#theiropiniondoesntcontrolyourday

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Coz the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate...shake it off, SHAKE IT OFF! Listen, you CAN'T control how other people treat you or what they think of you. You CAN control your response to them. Their opinion doesn't control your day. If others disrespect you, still treat them with respect. Integrity and acting with honor is part of what builds your legacy. You're a Champion, so behave like a Champion. #BeKinderThanNecessary #ActWithIntegrity #BeHonorable #BeAChampion #Champion #YourResponseIsYourResponsibility #HatersGonnaHate #ShakeItOff #KindnessCounts #TheirOpinionDoesntControlYourDay #BuildYourLegacy #Legacy #MomTalk #SingleMom #TexasGirl #Over40 #GenX #Follow #Influencer https://www.instagram.com/p/Cd9mNtSNJrh/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Sometimes you get blindsided from out of nowhere. It can be confusing. It can be hurtful. It can literally make you go "what just happened here?!" Sometimes you're in situations, friendships, relationships, jobs, where God knows that's not what is best for you now and takes control to move you forward. It may be someone believes untruths about you from people who don't really even know you over what they have seen from you and how you've previously treated them. It doesn't matter to them when their mind is made up to believe the worst about you. It may be that one omission or mistake on your part, no matter the original intent behind it, blows up and becomes your entire character in their eyes, however untrue that is. You know what? You can't control their perception of you. The only thing you can control is yourself. Your behavior. Your reaction to what is being said about, to or against you. Their incorrect perception of you doesn't define your life. Remember that. No matter if they think it does. Wish them well, truly wish them the best, and then let them go. They're no longer a part of your life and it does no good to dwell on those situations. God saw fit to remove them when He saw that association would no longer benefit you. When He saw that you were either not bearing fruit or bearing the wrong kind of fruit. Whatever is not bearing fruit in your life, whomever is not growing you in the direction you need to grow, let them/it all go, because they're not bringing you life. Grow from your experiences, even if they are hurtful and pain filled and confusing. In everything there is a lesson, never lose the lesson when you let go of the situation or person. Holding on to dead things never made them, or you, grow!! Be like the trees and make something beautiful when you let the dead things in your life go. It's time. It's time to grow and you cannot grow without being pruned first. It's time... #Perspective #SelfLove #LearnTheLesson #GrowFromIt #BetterNotBitter #DontTrip #BetterEveryDay #StrongerThings #Purpose #LetItGo #KeepMovingForward #DontLookBack #WishThemWell #TheirOpinionDoesntControlYourDay #TheyDontDefineYou #MomTalk #SingleMom #Follow https://www.instagram.com/p/CiL0l9ntIpo/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Sometimes you get blindsided from out of nowhere. It can be confusing. It can be hurtful. It can literally make you go "what just happened here?!" Sometimes you're in situations, friendships, relationships, jobs, where God knows that's not what is best for you now and takes control to move you forward. It may be someone believes untruths about you from people who don't really even know you over what they have seen from you and how you've previously treated them. It doesn't matter to them when their mind is made up to believe the worst about you. It may be that one omission or mistake on your part, no matter the original intent behind it, blows up and becomes your entire character in their eyes, however untrue that is. You know what? You can't control their perception of you. The only thing you can control is yourself. Your behavior. Your reaction to what is being said about, to or against you. Their incorrect perception of you doesn't define your life. Remember that. No matter if they think it does. Wish them well, truly wish them the best, and then let them go. They're no longer a part of your life and it does no good to dwell on those situations. God see fit to remove them when He saw that association would no longer benefit you. When He saw that you were either not bearing fruit or bearing the wrong kind of fruit. Whatever is not bearing fruit in your life, whomever is not growing you in the direction you need to grow, let them/it all go, because they're not bringing you life. Grow from your experiences, even if they are hurtful and pain filled and confusing. In everything there is a lesson, never lose the lesson when you let go of the situation or person. Holding on to dead things never made them, or you, grow!! Be like the trees and make something beautiful when you let the dead things in your life go. It's time. It's time to grow and you cannot grow without being pruned first. It's time... #Perspective #SelfLove #LearnTheLesson #GrowFromIt #BetterNotBitter #DontTrip #BetterEveryDay #StrongerThings #Purpose #LetItGo #KeepMovingForward #DontLookBack #WishThemWell #TheirOpinionDoesntControlYourDay #TheyDontDefineYou #MomTalk #SingleMom #SingleMomLife https://www.instagram.com/p/CTfJKXnlurM/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Sometimes you get blindsided from out of nowhere. It can be confusing. It can be hurtful. It can literally make you go "what just happened here?!" Sometimes you're in situations, friendships, relationships, jobs, where God knows that's not what is best for you now and takes control to move you forward. It may be someone believes untruths about you from people who don't really even know you over what they have seen from you and how you've previously treated them. It doesn't matter to them when their mind is made up to believe the worst about you. It may be that one omission or mistake on your part, no matter the original intent behind it, blows up and becomes your entire character in their eyes, however untrue that is. You know what? You can't control their perception of you. The only thing you can control is yourself. Your behavior. Your reaction to what is being said about, to or against you. Their incorrect perception of you doesn't define your life. Remember that. No matter if they think it does. Wish them well, truly wish them the best, and then let them go. They're no longer a part of your life and it does no good to dwell on those situations. God see fit to remove them when He saw that association would no longer benefit you. When He saw that you were either not bearing fruit or bearing the wrong kind of fruit. Whatever is not bearing fruit in your life, whomever is not growing you in the direction you need to grow, let them/it all go, because they're not bringing you life. Grow from your experiences, even if they are hurtful and pain filled and confusing. In everything there is a lesson, never lose the lesson when you let go of the situation or person. Holding on to dead things never made them, or you, grow!! Be like the trees and make something beautiful when you let the dead things in your life go. It's time. It's time to grow and you cannot grow without being pruned first. It's time... #Perspective #SelfLoveSunday #LearnTheLesson #GrowFromIt #BetterNotBitter #DontTrip #BetterEveryDay #StrongerThings #Purpose #LetItGo #KeepMovingForward #DontLookBack #WishThemWell #TheirOpinionDoesntControlYourDay #TheyDontDefineYou #SingleMom #SingleMomLife https://www.instagram.com/p/CEzkcEfgSTP/?igshid=153kfp9ck5h0p

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Coz the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate...shake it off, SHAKE IT OFF! Listen, you CAN'T control how other people treat you or what they think of you. You CAN control your response to them. If others disrespect you, still treat them with respect. Integrity and acting with honor is part of what builds your legacy. You're a Champion, so BEHAVE like a Champion. And if need be, ask God to keep His hand over your mouth. #BeKinderThanNecessary #ActWithIntegrity #BeHonorable #BeAChampion #YourResponseIsYourResponsibility #HatersGonnaHate #ShakeItOff #EverythingYouDoMatters #EverythingYouDoNotDoMatters #LiveALifeYouWontRegret #KindnessCounts #TheirOpinionDoesntControlYourDay #SingleMom #SingleMomLife #RGPTribe https://www.instagram.com/p/CDrTnhFgAZc/?igshid=xzmqmpfj02lb

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Coz the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate...shake it off, SHAKE IT OFF! Listen, you CAN'T control how other people treat you or what they think of you. You CAN control your response to them. Their opinion doesn't control your day. If others disrespect you, still treat them with respect. Integrity and acting with honor is part of what builds your legacy. You're a Champion, so behave like a Champion. #BeKinderThanNecessary #ActWithIntegrity #BeHonorable #BeAChampion #YourResponseIsYourResponsibility #HatersGonnaHate #ShakeItOff #EverythingYouDoMatters #EverythingYouDoNotDoMatters #LiveALifeYouWontRegret #KindnessCounts #TheirOpinionDoesntControlYourDay #BuildYourLegacy #Legacy #RGPTribe https://www.instagram.com/p/CAjHTmpAKI_/?igshid=sernmq70txee

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Coz the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate...shake it off, SHAKE IT OFF! Listen, you CAN'T control how other people treat you or what they think of you. You CAN control your response to them. If others disrespect you, still treat them with respect. Integrity and acting with honor is part of what builds your legacy. You're a Champion, so BEHAVE like a Champion. And if need be, ask God to keep His hand over your mouth. Yes, I'm preaching to myself here... #BeKinderThanNecessary #ActWithIntegrity #BeHonorable #BeAChampion #YourResponseIsYourResponsibility #HatersGonnaHate #ShakeItOff #EverythingYouDoMatters #EverythingYouDoNotDoMatters #LiveALifeYouWontRegret #KindnessCounts #TheirOpinionDoesntControlYourDay #SingleMom #SingleMomLife #RGPTribe https://www.instagram.com/p/B09zeisgqgt/?igshid=1hb3hsr12q34s

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Coz the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate...shake it off, SHAKE IT OFF! Listen, you CAN'T control how other people treat you or what they think of you. You CAN control your response to them. If others disrespect you, still treat them with respect. Integrity and acting with honor is part of what builds your legacy. You're a Champion, so behave like a Champion. #BeKinderThanNecessary #ActWithIntegrity #BeHonorable #BeAChampion #YourResponseIsYourResponsibility #HatersGonnaHate #ShakeItOff #EverythingYouDoMatters #EverythingYouDoNotDoMatters #LiveALifeYouWontRegret #KindnessCounts #TheirOpinionDoesntControlYourDay #BuildYourLegacy #Legacy #SingleMom #SingleMomLife #RGPTribe https://www.instagram.com/p/Bx0JIwMg0iX/?igshid=1f39o1ry6pykq

[nicsplace]

Coz the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate...shake it off, SHAKE IT OFF! Listen, you CAN'T control how other people treat you or what they think of you. You CAN control your response to them. If others disrespect you, still treat them with respect. Integrity and acting with honor is part of what builds your legacy. You're a Champion, so BEHAVE like a Champion. #BeKinderThanNecessary #ActWithIntegrity #BeHonorable #BeAChampion #YourResponseIsYourResponsibility #HatersGonnaHate #ShakeItOff #EverythingYouDoMatters #EverythingYouDoNotDoMatters #LiveALifeYouWontRegret #KindnessCounts #TheirOpinionDoesntControlYourDay

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Coz the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate...shake it off, SHAKE IT OFF! Listen, you CAN'T control how other people treat you or what they think of you. You CAN control your response to them. If others disrespect you, still treat them with respect. Integrity and acting with honor is part of what builds your legacy. You're a Champion, so behave like a Champion. #BeKinderThanNecessary #ActWithIntegrity #BeHonorable #BeAChampion #YourResponseIsYourResponsibility #HatersGonnaHate #ShakeItOff #EverythingYouDoMatters #EverythingYouDoNotDoMatters #LiveALifeYouWontRegret #KindnessCounts #TheirOpinionDoesntControlYourDay #BuildYourLegacy