#uv treated

[oceanwithouthermoon]

"saiki is too mean to toritsuka-" i dont give a shit, he shouldve beat the shit out of him actually

[suntails]

the weight of the crown

[therulerofallpotatos]

I'm still only on s5 but I feel if I start writing up some shenanigans to put House and Wilson into, I'll keep watching and find out they already did that in the show

[chlotual]

honestly it flatters me sm when ppl say im smart,, ive never rly thought of myself as smart necessarily so if uve ever said that abt me i soooo appreciate it 🫶🫶🫶🫶

[eightmagicballs]

pray for me while i try and weight paint this fucking HARNESS

[yumeurl]

got curious and read the toms memories from hbp and i still DONT understand why the fuck dumbledores beefing with this 11-year old kid. like him trying to explain to harry his analysis even with like u have NOTHING bro.....u knew two facts about tom when u first entered and u immediately assumed he was a bully, without regards to any context. i thought the cave thing would be more specific but theres legit nothing in it to show any malicious intent. tom showing them magic in an effort to impress but traumatized them instead is just as likely as tom doing something awful to them there, theres not much info to go from there, but dumbledore seems to be hellbent in scaring tom with the cabinet and the box and warnings of expulsion (which i find laughably funny when harry and co were stealing ingredients from snape as early as year2)

all i got from the orphanage flashback is tom being a troubled child considering his background (and my personal interpretation, lit just him having difficulty navigating around people who are not in the spectrum too), got wary thinking dumbledores a doctor, showed actual excitement with the confirmation that he actually is Something, and then get blasted by dumbledores cold shoulder that made him immediately close up, with him admitting he can talk to snakes in one last effort to impress him

its just so bizarre...like bro i just cant imagine treating a kid like this. as a character dumbledores p interesting but my god please let other people in the faculty talk to children and stay away from them GMFDMGDFMG

[3416]

thinkin abt this. and thinking about mitch realizing that he'd never get the full suburban nuclear family hockey best friend life with auston.... thinking about the little adjustments of expectations they've made about each other and their futures together....... thinking about where they are now and might be later on.

[cericertain]

I'm going to be really honest with you. I don't know who you are but you got recommended to me, and I write this in good faith.

As a trans woman. It's appropriative as hell to call yourself a trans woman or transfem if you're afab. Doing so dilutes the usefulness of the term for actual trans women + transfems. We have to claw and bite and scratch to gain our femininity, fighting against the constant societal pressure to either curl up and die or revert to masculinity. Afab folks, regardless of their gender identity, don't. The Trans in Transgender vs the Cis in Cisgender is about change versus continuation.

Afab folks are pushed towards femininity by society, and being feminine is a continuation of that.

Frankly, I don't know if you're just a rage bait account, or if you just don't give a shit about actual trans women and trans femmes. If you do though. Find a different word. Make up your own, I don't care. Because if you do; one last thing.

Genuinely ask yourself, why do you feel the need to use this term? You have countless people asking you not to, because it is part of a long-standing culture of people who have had to form tight-knit communities of folks like each other because no one else was truly safe, and saying "actually anyone can use this as long as they're feminine and trans" robs our signifiers of effectiveness. It's appropriation 101. You are entering a space that isn't yours to enter and are taking something that isn't yours to take.

Don't take our linguistic tools of identification from us under the guise of gender liberation.

it doesnt dilute shit, you just wanna bend the term to fit a very small portion of people, guess what? gender is too fuckery to put such big things into tiny exclusionary boxes

also very gross you define transness by suffering and/or "changing". you obviously have a very narrow minded view. additonally. you cannot claim to know anyone else's experience.

there will always be diversity in being trans. no matter what, you cannot claim because someone doesnt experience the exact same thing as you words that fit them suddenly are "not allowed". trans femininity and trans womanhood can look like many things, and those labels shouldn't make you assume jack about someones life experiences because they do not give that much information. honeybees+etc ACKNOWLEDGE there are other trans experiences out there, and we do not claim to experience them. we do not speak over them. me personally, i listen to and uplift other trans folk and maybe you should too.

and i just have to mention, being AFAB doesn't except you from everything you just described. not for me specifically, but you have a very perinornative view and i in good faith wanna mention that to you.

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about the "rage bait" section, bestie, ask yourself honestly: is it my pre conceived biases that i don't like this term or is it actually harmful?

this is the same thing y'all said about hesbians/theysbians/enby lesbians, same shit yall say about bi lesbians, again and again you wanna seperate people who don't fit into your finite view on what things can look like.

and fyi, there is a term. a term to show "hey, our experience may be diff from the average assumed experience of this group". its honeybees. but y'all attack people who make up new words anyways so whats the point lmao

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why do i feel the need to use this term?

its a term that fits me and so i will use it.

you have had countless people ask you not to

i have had two people be transphobic to me and tell me to kms and harass me for it. yea, they do that to "odd" trans identities.

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being transfem is not a *culture*. maybe theres cultures formed BY transfems, of course, but to say you cannot use a term that fits your experience because "well XYZ people use it this way" , guess what! ive met many trans people from all walks of life who support this stuff! almost as if every group will have exclusionary folk and that is isn't a reason to be like "yea no ur not real"

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it doesnt rob shit of its "effective"ness, you are just mad that identities such as this point out the big flaw in a lot of people online's regressive takes. no, trans femininity is not some monolith. no, trans fem / trans masc is not the new gender binary. it is just as effective, you are just upset it includes more people than you want it to. its almost as if queer identities always spill over the tiny boxes people try and place on them

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entered a space that isn't mine? oh i'm sorry i didn't know you were the recently elected president of transfems, so sorry your highness i will tell all the other trans people i know they now have to conform to exclusionary ideas of what gender can look like and how words around gender should be used /s

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nobody took shit, you just got used to using transfem/trans woman to mean the same type of experience so now that experiences still exist outside of that there is a cognitive dissonance. like yea no sorry queer identities don't conform to small boxes, no matter how many new types of exclusion you make

[jacqcrisis]

Ronan's standing there, watching this, glad there's a pause on the whole sex thing cause otherwise Astarion wasn't making it out this room unravished, the other party members be damned.

[misspickman]

Funny how tumblr the neurodivergent nerds website now has people saying shit like "you need to start getting laid youre making the rest of us look bad" i hope u all go to hell no matter what

[elprupneerg]

Depending on exactly what curing light my dentist was using to set my cavities all summer, I might’ve been getting a bit of UV exposure inside my mouth if the wavelengths got low enough. It’s unlikely (most curing lights seem to use visible blue light to get things to solidify, not anything with UV), but it IS a very funny thought

[darksidecarnival]

Vintage Funworld “fantastic faces” masks from the 90s and early 2000s

[trainingdummyrabbit]

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[mukuberry]

Rika Kim 🤝 Kazui Mukuhara

Characters who are so deeply convinced there is something inherently wrong and evil within them. Who were hurt and betrayed by their family the second they met them. Characters who desperately try to get the approval of the people around them that they put on a facade of perfection, which only makes them hate their 'truth' more. Characters who are believe they're completely unlovable that when people try to embrace them they refuse to believe or accept it. Characters who want nothing more than to be a good, kind person, but cannot stop hurting the people around them to protect themselves. People who can't stop trying to get a better life despite all they've been through.

[crabappleblossoms]

looking about posts about people coming out to parents who are then very supportive and crying bc my tummy hurts

[dnangelic]

@primordyalsoul : he can have a hug..as a treat!

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CUE THE SILENT SCREAM !