#trans husbands

[cosima-nova]

Hell yes Spanish Jackie has trans husbands.

[borgqueens]

On this week’s edition of Metafilter Shaming:

I have I think (unknowingly) started to explore or rebel against some norms. I wear a lot of pink and purple

A man wearing pink and purple?? So rebellious!

I would describe myself as presenting as a husband but feeling like a wife. In thinking about traditional gender roles in a relationship, I am the one who cooks, decorates our home, sews, makes health appts, organizes kids stuff and maintains our social calendar

Cooking and sewing and looking after kids is for wives, not husbands: who said it, progressive left-wing echo chamber or religious right-wing conservative?

I fantasize often about what it would be like if I was a lesbian married to my wife

Fetishist alert fetishist alert

I want the book clubs and emotional support, not fantasy sports and beer

So…find other men to do that stuff with? It’s like he thinks he’s the first man in history who isn’t 100% GI Joe on that ridiculous Mermaids UK gender diagram

a handful or fewer times I have found myself attracted enough to a man to consider acting on it

This is why the T needs to be forcibly ejected from the LGB. Feel attracted to the same sex? Duh, that means you have a special gender, that’s how it works :) :)

I feel like even getting close to individual women who I vibe with is rife with problems as it's just not that normal to do (or it seems as such) unless the guy is emotionally or physically trying to cheat.

This is obviously an indication of having a special gender and definitely not an indication that there’s anything wrong with patriarchal society :) :)

if we both were women, we would both get invited to the book club that she did and my presence there would not completely change the dynamics […] part of the book club is a space where women can express their feelings about their relationships/kids/etc. and they'd not be as comfortable if there was a man there.

Yeahhhh if he puts on a dress and calls himself “she” the women will still be uncomfortable, it’s just they’d be too afraid to say anything and get canceled

From the replies:

It sounds to me like you have a male gender identity and a feminine gender expression

Stereotypes. This person means feminine gender stereotypes.

in some queer communities there is an odd pressure on non-gender-conforming people to come out as trans

I wonder why that could be…it’s certainly nothing to do with being an inherently conservative ideology that ultimately reinforces patriarchy, right?

I'm afab and usually just identify as a woman, but it's because I hang out in leftist, coastal cities where there's tons of queer folks and "woman" feels expansive enough to encompass my identity and life experiences. But put me in a smaller town with cishet normie values and then I definitely feel I exist outside of that binary, would feel weird and out of place in groups of all women, and therefore I am (at least contextually) non-binary

This person is SO close to getting it

I found a term that really suites me that I think you should look into: demigirl […] I can’t “perform” being a woman “correctly” - I experience gender dysphoria when forced to do highly feminine things but it’s just because I can’t do “woman” in the way that society wants me to. But I don’t have to. I can perform being a woman however I want […] Because gender is fake.

Gender is fake, she says, then goes ahead and gives herself a fake gender. Because again, not fitting society’s expectations of women is a you problem and definitely not a society problem!

How do these people not hear themselves and how horrendously regressive they are. How do a bunch of 40something “progressives” eat up the gender crap without stopping for one second to think critically about it. Oh my god.

Bonus Metafilter Shaming!

Hysterical wall of text from someone feeling extremely stressed about “welcoming a TERF into my life”:

[khayoszz]

Oh- hold on. here ! *Shoves a Trans Crowley in your face* Happy pride 🏳️‍⚧️

[punnyb]

[mooseglue]

HAPPY DAY OF TRANS VISIBILITY I SEE YOU ALL AND KISS YOU ON THE FOREHEAD

[maccamania]

The first game I started useing my preferred name in

[tiffanydenisestinnett]

I was. Well what about you, sissy

[crazygnomenclature]

Ah yes, the battle of the bulge.

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[tampire]

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[fru1typunch]

I was told to share my TikTok on respecting each other's Good Omens headcanons here on Tumblr so HERE;

now can we all just shut up and hold hands or something (since aziracrow can't anymore)

[vavoom-sorted-art]

Happy trans day of visibility!

All the love and support goes out to my trans and NB friends out there!

[waitineedaname]

bingqiu is like. they think one of them needs to be the wife in the relationship. but then both of them independently decide that they're the wife.

[justme271]

Tell me one thing you would love to do if I'm there with you

[khayoszz]

Why not have a gentle care for once?

[edbydraws]

And there's a bonus

[trannyposting]

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