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I found a new thing in Gilmore Girls that would be so much better if Palladino and company had just had the guts to be more explicit about class on the show. And it’s Marty’s storyline.

So I’m one of those few people out there who really liked season 5! Marty, and even though I hate that he was written to crush on Rory I also think his confession scene and departure was well written (it was just ruined by season 7 hindsight). The thing is, I’m fully convinced that you could’ve had a big conflict between Rory and Marty that would cause a rift so big he wouldn’t come back for a full season without that conflict being Marty’s feelings for Rory. And you see what it could be in the same episode as Marty confesses. 

It’s the Life and Death Brigade.

So hear me out. In LDBs introductory episode we are not just introduced to the main trio (Logan, Finn and Colin) as womanizers and pranksters, but as people who pick on Marty because he has worked in their functions. Logan even explicitly states that he thinks he’s better than Marty, and it’s implied (if I’m remembering right) that he thinks so because he’s wealthier and has been in a position where he pays Marty. Then as we get to the confession episode, Marty gets dragged along to a dinner with the LDB gang where they frivolously spend money and then mock Marty for struggling to pay for things he didn’t even want to purchase. The LDB gang - Logan included - is shown multiple times to look down on Marty for his lack of wealth. Marty can’t socialize with these people because of that, but also because he literally cannot afford to spend time with them when all of their gatherings and events are money pits. But Rory’s dating one of them. To Marty, she’s actually dating the worst one. 

How do you think that would make Marty feel as her friend? 

He really doesn’t have to be into Rory or in love with her, his close friend dating one of his bullies is more than reason enough to cause a rift between Marty and Rory. And the thing is, this conflict could’ve been an impactful addition to Rory’s thematic storyline if the writers had just gone for it. Rory is financially and socially stuck between worlds. She will never fit into Logan’s world because of her upbringing, but she will always have more access to that world and resources than someone like Marty. And Rory “chosing” Logan’s world in season 5 before she hits rock bottom, and then returning to her roots (her mom, studying, Lane and Paris) and standing up for herself against Emily can be seen as a step in her journey of coming to terms with never being able to truly choose one world. And then Marty could’ve come back, not as a bitter former crush, but as a hurt friend who sees the change Rory is going through, and might help her along as she continues on this journey. 

We could’ve had a great storyline about the highs and lows of a friendship that’s affected by class, and instead we got a half baked nice guy plot.

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Girl Crush (Harry Styles fanfiction)

Hi there! I’ve decided to do something a bit more different in contrast to my Peter Parker fanfiction. This, of course, is a Harry Styles one. I’m in the middle of writing my Peter Parker fanfic, so there’s that.

I know this will sound really cliche that I used the president’s daughter premise/storyline but I think it’s cuter to be a bit more unrealistic and to have more of an idealistic setting and plot. American or not, you can surely fit yourself in the plot, we can all dream to be the president’s daughter (but not Trump’s! hellz nah!!)

It’ll also be featuring the rest of the boys in future chapters, I don’t know when, but they’ll appear. ;)

I hope you enjoy this short prologue.

ILY!

PROLOGUE

Y/n’s footsteps pitter-pattered against the carpeted floors, trying hard not to make a sound.

“Shoot, where’d I leave my keys?” Y/n grumbles, searching through her black handbag.

“And where did you come from?” A voice interrupts her from rummaging her purse.

“Crap…” Y/n mumbles.

“Ms. Y/n, your parents wish to speak to you in the yellow oval room.” Marty, her bodyguard reminds her.

“Both of them?” Y/n asks, dumbfounded.

“Yes. Best not make them wait.” He warns.

He opens the door and announces her arrival to the first couple.

“Alright, let’s get it over with.” Y/n starts as soon as Marty closes the door.

“It’s 1 AM and you didn’t have your bodyguards with you! I’ve been calling you for hours and not once did you answer my calls! Didn’t you ever think of telling me or your dad about your whereabouts?” Her mom chastises.

“Mom, I’m fine, I was just hanging out with my high school friends. What’s the big deal?” Y/n grumbles.

“The big deal is young lady, you never told us whereabouts and you didn’t even bother to bring your bodyguards with you! I just wish you called us.. heck, I wish you called me, that’s all. I would’ve understood.” Her dad reasons out.

“Richard, you have got to stop being so lenient towards our daughter. You and I both know what she did tonight was out of line!” Y/n’s mother protests.

“Honey, she’s 20 and she’s in college. She’s an adult, we can’t really hold her back from everything that we think is wrong. My only wish is for her to bring her bodyguards with her.” He argues.

Her mom just rolls her eyes at her husband’s statement.

Surely, as the First Lady of the most powerful country in the world, she wouldn’t have time to look out for you, but as America’s sweetheart, it’s in your image to become the obedient daughter your parents never had.

“Mom, what do want me to do? I stayed home for the summer, didn’t I? I was supposed to go to Europe to take fashion classes but you wanted me to be here?! Can’t I at least enjoy every bit of my freedom?” Y/n snarks back.

“Of course you can enjoy yourself, but your father and I were worried sick! We already have enough work on our plate as it is.” She admonishes.

Y/n’s parents were successful lawyers before her dad got into politics which eventually landed him the most important job in the world. Her mom, on the other hand, had to give up her law practice as soon she became the First Lady of the United States.

“Can you at least save some of your judgments and your screaming tomorrow morning? I need to rest.” She tells them, preparing to walk out of the room.

“You’re drunk, that would just be cruel. I’ll wait until you’re hungover so it’ll be twice as painful.” She tells her daughter before she could leave.

“Ugh!!” Y/n screams before walking out of the room and slams the door behind her.

4 hours earlier….

After Pre-gaming at one of her friends’ house, they decided to bring her to some gig.

“Why is It so dark and sketchy? I didn’t bring my bodyguards for this.” Y/n reminds them.

“Relax, it’s just a small gig. Nothing bad’s gonna happen…. Well if you don't count the high level of screams you’ll be hearing.” Andy, her friend tells her.

“I don’t think that’s what you consider a small gig, Ands.” She chastises her.

“Y/n, you’re gonna be fine. In fact, you’ll probably like this one.” Mia, her other friend chimes in, handing the tickets to the guard standing by the door.

Sure enough, there were about hundreds of girls squealing in anxiousness, and a handful of guys just casually waiting for the concert to begin.

Y/n walks toward the crowd only to be stopped by Andy.

“We’re not standing there. There’s a balcony upstairs that we may have reserved using your name.” She states.

“Oh wow. Thanks for the heads up!” Y/n facetiously tells them.

“Come on.” Mia leads the way upstairs, the guards smiling down at Y/n, probably recognizing the daughter of the President of the United States.

“Wow Y/n even these bald, muscley men are scared of you. I forgot how fun it is hanging out with the first daughter.” Andy laughs.

“Well nobody asked you to move to California for college. We could’ve been enjoying New Haven together.” Y/n reminds her.

“Yeah! Or with me in Chicago.” Mia adds.

The three of them sit on the couch as the lights begin to dim, the screams growing louder than before.

The guy with curly, brunette locks walks out to the center of the stage, fans screaming his name in complete hysterics.

“You dragged me to watch him?” Y/n looks at Mia and Andy with a disbelief look.

“Oh come on!! You know how much we love him and the band, plus he has a concert here tomorrow. This is more of an exclusive gig with like less than a hundred people invited.” Mia states.

“Yeah but that doesn’t mean I wanted to come.” Y/n grumbles.

“He’s really good, Y/n. Just give it a chance.” Andy adds.

Harry begins to sing Kiwi, the crowd jumping up and down to the beat of the music.

Y/n could feel the floor shaking, as Mia and Andy stand up from their seats and jump along.

As soon as the song ends, Andy and Mia look at her with grins on their faces.

“God! That was so good!” Mia exclaims, grabbing her by the arm, forcing her to stand up.

“Don’t be such a Debbie downer and watch the cute curly-haired guy serenading us.” She reminds Y/n.

All the lights point at the brunette guy who was strumming his guitar.

I got a girl crush

Hate to admit it but

I got a heart rush

Ain't slowing down

As cheesy as it was, Y/n could feel her heart drop. His voice was raspy but it was just enough to make her tummy flutter a little.

Harry strums his guitar, looking around the crowd as if he was looking for the subject of the song.

I got it real bad

Want everything she has

That smile and that midnight laugh

She's giving you now

“Not gonna lie, he’s pretty good.” Y/n tells Mia and Andy who are all smiling down at Harry, not paying attention to her.

Y/n just rolls her eyes and continues to watch.

Yeah, 'cause maybe then

You'd want me just as much

I got a girl crush

I got a girl crush

The shout of the fans interrupts Harry from his reverie while playing the song. It was one of the first songs he learned in the guitar and always had a special place in his heart, but he also felt as if he was being watched by someone but he doesn’t know who it was.

Harry gives a flying kiss to the audience as he hands the guitar back to his friend backstage.

“That was great, Styles! Let’s get hammered after this.” His friend tells him.

“I’m holding you to that.” Harry points back at him before performing another song.

As soon as the gig was done, the three friends decided to go to a pub down the road to drink until someone will pass out of drunkenness.

“Listen, you’ve had a long year! A break up isn’t the end of the world, drink up!” Andy hands a shot to Mia.

“It wasn’t a breakup, he just finally came out of the closet and I was his beard. I was a beard.” Mia drunkenly grumbles.

“Well, we all warned you, that boy was more feminine than the three of us combined. You really didn’t realize until he decided to go to Parsons for a fashion degree?” Andy asks.

Mia shakes her head.

“He checked out my prom dress and told me I was a lucky girl bringing a Harvard man to prom.” Y/n reminds her.

“God, why did he have to be gay?!” Mia takes two shots before wiping her mouth.

“Now you.” Andy points her finger at Y/n who just laughs at Mia’s misery.

“Do one more, Y/n!” Andy screams as she hands Y/n  a shot of pure vodka.

“I’ve had like 8 now! I can’t.” Y/n pushes the shot glass away.

“Come on! I know you’ve had more than that back in high school.” Mia giggles.

“That was high school. I’m a changed woman.” Y/n smiles her friends.

“Changed woman, my ass. You may go to Yale but we all know you have the social skills of a girl from a party school.” Andy retorts.

“I don’t want to drink anymore.” Y/n moans.

“I’ll take that then.” A voice interrupts the three girls as the sound of a ring clinks with the shot glass.

The three friends look at one another before moving their heads to where the guy is standing.

“Hi. I’m Harry.” He smiles at them before chugging down the vodka shot.

CHAPTER 1 , CHAPTER 2, CHAPTER 3

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Remaining in U.S. Regions.

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Out of the three active WIPs I have going on two of them heavily feature Glenn Babble and different headcanons I’m making up on the spot about him.

I really am on the world wide web treating a barely there minor character on 2 seasons of Gilmore Girls like free real estate

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“Coffee?” “Check,” Rory replied and held the can up. Marty nodded in acknowledgement. “Great, I got snacks covered with leftovers from last night’s alumni event. Glenn what have you got?” Glenn passed the threshold into the dorm and collapsed on the sofa with a frown: “Designated curriculum and despair.” “That’s everything, then?” Rory asked Marty. “Looks like it.”

The Yale Debbie Downers: a friendship ship

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Time for some Yale Debbie Downers headcannons:

Their most common form of social gathering is movie nights at Rory’s accommodation that quickly dissolve into borderline group therapy.

The second most common is panicked study sessions whenever Glenn is behind on something or right before exams for one last hurrah. There’s a lot of coffee, a little screaming, and a tragic lack of sleep.

Due to his job, Marty tends to bring very fancy finger food to their meets, which is always paired up with whatever was on sale at the supermarket... It makes for interesting combos.

Rory gets the guys into ‘chick flicks’ (emphasis on the air quotes). Rory convinced Marty by starting with critically acclaimed romcoms, and Glenn wasn’t really given a choice. Glenn is a sucker for tragic soulmates (think Nicholas Sparks, City of Angels) and Marty’s fond of the witty but sincere (think Mystic Pizza, The Last Days of Disco)

Paris wants absolutely nothing to do with any of this. She is judging really hard. And no she is totally not jealous and she is never going to get on surprisingly okay terms with Glenn and form a weird friendship with Marty no no of course not-

Because of their bond and knowledge of each other’s love lives and insecurities, each person becomes incredibly protective of the other two. This means Glenn and Marty being unapologetically hostile towards frat bros and snobs who make a move on Rory (regardless of how fair it is they do not like Logan (but will tolerate him for Rory)). This also means Marty and Rory getting into fightmode whenever somebody is demeaning towards Glenn or his ex tries to get him back.

Their bond also makes them each other’s cheerleaders! Like how Rory and Glenn encourage Marty to explore and gush about what he’s attracted to in people, and Rory and Marty giving Glenn tips for approaching new girls.

If Glenn and Marty ever get to meet Dean or Jess they will freeze completely. Infinite staring and awkward tension. They know so much about these guys who are just now learning their names. Glenn and Marty could publicly ruin these guys’ images and Marty is really uncomfortable with that power. Glenn wants to use that power for some light bullying but inevitably chickens out.

Rory brings the boys back to Stars Hollow one time and Lorelai is confused about it (to be fair Rory doesn’t seem to have had any close male friends before the show). The boys decide to pull a prank on Rory and pretend to be in a polyamorous relationship with her. They come across Mrs Kim who almost gets a heart attack. Both of them go back to Yale with the experience of Rory’s withering stare and a month’s worth of coffee bills to make up for the embarrassment they put her through. 

To spice things up and also push themselves into the social sphere, the three of them go to see student productions of plays/dances/musicals/etc. Marty puts on a fancy scarf, Glenn and Rory ‘play’ at being snobby critcs, and Rory forces Paris to make a collage of the programs as a sentimental token around gradution.

After graduation they drift a little apart at the start due to different jobs in different places, but manage to keep in touch by email. At one point Rory and Glenn work at the same paper and become attached at the hip at work. It spurs them to more actively keep up with Marty, and they arrange to meet at least twice a year for weird finger food and ranting about life.

They might also occasionally go to stage plays together as adults, which leads to some very weird reunions. Sometimes they come across other Yale alumni (usually LDB people with box seats if they go to something fancy), and sometimes it’s Broadway star and Chilton alumnus Brad Langford.

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I Need To Start A Garden: A Yale Debbie Downers fic by Ava_Was_Right.

Any second now, Marty was going to walk in with whatever leftovers he’d gotten from whatever luncheon he’d waited at the bar, and Rory would have to sit him down and explain that Glenn Babble was going to crash their Coen brothers marathon. That is if Glenn didn’t arrive first, red-faced and with teary eyes begging for a shoulder to cry on and her annotated copy of A Farewell to Arms.

She was screwed.

Read here.

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Me: spent almost a year watching season 5

Me: did not watch the entirety of season 6 or 7 as a kid and probably didn’t understand what she did see

Still me: One shot AU where Rory and Glenn and Marty were friends without romance drama but they stopped hanging out when she got together with Logan but after The Real Paul Anka Rory shows up at Glenn’s in the middle of the night crying and he comforts her and asks if she’s talked to Marty yet because Marty never liked Logan but Rory is afraid and when she goes to see Logan at the hospital Marty shows up (with Glenn) to tear him a new one because fights be damned that is his friend and she did not deserve to be treated like that and Rory gets motivated to not get back with Logan and her and Marty and Glenn go to Glenn’s place and spend hours catching up and crying and hugging and laughing and also there’s a lot of weird food for some reason.

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“Don’t let your dogs pee on the floor.” Paris left the room with a grimace. “What’s her deal?” Marty asked, briefly distracted from movie number two in their Whit Stillman trilogy marathon. “I think she might be jealous,” Rory admitted and grabbed another canápe. Glenn faked pity: “Aw, does Lady want to be a stray too?” 

Dorm Room Blues: a Yale Debbie Downers concept

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Rory, Glenn and Marty all in the same scene did I accidentally manifest the trio over a decade after the show finished??

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Conversion Therapy Sucks but It Does Inspire Comedy

New Post has been published on https://petersontoscano.com/homo-mo-halfway-house-helped-talk-climate-change/

How the Homo No Mo Halfway House Helped Me Talk About Climate Change

Trauma is no joke. Conversion therapy was no picnic. Yet, I learned so much about comedy and the power of storytelling through my own experience of trying to become straight through a variety of “Ex-Gay” programs. Now that I talk about climate change, I find I keep returning to the Homo No Mo Halfway House and the techniques I developed to help people give a damn about the the harm of conversion therapy. Yes, they needed to hear just how awful it was, but they also needed to see how ridiculous it was.

For instance in the gay rehab I lived in for two years, they had over 275 rules. But one time they added a new rule–No Bananas in the House. Apparently a fellow participant had a PFF–a Phallic Fruit Fetish. As a result, we were forbidden to bring into the facility any phallus shaped fruits. The condition though extended into the vegetable world–so no cucumbers, no zucchinis, no carrots–oh, except the mini carrots; they didn’t bother him.” Horrible and hilarious all in one.

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I don’t know about you, but it is easy to be that person at the party who brings the festivities to a halt. “Hey Peterson, what’s going on in your life and work?” I straighten up, smile, and say, “I’m really excited about my presentations about climate change.” People tense up. They expect the prophet of gloom and doom and shame and blame to start spewing forth.

It is easy to do. Climate change is downright dire and scary. I learned a long time ago though when talking about sexuality and the Bible, people need help to come close to these hot topic issues that stir up strong, negative emotions.

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Sara Peach at Yale Climate Connections asked me about the role of comedy and climate change communication, so I told her about the Homo No Mo Halfway House.

Toscano said in a recent interview that comedy can be an effective strategy for engaging people in difficult topics. Toscano, who is gay, spent nearly two decades undergoing conversion therapy, the discredited practice of attempting to alter a person’s sexual orientation. After abandoning the therapy and coming out, he struggled to talk about the harm he had experienced.

“I needed to tell that story, but telling it directly was too overwhelming for me and my audience,” he said. “It was too heavy, and it was bringing in hot-topic issues of faith and sexuality that provoked people. I realized I needed a different way.”

He tried comedy, eventually writing and starring in a 90-minute satirical play called “Doin’ Time In The Homo No Mo’ Halfway House: How I Survived the Ex-Gay Movement!”

Toscano said sharing his experiences in this way made the topic more approachable.

“The problem is, when people are tense, particularly when they’re afraid or ashamed or angry, they don’t think as clearly,” he said. “So comedy helps, because it can address a lot of those things. It relaxes the audience physically and mentally so they can hear what you’re saying.”

To read more of the article (and see delightful gifs of Debbie Downer from Saturday Night Live) check out Yale Climate Connections’ Advice Column.

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