#unfair to the rest of us
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I think it would really benefit people to internalize that mental illnesses are often chronic and not acute. Some of us will never be able to jump the hurdle of managing illness, much less sustaining a sense of normalcy. Many of us will never "recover," will never manage symptoms, will never even come close to appearing normal - and this is for any condition, even the ones labeled as "simple" disorders or "easy-to-manage" disorders.
It isn't a failure if you cannot manage your symptoms. It isn't a moral failure, and you aren't an awful person. You are human. There's only so much you can do before recognizing that you cannot lift the world. Give yourself the space to be ill because, functionally, you are.
#mental health#mental health advocacy#like... anxiety and depression are often concieved of as simple and easy to manage...#...but that isn't the case for so many of us. anxiety and depression just have a lot more research invested into them...#...and while i wish this were the case for literally every other condition it does alter people's perception of you to some extent...#...so while this is NOT solely about anxiety or depression it includes us...#...my anxiety and depression and PTSD have *destroyed* my life. this is chronic and will probably be life-long...#...and that isn't my fault. i've done the fucking work but guess what? that doesn't account for the fact that I Am Just ILL#the least we can do for each other is to be compassionate#be compassionate to those who cannot heal. be compassionate to the people who can't manage their lives. this world is scary enough#recognize that management of symptoms is something not all of us can do - even IF their condition is labeled as 'easy to manage'#i allowed myself to feel angry that i can't heal 'normally' and that was unfair as fuck toward myself#and i NEED people to internalize this so that MAYBE this could help somebody else who is where i was#i NEED them to understand that it's okay that they are where they are - sometimes shit just doesn't turn out how you expect or want#don't beat yourself over you being a person. you are struggling enough. you deserve to rest. just rest please#and just... give yourself space
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Lee Know ☆ Intro: ATE
#bystay#createskz#stray kids#linosource#lee know#*m.gif#*minho#usersemily#userlau#usersa#melontrack#kpopccc#it's so unfair he just goes around looking like this#what about the rest of us
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Just a girl who wants to be her mother’s daughter in the ways that matter
#Such a tenacious go getter & the smartest woman ik#Has NEVER looked back at a man twice. Knows she’s beautiful & that attention is guaranteed. Never desperate for male validation ever#The best fashion sense ik. She’s the epitome of classic & vintage#Doesn’t gaf what others are doing / is always tunnel visioned on her own goals#A mega workaholic and like. Maybe I’d rather balance but still she’s still an overachiever#I feel im becoming more and more like her by the day but still I have some work to do#Need to be more focused & to stop entertaining little boys fr#I just want to move w the unshackling confidence & elegance she seems to emanate effortlessly#I swear that woman was born that way!!!! So unfair for the rest of us mortals#Why does no one talk about the psychological torture that comes w having a naturally gorgeous genius mother#I’m dying over here I just wanna be like her but im pushing that boulder up the hill all the time#Meanwhile she’s always just On#HOW#Just an eldest daughter having a crisis about her mother who is also#The eldest daughter out of her and her two brothers#I need to journal about this I need to meditate#How to manufacture the drive that your mother was simply endowed with at birth#Not even joking I just got off my internship and now im sitting on a swing under the late May sun having a crisis about this
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#IM NOT SPIRILING YOU ARE!!!#GOD DAMN DUDE LIKE ITS PROBABLY A MODICUM OF REASONS THAT THIS SHOW HAS NEVER HAD A REPRINT BUT THIS--THIS IS WHAT THEY ARE KEEPING FROM US#JOANNE MY BELOVED#kate mulgrew#HAW HAW HAW SHE IS SO BEAUTIFUL UNFAIR FOR THE REST OF US#damn though like this show is actually idk good ???#IT HAS SOME SPICY TOPICS AND OUTDATED IDEAS BUT SO WHAT ARGGGG#LIKE ARE YOU KIDDIN ME HAH#LOOK AT HER BABY GIRLLllll
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i have a pureref file of all the stuff i like and am inspired by, and you might have heard me throw around darwyn cooke's parker comics a couple of times, but that's because every panel is the single rawest fucking thing a human being has ever drawn

#text post#for the love of christ cooke please save some for the rest of us. unfair#i remember seeing this for the first time and saying oh fuck off out loud
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Live! Jenson Button committing an international crime answering a question about his favorite pizza topping.
"It used to be pineapple. It used to be when I was a kid."
#jenson how dare you#PINEAPPLE?!!!?!?!#IN ITALY?#the audacity of this man#you are on thin fucking ice because of that answer good sir😡#good save with 'it used to be' answer I guess😒#jenson button#jb22#wec.jenson#jota.jenson#hertz team jota#(apologies to the rest of the jota boys. it will be unfair to keep their parts in and have everyone skip them)
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I just found this song and all I can think is of @kdpartworks Cloudysseus
The sample is too short and not even the best part but truly, I can only think of Cloudy. Maybe I'm obsessed.
#cloudysseus#He's so adorable#Cloudysseus and Cloudyseidon have an unfair hold on my heart#This artist is so cool it's unfair#Leave some talent for the rest of us#Do you feed off our hearts or do you just collect them for fun?
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oh also more mha updates
i…… i like monoma. he’s so Real to me
izuku and all might are dead fucking wrong if you think about it for more than two seconds, and it only makes me double down on my belief that if i were katsuki i’d have been so much worse
denki <3 my absolute beloved baby girl
i have feelings for kirishima i absolutely do he is sooooo earnest and darling
i said i didn’t care for dabi and in some ways i don’t but also i do. he’s kinda funny. the rest of the league is really annoying to me tho and i couldn’t care less about their sob stories and why they think their villainry is valid
in particular i find shigaraki and toga extremely annoying
endeavor really is such a bitch i had no idea this man was so terrible
it’s so cute how nezu is always in aizawa’s scarf
it’s kind of sad how aizawa seems to be the only teacher/adult to see through katsuki. everyone else teases him and makes light of him being a grump but he’s been through so much shit and still persists and then he gets called aggressive and intense in his pursuit of what he wants. and to top it all off he’s being gaslight by his favorite hero and deku… man. i want everybody to leave him alone
when is shinsou coming back i miss him
#mie watches mha#like…. individually i begrudgingly find izuku endearing#but in the context of everything going on he is so wrong 😭😭😭 and so is all might#i fear my love for katsuki stems from the fact that i would have done what he did and way worse if k we#if i were in his shoes*#dabi is still annoying dont get me wrong but he’s much less annoying compared to the rest of the league who irritate the hell out of me#but when i write him into shoto fics i love him LOL#like?? he gets kidnapped bc of deku and him having ofa and they both act like keeping it a secret is for his benefit/their sake???#when he’s one repeatedly being blamed for the shit that happens to their class/school#idk. idkidkidkidk. he’s better than me bc i would have joined the league just to crashout#he really does have a heart of gold man#bc the way they keep setting him up to be some kinda villain figure and he pointedly has his eyes set on being a hero#and don’t get me wrong i like izuku but it’s so easy to see that compared to the rest of the class he’s extremely immature#he has the ideals and the courage to want to be a hero but it’s kinda extremely unfair that he’s given the same shot and way more grace than#everyone else bc it’s clear he doesn’t actually have the frame of mind to act effectively#in the same way the others who have been training/using their quirks have#not that he can’t be trained to succeed like they can bc he has the drive and intellect#but it’s no shock that other ua students wouldn’t like the hero course students bc of the attention they get from villains#and in particular how/bc of izuku. and yeah i get that afo would have turn up eventually anyway#but i would hold so much resentment towards deku knowing he basically snuck into the hero courde#then lied about his quirk to everybody including his teacher while everybody else felt the physical and mental repercussions of him#acting but not knowing how to control his power#and to his credit he’s doing the best he can but he’d probably do better faster if other people weren’t lied to about his quirk 😭#that’s still pookie tho… like he’s wrong but i’ll allow it 🫶
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He's so majestic
Found the translation of his name on @/thedwarrowscholar
#thorin oakenshield#the hobbit#the hobbit fanart#the hobbit thorin#thorin oakenshield fanart#punkindraws#king under the mountain#hes so pretty its unfair#leave some for the rest of us man#thorin fanart#Thorin
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I dunno what that bday Reita mail was about but seeing people say that it wrote "Being alive is a treasure" makes me worry even more that he was dealing with a chronic illness and he knew he wouldn't live long. We will never know obviously, but there have been many times he said things that made me worry that he would take his own life one day as well, but then others felt like maybe he says these things because there was a clock counting down for him and never told us cause he wanted to experience his life to the fullest and not with people constantly looking at him with "pity" or worrying.
He'd said he wanted to heal from sth and that he wished everyone could heal from their own stuff too, so I took it as sadness over past trauma. He'd also said things pointing at feeling lonely. I never realized how Reita was a moodmaker for the band until he died, cause Aoi had been the one being the most troll/playfull in the past in my eyes and then all of them calmed down. It was what he was saying that made Reita more of a playful member to me. But all in all he always felt like the youngest member to me for some reason. Perhaps because he often said silly things without thinking and then realized people looked at him like "what did you just say? xD", or cause he really said the purest things sometimes. He wanted peace for the world, his band and fans to be safe. He wanted to be a cool rocker but also give sth good to the world, which is a terrible terrible place.
It bothers me I'll never know. He, Uruha and Kai have always been the most private I think. Maybe Kai was more on the open side but the Gemini twins felt like they never said much about their personal life. Their interviews felt mostly like focusing on their beliefs and their love for the stage, or recounting memories with the band. I usually applaud that with artists. You don't have to lay yourself bare before the world to make a life in the spotlight work for you. However, when it comes to him I wish I knew. I wish I knew what took him and how long he'd been suffering. Part of me feels that, even if we couldn't take his pain away, maybe we'd be able to give more. Just a little. I know all he wanted was us to rock with them at lives but I dunno. I guess part of me thinks we could have offered more. He would probably think it's special treatment but I don't care. I like spoiling those I love. The reason I don't do it for everyone is cause I feel I'd be overbearing, but if I knew his life was counting down this fast or that he was hurting too much, maybe i could have come up with sth more to offer than simply cheering for the good work.
#i will never rest about this#it feels so fucking unfair#and it bothers me there is nothing i could do either way to aid his staying with us a little longer
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Misha graduated with honors. He’s extremely smart he just doesn’t want ppl to really know that part about him.
well then he is doing a bad job. tbh i don't think he is hiding any of it, i think we are just too accustomed to people who are smart to have different career paths than him. plus being silly doesn't exclude being smart, on contrary some of the smartest people i know are some of the silliest.
#misha is really the whole package#so so pretty and so damn smart#i would have been infuriated if he was in my class#i would have hated his GUTS#sdfghj#it's unfair ok#just choose one my guy#give the rest of us a chance#ask sally#misha collins
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5SD3RBr2it/?igsh=NmViYTZiaGZmaGUy in case you still haven't seen :D
Thank you!! I hadn’t seen the full thing this is wonderful <3 posting this so everybody else who might’ve missed it can see!
(Also leaving my personal opinions in the tags just to clarify where I stand because I’m so tired of everybody being weird about Damien specifically throughout this whole thing)
#hehe send me asks#smosh#damien haas#shourtney#smoshblr#I think that everybody blowing up at him is so…I mean#first of all unfair to him and to Shayne and Courtney who are clearly some of his closest friends#but also just. generally speaking super infantilizing and not necessarily aware that like#this is a grown man who not only has more to think about than his friends getting married#which he likely knew about way WAY before any of us did#obviously#but also he’s autistic and thus processes cues and reactions differently#and everybody is like WHA WHY DIDNT HE POST WHY ISNT HE BEING SUPPORTIVE#as if Damien isn’t generally pretty private about a lot of his personal life especially when it involves other people in the public eye#but especially since this is like#his best friend getting married to his other very close friend I feel like it would be obvious that this is something he would celebrate#privately and among the friends involved#anyway that’s my two sense please let him rest he’s like one of the busiest people in the cast and clearly loves his friends so much#**cents oops it’s late#and I don’t blame him for wanting to make this something special that he celebrates with them away from the#incredibly judgy#public eye
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Hi im here to tell you something…
HYUNJIN IS FUCKING PRETTY
Evidence::

LOOK AT HIM AND TELL ME HE IS NOT BEAUTIFUL 🫠🫠🫠
bestie i can't tell u this DO UK WHO U ARE TALKING TO AKSJDJJDDB
#how is one so pretty even when sleepy#UNFAIR#leave some beauty for the rest of us#sahar's.asks <3#chqnverse
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also sorry this peer feedback i got on my cymbeline/young king essay is making me melt <3 someone who fucking GETS IT!!!!
#the quotations are from my essay (highly highly sentimental can't you tell)#tales from diana#aphra behn is so important as a woman and as an author. both of those things. not one over the other. both.#so often we treat her as just a woman even when we try to shed light on her#her authorship ends up seeming almost trivial or at the very least not particularly special as far as her skill in storytelling#and that a woman of that time WAS out there telling stories... which so many of us are deprived of having the mere knowledge about#it deprives our souls. it really does. we hate humanizing women from the past.#what is more humanizing than reading these women in their own words?#people won't do it!!! they'll pay lip service to the effort but they won't do it. they still just read men men men much of the time.#men men men the same men over and over. and this is britneyshakespeare here u can't tell me i don't love reading those men#u can't tell me in good faith i have a bone to pick with people who revere the works of old dead white guys ok. nice try.#i care about shakespeare and donne and sidney and marlowe more than the vast majority of people. i think about them more#i READ them. i think others should read and discuss them. i see it done in academia. i need more of it about women#we have more examples of women to pick and choose to read and write about than we're made to believe. we do. we have them#not boatloads but we have them. but people who read and write about these men men men men men. they don't touch em#it pisses me off#i've had enough of it#AND APHRA BEHN IS MY FAVORITE!!!! she's not the most obscure in fact she's QUITE famous among ppl who can name#'notable pre-nineteenth century women authors' (a category the general public is nigh-completely unaware of exists)#even among that crowd. she is so disgustingly under-read and under-discussed. i'm trying to do my part ok#and i will keep reading shakespeare and writing about shakespeare for the rest of my life. and i'll do the same with behn#but the crowd will always be smaller and the story less recognizable. and my heart sinks bc it's fundamentally unfair#we are so deprived of the rich literary tradition we deserve. we literally have so much more art than we think we do. gathering dust
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Build Up 다시 사랑한다 말할까 stage — Yeo One
#pentagon#yeo one#changgu#yeoone#build up#mnet build up#v40#i haven't spent much time with ptg content in a while but man... my heart is still (partly) theirs#love you changgu love your voice#it's so unfair that your genes made the beauty of your voice match your outer beauty#could have left some for the rest of us#kim dong ryul#다시 사랑한다 말할까#shall i say i love you again
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the longer i sit with it the more it really gets me how nobody ever really mentions obito and rin before obito's reveal in shippuden. kakashi vaguely mentions his old friends and i think other characters allude to the tragedy of kakashi's past but rin and obito themselves are lost to time. something about that is so fucking haunting and so gutting. you would think it would be a pretty big deal that two kids from the same class died within a year of each other, but the nine tails attack probably wiped so much clean that nobody could really carry the grief... still, when we see their class in flashbacks, we recognise almost everyone else, so... there's something really sad and hopeless about their absence...
there's a lot a LOT to say about it from a lot of different angles and i don't really feel like going into meta posting territory i just have big feelings about it you know? and to me i guess obito encapsulates a lot of the anger. for the people who get left behind and forgotten. and that can mean a lot of things
#two of my classmates died on separate occassions in short span of time in high school and i wont claim that grief because#i didnt know either of them well but i did feel a lot of anger and overwhelming hopelessness. that life keeps relentlessly going on#even when people get left behind#it feels so unfair and so painful... there are so many more aspects to it though as well#like people who are left behind in other ways due to circumstance or class or race or etc etc- often a combination of those factors#and obito as a kid reminds me a lot of a good friend i had when i was little who was late to class every day#because of those outside circumstances#and again someone in high school who i was late WITH every day. because ya#and i feel very big about that. and about rins death as something so fucking preventable#the tragedy also of baby teacher minato who was so so not ready to be in charge of anyone. but. that's something else#anyway i guess i just really feel a connection with that anger and despair#sorru was watching niji and felt fucking insane about it#obito and rin are like two sides of one thing. maybe of one person. of one concept#part of why i'm so so crazy about obito being trans is because i see him as also using rin's memory as a conduit for#his anger and grief about his own lost younger self. hence: baby obito is also a little girl#i think they are best friends. its so important. idk none of this is wider narrative meta#its just my feelings about them in particular#haunting dead girl and the ghost who has to carry on and can't rest
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