#trans wrongs

[alittlemxchievous]

Reblog to randomly make one Government official trans

[dev-solovey]

"Everyone talks about trans victims. No one talks about trans victories."

This is a quote for my debut horror novella, Fever Dreams. As a trans creator, something that always bugs me is the fact that the majority of media with trans people shows them being depressed and hating their bodies. I hate that, I think it sends a bad message, so I decided to write a story about a kickass trans guy who knows he could fight a God and win. He wakes up to horrors, over and over again, faced with insurmountable odds, and he still retains a will to survive.

This book is now available for purchase and it's only $4 on Kindle. It would mean the world to me if my fellow queer creators could share this, even if you don't have the money to buy it. I want the world to know that, much like Thaddeus Morozov, I and all of my transgender siblings will continue to live on.

[juliangelart]

Every month is pride month

[aclowderofcatboys]

Hey, I heard y’all like fandom over on this app? So uh,, here I am. Joining Fandom, I guess.

Hi 😬

Here’s a silly one to get the ball rolling:

[existentialcrisistime]

spock in his binder, angel in their mesh catsuit... they look like every hot goth t4t couple u see at pride

[lousydrawingsforgoodpeople]

this doodle banned in @ least five american states

[thecontentsmp]

You know smth I really appreciate about this smp is how openly and plainly trans friendly it is!! Not something you see nearly as often as you should and it makes me really happy

Hell yeah! Trans Rights!

(art by arathain, @sillysock (on Twt), astronyu & RAT respectively)

[channel1200]

tohru adachi number 1 blåhaj fan

[dropoutfailure]

(prev anon) also for what it worth.. throwing my hat into the ring for chaser dad. love the idea of a dad being fascinated by his kid crafting their own masculinity and him being unexpectedly turned on by that. also maybe bi dad who never acknowledged his attraction towards guys but has to grapple with it when his trans son is like. Undeniably A Dude™️ and hes still hard for him

fuck yea, they're both discovering something new about themselves when they explore each other's bodies. something vulnerable to share with each other 💘

although for that particular post / poll I was thinking kinda toxic dadson, so - chaser dad is horny + pathetic + desperate for trans boy pussy. he's very into trans men from discovering ftm porn and initially panics when his son actually starts testosterone, because he didn't take him seriously at all when he first came out. dad has never fucked a trans guy before but really fucking wants to. but... that's his son. he shouldn't... he wouldn't? surely it's unrealistic, he couldn't. but maybe it's a blessing in disguise? he starts trying to repair their emotionally distant relationship and talks to his son more often, wanting to know more about his transition and changes. :) and he tries to tell himself he has no ulterior motives, but can't help being rock hard as he looks his son over - his new facial hair, his voice that's starting to change as he talks, and so much more that he can't see but really fucking wants to. he's curious about the changes in smell, body hair growth, and especially bottom growth and libido!! god he wants to suck him off and be the first to make him cum see how his son's t-dick looks at least! but yknow... that might be strange to ask... unless he can disguise it as a male bonding thing?? <- scheming

and the son can tell something is up - his dad suddenly gives him a lot of attention, but it feels off... like he's being treated like a boyfriend not a son? is that weird? but the attention feels so fulfilling! he's never been close with his dad, so he craves the affection, not to mention he's starting to get horny from the testosterone and they're both adults with needs, so might as well buy into the whole "69ing is like a normal widespread male bonding thing" even if he knows it's bs

[sobstea]

Not only do I support Trans rights

But I also support Trans wrongs

[therealpactcommander]

Painted in therapy today.

[achilles-invulnerable-heel]

[punkboyjack]

The same transphobics who can't call you by your preferred pronoun because it's hard for them to change their mind over it

Will look at this masculine mother fucker who's name is literally SIR crocodile that we spent YEARS calling him sir crocodile and say : she looks like a mom to me

[alittlemxchievous]

Today is my Egg day.

The 3rd year anniversary of my egg cracking and accepting that I am a girl.

[wild-forest-bee]

idk how to navigate this discourse bc i can tell people on both sides are on the defensive, and there are so many strawman arguments that im tempted to go "nobody is saying trans men/women arent oppresed, only that....." but i cant bc theres always some Transphobia Georg fighting for first place at the oppression olympics and shitting on others. of course i can only talk from the trans masc perspective, but sharing ones perspective doesnt mean im erasing someone else's.

trans women are under fire and i thought that was obvious enough not to question

i also never thought id see the day trans women told me they have to approve of the term used by transmascs to talk bout something specific to us

[transtalesofdoom]

The Egg Years and being Cis-Adjacent

I originally made this blog to talk about my new and exciting trans experience, so let's go do that. Long post, obviously and I just figured out how to do the Keep Reading thing

I didn't have any inherent dysphoria growing up, I was just a bit of a not-like-other-girls tomboy. Jeans were comfier than dresses, boobs and bras were sooo inconvenient, make up just meant more effort. Books and video games were more fun than going out to party. I wasn't good at dancing anyway. And don't even get me started on shaving your legs.

It became obvious to me that I wasn't strictly cis pretty much as soon as I learned that gender wasn't binary. It was common sense, really. If gender is a spectrum, very few people would actually find themselves on the very end of either side. So most people were just close enough to either end of the spectrum to consider themselves cis. Including myself.

As my understanding of gender grew, it became more and more ridiculous to assume anyone was 100% cis. There's always some criterion you don't fully meet. Of course, people could still use and identify with the label of cis, clearly there was some sort of leeway. But calling myself cis started to feel wrong. It felt like I was ignoring the very nature of gender as a vast spectrum by picking a label rooted in the binary. I was cis, but in a queer way. I started calling myself cis-adjacent when talking to other queer people.

I never had a "problem" with my assigned gender at birth, outside of the patriarchy and sexism and periods, but those weren't trans reasons to resent being a woman. Being a woman suited me well enough. I wouldn't have cared if I wasn't, if I woke up one day without boobs, I'd just go on and fit into shirts much more easily. I considered "gender-apathetic" as a label, but ultimately it felt like too much hassle for something I was indifferent about.

Really, that was what it came down to. I was close enough to being cis, I didn't have any internal problems with calling myself a woman or living as one. Sure, there probably was something more accurate for me out there, but I knew about the struggles trans people faced. A good friend of mine had come out as trans and started his transition. I was happy for him, but I also got to see the difficulties it brought to update paperwork and book appointments and constantly emailing professors about your new name and pronouns. Not to mention the whole coming out to family thing. Or transphobia. There wasn't enough suffering in me to submit myself to this much effort and misery. Or force everyone in my life to learn a new set of pronouns and name for me, irrevocably changing every single relationship I had in the process. I didn't even want to be a man anyway. Just look a little more like one.

And I could easily present pretty masculine without transitioning. I only wore pants anyway. And hoodies were super comfy. I cut my hair short more than once. I considered buying a binder, just to see what that would do for me, but every time I tried looking into it, I just got overwhelmed and, like I said, there wasn't enough suffering to justify spending 50 bucks and at least one extensive research session on it. Ironically enough, during my last year as cis-adjacent, I finally reconnected with a part of my femininity and wore dresses to special occasions again.

However, a new problem had found my body: The unstoppable passage of time. I wasn't a perky teenager anymore. My body gained weight, my boobs succumbed to gravity, and I had very little in common with what was considered a beautiful woman. Even a beautiful butch woman didn't look like me. No one beautiful looked like me, really. I told myself that I had a lot of internalized misogyny and fatphobia to unlearn. That the reason I started disliking my reflection was social conditioning. I was right about that, of course. But there was more to it that I, in my self-righteous blaming of society, didn't acknowledge.

Until the last full moon night of 2023, when my mirror reflected a ghost back at me.