#theyre my partner. my bf. my girlfriend.
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listen ik you said this on bluesky and not here but. im already in your inbox.
but since jack and nana break your "black girl with weird ass boyfriend" pattern, but theyre one of your oldest oc pairs, who WAS your first black girl w/ a weird ass bf oc couple? 🎤❓#nosy
I wanna say it was Rosemary and Louie
They came a while after Jack and Nana (so the Red Beans are still the oldest pair) BUT Louie was def weirder than Jack. He was also the blueprint for Bitterbat.
Louie is definitely not a yandere, he's just very mischievous at times. He def doesn't have a body count like Bitterbat or Pluto - I think Pluto and Nova was when I started getting an interest in giving black girls partners with blood on their hands.
ANYWAYS - Louie and Rosemary's entire situation (for the new folks who don't know or the old folks who forgot) is that Louie is the son of Satan in my storyverse. He was meant to bring the apocalypse and end of the world on his 18th birthday but he winded up falling in love with Rosemary, who is the preacher's daughter in the small town he winded up crawling out of hell in.
Their entire story is basically an ongoing series of Louie killing demons who are trying to tear up the town and angels who are trying to send his ass back to hell, while he is trying to have a normal relationship with his girlfriend, who he can't physically touch when she wears her cross necklace due to the fact it burns his skin.
Some of that might sound real familiar because a wee bit of it got recycled into Bitterbat's story with him being the son of the Overlord of Umbra, who is meant to take over Earth - only to fall in love with some random magical girl.
I wouldn't say Louie and Rosemary's story is scrapped - it's just placed on the shelf of "Stories Rocky will get to eventually in life".
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oh good god i'm so jealous of you. your parents?? sound super cool?|
they're okay with you having a bf and from the tags on one of your reblogs, your dad is accepting of your sibling's sexuality??
behen. how.
if my parents found out i'm bi na, ww3 shuru ho jayega ghar mei
anyway, your and your partner seem super cute!
oh yeah i love my parents, theyre amazing
my parents only accepted my brother as bi because they get to roast him even more now lmao, like instead of saying 'tujhe toh girlfriend bhi nhi hai' theyll say 'tere paas na girlfriend na boyfriend, kya fayda bi hone ka' sjhjkdshdjkhsdj
thank you jiiii <333
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8,10,18,21,22 in the pride asks? especially 21 if its not too personal, as someone still in their mid teens any advice would be nice to read. also 26/27 since ur genderfluid, like do u like to switch between different terms or do u use gender netural terms all the time?
hi!! thanks for your questions <3
8. Describe your gender without using any words traditionally related to gender:
i dont wanna use the same answer twice but... im gonna: spin the wheel!! watch where it goes!! where will it stop? who the fuck knows!!
10. Something that gives you gender euphoria (whether you're cis or trans):
singing when i have a cold is fucking gorgeous. my range lowers so much and i can sing all the male musical theatre roles that i usually cant and its just- bloody hell its the best feeling ever!
18. How old where you when you got to attend your first Pride? Who did you go with?
so, ive actually never been to pride :( im going to one this year though, and im so excited!! its in july for some reason, but ive got time booked off work, a hotel booked in the city its in (because its like 2 ½ hours away from me) and a couple of outfit choices in the mail waiting to arrive!! so, to answer the q: ill be 19 (my current age anyway aha) and im actually going alone, because i dont have queer friends atm and my cishet friend probably wouldnt be seen dead at pride. my brothers mightve come if they could, but theyre travelling to america a few days before and wont be back for over a week :(
21. What message would you give to your younger self?
to me personally? keep your mouth shut. bide your time, wait until you have better circumstances. keep. your mouth. shut.
to anyone else? dont do that ^ be confident!! as long as its safe to do so, express yourself!! the truth about life is that people will always find faults with you. they will always nitpick, they will always judge. even if you hide yourself to blend in, there will always be something that someone will scour to find. as shitty as that sounds. so be yourself! if people stare, let them! being like everyone else is boring anyway, and although at first it might be lonely or scary, youll find your people <3
22. How do you usually celebrate Pride month?
i like to do it in "subtle" ways. i say subtle because theyre not super obvious, but theyre easy to spot too. i like to paint my nails rainbow and wear rainbow earrings (i recently got rainbow star earrings and theyre so cool!!), and ill usually do more extravagent makeup on fem days, like using coloured eyeliner or putting little stars on my cheeks. and, of course, this year ill be at a pride parade too!
26. How do you feel about the term partner rather than husband/girlfriend/etc?
27. What gender-neutral terms for yourself or others do you use (i.e. joyfriend)?
im gonna answer these two together :) so, i like partner a lot. its simple, but it gets the job done just the same as bf/gf etc. i personally like to switch/mix and match boyfriend and girlfriend as and when it feels right to me. i especially love when someone says "shes my boyfriend/hes my girlfriend" and if i ever come out as genderfluid to my brothers, id want them to introduce me like "shes my brother/hes my sister". of the two mismatched pairings, i prefer the female pronouns and male honorifics, but that might turn out to be a day-dependant thing
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dude, your endogenic girlfriend sucks shit
i mean i'm not into that but i don't see what that has to do with me or my system i'll be honest pal
#bro thought id be offended#we are both laughing at u rn#get outta here goofy#seriously calling them my “endogenic girlfriend” is so??? ew#theyre my partner. my bf. my girlfriend.#weirdo#also just cuz they have 0% tolerance for ppls bs doesnt mean they suck lmao#just means you don't get told no enough.
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I’ll be talking about the last post I reblogged in the tags of this post for the sake of the person I reblogged it from
#mud rambles#quick lil backstory for why. I follow him but he no longer follows me so I can have my privacy bc his partners are people ive cut off#he and i have how we interact figured out explicitly he's still my friend i care for him deeply what happened between his partners and i#didnt have anything to do with him. i let him know what happened. theyre not horrible ppl just bad friends to me#anyway#SO fucking ironic to see that on my dash from them specifically because his fucking girlfriend (my ex friend who was my roommate) would#CONSTANTLY compare me to her abusive father for! no goddamn reason!#it wasn't necessarily 1 to 1 comparison but she would bring him up OUT OF NOWHERE for example one time i was literally just listening to#metallica (fuck metallica but they were MY dad's fav band so i listen to them bc of nostalgia) and she just! was like#'you listen to dad bands. my dad likes metallica' o...kay???#and that wasnt the worst one. she would just. unprompted compare me to her dad. usually like that over things i liked but she once like.#vagued me to my face about how ~crazy and paranoid~ her dad is#NOT EVEN ONCE she brought up how paranoid he was A LOT and like. at the time i was trying to be a little more open abt my paranoia w her an#my ex best friend (her other partner) so like. idk. whether it was a vague at me or not i did not appreciate it#even MY partner brought up multiple times how it was fucking weird and she was lowkey comparing me to her fucking dad#KEEP IN MIND BTW I PERSONALLY moved her out of her home state and away from her dad to room with me and my partner#i dont remember a lot of the examples bc i want to block that shit out but. what the fuck woman#anyway i needed to talk abt this but like i said i dont wanna be vagueing my friends gf in the tags of a post i reblogged from him lmao#i can talk abt it on my own blog not there#and mandatory disclaimer please do not try to figure out who the people ive cut off are and also please leave them and their bf alone#like i said he's still my friend and i care about him#i just feel the need to say that bc. i trust the people who follow me to not go and do that but. just genuinely need to clear the air#i cut them off for a reason. i dont want any kind of contact with them even indirectly. and i dont want people harassing my friend#i specifically went out of my way when that shit went down to make sure he and i were still cool so dont fuck this up for me thanx!
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a handy dandy guide to the dynamics of my danganronpa v3 ot5 because i personally believe in polyships that aren’t just “everyone is in love with everyone else” and the inherent eroticism of enemies to friends at varying stages. kaede is also dating tenko and maybe miu but they aren’t dating anyone else in the polycule so we’re not worried about them just now
edit: I FORGOT KAEDE/KAITO AND SHUICHI/MAKI kaede and kaito are bffs who flirt Constantly but are WAY too similar to ever actually work out so like the most they could ever be is friends with benefits. theyre very good for each other as friends venting abt their mutual partners tho
shuichi and maki are dating but in a like. very low key way. like they dont go On Dates they just cuddle in front of the couch on their nights off. finally a partner that is willing to sit down for 3 seconds or more
text for each combination:
shuichi/kaito: boyfriends
maki/kaito: gf/bf
shuichi/kokichi: boyfriends
kokichi/kaito: enemies to boyfriends
shuichi/kaede: gf/bf? best friends? who knows! not them
maki/kaede: enemies to girlfriends
maki+kokichi: They did hate each other once but as they both learned to be more genuine with themselves and others they found a lot of common ground, but they’re too stubborn to admit they’re friends so they act like enemies but secretly are bffs.
kaede+kokichi: Actually, genuinely fucking hate each other
#danganronpa#v3 ot5#saimota#saimatsu#kaimaki#kaemaki#saioma#oumota#i think its SO funny how much kaede and maki both just cannot stand kokichi#like by the end kokichi and maki have both started to be more honest and there's a clear sense that she at least respects him#but kaede and kokichi. to the bitter end are just absolutely fuckin in it to kill each other#if rantaro hadnt had some shit pulled kaede wouldve turned around and thrown that shot put ball directly in kokichis face#its SO funny like they could put aside their differences for date nights but the whole time they are just.#smiling at each other across the table knowing that the other is mentally imagining their death#this isnt really Art ive just been meaning to do a full 'this is ho i think abt their relationhip' for a while#and i. dont have the Talent to do full pieces for all of them#i think ''canon'' shuichi and maki definitely have an even stronger bond because they share so much loss#and as the only two survivors of the Entire Fucking Polycule i do still think they have a strong relationship and love each other a lot#they just have to work to understand each other a little more than they did kaito and kaede. which is not a bad thing!#its a different type of relationship they still love each other#drv3 ot5
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actually im still thinking abt this and my thots will b in the tags because it's three am and i think i have food poisoning so it is not my most coherent work
i love making Every character i like lgbt. anyway ian duncan and jeff winger dated while jeff was transitioning in his 20s and that's my canon. everyone is community is lgbt
#listen okay#duncan did not sign up for a 'girlfriend' who wants to transition okay#(i do not agree with this im sorry)#yes duncan loves jeff and yes he's gonna b supportive of his partner of a few months wanting to transition but holy shit it's a lot#and thru it all he's CLINGING to his heterosexual label#because he's dumb bitch#duncan is like..... yes i am dating a man....yes i am a man..... yes im heterosexual..... we exist#and in the end that's a big part of why he and jeff break up!!! because yeah it's duncans business how he identifies#but like..... if yr bf's sexuality directly contradicts your gender identity..... that's uncomfy#so jeff breaks up with him because jeff winger has pride and will not date a straight man#and he kind of tries to cut duncan out of his life hes a very black and white man sometimes#and then like years later duncan calls him at like midnight and is like..... dude im in so much trouble theyre taking me to court you gotta#help me#and jeff#like the dumb gay bitch he is (i love him im sorry im just mean) like drops everything and drives across the state to go represent his ex bf#and of course. Of Course they have late night strategy sessions#and duncan is . very subtle in talking about The Guy I Dated After You#and maybe when jeff said he would come help he dug his bi flag out of the closet and pinned it up on the wall in his living room#and y know#maybe when jeff came to his school a few years after that his first thought was to trade test answers for a date#anyway these r my jeff/duncan vibes#i don't think they would ever date again in my nice little canon#but i do think that duncan goes after britta so hard only half because she's cute and the other half is jeff proximity
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Hi! So im a female and i love boys (includes trans bois ofc) nb ppl (masc/fem/androgynous, doesnt matter) and genderfluid ppl. So my partner is genderfluid and they have fluctuating pronouns ofc so i usually just say they, and i have been trying to figure out if im straight or not? I don't think im directly attracted to females directly but idm them (my partner) being my girlfriend when they ID as fem. I actually love it. Same with when theyre masc and is my bf. So ive jus been v confuzzled >~
From that first sentence alone, I can proudly dub you not straight.[Thank you for joining the rainbow squad, to your right you’ll find love and acceptance, and to the left we’ve got some lovely cupcakes and cookies]
~PSA~ If you are dating an individual of any nonbinary gender - regardless of their sex - please rethink claiming to be straight, gay, or lesbian, as it forces them into the binary they aren’t a part of. (Some are completely alright with having a partner who identifies so, others are not. Be sure to talk it over with them, so you’re both comfortable.)Remember though, your orientation is just as important and valid as their gender identity. Neither of you should have to change who you are.
And thus we end up with the question, ‘well what the heck am I then?’Homies, there’s quite a few possibilities.
Multiromantic/Multisexual: An umbrella term that encompasses all orientations where a person is attracted to multiple (ie, more than one) genders; can be used as an identity.Bi-: Attraction to two or more gendersPoly-: Attraction to multiple/many genders, but not necessarily all.Omni-: Attraction to all genders; Experience attraction to individuals because of their gender (ie, may have a preference for a certain gender(s))Pan-: Attraction regardless of gender; gender is not a factor in one’s attraction to any person; “gender blind” attraction
Hope this helps, nonnie! If you wish for me to find something more specific, go ahead and send another ask!
[Additional note- When referring to trans men, it’s best to not use ‘boi’; it can feel invalidating or even demeaning.]
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ok so my bf was telling me that at work they were going thru ally training and i guess they told lgbt people like they didnt have to do it cause theyre already gay they dont need to be allies, so all the lgbt people i guess sat somewhere else or something? but ANYWAY i say this to set up that everyone in this group knew other were lgbt SO theyre just havig a normal conversation and i guess at some point my boyfriend mentions me, he’s like “my girlfriend-“ and somebody else is like “um. GIRLfriend?” and he just has to be like “yeah. I’m bi. im dating a girl. she’s also bi” and i know it doesnt seem like a big deal but they had literally JUST been in ally training TALKING about how u cant assume someones sexuality because of their partner but it straight up didnt matter!! i also want to make it abundantly clear that it wasnt a cishet person who said that shit, it was another lgbt person. so i just wanna remind everybody: sometimes shit is none of your fucking business and it is not your job to decide whether someone is actually lgbt or not :)
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@kay-licious how dare u (thanks <3) @silent-calling youre doing amazing sweetie
1. Are looks important in a relationship?
I wouldnt call it a key factor but it’s important to feel attraction towards your partner
2. Are relationships ever worth it?
sure! If it’s a healthy one definitely :D
3. Are you a virgin?
nah
4. Are you in a relationship?
yeh!
5. Are you in love?
I’d say so!
6. Are you single this year?
no
7. Can you commit to one person?
yes
8. Describe your crush
it me bf
9. Describe your perfect mate
same as above c:
10. Do you believe in love at first sight?
no, only when it comes to animals c;
11. Do you ever want to get married?
thats a dream of mine tbh
12. Do you forgive betrayal?
I guess every healthy person would say no but yes, I’d absolutely do (only the first time tho, after the second time you gotta ask yourself if it’s really worth it)
13. Do you get jealous easily?
in regard to my bf: I used to but it’s a hell of a lot less nowadays. In regard to people in general, sometimes, especially when im not doing well mentally
14. Do you have a crush on anyone?
me bf
15. Do you have any piercings?
just have my ears pierced!
16. Do you have any tattoos?
no but maybe soon
17. Do you like kissing in public?
only if its sweet forehead or cheek kisses, or quick kisses on the mouth or hand kisses
20. Do you shower every day?
yes though I gotta admit I really have to force myself. Not because I like being stinky but because everything is kinda difficult sometimes
21. Do you think someone has feelings for you?
bruh I sure hope my bf does;;
22. Do you think someone is thinking about you right now?
nah
23. Do you think you can last in a relationship for 6 months and not cheat?
I’ve been in a relationship for 5 and a half years now, I think so
24. Do you think you’ll be married in 5 years?
it is possible but who tf knows
25. Do you want to be in a relationship this year?
idk, to be frank: I think my life would be a bit easier if I wasnt in a relationship, or if I hadnt been in a relationship for the past 1-2 years. And I often feel like im more of a burden to my bf than anything else. But thats a different story
26. Has anyone told you they don’t want to ever lose you?
as in losing touch with me? I guess so
27. Has someone ever written a song or poem for you?
a song yes and it was awkward as hell ajhajdfha and people have done drawings for me which is <3<3<3<3<3<<3<3<33
28. Have you ever been cheated on?
Yup
29. Have you ever cheated on someone?
very very unfortunately yes, and just like a bunch of you guys I was this close to killing myself. I was in a very bad place which I know is not an excuse for this. I still think about it even if it’s been a time since then but I think I cqan never forgive myself because of that
30. Have you ever considered plastic surgery? If so, what would you change about your body?
often but im too much of a scared cat dsfskjf idk though, I would love to be much more petite size wise
31. Have you ever cried over a guy/girl?
oh often
32. Have you ever experienced unrequited love?
yeah;; I’m not exactly pretty or popular, so puberty was hard
33. Have you ever had sex with a man?
hell yeah
34. Have you ever had sex with a woman?
:( no
35. Have you ever kissed someone older than you?
yeh!!
36. Have you ever liked one of your best friends?
Yeah and it’s difficult to be normal then aaaaaahhhhhhh
37. Have you ever liked someone who your friends hated?
some of my friends have a strong disliking towards my current bf but i dont know if you can call it hate
38. Have you ever liked someone you didn’t expect to?
yeah and it ruined me for a while
39. Have you ever wanted someone you couldn’t have?
uuuuhh not really I think
40. Have you ever written a song or poem for someone?
whenever I write bday cards I always put a poem in it :D
41. Have you had sex so far this year?
hella
42. How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander?
depends on how thirsty I am
43. How long was your longest relationship?
5 and a half years and counting
44. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had?
2-3
45. How many people did you kiss in 2011?
uuhh I was 14, no one
46. How many times did you have sex last year?
HELLA
47. How old are you?
22 my dudes
48. If the person you like says they like someone else, what would you say?
I#d try to play it cool because internally I’m panicking, someone help me
49. If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, what is your favorite thing about him/her?
I love about my bf how you can ALWAYS count on him when shit gets down, even if he hasnt talked to a friend for a good while and they’re like “hey I need you”, he’ll be there in a sec Also that he is still able to surprise me
50. If your first true love knocked on your door with apology and presents, would you accept?
jsdfhsjdfks GO AWAY, I’d say while closing the door and shutting the blinds quicker than lightning
51. Is there a boy/girl who you would do absolutely everything for?
yeah, but that’s probably because I have bpd and depressions
52. Is there anyone you’ve given up on? Why?
yeah, I tried to help them on all occassions, so much that I ruined my own life partially and made myself sick. But whatever I did or said, they apparently want to suffer, so i gave up trying.
53. Is there someone mad because you’re dating/talking to the person you are?
yeah my abuser probably
54. Is there someone you will never forget?
unfortunately yes and fortunately yes
55. Share a relationship story.
uuuuuuhhhhh; I dont really know what to write here. Guess I’ll never forget when my bf held a kitten (which was only a week old) in his hands and he almost cried because he loved the baby so much. Haha, he was afraid of crushing it though because it was much smaller than the palms of his hands
56. State 8 facts about your body
I gained a lot of weight since last year which is why I avoid posting or taking pics, but according to everyone else you dont see it that much (?); my hair is getting its natural curliness back; I fucked up my knee so I’ll have knee surgery next year; I bruise easily; I have a shit ton of scars; I love my super green eyes; I have thicc thighs and if I’m very emotional I get red spots all over my body
57. Things you want to say to an ex
to my first ever bf: fuck u lmao to the second bf I had: I’m so sorry for everything and I hope that you found your place :)
58. What are five ways to win your heart?
uuuhhh be sweet and understanding, be funny, be somewhat smart, dont be a mean asshole and be nice to other people (especially kids) and animals and also be able to be fascinated by small things
59. What do you look like? (Post a picture!)
yikes
60. What is the biggest age difference between you and any of your partners?
my current bf is 8 years older than me
61. What is the first thing you notice in someone?
how open and nice they are? Idk I always choose my ppl to hang out with according to this
62. What is the sexiest thing someone could ever do for/to you?
even though I’m a switch I have a big preference for being the sub, so if someone can dominate me and yknow do stull like carry me princess style or something im all like !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
63. What is your definition of “having sex”?
everything that comes after kissing imo
64. What is your definition of cheating?
I think as soon as you try to pursue someone emotionally that already counts as cheating
65. What is your favourite foreplay routine?
kissing, grinding, I love when someone talks dirty to me
66. What is your favourite roleplay?
if it aint too much of a tmi i’d love to admit that we have a collar and a leash so (not thinking about pet play uughfjhjsdfkhsd, just yknow someone is able to drag me to them like this or being held in place while being taken from behind is p nice)
67. What is your idea of the perfect date?
something something being outside in the nature and also good food
68. What is your sexual orientation?
69. What turns you off?
super super wet kisses where also my nose somehow gets stuck in someone elses mouth Like dude r u a vacuum cleaner sdfhsdkjhfks
70. What turns you on?
being manhandled
71. What was your kinkiest wet dream?
idk I dont really have a lot of wet dreams and usually theyre not very kinky but rather sweet and slow
72. What words do you like to hear during sex?
I like dirty talk, so imma leave that open
73. What’s something sweet you’d like someone to do for you?
i love to get flowers, or lil stuff that reminds us of our friendship or something, self made/home made stuff is always !!!!!!!!!!!!
74. What’s the most superficial characteristic you look for?
probably hands? I love it when girls have super slender hands and when boys have rough and big hands
75. What’s the sweetest thing anyone’s ever done for you?
I already answered that c:
76. What’s the sweetest thing you’ve ever done for someone?
I have a few stories I’m proud of! But I really love this one: When I was little I grew up in a village in which like 300-400 people lived (maximum) and next to us lived this sweet older couple who always gave us sweets and vegetable for our parents, or they brought us stuff from when they went on vacation. The man is now constantly sick, he suffers from parkinson and you see the early statges of dementia setting in. A while ago he wanted to go and get the German version of fish and chips with his wife but due to him needing a ton of surgeriesw constantly he wasnt able to go out with his wife. When my mom told me this I was like wtf u cant just tell me this, I’m too soft. So I went and got fish and chips from the best market around us for him and flowers for his wife, despite the fact that I havent seen them in YEARS. When I arrived at their front door both of them hugged me and cried a bit
77. What’s your opinion on age differences in relationships?
not bad if everything is consensual and if there’s a power balance thats equal
78. What’s your dirtiest secret?
I think the leash thing is one of the kinkiest things we’ve ever done tbh
79. When was the last time you felt jealous? Why?
yesterday a bit when my bf went out wth friends and had a few beers while I was stuck at home with the thought that I can never have a beer again dkadfjahdf as stupid as that sounds but I always enjoyed these chill evenings with a beer and friends
80. When was the last time you told someone you loved them?
this morning when I cuddled my cats :D
81. Who are five people you find attractive?
my bf and many videogame and anime characters, also my best female friend is hella attractive, also some of my friends are to die for
82. Who is the last person you hugged?
my bf!!
83. Who was your first kiss with?
my first bf sdfjsdfs
84. Why did your last relationship fail?
it didnt really work out, it seemed as he was more interested in saying “hey im in a relationship!” than in me, hah;;
85. Would you ever date someone off of the Internet?
yeah, sure
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What are your One Piece OC’s?
Obvs theres my main girl Vera, shes a heart pirate and certified laws girlfriend (tm) bc i can do what i want ok??? Also shes dumb and made of silver and i love her
Then theres Miu the cat mink whos a sleeby bitch and carrots partner in dumb and i like drawing her a lot bc its like 5 lines total shes great......carrots obviously gonna join the strawhats so ig shes my strawhat oc rn
Cherry is a charlotte sibling who ran away to get married and shes super tall. So damn tall. Big girl. Love her....she has pointy ears and shes soff and good...her df is like syrup and glaze if that makes sense
Ginger is her bf.....workin on him all i know is hes not as tall as her at all bc height difference good
Margarita is another charlotte and shes just The Worst (tm) she wants to be the head of the family and she'll do just about anything for it,,,her df is alcohol and she uses it for interrogations bc ppl are more likely to talk when theyre wasted
Ivory is a big girl like 14 ft tall and shes katakuris wife but i havent done much with her yettt....she had her voice stolen by a df user when she was young so she has a df that lets her communicate with her mind and she helps margarita with interrogations,,,she doesnt like it but its what shes gotta do
Zinnia. Briefly existed as my strawhat oc but i just kept failing to design her so idk if anything will ever come of her :/ i planned a wing df for her but again never got very far with it
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1-170 for those honest asks
1: How tall or short do you wish you were?
idk 5′5″?
2: What’s your dream pet? (Real or not)
snaek
3: Do you have a favourite clothing style?
I rly like darker clothes
4: What was your favourite video game growing up?
alien vs predator
5: What three things/people do you think of most each day:
bf
my friend Caitlin
kai
6: If you had a warning label, what would yours say?
emotionally unavailable for a while
7: What is your opinion on [insert person/thing here]?
u didn't insert the thing
8: What is your Greek personality type? [Sanguine, Phlegmatic, Choleric, or Melancholic]
phlegmatic
9: Are you ticklish?
very
10: Are you allergic to anything?
not anymore
11: What’s your sexuality?
atm I'm going for gay ace
12: Do you prefer tea, coffee, or cocoa?
cocoa
13: Are you a cat or dog person?
cat
14: Would you rather be a vampire, elf, or merperson?
vampire honestly
15: Do you have a favourite Youtuber?
callmekevin, graystillplays, or rtgames
16: How tall are you?
5′1″
17: If you had to change your name, what would you change it to?
like legally? either spencer cade or kai
18: How much do you weigh? [Only ask this if you know the user doesn’t mind!]
idk? i think abt 57kg
19: Do you believe in ghosts/spirits?
yes
20: Do you like space or the ocean more?
spaece
21: Are you religious?
not rly
22: Pet peeves?
leaving the door open when ive asked to close it
23: Would you rather be nocturnal or diurnal [opposite of nocturnal]?
nocturnal
24: Favorite constellation?
orion
25: Favorite star?
idk
26: Do you like ball-jointed dolls?
not rly?
27: Any phobias or fears?
bugs that fly
28: Do you think global warming is real?
yeah
29: Do you believe in reincarnation?
yeah
30: Favorite movie?
idk rn
31: Do you get scared easily?
kinda
32: How many pets have you own in your lifetime?
47 if u consider every animal thats lived in the house
33: Blog rate? [You’ll rate the blog of the one who’s asking.]
5/10 ig ur anonymous
34: What is a colour that calms you?
blue
35: Where would you like to travel and/or live?
i wanna see mountains
36: Where were you born?
england
37: What is your eye colour?
blue
38: Introvert or extrovert?
introvert but also i have no shame
39: Do you believe in horoscopes and zodiacs?
yeah
40: Hugs or kisses?
both is good
41: Who is someone you would like to see/visit right now?
bf
42: Who is someone you love deeply?
bf
43: Any piercings you want?
ears
44: Do you like tattoos and piercings?
I DO
45: Do you smoke or have you ever done so?
i have not but my mum did
46: Talk about your crush, if you have one!
aaaaaaaaaaaa okay so
ive mostly been able to ignore this crush bc we dont talk much but hes so good im love him and idk what to say s o
47: What is a sound you really hate?
scrapping
48: A sound you really love?
bf laugh
49: Can you do a backflip?
i can not
50: Can you do the splits?
i can not
51: Favorite actor and/or actress?
tom holland
52: Favorite movie?
idk is this a repeat question
53: How are you feeling right now?
hungy
54: What colour would you like your hair to be right now?
blue. bright blue.
55: When did you feel happiest?
idk i think when my bfs and i started dating
56: Something that calms you down?
hugs
57: Have any mental conditons? [Only ask this if you know the user doesn’t mind!]
yeah i have:
- depression
- autism
- adhd
58: What does your URL mean?
well i was remaking my blogs after the age purge and i was making the discourse one and went “okay what is this about” and thought “idk lgbt i guess”
59: What three words describe you the most?
idk
60: Do you believe in evolution?
yeah
61: What makes you unfollow a blog?
not much
62: What makes you follow a blog?
interesting
63: Favorite kind of person:
idk
64: Favorite animal(s):
canine
65: Name three of your favourite blogs.
@shutthefuckup-terfs @official-cisphobe @purgatorian-princess
66: Favorite emoticon:
idk
67: Favorite meme:
idk
68: What is your MBTI personality type?
idk
69: What is your star sign?
aquarius
70: Can your dog roll over on command, if you have a dog?
she can if its my brother asking
71: What outfit out of all your clothes do you like to wear the most?
i have one outfit
72: Post a selfie or two?
im p sure i already have
73: Do you have platform shoes?
no
74: What is one random but interesting fact about yourself?
idk
75: Can you do a front flip?
i can not
76: Do you like birds?
i do
77: Do you like to swim?
i do
78: Is swimming or ice skating more fun for you?
swimming
79: Something you wish didn’t exist:
trump
80: Something you wish did exist:
dragon
81: Piercings you have?
i did have my ears pierced but they healed
82: Something you really enjoy doing:
reading
83: Favorite person to talk to:
bf
84: What was your first impression of Tumblr?
it was rly nice
85: How many followers do you have?
232
86: Can you run a mile within ten minutes?
i cant run ten metres
87: Do your socks always match?
sometimes
88: Can you touch your toes and keep your legs straight completely?
i cant stand w my legs straight
89: What are your birthstones?
amethyst
90: If you were an animal, which one would you be?
idk
91: If a flower could aesthetically represent you, what kind would it be?
blac
92: A store you hate?
m&s
its nice but the sound is bad
93: How many cups of coffee can you drink in one day?
i dont
94: Would you rather be able to fly or read minds?
fly
95: Do you like to wear camo?
yes
96: Winter or summer?
winter
97: How long can you hold your breath for?
10secs
98: Least favourite person?
family
99: Someone you look up to:
idk
100: A store you love?
euro pizza
101: Favorite type of shoes
slippers
102: Where do you live?
northumberland
103: Are you a vegetarian or vegan? If so, why?
no
104: What is your favourite mineral or gem?
quartz
105: Do you drink milk?
i do im a milkdrinker
106: Do you like bugs?
no theyre demons
107: Do you like spiders?
no
108: Something you get paranoid about?
being watched
109: Can you draw:
kinda
110: Nosiest question you have ever been asked?
idk
111: A question you hate being asked?
idk
112: Ever been bitten by a spider?
no
113: Do you like the sound of waves at the beach?
yesss
114: Do you prefer cloudy or sunny days?
cloudy
115: Someone you’d like to kiss or cuddle right now:
bf
116: Favorite cloud type:
idk
117: What colour do you wish the sky was?
purpura
118: Do you have freckles?
i do not
119: Favorite thing about a person:
idk
120: Fruits or vegetables?
fruit
121: Something you want to do right now:
idk
122: Is the ocean or sky prettier?
ocean
123: Sweet or sour foods?
sweet
124: Bright or dim lights?
dim
125: Do you believe in a certain magical creature?
idk
126: Something you hate about Tumblr:
bigots
127: Something you love about Tumblr:
art
128: What do you think about the least?
idk
129: What would you want to be written on your tombstone?
“bastard at heart”
130: Who would you like to punch in the face right now?
brother
131: What is something you love but also hate about yourself?
clingyness
132: Do you smile with your teeth showing for pictures?
sometimes
133: Computer or TV?
computer
134: Do you like roller coasters?
no
135: Do you get motion sickness or seasickness?
no
136: Are your ears lobed or attached?
attached
137: Do you believe in karma?
yeah
138: On a scale of 1-10, how attractive would you say you are?
5
139: What nicknames do you have/have had?
idk
140: Did you have any pretend or imaginary friends?
yeah
141: Have you ever seen a therapist/shrink?
yeah
142: Would you say you are a good or bad influence on others?
idk
143: Do you prefer giving or receiving gifts/help?
idk
144: What makes you angry
disrespect
145: How many languages do you speak fluently?
1
146: Do you prefer boys, girls, and/or non-binaries?
boys + boy nbsz
147: Are you androgynous?
yeah
148: Favorite physical thing about yourself:
idk
149: Favorite thing about your personality:
idk
150: Name three people you would like to talk to right now in person.
bf
other bf
idk
151: If you could go back into time and live in one era, which would you choose?
idk
152: Do you like BuzzFeed?
unsolved yeah
153: How did you meet your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend/partner? [If you have one.]
i joined a discord server
154: Do you like to kiss others’ foreheads or hands for platonic reasons?
kinda
155: Do you like to play with others’ hair?
yeah
156: What embarrasses you?
why would i tell u
157: Something that makes you nervous/anxious:
idk
158: Biggest lie you have ever told:
idk
159: How many people are you following?
1215
160: How many posts do you have on your blog(s)?
3343
161: How many drafts do you have on your blog(s)?
1
162: How many likes do you have on your blog(s)?
2272
163: Last time you cried and why:
idk
164: Do you have long or short hair?
short
165: Longest your hair has ever been:
waist
166: Why do you like, dislike, or have neutral feelings about religion?
for the most part its dislike when it comes to organised religion but if its just personal its fine
167: Do you really care how the universe and world were created?
kinda
168: Do you like to wear makeup?
sometimes
169: Can you stand on your hands or head for more than thirty seconds?
nope
170: Did you answer the questions you were asked truthfully?
yeah
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hey i was the one who messaged yesterday about how my gf calls me bf and gf equally and also steals my clothes!! she wants me to say that shes happy you think we're cute and also that she wants you to know how much she enjoys the panic in peoples eyes when she switches how she refers to me and they scramble to figure out if shes cheating on me or going through partners really quick. 'plus i get a boyfriend AND a girlfriend but theyre the same person so i think im winning really' - Mo (the gf)
hklfgdhkhf thats so funny tho!! omg i love u guys #relationshipgoals
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Being Alone, Another One, and Ass: al Having a bf is kinda like having a kid. "When was the last time vou showered?""You've been on ur game for 7 hours". Needs his clothes laid out, have to go clothes shopping bc they won't. Can't trust them to pack their bag for a trip Face it, you can't do life alone boys. 7/29/18, 05:32 from он 12.8K Retweets 48.8K Likes Shout out to all my straight sisters I'm so sorry Jesus, leave his ass We learn fast to be very kind and attentive, tho My mom, who got her degree in Marriage and Family Counseling when she was 60, says studies show that women will sometimes sometimes leave a long term relationship to live on their own for a while before seeking a new relationship, but men will almost never leave a long term relationship without having a new relationship either in progress or just beginning. They don't want to give up the caretaker they have without another one on deck or in the wings This is so sad This isnt cute or quirky. This means hes a fucking hopeless user Please date a man who actually acts like an adult. Ok I lived with my ex for 2 years and he literally wouldn't be able to get his own food if I wasn't at home, I'd get home from work and he'd be angry at me for "making him starve" My current partner has lived on his own for 8 years and the absolute most I have to help him with is maybe sending him $20 so he can make a bill payment on time It made me realise for 2-4 years I wasn't a girlfriend I was a fucking mother Men who have been independent are capable of reverting if given the slightest excuse. When we married, my ex husband was 10 years older than me and had lived on his own for 8ish years. Yet (and I allowed this until finally got fed up and took us to counseling) I did 80% of the cooking, because I was better at it. Same with the cleaning, shopping, social planning, etc After I left, in the first six months I got texts or calls asking me to please tell him The online banking password (dude, I left you, you should really change that) Where l ordered his special-wecial organic underwear Where the good cutting board was (my dad gave it to us at our wedding, genius, I took it with me along with the rest of the stuff from my famil What brand butter we bought What brand of local kielbasa we bought . Who his doctor was What RMV office had the shortest lines Where the old tax returns were (in the fucking box labeled tax returns) The phone number for his best friend I shit you not. Then he had a heart attack (mild) and none of his family or friends were around to take him to the hospital. But instead of calling 911, he called me, who by then lived 45 minutes away. He lived 5 minutes from an EMS dispatch location. He called me, despite the fact that he didn't believe me 8 months prior when I was feeling suicidal and I had to call a cab to go alone to check myself into the hospital for a 72-hour hold. I told him to call 911, hung up on him when he whined about "making a fuss", called 911, called his siblings and then texted them "your brother is having a heart attack, I called 911 for him, come home," and washed my hands of it. Emotionally vacant men who won't do household labor or emotional labor are not Nazis, but they aren't good people, either, and you don't have to put up with their shit. Millennial women of Tumblr, please read this post. And then please: make the decision for yourself to never stay with a man who expects you to be his mother and servant. Straight women are doomed because of straight men that refuse to take care of themselves. We need to stop babying grown men Let me tell y'all a story These behaviors? They match my mother's behavior My mother hasn't paid a bill in the last 19 years of her life. My father always did them because she couldn't remember to pay her credit card bill at the end of the month. My father, in trying to clean up her stuff because shes a horder, was yelled at for touching her things, but she refused to clean herself. She laid in bed all day while my father fed and took care of us. My mother even once said that she doesn't see my father as a partner, she sees him as a superior When she kicked my father out of the house, my mother refused to go out shopping for grocreys, she rathered go out to the mall with her friends while the kids where home eating quesadillas because we literally only had cheese, tortillas, and rotting veggies in the fridge. That weekend my dad took us grocrey shopping, she was furious for undermining her She refused to work, refused to pay the bills, she refused to clean up her shit, and was seemingly incapable of taking care of the children. I was once so sick I was unable to fucking walk, and she didn't believe me and made me take care of my sister while she went drinking And now that my parents are divorced, she found another man to do all this shit so she doesn't have to be responsible. There's another man raising her daughter because she doesn't want to leave her bed This isn't a "straight women" issue. Painting it as one can seriously harm people and their views on their own relationships. Everyone should be wary of people who cant function independently dammit. THANK YOU And all l'm seeing are victims of parental emotional abuse who were deliberately not taught independence as a form of making them dependent on the abuser and lack of communication with their spouses Also the fact men try to move onto a new partner could be idk because theyre fucking lonely you idiots This whole post is just people who had bad experiences trying to act like the whole world is as bad as they think it is Source: 191,774 notes Jan 22nd, 2019 This whole post is just people who had bad experiences trying to act like the whole world is as bad as they think it is.
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collegebf!jihoon
a/n; congrats to jihoon for being accepted into uni;-;-; and btw pls pardon the mb that was the closest thing i could find to college jihoon in my laptop
masterlist// requests are open
major: theatre/acting
wanted to take up aerospace technology, but decided to go for his real passion instead
got in through rolling admission, didnt have to face the stress of college entrance examinations
however a very talented actor, able to shed tears in 30 seconds
havent had his first kiss despite acting since five,, and people are shook lol
has looks crafted by the acting gods, visuals made for acting
able to pull off both bad roles and good roles
honestly very friendly and humble young actor, seniors are certain he will make it big in the industry one day
will greet classmates and lecturers good morning and bid them goodbye
lowkey enjoys classics like romeo and juliet, lord of the flies, julius caesar, animal farm
does well in the prose section in tests because he reads widely
actually a well all-rounded student, perfect 4.0 gpa in every semester
took up ballet in high school oops and hence knows every scene in ballet classics like sleeping beauty
sings and raps decently, a good dancer too,, a literal golden child lol
but below the perfect boy surface,, jihoon is an avid gamer who always occasionally stays up till the wee wee hours of the night to play games
like overwatch sorry guys that’s the only game i know
sometimes will arrive to class late, hair in a mess and last night’s pyjamas
but at the end of the day he does well in everything without even trying so the lecturers just let him be
you didn’t even know why you took up theatre,, maybe its because you scored an A in literature during your college entrance exams
communications was too controversial for you anyway
you had zero to little acting experience, the only experience you had was pretending to be sick in school
like jihoon, for the prose section of tests you would score full marks most of the time
but drama section was your pitfall
not that you couldn’t act, but you had a fear of being on camera
selfies with friends are fine, but you just don’t like your pictures being taken in general
one day, your lecturer gave out an assignment, apparently it’s paired work and your partner has already been chosen beforehand
you liked pair work, and honestly one of the only ways you can pull up your grades for the drama section
once you received your assignment, you read the name below yours in bolded itallic,
park jihoon
you sighed, you were afraid of being a burden to the golden student, since he already has secured his own distinction anyway
you were acquaintances with jihoon, but not that close to be friends either
“y/n!” jihoon settled into his seat beside you, “i’m glad we are partners, at least you won’t be like some of the girls in this class…”
you smiled weakly, thankful that he didn’t have a bad impression of you already, “what about them?”
“they always wanted to add a kiss scene in the plot, just to kiss me, its just, ugh.” this was the first time you’ve seen jihoon getting annoyed, and you found it cute honestly
“that’s gross, but don’t worry, i wont make you kiss me, i don’t think you’d want to either.” you patted his back, and you swore that you saw a tinge of hurt in jihoon’s eyes momentarily
“thanks y/n.”
for the first 2 days, you and jihoon practically breezed through the prose section, sharing your favourite scenes of the classics
“romeo and juliet was a good ending”
“no, they should’ve ran away with each other”
despite conflicting ideas the both of you worked well together and became much closer than before
at first you thought jihoon was a little bit of a tsundere, but the more you knew him, the more goofy he seemed
like how he liked penguins, and has a few penguin stuffed toys on his bed
and you also learnt that jihoon used to do classical ballet in high school, which was lowkey a surprise for you
then came the drama section, the both of you decided on romeo and juliet
wow im so basic sorry guys
you didn’t force jihoon to kiss you too, so the both of you just settled with jihoon putting his thumb in between the both of your lips
or almost kissing
bahbam y’all “kissed”
jihoon told you it was a method actors use so that they don’t really kiss the actress,, and he pulled out that card for all of the girls who wanted to kiss him lol
he even was super sweet about the whole thing, asking if you were uncomfortable and stuff
you always said you wouldn’t but your heart would race whenever he did a tiny bit of skinship like hugging or holding your hand
ultimately, it was just for the grades, right?
wrong.
jihoon had the biggest crush on you ever since the both of you were in the same class
he was just scared of approaching you, scared that you would think he’s trying to get into your good books
so he was really excited when the lecturer announced that you were his partner
and when you said “i don’t think you’d want to either” to the kiss he was lowkey slumped bc it meant to him that you thought of jihoon as a normal friend and not something more
so on the day of the drama showcase, jihoon could sense your nervousness
usually you were ok but today you werent
“what’s up y/n? are you not feeling well?”
“i have a phobia of being on camera,” you wrung your hands together, “sorry jihoon, i’m bringing down our grades–”
“no, y/n, look at me.” jihoon made you face him, his features gleaming under the light, “we’ll overcome this together. i promise.”
“how?”
jihoon then swooped down and kissed your lips, which definitely took you aback
“w-what”
“just imagine the camera isn’t there, and there is no one in the classroom except us.” jihoon smiled, as if the kiss didnt happen
you were definitely calmer than before, weirdly, and nodded.
when it was you and jihoon’s turn, he gave your hand a small squeeze
it went pretty smoothly, with no camera-fright for the first time
until the kiss scene, jihoon actually kissed you for real
and the whole class was shooketh bc park jihoon,, kissing a girl for the first time?? wowzers
in the end, both of you got your As and you got yourself a boyfriend out of it too
honestly jihoon is more of a homebody than you think
he would want to stay at home rather than go out on dates
so he would invite you over to his dorm, to watch movies or just cook for him lol
sometimes he would ask you to play games with him too, but you’d fail
he would be somewhat addicted to his games too, so you have to get through all means and ways to get his attention back on his work
dont be surprised if he calls you at like 3am telling you hes hungry
and you only read it the next morning
“did you see the message i sent you?”
“no…?”
“i sent it at 3am and it said 2 ticks…”
“you’re gaming again?? YAH PARK JIHOON”
“hahaHAHAHHAHAHAHAH yes im sorry babe please forgive me:
has his designated seat beside you in every class
sometimes the lecturer has to call him out for being too clingy to you and its embarrassing when everyone just has their attention on the both of you
save this clingy baby please
will help you hold your notes,, and sometimes clean up with you at your dorm or home
your mother loves him already even tho she only met him through facetime
likes to go to find all the ramen stores in the vicinity and try all of them out
also likes taking pictures of you when you dont notice
and sets it as his kkt bg
your contact in his phone is saved as baby girl💓💕💖💗💘💞
and his contact saved on your phone is baby boy❤💙💚💛💜
you know those boyfriends who treat their girlfriend like theyre their entire universe? yup thats jihoon
and like his eyes light up whenever he talks about you its just so endearing
likes to be the big spoon when cuddling just so he can engulf you in his arms
hardly gets mad but even if he does its not that serious and over something stupid like him losing his notes or something
jihoon knows where to draw the line, when you need to study he tries not to disrupt you
keyword: tries
overall, a clingy but sweet koala as your bf, you could never ask for more
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this isnt a suggestion but i get rlly weirded out when my qpp tells me i will find a bf/gf soon because I only want to be with my qpp, but if they get a bf soon I will get scared and just cry asfdsfa, even if i want to see them happy, it scares me that they'll leave. if i get a gf or bf i really would be weirdedout too, but maybe i like my qpp in a romantic way but theyre straight and dont like girls... it grosses them out asdf
im not too good with romantic advice, but id suggest really showing them you aren't interested in a partner, and when they talk about wanting a partner bring it up to them that you're not sure if you'd be comfortable with that! the most important part of a qpr is knowing each others levels of comfort. with my qpp they're totally fine with my girlfriends and other qpp while as my past qpp was very uncomfortable with seeing me give people romantic affection, but we ended up making it work, and when it no longer felt natural for us, we split! always make sure theres lots of talk between your qpps and you❤❤ if you need any more advice feel free to message me! have a good day/night
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