#this isn’t about anyone in particular

[handmadecrybaby]

Eyes closed, head laying on his thigh, slow stroking it while I make out with his balls. I’m self soothing

[addedsugars]

being in a self shipping community generally instead of like a selfship community for a specific fandom is really weird because we’re all talking about the same thing but we’re not. we could talking about our little fictional partners or whatever planning little double dates blah blah blah and then oomf could drop “well it’s sorta complicated after the time vortex” and its like time vortex? your man was in a time vortex? who put your man in a time vortex? is he. is he good or like

[thatmultifandomchick]

This is what every celebrity cheating scandal looks like to me.

[hils79]

“It’s just fan service!”

And? If two attractive men want to pretend to be into each other to make people happy I say we let them. God knows we need a bit more happiness in this world that’s on fire.

[inlovewithdob]

How do people have online friendships that last?! Like am I the only one who we talk, they have to leave and then we never speak again! Like they only last a couple hours, am I doing something wrong😭?!

[kazanskys-mitchell]

imagine straight up insulting someone’s writing, as if they didn’t put work and effort into it. not to mention they DIDN’T HAVE TO WRITE IT and they didn’t write it for you. if you don’t like someone’s writing, don’t read it??? why is that so hard to do???

if i see anyone else on here insulting someone’s art, whether it be writing, drawing, etc, i will become violent and make it everyone’s problem

[kenslilove]

tracing the lines n wrinkles n nails on a really beeg hand before falling asleep…. Slipping a finger or two in your mouf as you doze… :((

[xo-summer-tyme-xo]

To my future wife

I’m sorry I can’t give you my whole heart.

See, I gave a piece to my parents,

And they squeezed it a bit too tight.

I gave a slice to all my friends,

They took them when they said goodbye.

I gave a bite to my lovers before you,

It soured when they let it sit.

I need to keep half for myself,

I can’t feel your love without it.

So. I’m sorry I can’t give you more.

I just didn’t want to give you something

I’d already used before.

-JA

9/3/2022

[unholyhuntress]

There are days when the only thing holding me this earth are you, when I wish to crumble away into nothingness. But then I remember your laugh, your smile, your kiss and feel more solid than I ever have.

Is this love?

[ciderbird]

academic bias is so funny because you’ll be reading about the same historical event and one person is like “Despite the troubles that befell his homeland and near constant criticism of the court King Blorbo remained strong in the face of adversity” and the other one is like “after letting his people carry the brunt of his cringefail decisions Blorbo the Shitface refused to listen to any reason and continued to be a warmongering piece of shit. Also he was ugly.”

[mozart-in-a-gokart]

People nowadays really can’t seem to fathom that their experiences aren’t universal and it really shows in their reactions to things.

[stuffydollband]

Some of the people here talk about the way people will react as if it’s a thing that matters and I hope they learn that that’s not the case some day

[compnion]

i mean this so sincerely babes but what do u mean u can’t get over it. i can get over people i cried about in a day. what do u mEAAANNNNNN it stays for months or years and u just fucking can’t do anything about it??? and it hurts and you’re just like them’s the breaks ?????? i’m serious princess how do u live like that

ppl who romantically fall in love with their friends are so scary i hope they’re not real

[angeldaisies]

i’ll be honest, i don’t always like the way people talk about what happened to james. i feel like people let themselves be tricked by the supernatural element of the bracelet into thinking that this can’t possibly happen in real life, when the truth is that what happened to him after the bracelet was put on and everything he felt once it was over is indicative of real life experiences. sure, no one is ever gonna put a magical bracelet on your wrist that forces you to love them, but the bracelet is merely a metaphor for real feelings that real people experience when they’re in such a situation: feeling stuck and trapped, feeling like they’re forced to do things they wouldn’t do otherwise. these are feelings james himself explicitly talks about multiple times in the text. he feels ashamed, he feels disgusted with himself, he feels weak for not getting out of it sooner, he feels sick at the thought of talking about what he experienced with anyone, including the people he feels safest with. these are all feelings drawn from the experiences of real life survivors. so whenever you’re tempted to make a joke about the bracelet, or to feel frustrated that he ‘wasn’t even the one to tell cordelia the truth about the bracelet’, or even to say that some other male character would have handled the situation better, please remember that this might be a sensitive topic for some people on your dash. james is fictional, so he’ll never be hurt by what you’re saying, but the people reading your posts are real.

[myokk]

WHAT IS UP WITH THE HOGWARTS LEGACY FANDOM?????????????

I am so fucking fed up with this fandom & honestly it makes me lose any desire to post anything here anymore.

So many people here look at EVERYTHING as a damn competition and it’s NOT. It should be a place for people to brainrot together, talk about theories, and enjoy seeing what other people draw and write etc. Have I sometimes felt insecure bc I don’t get as many notes as other people?! Yes of course…but I always focus on the connections and the lovely people I’ve met and like talking to bc that’s why I post in the first place. I didn’t spend 4 months posting my fic to 10 kudos and 1 comment with basically no feedback bc I care about popularity😆😆

I’ve never been part of a fandom before this one but honestly everything feels so immature here, especially lately. Is it NORMAL to send hate to people who interpret the characters differently than you?! Or send hate to people who ship something you don’t like???? Is it NORMAL to start a confessions blog that’s for people to vague post about others & give everyone reading it anxiety??? (And NO, it’s not “leveling the playing field” wtf). Is it NORMAL to be so close minded, that you’re always trying to start shit with other people?!!??

It is SO FUCKING EXHAUSTING & honestly I try my hardest to NOT feed into any negativity and I’ve never posted the hate I’ve gotten because quite frankly, it’s ridiculous.

I genuinely love seeing what all of you post and always try to comment when I have the mental energy, because I love having a sense of community and you’re all very talented.

[magicratfingers]

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