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giftdubaionline · 2 years ago
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apoptoses · 2 years ago
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DA here and honestly reading everyone's ☕️ takes has been pretty cathartic but god AR left us with so much unresolved trauma that I'm starting to feel anxious lmao. Love everyone in this bar though, I fuck with every single one of these amazing takes. ☕️ + smutty/fluffy V-day shenanigans? 🙏
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God but it has been cathartic, hasn't it? I think everyone had some big feelings about these vampires that really needed letting out.
Daniel and Armand's first Valetine's Day together is a doozy, because what in the world do you get a vampire who has more money than god and has been around long enough he's probably gotten plenty of valentine's day cards?
Turns out flowers and a card with a hand written message are enough to make that little weirdo verklempt because yeah, Armand has gotten cards before but not ones with anything more than a signature at the bottom. He dries one of the roses, presses it into the card, and manages to keep both even up to the present day.
And then he gives Daniel his gift, in the form of a nice show of lingerie that ends with Daniel having the underwear he'd come all over and made a mess of stuffed into his mouth.
(I may be writing this whole scenario into a little v-day fic as we speak)
Lestat and Armand have developed a tradition of sending each other vinegar valentines (insulting anti-valentine cards the victorians came up with, give them a google, some are hilarious). It started as a joke after Lestat left Night Island and wanted to keep in touch the old fashioned way via the mail.
It becomes very much not a joke when Lestat finally writes on the back of one of them that he truly does love Armand no matter what they've said or done to one another over the years. The second Armand gets that one he calls Lestat on the phone and flies out to wherever in the world he is.
They get each other proper romantic cards now. But still tucked in with them is an old vinegar valentine as a joke.
Nowadays Armand has too many lovers to go on a date with them one on one. Which they're fine with. Lestat is an excellent event planner, each Valentine's Day gets more and more extravagant with overnight trips to beautiful locations and enough flowers to make a conservatory look barren.
And all of them end the same way- with Armand spread out on a lovely bed, getting quite literally every inch of him kissed and drank from until he's left weak and in a pile of his lovers. He doesn't need gifts because getting to fall asleep in the middle of them is the best gift of all.
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toonabby · 1 year ago
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Today marks the 5th anniversary of Zuzubaland, also known as Zuzubalândía in Brazil. For context, Zuzubaland is a Brazilian animated series created by Mariana Caltabiano. The series was based on the book Jujubalândía, published in 1997, and serves as a reboot of the children's live-action series of the same name, which premiered on April 13, 1998, making that series 25 at the time of this post. The show revolves around Zuzu, a cute little bee girl who lives in the titular world of Zuzubaland/Zuzubâlandía (in the original book, it was called Jujubalândía) along with all her friends and dreams about being a famous singer in spite of her ear-grating voice. Zuzubaland is a kingdom ruled by King Appetite where everything is made out of food, right down to the character names being puns of the food they represent (e.g. Marsha Mallow is a pun on "marshmallow"). The main antagonist is the Green Witch (or Anorexic Witch in some sources, but I would prefer to call her "Greenhilda" - a portmanteau on "green" (her skin color) and the name "Brunhilda"), who hates food, joy and Zuzu's singing and wants to destroy Zuzubaland. But the only way to break the magic of the grandmothers that protects the kingdom is to get the magic crown that King Appetite keeps under a lock and key. Garfedia is her assistant, but she isn't really malicious as she's somewhat ineffectual but kind; she has a doll she keeps every day called Kellen. She also has a bad habit of farting (albeit unintentionally) when she laughs a lot. (source: Wikipedia PT)
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Funnily enough is that this wouldn't be the first time we would see Zuzu and friends in animated form: Gui e Estopa was another animated series created by Mariana Caltabiano originally launched in 2000 as a children's website called Iguinho, with the mascot being a puppy of the same name (at least initially). He is best friends with Estopa (a dog), is in love with Croquette the beautiful, and has a rivarly with Pitiburro. A series of films were made before finally becoming a cartoon in 2009 that aired on Cartoon Network. They even have an official YouTube channel. (source: Wikipedia PT)
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A crossover episode simply titled "Zuzubalândia" was released on July 20, 2016, two years before Zuzubaland premiered. Unfortunately its only available in Portuguese without subtitles (or at least the English subtitles) and I don't know much about the episode's plot other than it being a proposed pilot for Zuzubaland. But if I want to summarize this plot, it's basically Gui having a dream about going to Zuzubaland alongside Estopa. I also forgot to mention that it also had a musical in 2013, though I could only find one image of that one.
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While this show, and by extension franchise, is hardly well-known in the West, it didn't stop Zuzubaland from having it's own YouTube Channel AND official English dub by none other than Bang Zoom! Entertaiment!
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The English dub is not only easily my favorite EN dubs of Brazilian cartoons next to Ba Da Bean (both recorded by the same studio), but it also introduced me to the series. The cast includes Dino Andrade as Zuzu, Aleks Le as Sundae, Amber Connor as Popcorn, Zeno Robinson as Rocky, Joe J. Thomas as Hot Dog, Ryan Bartley as Marsha, and Jason Marnocha as King Appetite, but I think the best performance hands down would have to be Wendee Lee (the titular character from Haruhi Suzumiya, Konata Izumi from Lucky Star, Faye Valetine from Cowboy Bebop, Blanc/White Heart from Hyperdimension Neptunia, and Lyn and Veronica from Fire Emblem) as The Green Witch, whose loud-mouth, nasally Wicked Witch-esque voice perfectly suits her character. In fact, I first noticed this while looking at Lee's BTVA page. I was honestly shocked knowing that she has the same voice actors as Blanc and Faye. And for the cherry on top, it has an official website (albeit in Portuguese). The website includes characters pages, video clips, games, comic strips, art, online books, music etc., so at least isn't completely obscure online unlike other South American cartoons (*cough* Underdogs United *cough*). Mariana Caltabiano also has her own official website deticated to herself and her cartoons.
In conclusion, Zuzubaland is and forever will be my favorite Brazilian cartoon of the 2010s and my favorite Brazilian cartoon of all time (Ba Da Bean is a close second). Thank you for reading this post, and if you are a fan of Brazilian cartoons, did you watch it (in English or its original Portuguese language) and whats your opinion of this underrated foreign cartoon.
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ocombatenterondonia · 8 months ago
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Parceria Estelar: Celebridades Paulistanas Unem Forças para Novos Projetos na TV e Alçam Voos Internacionais
Na vibrante cena cultural de São Paulo, o psicanalista das celebridades, Frederick Parreira, a renomada apresentadora e atriz Viviane Alves, e o talentoso costureiro das estrelas, Paulo Valetin, estão trilhando caminhos promissores. Juntos, planejam encantar o público com novos trabalhos, incluindo um programa na Tv local apresentado por Vivi Alves, que tem recebido convites para entrevistas de…
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geekpopnews · 9 months ago
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Bridgerton |Assista cena apaixonante do casal Colin e Penelope no novo clipe divulgado pela Netflix
Confira clipe e imagens inéditas de Bridgerton 3º temporada; com cena apaixonante de Colin e Penelope.
Em pleno Valetine’s Day, outra ficção ganha as manchetes no dia 14 de fevereiro. Obviamente, estamos falando de Bridgerton com Colin e Penelope. Ao comemorarmos dois anos desde o lançamento da 2ª temporada no próximo mês, a cenas da sequência é finalmente revelada para a alegria dos fãs. Nesta quarta-feira, aconteceu um evento virtual organizado para fãs, durante o qual a Netflix revelou um novo…
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pinkydude · 3 years ago
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valetine really just be like 👁👁 all the time
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veni-vidii-vici · 3 years ago
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evento: valetine’s day, cenário 2 - storybrooke high
com: @hexgirlx​
Assim que acordou naquele dia, sentiu que as coisas estavam... estranhas. Para dizer o mínimo, Sett não tinha qualquer conhecimento da capacidade dos vilões daquela realidade, mas às vezes tudo virava de cabeça para baixo. Ele, simplesmente, amanheceu com o canto do galo, mas de uma forma diferente: estava andando em seu boi na direção da escola. Por quê? Bom, isso era algo para o Settrigh do futuro descobrir.
Sabia que Olivia estaria ali, então, para certificar de que estava tudo bem com ela, de que aquela realidade maluca não tinha feito nenhum estrago em sua menininha, estacionou seu boi parrudo próximo do gramado escolar. Os olhares julgadores sobre si nunca foram problema, afinal, Sett era o fazendeiro do pedaço! Quando notou uma das amiguinhas de Olivia por perto, rapidamente acenou para ela.  “Êpa, bão?”
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umikaart · 4 years ago
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Happy Valentine! Second valetine's satogou fanart! Anyway, this time i worked with pokedex entries,extra info. Also i add some eastereggs: constellations from Pkmnsnap (N64), credit scenes on jirachi's movie and Shinou-san on DA. Can you spot them? Extra: yellow Lilies means: loving you make's me happy .
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macamellow · 6 years ago
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#snow sugar cookie#its the arts#i like that palette for some reason.... i keep using it.#maybe because its calming? who knows.#anyways the point is im about to ramble in my second language so yall not interested about my lovey moods can be fine#but th people wwho use google translate might get lost because i dont rlly have proper spanish grammar so#beware that i do get a bit of personal life into this lol#aver.... donde empiezo?#le amo. le amo muchisimo.#podria decir 'te amo' un million de vecez y nunca estaria cansada.#cuando esmeralda confeso ami si estaba feliz como he dicho antes. pero nunca senti que estaria feliz con ella.#como ella se llama 'fujoshi' no me gusta y ni estamos cercas como amigas.#so nunca le dije 'le amo' patras. y me da un poco de miedo lo que podria pasar el dia de san valetin#pero frito? le amo le amo muchisima yo puedo decir eso seguramente#le amo le amo le amo!!!!!#ella es una persona muy cariñosa. me entiende. ella me hace sentir feliz en mis dias mas triste.#solo tengo que pensar en ella y my corazon se hace feliz#mi*#la escuela ya viene. y me asusta un poquito.#porque no voy a poder a hablar con ella bien mucho. pero eso solo me dice que tengo#que tengo que aprovechar cada momento con ella.#me siento triste cuando ella esta triste. no me gusta mirarle triste.#nunca puedo decir cuanto ella importa a mi.#como..... no se lo que estaba haciendo con mi vida antes que le conoci.#y nunca quiero pensar en un tiempo cuando no esta en mi vida.#creo. que le empeze a gustar en junio/julio pero solo era menor#luego cuando era noviembre ella empezo a importar mas a mi. y luego realize: le amo mucho.#ya voy a parar pero >w> si soy muy lesbiana
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hbmforolatino · 4 years ago
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  1O Fanfics que te harán llorar
Nuevamente  te dejamos esta sección de recomendaciones de Fanfics que simplemente debes añadir a tu colección.
10- Be my Valetine:  ¿A quien no le gustaría pasar esa fecha con la persona amada?, La cuestión aquí es que ¿Qué tal si te enamoras de alguien a quien solo conoces por carta?, Obra original de imtoocontagius
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09- Soy Aquel: Gerard Way es un hermitaño que vive encerrado en el dolor que sufre por su discapaciadad, un dia  en un paradero  conoce a un joven del que se enamora a primera vista, Frank un joven pobre que busca ser amado pero lamentablemente cometio un gran error. By Yuricatho
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08-Diez ultimos dias: Andy Biersack  amigo de Gerard y Frank nos cuenta la historia de estos dos , narra las experiencias de la pareja  vividas en el internado donde los tres jovenes asistian, los celos, el amor y la desgracia se unen para formar esta historia de amor y dolor . Obra a cargo de vernom.funckingNightmare.
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07- Playing with Fire (Extasis): Simplemente hasta ¿Dónde será capaz de llegar tu amor por una persona? ¿Serias capaz de estar a su lado hasta la muerte?
Sexo, amor y drogas...con un final inesperado. By  Bloodyprincess_aw
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06-Frankie Karma: Historia a cargo de Alegna, nos narra la historia de  Gerard Way un pintor y escritor famoso en la zona de New Jersey es todo un maldito don Juan , cada noche tiene un lienzo nuevo sobre el cual descarga su lujuria nocturna. Pero cuando se topa con un acosador adolescente que lo saca de sus casillas se da cuenta que no todo esta a su disposición.!Sorprendete con el inesperado final de esta historia!.
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05 Si me tocas me haces daño...pero te Amo: Un dia Gerard Way se encuentra con una extraña carta sobre su cama, proveniente de una secta oscura que le informa que debe estar junto a Frank Iero un joven que no conoce , solo sabe que su vida depende de estar junto a ese chico. El problema no es encontrarlo y tratar de que el se enamore de el , si no cuando  todo fue una equivocación.
 By: Knive-in_a-confuse_mind
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04-Open Your Eyes in coma: Gerard Way odia a Frank Iero , Frank Iero ama a Gerard Way, ¿un accidente hará cambiar el corazón de Gee? !Descúbrelo en esta historia de  Madame Predictable.
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03-Mi enfermedad
Frank y Gerard son un matrimonio que ha pasado por numerosas dificultades antes de  estar juntos, pero ahora les llego el momento de la prueba , un día llega Gerard a confesarle a su esposo que tiene Sida, ¿Por que mierda no me dijiste que estuviste con otro?....¿Sabes quien de los dos fue el culpable?
By Chemixkelly
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02-Fragile: Obra muy conocida de Umikito, “Buenas noches esto fue Romance de media noche, se despide de ustedes Frank Iero”, Un hijo de .. que  dos reglas, Sexo con quien sea y Nunca repite el mismo postre...Lastima que Gerard parece no entenderlo...
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01- La estrella que me ha de guiar, simplemente una de las obras que mas te dejara un doloroso recuerdo, Frankie es un joven que ha sufrido desde muy joven  la muerte de ambos padres, múltiples afecciones cardiacas y mas aun todo se complica cuando un niño bonito hijo del dueño de kla empresa donde Frank trabaja decide jugar cruelmente con el. Prepara tus pañuelos por que los vas a necesitar.
By Lestatlouis (Maria)
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Recuerda Comentar y compartir con mas personas para que estas obras no queden en el olvido.
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kirisaki-daichi-scenarios · 6 years ago
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The Arlettes | Nash Gold Jr
another fic of da, for a valetine’s baking challenge i’m doing!
She tells him, “Valentine’s gifts don’t have to be expensive - they just have to hold meaning!”
Nash nods, absent-minded, with his head turning to watch the two women with the overly short miniskirts who are tottering about on heels in the distance.
Her head dips - she bites her lip - and she knows that he’ll understand what she means when she presents her present to him. She spends her entire afternoon preparing a Valentine’s gift for him: carefully measuring out ingredients, dashing to the store when she realises she’s missing cinnamon for the filling, reading the recipe over and over again. For most of her life, she hasn’t been much of a baker, but she’s determined not to fail now. The photos in the recipe look so appetising too; she’s all but fallen in love with the light and graceful curves of the arlettes pictured. Perhaps, she’ll keep one (or two) to try for herself. Nash surely wouldn’t miss it? When she takes the freshly-baked arlettes out of the oven, she’s delighted. They’re not exactly like the photos; they’re a bit uneven, slightly wonky, and a tad bit lighter than they were on the images she moulded them off (but she presumes that’ll go away with a dusting of icing sugar). Yet, they're a testament to hard work and what an hour slaving over one recipe can produce, and, they taste damn good too. She’s even prepared a special box to put them in. It’s heart-shaped (what else can you expect on Valentine’s day), stuffed with red tissue paper, and she’s found a slick crimson ribbon to tie it up with. Nash is going to love it, she keeps telling herself, with an excitement building up her in her throat, he’s going to be so happy. She meets up with Nash at around 9 am, on the 14th of February. Straight away, she offers him her little package - looking forward to seeing a smile on his face, anticipating his sincere thanks and him sharing the arlettes with her too. Nash slowly undoes the ribbon. He peaks inside the casket. One hand lifts one thin arlette into the air - - and then he throws the whole box in the trash.
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fgodestinyawakenings · 6 years ago
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2nd & 3rd Valentine’s Day CE: Heracles & Avicebron
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Needless to say.... MY BABY HERC-CHAN!!!!!! <3
The whole scene in just giving him... And that return gift, THANK YOU HERC-CHAN!!! *HUGS HERC*
And Fou’s squeaky noise is defintiely cute to hear XD
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As him being the third... The scene went with him actually having his own workshop like Da Vinci, making him the 2nd/3rd canon Servant to have specialized room (canon in provided you believe he’s summoned inside your chaldea regardless the story). 
He was telling the Gudas about his own golem invention making a new one or so... But he’s definitely surprised at the Valentine’s gift from Gudas, regardless appreciate what they did for him.
So after they left him and sometime later... Avicebron teleported/come to your room in the fucking speed of light to give the Gudas those FUCKING GOD DAMN ADORABLE golems as a return gift!
They may not be able to fight in combat... But they can act as your maid or so for daily duties!
The rest on I’ll wait for someone with the proper translation ^^;
Rough Translation CE:
From Avicebron’s Valetine Return Gift
Chocolate mini golem that walks in a pretty cute way. A good smell of chocola drifts just by walking around, It's very popular with kids .... There is an important drawback that it can not be eaten. Nevertheless, although biting marks are attached occasionally The criminal has not been revealed yet.
???: "Oh, it is not different ... oh, not the armor......"
OMG WHO EAT THOSE CUTE GOLEM!?!??!?!
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mytenmonthsiove · 3 years ago
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Hola, mi amor. Hoy es un día muy especial, pero cabe aclarar que desde que te conocí, todos los días son especiales. Sin embargo, no quería perder la oportunidad de hacerte este pequeño regalo considerando que últimamente no hemos tenido mucho tiempo para hablar y admito que te extraño muchísimo a veces, incluso cuando estamos hablando. Espero no ser el único que piensa que el año pasó rapidísimo, falta muy poco para que se cumpla un año completito de habernos conocido pero se siente como si hubiéramos estado hablando hace muchísimo más tiempo. Fueron tiempos difíciles para ambos, existieron momentos en los que me no quería otra cosa que tener tu compañía otra vez. Creo que ambos estuvimos esperando mucho tiempo el reencuentro, ¿no? Porque desde ese 25 que estamos inseparables, como si todo lo ocurrido haya sido borrado de nuestro historial pero lo único que permanece sea todo el aprendizaje que nos dejó la experiencia. No hubo día en el que no pensara en vos, no existía momento del día en el que no me preguntara cómo estabas o en qué andabas. Te extrañaba tanto pero me parecía lo correcto, ambos necesitábamos sanar muchísimas cosas y hablando personalmente, no siento que haya algo holding me back cuando se trata de estar con vos. Desde los primeros días siempre se sintió natural y bonito amarte y hasta el día de hoy eso no cambia. Al principio me parecía raro que no discutiéramos o sintiéramos celos, pensaba que una relación tenía que ser igual a las otras porque así me la habían dibujado, pero vos cambiaste todos mis conceptos del amor y es como vivirlo todo otra vez. No sabía lo que era antes de conocerte, y ahora reconozco que así tiene que ser. Ambos tenemos nuestra libertad y me encanta que confiemos tanto en nosotros. Sos una mujer por la que daría todo, cuando dije que mataría por vos era cierto (jk… unless). Estoy tan orgulloso de verte y saber que pasaste por tanto pero así y todo te mantenes fuerte y con una sonrisa que ilumina al mundo. No te das una idea de lo afortunado que me siento al conocerte, imagina tener una novia tan bonita y perfecta en todos los sentidos… un sueño para muchos, una realidad para mí. Keep working on yourself boo, brillas enormemente por tu cuenta y necesito que lo sepas. Sos trabajadora, fuerte, amable, cariñosa, madura pero con una personalidad juguetona y eso es lo que más me gusta; sabes que hay un tiempo para todo y cuando veo tu lado firme me agarra piel de gallina porque, más allá de la dualidad, es tener coraje y un poquito de sentido común y eso es algo que no te falta. Sos capaz de inspirar a las personas, lo has hecho conmigo y quisiera agradecerte. Sos magia, sos una gran amiga y la persona que no lo ve es porque no te merece. Quisiera hacerte saber que no estás sola y jamás lo vas a estar. Confía en mí como un amigo, nunca te voy a defraudar. Nuestro reencuentro no fue en vano y mucho menos fue casualidad, te he amado muchísimo tiempo y lo voy a seguir haciendo. Sos el amorcito de mi vida, mi muñequita preciosa, mi princesa, mi niña, my eternal sweetheart, my forever valetine. Recuerdo cuando estábamos emocionados por pasar muchas festividades juntos por primera vez (Halloween y Navidad) pero quién iba a decir que la primera que pasaríamos iba a ser hoy… :-( soy el más devastado. Te amo por siempre, mi angelito. Nunca pero nunca dudes de todo el amor que siento por vos. I can’t wait for forever with you. Feliz primer 14 de todos los que nos quedan.
 P.S: Lunis, I love you tooo. :-(
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umikaart · 4 years ago
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Happy Valentine! Second valetine's satogou fanart. Anyway, this time i worked with pokedex entries,extra info. Also i add some eastereggs: constellations from Pkmnsnap (N64), credit scenes on jirachi's movie and Shinou-san on DA. (Can you spot them?) 
https://www.instagram.com/p/CLR61E7BUjI/?igshid=1s9dtm8ifl9la
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hethongadsvn · 4 years ago
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Bubi Bubi Lip review
Bubi Bubi Lip review
Son môi có thể được xem là vật dụng không thể thiếu của rất nhiều cô nàng, từ Son môi Bioderma Atoderm Stick Hydrarant đến son kem lì 3CE Maison Kitsune Velvet Lip Tint rồi son thỏi Amok Chocolate Valetine Collection…Tuy nhiên, có một vấn đề không hề nhỏ khi sử dụng son khiến chị em phải đau đầu chính là son có thể để lại những vẩy da chết bong tróc trên môi, làm mất đi vẻ tươi tắn, quyến rũ của…
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newstintuc · 4 years ago
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Chọn người bạn đời 'cùng pha'
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Nhiều bạn trẻ ngày nay sống vội, yêu nhanh từ cái nhìn đầu tiên, kết hôn qua vài hẹn hò mà chưa tìm hiểu nhau kỹ càng.
Sáng ngày mùng hai Tết năm nay, tôi chọn một quán vắng để nhâm nhi tách cà phê đầu năm. Đang mơ màng thì một bàn tay da nhăn nheo nổi đầy gân chìa xấp vé số mời. Tôi ngước nhìn lên thì cụ già mỉm cười, nụ cười thật hiền hậu. Hỏi ra mới biết, bà cụ năm nay 76 tuổi, có ba người con trai nhưng không ai nuôi nổi (hoặc không chịu nuôi) mẹ già.
"Vợ chồng mấy đứa con tôi ngày nào cũng cãi vả, chửi bới nhau nên tôi không ở với đứa nào, tự làm tự sống chú ơi" - cụ già nói với tôi. Ngày thường tôi không mua vé số, nhưng hôm nay mua vài tờ, gọi là vừa lấy lộc, vừa ủng hộ bà cụ.
Có thể giả định rằng bà cụ tôi gặp sẽ không phải bươn chải đi bán từng tờ vé số ở tuổi gần 80 vào những ngày thường chứ đừng nói đến những ngày Tết nếu gia đình của các con cụ hoà thuận. Tất nhiên, có nhiều cặp vợ chồng hạnh phúc nhưng vẫn làm ngơ trước cuộc sống của cha mẹ già. Nhưng ta cứ nghĩ theo hướng nếu cả ba người con của cụ đều hạnh phúc hôn nhân thì chuyện lễ nghĩa, hiếu thảo với cha mẹ sẽ ít nhiều khó bị xem nhẹ.
Chuyện vợ chồng lục đục, cãi vả nhau rất có thể là do họ không có tinh thần "tương kính như tân" (tôn trọng như thuở ban đầu), sống với nhau nhưng áp đặt, muốn người bạn đời của mình phải phục tùng, luôn làm theo ý mình chẳng hạn.
Và bằng kinh nghiệm, tôi thấy rằng những cặp vợ chồng này thường không đồng điệu về tâm hồn. Có thể ví von là không cùng "pha". Nguyên nhân bắt đầu sự lệch pha là do không dành nhiều thời gian tìm hiểu nhau thật kỹ trước khi tiến tới quyết định kết hôn.
"Pha" ở đây là hoàn cảnh, xuất thân gia đình, là trình độ học vấn, là ngành nghề làm việc liên quan. "Pha" cũng là sở thích, thói quen sống, cùng là fan của một dòng nhạc, một ca sĩ, thích một món ăn hay thích một thú vui giải trí. Sở dĩ người ta gọi người phối ngẫu là bạn đời, vì ngoài ràng buộc hôn nhân, họ còn là người bạn tâm tình, chia sẻ những vui buồn, âu lo với nhau trong cuộc sống. Bạn bè lệch pha thì đã không chơi với nhau rồi, huống gì bạn đời mà lại lệch pha nhau?
Ngày nay, không hiếm những bạn trẻ sống vội, yêu cũng vội mà kết hôn cũng vội. Nhờ mạng xã hội, họ đã yêu từ cái nhìn đầu tiên, hẹn hò sau vài dòng chat, ăn trái cấm sau vài lượt đi chơi hoặc kết hôn sau vài tháng quen biết. Có thể tình yêu sét đánh là có thật. Nhưng đó chỉ là cảm xúc thoáng qua ban đầu. Còn vợ, chồng sẽ là người sống mãi cùng ta đến suốt đời. Vậy vội vàng gì mà lựa ẩu, chọn đại để sau khi cùng về một mái nhà thì thay phiên hành hạ nhau?
Khi bà cụ bán vé số rời đi, tôi nghĩ về cuộc sống của người già và hạnh phúc gia đình. Ai cũng biết, gia đình là tế bào xã hội vậy nên một xã hội văn minh bắt nguồn từ những gia đình "khoẻ mạnh". Muốn gia đình khoẻ mạnh thì vợ chồng phải đồng điệu với nhau. Một cặp vợ chồng luôn khẩu chiến, chửi bới nhau thì làm sao nghĩ đến chuyện báo hiếu cha mẹ già?
Hôm nay mùng ba Tết, cũng là lễ tình nhân Valetine, tôi nghĩ bạn trẻ nào chưa, sắp hoặc đang tính đến chuyện kết hôn nên cân nhắc kỹ. Bởi sự hoà thuận của một cặp vợ chồng sẽ ảnh hưởng đến người thân, xã hội chứ không chỉ là chuyện của mỗi cá nhân với nhau.
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