#this is why autism moms piss me off so much too bc they dont actually WANT children they want the popularized experience of children
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listen I am about as pro-abortion as anyone can be, but aborting a baby just because they have Down's Syndrome should be fucking illegal. If you're someone who actively wants and is trying for a child, then you should be mentally, financially, and emotionally willing to provide for that child for the rest of your life if something goes wrong- because that is what being a good parent takes, and many many things can go wrong. Down's Syndrome is not at all close to the worst thing that can happen to a baby, and people with it can grow up to be happy, healthy, content adults- they just need a little bit of extra help and a different approach to raising them. If you just want a 'normal' child so that you can boot them out of your house when they turn 18 and have them around to take care of you when you're older, then you don't actually want children, you want an investment. A doll, not a family member. Not a person.
#the only exception to this would be people who cannot financially provide the aid for a baby with downs syndrom#but even then the government should be giving you money for childcare anyways soooo#context for this: i am a genetics major in a genetics class studying nondisjunction (the thing that leads to down syndrome)#and boy oh boy are some of the opinions im experiencing while studying making me mad!!!!#just. idk i think the reason why i got diagnosed autistic so late was bc my mom did an incredible job accomidating me when little#bc she didn't care that i needed extra help all she cared about was that i was healthy and safe#bc i'm her child#i'm *family*#and that's what you do!! you fucking care for your family!!#(provided they aren't abusive)#this is why autism moms piss me off so much too bc they dont actually WANT children they want the popularized experience of children#they want it easy and they don't see their kids as people. they just learn that they need a little different or extra help#and then bitch about it for all eternally#maam your child isnt sick they dont need a cure they are a PERSON that is a HEALTHY HUMAN BEING WITHIN NORMAL VARIANCE VALUES#TREAT THEM LIKE ONE FOR FUCK'S SAKE
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