#terfs can fuck off

[yellowraincoat]

I’m seeing a lot of valid criticism of white women in the us saying they’re going to join the 4B movement in response to trump being elected on tiktok,,,

BUT at the same time as an aroace woman I AM just cheering from the sidelines like “YES GORGEOUS GIRLS RAISE YOUR STANDARDS. DO NOT SLEEP WITH OR DATE MEN WHO DONT SUPPORT YOUR ACCESS TO HEALTH CARE. DO NOT SLEEP WITH OR DATE MEN THAT FUNDAMENTALLY DISAGREE WITH YOU ON BASIC HUMAN RIGHTS”

[harlotvonquinn]

Wow tumblr has become more of a place for the terfs to hang out; sad. I am really sick of seeing this garbage on my feed.

[meetmeinhellcroutons]

I hate hate hate hate HATE that whenever a post about feminism pops up on my dashboard now I have to go to op’s blog and check if they’re normal about trans people. terfs I will NEVER forgive you for this bullshit. I want so bad to be involved in online feminist spaces!

[roger-elizabeth-debris]

ya know, it kinds boggles my mind that terfs exist. like, imagine encountering someone so enchanted with femininity that they would give up everything to become a woman, including their privilege, their money, their body, and unfortunately often friends and family, and then deciding that that person is just a pervert or a fetishist

[naomitess]

Why the hell is Tumblr suddenly serving me up all these bullshit posts by TERFs "based on my likes"? WHAT THE HELL DID I LIKE THAT DID THIS

[creathur]

Love looking at the party list for this election and seeing so many terrible options.

wow

WOW

At least the colours and immediate jump to trans women and posie parker make it hard to miss that its a terf party.

It is a small independent party and I don't think it even shows in comparison to the big 6 but I did burst out laughing at how blatantly a terf group it was.

[my-inner-raven]

[dragonflylady77]

stumbled upon a TERF account on twitter and spent way too long scrolling down blocking everyone that person had retweeted before i blocked them

gonna go reread ficlets by @intothedysphoria to counteract all the hate I just accidentally ingested.

[verthanthi]

This thought hasn’t crossed my dash yet so I’m putting it there

It’s called Hogwarts Legacy

The fact that it’s antisemitic, terf propaganda should not be a surprise to anyone

The title told us exactly what to expect

We’ve known what jk’s legacy is trying to be ever since we grew into our critical thinking skills

[empath-demon]

i wish all trans people a lovely day

[unfortunate-beetle-and-friends]

I've literally been told by TERFs that I can't hide my "inherent male violence" (I wished ill on them in an admittedly shitty outburst when I'd just had e-fucking-nough) while elsewhere TERFs were telling me I had "worms in [my] brain" because I explained I was nonbinary in spite of my uterus, periods, and very prominent breasts. I imagine if those same TERFs knew about my natural testosterone levels and facial hair they probably wouldn't want me competing in women's sports. (As though I'd ever be admitted based on skill to any adult sporting event.)

TLDR; TERFs don't know what they're fucking talking about.

[inkskinned]

you have to go to work so you can pay for your doctor, who is not taking your insurance right now, and if you say i can't afford the doctor's you are told - get a better job. it is very sad that you are unwell, yes, but maybe you should have thought about that before not having a better job.

(where is the better job? who is giving out these better jobs? you are sick, you are hurting - how the hell are you supposed to be well enough for this better job?)

but you go to the doctor because you had the nerve to be hurt or sick or whatever else. and they tell you that it is because you have anxiety. you try your best. you are a self-advocate. you've done the reading (which sometimes pisses them off worse, honestly). you say it is actually adding to my anxiety, it is effecting my quality of life. so they say that you are fat. they say that all young people have this happen to them, isn't it a medical marvel! they say that you should eat more vegetables. they say that you probably just need to lose a little more weight, and that you are faking it for attention.

(what attention could this doctor possibly give? what validation? that's their fucking job, isn't it?)

there is always a hypochondriac, right. someone always tells you about a hypochondriac. or someone who is unnecessarily aggressive during the worst days of their life. or someone looking "for a quick fix". or some idiot who wasn't educated about how to properly care for themselves who just abandons their treatment. and again, the hypochondriac, the overly-cautious hysteric. these people don't deserve to be treated like humans (right), and since you might be one of these people, you also don't get treated like a human. because those people can really fuck with the system, you now have to pay for it. and besides. you're actually probably faking it.

(more often than not, you find a 2:1 ratio of these stories. for every "hypochondriac", there are 2 people who knew something was wrong, and yet nobody could fucking find it. the story often ends with pointless suffering. the story often ends with and now it's too late, and it's going to kill me.)

you are actually just making excuses. someone else got that procedure or that diagnosis and he's fine, you should be fine too. someone else said they watched a documentary about other inspirational people with your exact same condition, maybe you should be inspirational, too. you're just too morbid. your pain and your experience is probably just not statistically concerning. it is all self-reported anyway, and you're just being a baby.

(once, while sitting down in the middle of making coffee, you had the sudden, horrible thought - i could kill myself to make the pain stop. you had to call your best friend after that. had to pet your dog. had to cry about it in the shower. you won't, but that moment - god, fuck. the pain just goes on and on.)

you know someone who went in for routine surgery and said i still feel everything. they told her to just relax. it took her kicking and screaming before they figured out she wasn't lying - the anesthetic drip hadn't been working. you know someone who went in for severe migraines who was told drink water and lose weight. you know someone who was actively bleeding out and throwing up in the ER and was told you're just having a bad period.

in the ER there are always these little posters saying things like "don't wait! get checked today!" and you think about how often you do wait. how often the days spool out. you once waited a full week before seeing the doctor for what you thought was a sprained wrist. it had actually been broken - they had to rebreak it to set it.

but you go into the doctor. the problem you're having is immediate. the person behind the counter frowns and says we're not taking your insurance. you will be paying for this out-of-pocket.

they send you home with tylenol and a little health packet about weight loss or anxiety or attention deficit. on the front it has your birthday and diagnosis. you think about crying, and the words swim. it might as well say go fuck yourself. it might as well say you're a fucking idiot. it might as well say light your money on fire and lie down in it. and the entire fucking time - the problem persists.

it's okay. it's okay, it's just another thing, you think. it's just another thing i have to learn to live with.

[bumblebeebats]

Seeing Ben Shapiro and his ilk froth at the mouth about how the Barbie movie is "the most woke, most anti-men movie I've ever SEEN!!!" is so fucking funny because like. This? THIS is the "wokest" movie you've ever seen? Like yeah, it's a fun movie and it's critical of the patriarchy and all, but this is still like... very Gender-Studies-101 stuff. I've seen comic strips more 'anti-men' than this. I think if Ben Shapiro ever read an Audre Lorde quote he'd straight up turn to dust

★ ☆ ★ ⭐︎ TERFs if you reblog this i'm tearing you limb from limb ⭐︎ ★ ⭐︎ ★

[aishabellasbigblogofeverything]

I love it when women hate men. I love it when women are allowed to vent to each other about how horrible and creepy men are. I love it when women form friendships with and prioritize each other over relationships with men(whether they're attracted to them or not). I love it when women put men dni in their bios and on their nude photos and on posts on their blogs. I love it when women refuse to mollycoddle and accommodate entitled male feelings with "but this doesn't mean I hate all men, I know a few men who are great, I love my father/sons/brothers/uncles/male cousins/guy friends" I love it when women complain about men WITHOUT "not all men" being a disclaimer. I love it when women avoid socializing with/refuse to be around/befriend/get close to men because they know men can't be trusted. I love it when women make "kill all men" jokes. I love it when women offer absolutely no concern or care for men's feelings and if their misandry offends men whatsoever because why should we, men are the oppressor class who have raped and killed and abused us and kept us as subjugated as second-class citizens for millennia, they regularly mistreat us and the women in their own marginalized communities still every single day and make this world so much harder and more awful for us to be in, and if we choose to hate them and not spare them any sympathy then so be it, and I don't just mean "men as a class" either, you can be a woman who doesn't want to have anything to do with any man on an individual basis and completely cuts off men from her personal life too and ykw I will love and fucking support you in that because men deserve absolutely NOTHING from us. If they're so tough and strong then they can handle it just like they can handle being lonely. If you are a woman who hates men, ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE A LESBIAN AND/OR A TRANS WOMAN, then just know that I love you. I love you, I support you, and you are safe here.

[forivall]

DMs with a terf. My existence shatters their hyper reductive version of the world, oppression, sex, gender, patriarchy, etc. If a single terf had the capacity to read whipping girl in good faith, well, then I could actually have a deep conversation with a terf. But they can't! Sad.

[a-sociopath-do-your-research]

"in the future archeologists will be able to tell you were a girl!!" Ok asshole but my best friend calls me his brother right now so who cares