#they're not scared because they are gay
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Idk, but I do know that they're having fun terrorizing the local Nord population with their antics.
Taliesin and Nebarra dancing together (spontaneously) in a rather suggestive manner in the middle of the Ivarstead's Inn at 5am: is this a form of courtship?
#skyrim#skyrim custom followers#taliesin#nebarra#is this some altmer courting i just saw ???#they're not scared because they are gay#they're scared because it's too elves that are dressed like active Thalmor members#and they're dancing together#They didn't know that the Thalmor could dance#clutching their Talos amulets#clutching my pearls#by talos this can't be happening#there's two#in the inn#dancing#I mean love wins#but they're *Thalmor*
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I genuinely really fucking hate how some bisexual women do not view relationships with women as valid in the same way m/f relationships are.
A bisexual woman at my work recently got married and she told me that she's told her husband "if you fuck up, my best friend (a woman) is on stand by, just so you know" and I KNOW she would never fucking say something like that about a man. She would never tell her husband that he better behave because she has another man on the back burner if he doesn't.
When I was in high school, one of my friends went back and forth between questioning and identifying as bisexual. Eventually she outright asked me if I wanted to have sex with her so she could explore that part of herself. That's an awkward spot to be put in no matter what, but it was made worse by the fact she was in a serious relationship with a man (as in, she is still with him to this very day). When I asked her why she'd make such a pass at me while having a boyfriend, she said that "he's okay" with her exploring that part of herself. And it's just like. Lmao. Okay. Tell him you want to explore with another man and tell me what happens. What is there to even explore? You are with HIM. Clearly you've made your choice. Your exploration is over, boo.
I know there are so many other examples out there. Some bisexual women outright say they will never marry a woman and would only ever fool around with one. It's sickening. f/f relationships are not lesser than m/f ones. Treat your female partners better (ESPECIALLY if they're lesbians) or don't disturb them at all.
#There's something to be said about how parents are more 'accepting' of bi kids as long as they don't end up in gay relationships#Sometimes I think some bisexual people just do not wanna fully commit to gay relationships because they're scared of what that means
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coming out
(text cuz I know my handwriting is bad and the pen I used doesn't help: "as long as you're happy, Lu, it doesn't matter to me! You're still my brother"
#my art#fanart#luigi#smb#super mario#luigi fanart#mario#mario fanart#super mario bros#i headcanon luigi as gay because it's fun#i hear a rat while i queue this I'm scared of my workplace#also they're sitting down thats why they're the same height 🫡 i had drawn their legs but it was hard so i gave up#i also know his mustache would follow his mouth and not just hover but I'm LAZY and didn't want to fix it#lip? not mouth idk i went back to edit this when i got home
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There's a deep irony in Berserk being so admired by people who really really hate what Berserk is about on an emotional level, but especially when writers want to take influence from it. Because Berserk is very strong thematically, and someone who can't acknowledge subtext is going to whiff on emulating anything good.
#And by that I mean that like many of its influences and descendants the plot is fundamentally driven by toxic gay shit lol#Listen there's just no beating around the bush here: you either understand this type of story is super emotional#That the softness and hope and love for humanity is vital connective tissue between the edgy violent dark setting#And that at its core the queerness is *central*#Or you will just end up creating something toothless and cynical with tokenizing bullshit at best#You cannot make that lightning strike twice if you're too scared to even write that shit as ACTUALLY core to the plot#You don’t have to make your shit gay to be good you just have to understand if your major influence was gay and why#So that you respect subtext and thematic writing and emotional resonance in writing in general#And maybe understand that if you also want credit for pushing the envelope you get where the real standard is#This is one of those things I see in equal measure in dudebro homophobes and supposedly progressive queers#No that wasn't “bait/delusion” it was barely subtext and if you go into writing with that attitude you're going to write shallow shit lol#I genuinely believe when people lament about reading comprehension they're actually talking about willful ignorance#Because willfull ignorance *does* cause a need to deny reality to a point where it warps your ability to understand information#Having difficulty comprehending text from a learning disability or improper teaching#Has fucking nothing on someone whose deliberately trained themselves to rationalize away anything uncomfortable#Tag rant over but this shit really is a plague and you can see it so starkly when it comes to Berserk#An undeniably respectable work from a place many envious little goblins that covet it do not actually respect
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hear me out: aramata SLOWBURN. i mean painfully slow. it takes them (almost) a whole decade. mainly because i think their relationship needs to develop to where they are both fully comfortable and fully accepting of their relationship, as well as attraction to each other. i think matakara knows he likes arajin already but post-canon it takes a while since they're trying to balance their relationship to be more equal. he also isn't entirely sure if arajin likes him back and wants to let their friendship heal first. arajin is deep in denial about being attracted to men in specific so i think it would take him longer. he'd accept being attracted to matakara first (because over time, i think he'd open up, accept his own insecurities and mistakes more etc) but when it comes to being attracted to men he's used to thinking of himself as straight and gets defensive when questioned so when he actually confronts it years later he'd be like "...wait a minute" the same thing i said about matakara applies here (trying to heal their relationship first before anything else) also they both take their relationships really seriously (implied in this short story) so i definitely think they would have to go through a lot, be certain about it and commit fully.
#the pining is painful to watch for all witnesses involved#especially matakara SOMEONE HELP THAT BOY#they both probably have their moments of gay crisis#like moments where they're like “shit i like him a lot i wish i could say something” but they're also determined to not mess up this time#ofc they do mess up and still have their fights but i like to think they come out of each problem stronger yk#and eventually they just know that they've like#loved each other the whole time. with everything- all their flaws and quirks#i think they wouldn't be OFFICIALLY dating until a decade later as in they both are fully committed#at some point they're no longer scared of being rejected because they realize the other will still love them no matter what#bucchigiri?!#matakara asamine#arajin tomoshibi#matakara x arajin#aramata#certifiedlesbianvampire’s rambles#headcanon#but this could just be an AU technically
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Man I might jus be vanilla
#toxic yuri this#toxic yaoi that#mf that's not romance that's a domestic violence case#watching one person emotionally manipulate or straight up abuse another person is not hot or sexy it's disquieting and deeply uncomfortable#i understand if its used to explore abusive relationships and how to avoid or overcome them but like#abuse isnt sexy just because it's gay#manipulation and torture isn't sexy just because its gay#no offense to those of you who enjoy it but i#genuinely cannot#im down for obsession but not possession#I'm down for jealousy but not straight up ownership of a person#'oh this guy regularly beats up that guy and declares his genuine hatred and disgust for him#so tsundere we all know they're actually in love'#HE KILLED HIS MF PARENTS#THEY ARE NOT IN LOVE THEIR MORALS ARE THE ANTITHESIS OF EACH OTHER'S#tHEY COULD NEVER POSSIBLY GET ALONG#LET ALONE BE IN A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP#'oh that girl is emotionally manipulating and controlling another girl and the other gurl is to blind/sad/crazy to see it'#'clearly she abuses her and controls her emotions because they're in love'#THAT'S NOT SEXY#i.L UNDERSTAND WRITING A NARRATIVE TO EXPLORE TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS BUT WHEN YOU WANT RELATIONSHIPS TO BE TOXIC IT CONCERNS AND DISCOMFORTS ME#PEOPLE WHO ONLY SHIP FOR TOXICITY SCARE ME#sorry i had to get that off my chest ive been meeting alot of people that seem enamored by abusive relationships and i dont understand it#or care for it
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lays on the floor do you guys ever think about how in ResF Bulma falls for Vegeta's fake-out with Freeza and both she and Yamcha are worried about Vegeta's villain fake-out strategy in Champa and Beerus' mini tournament and how it's only been a couple of years since the Buu saga and how Vegeta straight up stopped using that strategy after that tournament
#i do#do you think he noticed it upset her twice in a row and was like 'oh I haven't earned the trust back yet i'll retire this strat'#'it's fun to scare people but i do not like my wife being scared we can put this one up on the shelf for emergencies only'#because like bulma can consciously trust him and I'm sure she does but one can still have The Fear if you've seen your spouse relapse befor#And he probably thinks it's very amusing but it is also almost certainly very not funny for her no matter how much she trusts him#and the next arc is Trunks and she's so worried about the way he left she ignored the PDA rules and squished him when she saw him alive#Because Geets determination can be self destructive when it comes to Bulma and Trunks and he killed himself to protect them once before#and knowing how connected they've been for so long some part of her probably Knew he would opt to stay behind and die like he was going to#And I love the idea that between those two events and all of the things Trunks tells him about Bulma during the GB arc Geets has to really#really be confronted with how loved he is -- and it's not that he wasn't aware before but knowing she even missed him at his worst#and loved him maybe even before she was pregnant -- means the cruel part of his mind can't make excuses for why she stayed with him#I also like to think that being confronted with the idea that Bulma is still scared for him getting his worst wires tripped#wouldn't be offensive to him. Knowing he's still got work to do if his wife is worried about those things happening to him again#is just proof that she loves him with his flaws and was still thinking about it and supporting his recovery when he didn't#even notice he was recovering -- which has always been true of her -- and now he has the chance to support her recovery in return#and being in a place where he can still put that work in to make her feel secure in his priorities is a privilege and a gift#and man I just really like how casually comfortably close they are in Super's manga I love them a lot they worked so hard#to make each other feel safe and secure for the past decade+ that it's Easy for them both now and they're SUCH a confident couple#and I am once again shaking the anime by the shoulders WHY didn't you give us that they are SO the team's Mom and Dad in the manga#until Goku riles Vegeta up -- then Piccolo is the team Dad. Bc Piccolo is the team Grandpa aksjda The Z-Fighter's locker room judge#dbtag#vegebul#putting the whole essay in the tags again oops#happy pride i am gay for a whole married couple
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Y'all realize it won't be besties then reveal angst kiss right? It's gonna be 4x04 cranked up a notch. Buildup then reveal that makes everything feel crazy.
It's gonna be wanna make a move anyways but don't know if I should/I shouldn't and THAT'S what adds to the angst of finding out about the feelings AND the lie.
It's gonna be momentum. It's gonna be romance regardless. It's gonna be they fall in love even deeper even if Will had been telling the truth, they just wouldn't get together/in time if it weren't for the painting. The pining will be there tenfold, the painting. Isn't the story. It's just the final straw. It's just the permission.
They fall in love in every universe. Even the same one twice. (Three times)
#i love the way you love#bc i just re realized#byler#stranger things#byler <3#Get you a ship where the reason they're angsty is because they can't not fall in love with each other#but remember guys it only works if it's gay queerness justifies everything straight ships are bad at because it actually has stakes#forbidden love doesn't happen irl to white straight people and furthermore “so scared of being hurt i hurt others” is bot forbidden love#it's a you problem#byler tropes#FORBIDDEN LOVE!!#BUT THEY CAN'T HELP IT!#THEIR LOVE PERSEVERES DESPITE THEIR EFFORTS!
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Edwin actually has a really bad reaction when Paul smacks him and it is insane to write
#but charles is the one who pushes him into hell#which is a far far worse reaction#edwin is just like really really upset and triggered and freaked out#which i think is authentic to the character. he gets really angry but he is also scared because he was like. tortured#and also Paul is angry because he thinks they're gay for each other#which they are#so#hes a very violent man from the 80s
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i need yuri iwasuga to go rollerskating.... not as a date because they aren't dating yet but as a group activity with their friends... my vision
rollerskating is actually one of the few physical activities iwa isn't the best at so they usually hang outside the barrier but suga is always able to convince her to come join them for a little bit. they hold hands <3 [to keep iwa steady!!! to help!!! shut up!!!! <- suga when her friends that Know are like 😐🤨]
#haikyuri#'why did you make iwa bad at rollerskating' because its funny#and also an opportunity for gay#when suga offers to hold hands so iwa doesn't fall iwa is like 'i do not think this will help' in her help but agrees because they're gay.#and then is even more 😳😳😳 [gay!!!!] because wow suga is stronger than she looks#fun fact when i was a kid i would get invited and go to rollerskating birthday parties but never skated#it scared me. still does. i don't want to fall!!!!
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i think it's time to take a page from the james flint gay agenda manifesto; stop trying to convince people that the queers are not a danger to society, and become a menace to civilisation instead. the real queer agenda should be to overthrow any and all social systems. work in tandem with other marginalised groups and set heteropatriarchy on fire. become ungovernable, ignore social norms, uplift new voices. assimilation should not have ever been the goal. queer people are different. difference is good. the real enemy is conformity. conformity is responsible for every man made horror in history. war, poverty, hate crimes, slavery, genocide, they are all made possible by the existence and desirability of a status quo. remove the desirability of normalcy and you remove the foundation for all systems of suffering. systems work because a majority of people have decided it was in their best interest to uphold them. but is it really? remove the desirability of normalcy and you have no grounds for competition. keep quiet out of fear that the system will decide you are abnormal next, and you are making sure it will. fuck civilisation, fuck normalcy, fuck the status quo.
#rain posts#sorry watching black sails has enraged me#seeing gay people and women become outwardly transphobic#because they've convinced themselves that trans people are the problem#because they're so scared of society turning on them/relieved that the heat is off them for once#that they'll do anything to keep their spot on the normal people hall of fame#is so fucking heartbreaking#you fucking idiots are only succeeding in making sure that people remain categorised#that a hierarchy perseveres between normal and abnormal people#that inequality remains the foundation for civilisation#if you are anything other than a cis gendered heterosexual wealthy abled white western man#then society is not and will never be your friend#it's so fucking baffling that such a small group of people has managed to create an atmosphere of fear worldwide#where instead of saying fuck that we've all decided that we needed to find any resemblance we have to that tiny group of people#(being white or cis or male or straight etc)#and beg to be included based on that one similarity#i'm so fucking tired of normalcy i'm so fucking tired of quiet acceptance#be fucking weird. be appreciative of other people's weirdness. refuse to put anyone into categories#categories lead to classification and hierarchy#the most powerful weapon we have is non conformity#we all possess it. so fucking use it.#and at the very least (if you're scared for yourself) make sure other people's right to non conformity is protected and uplifted
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respectfully Jekyll what the fuck are you trying to do here
LIKE WTF IS THIS POSE WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO ACHIEVE BESIDES MAKING YOURSELF LOOK LIKE AN IDIOT AND EASILY SPOTTED BY PRANCING ABOUT IN BROAD DAYLIGHT
gay <33
muted colours Hyde brings me so much happiness to my eyes and soul he is so adorable
as for this sequence
only way it can be summarised: GAY GAY HOMOSEXUAL GAY ™️
thank you all for attending today's session of rambling it is short because i have a headache from only getting 4 hours of sleep and the update has been powering my body this entire time-
#the glass scientists#Literally so tired but i skipped sleep#because i was so scared of missing the update#kkat's monday rants#tgs update#tgs spoilers#your honour they're both gay for Lanyon#one last sighting of our beloved Lanyon#before shit hits the ceiling fan for these two
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Sometimes a joke is for you and you alone
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A sprite trace of ace attorney characters dressed in outfits of characters from the 23rd season of classic Doctor who. On a background of the 6th doctors tardis interior
From left to right is
Maya Fey as Peri brown
Phoenix Wright as the 6th doctor
Athena Cykes as Mel Bush
Miles Edgeworth as the valeyard
Kristoph Gavin as the Master
#ace attorney#miles edgeworth#phoenix wright#athena cykes#Kristoph gavin#maya fey#what matters is that i think im funny#things to note. er trying to get outfit refs from grainy still images of low buget 80 television shows in very difficult#especially when they're in all black.#i think the valeyard actually wears panta but its unclear and that seems stupid so he has proper robes here#i got half the masters outfit ref from a fucking action figure because the in show images were rough#kristoph gets to be the master over miles because the valeyard needs to be a procecutor and master x doctor is way more toxic than nmts#and i am saying that about like my two otps#krisnix has like a more similar mortal enemies but gay about it dynamic but i think theyre way more toxic#which is funny because Kristoph has done comparatively way less murder#mel was going to be ema or trucy but thinking about it athena fits her way to well. red headed fitness buff that the fans hate#also tracing Phoenix outfit to make it the 6's easy as hell. loved that. putting the pattening on? actual hell#it may be messy at points but im not cleaning it up for something with a venn diagram of interest with only me in the centre#i always get scared to tag stuff as classic who because like theres so much history and i feel like a fake fan.#posting cringe in the AA tags is so unscary to me now. its just my little encosure#6th doctor#classic who#fan art#colin baker#oh in case the joke goes over anyones heads the outfits are from the dw season thats a courtroom drama. its not well liked#also lets not think about the metaphysical consequences of miles being the valeyard. hes just the main prosecutor#and also i wanted to dress my blorbo in the stupidest outfit#this was fun thoigh. maybe ill do this for other dw characters and aa ones just without any pretense or context#just for fun
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i got borderlands headcanons that would ge t me blocked by majority of borderlands fans on here on both ends
#splash rambles#it's been kind of driving me nuts to see how many people only care about certain female characters on the half end of things to go ok cool -#they're gay. now lets pack that up and care about the men again everybody. we've done it. cuz who cares.#my thoughts on all the characters are so intricate with help from my friends and i haven't diverged as thoroughly as i could.#trying to put together playlists has been so fun. but excruciating.#full note. by blocked by ppl i am not a jack Fan. i mean for other reasons because i am a fuuucking menace#YES i think tyreen calypso deserved better YES i think borderlands sucks as a whole YES i like bl3 . paces in my little patch#NO I don't think they fucked Rhys up. compared to anything else rhys actually makes sense. but don't tell anyone i said that#the corporate buddy buddy thing is the worst part of it all if anything but rhys delving into his work and isolating himself makes sense#my weird polycule and aromantic hcs would scare people witless . i mean who said that.#anyway it's midnight video games suck. hi. I've been thinking too hard about it all if anyone cares#i have such a huge soft spot for tyreen. moxxi is easily one of my favorite characters. don't get me started on sasha. anyway
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Get yourself an employer who not only has the train schedule memorized but also ends meetings in such a fashion that you can get there on time
#In other news today went super well#I'm gonna work there a couple of days in May to see how it fits and then I'll probably work there next summer!#At first I was scared she clocked me as trans because she went on this spiel about how they're accepting of all people no matter their race#Or religion or sexuality and told me about their lesbian sugar baker#Because I had mentioned my partner. My boyfriend. I am a man. She wanted t make me feel accepted as a gay man not a trans one#That made me really happy#Also doesn't really need mentioning but this job has much much better conditions than what my d boss was offering after my apprenticeship#Like a Euro more and yearly pay increases and more vacation days and 5 day weeks instead of 6 day weeks#So like. Bingpot!
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something very tragic about looking at dean's relationships with most of the women he knows especially through an aro!dean lens because he so clearly wants deeper relationships with them but because he's dean and has Problems and A Role To Perform, he can only allow himself to have it through romantic attachments that he isn't even comfortable with.
#ack#he just wants trust and he wants security. and whenever he finds that he wants that with someone who is a lady#he automatically forces himself down this path :((( because that's how he's Supposed to interact with women#and then obviously whenever he gets close to men who aren't sam he gets scared that he's being too gay. because he has All The Problems#can't accept that he can just be emotionally intimate with the people around him without romantic love being involved... aahhhh#sam of course being the Exception because sam's his brother and exempt from all this. which is probably why he's happiest when its just him#and sam. (in canon.) it's less a matter of like 'he only cares about sam' and more#'caring about sam isn't complicated'. or well. it is. but that's Sam&Dean specific complicated. not a wider societal narrative complicated.#they have their own little world with its own issues.#actually dean is most stressed out when sam is bringing the outside world into theirs. jess. ruby. amelia.#they're proof to dean that sam is not immune to the wider world. that he might value a romantic relationship over the one he has with dean.#which he does not ever react to in a healthy way because he's dean. but v relatable to be upset by honestly.#anyway. dean and gender and romantic orientation. not heavy topics at all.#spn#aro!dean#dean winchester
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