#this isn’t about anyone in particular

[hils79]

“It’s just fan service!”

And? If two attractive men want to pretend to be into each other to make people happy I say we let them. God knows we need a bit more happiness in this world that’s on fire.

[inlovewithdob]

How do people have online friendships that last?! Like am I the only one who we talk, they have to leave and then we never speak again! Like they only last a couple hours, am I doing something wrong😭?!

[kazanskys-mitchell]

imagine straight up insulting someone’s writing, as if they didn’t put work and effort into it. not to mention they DIDN’T HAVE TO WRITE IT and they didn’t write it for you. if you don’t like someone’s writing, don’t read it??? why is that so hard to do???

if i see anyone else on here insulting someone’s art, whether it be writing, drawing, etc, i will become violent and make it everyone’s problem

[enbyfrogz]

PSA:

being muscly does not automatically make someone a badass tough person,

being skinny does not automatically make someone a “helpless uwu softie”,

and for the love of god, being fat does not automatically make someone soft and cuddly, OR bitchy and rude.

ALSO

being weak ≠ super skinny

being strong ≠ ripped

anyone of any strength can have pretty much any body type, and ANYONE can have ANY personality, and there’s nothing wrong with being any of them (especially fat yall!!!!)

that’s it post over

[kenslilove]

tracing the lines n wrinkles n nails on a really beeg hand before falling asleep…. Slipping a finger or two in your mouf as you doze… :((

[xo-summer-tyme-xo]

To my future wife

I’m sorry I can’t give you my whole heart.

See, I gave a piece to my parents,

And they squeezed it a bit too tight.

I gave a slice to all my friends,

They took them when they said goodbye.

I gave a bite to my lovers before you,

It soured when they let it sit.

I need to keep half for myself,

I can’t feel your love without it.

So. I’m sorry I can’t give you more.

I just didn’t want to give you something

I’d already used before.

-JA

9/3/2022

[ariacherie]

It is, quite literally, so sexist that he isn’t holding me in his big arms right now. My face buried against his chest, every heartbeat rhythm to my ears. Me running my fingers through his hair gently and him laying a forehead kiss against my temple. Literally so sexist.

[proudfreakmetarusonikku]

hate when a youtuber does something bad and someone is like “how did you forget about x controversy it was obvious all along youre just a bad person too!” like yeah sure I should look up random gaming youtuber wibblywobble or whatever to find out the said a slur when he was eleven and then apologised after watching one video and then despite chronic memory issues remember that and then I won’t be surprised at all when he opens up a puppy kicking business. that’s a fair expectation on people.

[weirdcateyes]

You don’t get my goddamn pronouns until I KNOW you won’t assume you know me based on them.

You don’t get to know my labels. Im not ace, am not allo, im not gay and I’m certainly not straight. I am trans, but in the umbrella term way.

If you label yourself, good on you. If you share those labesl, good on you. You know those aspects of yourself and your happy to let other people know. But I’m tired of people knowing me, or assuming things about me because of the labels I gave myself. I don’t know and you don’t get to.

There’s something mortifying to me about someone knowing the type of people I want. Why should they get to know. Why does it matter. It doesn’t matter and I don’t use labels anymore. I’m just Weird. And you don’t get anything else until I think you should. Until it’s relevant.

[unholyhuntress]

There are days when the only thing holding me this earth are you, when I wish to crumble away into nothingness. But then I remember your laugh, your smile, your kiss and feel more solid than I ever have.

Is this love?

[ciderbird]

academic bias is so funny because you’ll be reading about the same historical event and one person is like “Despite the troubles that befell his homeland and near constant criticism of the court King Blorbo remained strong in the face of adversity” and the other one is like “after letting his people carry the brunt of his cringefail decisions Blorbo the Shitface refused to listen to any reason and continued to be a warmongering piece of shit. Also he was ugly.”

[mozart-in-a-gokart]

People nowadays really can’t seem to fathom that their experiences aren’t universal and it really shows in their reactions to things.

[stuffydollband]

Some of the people here talk about the way people will react as if it’s a thing that matters and I hope they learn that that’s not the case some day

[myokk]

WHAT IS UP WITH THE HOGWARTS LEGACY FANDOM?????????????

I am so fucking fed up with this fandom & honestly it makes me lose any desire to post anything here anymore.

So many people here look at EVERYTHING as a damn competition and it’s NOT. It should be a place for people to brainrot together, talk about theories, and enjoy seeing what other people draw and write etc. Have I sometimes felt insecure bc I don’t get as many notes as other people?! Yes of course…but I always focus on the connections and the lovely people I’ve met and like talking to bc that’s why I post in the first place. I didn’t spend 4 months posting my fic to 10 kudos and 1 comment with basically no feedback bc I care about popularity😆😆

I’ve never been part of a fandom before this one but honestly everything feels so immature here, especially lately. Is it NORMAL to send hate to people who interpret the characters differently than you?! Or send hate to people who ship something you don’t like???? Is it NORMAL to start a confessions blog that’s for people to vague post about others & give everyone reading it anxiety??? (And NO, it’s not “leveling the playing field” wtf). Is it NORMAL to be so close minded, that you’re always trying to start shit with other people?!!??

It is SO FUCKING EXHAUSTING & honestly I try my hardest to NOT feed into any negativity and I’ve never posted the hate I’ve gotten because quite frankly, it’s ridiculous.

I genuinely love seeing what all of you post and always try to comment when I have the mental energy, because I love having a sense of community and you’re all very talented.

[magicratfingers]

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