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my experience w certain tumblr users on here is that if someone is acting too uwu wholesome + constantly love bombing is most likely a piece of shit behind the scenes
#t#I got burned by these people too many times#most of them turned out to be bullies#they hide behind this cute tooth rottingly sweet persona#if I see acting someone like that I start getting bad vibes#this isn't abt any mutuals btw#saw that a certain bully is active in the ME fandom again and it's just. yeesh.
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my love language is getting into things that other people like . sort of . sometimes .
#➳ the fool speaks#with that being said Watch Out there's like 3 things that have been floating in my brain and i know Nothing about any of them#except one like . terrifies me to get into because What The Fuck Do You Mean There's War Crimes . and the other is#idk gay people murder . questionmarkj . and that a lot of people around me are insane about it#umm the one i didn'tm ention is bc i genuinely know nothing abt it nawt a single thing#at least one of these is obvious#i think#NO GUARANTEES BTW UM . NONE . ZERO . THIS ISN'T A PROMISE IT'S ME EXPERIENCING TEMPTATION#but if you're my mutual you most likely know and maybe are insane about at least one of these
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Anygays random Ghost sketch for tonight <3
First time drawing him well so CoD community pls go easy on me I promise I'm trying </3
#call of duty#ghost mw2#simon ghost riley#cod mwii#cod mw2#cod#HOLY SHIT FOX POSTING SOMETHING THAT ISN'T POSTAL?! 🤯#anygays srry Postal mutuals the CoD obsession is coming back </3#i'll still post abt Postal but also expect me to either post my attempts at CoD art or mindless ranting or writing#btw CoD community whoever actually interacts with this if u have any tips then lemme know so i can get better ❤
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CW for incest mention incase you're uncomfy with it btw:
Hey I saw one of your reblogs from another blog on a post abt incest and the generalization/desensitisation of it online, looked through your blog on similar topics and I just wanted to say thank you thank you thank you because your posts+reblogs on the topic put into words what I've been feeling for a long time now.
I genuinely hate fandom spaces so much. One of my primary fandoms (not pjo) for an anime I like alot is just an actual nightmare to interact with every time because it's full of proshippers and I feel so helpless bc i want to post my art and media of it on my art account, I want to interact with others who like the show, I want to talk to ppl who like my fav character and hyperfixation!! But you can barely trust anyone in the fandom because it's so normal to ship or tolerate incest that people will genuinely get angry if you even express disdain towards a common incestuous pairing in the fandom, much less state that you don't want to be anywhere near proshippers. Even if I find someone who doesn't support that pairing, they still actively interact with and are mutuals with those who DO. I have like no actual friends and interaction in this fandom because i actively despise incest and proshippers and refuse to interact w people who do
This is actually the last straw for me bc one of my fav mutuals on there and like one of the few ppl I got close to when i started using Tumblr for that fandom, I went thru their blog today and turns out they're a fucking proshipper this whole time and I never knew, they reblogged posts that defend proshippers. I'm so done man, I want to expand my art blog and talk to people but it makes me sick that my art for this fandom could be consumed by people who look at actual incest and think fiction doesn't affect reality when they already dumbed down an incredibly abusive dynamic to uwu twincest. It feels so gross, like I end up feeling like I'm somehow supporting this by staying in the fandom and making art.
I genuinely wonder how you stay in Tumblr fandom spaces without going insane when majority of them on Tumblr (esp what I've experienced from the Pjo fandom too) are full of toxic disgusting people who don't know if they said anything they said online to a normal person irl they'd get decked so fast. /gen
So so sorry if this ask comes off as vent-like, i just ended up rambling since this whole situation is so exhausting. You don't have to respond to this at all if you don't want to, but it would be nice to hear your thoughts too. Ty again :)
Hey Venna!!!!Like i said in my ask to you while on post limit,don't dw,my inbox is always open for fandom vents and i'm so glad i could provide a safe space for you where you wouldn't feel bad for having a backbone and taste!!!
And since you said you wanted to hear my thoughts,i completely agree with you and objectively you're right!!Being grossed out by incest is the behavior of a good person and the normalization of incest and the following pedophillia is a bi-product of terminally online gayness-Incest as a positively potrayed story element is a white supremacy thing as a reflection of it's irl status as also a white supremacy thing,both between white families and forced onto families of color by colonizers!When incest isn't a racist thing,it's either 1.Eugenics specifically('keeping it in the family' is a version of it),2.Ageism via 'punishing kids' or 3.A misogyny thing,see ancient greece since you mentioned Pjo!Pedestary only exists because ancient greek men were so misogynistic they'd rather be pedophiles than be with women,not out of any actual gay attraction,and Percy x gods shippers can look it up if you don't believe me.Note that 'purity culture' as they love to harp on actually means 'normalizing sa as a positive thing for palpability to men and forcing young girls to surpress their sexualities to make it easier for them' and by extension 'puritan' refers to 'highup self-righteous bigot who loves the fabled dark/questionable dynamics/content' so take that as you will,from an afropunk autistic trans person with bptsd
And the way i stay in fandoms is to be with my mutuals who also know this and have the same stances as me on this i.e insta-blocking with zero tolerance for proshitting.If you're interested and want a reason to stay,i can rec you their blogs and they can support your content to encourage your creativity as you deserve as all good people who're artists do and we're all tired of the Pjo proshitter gangs too as we roast them often and we do a lot of positive posting both in our Pjo writings/appreciation and other interests so who knows,you may even become friends with them too!!
#venna2000#pjo#incest cw#pedophillia cw#child molestation cw#grooming cw#percy jackson#anti percy x gods#anti luke castellan#antilukercy#black percy#latino percy#autistic percy jackson#punk!percy#antiproship#whitewashing#askies
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if u don't mind... could you tell us more about the isagi arranged marriage brainrot
LOOK. I HAVE A VISION ABOUT IT U HAVE TO HEAR ME OUT
im thinking about isagi who is coming out of a long term relationship. a failed one where things go really bad rlly fast towards the end and he's still in his sopping wet era. when his parents are like hey. do u rmb that kid who u used to be friends with and then moved away and u were sad? well theyre back in japan and they want to see u. and btw shes single. and you're both like mid/late 20's and isagi isn't looking for anything
BUT hes so torn up about his break up and when your parents bring it up to the both of you hes like. you know what. fine. okay. it cant get any worse.
you're also in a similar boat!!!! youre jaded about a long term unrequited crush so you agree to get married. and you start living together and the both of you come to a mutual agreement to just give each other support as partners. you've basically given up on love completely and isagi is the same which is why it works.
BUT IT WORKS TOO WELL!!!!!!!!
isagi is transparent with the fact that he can't give u himself right away. but you want to get along w him so you're very kind to each other.
and slowly but surely isagi starts to really fall in love with you. and he realizes that its the first time he's ever felt so strongly about a person just because of their characters. he falls in love w how supportive and calm and loving you are and its a HUGEEE source of stress bc he hadnt planned on it. and it ends up being this whole ordeal where he is so in love w u and he doesn't know if he can even tell you !!!!!!!!! HE KNOWS U FEEL SOME WAY ABT LOVE
AND HYPOCRITICALLY HES SO JEALOUS OF THE GUY YOU USED TO BE INTO SO HE'S JUST ALL IN PIECES!!!!!!
its so distinct in my mind anon its driving me insane.... this like mutual agreement of two broken hearted people...SECOND CHANCE LOVE AND PINING ISAGI...... LIKE AAAAAAAA
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Daemon is ultimately right. Thing is we know how the story plays out so he can’t possibly know the true consequences of his actions. But in sending B&C, he actually caused several things to happen that weakened the Greens. In this episode alone, the assassination led to Aegon pissing off the smallfolk for inflicting collective punishment, making a lunatic his chief advisor and dismissing Otto who was definitely making smart plays for the most part.
I mean, I think that you could have done something with the death of Aemond, the primary target of that plan? And what exactly was he right about, that violence against the greens was necessary? Because with his characterization of seemingly being more loyal to/prioritizing Viserys than Rhaenyra or seeking Viserys' approval over his own family's safety as the show changed from the original really redefines the lines here. Now Rhaenyra has a real reason to believe he isn't as dedicated or trustworthy, apart from how she believed he was so back in S1 E7.
You could argue that she spent too long apart from him to know the "real" him and just misconstrued his character and that she didn't know the "real" him as a teenager. And you could say that she was right to conclude that he used her against Viserys even in the canon with the brothel moment, that he mostly wanted her for access to the throne and not for her herself. You'd be welcome to that conclusion, esp with how he's written in the show and how we don't have any insight into their life at Dragonstone with their new family that the showrunner also have divided by sending Baela off to Driftmark 🙄. Plus how this Rhaenyra simply is not the same Rhaenyra of canon--proud, little more than a "little" vain, defiant, self-interested, etc., uncaring of others' thoughts of her unless in a practical bent (thus I'm not really mad abt there being an argument at all, but what was argued about and the motivations for thinking as such).
Except that in canon, there's a lot more room to suspect that Daemon wasn't using her as what she claims is to get back his "stolen inheritance" and do whatever he wanted behind her back. Rhaneyra did seem to be emotionally distant or angry with Daemon in canon for a bit, having realized that he used her to get back at Viserys and a little bc Viserys caused Mysaria to miscarry what would have been Daemons first child as well as having otherwise distanced himself from Daemon for Otto's "advice". But after Daemon has his family with Laena, Rhaenyra and Laena become friends, Rhaenyra sees Daemon in this new role....they reconcile. There's really little room to say Rhaenyra still didn't think him trustworthy as to allow him to be her husband and allow him around her first 3 kids, which makes show!Rhaenyra a little...not smart.
btw, some of these conclusions abt how bk!Rhaenyra and Daemon were distant and reconciled I was out on by a mutual on Twitter, who pulled some details I missed:
Like his idea of them being "peak" Targs is correct and true to character, but it's a lot more complicated and more...realistically(?) emotional here than in the show.
#daemon 's characterization#asoiaf asks to me#blood and cheese#hotd s2 epi2#hotd s2 epi1#daemyra#asoiaf shipping#canon shipping#hotd ships#shipping#hotd writing#hotd critical#hotd comment#book vs tv comparison#hotd#asoiaf
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@idlenight + @autumnfangirler FUN FACT !!! we made that post........... and then immediately had to go run around for a few hours BUT OKAY. we're back and ready to talk abt our guys
(teenage girl talking abt her celebrity crush at a sleepover voice) okay so honestly the main one on our mind rn is melrose (no last name) (I don't remember if other important characters who are human have one) (we'll make one up later if we need to I guess) who is from the incubus series by sonnet009games (rated 18+ for explicit + unavoidable sexual content !!) who we can't stop thinking abt bc we're OBSESSED w the progression that's going on w their incubus situationship (who btw only started being a hookup w melrose as his "last resort" to avoid starving to death ??? but like.... Things Are Progressing fr.....) (last ep they both actually almost died like. For Realsies. like it was Dire !!!! and then flea ?? helped bandage their wounds ?? and didn't want to feed off them to heal his own bc he was worried abt how injured they were ??? hello ???? I am Throwing Up !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) and there's also the complication that melrose is totally in love with another guy ted (who doesn't feel the same as far as we know and is happily married) and flea fucking Got On Their Case abt it and called them pathetic but then when ted showed up at the end of the last ep flea gets mad if u don't introduce him and tells ted that he's "kind of a fixture around here these days" like are you JEALOUS ??????? shut up !!!!!!!
and then there's our "preacher" cassidy who is our mc for larkin (by larkingame obvs) bc we've been talking abt them a lot w cryptid after finding out that she also plays who btw their entire fucking thing is being a vampire hunter ??? who was raised in a cult of vampire hunters ??? and also now is fucking. pretending to be a preacher to lay low from The single biggest name in vampire hunting (the guild that basically runs the entire thing) ???? which is !!! insane !!! and we've been totally haunted abt who could have possibly put the bounty out for cassidy + wyatt (their father figure who is the son of the literal leader of the cult that raised them) (it's literally 10k for preacher alive !!!!!! and 5k if dead which is still a decent amount !!!!! who is paying this !!!!!) but also abt the fact that we're So super impatient to see what becomes of them and ace (their ex from california who they literally said they wouldn't be surprised if he put out the bounty bc of what they'd done to him ??? so like. bestie !!! what did u fucking DO !!!!) BUT DOUBLE ALSO we keep thinking abt them being friends w cryptid's girl winona bc they both suck (affectionate) so bad and are the worst cult members (not paying attention during any of the sermons at all) <33
and THEN on top of those two we've also been talking to jules a bunch abt friday (as an extension of talking abt rainn and M from apt502-if) who really isn't anything special besides just being a sweetheart and the love of my life but also we're super stuck on thinking abt their rivalry w mason bc like. literally imagine dating someone in college and being so in love and pursuing the same field (being a teacher) and then you break up (it's mutual! it's fine! you're just not on the same page abt what you want out of life rn!) and you each move back to a different state.... AND THEN. THEY SHOW UP IN THE SAME CITY YOU LIVE IN ??? LITERAL NEW YORK CITY ??? DESPITE THEM VERY MUCH /NOT/ WANTING TO LIVE IN A HUGE SCARY CITY ??? AND OUT OF EVERY SCHOOL IN THE CITY THEY'RE WORKING AT THE ONE /YOU/ WORK AT ??? nah bc like..... on one hand. how fucking dare u. but on the other hand ??? at what point is it fate !!!! esp since they are Newly Single !!!!! also we just decided rn that I think we're gonna make friday be from minnesota bc I really want them to have that stereotypical accent just bc it's cute <3 literally please think of the country mouse and the city mouse. that's how they are w both rainn and mason tbh. but they're gonna be such a good teacher !!!!! u know those kids are picking from a treasure trove of stickers and fidget toys and desk pets when they're being good
besides them we've mostly been trying to pin down names for the endlessly-growing number of kids who don't have them so that we can get them listed and tagged to free up our 680+ drafted posts but . uh. that's. not going great honestly BUT SOME HAVE LAST NAMES NOW...... which is a start (and honestly it's not like most of these games have ever gotten past the initial demo so like Who Cares but also I need to name them........)
also pulp I'm obsessed w u !!!!!!!!! that is so sweet iluuu we literally almost just posted a bunch of facts we made up abt ocs we don't think abt as much out of the blue earlier and then we were like no....... we don't want 2 bug the people....... but like 😏 actually maybe we Will bug the people then
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if u truly like diabolik lovers (according to ur fandom list anyways) then any diabolik lovers ocs that you like and/or love?? and do you have any dl ocs of your own?
OH MY GOD. i have another ask like this. should probably stop procrastinating and answer all 87 of my asks but procrastination is life 😍‼️
btw this list is not in order at all‼️i love you all the same <333
1. helen harrison, aurora, and lae'la by @/nutaella-kookie
laila isn't around on tumblr anymore (deactivated) but i actively stalk all blogs that contain helen posts. she's my favorite oc ever created and i genuinely love and fantasize about her all the timeeee
aurora is the BEST person in the demon world alongside devyn and gilbert. shut up. u don't get to argue because omg i love this woman
and lae'la... she's so objectively wrong but oh my heavens she looks good while she's at it. girlboss, love her.
2. keiichirou seong by @gingerall
okay but i am so in love with this man u do not understand!!! he's written well, he's drawn well, and he's so pretty 😭💞 yes he's a red flag but red is my favorite color so what are you going to do about it huh 🙄🙄
(@gingerall's art SLAYS btw. go check it out. i dare you. rn. )
3. devyn kang by @secretarykang
devyn is so beautiful???? so girlboss???? like, genuinely, this is the rare female oc who's a compelling female character who doesn't need to beat everyone up to be empowering and i just. hhhh ma'am i love u pleaseee
4. maya by @summercreolefanfictioner
BABIE!!! mentally traumatized, but babie!!! i found maya a while back and read her ENTIRE masterlist in one setting. istg i love her, she's so complex (in a good way!!) and deserves the world for putting up with kanato like she does
5. gilbert by @summercreolefanfictioner
SIR??? MY HAND IN MARRIAGE IS HERE??? literally simp over him as a hobby he's too well written and way too handsome for me to not do that okay??? and also he didn't need to die miss summer he deserves a happy ending with devyn!!!
6. cyra by @mariicake
is she single??? because i am (/j)
okay but like come on. this woman is so. wjsjd she makes me feel things she's so pretty and she slays literally every interaction with those mentally ill vampires and whatever else cooks in the dl abyss
7. asa, akemi and amaya by @crookedherringcolorclodthe2nd
(i'm unable to tag your original blog, my apologies!!)
my go to ocs if i need to laugh??? these girls. i absolutely adore their dynamic and the way they're written, a definite 10/10 for character building
8. malorie by @whitechocolatemochaasblog
MALORIE IS THE PRETTIEST NAME EVER OMG. also i just love how cute she is???? she's so baby, i love her with my whole entire heart and soul
9. makoto by @kirua9
poor girl </3 she just wants some love 😭 come here makoto i can treat u better than he ever could‼️
she's so hurt that it makes my heart ache
as for whether i have my own dl ocs... i have my own ocs, but not dl ones!! i'm considering putting my ocs in dl but i'll probably do it after i've organized this blog a little bit, you know???
currently, the ocs that are out are xander, raymond, roselyn, and caelia, and i'm working on emma (that's her old moodboard) rn <333 seven of my ocs have moodboards but i hated the mbs so i obviously had to remake them all; currently four have been remade, fifth is abt to be done‼️
lots of my mutuals have ocs but none of them are dl, so they weren't mentioned here. they slay nonetheless!!!
...and i've rambled way, way too much again, bye bye 😍
#꒰ ᜊ ꒱ — wood sorrel.#god i love ocs.#i love all these blogs do check them out!!!#diabolik lovers#diabolik lovers oc#dl oc#why do i use so many exclamation marks ew#i hate myself#/j but not.#<3#「 — devyn. 」#「 — helen. 」#「 — aurora. 」#「 — lae'la. 」#「 — keiichirou. 」#「 — maya. 」#「 — gilbert. 」#「 — cyra. 」#「 — malorie. 」#「 — asa. 」#「 — akemi. 」#「 — amaya. 」#「 — makoto. 」#ew wtf are these tags#dear oc creators im sorry for these ugly asf tags#okay i'm going to bed now#goodnight <3
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do you have any total drama (2023) season 2 predictions?
thanks for the ask, anon!
these are all based on the four episodes I've watched and the stuff I've seen circulating tumblr abt the season!
imma split this up to make things easier for everyone-
hopes:
goddammit I need more axel and nichelle screentime pls and tyvm--tumblr has got me shipping them and I can't get out of that hole
but seriously, I hope now that they learned from the mistakes they'd made this season, next season they get far--preferably post-merge
popular take but: CAN CHEMMA FUCKING BREAK UP IN S2?? like emma realizing all this isn't worth it and splitting it off with chase (or, for whatever reason, the other way around--only bc I've seen posts speculating on that happening lmao, or they mutually split it, or what-fucking-ever. I literally do not care how they split or who's the initiator, I just want them split!)
I need more of MK!! I heard she gets booted pretty early :( but I'm hoping in s2, she's back and better than ever!
this is smth I haven't seen a lot when it comes to asks like this, but some solid ripper characterization would be neat--without the fart jokes, might I add. like I saw this post talking abt ripper realizing that his "manly disposition" isn't getting him anywhere and he gets close to certain ppl in the show and have to move past his previous beliefs and embrace his inner soft side that he's repressed.
no but seriously, I don't rlly like ripper all that much rn, so this happening in s2 would be rlly cool to his character!
bisexual emma pls??? and possibly bisexual chase??? idk if fresh will make that happen but a girl can hope, ig lmao
bowie and emma repairing their friendship-
idk I like the idea of a bowie and caleb rivalry bc bowie got caleb voted off, so maybe caleb feels some resentment for that and wants to get even in s2?? and ofc since it's bowie, he's not gonna take that lying down-
need more millie & priya friendship fr
I’ve heard that damien and priya have cute interactions so I hope they get more time to grow??? not strictly as a ship btw but I wouldn’t be opposed to that (my multishipping ass trying to find middle ground here lmao)
I need more damien and scary girl interactions, those two were hilarious
predictions:
I know most of these are my hopes rather than predictions, but what I will say is that there will def be more raj and bowie moments. like that's a no-brainer, Fresh would be pretty dumb not to have that happen
this is more of a combo of a hope and a prediction, but more multi-dimensional characterizations of scary girl, caleb, nichelle, damien, and axel?? none of them got enough screentime to add more to their characters so I'm betting s2 will focus on them...hopefully
chemma breakup--there's no way that ship can be fixed lmao, they're better off not together and--if fresh rlly wants it--with other ppl
bowie's prob gonna make it post-merge but not to the final two again. idk abt priya but I'm hoping it's the same for her too bc I love both of them sm-
I've seen discussions of a potential 'wayne and raj separate teams' arc, and while that would be crushing, I feel like that could happen?? it'd certainly bring forth some sort of tension/drama
these are all that I can think of. maybe once I finish watching the season, I can give a more lengthy list!
#answered#anonymous#kit speaks#noahtally famous#kit stuff#total drama spoilers#total drama 2023#total drama revival season#total drama
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jasonnie lives in my head rent free now 😔 /pos. i was also wondering abt your thoughts on autistic donnie? as an autistic person i love me some good rep so im constantly brain thoughts on how jase would handle donnies meltdowns or overstimulation. the idea of them having parallel play time with each other owns my whole heart ❤ but yeah just curious on what you guys think of it. love the fics btw! I've read all of it so far and i really like them 🤠
Hello, Fox here! Sorry it took so long to answer this ask! I've been busy as hell, LMAO. But, hey! I'm glad you could join the bandwagon of Jasonnie enjoyers and enablers! There are a lot more of us than I realized, haha! Also, thank you for enjoying our fics! Even though we're not on the Jasonnie fixation as of late, it's always really fun to hear everyone else enjoying these dorks!
As for your question: Personally, I adore the Autistic!Donnie Headcanon and write him autistic in all my stories, intentional or not! Parallel play is definitely something they both just clicked on without having to say a word throughout the entirety of their relationship.
In our fics, Jason grew up in a household that disregarded his existence in nearly every sense of the word. So, after they get along and spend most of their time together? Jason enjoys it when they're doing their own things, sharing space since it's so similar to what he's used to while also being everything he's never given freely. Jason's used to blending into the background and not disturbing those around him. But with Donnie, he actually gets to share the space, to co-exist with him without fear that he's being too much or doing too little. There's no need to overanalyze and second-guess things.
Donnie's family has definitely existed in spaces together, especially when Donnie is working. But there's a significant difference between your siblings trying to help out, asking what you're doing, and getting you to build something for them, and when a kid simply blends into the space like nothing has changed. It's not like his family is constantly obnoxious, but brothers can sometimes be like that. Plus, Jason's smart, he shares the same level of knowledge with Donnie even if it isn't in the same subjects or skills, but he still blends in with Donnie's world instead of sticking out against it like his family does, if that makes sense?
It's like a mix of comforts and mutual unsaid understandings between them. They know how this shared space goes, and they both enjoy how the other exists naturally, so it's like a safe little bubble that they can get wrapped up in sometimes.
I would probably have more Jason and Autistic!Donnie Headcanons to share, but honestly, most of my Autistic!Donnie Headcanons are for my other fic series, and I have yet to think about these boys through that lens in a hot minute! (Any Autistic!Donnie-related Jasonnie ideas that are floating in my head are from the amazing people on the Jasonnie Discord Server and not my own.)
But a scene I think about a lot is Donnie and Jason cooking together. The two of them bond over their Asian Cultures, sharing their foods with each other, especially modified ones, to ensure the taste and texture doesn't disturb or overstimulate Donnie.
Also! Jason knowing his meltdown routine after a year of them being together is definitely something that delights me to no end. Knowing that when you're in that place and know you have someone you can trust to know exactly what you need and always try and follow that for you no matter how worried or hurt they may be in that moment? Because your health comes first, and they understand that? That everything that may have happened before can always be dealt with later? Fucking masterful; it means everything to me.
I do have to apologize, dear anon, for the more vague Headcanons, though? As I said before, it's been a moment since I truly obsessed over these two, but I hope I answered your question? If you have more, I'm more than happy to ramble about them and talk about them! <3
#fox speaks#rottmnt#rottmnt jason#it's unfair rottmnt#rise jason#rottmnt it's unfair#jasonnie#rise donnie#rottmnt donnie#it's unfair#ask#ask response#thanks for the ask!#autistic donnie#autistic donatello
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hi! i'm the person who sent the first 'active choice' anon but i actually didn't send the second one (though i do agree with that person completely - i think it would show huge character growth for mike to actively decide to be with will). i also sent you this ask abt the monologue a few days ago btw!!
i just wanted to say that the ask reminded me of a lot of gay!mike talking points about el which say something about how mike actively choosing will over el would insinuate that there's something inherently unlovable about el and i....really do not vibe with that take.
(i don't have a problem with gay!mike, i just feel like this one specific idea is kind of a shitty thing to say and is a tad misogynistic)
imo mike and el breaking up and mike choosing to be with will does not mean that el isn't lovable or that there's something 'wrong' with her as a person, it just means that she and mike are not compatible as a couple, and this is true on both ends - mike is not a good bf to her and el isn't a good gf to him. neither one of them is a bad person, they just don't work romantically (similar to jncy/stncy where steve is a fantastic guy but not the right fit for nancy at all).
also, for someone like el who is still figuring out her identity as a person, breaking up with someone at 14 is not the end of the world, especially since the narrative seems to imply that independence is what she needs and where she's headed in the future. in fact, i think she will be the one to point out that mike isn't loving her the way that she wants to be loved and they will mutually break up once mike finds out the truth about the painting. i don't think there's going to be any real bad blood there bc imo el already accepted that mike doesn't make her feel loved in 4x03. she'll be sad about the breakup ofc, but it's not going to be crushing for her and she'll get to focus on building her platonic relationships with hopper, the byers family, lucas & dustin, max when she wakes up, and (hopefully) mike too.
sorry haha that turned into a ramble but my point is just that bi mike and byler endgame isn't inherently harmful to el, especially if the mlvn breakup takes place before the timeskip and mike and will get together after the timeskip. of course if they go with gay mike, that would be cool too, especially bc of what you said here:
This is because I think the idea of Mike choosing Will doesn't necessarily have to manifest in Mike choosing Will over El, which is what you're talking about here.
this is a good point and i enjoy this interpretation. ig i just prefer what that anon said - i think it makes more narrative sense and would feel more satisfying for both mike and will if mike goes out of his way to want to be with will romantically despite also liking girls. i think it would be a nice full-circle moment for will bc we know that will felt like a mistake for liking boys, so seeing the boy will loves choose to be with him even if he has other options would be a perfect ending.
Omg I even thought to myself.. can I assume this is the same anon? And then I was like mmm yep I think so. And I was WRONG! For shame. So sorry anon. But at least you agree with them that makes me feel better.
Anway.
I realize that a breakup wouldn't be the end of the world for El and that Byler endgame isn't inherently harmful to her. But I do think the breakup is probably gonna suck initially. It might even suck a lot. For a while. That's a real possibility. And I just don't want that. That's all I can really say to that point, this all really just depends on what's going on in El's head, which we don't know either.
I definitely don't think that Mike choosing Will over El insinuates that El is unlovable. I hope I haven't said anything that has come off that way because I don't think that at all. I just think that rejection will always make a person doubt themselves, that's just human nature.
But anyway, let's expand on that thought: Mike choosing Will over El doesn't insinuate that El is unlovable.
By the same token, I don't think that Will should need Mike to choose him to prove to him that he is loveable!
*mic drop*
(Just kidding, I'm gonna ramble more. But that's a good point, no?)
They're all loveable. They're all worthy of love. Full stop. Mike Wheeler's affections don't determine Will or El's worth.
I realize we're talking in the sense of Will simply feeling unworthy and the idea of Mike choosing him alleviating that self doubt. But Will shouldn’t rely on Mike loving him in order to feel worthy of love. Not to say that he shouldn't accept Mike's love, I'm just saying he needs to work on himself as well. (As does Mike! For the same reasons!)
So I'm not in love with the idea that Mike choosing Will gives Will the self worth he needs and therefore that's what makes the most sense narratively. Will shouldn't need Mike. He loves Mike, and that's beautiful. He shouldn't need him, not in a literal sense. It's a flaw just as Mike's need to be needed is a flaw. Both are flaws which are hurting them, and they need to be addressed in ways other than just dating each other. Like. In therapy.
Lastly, as I said, whether Mike is bi or gay, choosing to be with Will is still choosing to be with Will. Which is meaningful. It's very meaningful. I just don't think Will's arc should be relying on that specific sentiment.
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why.
YOU HAVE TO WRITE A SEQUEL NOW and give them a happy ending pleasse/silly
THAT WAS SO GOOD. THE CHARACTERIZATION -THEY'RE ASSHOLES- AND well poor bdubs BUT THEY STILL LOVE EACH OTHER. is it wrong if i hope impulse is feeling as dejected (inside at least he seems very happy in your fic LOL. but etho seems happy and he isnt so my delusion lives) as joel for some impdubs angst too.
WAIT did joel dump him? but he's not a very jealous type, BUT also if the resentment had built up. BUT again, he wouldn't give up any affection he gets, even if it isn't healthy-so etho maybe? Can't imagine it was mutual. OH i hope etho didn't break up with him that makes all of this even worse.
ok but what happens after though? surely etho tells bdubs-i mean unless he's going to hide it or pretend joel is a clingy ex. oh that would hurt.
this is about your recent fic btw i realize i've been screaming without context
-your biggest fan
HEHHEHEH HI FRIEND!!!! SO SO HAPPY U ENJOYED!!!
yk what, i wasnt thinking of impulse angst while writing this but we can make it happen. in my mind, impulse hasnt really noticed he might like bdubs... until suddenly he sees him with etho and uh oh whats this awful feeling??? >:3
tbh i didnt mean to imply TOO hard that bdubs and etho were actually Together together. joel only perceives it that way bc well,, jealousy and bitterness LOL. in my mind bdubs was kinda trying to comfort etho and etho kinda clung onto that due to being lonely. seeing joel is sort of a turning point for bdubs where he realizes that being this close actually does more harm than good for etho. and hey... who better to pick up the pieces of THAT mess than impulse!!!
in my mind their breakup was mutual, but in a very explosive kind of way. they would get into a lot of fights and eventually one of them snapped and said they should break it off, and the other agreed. of course, they didnt realize how good they BOTH had it until after the breakup. their main problem imo (along with the bdubs thing) would be etho being too shut off and joel picking fights about it all the time... nothing communication cant fix though right??? right????
as for what happens after.... i mean hey. who knows. surely not the person who wrote it, right??? LMAO but in all seriousness, they probably both need to work on it alone before thinking of being together again. very much a right person, wrong time kinda situation. if i DID write a sequel (and honestly i might!!) itd probably be more focused on that.... hopefully with a happy ending :3
but really, thank you so so much for this ask, you are so kind <3 i appreciate it so much. always a delight for me to talk abt my fics, and even more so to see that ppl enjoyed them so much!!! i love you and have a lovely day my biggest fan <3333
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just saw someone post that olivia hye’s name is pronounced olbia hyou in korean but like the spelling of her name in korean is 올리비아혜 it literally is romanized as ollibia hye what exactly is the point of posting something so blatantly incorrect ??????/
#this isn't abt any mutuals btw#01#i'm just like???? if you?? don't know the korean alphabet well??? don't make posts abt it??????????#and one of the tags is i suggest you all the korean alphabet like....i suggest you learn the korean alphabet sit down#someone's gonna come along and @ them like.......in what world is it olbia hyou
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it’s really pathetic when someone calls you out on your shit and you react like it’s the end of the world instead of,,,,idk,,,,, realizing your mistakes, apologizing, and bettering yourself
#like! you're being guilt-trippy and toxic! stop goin' to self-destruct mode and just recognize your flaws! it's just........so gross lmao#speech.exe#ok2rb#this isn't abt any mutuals btw
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ughhh i hate cis gays why do u act like as soon as same sex marriage is legal then all lgbt people got rights and everything's okay. u literally dont care abt trans ppl in any kind of way omgggg
#like i truly want more gay friends irl but so many of them are transphobic and like. im so fed up#idk if this is just how it is here but truly there is such a gap between hiw ppl perceive cis gays and trans ppl here#its not like homophobia is not present but like and its well trendy to be gay. ig idk ughhh#like idk being bi is very important to me but it necer was like. something that i rly had to hide from others and i dont even have to do#like a coming out to most ppl anymore i'll just mention it in a conversation and it will be fine#but being trans is something that im so scared to share and it's so annoying bc i knoow even cis gays (WHO ARE LITERALLY IN THE SAME#COMMUNITY AS ME) will still treat me like im so much different than them#like again maybe it's just this way where i live but sometimes it truly does feel like some cis gays think they're closer to cishets than to#trans ppl#this isn't abt any mutual btw this is abt irl stuff#dnrb but if u want to talk abt it i dont mind lol#jon.txt
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