#they're not scared because they are gay
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Idk, but I do know that they're having fun terrorizing the local Nord population with their antics.
Taliesin and Nebarra dancing together (spontaneously) in a rather suggestive manner in the middle of the Ivarstead's Inn at 5am: is this a form of courtship?
#skyrim#skyrim custom followers#taliesin#nebarra#is this some altmer courting i just saw ???#they're not scared because they are gay#they're scared because it's too elves that are dressed like active Thalmor members#and they're dancing together#They didn't know that the Thalmor could dance#clutching their Talos amulets#clutching my pearls#by talos this can't be happening#there's two#in the inn#dancing#I mean love wins#but they're *Thalmor*
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I genuinely really fucking hate how some bisexual women do not view relationships with women as valid in the same way m/f relationships are.
A bisexual woman at my work recently got married and she told me that she's told her husband "if you fuck up, my best friend (a woman) is on stand by, just so you know" and I KNOW she would never fucking say something like that about a man. She would never tell her husband that he better behave because she has another man on the back burner if he doesn't.
When I was in high school, one of my friends went back and forth between questioning and identifying as bisexual. Eventually she outright asked me if I wanted to have sex with her so she could explore that part of herself. That's an awkward spot to be put in no matter what, but it was made worse by the fact she was in a serious relationship with a man (as in, she is still with him to this very day). When I asked her why she'd make such a pass at me while having a boyfriend, she said that "he's okay" with her exploring that part of herself. And it's just like. Lmao. Okay. Tell him you want to explore with another man and tell me what happens. What is there to even explore? You are with HIM. Clearly you've made your choice. Your exploration is over, boo.
I know there are so many other examples out there. Some bisexual women outright say they will never marry a woman and would only ever fool around with one. It's sickening. f/f relationships are not lesser than m/f ones. Treat your female partners better (ESPECIALLY if they're lesbians) or don't disturb them at all.
#There's something to be said about how parents are more 'accepting' of bi kids as long as they don't end up in gay relationships#Sometimes I think some bisexual people just do not wanna fully commit to gay relationships because they're scared of what that means
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coming out
(text cuz I know my handwriting is bad and the pen I used doesn't help: "as long as you're happy, Lu, it doesn't matter to me! You're still my brother"
#my art#fanart#luigi#smb#super mario#luigi fanart#mario#mario fanart#super mario bros#i headcanon luigi as gay because it's fun#i hear a rat while i queue this I'm scared of my workplace#also they're sitting down thats why they're the same height 🫡 i had drawn their legs but it was hard so i gave up#i also know his mustache would follow his mouth and not just hover but I'm LAZY and didn't want to fix it#lip? not mouth idk i went back to edit this when i got home
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One thing I love about that scene is how casually SQQ pushes Binghe around and manhandles him. Book 2 was heavily defined by his complete terror of Luo Binghe, and now all that fear is just gone. Binghe is even enraged with jealousy, but it doesn’t even threaten him anymore. Nothing has changed but his perception of the situation and it makes all the difference. Makes me feel all warm and fuzzy.
that's so true!! I think that really says something about how far they've come, especially taking into account the two previous scenes. like you said, Shen Qingqiu spends so much of book two terrified that Luo Binghe wants to kill him, but by now he's figured out Binghe's feelings for him and is realizing that Binghe doesn't actually want to hurt him. before the Tent Shenanigans, there's the scene where they're fighting before SQQ's soul gets yoinked out of the plant body, and then there's Holy Mausoleum arc. there's a lot to unpack in their fight in the plant body but I think most relevant is that SQQ is less Scared and more Pissed Off, and as many people have pointed out, Binghe did not intend to actually hurt him in that scene, he was just trying to scare him because he thought he was fulfilling a role SQQ wanted him to play. and he was Also Pissed Off.
and then there's the Holy Mausoleum, which is just. so much. Holy Mausoleum I love you, best arc in the whole damn series. but SQQ spends most of that arc carrying Binghe's unconscious body around and protecting him, and they have their Moment when they're both sobbing at each other. at this point, SQQ is really coming to understand Binghe's feelings for him and that Binghe doesn't truly want to hurt him. plus this scene in the tent starts with Binghe kissing him and SQQ snapping at him to kneel and Binghe fucking DROPPING to his knees! this might be the first point in the story where they are truly Equals, especially in SQQ's understanding of things. Binghe might be the terrifyingly powerful demon emperor protagonist, but SQQ has the authority to shove Binghe around and the security in knowing he's not going to be dismembered for it
so yeah, he can manhandle Binghe as much as he likes! Binghe even enjoys it, even if he's also angry that someone else is daring to look at Shizun
#asks#anonymous#they're still very dysfunctional at this point <3#but they're getting CLOSE to being functional#or at least as functional as these two can get#i saw someone say this was the point when they're at their most equal#because it's after sqq acknowledges that binghe is in love with him (and therefore isn't going to kill him)#but BEFORE he acknowledges his own feelings#so he hasn't yet assigned all his weird baggage about being in a gay relationship with the protagonist to their relationship#like later on once he's confessed we see his issues about like. ''i can't top the protagonist!'' and all his other internalized homophobia#but he hasn't acknowledged his own feelings at this point#so he's more comfortable bossing binghe around#like ordering him to kneel and seriously scolding him for being disobedient#which like. binghe clearly enjoys. a LOT. he likes being scolded and bossed around by sqq#and i think sqq is aware that it's a Sex Thing for binghe#but he hasn't acknowledged that it might also be a sex thing for him too lol#because he hasn't acknowledged that the attraction goes both ways yet#so he can snap at binghe and shove him around and SIT ON HIM but it's fine because it's not like it's a sex thing for HIM#<- he is a buffoon#anyway this is my dom sqq agenda#i think i've gotten off track. um. where was i.#anyway yeah it's really nice seeing that he's not scared of binghe anymore :')
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hear me out: aramata SLOWBURN. i mean painfully slow. it takes them (almost) a whole decade. mainly because i think their relationship needs to develop to where they are both fully comfortable and fully accepting of their relationship, as well as attraction to each other. i think matakara knows he likes arajin already but post-canon it takes a while since they're trying to balance their relationship to be more equal. he also isn't entirely sure if arajin likes him back and wants to let their friendship heal first. arajin is deep in denial about being attracted to men in specific so i think it would take him longer. he'd accept being attracted to matakara first (because over time, i think he'd open up, accept his own insecurities and mistakes more etc) but when it comes to being attracted to men he's used to thinking of himself as straight and gets defensive when questioned so when he actually confronts it years later he'd be like "...wait a minute" the same thing i said about matakara applies here (trying to heal their relationship first before anything else) also they both take their relationships really seriously (implied in this short story) so i definitely think they would have to go through a lot, be certain about it and commit fully.
#the pining is painful to watch for all witnesses involved#especially matakara SOMEONE HELP THAT BOY#they both probably have their moments of gay crisis#like moments where they're like “shit i like him a lot i wish i could say something” but they're also determined to not mess up this time#ofc they do mess up and still have their fights but i like to think they come out of each problem stronger yk#and eventually they just know that they've like#loved each other the whole time. with everything- all their flaws and quirks#i think they wouldn't be OFFICIALLY dating until a decade later as in they both are fully committed#at some point they're no longer scared of being rejected because they realize the other will still love them no matter what#bucchigiri?!#matakara asamine#arajin tomoshibi#matakara x arajin#aramata#certifiedlesbianvampire’s rambles#headcanon#but this could just be an AU technically
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lays on the floor do you guys ever think about how in ResF Bulma falls for Vegeta's fake-out with Freeza and both she and Yamcha are worried about Vegeta's villain fake-out strategy in Champa and Beerus' mini tournament and how it's only been a couple of years since the Buu saga and how Vegeta straight up stopped using that strategy after that tournament
#i do#do you think he noticed it upset her twice in a row and was like 'oh I haven't earned the trust back yet i'll retire this strat'#'it's fun to scare people but i do not like my wife being scared we can put this one up on the shelf for emergencies only'#because like bulma can consciously trust him and I'm sure she does but one can still have The Fear if you've seen your spouse relapse befor#And he probably thinks it's very amusing but it is also almost certainly very not funny for her no matter how much she trusts him#and the next arc is Trunks and she's so worried about the way he left she ignored the PDA rules and squished him when she saw him alive#Because Geets determination can be self destructive when it comes to Bulma and Trunks and he killed himself to protect them once before#and knowing how connected they've been for so long some part of her probably Knew he would opt to stay behind and die like he was going to#And I love the idea that between those two events and all of the things Trunks tells him about Bulma during the GB arc Geets has to really#really be confronted with how loved he is -- and it's not that he wasn't aware before but knowing she even missed him at his worst#and loved him maybe even before she was pregnant -- means the cruel part of his mind can't make excuses for why she stayed with him#I also like to think that being confronted with the idea that Bulma is still scared for him getting his worst wires tripped#wouldn't be offensive to him. Knowing he's still got work to do if his wife is worried about those things happening to him again#is just proof that she loves him with his flaws and was still thinking about it and supporting his recovery when he didn't#even notice he was recovering -- which has always been true of her -- and now he has the chance to support her recovery in return#and being in a place where he can still put that work in to make her feel secure in his priorities is a privilege and a gift#and man I just really like how casually comfortably close they are in Super's manga I love them a lot they worked so hard#to make each other feel safe and secure for the past decade+ that it's Easy for them both now and they're SUCH a confident couple#and I am once again shaking the anime by the shoulders WHY didn't you give us that they are SO the team's Mom and Dad in the manga#until Goku riles Vegeta up -- then Piccolo is the team Dad. Bc Piccolo is the team Grandpa aksjda The Z-Fighter's locker room judge#dbtag#vegebul#putting the whole essay in the tags again oops#happy pride i am gay for a whole married couple
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Edwin actually has a really bad reaction when Paul smacks him and it is insane to write
#but charles is the one who pushes him into hell#which is a far far worse reaction#edwin is just like really really upset and triggered and freaked out#which i think is authentic to the character. he gets really angry but he is also scared because he was like. tortured#and also Paul is angry because he thinks they're gay for each other#which they are#so#hes a very violent man from the 80s
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i need yuri iwasuga to go rollerskating.... not as a date because they aren't dating yet but as a group activity with their friends... my vision
rollerskating is actually one of the few physical activities iwa isn't the best at so they usually hang outside the barrier but suga is always able to convince her to come join them for a little bit. they hold hands <3 [to keep iwa steady!!! to help!!! shut up!!!! <- suga when her friends that Know are like 😐🤨]
#haikyuri#'why did you make iwa bad at rollerskating' because its funny#and also an opportunity for gay#when suga offers to hold hands so iwa doesn't fall iwa is like 'i do not think this will help' in her help but agrees because they're gay.#and then is even more 😳😳😳 [gay!!!!] because wow suga is stronger than she looks#fun fact when i was a kid i would get invited and go to rollerskating birthday parties but never skated#it scared me. still does. i don't want to fall!!!!
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do you ever have a comparison or a crossover of two things you like that are so wildly different with such specific interpretations that you don't even know how to share it because the Venn diagram center might just be you
#on a completely unrelated note#Does anyone here like both wicked and adventure forward because I have a comparison#That kinda doesn't make sense but kinda does#like glinda becoming a symbol for good (ha) because she knows the truth about the perceived villain but is#Too scared of discomfort and cowardly in a way to truly help and make actions towards changing the status quo#While Anshine also becomes a symbol (ha) for good but doesn't know the truth about the perceived villain as that was stripped from him#Along with the rest of his memories#he still tries to figure out the truth and learn more about what happened#But Anshine's not afraid to change the status quo he's not afraid of what might happen if he stands up to the “authority figure” of sorts#They also both would look great in a ball gown but that's besides the point#Elphaba is painted as a symbol for pure evil even though she try to do what was right#people's perception of her was changed forcefully but she still does the actions on her own accord#Still in an attempt to do what's right#And eventually causes someone close to her to literally lose his mind (heh)#While Stratosfear is painted as a symbol (I am not making the same joke twice) for pure evil forcefully#He attempts to do what's right and succeeds only to be forced to do his actions#He keeps looping his perception keeps being reset but his actions aren't his own#And eventually he causes someone close to him to lose their memories#Also there's a guy in charge who's lying to everyone#So yeah that's my unhinged comparison#They're also all gay#Doomed yaoi vs doomed yuri fight to the death ig#a rare original post#Wicked spoilers#In the tags??? It's more likely than you think#I am not tagging both of them for stuff that's in the tags#Posts where the tags are the actual post but I'm a coward to post the actual post
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respectfully Jekyll what the fuck are you trying to do here

LIKE WTF IS THIS POSE WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO ACHIEVE BESIDES MAKING YOURSELF LOOK LIKE AN IDIOT AND EASILY SPOTTED BY PRANCING ABOUT IN BROAD DAYLIGHT

gay <33
muted colours Hyde brings me so much happiness to my eyes and soul he is so adorable

as for this sequence
only way it can be summarised: GAY GAY HOMOSEXUAL GAY ™️
thank you all for attending today's session of rambling it is short because i have a headache from only getting 4 hours of sleep and the update has been powering my body this entire time-
#the glass scientists#Literally so tired but i skipped sleep#because i was so scared of missing the update#kkat's monday rants#tgs update#tgs spoilers#your honour they're both gay for Lanyon#one last sighting of our beloved Lanyon#before shit hits the ceiling fan for these two
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Get yourself an employer who not only has the train schedule memorized but also ends meetings in such a fashion that you can get there on time
#In other news today went super well#I'm gonna work there a couple of days in May to see how it fits and then I'll probably work there next summer!#At first I was scared she clocked me as trans because she went on this spiel about how they're accepting of all people no matter their race#Or religion or sexuality and told me about their lesbian sugar baker#Because I had mentioned my partner. My boyfriend. I am a man. She wanted t make me feel accepted as a gay man not a trans one#That made me really happy#Also doesn't really need mentioning but this job has much much better conditions than what my d boss was offering after my apprenticeship#Like a Euro more and yearly pay increases and more vacation days and 5 day weeks instead of 6 day weeks#So like. Bingpot!
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something very tragic about looking at dean's relationships with most of the women he knows especially through an aro!dean lens because he so clearly wants deeper relationships with them but because he's dean and has Problems and A Role To Perform, he can only allow himself to have it through romantic attachments that he isn't even comfortable with.
#ack#he just wants trust and he wants security. and whenever he finds that he wants that with someone who is a lady#he automatically forces himself down this path :((( because that's how he's Supposed to interact with women#and then obviously whenever he gets close to men who aren't sam he gets scared that he's being too gay. because he has All The Problems#can't accept that he can just be emotionally intimate with the people around him without romantic love being involved... aahhhh#sam of course being the Exception because sam's his brother and exempt from all this. which is probably why he's happiest when its just him#and sam. (in canon.) it's less a matter of like 'he only cares about sam' and more#'caring about sam isn't complicated'. or well. it is. but that's Sam&Dean specific complicated. not a wider societal narrative complicated.#they have their own little world with its own issues.#actually dean is most stressed out when sam is bringing the outside world into theirs. jess. ruby. amelia.#they're proof to dean that sam is not immune to the wider world. that he might value a romantic relationship over the one he has with dean.#which he does not ever react to in a healthy way because he's dean. but v relatable to be upset by honestly.#anyway. dean and gender and romantic orientation. not heavy topics at all.#spn#aro!dean#dean winchester
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First gourd (and radish) I carved in my life 31 October 2019
#the drawing I class i was in in undergrad had a pumpkin carving day that year#i decided to be rebellious and buy a pumpkin to carve for the first time but when i went to the store there were no more pumpkins :')#so i got a gourd and a little skeleton for inside caude i wanted a scene#it was the first time i had carved anything for Halloween ever and i remember feeling so sinful at the time#there was this one person Maddie who was also giving tarot card readings and they were one of my major events(?) to realize i was gay#i didnt get a reading from them cause i was scared that was going too far and I would be too far gone messing with the 'occult'#and they made me nervous but i wanted more and couldnt figure out why (i chalked it up to them being 'cool' and wanting to be their friend)#anyways maddie gave me the radish cause they also didnt bring a pumpkin and had two radishes (cause they were buy 1 get 1) from Winn Dixie#i still think about maddie now and we talk sporadically i told them if they're ever in Chicago to come and visit me but they live in Canada#their art inspires me and i believe they could design a fantasy game or novel because of their work (i own a weird little dog of theirs)#i never mentioned anything to them at the time about being infatuated with them in class and i doubt i would now bc our life goals dont mesh#but i consider them to play a important role in my life and i appreciated the radish and wish i got the readings done#its wild how much growth can happen in just a few years -- i bought a mini pumpkin in September because i wanted to celebrate early#back then when i got home the gourd and radish was forcibly thrown away (and i didn't dare tell of my encounters in class with the lesbian!)#(i hold that memory in my heart & think of it fondly cause i hadnt realized yet i have much compassion for younger me who was never sinful)#now in grad school there is a new Maddie 🍈 who told me she didnt know why she keeps looking at my face in class and i think i know why#but she has yet to get there <3
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Listening to the persona 5 soundtrack, and half of me is complaining about the game and how it contradicts its own revolutionary message time and time again and the other half wants to overthrow the government
#like seriously what the fuck compelled them to have Joker and Ryuji convince Ann to strip in front of a random creep she doesn't know#right after the arc about a teacher that sexually and physically abused her and her friend#also the old#haha#these guys are gay#and they're creeps#and they forcibly drag a teenager away#the game that is all about revolution and rebellion is too scared to go all the way#and persona 4 is a game all about truth and discovering your true self#but like in a no homo way#don't worry you still get to point and laugh at those who are different than you even in a game about acceptance and truth#Makoto who fought the government and the police want to become a policewoman#because what's more rebellious than enforcing a system that you have been shown cannot be changed from the inside#but the music fucks#it fucks hard#rx
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