#unique stays in nyc

[charmedreincarnation]

Sorry, y'all, for the random spam, but I had a lot of things I was doing and exploring, and I now finally have the motivation to share a lot of changes that have happened in my life. Okay, so my life is pretty great, and I've been actively manifesting for a while now. But I had a problem. Outside of shifting when it comes to my manifestations, for the most part, I like them to happen in a "realistic way.” (I wasn’t like this at the beginning ofc but now I am). I know that sounds stupid, but for example, when I manifested a car, I didn’t just have it appear on my driveway. I like to be a part of the process and watch it blossom into my reality (very quickly, may I add, because I'm impatient and a "now, now, now" type person), but I like to see my creations, you know?

So I was talking about my friends about some revisions I'd like to see in my state and life, more so bigger manifestations outside of myself for my community, you know? I've been feeling very grateful, and outside of manifesting, I love to dabble in philanthropy and other hobbies, and I'd like that to intertwine with manifesting as well!

There were a few things I had in mind, but again, I'm picky and annoying, and I was like, "Hmm, how will this come to fruition in my way?" I tried to plan it out, which is like (?? Rule number one of manifestation: don't worry about the how), but I actually do like to plan things out sometimes because I'm annoying, and when it happens, I'm like, "Hehe, that was me, go shawty."

Anyways, here were a few things I wanted:

* I visited Vienna, Austria in the summer, and I found the concept of their homeless shelters very admiring. In Vienna, they have emergency flats provided by the city for safe housing in emergency situations. I wanted something like that in my state, but living in America, which is very anti-homeless, it seemed challenging. I mean they spend more money on funding anti-homeless architecture than solving the ever so rising mental health and housing crisis but that’s a topic for another day. However, I was inspired by the Vienna Women's Refuge Association and their efforts to support women in need and I wanted something like that here.

* I wanted many restaurants that I've seen in other cities I've visited to be established in my city. My city is pretty big, but for some reason, it's often ignored when it comes to those corporations. I wanted to visualize all my favorite restaurants and make a list of where I want them, downtown, by my house, etc. It wasn't coming together, and I couldn't find the desire to script it. I also wanted more unique clothing stores because I’ve gotten more into fashion these past few months.

* I wanted my city to have more of the vibes of LA and NYC, without actually moving there. I love my city, but I wanted it to have that same energy. However, I didn't know how to get to that end point like I normally do with my other desires.

Honestly, I kind of put these desires on the back burner and just forgot about them, knowing that my life is already going in the direction I want it to. Then, we began getting a lot of news about how gentrification is about to occur, and how the prices in my city are going up. There's a lot of new construction happening for seemingly no reason. It turns out a huge tech company is establishing companies in my city, which will bring in new jobs, money, and people. At first, I was annoyed, thinking these people need to stay away, but then I remembered that I literally asked for this. Gentrification and all the other things that come along with migration, jobs, and a rising economy tie into what I wanted for my city to be like NYC and LA. I'm already seeing the renovation reflect what I imagined, and I am a happy girl.

Then, the next like week or so idk, my state gave funding to my fav mall and they received a couple billion dollars for a massive renovation. At first, I thought it was irrelevant, but then I saw a list of 300 establishments, clothes stores and restaurants that will be around my mall area. Every restaurant I desired, even the ones I only thought about for a second, were on that list. It's so funny when you forget about your manifestations and they come together even better than you could imagine. The mall getting renovated is one that I visit all the time, and now I can have all my favorite indulgences in one space. I'm super excited for everything to be done.

* On that same day, I saw that my state's very conservative governor (btw I went to school with his grandson and he was asintelligent as a bag of rocks) Is opening very affordable housing for human trafficking victims. This cause is close to my heart. Though i don’t personally know any victims myself I have read of many cases on the news and trials like cyntonia brown would make my blood boil. I’m surprised I didn’t think of this of myself but I’m m glad to see steps being taken to support these survivors.

So, sometimes, when we put our desires on the back burner, they can still manifest in unexpected and amazing ways.I seriously forgot about all of this and was just living my life, not even consciously trying to manifest it, and it happened anyway. Also, this may seem very stupid, but hey, all desires should be manifested no matter how small or stupid. There's this kind of big influencer at my school, and she seems really sweet and someone who I'd get along with. She's really political and speaks her mind, and has a bunch of reels about spirituality and feminism which is really dope considering how people act on social media, especially Instagram.

Anyways, I just thought one time, like a week ago, it would be nice to be friends with her or meet her or something, and out of nowhere, she slid up on my story yesterday and messaged me 😭😭😭. It was so funny to me, but yeah, we have plans to hang out. So yeah, even though sometimes I like planning my manifestations to see them happen in color, the same thing can happen without you planning either way. It will work out better than I expected, I promise don't worry.

[herejusttosufferalong]

Here are my theories about N/L relationship. I am positive 50% is true, just not sure which 50%! They had chemistry from day 1, became friends and flirty with no feelings showing until the start of S3 filming. They couldn’t help the attraction, everybody on the set saw it and I think J felt it and discussions were had. Up to Sep 22, J referred to L’s mom and sis as MIL and SIL.

L/N were told that feelings may happen due to intensity, long hours, a uniquely shared experience and the roles they are acting. It was recommended for the sake of their careers they should wait and see if the feelings last. So ends, S3 filming. L goes to his Raya, young girl, vacay mode and ends up with A, who is a close friend of S. (I will not bring his SM fiasco from last year. That boy is just not savvy or astute enough to use SM to his professional advancement!) N starts dating E in April of last year. All is relatively hunky dory. Come Jan and PR training. They probably were just told to let go and let their natural chemistry shine, because PR people are not idiots! And boy, did they. A sees this and probably feels it too and starts to make some demands. She wants to be known as his gf and have an increase in her SM #, so she can monetize it. She posts Hotel locations, etc because they get to stay there at a reduced cost at the least. (The Soho vacays are just brag. L is the member, the rest are just friends that can go with him, but not alone). I am sure to a certain degree, A orchestrated the In Style fiasco.

Feelings get more confusing and complicated with N/L during the WT. A surprises L at the NYC premiere. He doesn’t seem thrilled about it, introduces A as a friend. During the A/N ‘intro’ and hug, A says she thinks N is funny! (She is, but an odd thing to say to your bf’s costar at an after party). Have no idea what other things happen behind the scenes, but all of us fall in love with Lukola. If they had had a wedding reception at the end of the London premiere, nobody would be surprised and there would be puddles of goo worldwide from our collective swooning.

Instead we got the pap pix.

Whoever arranged this is the single most evil and unromantic person in the world. We didn’t even get to watch part 2 and we were slapped hard and left confused. A can do whatever she wants, she will never have chemistry with L.

L got the backlash and N came to his rescue with a very sweet declaration. I think the SATC clip which was done during S3 filming was maybe supposed to bring the narrative to the show and funny things? or maybe N was upset by L’s behavior or inaction? I like to think N is not petty, but who knows. She took it down, because the comments went in the direction she wasn’t expecting. (She still needs to learn TT over Insta, they are different beasts.)

Apparently, E exited at some point. Maybe the romantic engagement dinner DM reported was actually a breakup?

Your post on LaLa land, I felt was too on the nose. With this current mess, maybe their professional advancement means no HEA. He did make a post and put LaLa Land?! She has made her career her priority. She is a Hamilton fan, she is not going to throw away her shot!! Is he subconsciously ruining his career? Does he just want to be in her presence and light? Can they work it out?

I brewed more coffee and am sitting at the restaurant with the rest of you. I just ordered a stack of pancakes with strawberries and whipped cream.

Your thoughts?

"Apparently, E exited at some point. Maybe the romantic engagement dinner DM reported was actually a breakup?"

It wasn't until recently that I considered they actual broke up or took a break around Nov/Dec '23 and then rekindled Feb/Mar '24

But that Nic sighting posted by DM was in Jan '24, no?

Maybe they reconnected sooner and then finally parted ways in Mar or early April

I know folks like to say that N wasn't as flirty or obvious until the end of the press tour but the April press junkets and livestream was something else

[stormblessed95]

Do you know, all I keep thinking about re these negative anon asks is how all of what Jimin supposedly said was filmed probably April 23, when he was in NYC. Did he seem unhappy to anyone in that video? Did he seem unhappy in 2023 as a whole. No.

So after this interview (no we have it) we got Jimin travelling to NY to meet with JK, (all waxed.. sorry I digress), to go in a date on silver day to a very romantic looking restaurant, to then spend time travelling around CT, including a stay in a very romantic LGBTQ+ friendly cabin, camping under the trees, to them flirting in front of our salads a week or so later, JK naked in bed, as you do. Then we got the back selca of the century from Jimin on JKs birthday (everyone say thank you to Jimin), to Jimin posting a picture of a whale they both drew, and now we know they did that in the back of a boat watching a very romantic sunset. Then we got JK walking in on Jimins production diary live, and Jimins smile that could light up the sky it was that big and bright. Then if that wasn’t all, we got 2017 Jikook cosplayers going to Japan together all cosy in the airports, and then, then, the biggest most loudest thing they have done in my opinion, the buddy enlistment. 

I mean seriously people. We may not know, or ever know, the true nature of the relationship between them but do you know what? We don’t need to know do we. Mainly because it’s non of our business, but also because no matter what, the love and devotion these two have is unparalleled. They have a truly beautiful bond that is unique to them. They know what they mean to one another, we get to peak when they let us, but that’s all. It’s not our right to debate and seek the truth, that’s their right. It’s not up to us to decide what they are, or what the truth is, that’s up to them. It’s called plausible deniability for a reason, they allow us in a bit, but then pull back equally as fast. As is their right. 

I’ve been watching BV3 to pass some time and even in the short clips we see of them in that season, you can see their special bond. They say it themselves in their ending interviews. They click, they are similar. In AYS we are going to see hours of just them, no other members to pan to, or Segway to, just them, together. Do people realise what a privilege that is? I hope so. 

I for one wish people would just stop with speculation and inane asks and either bogg off if you are an anti, or stay and appreciate what they do allow us to see if themselves, especially during AYS, because if that twitter op is anything to go by, we are in for something really special. 

Hey, you know anon. I love you. I adore you. Come be my friend? 💜💜

Thanks for sharing!

[tinycheesecakedetective]

The New Yogurt Council

With so many people living in the republic, it takes a village to fulfill the needs of every citizen. Luckily, the council is more than well equipped to handle anything that comes their way! Handpicked by Blueberry Milk Cookie himself, these elite seven help keep the republic going with their unique talents and skills.

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Panna Cotta Cookie, Head of Agriculture (She/Her)

DOB: June 29th Likes: Berries, Silent Films, Streams Dislikes: Black, Vandalism, Herring Jellies Symbol: Cornucopia

Panna Cotta Cookie grew up in the countryside, and is no stranger to hard work and discipline. With her knowledge and her skills as a "crop whisperer", House Panna Cotta became well known for it's bountiful harvests. It's no wonder she was requested by the new republic!

Fun Fact: Panna Cotta Cookie keeps a wine cellar under one of her production factories. Allegedly it's to keep it away from a certain cookie in her life...

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Meringata Cookie, Head of Finances and Businesses (He/Him)

DOB: February 5th Likes: Designer Brands, Competitions Dislikes: Off Brand Items, Disorganization, Losing Symbol: Coin

Fashionable, timely, and incredibly picky, Meringata Cookie has gained quite the notoriety for his outfits and airy personality. But don't let yourself be fooled! This cookie is ruthless when it comes to his goals, and will do anything to stay on top of the business empire he baked.

Fun Fact: He has named each one of the suits he wears. His current outfit is named Orange Liquor.

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Pistachio Gelato Cookie, Head of Magic (She/They)

DOB: March 17th Likes: Birds, Grape Flavored Jellies, Ice Cream, Snakes Dislikes: Raisins, Potions, Blueberry Milk Cookie Symbol: Four-pointed Star

What would you do if you had the weight of the world on your shoulders? As a prodigy in dessert magic and the youngest council member, she's been living in the shadow of Blueberry Milk for as long as they've held a flask. They've been pressured to go above and beyond in order to reach expectations she never asked for. And now, they've been taken in to work alongside him. Can she keep up with the council or will they fall to the wayside?

Fun Fact: Before their affinity for dessert magic was discovered, Pistachio Gelato Cookie had an interest in Zoology.

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Buttermilk Cookie, Head of Health & Wellness (She/Her)

DOB: November 12th Likes: Candlelight, Licorice Tea, Rose Bushes Dislikes: Knives, Crowded Spaces, Dogs Symbol: Caduceus

As one of the few cookies that left Parfaedia for New Yogurt City, Buttermilk Cookie had been hoping for a break from her hectic life healing in House Butter. Unfortunately for her, she found herself being the one healer in NYC. Luckily more nurses migrated to the developing city, and she ended up taking them under her wing as the head nurse. With this much experience under her belt, it was a no brainer she ended up as the face of health for the republic.

Fun Fact: As the eldest member of the council, Buttermilk Cookie has taken the time to memorize each council member's specific routines.

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Elderberry Creme Cookie, Head of Justice (He/Him)

DOB: August 8th Likes: Coffee, Coffee Flavored Things, Gardens Dislikes: Snakes, Tardiness, Spicy Things Symbol: Scale

Order in the court! This cookie is the republic's rising star when it comes to maintaining law and order. Elderberry Creme Cookie is a prosecutor that worked closely with MEH(Magical Emergency Handling Department) on special cases involving rogue wizards. With a 95% success rate, he was promoted several times before being offered a spot in the new council. Now he helps keep the peace as the symbol of justice for the republic.

Fun Fact: Elderberry Cookie allegedly has a twin brother he switches places with when he's too swamped with work.

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Tartufo Cookie, Head of Technology (She/Her)

DOB: December 16th Likes: Chocolate, Craft Sets, Meat Jellies Dislikes: Silence, Boredom, Wild Animals Symbol: Wrench

As the newest addition of the council, Tartufo Cookie is ready to catch Parfaedia up to speed with the latest technology! Before coming to the republic, Tartufo Cookie lived in Crispia as an inventor. She often sold her wares at flea markets and fairs before meeting Blueberry Milk during one of his expeditions. Thoroughly impressed with her work, he invited her to Wholegrania to assist with a few pet projects, and made her the head of technology. Now armed with power and resources she had never seen, Tartufo Cookie is more than ready to show just what she's made of.

Fun Fact: Out of all the council members, she's the only one who is incapable of performing any magic.

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Gooseberry Cookie, Head of the Arts (He/They)

DOB: October 29th Likes: Tragedies, Marble Statues, Grape Vines Dislikes: Boats, Removing their Mask, Romance Plots Symbol: Drama Mask

The most enigmatic of the council members, Gooseberry Cookie is just as hard to crack as they are to read; while they have an energetic flare to them, it's hard to read his emotions due to the mask they always wear. Asides from Blueberry Milk himself, Gooseberry is seen mingling with citizens the most and is one of the more popular members because of it.

Fun Fact: Gooseberry Cookie is the only cookie that knows about Blueberry Milk's alter ego.

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[coraclavia]

You know what I really liked - and still do - about Cold Case?

It's a TV show that celebrates life, history, and the unique culture of a city other than Los Angeles or New York.

Don't get me wrong, there are excellent shows about LA and NYC. But everything starts to look the same. Everyone lives in urban apartments, everyone has public transit, school playgrounds are totally paved, everyone shops at bodegas, etc. TV makes the continental United States look totally homogenous.

Cold Case wasn't about influencers and effortlessly glamorous college students in a coastal city. It told stories of dock workers. Mill workers. Janitors. Stay-at-home moms. Mechanics. Blue collar families trying to get by, all in the specific backdrop of Philadelphia throughout its history, including economic downturns. And they did a reasonably good job making it look like the actual city.

Was it a perfect show? Nah. But it's a compelling one that tells good stories about a city with tremendous history and culture. It told stories other shows didn't tell.

Much love to Cold Case, Longmire, due South, Fargo, and any other show that showcases a unique place and the people who call it home.

[herfashionblog777]

AUTUMN 2024 FASHION.

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Brown leather jackets, fluffy off the shoulder jumpers, plaid scarfs & leather boots. The staples for this years go to autumn look.

Coffee in hand walking the streets of london, paris & nyc the look never grows old as its been morphed to fit peoples perceptions.

Mui Mui accessories along side vintage dior heel’s boots & glasses craft the look to make it more high end whilst some use charity store finds to add their own unique touch to this year’s fashion.

What would winters presence bring to us in the fashion world? Stay tuned.

[harrytheehottie]

THE FIVE TIMES YOU KNEW LOVE ON TOUR SCRAPBOOK

thank you for creating this fun challenge @harrystylesgotmefuckedup and to @oh-honey-styles for tagging me <3

1) Which tour stop was your favorite?

London is always the best because it’s home. I also loved Tokyo, Harry went there a few years back and always talked about it and it was sweet to see the city from the POV of someone who loves it so much. We had a few days off before and after the shows so we were able to play tourists which is always fun. 

2) Tour fits! Which was your number one?

Hmmmm… this is hard but the last Wembley show. Heart overalls with no shirt. Delicious.

3) Harry's performed numerous covers on tour. If you had to choose, which has been his best for you? Which song would be a dream cover?

Hopelessly Devoted. I tried to get him to do Summer Lovin’ or really lean into the Danny Zucko of it all and go full Grease Lightin' but luckily for me - I still got what I wanted just a little bit after the show.

4) Lucky you, you've got access to any piece of Harry's merch you'd like. What are you choosing?

Our custom gazelles. That was my idea! It started with the custom final show shirts from the 2018 tour and now every end of tour run he comes up with something unique to give to all the band and crew.

5) Choose your favorite bathroom sign from Love on Tour

Kiwee. I still use it to this day!

6) Which opening act has been your favorite?

Wolf Alice! That was a special request from me - I showed Harry their music back in 2016. If I had a choice they’d be the openers from the very start.

7) You can add any of Harry's songs to the set list from any of his past albums. Which one?

Ever Since New York. You should've seen my reaction when he played it on NYC Night 15. He didn't give me any heads up. I was floored.

8) What are your very own essentials for being away from home on tour?

My work computer and film camera.

9) What's Harry like on tour? Any memorable moments, favorite crowd interactions?

I've been lucky enough to be with Harry through every tour in his career even through the tail end of the band. And I can honestly say this is the most relaxed I have ever seen him on a tour. He has his schedule down to a science. He wakes up in the morning after letting himself have a 'lie-in' (usually is up by 9 which to me is not a lie in but for a man who usually wakes up at 6 it is) we have breakfast together always. It’s a must. And then he’s off to the arena by mid-day while I work but I always make sure to get to the arena early so we can watch the opener together. And then I give him his space to do his ~rituals~ and watch the show from the back or the bleachers. One fun fact that not many would know is as soon as he gets out of a show and back to the hotel or home it’s straight to the treadmill to perform the show through one more time. So it’s a good 90 minutes before he’s in bed again. I wouldn’t have it any other way.

10) In honor of Harry's 30th birthday: Harry played at Acrisure Arena in Thousand Palms, CA on his 29th birthday. Aside from the show, how did the two of you celebrate?

This was nice because I didn’t have to actually plan the party! We had an afters at the arena filled with lots of cake from Hansen’s. We snuck into the golf course at the Madison once we got back to where we were staying - a very drunk yet memorable decision.

this was so fun ❤️ im going to upload more of this story but it’s nice to just see them through the years this way as well. tagging @didhewinkback @for-fucks-sake-h @gucciwins @andwhenshesays @harry-on-broadway @hslllot 🤪 and honestly anyone who writes and want to do one of these !!!!

[3rdeyeblaque]

On November 26th we venerate Elevated Ancestor & Hoodoo Saint Mama Sojourner Truth on the 140th anniversary of her passing 🕊

An abolitionist, Womens’ Rights activist, & itinerant evangelist, Mama Sojourner Truth truly lived up to her name as one of the fiercest, relentless, & unstoppable pro-abolitionist voices of the 19th Century.

Given the name, Isabella, at birth, Mama Truth was born around 1797 to Dutch-speaking enslaved parents on Colonel Ardinburgh Hurley's plantation in Ulster County, NY. The actual date of her birth remains unknown. At the age of 9 she was sold away from her parents. She was passed through the hands of several slavers across NY State before ending up with the Dumonts. As was the case for most enslaved folks in the rural North, Isabella was forcibly isolated from other slaves and suffered physical & sexual abuse at the hands of the Dumonts.

Alone in the nearby woods, she found peace. Here, she'd speak to Spirit/God. Inspired by her many conversations with Spirit, one day in 1826, she walked away from Dumont Farm to freedom. Although the journey tempted her to return to the Dumonts, she stayed the course after she was struck by a vision of a man she identified as Jesus, during which she felt "baptized in the Holy Spirit," and thus gained the strength & confidence to push on. Like countless Ancestors before her, Isabella called on Spirit & supernatural forces for the power to survive her conditions.

Eventually, she married & birthed 5 children. On July 4, 1827, the NY State Legislature emancipated the enslaved, including Isabella & her children. Yet the Dumont family who "owned" her, refused to comply. Before dawn the next morning, with her youngest baby cradled in her arms, she sought refuge 5 miles away with an abolitionist family. During her time there, she converted to Pentecostal and joined their local Methodist church.

She later then moved again, this time with one of her eldest sons, Peter, in NYC wherein by day she worked as a live-in domestic. Here she found & joined a religious cult called, The Kingdom. It's leader, Matthias, beat Isabella and forced her to take on the heaviest workload. Soon thereafter she became a Pentecostal preacher. Her faith and preaching along with her life story as an emancipated slave drew the attentions of abolitionists & women's rights crusaders. Her speeches were not political by nature. They were based on her unique interpretation - as a woman and a former slave -of the Christian Bible.

On June 1st 1863, Sojourner Truth was born. Isabella took on this new name for herself as she headed East to, “exhort the people to embrace Jesus, and refrain from sin". She lived in a utopian community called, The Northampton Association for Education & Industry, which was devoted to transcending class, race, & gender. She preached at camp meetings for a few years before the community was dissolved. Even though the community lasted less than five years, many highly influential & reform-minded individuals visited the Northampton community; including prolific abolitionist leaders such as Frederick Douglass & William Lloyd Garrison.

Through these connections, she began to speak at public events on behalf of slave abolition and women’s rights. Eventually, this compelled her infamous 1851,“Ar’nt I A Woman” speech at a Women’s Rights Convention in Akron, OH. This was a significant moment in the sociopolitical climate of the country at the time because, for the first time for most, "slave" became equated to women & "woman" became equated to Black. She became increasingly involved on the issue of Women's suffrage, but eventually separated her voice from leaders such as Susan B. Anthony & Elizabeth Cady Stanton one they asserted that they would not support the Black vote if Women were not also granted the same right.

In 1857, Mama Truth purchased a house with the help of friends in a small Spiritualist community called, Harmonia, near Battle Creek, MI. Here she lived thriving the years of supporting hwrself thrift paid speaking events, selling photographs of herself, publishing her book titled, "Narrative of Sojourner Truth" which was written by an amanuensis, as she was illiterate.

Once the Civil War began, Mama Truth pushed for the inclusion of Blacks in the Union Army, which was not intitially the case. She then poured her energy into gathering food & clothing supplies for the underserved volunteer regiments of Black Union soldiers. This is when the plight freed slaves captured her attention, as many of whom were living in refugee camps in Washington D.C.. Mama Truth embarked on a round-trip journey from her home near Battle Creek,MI to D.C. to meet with President Abraham Lincoln to discuss the conditions of the freedmen refugees in D.C. & across the North.

After the Civil War, she championed the idea of a colony for freed slaves out West where they could galvanize their desires to become self-reliant. Mama Truth garnered numerous signatures for her petition urging the U.S. Government to provide land for this endeavor. Although she presented this petition to then President Ulysses S. Grant, her mission never materialized. Nevertheless, in the Fall of 1879, a large migration of Southern freedmen ventured westward to start begin life anew. Mama Truth saw this as God's Divine Plan for our people. Despite her old age, Mama Truth traveled to Kansas to help them. Four years later, Mama Sojourner Truth passed away at her home near Battle Creek, MI. She was believed to be 86.

"How came Jesus into the world? Through God who created him and woman who bore him. Man, where is your part? But the women are coming up blessed by God and few of the men are coming up with them. But man is in a tight place, the poor slave is on him, woman is coming on him, and he is surely between a hawk an' a buzzard." - Sojourner Truth @ the 1851 Ohio Women's Convention.

We pour libations & give 💐 today as we celebrate Mama Truth her selfless service and pioneering vision for the freedom & self-determination of our people. May her life be a reminder of: the power of stillness & deep meditation, to lead with Spirit, & the grit of perseverance that's alive in our blood.

Offering suggestions: woodland soil, water, Pentecostal prayers/ scripture, read/share her speeches & written words.

‼️Note: offering suggestions are just that & strictly for veneration purposes only. Never attempt to conjure up any spirit or entity without proper divination/Mediumship counsel.‼️

[velvetvexations]

so with the whole custody stuff

during the time my own parents were fighting over who gets the kids, we were living in New York City. yes NYC. for most of the court battles the Judge favored my mother because of that assumption that women are more nurturing and caring, and this Judge's misogyny was so god awful that even if my mother's entire medical team, GP, psychiatrist and psychologist, therapist and family counselor ordered by CPS, gave the Judge all the paper work in the world that says point blank my mother was unfit to care for her children, that she was mentally unstable, physically disabled and completely dependent on my father due to these, she could not possibly hold custody over me and my siblings.

and yet? the Judge repeatedly favored my mother. my dad had my entire family on his side, both my mom's family and his family, it was without a doubt that my mother could not care for her kids,while my father absolutely can. but, my parents had several court hearings, far more than there was needed because my mother pushed and pushed, I think my mom liked the sort of power she got by having a whole ass Judge on her side. all of thiscausing me and my siblings to stay in a sort of limbo in the same foster home for around 6 years.

obviously this whole ordeal was super unfair, but it's not because of prejudice against my dad, but because misogyny was raging and practically determining the entire legal case, that it ended up not in favor of the man. I'm sure my mom knew that what was happening was due to the stereotype, but part of who my mom was was that she LOVED to get her way, even if it hurt her or others in the process.

I have a lot more on this story but this is just everything relevant to the topic rn

(thank you for reaching out to me<3 I really should share my story more since I have such a unique personal view on the topics of misogyny and misandry)

I invited this person's input from the tags on one of the earlier asks on the subject. Thank you for sending in!

[midnightsun-if]

Hihi! This is sort of an ask for the Office Romance spin-off, I hope that’s okay, but if Secretary!MC surprised Cienna with a surprise vacation (assuming Helena was around to cover her responsibilities) how would she react? Also, what would her and the rest of the casts dream vacations be like?

Koda: Would love to go see the lavender fields within Bolivia— I’ve mentioned before how much he adores flowers. He’d be the happiest bean ever if he got to be around those. Or, simply going to see his family is more than enough for him.

Scarlett: As long as it’s not London? Scarlett doesn’t truly have a preference— she’s been to a lot of places and has enjoyed them for their own unique nuances. Paris, Rome, or Athens, is always interesting places to visit. If you’re there she already has the prettiest sight to look at regardless.

Cyrus/Cyra: They prefer to go to warmer climates— makes them feel at home. Though, I don’t know if I’d necessarily say they enjoy beach vacations all that much… Egypt would be a place they’d love to visit as an example. (If you wanted to go on a beach vacation they’d be fine with that too.)

Quinn: Going to the Amazon, National Parks, or simply going backpacking, are their idea of a great vacation— simply spending time outside. They love seeing the different wildlife within each place they go to, and how it harmonizes with the area as a whole.

Caden: As long as the place isn’t too cold? Caden doesn’t truly have a preference. Fiji or the Bahamas would probably be their first picks as it’s warm, has a beautiful view, and they don’t have to worry about packing extra layers.

Sloane: Does their room count? They’re not really the traveling or vacationing sort, but Australia is a place that they’ve enjoyed visiting and you’d probably be able to convince them to go back.

Blake: The colder the better for them. Switzerland would definitely be a place they’d love to spend a vacation or Sweden/Finland/Norway… They don’t like extreme heat as it reminds them too much of home.

Reginald/Regina: They’ve always wanted to go to NYC and Washington D.C. Not for any particular reason, barring the usual tourist spots, other than they’ve always been intrigued by them and would like to see them in person.

I think Cienna would have a difficult time accepting the gift— not because she doesn’t appreciate it, but she truly doesn’t think she’s earned said vacation. There’s still so much work she has to get done, things she needs to get prepared, leaving it all behind to “relax” feels irresponsible to her. She’d probably agree once Helena spoke to her— making Cienna understand that she’s done more than enough to earn dozens of vacations.

Honestly? Cienna would enjoy simply going to Celestia, spending time within her room there, or going to one of the properties that the family owns and staying there…

[serenityscribes]

The way I’m manifesting being able to afford an NYC trip this year to catch this show.

Do I go back into debt to see Jeremy and Eva together? Stay tuned 😂

Thinking about starting a YouTube/IG channel talking about classics I should have read by now. 🤔 I really enjoyed diving into an Agatha Christie a little while ago that became an instant top ten. (Shocking no one I’m sure, it was “And then there were none”)

So many others Like Gatsby. Or TKAMB. Or a laundry list of others. My Goodreads TBR is staggering.

Anyway. Ponderings. So much has been done and I just want to be original.

Although I do like to think that I’m my own version of unique to begin with. Anything to keep my mind off the pre-grief. ✨

[silvyysthings]

K’s jet landed back in California tonight. Going to assume Timothee is staying the weekend so he can start work Monday on his SNL appearance. Plus our NYC boy can kick off his Bleu de Chanel ad in NYC on the 6th! Maybe he will have another dinner with Uncle Marty and can pose for pics again. 💙

And for a couple Charmie shippers that means furiously typing fanfic possibly beginning with a subway ride. (no shade!)

Now, CFDA is the 6th as well which could mean the appearance of any Klan member. That means prepare for the worst and hope for the best. The best being K stays in California and her model sister shows. Second best is K reappears with all her charisma, uniqueness, nerve and… well, scratch all that. K shows and Timothee and she can have hundreds more photographs together walking in to an event together, arms around each other, acting playfully with genuine smiles just like they did at the WSJ Innovator Awards reception.

I hope he will do better this time, at least considering her and posing with her on the carpet because this time...she has to pose with Haider 😅

[spoiledleaff]

🌿✨ silly little sleep token bracelet giveaway!!✨🌿

hey, hello! :D this post is a give-away post!! i've never done one of these before so forgive me if the setup is a little funky, haha! :') but, anyways! i attended the nyc sleep token ritual at radio city music hall, and i made a massive amount of bracelets for it! :) i did the same thing when i went to see ghost last summer, but this time i unfortunately wasn't able to take the time to make sure i gave all of them away, so i have some extra bracelets left!! :D it feels a little weird to keep them for myself, haha! so this is where you might come in! >:)c

out of exactly 100 bracelets, i'm happy to report that i only have 9 bracelets left! 🌿✨ the 9 that i do have left consist of 2 bracelets for iii and 7 bracelets for iv! :)

these are the bracelets i'm offering up! :D but — since the circumstances for this giveaway are a little more unique, haha! — what are some rules for this? :0 well!

✿ this giveaway is aimed towards anyone and everyone who attended a ritual during the teeth of god tour! you don't have to have attended specifically the ritual at radio city music hall! :) however! please be aware that if i happen to receive multiple/more than one messages at a time, people who did attend the nyc ritual will receive priority/first picks. i don't mean to be rude to anyone! this is just because i also attended the nyc ritual :) i hope that makes sense! i won’t be asking for proof, but i also don’t expect this post to just magically blow up, haha! so i’m taking everybody’s word for this :)

✿ ideally, to give many people a chance to snag a bracelet, i would like to limit the amount of bracelets to one per person!

✿ i hope to mail the bracelets to people who would like one, so, needles to say, please be ready to offer up a valid mailing address where i can send the bracelets to! however, because i hope to mail these little guys, i'm afraid i'm also going to have to ask that this giveaway stays in the united states. ugh! i know, i know! i really wanted to extend this silly little thing to outside the usa, but i think it might be wiser for me personally — since it's my first time doing something like this — if i kept this to inside the usa. i'm so sorry to my dear friends in other parts of the world!! QAQ

✿ lastly, this giveaway is completely free!! :D however, i did have some lovely people ask if i wanted to take a 'tip' for various reasons and, even though i did say 'no', there were some kind people who really insisted i take a little something :') so! if you would like—though this is not at all necessary! i do have some additional means where people can send a small little tip if they might like to :)

✿ finally, please feel free to dm me if you're interested at all!! :D please include the aforementioned proof as well as if you have a preference for which bracelet you might like to receive! :D also please feel free to dm with any questions about the bracelets too! :) i know i don’t take the greatest pictures, haha! so if there’s one that catches your eye, please feel free to ask to see it up close! :D

oki-dokie! i think that's pretty much everything! :) haha! i've never done one of these before so i do apologize if this is very rambly//over explaining and whatnot :'D but! i had such a fun time making these bracelets, and an even bigger of a blast handing them out and meeting new people and experiencing the nyc ritual with everyone too :) thank you for reading!!! ♡♡ and thank you for participating if you so choose to!! :D

also, haha! if anyone was curious as to if you happened to meet me at the ritual, here’s a silly little fit pic featuring my housemate’s cat saying hello, haha! ♡

[uraniumwriting]

Hello! Just discovered your blog and your Ghosts of Steel Road WIP caught my interest. I wanted to know more about the world at large, how similar is it to Earth? What would you say is the most unique feature of your setting?

Hello!

Ghosts of the Steel Road's world is particularly inspired by the periods of nation building in Europe and the Industrial Revolution. In fact, my original idea for the world was "what if the IR happened everywhere at once? chaos."

So, it's quite similar to our history in that sense, and I'm using my climate and environment knowledge to try to make the world's areas make as much sense as possible (though the Prophecy of the Steel Road series mostly takes place in a very small area of it, geographically), but I've also included magic and a bunch of dragon species ranging from basically-pidgeons to near gods because that makes doomsday cults so much more fun :D

For the city of Zarothe specifically, I think the most unique feature is its distinct lack of urban sprawl. While there are some settlements outside of the city borders with a very dependent relationship on the city, the city itself is not being allowed to expand due to a very annoying city council. Instead, they have to build up or down. This has made the city basically a huge version of what people think all of NYC is like, with some very creative architecture.

While I was actually typing that, though, I remembered the Docks! The Docks are more of a worldwide feature, which are found in many large port cities (such as Zarothe). They are basically groups of businesses right along the docks/the port of the city, which act as buffers to neutralize any threats coming in (not warships, of course, but spies and people who just need to be humbled), and are the ones who make up much of a city's information and espionage network. The Docks in Zarothe feature heavily through the series, though I do kind of want to explore the Docks in other cities in a story one day.

Thank you for the ask! I'll be having some fun information coming up about Ghosts of the Steel Road soon, actually, so stay tuned! ^-^

[rimouskis]

Hey! So there is a slight chance I could end up In Pittsburgh next year. As a resident, do you like living there? What are some of its selling points? (Some context: I’ve lived in or near every single big city on the northeast coast, from DC to Boston, so I’m used to cities. I’ve heard great things about living in Pittsburgh, so I’m curious about your perspective!)

oh hey! very cool, potential welcome to you, and I heartily recommend the city.

but: if you've lived in every big city in the east, pittsburgh is going to.... uh, not be like that! at all, haha. if you're looking for city living, I don't think you're going to find that in its purest form here.

my context is that I've actually not traveled the east very much; I've only been to DC and NYC. Neither feels remotely like PGH. actually-big cities like NYC, Chicago... probably Boston, though I've never been... they're cities, you know? they feel like it. they've got concrete jungle energy.

pittsburgh very much does not. pittsburgh, frankly, doesn't feel like a city to me, even though it has all the amenities of a city—we've got theaters and concerts and summers here are a total blast. pittsburgh feels like an oversized town in a lot of ways.

part of that is the geography and what it's done to the city as it has developed. the neighborhoods here are often really broken up by the topography. the hills and forested parts of the city still feel a little wild. some neighborhoods feel like they shouldn't be habitable at all because of how steep they are, lol (the very existence of rialto street feels Wrong to me). panther hollow being smack dab in the city speaks to that: we have a fucking ravine in the middle of this place!! I've seen so much wildlife here that I just haven't in other "urban" areas.

the other, bigger part of pittsburgh not feeling like a big city is the populace. you have a LOT of lifers here. did you know pittsburgh has the oldest population of any metro area in the USA? people are born here and they die here, haha. I know some of the local young people really don't like it (like, imagine all the people from your high school went to your college and then stayed in the same city after they graduated), but I find it to be really novel.

one of my old coworkers was born on the south side slopes and then moved to mt. washington as an adult. she's just never left the city, and that means I can literally play seven-degrees-of-[her name] with her because if I mention, like, anyone with roots in the city, it feels like there's an 80% chance she's going to know them or one of their relatives 😅 that's so fun to me! you can carve out individual pockets everywhere, and don't get me wrong, I don't have that kind of connectivity, but it's something that's possible here that doesn't feel possible in other cities and it gives it a very particular.... flavor.

that's part of the unique culture around pittsburgh that I'm very fond of. it was (is) a really good city to be a young person in, because it's big enough where there's stuff to do, buuuuut it's small enough that you won't feel eaten alive like you might in NYC. and while there are sooo many locals who are still local, there's a decent amount of transplants like myself too, so it's not like you'll be an outsider or anything.

I've also found really good people here. I like pittsburghers. they're pretty salt-of-the-earth (.... coal-of-the-earth? too soon?) and the culture is, like, very palatable to my midwestern sensibilities. if you're an east coaster you might find people a little too chatty or personable, but I'm used to it haha.

as for the living experience, I think it's pretty fabulous. winters get a bit grim (it's so GRAY here and people drive like MANIACS) but fall is very nice and summers in pittsburgh are just unparalleled. perfect weather—not too hot but not cold—and so so much to do. there's a ton of culture that happens, we love street festivals and art markets and night markets and each neighborhood does their own little twist on stuff. it's my favorite time of year, and there's also plenty of nature nearby. falling water is close by and I love it, and ohiopyle state park has good hiking. the cost of living can't be beat, too. I pay less in rent than both my siblings who live in another state, and I have a bigger living space. I was able to live really comfortably here when I made very little money. it's a great amount of flexibility, and you're not too far away from bigger cities if you want; the drive to DC is like 4 hours.

and, finally: if you're a pens fan, well. this IS the place to be! getting easier access to games has been such a blast. it's a fun life to live.

I will also say there are downsides. I'm from a blue state and I was honestly not ready for how red/conservative this area gets when you leave the bounds of pittsburgh proper. like, it goes pretty red pretty fast. that makes me uncomfortable, honestly, but that's the cost of living here. there was also a report put out a few years back that showed white residents in the city had "average or above-average standards of livability", but for black men it was "less livable" and for black women it was even LESS livable. there's some pretty serious segregation in terms of neighborhoods and the city is, on the whole, incredibly white. it isn't a very diverse place, which is of course a huge negative, and the city hasn't done the best job in making itself more livable for its black population. I think that's worth mentioning, especially if you're a person of color. pennslyvania is... well, this part of pennsylvania is very much part of the rust belt, and that shows in charming ways (old infrastructure and buildings) and horrible ways (systemic racism).

in sum: pittsburgh has been really, really great for me. I've met some wonderful people here, I've learned how to be an adult here, and I've really built a comfortable life here. that's involved a fair bit of privilege, though, so when I say I love pittsburgh, I'm aware that comes with asterisks.

if you have more questions, please reach out! you're actually not the first person who's considering a move to pittsburgh, and I really enjoy being an ambassador to the city :)

[valianttechnology]

Unlocking the Power of Managed Services in New York : Your Ultimate Guide

In the bustling streets of New York City (NYC), businesses, nonprofits, and advertising agencies are racing against time. They all share one common need: reliable IT services. This need isn't limited to just the big players, however, even the smallest nonprofits in NYC require solid IT support.

In this easily digestible guide, we'll explore how Managed services  NY can be a game-changer for you, whether you're a powerhouse advertising agency or a nonprofit with a noble mission. No need for complex tech talk here; we're giving it down for you.

Understanding Managed Services

Managed services are like having your very own IT support dream team in New York. Whether you're in the heart of NYC, seeking PR IT service NYC, running an advertising agency, or managing a non-profit, this concept can be your tech-savvy ally.

So, what's it all about? Managed services NY provide businesses with a helping hand for their IT needs. Imagine having experts keeping a watchful eye on your IT systems, ensuring they run smoothly and securely.

To clarify, it means fewer IT headaches for you. No more late-night troubleshooting sessions or worrying about cybersecurity threats. On the other hand, Managed services handle it all, so you can focus on what you do best – running your business.

The Benefits of Managed Services NY

Managed Services in New York offer a world of benefits. For instance, having a support team available 24/7 to troubleshoot issues. That is to say, say goodbye to downtime, as Managed Services NYC keeps your systems running smoothly, even during the hectic NYC pace.

Tailored Solutions for Your Business

Whether you're an advertising agency, a non-profit organization, or a PR firm, Managed Services tailors solutions to fit your unique needs. No jargon, no complexity – just straightforward solutions.

Cybersecurity That Protects

In today's digital world, cybersecurity is vital. That is why Managed Services NY ensure your data stays secure. Learn how Managed Services can safeguard your business, including Non-profit cybersecurity.

Join the Managed Services Revolution

With Managed Services NY, you're not alone in the tech jungle. We'll guide you through the world of Managed Services, with links to resources on NYC, PR IT service NYC, Advertising agency IT, and more. 

Benefits of Managed Services in NY 

Managed Services NY is your ticket to smoother,  and stress-free business operations. Therefore, let's explore why businesses in the heart of New York, from PR IT service NYC to Advertising agencies, swear by Managed Services.

1. Enhanced Efficiency

In the fast-paced world of NYC, every second counts. Because Managed Services NYC ensures your systems run seamlessly, reducing downtime and also keeping your team productive.

2. Cost Savings

Let's now forget about hefty IT expenses. Managed Services NY offers predictable, and also cost-effective solutions. In other words, say goodbye to unexpected repair bills and also to IT emergencies.

3. 24/7 Support

Your IT needs don't punch a clock. Because Managed Services not just provides round-the-clock support, but also ensuring that any issues are addressed promptly.

4. Tailored Solutions

Whether you're in PR, advertising, or  even nonprofit work, Managed Services tailors its solutions so that it can meet your specific needs. After that, you will expect no tech jargon – just solutions that work for you.

5. Cybersecurity Confidence

Also protecting your data is paramount. That's why Managed Services NY incorporates top-notch cybersecurity, while continuously ensuring your business stays safe from threats, including Non-profit cybersecurity.

6. Focus on Your Core

With Managed Services handling your IT worries, you can concentrate on growing your business while achieving your goals.

7. Future-Proofing

Managed Services NYC keeps your technology up-to-date, also helping you stay competitive in a rapidly evolving business landscape.

Experience the Difference

Ready to experience the benefits of Managed Services NY for yourself? We've got the insights and resources you need to thrive in the NYC business arena. In addition,  explore how Managed Services can transform your business, including links to NYC, PR IT service NYC, Advertising agency IT, and more.

Finding the Right Managed Services Provider in NY

Choosing the right Managed Services NY provider is similar to finding the perfect business partner. However, in the bustling streets of New York, where options are abundant, how do you pick the one that suits your needs? Let's break it down.

1. Assess Your Needs

Before diving in, understand what your business requires. Whether you're in PR, advertising, or the nonprofit sector, identifying your unique IT needs is always the first step.

2. Research and Compare

Now, explore the Managed Services NYC landscape. Compare providers, services, and pricing. Look for transparency and also its flexibility.

3. Check Expertise

Experience always matters. Firsly, ensure your provider specializes in your industry – cyber NYC, Advertising agency IT, or Non-profit IT. Lastly, look for a track record of success.

4. 24/7 Availability

Emergencies can strike at any hour. Opt for a provider offering 24/7 support. Therefore, quick problem-solving is essential.

5. Security Measures

In today's digital world, cybersecurity is non-negotiable. In result, you need to ensure your chosen provider prioritizes cybersecurity, including Non-profit cybersecurity.

6. Scalability and Flexibility

Your business may grow. Therefore, choose a provider that can scale with you, most importantly adapting to changing needs.

7. Client Testimonials

Read reviews and client testimonials. Learn from others' experiences to make an informed decision.

Make an Informed Choice

Finding the right Managed Services NY provider is crucial for your business's success. And now we'll guide you through the process, with links to NYC, PR IT service NYC, Advertising agency IT, and more. 

Managed Services Best Practices in New York 

In the bustling streets of New York, adopting Managed Services NY is a smart move, but doing it right is even smarter. Therefore, let's explore the best practices that can supercharge your business, whether you're an NYC-based PR firm, Advertising agency, or Non-profit organization.

1. Tailored Solutions

One size doesn't fit all. Seek Managed Services NYC providers who customize solutions to fit your unique needs like a well-tailored suit.

2. Regular Maintenance

For instance, think of IT like a car; it needs regular check-ups. Therefore, scheduled maintenance by Managed Services in NY keeps your systems running smoothly.

3. Proactive Cybersecurity

Cyber threats are similar to New York cabbies - always on the move. Prioritize robust cybersecurity, including Non-profit cybersecurity, to protect your data fortress.

4. Scalability

Imagine your business as a skyscraper. In other words, ensure your Managed Services provider can add floors as you grow – scalability is key.

5. Clear Communication

Effective communication with your Managed Services NYC team is crucial. Make sure they understand your needs and concerns.

6. Training and Education

Empower your team with tech know-how. Managed Services providers often offer training to help your employees navigate the digital jungle.

7. Regular Review

For instance, think of your IT strategy as a roadmap. In other words, regular reviews keep you on the right path, and also adjusting as needed to reach your destination.

Moreover, by embracing these Managed Services best practices, you'll be riding the New York wave with confidence, whether you're in PR, Advertising, or the Non-profit sector. Dive deeper into these practices, with links to NYC, PR IT service NYC, Advertising agency IT, and more.

Challenges and Risks of Managed Services in NY 

While Managed Services NY, NYC, PR IT service NYC, Advertising agency IT, and Non-profit IT have many advantages, it's essential to understand the possible hiccups that might come along. Here, we'll break down some of the challenges and risks you should keep in mind.

1. Cost Concerns

Managed services often come with a price tag. It's crucial to balance the cost with the benefits, especially in the hustle and bustle of NYC.

2. Dependency Dilemma

Relying on a managed services provider means putting your IT in their hands. While it can be great, it's essential to ensure they meet your needs and most importantly their expectations.

3. Security Scrutiny 

Cybersecurity is a big deal, especially in the Big Apple. Consequently, make sure your provider is up to the task of keeping your data safe.

4. Communication Challenges

Sometimes, misunderstandings can arise due to differences in language or expectations. Therefore, clear communication is key to a successful partnership.

5. Non-profit Nuances

Non-profits have unique needs and also constraints. Ensure your managed services provider understands and also accommodates them.

6. Contractual Considerations

Contracts with managed service providers can be complex. Therefore, take the time to read and understand them thoroughly.

While these challenges exist, they can be managed effectively with the right approach. Remember that Managed Services NY, PR IT service NYC, Advertising agency IT, and Non-profit IT all have their specific solutions to these challenges, making your journey smoother.