#this is from a different 5+1 wherein people find themselves in the unfortunate position of accepting advice from Jamie Tartt

[jamiesfootball]

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Here's a snippet from a project I started before season three aired. Not sure if I'll get back to it but I might:

First time Colin met Jamie was as a starter in the U18s during a Wales v England match. Colin played first string the whole season. Football was something that came easy to him. While he wasn't likely to be the next Gareth Bale or Chris Gunter, and he was shorter than most of his teammates by a head, he was scrappier, hungrier, angrier than anyone else he knew - on the field or off. The coaches were always on him to take it easy or he'd tear something, but it was lip service at best. They kept him on because he was a force of nature: block, cross, shoot, it didn't matter. He couldn't be pigeonholed. He was inconspicuous and could slide pass the bigger players before they realized where the ball had gone; he was a threat. So Colin had walked into that match with England full of teenage vigor, thinking he was hot shit. Then at the 57' mark England took an injury, and Jamie Tartt took the stage. In the next thirty-three minutes, he'd also take Colin's self-esteem and a fucking hat trick. Nothing in his young life had prepared him for the look of intensity on the other boy's eyes as he stampeded down the field like the fucking Tasmanian Devil. He blew past Ellis and Bowen like a tap dancer, and when Colin came to tango, he was helplessly tangled in a series of checks maneuvered like a game of chess. He tripped on his feet. Got up quick with rage in his blood only to get nutmegged, the ball slipping cleanly between his unsteady legs, before Tartt took his first breakaway of the evening. The remainder of the match seared into his brain like a bloodbath. A chip shot in injury time sealed the fucking deal, the ball breezing overt the goalie's fingertips to bury into the net. Colin couldn't even blame his short legs for not keeping up. Him and Tartt were the same height. It was a lesson Colin had put other players through but never learned for himself: that you were only as good as your world was wide. The next time they met Jamie was fresh on loan from Man City. Colin called it: the guy didn't remember him at all.

[juleswolverton-hyde]

Shakespeare in Wonderland: Shakespeare’s Green World in Down the Rabbit Hole

Ho there, good reader,

That is definitely too old-fashioned a greeting, is it not? Regardless, it is perchance quite suitable as a start to this post with an awfully long title. Yet, it is the type of titles students create on the regular to name essays and research papers which are, unfortunately, not always as interesting as analyzing one’s own subject of preference. In truth, of course, there are interesting essays out there although the genre is not pleasing to each individual to write for and read. Notwithstanding, thanks to Michel de Montaigne, students are succumbed to writing within the dreary genre.

Withal, this essay is written of one’s own willing accord for the Shakespeare expert at my university has unconsciously affirmed yours truly might create stories in a more Shakespearean manner than originally thought. Certainly, it is now understood better why some people compare me to the great playwright and also why I identify as a classicist.

This week and the next the discussion is centred around the play As You Like It by William Shakespeare. Shakespeare is known to use the phenomenon known as ‘’the Green World’’, a pastoral setting wherein the problems of the city or court have no influence. The world is often depicted as lush with nature, animals living in harmony, fairytale-like, an idyllic setting wherein one can discover and develop themselves although the progress is often looked back at once the character is about to return to the city or court. This alternative reality is depicted in the play as The Forest of Arden (a mixture between France and England) but there are plenty occurrences of this middle world in Shakespeare’s repertoire. In The Merchant of Venice, there is Belmont serving as the alternative reality to Venice. Furthermore, there is Cyprus (the alternative to Venice in Othello), Bohemia (the reality being Sicily in The Winter’s Tale), Cotswolds and the countryside (as an alternative to Padua in The Taming of the Shrew), the forest outside Athens (Athens being the modern city in A Midsummer Night’s Dream) and Prospero’s Island in The Tempest. In sum, the Green World is the stage to stage an ideal life upon and is oft inspired by real places which have served as its concept.

Unconsciously, this phenomenon has found its way into Down the Rabbit Hole, the tragic-romantic story about The White Rabbit and The Cheshire Cat. Upon a closer look, five locations can be pinpointed as the Green World: ‘’The Bookworm’’, ‘’Golden Hare Books’’ (chapter 5), Seokjin’s mochi cafe (same chapter as well as The Heartbeat of March), the hallway to Cheshire’s apartment (The Heartbeat of March), the apartment itself and the Internet. All these locations have served in the development of characters and relationships among them, not all of them being positive yet progress nonetheless. Moreover, social and educational problems are shut out for Cheshire accepts Jungkook for who he is (or does she?), love blossoms in the caffeinated air filled with jazzy tunes and personal comfort zones are stepped out of. These are the stages upon which the characters feed their own imagination and play their roles.

Their realistic counterparts are the unnamed city, the back of ‘’The Bookworm’’ (The Caterpillar’s Philosophy, (yet to be written thus obscure in reference)) and Jungkook’s apartment, the place where the degree of loneliness and chances of unrequited love dawn on a young mind fallen into perversity. The same sin that Eve has brought into the world by eating from the Tree of Knowledge. Religious imagery, however, is a totally different subject to write on as well as other intertextual allusions like the multitude of references to Plato’s cave allegory and (lyrical) poetry.

The city in Down the Rabbit Hole is inspired by Harlem and Utrecht in The Netherlands alongside Camden Lock in London, the district you are like to find a wee Raven when she visits the metropolitan cyclops that has shaped great names like Charles Dickens, Lord Byron, Shakespeare, Elizabeth Barrett Browning, William Blake and Mary Shelley. Those are the obvious traces although Edinburgh and Dublin might have left their footprints in other literary places like Cork might soon be able to do too. Another example that springs to mind is the hidden role of Bute Park, situated in Cardiff, in the Castle on the Hill Trilogy (part 1). Regardless, the towns and environments used in the tales and especially blatantly so in Down the Rabbit Hole, all stem from real locations visited while travelling or found on Pinterest. They each have served as an initial concept to work with and eventually have come to collaborate with the conversations had with friends and music to create unique realities for the author and reader to enjoy.

Creating new paths to various green worlds.

A new stage to be a mere player on.

[underwoodlawsociety]

“Walk a Mile” Series Article 4: Transit Countries and Future Recommendations

- Jen Kim, Tabitha Kwon, Hayoung Lee

So far, this series has closely examined the laws of major actors in the issues of North Korean defectors—the international society, the People’s Republic of China (hereinafter, China), and the Republic of Korea (hereinafter, ROK)—surrounding their identification and treatments. This final article will take a look at the legislation relating to North Korean defectors in countries that temporarily harbour them in their route in finding a permanent home—which we refer to as transit countries, analyze the complications North Korean defectors face in finding a legally legitimate place in the world comprehensively, and finally provide possible future plans of actions in dealing with these issues.

Roles of Transit Countries

Let’s first follow some common routes of defection and put ourselves in the shoes of NK defectors. North Korean defectors usually take either one of two routes: the Thailand route or the Vietnam route. The Thailand route refers to route from North Korea - China - Thailand - 3rd countries like ROK or the United States, and the Vietnam route refers to the route from North Korea - China - Vietnam - Cambodia - Thailand or directly to ROK or the United States. In the past, China - Mongolia - ROK route has been taken by some defectors but stopped due to political disturbances. Recently, the Thailand route has been rising in popularity due to the political changes and increased crack downs in Vietnam and Cambodia. As of now, Thailand is the only country in Southeast Asia that has not repatriated the defectors.

          Thailand is not a signatory state of the Refugee Convention of 1951. However, Thailand adheres to the non-refoulement principles. North Korean defectors, therefore, are subject to Thai Immigration Law article 11 section 1, under which they are considered illegal immigrants. However, the Thai government does not repatriate them back to North Korea considering the threat of persecution in case of their return and also their ties with the government of ROK. When North Koreans arrive in Thailand, they try to get caught by the Thai police and try to get sent to the illegal immigration detention center where South Korean embassy can assist the defectors to escape to ROK.  Such unofficial cooperation between ROK and Thailand is called “silent diplomacy” regarding North Korean defectors. Thailand’s policy towards North Korean defectors is largely based on their state interest, rather than adherence to the obligation as a member of the international community. The Thai constitution emphasizes sovereignty and national interest while the Ministry of Foreign Affairs suggests that they uphold the international human rights principles. Thai government’s cooperation with the South Korean government and adherence to the non- refoulement principles are influenced by the political ties between the two countries. ROK and Thailand formed diplomatic relations in 1958 along with numerous bilateral agreements since then while Thailand and North Korea formed diplomatic relations in 1975. Moreover Thailand shares democratic ideology with South Korea. South Korea is 5th largest trading partner of Thailand and has economic leverage over Thailand. All in all, Thailand’s political and economic interest allows easier facilitation of the defectors to South Korea. Not much concrete data exists on Vietnam’s treatment of NK defectors, but there are a few things to note. Vietnam is also not a member of the 1951 Refugee Convention and subsequently, does not adhere to the principle of non-refoulement. Up to 2004, Vietnam was cooperative with the South Korean government but since then, has been repatriating the defectors to NK.

          Mongolia and Cambodia are two actors in the defection routes that are greatly sensitive to diplomatic relations in their handling of NK defectors. Mongolia, not a party to the 1951 Convention, still claims to pursue humanitarian policy for refugees. In 2006, it was estimated that about 500 North Koreans were passing through Mongolia each month. In 2003, the then Prime Minister Nambaryn Enkhbayar publicly showed sympathy towards North Korean defectors and stated that it will treat them humanely. However, this became unclear when Mongolia and North Korea formed economic agreements in which many North Koreans were sent to Mongolia as laborers. Nevertheless, the Mongolian-North Korean relations are not independent from the regional and international diplomatic dynamics, for Mongolia is an ally of the U.S. and the recent international sanctions against North Korea resulted in the withdrawal of all laborers from Mongolia back to North Korea in 2018. In many testimonies, the main problem with the route including a transition in Mongolia is not the matter of repatriation, but rather the geographical risks the North Korean refugees face, such as the vast deserts and grasslands. 

Cambodia is, in fact, a member state of the 1951 Refugee Convention and its 1967 Protocol. Thus, it has obligations to forbid forcible repatriation of North Korean asylum seekers whose lives may be threatened when they are sent back to their homeland. However, Cambodia’s response to North Korean refugees greatly varied due to its political stance and ties with North Korea, South Korea, and China. Although Cambodia is one of the five Southeast Asian countries that maintains an embassy in Pyongyang, the bilateral relationship between Cambodia and North Korea fluctuated over time. Today, their relationship changed from a mutually warm one to a more uncertain one which is sensitive to China’s “tacit approval.” In terms of economic ties, that of Cambodia and North Korea are loosened due to the international sanctions while Cambodia is increasingly depending on South Korea for more gains. While it is unguaranteed that North Korean refugees will not be repatriated due to political circumstances, Cambodia tends to show passive responses towards issues regarding North Korean refugees.

The Future for North Korean Defectors

The legal dilemma presented throughout this series demonstrates the need for change in the international system in order to protect the lives of those unable to protect themselves.

The first legalistic step the international society should take in order to start building a protective system wherein NK defectors could safely exist is to unify the international identification of them as refugees sur place. One of the main issues that this series has presented is the fact that various actors discussed all define the defectors differently, thus forcing them into a vulnerable position unprotected by the law. Once a person is given the refugee sur place status, there is a codified and universal way in which they should be treated as outlined in the 1951 Refugee Convention. This in turn provides all parties involved in the defection route a clear cut method of dealing with the NK defectors.

So far, there have been few cases wherein expatriates were granted refugee sur place status, such as a Syrian expatriate who was unable to return to his home country following the Syrian uprising[1], and a white South African man in Canada who claimed he experienced “persecution from African South Africans,”[2] There have been some publicized cases of applications and reviews of making someone a refugee sur place, as with a native of the Democratic Republic of Congo who applied for an asylum claim in Ireland as she had Rwandan heritage and was at risk of serious violations of human rights if she repatriated due to allegations made against her that she was a spy.[3]

Unfortunately, this action does not necessarily guarantee a safe future for NK defectors as it faces the same issue as all international legislation: it is not binding as there is no entity higher than national sovereignty. Although giving the defectors a unified identification would the first legal approach to a guideline under which they should be treated, this does not mean that all party states to the 1951 Refugee Convention would follow it. As seen in the case of China, states with a certain level of political or economic leverage may diverge from the treaty and handle the NK defectors according to their own political or diplomatic alignments.[4] Nevertheless, labelling NK defectors as refugees sur place within the international system would at least offer some states with either directions in managing the issue or a legal ground to grant them sanctuary—regardless of it being temporary or permanent.

          Moreover, identification of NK defectors as refugees sur place should not be used against them when they are finding a place in SK. As mentioned, NK defectors are automatically taken in and given refuge once they enter SK as they are considered to be citizens. Although SK is a signatory of the 1951 Refugee Convention, its treatment of asylum seekers is abysmal. In 2015, SK was 119th in the ranking of states’ ratio of the number of refugees hosted to gross domestic production per capita.[5] Even those granted asylum are not well-supported by the public system; public opinion towards refugees is not kind and institutional support is given is in the bare minimum forms of medical care and education. Therefore, taking away the current acceptance of NK defectors as citizens and making their status one of refugees sur place even in SK would be against the principles of the 1951 Refugee Convention and international law.

Final Remarks

          This series has investigated the legal treatment of NK defectors throughout different actors in known defection routes such as China, South Korea, transit countries like Thailand, Mongolia, and Cambodia, and the international legal system. The overarching issue that we presented stems from the fact that there is no unified term of address of NK defectors. After a comprehensive examination, our recommendation for future action is to first agree upon the classification of NK defectors as refugees sur place thereby ensuring their protection within the legal system in relevant states. Our main objective in this recommendation is to prevent NK defectors from being exploited as diplomatic tools for varying interests.

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[1] Irina Ungureanu, “Syrian Refugee Jumps for Joy After Finding Asylum in Moldova,” United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees, published on November 19, 2012, https://www.unhcr.org/news/stories/2012/11/50a9f6f56/syrian-refugee-jumps-joy-finding-asylum-moldova.html.

[2] Adrian Humphreys, “White South African’s Battle for Refugee Status in Canada Ended by Appeals Court,” National Post, published on June 19, 2014, https://nationalpost.com/news/canada/white-south-africans-battle-for-refugee-status-in-canada-ended-by-appeals-court.

[3] Róise Connolly, “Court of Appeal: Judicial Review is an Effective Remedy in Accordance with EU Directive on Refugee Status,” Irish Legal News, published on July 25, 2016, https://www.irishlegal.com/article/court-of-appeal-judicial-review-is-an-effective-remedy-in-accordance-with-eu-directive-on-refugee-status.

[4] Hayoung Lee et al, “’Walk a Mile” Article 2: The Legality, Politics, and Controversies in China,” Underwood Law Society Journal (2019 Spring)

[5] Se Jin Kim, “Failing to Protect Refugees: South Korea’s Dismal Global Ranking,” East Asia Foundation Policy Debates 112 (January 29, 2019): 2. 

[caffeineivore]

On Review Etiquette

So, lately, I have been participating in @sailormoonreviewevent and it brings back some of my best and worst memories of fandoms, not just SM but fandoms in general, and the people who populate them. 

Background information: I’ve been around since dinosaurs still roamed the Earth and geocities sites with animated word-art headers and the like were still the norm. In the case of Sailor Moon as well as other fandoms in which I have participated, I seem to always end up in a peculiar sort of capacity-- on the one hand, I’d pretty much stick to a very small corner of the fandom wherein my ship and/or character preferences kept me mostly away from the vast majority of the riff-raff and the fandom politics, but maybe because I have an inherently bossy and super type-A personality, I’d still end up in some sort of organizational capacity. The whip-cracker, as it were, amidst a bunch of creative types. For instance, in Sailor Moon, I pretty much stuck exclusively with senshi/shitennou. I paid very little attention to fanfics not about senshi/shitennou, and don’t really know people outside of that group. However, for all that, I ended up organizing ficathon for a few years, as well as moderating a writing community and planning meet-ups between members. In this role, I get to see a lot of the nuts and bolts which go on behind the scenes, and, unfortunately, also have to play the bad guy in certain sticky situations, which brings me to the point of this post.

Now, as a fanfic writer myself, I can say definitively that reviews make the world go round. Much as we write for fun, and we write to please ourselves, there is nothing quite so uplifting and encouraging as a genuine, sincere, detailed positive review. You know the type-- the ones that tell you exactly what they liked the most about your fic, in such a way that shows that not only did they read it, but it truly had an impact on them-- maybe it made them reconsider a facet of a character they’d never considered before, or maybe it mentions their favourite lines, or maybe it subconsciously reassures the writer on some point or another which they were uncertain about. Obviously, these are like the gold standard of reviews, and somewhat rare and far between. However, you’ll also get a bunch of “omg i <3 this fic MOAR PLZ”, which is okay too. You’ll probably even get a few with constructive criticism, which may sting at the time, but if the reviewer 1. means well and 2. has a point, it’s definitely worth your time to take their words into account. 

However, then you get one of these other types of reviews:

1. “Why did you write about [character] and/or [ship] they suxxxx [other character/ship] IS SO MUCH BETTER!!!!!”

2. this fucking fic is dumb. you suck. die in a fire. flame flame flame flame flame. trollololol I have no life I live in my parents’ basement and wank over how hard I am even though I need to put people down behind a meaningless screen name to feel better about myself. Not in a million years would I have the balls to say this sort of thing to someone’s face, but on the internet I am a Grade A Certified Prime Asshole and proud of it. [guest review anonymous]

3. So yeah this fic is great and I know it’s marked complete but could you add another chapter? Perhaps with [very specific plot and character requirements to cater into my personal whims] plzkthxbai!

4. Ummm... so why are you writing [characters] in [AU setting] or [different version of canon-- manga/anime/pgsm/etc.]?? MY PREFERRED CANON IS BETTER. WHY CAN’T YOU DO WHAT I WANT YOU TO DO??

5. Update faster plz!!! I need the next chapter NOW!! Actually I needed it YESTERDAY!! WTF ARE YOU DOING WHY ARE YOU NOT WRITING?!?!!?!!

Annnnnnnnd... you count to ten, resisting the impulse to chuck the phone or computer out the window. Take a deep breath, count to ten again, backward this time, and remind yourself that this is just fanfic. Just fanfic. Fandom’s bound to have a few idiots. You want to reply to the reviewer: “Look can u not” but that would be validating them, making them more important than they should be. You tell yourself it’s just a troll, but nonetheless, it hurts. And when you pick up that fic again, you’ll probably remember that one review in the back of your mind, taunting, more vivid than a dozen “gr8 job hope to see more soon!”’s. 

And it’s sad. So I’m about to give everyone who has experienced this (which, in all likelihood, is everyone who has posted a fanfic in any fandom ever) a voice. A loud, stridently snarky one. 

Reviewers: CAN U NOT?? with the trolling????

Look, I’m so glad that you have the time and the means to sit around and chill and read fanfic. It’s a luxury that requires a lot of first world amenities that not everyone has, so kudos to you. But that means, also, that you have a lot of freedoms not afforded to everyone, such as, y’know, the ability to pick and choose what you decide to read and comment on. There will be fics about every possible permutation of character ships in a fandom. There will be fics in every genre, which run the gamut of writing skill from novice to expert. And pretty much every single fic site, be it something privately owned or some behemoth like ff.n or AO3, will separate their fics into categories by character, genre, length, rating, etc. etc. The internetz is a wonderful thing. You can pretty much find anything with a few clicks. Like you can literally probably search for “I want a fic featuring [character A] and [character B] in a high school AU with angsty undertones and make it a one-shot less than 5000 words because I am on lunch break”, and it will take only the minimal amount of effort to get exactly what you look for to fall into your lap.

We all have our fic preferences. We also all know what we do not like. So, let me ask, why the hell do people insist on not only reading but flaming stuff that they KNOW they’re not going to like?? I am a diehard senshi/shitennou shipper and manga is my preferred canon. I KNOW that I do not ship Rei/Yuuichirou for example, so I won’t go out of my way to read fics featuring them. I’m not crazy about fics which feature tons of violence or porn, or lots of OCs, and I tend to dislike fics which make light of serious issues such as self harm or drug abuse, and I draw a very hard line at rape and sexual assault, especially if it features characters below the age of consent. Like, serious, trigger warning, PTSD, nope nope nope nope at Planet Nope. Now, what do I do if I come across a fic featuring any of these things? 

I DON’T FUCKING READ IT. Really. That’s all there is to it. I scroll down onto the next thing. And in the event that, say, I accidentally clicked on something that I figure out isn’t my cup of tea, it does not take any sort of effort to click right back out. Why give yourself grief? But even more, why give the writer grief? Even if it’s totally not your thing, they put effort into it-- far more effort than you did, clicking on their work. THEY are into what they wrote. 

Now, once upon a time, when I was organizing one of the senshi/shitennou ficathons, one of the submissions happened to feature something that NOPED with me very hard. And as ficathon mistress, I had to read it. So I did. And then replied to the author that it was very well written but I could not review it for personal reasons. Then I sent it off to another moderator to read it and give them an actual review. And that is an extenuating circumstance. Most people would not ever be in the position to have to read a fic that they would otherwise not read, or say anything to the writer of said fic. Even in that circumstance, it is not hard to deal with it in a respectful manner. So, why the fuck would someone willingly and knowingly inflict something they know they’re not going to like on themselves and then punish someone else for it? That makes NO sense.

As far as harassing authors to follow your own niche or write more on a topic or story that they feel as though they’re done with? Dude, write your own fic. You have total control over only one person in this world: yourself. Sure, validating what a fanfic writer does is very nice and gratifying, but they are not trained monkeys there to do your bidding and perform for your personal amusement. Unless you’re paying them good cashy money (which, since it’s fanfic, you’re not), you don’t get to have a say in what they write, when they write it, where they post it (if anywhere), any of that. They are under no contractual obligation to cater in to you in any way. And furthermore, when you try to dictate to them what to write and how to write it, the message is this: I Know Better Than You. Do As I Say. You Don’t Know Shit. What You Do Is Not Good Enough For Me. What You Do Doesn’t Matter. The Only Thing That Matters Is What I Want. 

That’s nothing but a goddamn put-down. And when you put down someone who probably put in a whole lot of thought and effort into something which brings them no possible reward but personal satisfaction and maybe others’ enjoyment, it’s really kind of a sucker-punch. If, say, this was the type of interaction between a boyfriend and girlfriend-- the put-downs, the belittling, the dictating, the insults-- we’d all recoil and call it a toxic, abusive relationship. We’d tell the person receiving those comments to get out of there, to get help, to leave.

So, when you make those types of comments, that’s the message you’re sending that writer. Leave. Get out of here. Go away, for your own good, for your own sanity and health and happiness. 

Now think about it, as you’re scrolling through ff.n or ao3 or wherever, looking for that next undiscovered gem. Think about it, when someone shyly asks you to review their fic, or signs up for the first time for a fandom event such as a ficathon or a big bang or a secret santa exchange. Is that the message you want to give them? That they should leave and never look back?

Now think about it again, and remember when you first discovered fanfic, or your preferred fandom, and wrote your first fic. Maybe it was campy and featured every trope on the TV tropes page. Maybe it was a shameless Mary Sue. Maybe it was ridiculously OOC and featured eye-gougingly purple prose. Maybe it was riddled with typos. Maybe you, yourself, looking back at it now, shake your head at how you could’ve written such a monstrosity. But would you have stayed, I wonder, if nobody at all encouraged you? Countless writers fade into oblivion after one fic, or disappear forever, deleting their fics off the internet. Countless people get fed up with fandom and throw their hands up and dismiss it as a lost cause. These things are going to happen regardless, sure.

But why the hell would you encourage that?

[the-end-of-art]

Beautiful differences

Christianity and Culture                                 by Emily Lau The Columbia Crown & Cross, Augustine Collective

As a Chinese-Korean-American Christian, I often find myself straddling an interesting and sometimes challenging combination of identities. As a Christian, I believe that my ultimate identity is as a child of God, but I also cannot deny my cultural identities that stretch back to folk religions in Asia. How can I preserve my cultural heritage – steeped in ancestral worship, astrology, and polytheism – when it sometimes conflicts with my spiritual beliefs? Must I shed the traditions of my ancestors to embrace Christianity completely? And although Western culture has embraced Christianity longer, is it necessarily free of pagan influences and of its own pagan origins?

To tackle these questions, I first look back to Christianity’s spread across the globe. The history of its encounters with traditional or indigenous cultures is fraught with violence and injustice. Many people today associate Christianity with colonialism and interpret the Great Commission 1 as an excuse for Western imperialism. The Crusades propagated Christianity through military force and coercion during the Middle Ages. Missionaries, such as Diego de Landa who is responsible for burning most of Mayan literature, 2 have often destroyed our records of unique cultures in the name of religion. Unfortunately, the account of these forceful and imperialistic missionaries often overshadow the positive social work of missionaries, such as Mother Theresa, who are testimonies to love and sacrifice.

Yet as much as one might want to defend all cultural traditions, some customs run counter to modern-day Western society’s code of ethics. Customs such as suttee – a form of widow suicide practiced in the Indian subcontinent – 3 child sacrifice, female “circumcision,” and cannibalism, are just some of the polemical practices that repeatedly find their way into discussions about cultural relativism. Oftentimes, one is hesitant to go against any native custom for fear of appearing culturally ignorant, intolerant, or insensitive. Even if a particular practice goes against one’s moral sensibilities, the risk of seeming politically incorrect may silence the opposition. To what extent then, can cultural relativism justify actions? Can it wholly eliminate the boundaries between right and wrong?

Now I enter into the quagmire wherein lies the debate between moral relativism versus moral universalism. Roughly, moral relativism maintains that every individual lives by a different moral code depending on his or her culture and background, while moral universalism posits that there is a notion of right and wrong that applies to everyone. 4 The danger in the case of extreme moral relativism is the ability to justify almost anything. On the other hand, the danger in the case of extreme moral universalism is believing that one’s rigid standard of morals is the universal standard. The crux of the matter is that moral understanding and systems of beliefs oftentimes seem inextricably tied to one’s culture and upbringing. Therefore, to impose one’s moral standards is to impose one’s culture. Is it then possible to tease apart culture and religion, or rather, faith?

Some Christians have seemingly found ways to separate their more innocuous cultural customs from their original spiritual context. They repurpose traditional practices by imbuing them with new meaning that aligns with Christianity. Dr. Cheryl Bear Barnetson, part of the Nadleh Whut’en First Nation community in British Columbia and faculty at Regent College, 5 speaks out on how aboriginal peoples can continue practicing some of their native customs in the new context of Christianity. 6 For instance, she incorporates the use of traditional hand-drums and derives new chants that sonically resemble those of her ancestors but with Christian sentiments for her church services. 7 Yet a First Nations advocate and leader, Daniel Justice, criticizes this type of appropriation because he claims it reduces their customs to a superficial level. 8 He argues, “Sitting in a circle, passing around a talking stick or using an eagle feather – none of these are superficial in and of themselves, but when they’re completely dislocated from cultural and religious contexts that they are meaningful to, they just become props.” 9 Barnetson and Justice’s disagreement exemplifies the debate over whether cultural customs retain significance apart from their original spiritual context. If Barnetson views culture as a vessel that stores spiritual meaning, Justice would argue that the value of the vessel resides in its original contents. Draining the contents would mean reducing the vessel to a worthless hollow shell. Considering the grievous history between the indigenous peoples of North America and Western settlers from Europe who destroyed much of their native cultures (although many Christian missionaries did defend the rights of the Natives peoples), 10 it would seem criminal today to overwrite their beliefs with Western culture that includes Christian beliefs.

Yet before I enter into the debate between Barnetson and Justice, I must first make a brief detour to address a great deception that lurks in the background when discussing Western culture and Christianity: that Western beliefs are synonymous with Christian beliefs. The spirit that pervades the U.S., a leader of modern Western culture today, is not necessarily one of Christianity, but rather often one of consumerism, narcissism, and materialism that flies directly in the face of Jesus’ teaching on humility. The religion of Christianity inevitably has earthy roots that relate back to a historic culture, but the values of the faith do not come from humans; they come from God. The Bible weighs in on the debate between moral relativism and moral universalism in Romans when Paul writes:

For it is not the hearers of the law who are righteous before God, but the doers of the law who will be justified. For when Gentiles, who do not have the law, by nature do what the law requires, they are a law to themselves, even though they do not have the law. They show that the work of the law is written on their hearts, while their conscience also bears witness, and their conflicting thoughts accuse or even excuse them on that day when, according to my gospel, God judges the secrets of men by Christ Jesus. 11

Jesus commands missionary work to spread the news of gospel, but God also implants a discerning “conscience” into every person, whether or not he or she ever hears of Christianity. Since the “law is written on [our] hearts,” everyone is responsible for knowing and doing what is right. The Bible takes the side of moral universalism.

Now I return to the prior debate between Barnetson and Justice. Justice makes a valid point that customs and traditions become superficial when stripped of their original meaning and purpose. But as a Christian, I believe that humans were originally made in the image of God to serve and worship him. Thus, through the deviation of our worship, we have taken ourselves out from our original context. We must then let go of those traditions that contradict Biblical principles and repurpose our worship back to God as Barneston suggests. Yet even though God asserts that there is one moral code that applies to all humans, he is also the creator of the world’s diverse people groups. In Acts, Luke writes:

The God who made the world and everything in it, being Lord of heaven and earth, does not live in temples made by man, nor is he served by human hands, as though he needed anything, since he himself gives to all mankind life and breath and everything. And he made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined allotted periods and the boundaries of their dwelling place, that they should seek God, and perhaps feel their way toward him and find him. 12

God does not force people to change, but creates them with the ability to discern right from wrong and with the desire to “seek him” on their own and in “their way.” Our fallen state has corrupted our cultures and continues to affect our ability to create culture today. There is no one culture that is devoid of sin and there is no one culture that is superior to another. But God has provided us with beautiful differences in appearance, language, and traditions that we can use to worship him. God’s love is not bound by geography, language, or ethnicity, and therefore neither is his salvation. Jesus’s death and resurrection offers us salvation, and we can therefore approach culture with a new, Christ-centered perspective. Together, our diverse backgrounds and origins can better reflect the image of God, and we can express our faith through a variety of ways that our differences afford us.

Taking the discussion back to a personal and practical level, I can honor my elders, but not worship them. I can celebrate the Lunar New Year as another time to reflect on what God has done in my life and rededicate myself to him. I believe that it is important to understand our cultures and remember from where we came. As Christians, we are all striving for likeness in Christ, but we should understand that the desired homogeneity is of a spiritual kind and not necessarily a cultural one. With this understanding, I can appreciate my heritage as a part of myself that God created and celebrates.

(Footnotes: http://augustinecollective.org/christianity-and-culture/)

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Sitting in the presence of my dearest friends, a mammoth amount of sushi, and an over-sized BB-8 plush (thanks, Chels), I came to the realization that there was no discernible difference between 32 and 31. Just another birthday, just another year gone by. Somewhere around 25, everything seemed to slow to a snail’s pace. Even the milestone 30 was anticlimactic. I don’t feel transformed, or wiser, or any more “adult” than before.

Of course, despite this vague feeling that life is increasingly static, things really do change. I’m starting to get some fine lines around my eyes that concealer loves to settle in. I have more and more grey hairs appearing at my temples every day. And let’s not forget the time I sneezed and threw my back out. I am definitely aging, and with that passage of time, I’ve become aware that there are things I need to be focusing on.  

If you, like me, are a Millennial in their early 30s, here are some things you may want to turn your attention to.

1. Going Green

A lot of people view going green as a complete lifestyle change, wherein all of their decisions and actions absolutely must be aimed toward saving the planet. Such a colossal undertaking is so overwhelming that they end up forgoing the idea altogether. However, going green can be incredibly easy, and you don’t have to change your entire life to do it. It’s all about those baby steps. Believe it or not, even the smallest of changes can have a huge impact — and not just on the environment.

For instance, you can save precious natural resources and increase the overall value of your home by adding solar panels to the roof, or installing water-saving toilets, showers, and faucets. You can reduce your energy consumption and save hundreds of dollars on your utility bills by purchasing Energy Star appliances. You can decrease pollution and get some sweet tax credits by purchasing an electric or hybrid vehicle.

There are an endless number of reasons to embrace a greener lifestyle. There are the obvious ones — e.g. preserving natural resources, reducing pollution, and creating better future for generations to come — but there are also secondary reasons, such as improving your health and saving a ton of money. In the end, it doesn’t really matter why you choose to go green because ultimately, you’re doing the right thing for the environment.

2. Nursing Your Credit

Whether you like it or not (Dave Ramsey, I’m looking your way), your credit score influences the course of your life in more ways than one. Lenders use your credit report and score to determine your risk as a borrower. This impacts whether or not you’re approved for loans such as a mortgage, car loan, or credit card. It’s a deciding factor in what interest rate you get. Landlords may use your credit score when weighing your application for a rental. It can also affect how much you pay for home and auto insurance. Simply put, your credit score is insanely important.

The three bureaus that issue credit reports and scores have different evaluation systems —  and they’re not exactly forthcoming with information regarding said systems. In an interview with WalletHub, William J. Chambers, Associate Professor of the Practice Emeritus of Administrative Sciences at Boston University Metropolitan College, points out, “The lack of transparency and the inability to link actions (e.g. maintaining an ongoing outstanding balance on a credit card, missing payments, taking on additional debt, etc.) with the resulting score is perhaps the weakest link in the chain. I suspect many individuals somehow believe that the scores just magically appear or drop from the sky, and fail to link the scores with their own actions. Providing this kind of transparency would, at least, provide some incentive to consumers to avoid situations where they unknowingly harm themselves.”

The good news is that you do have some control over your credit score — and if it needs help, there are things you can do to build it back up. Since your credit score is (generally speaking) based on your payment history, how much you owe, how much credit you have available, the length of your credit history, and the types of credit you have, carefully managing these factors is the most effective thing you can do. Start simply — plan your payments and get a handle on your total debt. Once you have your debt paid down:

Strive to keep a balance of less than 30 percent of your available credit limit.

Check your credit report and at least once a year. Look for errors, and work to correct any you find.

Establish solid credit accounts, such as personal loans or major credit cards. Aim to get cards with high limits, but keep a low balance.

Even if you no longer use the card, don’t close out old accounts. Long standing accounts are good for your score.

While this may seem obvious, it bears repeating: Pay your bills on time.

Building or rebuilding your credit history takes time. Be aware that it may be awhile before your report reflects the positive work you’ve done. Patience is key!

3. Taking Care of Your Health

Chances are, you, or someone you know, is struggling with an illness — be it physical or mental. That’s why it may come as no surprise that a survey from Transamerica Center for Health Studies found that 54% of Millennials say they have been diagnosed with a chronic illness. That being said, the same report found that more than a quarter of Millennials state they do not have a primary care provider. This is incredibly troubling.

Preventive care, such as periodic screenings, reproductive care, and adult immunizations, are essential to your overall health. For new mothers, preventive services like breastfeeding support and counseling, as well as contraceptive coverage are also much needed. The Affordable Care Act has provisions that help cover the cost of these services, and we should be taking advantage of that for as long as it exists.

Furthermore, finding a primary care doctor and getting those regular checkups is of utmost importance. While seeing an urgent care doctor may seem quicker, you end up sacrificing continuity of care. Regularly visiting a doctor who’s familiar with your medical history has a number of benefits, including the fact that they’re always able to take your past and existing conditions into account before giving you a new diagnosis.

4. Saving for Retirement

Very few Millennials are actually saving as much as they should be for retirement — and there’s no real mystery as to why. With the majority of us struggling with unemployment, outsized housing costs, and hefty student loan debt, retirement is an extremely low financial priority. But that doesn’t mean we’re not aware of the dangers. A recent survey by Bankrate.com found that, when it comes to retirement, Millennials’ biggest fear is running out of money.

Unfortunately, life isn’t making things easy on us. For years, the rule regarding retirement saving was to set aside 10-15% of each paycheck. However, according to investment firm BlackRock, future returns suggest that Gen Y-ers may need to save 25% of our pay to get the same result that was available to boomers saving half that much.

The good news is that this number comes from the assumption that Social Security will disappear before we can draw from it, which is unlikely to happen. Still, it’s a point worth considering. Our boomer predecessors were lucky enough to enjoy a rather prosperous period for market gains — and it’s doubtful that we’ll be seeing the same good fortune during our saving years. Since most 401K plans are split between stocks and bonds, we’ll need to supplement our retirement savings with something other than investments.

The best thing we can do is to start saving as early and consistently as possible. Much like green living, every little bit counts! Don’t put off retirement savings unless you absolutely have to, because the best thing we have going for us is time. With about 35 to 40 years until retirement, we really are in the best possible place to begin saving.

5. Buying Life Insurance

Life insurance is one of those things that we usually don’t think about until something major — and unfortunate —  happens. Though we’re still young, life insurance is something we should all be considering, especially if we have children. There are two reasons in particular why life insurance is so important:

You’re not immune to death. Depending on whether you opt for cremation or burial, the average funeral costs between $ 6,000 and $ 11,000. Without life insurance to cover these costs, your family would be left holding the bill. If you are otherwise unburdened by debt, a small life insurance policy will relieve the financial strain.

If you have a large amount of debt — student loans, credit cards, mortgage — it could fall on your parents or partner to pay up after you pass. Buying enough life insurance to offset this debt will prove to eliminate additional stress on your loved ones at the end of your life.

Life insurance is surprisingly affordable. Premiums are based on several factors, including your age and overall health — that means that the younger you are, the less you’ll pay for coverage. This is especially true if you don’t smoke or have any preexisting health conditions. The longer you wait, the higher that monthly cost will jump. Since life insurance rates are locked in once your policy goes into force, it makes good financial sense to buy now and pay a lower cost for the duration of your plan.

6. Writing a Will

Speaking of death, there’s another thing a lot of Millennials fail to consider — estate planning. Yes, we’re young, have a full life ahead of us and not much of an estate to speak of, but we’re actually surprisingly vulnerable. Since Gen Y-ers are far more likely than older generations to have unconventional family situations, we’re less likely to be covered by the legal protections afforded to married couples. To put it plainly, if you’re not married to your partner, they’re not entitled to anything when you die.

Another thing to contemplate is what happens to your pets when you’re gone? And will your parents instinctively know who to give your valued possessions to? Basic planning is essential to make sure that the people, pets, and things that matter most to you are taken care of when you pass. Good estate planning goes beyond a will. You’ll also need to plan for the following:

Power of attorney — Authorizes a person of your choice to make financial decisions on your behalf should you become incapacitated.

Health-care proxy – Authorizes a person of your choice to make health care-related decisions on your behalf should you become incapacitated.

HIPPA release form – Permits access to your medical information on your behalf should you become incapacitated.

Advanced health-care directive – Outlines your healthcare decisions (e.g. do not resuscitate, do not incubate, organ donation, etc.)

While death and disability aren’t exactly the most uplifting of things to dwell on, they are, nevertheless, something that should be planned for. Not only do these arrangements ensure your wishes are met when you’re unable to make the decisions, they also save your family a lot of sorrow.

So many of the struggles of adulthood can be avoided with a well thought out plan. As the old adage says, “an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.” So, let’s plan for the future by living green, watching our financials, taking care of our health, saving for retirement, and making end-of-life preparations today. Trust me, you’ll be glad you did.

Do you have any additional tips for Millennials settling into adulthood?

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