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You are all the you, you need!

I had been pacing for almost 5 minutes. I had to address the cause of this unrest so to the mirror I went. I looked squarely at my reflection, removed my hoodie and spoke… “Not me again trying to rush yet another process that requires patience and its own pace. The healing process – of the mind and body. I can’t help it sometimes. I fully acknowledge that time is an illusion but at times my head…

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Reflections🤗

For the last couple of months, I’ve been reading my own blog. Not out of vain or anything. Just out of boredom and at times for inspiration. Other times I’ve been reading the right words or the right explanation for my feelings at a particular moment. And I have to say – I’m really impressed by this girl – by me and what I have gone through and shared. I’m mostly shocked by what I have shared but…

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Journey to Healing Pt5 - A few lessons I learnt from the experience

Journey to Healing Pt5 – A few lessons I learnt from the experience

In week 3, I believe, is when I finally received the final bill from the hospital💀 It was a big bill😱. Close to 100k (faints). How I asked? Let me paint you a picture… The surgery was a myomectomy. I was in hospital for 4 days. I had to be put under anaesthesia. I was in surgery for close to 5/6 hours (no-one is sure of the hours. I didn’t time it unfortunately). My brother in law took me there…

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Journey to Healing Pt 4 - 3 weeks since surgery😁

Journey to Healing Pt 4 – 3 weeks since surgery😁

Today marks 3 weeks post – surgery and what a roller coaster it has been. 🎢 Firstly, it’s just after midnight and I can’t sleep. Sleeping has been such a mission for me these past 3 weeks. It’s not that I am not tired or sleepy but I just can’t find a perfect position to sleep in. My back (lower back) and ass is cramping from the all 2 positions that I can sleep in – in a sitted position or flat…