#thats the POINT of the TRANS

[butchdykenormallen]

"do you want to live a life with extra bullshit? or do you wanna live your best life?"

ya see. this is contradictory. my best life is while being trans, being referred to as a male name, using my own pronouns, being happy. the extra bullshit is stuff i can leave behind. im doing this for ME. and only MEEE. i dont want to think about the rest of it when i can go to the supermarket and get called "sir" and "him" and "they" with the people i trust. i have experiences outside of you that i dont talk about because i dont have to. i love being me, and once im out of here, ill be who i wanna be without you.

[finleycannotdraw]

I don’t have the capacity to be coherent right now but. this movie is so good

[7roaches]

sorry that took like an hour i stopped to eat dinner heres my idea

[stefisdoingthings]

silence

also this is from Wolfwood's POV (in case it isn't clear) i have 0 normal thoughts (every song ever is VW)

[aropride]

this post is so bad my jaw actually dropped. like. yes being trans and going thru the wrong puberty is often incredibly traumatic. that is not the same as the intentional and widespread medical abuse against intersex people (especially children). irreversible medically unnecessary often physically harmful and psychologically harmful+traumatizing hormone treatment and surgeries are not the same as having to go through natal puberty, which is also often traumatizing, but it is different. and you know damn well that is not what intersex people are talking about when they talk about forced medical intervention and abuse. it is not the same thing at all. & this is such an obviously intentional misinterpretation of what intersex activists have been talking about.

[paper-mario-wiki]

posted this picture as a followup tweet to a followup tweet (about how two videos i made were ripped off by two separate people independently, and those videos got brought up on the stream of someone who has been a big influence on me by sheer coincidence) as a way to verify what i look like post-transition, and i think that it's a good enough picture that it deserves its own separate post. so here it is.

[i-am-the-plant]

I hate when people are like "It's unrealistic to head canon the mercs as Gay and trans people cause it's in the 1960s-70s" fucking Abraham Lincoln invented stairs and THATS unrealistic?

[spitblaze]

I will say this once because I'm tired of seeing stupid discourse: anti-transmasculinity is not about being treated bad because we clock as men, it's about being treated as stupid little girls because transphobes think we've been tricked into this.

It's kind of the opposite of transmisogyny- instead of fear and revulsion, it's constant condescension, the implications that we've been whisked away from femininity by scary bad guys, that we're going to cause 'irreparable damage' because we don't know what's best for ourselves, somehow. People fearmonger a lot about the "ugliness" of transfem people, but for transmasc people that 'ugliness' is used as a warning- you'll look like THIS! You'll go BALD! Your top surgery scars will leave you MUTILATED! A lot of aesthetic concerns. Worry about our 'beauty'. Because it comes from that same stupid reactionary 'we gotta SAVE the WOMEN' shit, but this time they have to save them from getting 'stolen away', as if we're being seduced or pressured into this. As if we can't make our own decisions.

For TERFS specifically, they're losing one of their own. We're 'gender traitors', willingly aligning ourselves with the half of the population they consider unilaterally dangerous and evil.

We aren't REALLY trans, we just want the benefits that men get. You don't actually want to transition, you're just trying to avoid misogyny.

You aren't actually a man, you're just a self-loathing lesbian.

Why can't you just be a butch girl? Why can't you just be a tomboy?

Why can't you just be something that I don't think is icky?

Anyway. Like all things, it boils down to misogyny. Women stupid and gentle, dont know what best for them, evil men trick into taking man juice, must save because lady stupid and dont know what best for them (having babies and being Feminine).

Theres like. Obviously more to this but I'm just a Transmasc Rando explaining this from my perspective, and I'm not the best with words. Anyone is free to hop in and add on to this

[holmsister]

Tragically I'm not a work but here have a nsft labru hc

One of my fave hcs ever is that while kabru is good at dirty talking just in general because of course he is, laios is just. Unhinged. He has no filter he just drops the filthiest shit you've ever heard with the most :| deadpan and kabru just has to Deal with it. Thankfully Laios is just socially aware enough to know such conversations are best had only with Kabru himself so like he won't start talking about holes in front of the Kakha Brud ambassador but once he's drunk all bets are off so he has to watch his alcohol intake carefully especially after one incident of, indeed, starting to talk about holes in front of the Kakha Brud ambassador.

This was before him and Kabru started dating so it was monster holes but tragically after him and Kabru started fucking his interest zero'd in on Kabru's body, which, even more tragically, is a human body and therefore a place where his and Kabru's interest intersect, and now you'd have like.

Kabru: *briefing Laios on important event in the near future*

Laios: ...

Kabru: you are so clearly not listening to me.

Laios: SORRY sorry I was just. Thinking.

Kabru: Laios.

Laios: The way you taste when i eat you out-

Kabru: LAIOS.

Laios: -it changes, that's a given, but I was wondering if it was more about your cycle or it was just a factor of like what you're eating and stuff like that? Do you think there are books on that or-

Kabru: ...for FUCK'S sake. *making sure the doors are locked* alright. We are in the first week after menstruation, note it down. I had some cheese, figs and a glass of white wine for lunch.

Laios: *licking his lips as he scribbles in his notebook* first week... white wine...

Kabru: *undoing his breeches* and we are coming back to the briefing afterwards, alright? You aren't gonna get out of this.

Laios: of course! Don't worry, you know I absorb knowledge better after a good meal!

Kabru: LAIOS!

[loveless-arobee]

"We need more weird queer people!"

and they can't handle gay trans men, especially not nonbinary gay trans men, and ESPECIALLY not aromantic gay trans man; and even less so when he's not a bottom and a femmy little twink (though they also can't accept trans femmy little twink bottoms, they'll make fun of them, too).

And their heads would explode if they only imagined a twink topping a bear (because big muscly man always top and dainty little fem always bottom), and just percieving a bear4bear/masc4masc or twink4twink/fem4fem relationship, where neither is "more masc" or "more fem" so they can't just decide who tops and who bottoms (absolutely not based in standards set by heteronormativity /s), would kill them instantly.

Be normal about gay men, especially gay trans men of all kinds.

[squuote]

okay I know we are all So Excited about the TSPUD Collector's Edition Stanlurine and Jim button but what about the Cow's egg. where's the cow's egg. I was promised a cow's egg with my sequel collector's edition.

(I'm sorry if this seems extremely random, the context is the TSP2 sequel video)

no cow's egg unfortunately. providing an alternative. its already hatched tho

[lokh]

mom avoids dead anime mom curse because he transitions. he’s always had a complicated relationship with pregnancy because of how woefully little people are told about potential complications and aftercare, and also because of how gendered it is, so after the birth of his second child he’s finally had it and decides to transition

he joins a local community group for mothers and at first it’s played for laughs how often they fall to the dead mom curse, but soon we find out more about how society has failed mothers and people who give birth, from information being withheld, procedures being carried out without consent, lack of accommodations and maternal and paternal leave, racism…

it also turns out that becoming a man doesn’t help with this, not really, because being a pregnant trans man brings its own problems. follow along as he learns more about being a parent and a mother, and maybe even… finding love???

coming to you never because I can’t write!

[bl4ckbox]

sending love this pride to anyone who has detransitioned and remains in the LGBT community. it requires an enormous amount of bravery to come to terms with detransitioning and it is often a struggle to find acceptance, empathy, or understanding from people that were once your peers.

you don't deserve to be punished or ostracized, for understanding yourself better, for making a mistake, for changing your mind, for discovering something new -- for being at peace with yourself. you don't deserve to be anyone's political pawn. you deserve just as much of a space as anyone else in your communities. you deserve to celebrate, to be proud.

🩷❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜

[rayclubs]

Okay actually I don't like to weigh in on popular discourse topics but the recent "bi woman's cis boyfriend at pride" thing is pissing me off because nobody ever has anything against bi men's straight girlfriends at pride, because whoever started this bullshit views men as a threat inherently and regardless of their allyship or queerness, because it's what the terfs put in the juice all those stupid cunts are drinking

[solargeist]

I remember you saying in a tag that if you had it your way xelqua would call grian papa (?) A few asks back, would that translate to the run away nun away as like. You having it your way because it more separate from kidxelqua and Evo aus

alas........ xelqua still wouldn't call him papa in that AU.......... i never win.....

since its a convent, he would've referred to grian using nun terms, grian probably wasn't even Out until after they ran away.

while grian and xelqua got along within the convent, xelqua was more so raised by other members, in that situation.

no papa rights.......

[love-3-crimes]

drag queen mind,,,, shes girly pop