#then thats your problem not mine

[the-oracle-of-the-lost]

i know it's a running bit that people treat their tumblr blogs like diaries and overshare and i don't have a problem with that (i overshare myself once in awhile) but i really think people, especially young people who grew up with social media, need to understand that not every thought needs to be a public thought. sometimes you need to work through shit on your own. you don't have a keep a formal diary – you can write stuff in a note and delete it or throw it away, you can keep things in a private conversation with a friend, you can use drafts to type up a thought and not post it, anything that doesn't involve broadcasting your innermost thoughts so anyone with an internet connection can see it.

it's not healthy and it shouldn't be the norm to broadcast Every Thought in public (and as much as you can pretend social media accounts and blogs are private, they are still public places) especially if you're working through a mental illness or trying to unlearn bigotries or something. it's a pretty common OCD thing to feel like you need to "confess" or publicly admit to "sinning" (talk about cultural Christianity...) and you really don't have to do that. if anyone gets weird about needing to know personal info or your "true" private thoughts to prove that you're not a bad person, then that should be a major red flag and they either need to work through some stuff too or are trying to glean information to manipulate you.

[sapphicscience]

Oh no! How dare a trans man talk about the discrimination he faces on the internet! The absolute horror. Obviously, only trans women ever experience discrimination!!!! No one other than trans women can talk about their experiences with discrimination. Absolutely not. Trans women are incapable of being whiny and annoying if they talk about their struggles with discrimination of violence, but everyone else sucks and should shut up.

yep that's what I said. good job reading :)

[rileys-battlecats]

PSA, keep your dog on a leash when you're in a public, unfenced area. dedicated to the lady that just tried to reassure me, "no she's nice! put your dog down! she's nice!" babe i believe you when you say your dog is nice. what you have not considered is that the dog I am holding is NOT nice and WILL attempt to attack your dog if I put him down. also we are RIGHT next to a busy road and there is Nothing stopping your dog from running into traffic. pls put her on a leash im literally begging you it is SO dangerous for her to not be on a leash here

[perilegs]

i'm trying to watch a trans guy critique some video game trans rep bc i'm interested in hearing more trans ppl talk about it. but he's very. i'm paraphrasing here but "why would anyone ever in a million years want their rpg character to have top surgery scars. isnt that a constant reminder to you and everyone around you about how you were born" and "you don't work on transitioning. you just need hormone treatment and possibly some--"

[hitracks]

is this anything

[sp1nnenlilie]

https://www.tumblr.com/sp1nnenlilie/767335651790274561/hes-so-gay-it-actually-pisses-you-off?source=share this boy has too much chemistry with every man he meets (rivals or teammates) for him not to like them. even a little. sorry, i don't make the rules 🙂‍↔️

EXACTLY.

you’re not even exaggerating because

I can understand that he loves his teammates very much but DAMN has he ever heard about personal space???

anyway

I know what you are gaviera. had to use that meme again im sorry.

[musashi]

why do you even go to the effort of portraying yourself to be this good, kind, understanding person? literally doesn’t it get exhausting lol

Bestie I literally have a "mean lesbian" icon what universe are you from where I pretend to be sweet and nice

[dukeofthomas]

I'd say my version of Jason is made up of;

Jason's original Robin run (Batman 408-428)

Under the Red Hood movie, with some parts of the Under the Hood/A Death in the Family comics (his resurrection, Sheila, sometimes the Batarang incident)

(LEGO DC: Batman - Family Matters, and an assortment of small things from Canon and Fanon ("Little Wing" nickname, experienced CSA, provides protection for prostitutes in crime alley.))

[kushblazer666]

Kys

[oh-cramity-its-amity]

i love my friends so much. i feel like yesterday i had a lot of shit going on in my head and i woke up to my friend explaining things in a way that put my mind at ease. i dont feel as anxious anymore because i know i was overthinking. i think my dad said it best when he told me that he thought my wonderful brain of mine just wants to think problems are bigger than they actually are. he is right! im just inexperienced in life and half of the time im scared im doing something wrong but- HEY. i need to be more confident in making mistakes. making mistakes doesn't define me as a person!! i need to stop worrying about doing life right and just live for the sake of living and doing what makes me happy!!!!!!!

[durchdenspiegel]

24.08.2023

After the horrifying realization that time has passed far too quickly, I‘m scrambling to finish my bachelor’s and sign up for the graduate program… more or less successfully. My conversation with my supervisor went well enough and I am actually looking forward to working on my thesis. I also need a language certificate, however, which is stressing me out immensely… Guess I‘ll just have to hope for the best

[aq2003]

i don't want to seek him out and tell this to him bc oh the horrors but i think i have become a bit more comfortable and confident in my voice after seeing ros watt's malcolm in macbeth

[stinkrascal]

also idk if i mentioned this but i will respond to any pronouns. i am incapable of being misgendered. actually my gender is your problem to deal with now so have fun with that

[sparrownnax]

anyways sometimes i wonder if i'm meant to be connected with people. don't get me wrong i appreciate my friends, but like my quality of life wouldn't go down too much if i hadn't met them. i like digging information out of people. they lose a lot of appeal once i know too much about them. i don't really have any kind of interest in pursuing any kind of relationship with people, romantic or platonic. i could take people or leave them. dunno

[angelstrawbabie420]

fucking whatever though yknow. i have to make this life as livable as possible but idk what that even means.

[cursingtoji]

These loser gf fantasies are so pathetic 😭How y’all wanna be losers both irl and in fantasies is crazy, pick me “I’m so not like other girls” ass bitches

people write loser gojo and other characters all the time, what's wrong with a loser reader? If you don't relate just scroll past it.

that post has over 5k notes, sending someone a message like this to prove you're not like those 5k people... that's pretty "im not like other girls" if you ask me