnish government (mandatory to do military service in Finland), who consequently told me stories of drunken times, and moments that he spent in Lapland (Northern Finland) whilst in the military. After which we found ourselves drunkenly dancing to the sound of either nothingness or a sporadic sound that dissimilar to my memory. Some more days had passed, and Henry was hosting a Christmas Party in a cabin that was nestled in the heart of Eastern Finland, that there laid Leppravita. Leppravita was little known throughout Finland due to its wholesome isolation, but for those who did know it… knew that it was renowned for its bustling beauty of unconquerable Msprusi trees, that had a purification coat of snow upon, and that the roads were like being on the moon, as it was camouflaged with endless snow. We arrived at our destined cabin that Henry booked for both myself and Roosa, and his friends that would soon arrive shortly after us. When upon arriving there, I could not help but stimulation-of-nature climatically excite for a while longer, as the snow (yes) was endlessly camouflaged, but surrounding us was a myriad of trees… that almost looked like we were being rounded by an endless stream of moons, the purification was durability capable of blinding (more-so) those that were looking straight into The Great Sun itself.  Some moments had passed amongst arriving, and during that time arrived many of Henry’s friends of whom where:-(Jaako, Ossi, Toni, Ardi, Toni, Jukkis and Eetu) all of which served in the Finnish military, but we’re all undertaking various jobs either to pay the undergoing degree or traditionlistcally their bills. But what set them apart from the congregated normality, was that they all had stories of old to tell an abundance of people, most of them all, but especially Toni, Jaako and Ossi who I formalised strong friendships within quick succession of which (around a large table) that was traditionally Finnish (oak).  All Toni, Jaako and Ossi were not seemingly talkative as some others were… but what they replaced that with was an enjoyability that I found when being within in their presence, with this they would become very humorously quirky when talking to one another, they would un-regrettably become drunken without will and that they shared similar aspirations in life (a desire to become successful) which I enjoyed above all else. Some few days had passed, and I found myself regretting my drunken rebelliousness, as I remember sharing laughter amongst a typical Finnish Sauna, where within myself and the others (stated) had to get in all naked, and that after which we would do snowmen in the darkened forest, with popping into the jacuzzi to warm-off, though the regretfulness was soon forgotten as I would treasure those memories forever knowing the explorative happiness it created.  I left Finland, with a new happiness amongst the ordinary I found myself within. I hugged and shook hands with all the people I had met during the cabin party, and that I promise to all meet again soon was imminent. I arrived back in Cambridge for a short period of time, before setting out yet again, to the fringed edge of Scandinavia that was Denmark. I was there for 6 days, during which I would spend within Copenhagen, and that I would be accompanied by Henry yet again, along with some of his friends:-(Ardi, Jaako, Lauri and his girlfriend Roosa) most of which would stay in a hotel nearby to the hostel I was staying in. I arrived in Copenhagen on the cold desolation of darkness, that within peered a gleefulness that there were Henry and Jakko welcoming me with open arms to this socialistic atmospheric atmosphere that seemed to echo deep into my ears, that the only voice I could hear, was my own that was confidently talking to myself. Some hours had passed, and I found myself annoyingly waking up to the sound of silence, that during of which appeared a bruise on my eye… that undefinability was noticeable, as it came out of nowhere. As my confusion remained, I hurried downstairs where I asked the troubleless barman for some ice to rest upon my bruise. During of which, I coincidentally bumped into two guys, one that was named Jacob who was from America and the other Ivan who was from North London, United Kingdom, throughout our swift discussion of friendliness we both striked commonality; to which I asked that I could join them in the bar that they were going to in the city. They both agreed, and away I went to grab my shirt and passport, and away we all went to Charlie’s Irish Bar that was nearby our hostel. We entered the bar, and quickly noticed a bustling atmosphere, and that no longer of arrivng to the bar we found ourselves outwardly drunk… singing to such songs such as ‘Barbie-girl’ and Danish songs. With our orthodox stance becoming obvious to the congregation around us, Jacob ended up puking on the ground, where which then escaltated into him almost getting into a fight. As our presence was becoming unwantedly fashionable, we decided to leave. To then myself and Ivan mocked our friend Jared (who we met from Wales) where we both hysterically shouted…”Baaaaa…” deep into the awakening sun over Copenhagen.
I woke up the next day with the sensation of a bullet train racing through my head, I failed to let this affect me… so I got myself showered and myself some breakfast, and away I went out for a day full of purified exploration. During my exploration I had found that Denmark seemed rather similar to Finland (in an architectural-sense) every building that my eyes were being presented with, where dominated with a vibrant efficiency of colour that where even The holy festival of Diwali would easily be put to shame. I carried on through this vibrancy to the waters edge of the Scandanivc waters, where I came along a familiar site of vibrancy (that was the Nyhavn Harbour) where witnessing countless rainbows was a sight always to be succeeded in seeing. I carried on walking through the harbour, where I would find countless boats trying rushingly   to set sail throughout the North Sea, it felt rather nomadic it was as if they were pegging themselves back to their ancestors (Vikings)  that once roamed this once unexplored throughout Scandinavia and to the eventual Scotland, Iceland, Faroe Islands, Greenland and The United Kingdom (Ireland included) during the Celtic rage of the Celts.
I arrived back at the hostel, where it was late around 20:00pm at night. I put my bag and camera in my room, where when going downstairs I would meet Tom who was from New Zealand. I spoke to him for a little while, with  enthusiastic interest was soon formalised with the discovery of the travelling he had done (throughout Cambodia, Laos, Thailand and many parts of the Balkan region and Western Europe) I somewhat ‘exploratively-taken’ by the degree of travel he had undertaken thus far. During our insightful conversation I suggested that I bought myself and he a beer, where it would then later escalate to a game of beer bong. During our drunken joyfulness, I had also met Jan and Karl, who where both from Germany, Jordan who was from North Carolina, Laura who was from Spain, Lisa from The Netherlands, and ZiSeng who was from Malaysia. Myself and Tom kept playing beer bong with each other until he would mysteriously disappeared to the sleeping night. During this sleepy atmosphere it was approaching midnight where 2015 was soon upon us… it was at that time, myself Mozes, Jan, Karl, Jordan, Lisa and Ziseng headed to a pub that Mozes used to play gigs at (he played music as well as studying for his masters degree in engineering). We arrived at this musically-refined pub nearby to the hostel, where a humongous cloud of smoke over-shadowered our very existence. We all of which found it very crowded within, so decided to walk the lonely streets of the city… where during of which I got to know the past adventures of all my compatriots surrounded by me (from Jan and Karl’s adventures throughout Europe and The Philippines, Jordan’s countless adventures throughout Europe and Asia and Lisa’s endless thrilling excursions of bungee throughout and the her naval deployment experiences throughout the world and ZiSeng’s undergraduate degree at The University of Copenhagen, and that he do had enrolled in many adventures throughout Europe. We ventured back to the hostel, where we all got forgetfully drunk to the point, where standing was the hardest thing to man. I remember apart from being drunk just Jan and Mozes laughing with the sensation of losing the will to breath… through smoking many joints of weed. At this point this night, became hysterical beyond recognition… where we all found ourselves on the floor creating endless puddle of laughter.
The next day I woke up, with the notion that I want a difference of scenery other than the city. So I packed my bag and got on the metro that went to a nearby beach. When I arrived I could see a small patch of greenery that within stood a little walkway to this small beach… in the distance I saw the famous Øresund Bridge that connected Denmark and Sweden over the North Sea border, which defined indurative brilliance from the engineering world. Amongst this I saw Copenhagen within the distance to the left of me, and Sweden ahead of me… it was at that moment (amongst the gushing wind) that I had realised that I had found a life away from the seamlessly endless cycle that was my life, and there renewed my happiness through my dream of traveling the world becoming gradually true. It was at that point I said to myself, ‘Travelling is my drug of choice; and I will always do this till the day I die.’ It was then, I soon left Denmark with a resonated determination of travelling the world, more so than ever.   I came back to Cambridge with a rekindled resulted happiness that knowing I was finally doing what I had set my heart on doing for the majority of my life. It felt strange at first instance (I thought it wasn’t true) meaning that consequently I found myself in a Sub-Saharan mirage where on the overside of the dune, was myself standing there blistered with an unorthodox refinery covered throughout my body, that in between this mystified blister laid only me pitching myself, to the realisation of what it was, I was finally doing within in my life. My spiritualism left the Sahara, after soon returning back to Mark’s place, where the only realisation met (again) was the purified depths of my burning soul that I discovered blackened within a paganisms cauldron- that sat there within a Siberian-dominated room that stood deep within a landscape, that even the most depressive state of mind such as Vincent Van-Gough (himself) would struggle to point; despite if he cut his ear off. Some little time had passed, and I had found myself going from job to job, as I had struggled in opening up about my Aspergers, which in essence meant holding down a job was difficult task of which… during these times of ‘somewhat’ difficulty I did manage to hold to one job that was being a cleaner (from 06:00am-08:00am) every morning except Saturday and Sunday, which paid me £60 every two weeks, and £25 of that had to on rent, only leaving me £10 a week to eat from which. This basic existence very much ushered my nomadic peacefulness within me, although it was hard from time to time, I did enjoy it’s simplistic philosophy. As time moved on, I found myself getting increasingly frustrated prior to the lack of travel and money that I found myself little without… I felt like that I needed someone to talk to, someone to share the romantic emotiveness and  compassionate companionship with (I didn’t want to talk to my parents) so I felt dating someone would justify these feelings of desire with purified wholesomeness. After sometime of searching I had come across a girl known as Anna, who lived nearby to my hometown of Cambridge. ‘I asked her, do you have anything better to do than talk to me on a Friday night?’  She responded with laughter, and then echoed out an endless spiral of conventional conversation that seemed indestructible through the commonalities that we had established thus far during our ‘virtual-friendship’. Some little time had passed, and I had asked if that she wanted to meet me in Cambridge during early August, she responded with a swift ‘yes’. We both agreed to meet by the Cambridge Corn Exchange, where I was there waiting inside upon her arrival- it was only until she messaged me saying, ‘that she was outside’ that left my heart exploding within my chest… I stepped outside, and there I saw her anxiously smiling, knowing that all that she had seen and heard of me, had been virtually met with compound of reality… it seemed rather scary. My heart was stolen, it was taken to the The Abbey Road Studios where The Beatles were making ‘Sargent Pepper’ (in the name of love)… I asked Sir Paul McCartney if I could have it back, but he said, ‘no…just wait and see what happens boy’o.’ We ploughed on through Cambridge with little idea of what to do, our indecisiveness seemed ripe, and that it wasn’t going to be awoken any time prior. We went to a rustic cafe by the edge of the city, where we spoke about our love for travel. It was at that point I noticed that she was wearing a necklace… I asked what it was, and it was then she showed me that it was a St Christopher necklace (patron protector of travel) which then decisively choose that it was her I wanted to be with (I had the same necklace). Some of few hours had passed, and we found ourselves by King’s College where I had asked to meet again, she said, ‘yes’ with the anxiousness wiped off her face. I rhetorically smiled back.  I came home with a beaming smile upon my face, it was like my punished soul had been resurrected from the depths of the ocean, and swam to the waters edge, where there laid Anna waiting for me, it was bliss and even my mother could see how happy I was at the point. Sometime had gone past, and I saw myself continuously working with the overhauling motivation that ‘Jack-like-Anna’ (someone like me) could potentially be in my life. It came to Saturday, I woke up and I cycled as fast as I could to Cambridge Train Station, where I would meet her just outside her hometown. I arrived at my destination and she came with her mother to pick me up, where we would drive a little distance to her hometown. Her mother dropped us off, and we walked the rest of the way home, where it was we watched animated films with a sense of cliché ringing deep within my ears.   Moments had passed, and I found myself having more intensified feelings for her (mostly as nobody showed a heightened interest within me), my affectioned smile came beaming back with the purified determination that I would soon like to kiss her, but I thought, ‘not yet.’ ‘Be patient don’t derail things if haven not the opportunity!’ So I remained persistently patient, and carried on enjoy my day full of unconquerable comfortability.   Our day had ended, it was time for us to depart the happiness kindled thus far, well until next time at least (I hoped for at that stage).  We met again back in Cambridge, where this time we went to my home that was in the North of the city; in comparison to the centre we had found ourselves in. We entered with both my mother and Mark away on holiday, so just like last time we had watched a couple of films… until time I felt I said, ‘I wanted to do something’ She asked, ‘what do you want to do?’ So I compassionately kissed her without unhesitant reason of stopping, my heart was racing, I didn’t know what to say or do during this climatic moment… so I carried on with the concentrated hope that she was receiving the same climaticness as I. She seemed so, but carried on anxiously smiling, as if confusion was dominating her abstract and physical sub-structure of her face. We left my home, and wondered back to the train station where I had given Anna, my denim jacket given the apparent coldness we found ourselves within an early September breeze. She hugged me with formidability that she didn’t want to let go, but did as her train would shortly be leaving, we smiled at each other and both went our separate ways until next time at least… Some few weeks had passed, and Anna came back to Cambridge where then we exploratviely wandered the city. Through our exploration, we had both sat down in a cafe just off belly of the city, where during of which Anna had expressively opened up about her past relationships and experiences during her life (at that moment)- I was shocked of what she had told me… so I could not help but sympathetically hug her… in the desired return that she would feel better. This betterness had been halted within her mental psych; where escaping this element of confined bitterness was proving to be rather challenging for her. We left the café, where emotion sat there with purification on our stricken faces… this purified emotiveness was becoming a hinderance for tireless consideration for the general public (not to mention especially Anna) so I decided to take her to one of my favourite spots in Cambridge, which was Castle Hill. We ventured to the top of the hill, with the both of just laying there to the resting sun, overshadowing a brightened-brightness throughout the affluent sector of the city. We remained laying there, until the sun had become tired, and laid to rest. So the lustfulness intensified once again, until time had come that it was time to go home. It was getting dark, and Anna’s parents would of soon be wondering where she was, so we hurried back to the station (once again) so that she could consequently get her train home. During our hurrying nature home, I anxiously asked Anna, ‘if that she would go out with me’ she worryingly said, ‘yes’ with the receipted happiness becoming smothered on my lightening face… she did not, but otherwise stood partially happy to the notion that lustful wholesomeness was not discovered as of yet for Anna. Some months had passed, and our honeymoon of refined happiness had swiftly ended. I was sitting at home in bed, amongst an industrialised darkness that looked like a Manchurian work house, that was plagued with nothing but a steepened  sadness and a decaying dream that was like watching a naturalistic land-fall in the heartened depths of the Polynesian Islands (erupting volcano. An incoming phone call from Anna arrived   personifying my descriptions of the Victorianism-Era I had found myself within (with frustrating anguish). I answered the call, to momentary lapse of silence amongst the call, I could hear nothing but echoing cries and quick breathing down the line… this emotive noise harboured a definition I tried so hard to run away from for so long… she said, ‘I don’t want to be with you anymore’ and hung up the call. I dropped the phone, and my very soul fell to it’s knees where even a Roman Cruxifixction wouldn’t even compliment this feeling of utter emptiness. I cried on my pillow, with realising the very acknowledgement that I was alone once again. Alone to live the life I did not want to know, alone to my hopes and fears of life, alone within the darkening sensation that nobody would want to understand nor listen to what it was I had to see during this moment of falling soulfulness, I felt at this moment I was beginning to become lost within a dream of escape, and a navigation of hopeful happiness discovered.  A few days had passed, and she gave me back the jumpers and coats I had given to her, during our moments in and around Cambridge. I found myself tearfully stubborn to the realisation that I was within reality, but behind her eyes, it seemed as so that she was telling me ‘to grow up’ as if careful consideration was not a part of her mindful scaffolding. I took my belongings back into my grasp, and vowed for them not to get a sense of historical belonging to Anna- like there once were. With freedom obvious I took some time of work (I was back at the train station at a Cornish Pasty outlet). During this swift break, I spontaneously booked two flights, one that was to Edinburgh, Scotland and the other to Belfast, Northern Ireland. I left Cambridge and headed to Edinburgh, that only took just over one to hour to arrive. Upon arrival, I could not help but sense a notion of methodicalness amongst the misty skies of the capital, that looked naturally locked amongst the rolling greenery the Edinburgh had found itself blessed within. I took a  short bus ride from the International Airport to the centre. I arrived within the heart of the city, and found myself swiftly wandering the northern confinements of The United Kingdom. Firstly I went to Edinburgh Castle, where there I found myself historically taken by the architectural prowess that was shown from when it was built amongst the Celtic age, I stayed hurrying through this prowess of architecture, until time I felt was that I conquered Arthur’s Seat. I hitched a taxi from Edinburgh Castle to the destination I arrived at Arthur’s seat, where upon arrival I could sense that this really was the mystical capital of the world, as looking above I could see nothing but this eroded greenery; being nothing but blissfully overrated with a mist that seemed so thick that it would even blind the blind. This notion of blind fulness excited my sensuality of adventure, so I decided to take the unorthodox route up the the mini-mountain (it took at least one hour of treading through the mud) to reach the summit. When I finally reached the summit, my blinded nature became apparent within reality. Through this sighted-bleakness, I found a beauty amongst the hills that any idea of mythology could easily be written into a book, it was beautiful. Although I was stood amongst the beauty, I decided to venture to the other side of the the mountain- which meant going down hill. Through this minor-pilgrimage, I found that mystical-bleakness was quickly decaying to my very eyes. I was ‘somewhat’ joyous as I could now with a normality. I made it to the bottom of the hill, where ahead of me where a road linking back towards Edinburgh, and to the left of me stood some wood, where echoing a trickle of water from stream down below. I hurried myself there, where within I found that very trickling stream, and yet endless rock formations scattered all over the river, with golden leaves, and a rustiness overcoating this very atmosphere. After finding this place of rustic tranquility, I found myself in utter aurora of myself, where a naturist philosophical spiritualness came talking to me, where in return swapped my historical sadness, for this inner-happiness within. I left this moment of tranquility behind, and head back into the centre.  Once back within the city, I decided to on one last explorational pilgrimage that was along the famous Victoria Street. When there I could not help but taken back to the countries once colonial repression from the Old British Empire, as I could not  help but see nothing but cobbled limestone walls, that were dominated with a purified paleness…that creativity shocked me as apart from this paled limestone, the buildings looked aristocratic. Where most of them where very tall, hosting a catalogue of windows spread throughout the buildings, giving them all a sense of individuality, with sniff of jurisdiction along the refined population that lived within the city. (amongst the houses) that stood with nothing but with claustrophobia beaming upon their very substructure. It felt almost routinely communistical that every house looked the same- but the only difference was that everyone who lived in them seemed richly different from the next person. As well as this there was an element of Victorianism through the atmospheric air, especially where I found that the buildings were clearly architecturally refined that even Tim Wonnacott (famous British antique expert) would struggle to sell them to even the most intellectual or even financially affluent seller. This final exploration marked the end of my trip to Edinburgh. I headed back to Cambridge from Edinburgh International Airport (via Stansted Airport), with finding genuine happiness throughout for my love for spiritualistic nature and historical fractions of the past.
I arrived back in Cambridge (overnight) until I would be heading out to Belfast, Northern Ireland in early hours of the morning. I flew into Belfast International Airport after a short flight of 1hr and 20 mins, and quickly noticed when landing that there was a historical-eeriness amongst the air, that daren’t to be fought with (politically and religiously) by any tourists, unless you enjoyed getting an Irish clout! I grabbed a bus that took me into the city centre, it was there I get a real-sense of eeriness amongst the atmosphere. Apart from this, this small country was packed with a purified beauty… I could see nothing but   lush greenery from The Moornes that stood surrounded  everywhere to the naked eye I arrived in the centre, and sooner of arriving I went along the infamous Shankhill Road, where the majority of the loyalists within the city, where living I quickly came to the conclusion after walking down there for sometime that as well as eeriness amongst the air, that it was suspiciously un-atmospheric, and bleak (at most). I had earlier learned from watching previous documentaries that there was only ever any prior altercations for when marching season came by, but that wasn’t till mid-July, when the Protestants celebrated beating the Catholics in Batter of the Boyne, which is something they have done since 1690 (as mentioned a few paragraphs earlier). I walked kept walking further down the road, and it was there I began to become rather anxious of something potentially happening… I felt this as because there were many of the local people noticed that I was neither from Ireland, or Northern Ireland for that matter.
I got about half way down the road, where it was then I came upon the notorious Crumlin Road Jail, where the Great Bobby Sands was kept before being in prisoned in HM Maze where many of the members of the IRA were interrogated for their bloody acts against the British during the early 70s and and late 90s were the prison closed, after the 1998 Good Friday Peace Agreement.I walked towards the gates of the prison, and swiftly noticed that the decor of the prison, had seen better days as there were bullet holes and shattered glass of ex-political prisoners that tried escaped during the 70′s and the 90s. if I was to be entirely honest, I was rather blown away by this factor; knowing that I was only on the other-side of the Irish sea.
I walked within the prison, were there was a tour being held for many enthusiastic tourists, such as myself who wanted to find out more about troubles that took places in Northern Ireland. We were directed throughout the main hall way of the prison, it was there I had noticed this prison (most importantly) had a catalogue of spiritualistic hauntings from past prisoners that were stationed here throughout the past. The cells within were small and compact, and had very little inside… with a sheer purification of whiteness and a depressive black paint that was coloured on the railings on the stairs of the prison, it very much gave it a feel of Victorianism amongst the prison.I walked further down the hall way of the prison, where it was there within the cells that as well of the compactness and isolation of the sheer size of the cells, that I had also noticed that there were many manakins that were depicting the horrendous acts made from the British officers that worked there.One of them, was giving the prisoners very little to eat, and when they were given something to eat it was either rational-type soups, or just bread to give it some for of ballade.
The other form of treatments regrettably received by the prisoners was the deajectory 10 commandments made from the officers who worked there, to get any form of information that help these officers work out what these political-activists motives were for motivation for the crimes that they committed throughout Belfast and Northern Ireland.  We left the hall way of the prison behind, and headed outside of the prison towards the wall. It was there where got an explanation of the bullet holes and shattered glass on the wall I had seen earlier. I had already figured out why they were there… but it was truly fascinating to get an in-depth cycle as to why.I was told that the reason for these bullet holes and shattered glass, was because throughout the term that many of these prisoners had served; during of which they had tried escaping this prison time and time again, and that when found trying to escape they would either be shot down, or have they’re hands cut to pieces while trying to escape.
After told, I was also given the insight of the many prisoners that tried escaping, had also died whilst trying to decamp. And that there acts were  depicted respectably by the few graves that were planted across the walls of the prison itself. This gave me the sense of unjustifiable trepidation, that many of the prisoners that were stationed here throughout the 70′s and 90′s were treat like pigs, but in un-parallel universe that was the grim-reapers cauldron.  We carried on roaming the prison with endless interest, and was taken the hang room, where many of the IRA- extremists were hung for their harrowing acts within the IRA. It was there that when these prisoners were hung, on the day of the anticipated execution, that many of the local people in and around Belfast, would come and watch the execution.
It was there they got much pleasure out of the sightings (for some strange reason), this was also the birthplace of the word ‘Hungover’ where many of us cooperate the word ‘hungover’ for when we have drunk way too much the night before, seems rather fitting knowing that it originates from Ireland/Northern Ireland.  I left the Crumlin Road Jail behind, and carried on my quest of exploration of the city, it was there that I came into contact with many of the vibrant murals that portrayed many of the IRA heroes, and nationlistic-identity that was clearly evident throughout the city, and as a consequence swiftly noticed, that many of the people whom lived here were strongly nationalistic (in a opinionated sense); much so that I felt that is sense expression fully through this women who un-reluctantly stopped me in the street… only to question “why I was wearing both a Protestant and Catholic cross on the same necklace!?…”  I momentarily paused for a moment, wondering wether I would make it out of the Falls Road alive… only for the lady to anticlimactically state that if I do not cover my two crosses now, that someone will most likely stab or either punch me down the road!I took this insightful advice from this lady, and buttoned up my top, and ploughed on further down the Falls Road.
After exploring the road furthermore, I upon the docking region of the city, where many infamous ships were build during the 19th & 20th century. Before taking a further look, I decided to sit down in a cafe, that was formatted in heart of the dock, it was rather socially-cordial. I walked inside, and the atmosphere was rather jolly, it was much different from the one frisky-one I encountered further back on The Falls Road.It was unexpectedly moronic, as this gave me the notion of the country being religiously divided, but also at the same time gave me the sensation that the country had progressively moved on from its’ troubled past… so in essence my mind was caught into sub-divisional minds. I decided to take some water, whilst watching the world blissfuly walk along with the ‘generality-of-life’ very much in their subconscious.  Whilst drinking my drink, I could not help but get the perception that there was a rightful belonging for me here within in Northern Ireland.
But for some unapparent reason I couldn’t put a definitive resolution as to why I was thinking this?… after taking the needed time to think about it, I came to the conclusion that it was because I was pleasuring my nomadically-explorational need for escape that was getting away from the impurification that was the Westernised world.I left the Cafe’, and wondered along the dockyards of the city. It was there I came upon the famous Harland and Wolff Cranes that were used during the early 20th century, for making the Titanic that sorrowfully so it’s remarkable down fall in the mid-Atlantic ocean; at the feet of disbursing ice bergs that derived from the depths of the Arctic that was Greenland.Looking at these Harland & Wolff was rather a spectacular sight, thinking the amount of trade that it once bought this city, was a interesting thought for most, yet to think they have now been frustratingly abandoned for many years now; consequently bringing much economic depressions upon many families that were trying to keep afloat from these difficult times.
I arrived back in Cambridge (via Stansted Airport) with the notion of being unconquerable being ripe, knowing that my dream of ‘travelling the world’  was now rekindled of being untestable even by the greatest explorers of Sir Ranulph  Fiennes and the great Marco Polo himself. This notion of unmountable invincibility, was expressively deployed with a outer arrogance that even Gordon Ramsay (himself) would struggle to define at the most refined of marginal fractions. Some few weeks had passed, and I had found myself lustfully spiralling with an inward incompatibility that was evidently made for no more but oceanic waves that where bound to make tireless sadness amongst my life. With that marginal sensation amongst my mindfulness, I remained ‘lovingly-grounded’ until such time indicated otherwise. This indication soon came in mid November’s day, (three weeks prior to ending the relationship) contacted me with the soulful achievement of wanting to get back with me… I agreed to her words, with unthinkable rhetoricalness, but haven the little acknowledgement that it was the very indecisiveness of her mindfulness that dominated this very lustful-like-personality. Some weeks had passed, and we had found ourselves going from each others places, with the happiness slowly turning towards a scenically- intermit route, with this apparent intermediacy also coming with imbalance of that, and atmosphere full of nothing but Gaelic/Scottish instrumentation. This instrumentation echoed out a lustful philosophical spirituality where I thought living a life belonging exclusively to Anna, was rightfully justifiable. This justifiability came with little acknowledgement of what this futuristically-refined-relationship had in store for me. Little time had passed and the futuristic torment had become awake-fully apparent, as the love that was once showed time ago, had fully drowned within the lustful sands of time, which harboured a sense of puppeteering. This puppeteering came with quick-succession, as there became many scenario’s… where I would joyfully say to Anna, ‘I love you’ but with the expectational-response back came nothing, but a brief flicker of a smile, that came beaming back into my spiritualism with utter annoyance.
This annoyance independently adopted itself within my mental-capacity. This also came with the sheer determination of it only wanting to progressively intensify like a cancerous-cell growing on my brain like someone planting a melancholic tree. This melancholiness progressively out-grew my mindful state, where I would analytically expect the worse from Anna, from that point forward. This expectation was sub-divisionally rightful. As the frustrating annoyances arrived ever still… with a brief spell of happiness came, like the very generality we humans lived in- (it could of been ironic sarcasm) but confusingly happy it made me for sometime. This happiness would involve myself Anna, going on scenic walks throughout the agriculture reservoirs that Anna lived nearby. During this agriculture exploration, came with a lustful spirituality that came from both of which of Anna, and the nature that had been plagued to my sight (patiently moving ponds that streamed through the town, with semi-detached trees in abundance) surrounding our very presence, with the flatness of soil, the crunchy Diwali-like (colourful) leaves, with the formatted compound of soil, wheat and barley spanning far into the distance, that was gradually peaking out like a baby bird springing out to hatch.
This temporary formation of happiness, was now seen a part of our commonality for sometime. As from this point we found some many occasions, where we established positiveness just from sitting at home and being in each others romantically-refined presence… with the echoes of Gaelic sounds hoovering all around our soon-to-be crumbling relationship. What came of this was a catalogue of seemingly unwanted necessities that seemed adamant, but yet reluctant to oppositely manufacture me into a person… I saw as wholesomely unfit and that only would unjustifiably define my soulful personality.  As this became evident, there came many moments where I would do or say something within Anna’s presence, that she consequently did not like… and would unconsciously state her annoyance of me doing or saying such (humour, burping and farting)- I know this sounds rather moronic, but surprisingly truthful it was. As time moved swiftly into December, this moronic idioticness progressed into a very normality that Anna would reluctantly portray with the soul ambition of getting the very personality that she dearly wanted. She knew that I was someone who was spontaneously adventures, curious about most/all subjects in life and that I was outwardly sociable, with a ‘fine-line’ of friends that I would spend time with when given any opportunity. With these personalistic traits came an inward notion of envy towards myself… that was attempted to be stubbornly  hidden, by turning my personality inside out (very much inside out).
Christmas had arrived, and a need for happiness had to motivationally be formed, or else  compromising our very differences was now going to be unchallengeable at it’s very best. During this ‘somewhat’ joyful period I testified myself to spend sometime with my father, who throughout my life defined the complete opposite of being one, but I thought berrying the animosity created could be a testament to both our personalistic characteristics. I arrived at his house in a cold winters sun aiming upon my very head, this act gave me the faithful hope  that someone or yet something was spiritualistically behind me, but with the blindness of love, made that acknowledgement difficult to differentiate. I sat in his living room, with little to say to each other, but the football score of our beloved Newcastle United, flickered little and far between. The day wore on, and we sat in front of the fire restfully cracking in front of us, which personally was the only warming comfort taken from that Christmas Eve’s day. Evening swiftly arose, with the sound of passing cars ringing deeply into my ears… it was painfully pathetic, knowing all my socialistic graft of finding lovingly commonality, was forever unapparent and that laid on the summit of Mt. Everest it rested, with the questionable ponderance of ever finding it.
Christmas morning arose with the ponderance defined, as frustrating conversation came ever still. We ate our breakfast and headed out to local reservoir that there stood a mill that  collected water, and spit it straight out. The landscape seemed very similar to the one found in Anna’s sometime, it seemed agriculturally refined, to which there was distancing compound of flatness ahead of the naked eye, with nothing but a naked grass dominating our very presence. Our little conversations progressed into a moment of regretful memorabilia where my father described his moment of going to prison… and that during of which he concluded that, ‘life is about making the right choices’ that doing what I did, was stupid.’ I listened to him with attentive insightfulness… but soon intensified furthermore anguished embarrassment knowing that man, was in need my father. The day wore on, and boredom soon struck, with no gifts (nor received) where given to each other during this day; that was suppose to been seen as ‘jolly’  was seen as a excruciatingly unsociable and and lovingly unfaithful and yet distantly lost forever more.
Boxing day had  arrived, and I came back to Cambridge where I had work for a short while in a quintessentially-British cafe. The day there was obviously quiet, but more so jolly knowing that I was away from my father and his uncharacteristic unorthodox’s. I found myself cleaning the entirety of the kitchen:-(the work surfaces, kitchen filters, cleaning the bins and many of the regions of the kitchen). Which came a sense of reliability when it came to my  graft and motivation just to work to the definitive word itself. As well as this I shared many a jokes with Phil who I worked with during my time there, who I thoroughly enjoyed working with. Phil was very much like myself, he worked hard for the industry he believed in, and that he cared considerately to those around him and that above anything else he was a genuine person to that always socialistically echoed to everyone who met him in his very presence. But what seemed sad, was that many chef’s within the industry placed little trust in Phil-  as at times displayed little confidence… which would project his lack of confidence, which was saddening to see (at times).  My shift there had ended, and my father picked me up where he would take me Anna’s aunties house where her family were having a  gathering for the day’s event, and that her parents had agreed that I could stay over until the next day.
I met Anna along with Sheena (her mother) just outside her aunties house, with ‘socialistic-fear’ conjuring deep within my eyes. They took me into the house, where the majority of her family were there scattered throughout the entire geographical sub-structure. I felt bewilderedly isolated… with the wholesome notion of not knowing anybody within her family (with the only exception of Anna, her siblings and parents), with this brought an element of silent imitation that portrayed deep into my personalistic-mindfulness… where this imitation bought nothing but them only judging me on purified speculation. This speculation become truthfully apparent when were all gathered around the living room, giving presents to all (a family tradition) where throughout a stood few members of the family that persistently stared at me from time to time, that being her Uncle and Grandmother. Perhaps they did this as they were trying to manufacture an understanding of myself… or was it that I beheld traits of what Anna’s ex-boyfriend once was like, I do not know. This silence curiously put me in a state of anxiousness… where any flicker of a sound or stare upon anyone or anything, where equal in me being looked upon in such dampening way!
We gathered for about one hour, to which after a platter of food was served amongst the family. I ate the food with great delight, with the very sensation of nourished was welcomed… not to mention the salmon and chicken and served- was rather nice; which was ironic given the emotion received thus far throughout all corners of the relationship (Anna, her parents, uncle and grandmother). After which I found myself getting tireless nervous of endless stares and voices that were dominating my very mindfulness that was deemed ‘fragile’ upon that very moment of time. So I consequently decided that I wanted to back Anna’s home, where I could find salvation amongst my un-judgemental-self. We arrived home, where tiredness was stricken upon my perplexed face. This notion of perplexity came as I sensed a real orientational-togetherness amongst Anna’s family- where great envy was discovered amongst this… and that, between this sensation of togetherness was met with a real commonality throughout every member within her family… unlike my family tended to feel such.  
I rested my tired podium upon the sofa that seemed to pollute my comfort with nothing but satisfactory. Until when Anna gave me two gifts that were from her family. I gawked moronically into her eye’s- as if this was a joke! She beamed a laugh back at me, and said, ‘they are actually for you.’ I opened them both, and what I found was a jumper that I had wanted to and a tablet (I did not have any use of the internet at home!) I was fluttered, and yet impassion-ate from what I was seeing… so much so that I began to cry. I rested my surprised self upon Anna, where she seemed conflicted whether to hug me, or just indifferently laugh in my face. Some time later found ourselves gradually sleeping to the sound of nothingness. I woke up early the day full of emotion from the day before, and knowing it would be a little while before I next saw Anna.
Andy (Anna’s father) took me back to the train station, where there I would get the train back home to Cambridge. I arrived back in Cambridge, with emotion apparent upon my unenlightened face. I got into work with this notion growing cancerously throughout the atmospheric confinements of the kitchen… when everyone there swiftly noticed that there was something missing from my personalistic individuality. I finished work and wandered home, where there I would crawl back into my ‘realistic’ cave as normality would govern. I laid on my bed, only to find myself lost within myself… I saw no formalised direction, nor soulfulness was diminishing before my very eyes! I carried on working tirelessly until New Years Eve arose with that demising soulfulness swiftly decaying before my very mindful-eyes. I left my home to collect Anna, where she would stand there in a isolated coldness waiting for my arrival. We arrived back at my house where we would swiftly relax and get ourselves vigorously dressed; as I had planned to take Anna out for dinner. We hopped on a local bus, to the restaurant. With a short journey, we found ourselves in short exchange of flickered smiles, and apparent indecisiveness becoming ever-ripened upon her befuddled face. We entered the restaurant, where we took our seats distant from the intermediate congregation (for Anna’s sake) where she would take great pleasure from this act of kindness (myself). We ate our meals, with tireless ‘chit-chat’ where the most pleasurable moment of the evening was the service from the waiter, the  people and cars that passed by our hurrying eyes. With boredom becoming ripe, we left the restaurant where we would wonder back to bus stop, with an Arctic-breeze springing down our very spines… where Anna, hold squeeze my hand, as she knew my hands were not affected from the cold:-(they were more like a furness) that saw no end of hotness.
We came back to my home, where would expeditiously lay ourselves upon my sinking bed. Throughout that time (with candles lit, as there were no lights within my room) we would just spend ourselves starring the abyss, wondering what tomorrow would hold, wondering were would life lead us or if we were ever going to be a couple again after this point onwards. We wandered this idea for some time, until she fell asleep… with little cooperation as it seemed as so that her mind was already made up (in regards to us) and the life that she wanted. I pondered the idea for a little while long- until I blew out the candles and awoke her at 00:00am only to wishfully grant her a ‘New Year’ and that my happiness with her; was all that I wished for. She briefly smiled back at me, whilst kissing me on the lips, and then away she went to sleep again.  
I woke up the next morning, with a sense of purpose both on my mind and throughout my body. I laid in bed for about one hour, before Anna gradually woke up, and that when she did it she blissfuly opened her eyes in front of mine… with a beaming smile stricken upon her bemused face. With this level of bemusement making me feel likewise, she hugged me with intention to imprison herself to me, until she otherwise felt fit to preserve our limited lustfulness of a relationship. The morning wore on, and we got dressed. Anna was in the next room putting some make-up on to the sound of ‘UGH’ from the band The 1975… throughout the lyrics gave me a indication of what she really felt of me; “And you're the only thing that's going on in my mind taking over my life a second time I don't have the capacity for fucking you're meant to be helping me” which pinpointed that she only thought I wanted to be with here for the soul purpose of sex. This notion upset me deeply, as if I was robbed from the very emotions I overwhelmingly portrayed throughout our relationship:-(endless love, tireless consideration of care, a deep interest for anything she was interested in and that she  wanted to talk about, and spoke to her parents and siblings effortlessly) when seen upon.
The day was wearing on, and Anna had to go home as her sister would be finishing work and lift home would be free if she was there to use it. So she jumped at the opportunity, and we raced to the hospital (where she worked) with tears just tipping beneath my eyes… my heart seemed to pound, I was not sure whether it was because of the mindful reality I found myself within about her, or that it would be little time before I would see her again? I did not know, and that I stood fearful in wanting to at that present moment. We met her sister, and with a quick exchange of words they both left to go home. Where I was left standing like a single flame amongst the crashing waves in a oceanic confinement of melancholic patterns that looked set to arise, and dominate my very life in very quick sequence.
Some time had passed before seeing each other once again, with every time we met deemed profoundly difficult for one another… as restriction in wanting to see myself became obvious. Her interested had longingly decayed, and that it seemed like her deepened commitment was with someone else. This idea had came into my mind, as there were countless moments throughout our early stages together that she never said she, ‘loved me’ and that she only said which when I asked her to do the same; as I did her without any thought of doubt. I came to her hometown in Bedfordshire, as usual it had been a while from the last time I saw her. I got in her father’s car, and I can quickly saw that something was potently with her, the atmosphere was desolately eerie within the car, that evidently overtook her very un-expressional face. Anna failed in telling me what was going on, it was if she was getting comfort from hiding something from me. From this point, I was left uncomfortably worrying  that the unthinkable was about to happen yet again. Before all this, (you could say it was irony) but we went for a walk along the nature reservoir. Where she thought this befuddlement she be complimented by a Full English Breakfast. It was from that stag, I knew I was being selfishly backstabbed.
We wondered home after which, and yet finding the sincere trepidation was painted upon her face, to which equalled much shivering panic was justifiable. We arrived home, and the feelings that her heart her told her long before, had come swarming out like a pack of lions, trying to look after their young. I was trying effortlessly hard not to listen to what I was hearing, I felt like I was falling, falling in a deep blue ocean that was surrounded by a pack of sharks that were treating me as their kill for their family.  I found definition for what was happening… but was fearful to be apart of reality at that point, to what was being said. I wanted to runaway, runaway from the seemingly laborious phase I found myself in. Anna just stood there, as if nothing was happening… it was like she didn’t even care, nor share any margin of emotion for the matter (she planned this like Martyr dying for their course). Thankfully her mum had the same idea, and took me to the train station, whilst I was trying (with the little soulfulness I had left) to pick myself up from the my knees, that she left me hanging deep upon, that looked to spend the rest of my life negatively thinking about this very moment. I arrived back at the train station, where I spent the entirety of the journey with people starring at the endless tears streaming down my anticlimactic face, it was tedious and yet so embarrassing during of which. I arrived back in Cambridge, with these tears creating a puddles onto to the ground. I came into the reception that was nearby, only to ring my mother; as I could not bring myself to get on any transportation (again). I rang her, breaking down into tears explaining to her what had happened… so my grandfather agreed to pick me up, where he gave me some words of wisdom, when telling me that Anna, ‘was not worth my time’ and that he said; ‘only worry about people, when they want you to worry about them.’ I listened intently to what he had said to me, and then from there began my pilgrimage to lustful durability (once again).
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How to Expand Taller
how to get taller Your height is mainly identified by the two your genetics as nicely as environmental aspects. Even although a number of factors that establish your top are out of your manage, there are a few things this sort of as your peak stays the same. When your development plates have closed, your height stays the very same. Even so, just before that window has shut, you can use the adhering to techniques and exercise routines to get to your total potential. What you do when you are youthful will most likely affect how large and tall you develop to be. Even though none of these actions can make certain you expand tall, getting a healthier, minimal-anxiety life style will boost the odds you get to your highest prospective height. one Recognize that most of your top will be established by the genetics of your family. Top is a polygenic trait, meaning it is affected by numerous various genes. Possessing two quick parents will not always mean that you will be quick, just as getting two tall parents will not make you a towering huge. Nonetheless, if most of the men and women on the two sides of your family are limited, then odds are that you will be limited as well. Do not be discouraged however. The truth is that you are not able to know how tall you will be right up until you get to complete bodily adulthood in your mid-twenties. Compute your projected peak. Operating in inches or centimeters, you can attempt to forecast your peak primarily based on the peak of your dad and mom. Include up your parents' heights (in inches or cm). Include 5 inches (thirteen cm) if you are a boy subtract 5 inches (thirteen cm) if you are a female. Divide by 2. The answer is your predicted height, give or get four inches (10 cm). Note that this is not an complete calculation, but it must be pretty near.[1] two Steer clear of expansion-stunting aspects. There might not be a lot you can do to increase your height, but you can consider several steps to make sure your organic peak is not shortened by environmental influences. Medicines and alcoholic beverages are both believed to add to stunted growth if they are ingested although you are younger, and malnutrition can preserve you from achieving your complete height as effectively. Does caffeine genuinely stunt your growth? Scientific examine displays that caffeine does not stunt progress.[two] Caffeine does, nonetheless, have a increased likelihood of trying to keep you from sleeping soundly and often. Youngsters and adolescents need about close to 9 1/two several hours of sleep, and caffeine may possibly damage your capacity to get that significantly sleep. Does cigarette smoking genuinely stunt your growth? The outcomes of smoking cigarettes and next-hand smoke on physique mass index (BMI) are inconclusive, nonetheless, according to Columbia University's Internet Health Source: "the available research indicates that young children who smoke, or who are exposed to next-hand smoke are shorter than those who do not smoke or are young children of non-smokers."[three] Do steroids actually stunt your expansion? Absolutely. Anabolic steroids inhibit bone expansion in younger young children and teenagers, along with lowering sperm rely, lowering breast measurement, elevating blood strain and putting you at higher threat of coronary heart attack.[4] Kids and teens who endure from asthma and use inhalers that dispense modest doses of the steroid budesonide are, on regular, fifty percent an inch shorter than those not treated with steroids.[5] three Get loads of snooze. Research implies that developing youngsters and pre-teens want between 8.5 and eleven several hours of snooze every single night time. Most of your expanding takes place whilst sleeping. This is since your entire body grows and regenerates tissue even though you are at relaxation. Make your sleeping atmosphere as relaxed as attainable and try out to remove loud noises and unnecessary light-weight. If you have problems slipping asleep, consider taking a warm tub or ingesting a sizzling cup of chamomile tea prior to bed. Not receiving enough hours of slumber will stunt your expansion. The human growth hormone (HGH) is created by natural means in our bodies, specifically for the duration of deep or sluggish wave slumber. Obtaining very good, seem sleep will motivate the creation of HGH, which is created in the pituitary gland. As a hormone, HGH is sometimes injected into the bloodstream underneath the supervision of a certified doctor. HGH creams, powders, capsules or non-prescription injections are medically suspect and can have severe facet effects.[6] Discuss with your physician just before commencing any training course of HGH treatment. Preserve your physique as straight as achievable whilst sleeping. Your spine have to be straight as possible. Lay on your again with your arms and legs stretched toward the foot of the mattress. Do not exert any energy or pressure to extend your limbs. Enable your human body to be entirely peaceful. You may allow your head switch to the correct or remaining and bend your arms if it is more comfy to you. The important thing is to keep your human body (torso and legs) as straight as feasible. This placement may demonstrate to be not comfortable for the first few evenings, but your body will quickly turn into accustomed to this method of sleeping and before long you will discover not only further inches but also a much more cozy sleep. Kick the "pillow routine". This is a really widespread mistake produced by most of us since we are led to imagine that a pillow permits for a far more cozy night's slumber so, via behavior, we turn into connected and typically settle for this as the most comfortable way to sleep. Nonetheless, nothing at all could be even more from the fact. The use of a pillow is an incorrect sort of sleeping and should be avoided. Whilst laying on your again with your head resting on a pillow, your neck is bent ahead in a really unnatural situation. In this position, your head is currently being pushed ahead and your back is arched, also a quite unnatural placement. If you undergo from recurrent neck or back again pains, in the majority of instances, you can most likely blame it on your pillow or mattress. Make confident your mattress is agency and able of offering your human body total assistance. This is aid to in maintaining your backbone as straight as achievable even though sleeping. A gentle or sagging mattress will tend to bend the backbone and curve the torso in a sinking effect, which have to be prevented. A very good mattress will assistance the whole physique, which will hold in a straight posture setting - a have to for obtaining increased peak. 4 Diet. Making certain you are receiving all the vitamins and minerals that your entire body calls for will support you expand to your complete height. Contain all of the subsequent substances in your meals. Consider a complement focused at your age group with breakfast every single morning and consider to include particular food items into your diet plan. Here are some particular ideas: Make confident to just take in an abundance of carbs and energy for that is the place the entire body gains its strength to develop. Get lots of calcium (found in dairy merchandise and eco-friendly vegetables). Calcium encourages bone growth and can aid avert osteoporosis. Using 500 mg of niacin has shown to drastically boost progress hormone ranges only when taken on an empty belly. Get sufficient vitamin D (which can be received by way of consuming fish, alfalfa, or mushrooms, or shelling out adequate time in the sunshine). Vitamin D encourages bone and muscle mass development in youngsters,[7] and a deficiency has been revealed to stunt progress and lead to excess weight achieve in teenage ladies. If you do not like fish, contemplate a purified fish oil supplement (purifying eliminates mercury). Consider in a plenty of lean protein (from meat, cheese, eggs, beans, tofu, seeds, or legumes). Proteins supply an crucial building block your entire body needs in order to develop. At minimum one particular (preferably two) of your foods each day must incorporate a substantial-good quality protein. If you consider the amount of protein in your diet is lower, then get protein powder when or two times a working day. Up your zinc intake (oysters, chocolate, peanuts, eggs, peas, asparagus, and health supplements). A zinc deficiency can result in stunted progress in children .[eight] The very best way to make certain you fulfill your body's daily need to have is by getting a vitamin or health supplement that contains zinc. Try to eat on a normal schedule. You need to be consuming three foods a working day, with tiny snacks in between breakfast and lunch, and lunch and evening meal. Try out to plan these occasions at about the identical time every working day. four-5 hrs is the time essential for insulin to disappear from your bloodstream so that growth hormone can work on building your tissue. This is the period of time that you must hold out in between foods. Proteins, which are absorbed slowly, should maintain you from turning into hungry. Your previous food should be 3-4 hrs ahead of you go to slumber. Tiny volume of protein shake are allowed appropriate prior to your bedtime. Take in a continual volume of food. That is why dieting is not advisable, as long as you are still increasing. Not ingesting a very good amount of foods will deprive your body of the substances in depth earlier mentioned, for that reason stunting your growth. If you want to drop fat, lower the amount of fats, sugar, and carbohydrates from your alimentation, but consume the relaxation of the foodstuff in very good, reasonable amounts. Also, try to shed bodyweight via sports activities. After all, you can nonetheless drop weight later on, but you should take the most out of your adolescence if you want to develop taller. five Maintain your immune system robust. Some childhood diseases can stunt your growth. Most of them can be avoided by the schedule immunizations you may have experienced as an infant, but remain on the protected aspect by ingesting a lot of Vitamin C (discovered in citrus fruits this kind of as oranges, grapefruits, and lemons) and obtaining a lot of relaxation as soon as you discover that you really feel unwell. Maintain your immune method powerful by consuming complete, fresh meals. Attempt to keep away from processed foods, foodstuff with vacant energy or large amounts of excess fat, and hydrogenated foods, this kind of as margarine or shortening. Consume a broad variety of healthy meals. Eating 1 factor such as açaí berries or salmon for every meal, whilst not damaging, will not do all that significantly to preserve your immune method at its strongest. Try to eat a selection of fruits, lots veggies, whole grains, protein sources these kinds of as milk, cheese, nuts and fish, and other meals abundant in anti-oxidants and omega-three fatty acids for a much healthier immune system. Drinking water is the simple solvent for all the products of digestion. It is important for eliminating waste from our bodies and six to eight glasses every day is regarded healthier. 6 Exercising your entire body. Unfortunately, if your progress plates have closed as thanks to your age, exercising will not affect your expansion rate.[nine] But if you get pleasure from swimming, biking, managing, or yoga, between other sports activities and you have not stopped expanding, workout mixed with the right diet plan and correct snooze ought to aid you develop. Carrying out stretches has some beneficial effects. Stretching is the most powerful sort of doing exercises when it will come to top improve. Undertaking intensive stretching workout routines can include a number of further inches to your top, even shortly right after progress has stopped. For very best outcomes, you ought to do these workout two times a working day, soon after you wake up and just before you go to bed. Begin with effortless workouts, then slowly shift on to the far more challenging types. Swimming has also been claimed to assist by elongating muscle groups in a way comparable to stretching. A number of laps might help your effort. Tickle Therapeutic massage. This works greatest if any person else does it for you: Massage your knee for 5-10 minutes. This should be quite ticklish to some other individuals. Massaging your knees with your fingers enables your knees to launch expansion chemicals that helps you develop your bones. 7 Follow excellent posture. Numerous folks rob them selves of added top since they are unsuccessful to understand that a great posture is essential for maximum height boost. Proper posture includes a lot more than just standing straight and erect. You should teach each and every portion of your body to keep its suitable position. You have to find out how to hold your head, your pelvis, your legs, sit properly, walk accurately, furthermore several other do's and don'ts to assure you of attaining each achievable inch of height. If you stand up straight, your bones will expand straight, and you will not get osteoporosis, which will naturally make you seem shorter. So when you stand up and sit up straighter, not only will you seem taller, but you will feel taller, and maybe even be taller. Attempt the Alexander technique for far better posture. Employed by qualified singers and actors, the Alexander method increases posture by employing what the founder of the method, F. Matthias Alexander, referred to as "great use of the physique." Lessons teaching the strategy are well-known. eight Cultivate confidence. Currently being taller may possibly be great, but it can't make up for a standard deficiency of self confidence. Take part in clubs, utilize by yourself in school, and make certain to take on a pastime you are successful with. These will all increase your temper and a constructive frame of mind will more than make up for any missing height. nine Visit a health care specialist. If you occur from a tall household and you are not developing by your mid-teenagers, or if your peak has not transformed a lot from prior to puberty to for the duration of puberty, then it really is a very good thought to see a doctor. Circumstances that can stunt your expansion (this sort of as human expansion hormone deficiency or autoimmune illnesses) are pretty uncommon, but they do exist. If you are taking in a healthy diet regime and acquiring lots of rest, but you are even now not expanding, then it is time to seek advice from a doctor. Consider seeing a doctor if you are a limited adult. Although there are numerous childhood conditions (this kind of as rickets) that can result in a limited peak as an grownup, you need to still inquire a doctor about it. There may be techniques to make certain that your bones and organs are healthful, even however you did not grow to your full peak. wikiHow's mission is to help individuals understand, and we actually hope this write-up helped you. Now you are assisting other individuals, just by checking out wikiHow. The Wikimedia Basis aims to empower and engage individuals all around the globe to collect and create academic articles in the general public area. In coordination with a network of individual volunteers and impartial motion businesses, the foundation has developed a motion with more than 30 million registered contributors who work together to share the sum of all human information with each man or woman on the planet. 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Managing A Problem Between Youngster.
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