#tranny boi

[procrastiel]

hey man,

i just thought i'd fan the flames by announcing that it's just THREE MORE SLEEP YK(tm) till you see mr. sheen in real life :D

I’m sorry, did you say something? I couldn’t hear you over the sound oF MY ANXIETY

[procrastiel]

“Ta gueule” 🤣🤣🤣 what a rebuttal (means: fuck off, not whatever is in the subtitles)

This meme is inescapable on French insta so I'm posting it here for all to enjoy

[procrastiel]

y’all talking about feral Aziraphale with a beard, but have you considered

[procrastiel]

Hey peeps I’m going to London over the weekend (don’t worry, my house will still be occupied) any recommendations on restaurants or places to visit? Hit me up.

[procrastiel]

I am a test subject and can confirm this

There's a lot of discourse about what the label "bisexual" really means so I'd like to clarify that "bisexual" means that it occurs twice per sexual, NOT once every other sexual.

[procrastiel]

can I just say that I think we started to obsess a bit too much about trying to grasp and define our experiences and put them into words, and now we ended up with things like “aro-demi non-binary he/they lesbian” when really life is always changing and cannot be defined?

Like, maybe if we just accepted that the lines get more blurred the closer you look, and stopped putting so much emphasis on trying to find the lines; if we let go of that obsession to define and label things, maybe we would be able to live in the moment more, and enjoy life for what it has to offer, and have more energy available to help our fellow humans, because at the end of the day that’s all that matters?

[manicmoonworld]

get to look this cute just going out day drunk and doing photography?? ok?!

[miranoirart]

I have had a month full of hard work. Abstinence and weekends without parties and fun. And even some of that weight went down. But the pre-Christmas rush is starting, so it will be difficult to maintain the established trend. 😎

That's why only one photo today. Things haven't been very lively here lately. It won't be for presents if I don't stir it up a bit. So help me a little. After all, it's not a completely bad deal.

What do you think..? 🤭

[vile-violence]

Been feeling extra boyish lately but in the emo boys kissing kinna way.

[procrastiel]

Dave Chappelle put it very eloquently: "[he picked up the phone and called the police.] Gay people are minorities, until they need to be white again. A black gay person would have never done that to me. Because a black gay person knows when the police shows up they're not gonna care who called them."

Here's the audio (starts at 2:15 mins)

i dont think whites understand how being white makes literally everything easier.

it effects everything.

being trans is easier when youre white.

being gay is easier when youre white.

being disabled is easier when youre white.

being a woman is easier when youre white.

being autistic is easier when youre white.

oppression is eased when you are white, as you get extra privileges, and your whiteness is seen as a positive characteristic that in some ways counter-balances your other forms of being a minority. whiteness controls everything.

you are automatically way more innocent in your own oppression as a gay, trans, disabled person because of your whiteness.

never forget this.

[angel---eater]

i truly have no tolerance for this fandom shittin on random fans personal trans headcanons. someone saw themselves and their experience in this character, isnt that beautiful? why dont you mind your business and focus on your own fan stuff? wouldnt that make you happier? someones headcanon doesnt negate yours. what the fuck is wrong with yall. its playing make believe x2. its just a headcanon. real life trans folks are in active danger right now and some of yall are wasting all your energy abusing others over which pronoun set figments of someone elses imagination 'should' be using

[procrastiel]

I want this on my tombstone but it’s too long dammit

ronda slater, what I need is: a contemplation of bisexuality, from bi any other name: bisexual people speak out, edited by Lorraine Hutchins and Lani Kaahumanu, 1991

[princessjessika03]

who can fill me now? xx oo

[genderqueercultureis]

genderqueer culture is finding pronouns that you like and feel good with but then doubt if you can actually use them for yourself or if they're assigned for other people

June 18, 2024.

[procrastiel]

call me old-fashioned, but I want my smutty AO3 fanfic to be realistic. I'm out here performing field studies in the name of art

[procrastiel]

frankly my dear, I don't give a damn what you call me, I know who I am and I will refer to myself in whichever way I choose. I am perfectly comfortable with myself and others using ftm to describe me.

If you need to wear a sign or shirt that tells me all the words I shouldn't use to address you, do you understand that this makes me think you

a) haven't figured out who the fuck you actually are

b) get offended easily and won't be a good friend to me if I don't agree with everything you say and

c) are selfishly dragging me into your dysfunctional world where I now need to walk around on eggshells to appease you?

Let's flip this around: would you want to be friends with someone who is doing all of that? You'd probably be the first to call them 'toxic' and their behaviour 'gaslighting'

don't use "ftm" it's outdated and offensive. it implies that the trans person was their agab, which we never were. i was always a boy, never a girl who became a boy.

i'm 35 years old. i've been IDing as trans or something similar to trans for nearly 20 years. i was probably calling myself FTM while you were playing tag during recess, anon.

i WAS a girl. i IDed as a girl early in my life. i recognized myself as a girl, called myself a girl, lived as a girl, and was a girl. who then IDed as a man. hence, F t M.

spend more time worrying about yourself instead of strangers on the internet, anon.

sorry not sorry if this comes off as needlessly hostile, but i've been getting a lot of shit from a lot of teenage trans kids about the language i use to describe my own goddamn experience, and i'm growing real fuckin weary of it.

i have elder trans friends who call themselves transsexuals and transvestites and trannies. are you going to seriously go to a 60-year-old trans person who survived the reagan years and tell her she's not allowed to use certain language to describe herself because it might offend the delicate sensibilities of some teenager on the internet?

do yourself a favor and log off, find some real-life trans people who are over the age of 20 or 25, and spend time talking to them instead of getting all holier-than-thou at random strangers on tumblr.