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TW: Ableism, Conversion Therapy, Neglect.
Name: Ryu Takashi (龍隆)
Special Titles: “Tight End” of his football team, Hime-Sama. (姫ー様)
Username: @hanahakiboy
Nicknames: Imoto (妹.)
Age: 21
Pronouns: He/Him (In English.)
I Pronoun: Watashi (私) (A very formal neutral pronoun.)
Sexuality: Gay.
Gender: Genderfuck, Pretty Boy, GNC.
Species: Lizard Person (Human.)
Disorders: Autism, Depression, PTSD, AFRID, Checking OCD, Body Dysmorphia, Suicide Ideation, Hikikomori Tendencies, Social Anxiety, Insomnia, Night Terrors.
Active Addictions: Cigarettes, Self Harm.
Religion: Catholic.
Job: Drag Performer/Waitress, Mangaka, and Basically any odd job he can muster.
Major: Art.
Lives in: Okutama, Japan, 2024.
Languages: Japanese.
Height: 5’4”
Race: Asian.
Ethnicity: Japanese, Mongolian.
Accent: Yamanote, Monotone.
Vehicle: Heely’s.
Voice Claim: Toya from Project Sekai.
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Weaknesses: Basic Human Weaknesses. No known special weaknesses. Though he CLAIMS to have special weaknesses due to being a “lizard”.
Weapons: Has a collection of different types of weapons. Usually has a butterfly knife on him.
Alignment: Lawful Good.
Text Color: Purple.
Main Animal: Dog.
Hobbies: Football, Parkour, Marathons, Boxing, Weight Lifting, Mobile Gaming, Cheerleading, Tennis, Sewing, Speed Cubing, Combat Robotics, Street Fighting, Stick and Pokes, Poetry.
Diet: If It’s not on this list, he probably won’t eat it.
Favorite Drink: Apple Juice, Grape Ramune, Lemonade, Peppermint Tea.
Favorite Meals: Mac and Cheese, Dino Nuggets w Fries, Spaghetti w Octopus shaped Hotdogs, Instant Ramen, Natto, Takoyaki, Onigiri, Yakitori, Soup Dumplings, Ehomaki, Sushi Salad, Handroll, Southwest Eggrolls, Cheese Pizza, Bubur Cha Cha.
Favorite Candy: Saka Neriame, Tanghulu.
Favorite Snacks: Strawberry Poptarts, Wheelchips, Blueberry Muffins.
Favorite Dessert: Dried Persimmon, Mooncakes, Shirokuma, Sugar Cookies with Icing, Icecream Sandwiches.
Favorite Flower: Dandelions.
Scent: Like a Spa, Strawberries.
Handedness: Left Handed.
Blood Color: Red.
Awareness: Not Aware (Effect: None.)
Birthday: June 1st 2003 (Gemini, Snake, AB)
Theme:
Playlist:
Fun Facts: Has a secret Ao3 account where he writes smut, In fact he has allot of secret social media he doesn’t share with anyone he knows.
Unfortunately is a BL fan. He’s a little bit cringe.
Special Interests: Sports, Otaku Stuff, Drag.
Stims: Fidgets with his bandages and his clothing, Various purple stim toys.
Comfort Objects: Djungelskog, His backpack, Weighted Crab Plushie.
Stimboard: LINK
Moodboard: LINK
Fashionboard: LINK
Family:
Erhi Batbayar, Makoto Takashi (Parents.)
Friends: Kagayaki, Uru, Atsu, Otoko.
Romance: Boru (Boyfriend)
Pets: Chad (茶で) (Bearded Dragon.), Kaminari (雷) (Newfoundland Dog), Inazuma (稲妻) (Black Kitten)
Brief Personality: Ryu is a Bit of an odd duckling, He is very passionate about the things he likes but he has a tendency to shy away from other people, He prefers to be alone but will make an exception for his friend group. He has a tendency to worry about how people perceive him and likes to keep his secrets locked up tight.
Brief Backstory:
Ryu grew up with just him and his dad. He’s always looked up to his dad ever since he was little, however his dad… was.. an interesting character to say the least.. There’s a reason why Ryu’s mom isn’t in the picture and it’s not because she was abducted by lizard people like his father says.
Ryu has always been an exceptionally intelligent kid, he was able to excel in school but his dad.. didn’t really appreciate this.. or anything about Ryu really. He tended to just put Ryu in his room and let him fend for himself.
His father was a very religious man, he didn’t like that Ryu was a bit girlier than the other boys, Ryu 9/10 in his childhood were in and out of church therapy trying to pray the gay out of him.
Eventually Ryu gave in, and he attached himself to any masculine thing he actually enjoyed. He did really like sports so he put his all into that, showing people that he was normal..
Of course even tho he acted perfect his father still couldn’t see that. His fathers theories on the world got more and more unhinged every day.. and Ryu just had to sit there and deal with it.
His father has a tendency to compare Ryu to something inhuman due to his personality, and dehumanize him. Though Ryu is so use to it at this point it doesn’t fully register anymore.
Ryu eventually was able to make friends with his “Bros”, he loves them dearly. He isn’t good at showing it though..
I’m sure that gay thing wont come back.. It’s fineee.. It’s just guys being dudes after all.
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Twitter user franz, crab content (@franzanth) writes
"Hello, artist. Nice art you have there. You know what would make it better? Crabs. But crabs are hard to draw, you say. I agree. That's why I teamed up with @jopabinia & @JaviPaleobiovto make this cheat sheet so you too, can #InsertAnInvert into your artwork with confidence."
Instructional art poster titled "How to crab"
To the left of the central image is an introduction : "A visual guide for people who want to draw crabs, but can't figure out which part goes where.
Can't blame you, really. They have too many parts and they're all over the place.
"Crabs" refers to two groups of animals, the true crabs (Brachymura) and false crabs (Anomura).
This guide covers the "typical crab" body shape from both groups.
However, there are many outliers, like the frog crab, a brachyuran, or the hermit crab and mole crab, both are anomurans.
And many others. Many, many others. Really. Crabs are weird."
The central image is a multi-colored, simplified, segmented anatomy drawing of a crab, arms arcing over its head. The main body shows a dividing line down the center with the explanatory text labeling the halves "seen from Above", where the shell hides roughly the first quarter of the legs, and "seen from Below", where all of the small, initial leg segments are fully visible.
Beneath the central image are the citations, "References : - Davie, P. J., Gguinot, D., and Ng, P. K., 2015. Anatomy and functional morphology of brachyura. In Treatise on Zoology-Anatomy, Taxonomy, Biology. The Crustacea. Volume 9 Part C (2 vol.) (pp. 11-163) [artist-added commentary on this work =] Brill. - Wolfe, J. M., Luque, J., and Bracken-Grissom, H. D., 2021. How to become a crab : Phenotypic constraints on a recurring body plan. BioEssays. DOI 10:1002/bies202100020."
To the right of the central image are the credits : "Put together by Franz Anthony, crab drawer for hire ; Dr. Jo Wolfe & Dr. Javier Luque, actual crab scientists (yes, they both have a PhD in crabs). Funding by NSF-DEB #1856679.
Version 1.0 published 2 April 2021
tweet @franzanth for updates
This guide was published as part of the #InsertAnInvert project where we encourage artists to put unsolicited crabs in their artwork. Because everything looks better with inverts in it."
Left sidebar:
"Arm parts. In a crab claw, only one finger is movable. The other, fixed finger is fused to the "palm".
[Pincing range of the claw is illustrated, with the claw closed and opened.]
These segments [two of three chunks that make up the main part of the crab's arm are highlighted in dark blue] function like our arm but without the elbow. The wrist [final chunk of the crab arm is highlighted in dark green] is flexible and helps the crab swing its arm around.
The first segment [a small gray square of a segment] attaches the whole arm to the body. Not visible from above."
Right sidebar:
"Leg parts. The first segment [a small gray square of a segment] attaches the whole leg to the body. Not visible from above.
Three segments [highlighted in red] that don't bend very much. Usually only the big one [the segments are two small squares and a rectangle roughly three times their combined length] is visible from above, like our thigh.
Two segments [highlighted in orange, visible in the central image as angling off the prior leg segment at about a 20-degree angle] that don't bend very much. Think of our lower leg.
The tip of a limb [segment highlighted in yellow] usually pointy."
Two circles below illustrate the bending of the crab's 'knee'.
"All parts of a crab's legs can bend. However, in most" typical-looking" crabs, the joint between the red and orange segments is the only one that can make acute angles like our knees. Disclaimer: there are so many exceptions to this rule, because crustaceans like to make things overly complicated."
Bottom bar:
"Body parts. The carapace or back shell comes in many shapes and forms. It's often spiky to protect the crab from predators. Having a wide, flattened carapace is one of the characteristic features of carcinized crabs. [A variety of crab shell shapes meeting this description are shown in a line.]
The pleon, which looks like a flap, is the same structure as the abdomen or "butt" in insects or shrimps. Having a pleon that's folded under the carapace is one of the characteristic features of carcinized crabs."
Bottom right sidebar:
"True or false?
True Crabs [a crab head, four short silver lines between the eyes] :
Two short pairs of antennae between the eyes.
False Crab [a crab head, two long silver lines framing the eyes, two short silver lines between the eyes] :
A pair of (usually long) antennae outside the eyes, another shorter pair between.
True Crab [four crab legs] :
Four pairs of visible walking legs.
False Crab [three crab legs and a red 'x' where a fourth isn't] :
Three pairs of visible walking legs, the fourth pair is usually tiny and hidden."
Following the art poster are two more replies from the original poster:
"If you decided to put a crab in your artwork, @ us and use the hashtag #InsertAnInvert! We're also committed to making this a month-long learning opportunity, so we'll be tweeting crab art resources throughout April 2021 a.k.a #CrabMonth. Ask us questions if you're stuck!"
"If you feel like drawing crabs, check out Crab Database for inspiration. The site has lots of photos showing all sorts of weird crabs, it's a good site for procrastination [procrastination]. https://crabdatabase.info/en/crabs"
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Their Hero Academia -- Chapter 79: Drop the Bomb
Presenting the next installment of my on-going, nextgen, MHA fic! Earlier chapters can be found here
A snout pressed to the ground along the side of the road, where the highway gave way to more densely wooded country. Yes, that was the scent they were after, no mistaking it. Less than another day’s travel ahead. Lips curled back past sharp teeth, releasing a low growl of satisfaction. They had missed the departure of the students, all nestled into their transport and none the wiser that something was just behind them. It wasn’t a short journey from the school to their destination, but traveling cross country, a nearly straight line whenever they didn’t have to stop to find the scent again, made up considerable time. They did not tire. This terrain was what they were bred to cross. They moved back into the cover of the trees as they followed the smaller road, claws digging into the dirt as they pushed forward.
They’d be at the camp soon.
***
“Ooooh, that had to hurt,” Isamu winced.
“I’ve told him he relies on his Quirk too much,” Midoriya replied, gazing at the scene before them through his fingers. “Tell me he’s still breathing?”
“He’s groaning, Toshi,” Tokoyami said. “He’ll be fine.” She chirped a few times. “I think.”
“She really hit him hard!” Frog-Shadow said, adding her own opinion from Tokoyami’s shoulder.
“Poor Shota,” Izumi said. “Still, he lasted longer than I expected him to.”
“Well… that was definitely something,” Boost-Rush said. “Where’d you learn a move like that, Kaniyashiki?”
Kaniyashiki was busy helping Shinso back to his feet, but she looked over in the Rookie’s direction. “My Aunt Monika’s a police officer, sir,” she said, tossing off a salute with her free hand, before turning it into a crab-claw V. “She taught me a lot of self-defense stuff.”
“Well, tell her she did a good job,” Boost-Rush said. He looked to the larger group of U.A. and Shiketsu students. “And I think that’s our best example so far of why being able to fight without your Quirk is important. Shinso here has one of the most powerful Quirks in either class, and Kaniyashiki laid him out in two moves.”
The morning’s instruction had largely been focused on Quirkless exercises, directed by Boost-Rush. The powerfully-built Rookie was an extremely good hand-to-hand combatant, though he’d admitted that Doc Clock was even better than he was, something which had gotten Aizawa beaming with pride for all of about three seconds before his natural resting grump face had taken back over. Boost-Rush had put them through a number of exercises, before he’d set them up sparring. Eventually, they’d break off into pairs, but for now, they were also getting a bit of a show out of it, as he called different combinations to spar against each other and demonstrate what they’d learned so far.
A few students, mostly those with heavy mutation-type Quirks like Shoji and Bondo, had largely been exempted, and would get some other specialized instruction, since their Quirks were more innate Mutant types. Ground Zero, Aizawa, and a couple of the other Rookies were with them. Some of the others had also been peeled off for other types of training with some of the other Rookies.
He had to admit, though, it had been especially exciting when Boost-Rush had opened it with Kana against Kimiko Ojiro. As the two best martial arts in any of the classes, it had made sense. It hadn’t been one hundred percent Quirkless, since Ojiro couldn’t turn off her invisibility, but she’d wrapped her arms and legs, donned gloves, and wore the visor from her costume so that Kana would have a decent idea of where her limbs and face were.
It had been, in a word, spectacular. And not in a “two attractive girls fighting” sort of way (Though he’d be lying if he completely denied that part. His girlfriend was very hot. And also very scary when she went full out like that. He was starting to realize the comparisons to Kirishima-Bakugo weren’t entirely inaccurate.), but also in a “two incredibly skilled people giving it their all” sort of way. Kana’s style was more aggressive than Ojiro’s, focusing on powerful strikes and kicks, while Ojiro focused on speed and repeated strikes to confuse and disorient. Both of them were absolutely on the top of their game and on a completely different level than just about anyone else. Shiro Monoma had watched the whole thing with rapt attention.
“That,” Shinso said, “was so cool! She just grabbed my wrist, and the next thing you know, bam! I’m on the ground!” He stared at the 1-B girl with wide eyes. “You’ve got to teach me how to do that!”
That got a groan from Isamu, Midoriya, and Tokoyami. That would be Shinso all over. The kid was trying really hard lately, had been ever since the end of their Internships, but at that end of the day, he was still a ray of sunshine fanboy. Somethings just never changed.
Kaniyashiki threw back her head and let out a laugh. “Sure thing, shorty.”
“Hey!” Shinso said, crossing his arms as a grumpy look spread across his face. “I’m not that short!” Of course, he was the shortest one in the class, but he was also several months younger than most of them too…
“Anyway,” Boost-Rush went on, “next up, we’ve got… Haimawari against Awase!”
“Oh boy…”
***
Since he was dating their Class Representative, Isamu had gotten to know several of the members of Class 1-B reasonable well, and several more of them in passing. Bondo, Kaniyashiki, and Fukidashi were some of Kana’s best friends. The first two were a terrible twosome, usually cracking jokes and up to some small measure of no good, and both of them really loved antagonizing Monoma. And he had yet to determine whether or not Fukidashi was legitimately crazy or just extremely differently wired. He’d been surprised, though, to learn her mother was the support equipment designer, Bibimi Kenranzaki. Though honestly, that may have explained some of her more extreme tendencies.
He’d had several pleasant and lengthy conversations with the bat-like Koumori about music. Koumori’s musical choices tended themselves more to rock than pop, but they’d found some common ground in that both of them had an appreciate for the horse-headed American rock duo, Wild Stallions. And the giant Fukui seemed to be able to get along well with anyone. He’d even managed to make sure there were no hard feelings with the force field generating Kido, even after he’d bested him at the Sports Festival.
Hell, he’d even managed to have a couple civil conversations with Monoma. Even if the blond also did a lot of “I’m watching you” gestures at him when he thought no one else was looking.
Awase, on the other hand, he didn’t really know. The Vice Class Representative was studious and not particularly talkative. He’d probably said hello to him in passing, but beyond that, he didn’t know him. Awase was dark-haired and athletically built and, if Isamu remembered right, his Quirk had something to do with being able to fuse his molecules with other substances, taking on their properties. Not that that would matter much in a Quirkless spar.
He stepped into the circle that had been set up for sparring, watching Awase as he did the same.
“You can do it!” he heard Shinso call out, bringing a smile to his face.
“Show them what 1-B’s made of, Awase!” And that would be Monoma, as expected.
“You’ve got this, Isamu!” He heard Kana call out. Followed by, “What? He’s my boyfriend. I’ve got to support him.” Which was probably her defending herself against Monoma.
Awase dropped into a fighting stance, hands up, bouncing lightly on the balls of his feet. Isamu on the other hand, dropped lower, legs spread wide, arms flared out to his sides. Even without his Quirk, his style was never going to be about all out brawling. Keep it fast and loose. He didn’t have the raw strength to do otherwise.
“Are you both ready?” Boost-Rush asked.
“Yes, Sensei,” Awase said simply.
“I’m ready,” he agreed.
“Then begin!”
Awase didn’t make any sounds as he charged forward, but he was telegraphing his right hook pretty badly. Isamu dropped all the way to the ground, like he would when using his Quirk and pivoted, swinging his leg out. It connected solidly with Awase’s leg, tripping him up and knocking him down.
But Awase was just as quick to spring back up, and Isamu got back to his feet, back-peddling away from a flurry of punches. “Oooffff!” All the air got knocked out of him as one of Awase’s punches connected with his stomach. Guy definitely had a lot of power behind him, even without his Quirk.
Isamu wasn’t completely helpless though, and he managed to get his hands up and ward off the next punch, just like Midoriya had taught him before the Sports Festival. He managed to fire off a few rapid fire punches of his own, putting Awase back on the defensive. Isamu had a few inches on the other boy and his arms and legs were longer too. It gave him a reach advantage that he pressed, throwing a couple more strikes to unbalance him.
Unfortunately, Awase was quicker on the recovery than he expected, delivering a punch that set his head spinning back around. He blinked rapidly, trying to clear his blurring vision as Awase came in for another round of strikes.
This time, Isamu was able to dodge, bobbing this way and that, leaning and ducking out of reach of Awase’s blows. When he was fighting with his Quirk, he relied on movement, keeping out of the way, and staying just long enough to get a couple of hits in. There was no reason not to apply the same principle to Quirkless fighting.
“Stand still, dang it!” Awase shouted, after he’d missed with yet another blow.
“Ah,” Isamu said, “how about no?” He dodged again, ducking under another blow. His picked up his speed a little, so that he continued to circle Awase, letting him wear himself out trying to keep up and throwing blows. The other boy should have been aiming for where he was going to be, but instead kept trying to catch him, which resulted in most of his blows being too slow to hit anything or only scoring a glancing hit.
So he kept it up, dodging several more blows that way. Awase was definitely slowing down, starting to tire. So when he launched his next blow, Isamu moved as though to duck and dodge to the left, but instead came up with an uppercut, knocking Awase down once more (And ow, ow, ow, boy did that leave his hand smarting!).
“He did it! He did it!” Isamu heard Shinso shout, before hearing Tokoyami try to quiet him.
Awase let out a groan, before slowly getting back up to his feet. “Dang,” he grunted. “You’re fast as heck even without your Quirk.” Isamu could already see a bruise forming where he’d punched him. For a moment, things seemed like they were going to get tense, but Awase nodded decisively. “Good job. Easy to see why you won the Sports Festival.”
He offered a hand, and Isamu took and shook it, trying very hard to take the praise. He still had a lot of trouble believing his own win, even months out. But he was getting that self-confidence up. “Thanks,” he said.
The sound of applause broke the moment. “Good job, both of you,” Boost-Rush said. “Go see Bioshock if you feel like you need it.”
The Hero looked down at his clipboard. “Okay, next… Let’s have Kirishima-Bakugo and Tatsuma.”
***
Katsumi may not have had Papa’s shark-teeth, but she’d been told that her grin was very frightening indeed. Right now, her grin seemed to be so scary that several of her classmates and 1-B students were actively backing away from her. Sero had, in fact, let out a rather high-pitched shriek and leaped into Tensei Iida’s arms. At least Izzy had stayed by her side.
“You’re being deliberately frightening again,” Izzy said. There was a disapproving tone in her voice and Katsumi did feel a little bad about that. Disappointing Izzy was not something she liked doing. Maybe she could live with it for this the chance to teach the Shiketsu girl a lesson.
The giant girl was giving her a look that seemed to match her own. She stepped into the ring and for the smallest of moments, Katsumi wondered if she wasn’t biting off more than she could chew. Tatsuma’s overall build was comparable to her own. Both of them were muscular, especially for women, though Katsumi’s build was the result of rigorous training and hard work. She couldn’t tell it that was the case for Tatsuma or if it was related to her Quirk, not that she knew what that was. But Tatsuma had considerable height, reach, and weight on her. Katsumi was the second shortest person in the class, only barely taller than the Loud Kid. But it wouldn’t be Womanly to step away from a fight, no matter how big the other person was.
She didn’t know what Tatsuma’s deal was, why she thought she was so much better than U.A. students. Izzy had said something about Tatsuma having a good reason, but she also didn’t especially care. You disrespect her, you disrespect her friends, her school, she’d kick your ass, plain and simple.
“I look forward to educating you,” Tatsuma said. She cracked her knuckles. It was noisy. Definitely a show of intimidation. Katsumi approved of the strategy. If she was anyone else, it might have worked. But she was too damn tough to be scared by some wannabe from some pretentious school like Shiketsu.
“You can try,” Katsumi shot back. She rolled her neck casually, tensing the muscles in her arms. No backing down. Never let them think they can intimidate you. And give back as good as you got. She shot back with a glare of her own. It’d be a lot more satisfying to unleash some explosive hell on her, but punching would do pretty nicely.
“Oh hell no, this isn’t happening.”
Katsumi spun around, realizing it was Vanish Veil who had spoken. What the hell? This was like the time Toshi had tried to tell her that picking her battles didn’t mean she could pick all of them. Why were people so opposed to her using violence on the deserving?
“You two’ll kill each other and nobody’ll learn anything,” Vanish Veil said, crossing her arms. She sounded more annoyed than anything, but there was a little of what sounded like concern in her voice too.
“Don’t think I can take her, Old Lady?” Katsumi snapped.
“I told your dad I wouldn’t let you cause a scene, Brat,” Vanish Veil snapped back. Katsumi’s usually ability to wind Mahoro up was failing her here, it seemed. Damn it.
“You have a problem with my teaching choices?” Boost-Rush asked, approaching Vanish Veil. Katsumi could nearly hear the sneer in his voice. If she didn’t already know he was a Monoma, that would have confirmed it.
“Only when you don’t get the memo,” Vanish Veil told him flatly. She walked over and poked him hard in the chest with a finger. Her twintails swayed with the motion. “Pick somebody else, you sanctimonious ass.”
Boost-Rush just laughed at that. He was wearing his helmet, but Katsumi could hear the smugness in his voice. “Oh, if you insist,” he said, sounding as though he was the one doing Vanish Veil a favor. “Still… how about Park?”
Vanish Veil seemed to be weighing her options there, her mouth set in a frown. “Yeah, okay… that’ll probably be all right…”
***
Well, at least she’d get to show up one of those Shiketsu kids, Katsumi thought. Windbag was all right in extremely small doses, but the rest of them could go hang. Definitely time someone knocked one of them down a peg and she was very good at knocking. Didn’t really matter which. Could have just as easily been the pretty boy cat guy. He’d have probably been real satisfying to punch.
Park… Hmm. Katsumi considered herself pretty decent at reading people. Tatsuma was simmering fury, waiting to erupt, buried just barely below the surface. A lot like herself, really. Not that she’d admit that to anyone. She went from zero to one hundred in no time, even when the situation didn’t really call for it. It was pretty much a family trait. She had it, Dad had it, the Hag had it.
Park, though, Park was a quieter kind of angry. A cold one. As Katsumi began sizing her up, she wondered, possibly for the first time in her life, if she hadn’t bitten off more than she could chew.
“And begin!” Boost-Rush called out.
Katsumi got her hands up and she and Park circled each other cautiously, both looking for an opening. She’d taken some different martial arts classes as a kid and she had had plenty of instruction from Dad and Papa, Uncle Deku, and even Ojiro’s dad. But overall, her style mostly focused on single, powerful moves, putting someone down with just a punch or two. It was best to take them out before they had a chance to be a threat.
“DIE!” she bellowed, throwing the first punch, a powerful left handed strike that had a lot of her weight behind it.
Park sidestepped her blow and came in close. Her hand snapped out and grabbed into the shirt of Katsumi’s gym uniform. Before she could even react, Park’s leg shot up, slamming into her side several times in rapid succession. Katsumi let out a growl and managed to shove her away, buying herself a little space.
“Okay,” she snarled. Her side was protesting furiously as she kept moving. “You got one in. Congratulations. But that’s all you’re going to get.”
Park’s expression didn’t change much, but one eyebrow raised slightly, as if to say I disagree. She calmly took a couple side steps, her eyes maintaining that cold indifference. “Angry already? If being struck upsets you, then you’re aspiring to the wrong profession.”
Katsumi knew the other girl was trying to get in her head. But knowing that didn’t make her any less angry about it. “I don’t know about you,” she growled, “but I was born to fight.” She shouldn’t have been talking either, she knew. Wasted breath. Maybe it worked for some people, like Horse Girl. Katsumi would, under duress, admit that Mineta had made provocation a weapon she could use. But that wasn’t her.
She charged, throwing a right hook at Park’s head. Park’s head shot to the left, her hand coming up and grabbing Katsumi’s wrist. In a single fluid motion, she bent and twisted it. Pain shot up her arm light a bolt of lightning, overriding her rage, overriding everything except for the white-hot sensation of pain. It felt like her wrist was one small increment of pressure away from snapping like a twig.
“I’m aware this would likely not work if you could use your Quirk, but since our esteemed instructors insist on this human cockfighting, I might as well emphasize their point. Though I suppose with your Sports Festival, you’re used to bread and circuses.” She twisted it more. “Perhaps if they bothered with a more extensive self-defense course this wouldn’t be necessary.”
Pain shot up Katsumi’s arm so intensely that she had to grind her teeth hard to keep from crying out. No way she’d give Park the satisfaction of hearing her scream. What the hell kind of fighting style was this? Aunt Ochaco had done a lot of the grab and flip stuff, but…
At least she still had her other hand free. With Park’s attention on her other arm, Katsumi brought her left hand in low for a body blow.
Park saw the blow coming and released the hold, but she wasn’t not fast enough to dodge all of it. She let out a small growl as Katsumi’s strike connected, though it was more of a solid graze than a full hit. She moved with the dodge, twisting and sending a kick up at Katsumi’s head.
Even if she wasn’t using a Quirk, Katsumi had to admit that Park was fast. Deceptively powerful too. She might have been impressed, if she wasn’t so damned angry. She saw the blow coming, fortunately, moving out of the way. Her right arm still hurt from the wrist grab, meaning her options were limited, but she knew how to play through the pain. She faked left, throwing a couple blows to try and get Park moving the way she wanted, then followed up with a roundhouse kick from the right.
Park had obviously been expecting punches, and hadn’t expected Katsumi to throw a proper kick. As she made to defend against the punches, the kick sent her down. She gathered herself quickly and rolled so that she came to be resting on the soles of her feet.
“That had to have been learned outside class.” Her look was harsh, judgmental somehow. “Makes sense with the amount of enemies the child of a pro hero has.”
Park got up, her eyes narrowing. “But how will that do against someone who’s had enemies the moment they were born?” She darted toward Katsumi, looking to launch a kick, but instead threw a straight-forward punch like something out of a street fight.
Okay, what the hell was that supposed to mean?! And sure, they’d all had some basic self-defense lessons, some of them more than others. You heard horror stories about the kids of Pro-Heroes being threatened or kidnapped. A few of them had even come damn close to it.
The punch hurt, leaving Katsumi seeing stars, her vision swimming. “You haven’t rung my bell yet,” she growled in the direction of what she hoped was the actual Park. The world was spinning and it felt like a struggle to stay upright, but she forced herself to keep fighting.
She moved quickly this time, throwing one punch after another. Not too much style, but plenty of power. Park was good and, as much as it pained her to admit it, more technically proficient than she was. But she had more raw power than the other girl. She just needed one really good punch to make an end of it.
Park dodged the punches, attempting to once more grab and twist Katsumi’s arms. This time, she was ready for that crap and kept herself moving too quickly to be caught. Katsumi’s style may have been straightforward, but the speed was forcing Park to stay on the defensive.
***
‘This is stupid. Beating each other for the sake of some trite lesson that could easily be fixed with a proper martial training program. Look at them: So self-important while others are thrown aside.’ Park’s thoughts raged through her mind. She cast a glimpse once more at Boost-Rush. ‘Alright you son of a bitch. You put a child in this situation. Don’t whine at me when the expected happens.’
***
Park darted as if dodging again, but grabbed the waistband of Katsumi’s pants, using the leverage to throw her down. It was a hard, bone rattling impact that knocked her senseless for a moment. Katsumi’s first instinct, drilled into her, is to protect her head, but Park snarled and instead threw a kick at her back.
The kick hurts, Katsumi’s damn sure that was one of her kidneys. The pain kept her down even as she tried to get herself back up. There wasno way she’s going to let herself be beaten like this. She’s one of the toughest damn U.A. students there is. Daughter of two Top Ten Heroes. Practitioner of the Art of Womanly Living. And when it comes to a fight, she doesn’t quit. Ever.
“You’re going down!” she screams, forcing herself back to her feet, swinging wildly.
“That’s my line.” Park dodged to the side again. Her arm shot out like a stone from a sling and grabbed Katsumi’s arm, wrapping her fingers around it in an iron grip. She twisted it, and used the momentum to drive Katsumi into the ground. Park hung onto her arm this time, pulling it back and locking in her grip behind Katsumi’s back.
***
A little more torque and she could easily break it. For a moment she felt herself wanting to. To share even a small ounce of the suffering. She looked into the crowd, and saw the kind rock girl who shared her faith. Akaya. She looked concerned and scared for her classmate.
“I’m not as good a Christian as I’d like to be.” She had told Akaya that. She turned away from her, looked at Katsumi’s struggling face, then looked back at the U.A. students and Rookies. She let go of Katsumi.
***
“This is stupid. Find another pawn.” Park then got up and walked toward her classmates, then past them entirely. Tatsuma tried to stop her, but she brushed her off.
Katsumi forced herself to her feet, her limbs absolutely aching. “Get… get back here,” she started to growl, eyes locked on Park’s retreating form. “I… I can do this… all day…”
She couldn’t lose to some pretentious Shiketsu brat. And she definitely wasn’t losing to someone who wouldn’t even stick around to assure their victory. Who just gave up in the middle of a fight like that? Especially one they were winning? None of it added up.
Wasn’t she worthy of fighting? Or finishing off?
What the hell was wrong with Park?!
Someone helped her to her feet. It was the Old Lady. Of course. “I’m fine,” she grunted. A lie. She was not fine. She didn’t think anything was broken, but she could practically feel the bruises growing in all kinds of uncomfortable places. There was still pain radiating from where she’d been kicked and she was still seeing double.
“You’re not fine,” Vanish-Veil said, sounding guilty. “C’mon. We’ll get you to my brother. Hopefully before your dad finds out about this…”
***
“She… she lost,” Toshi said, the words tumbling out of his mouth before he could stop them. The fight had been incredibly short, but incredibly brutal. It’d been deeply uncomfortable, even unsettling to watch. He’d wanted to intervene, no matter how much Katsumi would have yelled at him for it, but the sheer brutality had left him paralyzed where he stood. He was sure if it hadn’t been so quick, the Rookies surely would have intervened…/
It was only then that he realized that his arm was hurting and had been for some time. “Izumi…?”
“What? Oh! Oh my…!” Izumi quickly released her death grip on his arm and he could feel the circulation returning to it. Izumi was willowy and often looked like she’d blow over in a strong breeze, but she apparently had ferocious grip strength. “I’m so sorry, Toshi…”
He shook his head. “It’s okay. I think we were all a little shellshocked.”
“I don’t believe it,” Haimawari said. He was shivering, Toshi realized, and then realized he was too. Izumi must have been drawing in heat as she’d grown more and more frightened for Katsumi. “I saw it, but I still don’t believe it.”
Toshi never would have thought it possible either. He’d seen Katsumi lose, of course. The two of them were about evenly matched when they’d sparred in the past and he’d won about as many as he lost. And, of course, Katsumi had lost against Izumi during the Sports Festival. But those had been friendly competitions, between people who had known each other for years. This had been different. This had been a beating.
Both Katsumi and Park had been looking to prove something, even if he wasn’t entirely sure what it was for Park. He knew already, that Tatsuma didn’t think especially high of them. But it didn’t look like Park did either. He’d spent of a lot of time thinking over Tatsuma’s reasons for disliking the Hero System and what this class represented, and was still grappling with those. But he didn’t know what drove Park, not yet.
Katsumi, he knew, just wanted to prove she was better than the Shiketsu students. They’d gone after her pride and she really wasn’t the best decision maker where that was concerned.
He was also fairly certain this wasn’t something he could fix, wasn’t something he could make right. That was a hard admission for him to make. Dad had always said you couldn’t save everyone but that you still had to try. He’d thought maybe he could still try here, but after this…
Katsumi was his friend. And she was confident and powerful. She was one of the best fighters in the class, with a strong Quirk and an iron will. Even in friendly sparring with him, she just took every loss as a way to get stronger still. To see her humbled like that…
“Is it over?” Shota asked. Toshi looked over and jerked with surprise as he saw that Shota had his eyes scrunched up tight, with his hands over his ears.
Asuka put a reassuring arm around his shoulders. “It’s all right,” she told Shota, gently removing his hand from over his right ear with her other hand. “You can look now.”
“She didn’t win, did she?”
“I am afraid not,” Asuka replied.
“This will not be good,” Izumi said, worry filling her soft voice. “Even though her injuries can be treated, Katsumi will treat this as a grievous wound to her pride and a personal insult besides. She won’t let that go any time soon. And I fear what she may try in retaliation.”
“She’s right,” Asuka said. She chirped softly and worriedly. “Izumi, Toshi, you know her the best. What do we do?”
Toshi frowned. Tatsuma and Katsumi had been ready to tear each other apart, before Aunt Mahoro had intervened. She hadn’t objected to Park, but…
If they didn’t do something to try and buy a little peace with the Shiketsu students, then someone was just going to get hurt worse.
Looking around, he could see, not just the concern, but the anger, on so many of his classmates’ faces. Even many of the 1-B students looked disturbed by it, especially Monoma and Kana.
Of the Shiketsu students, only Tatsuma and Yoarashi were there. Park had walked off somewhere, and Tsuchikawa and the spider-girl were with one of the other training groups. Tatsuma was looking vaguely smug and satisfied, though Toshi couldn’t help but notice that she was also looking off in the direction Park had left. Yoarashi had gone pale and oddly quiet. Toshi didn’t know him as well as some of his friends, but he’d still known him for years. Yoarashi didn’t do quiet.
If they didn’t do something to try and make peace with the Shiketsu students, someone was going to get hurt.
Get hurt worse, he realized, as Aunt Mahoro led Katsumi away.
“Oookay,” Boost-Rush said, much of his earliest bravado gone. “That’s… that’s enough direct sparring for today. Why don’t we break into small groups to work on what’ve learned so far.”
A stupid, desperate plan dropped into his mind. He couldn’t exactly slip away, but… “I hate to ask you to lie,” Toshi whispered to Izumi, “but…”
Izumi nodded. She grasped his plan without him having to even say it. They’d been friends a long time. He wasn’t as close to her as Katsumi was, he wasn’t sure anyone could be as close as the two of them were, but Izumi was still one of his best friends. Hell, after a hopeless childhood crush on Nejire Togata, he’d had a crush on Izumi for a little while too, though he’d never worked up the courage to ask her out or anything. If nothing else, Katsumi’s looming presence in both their lives had made it clear if anyone really loved Izumi, it was her.
“I do believe I’m feeling a bit of a flare up,” she said, stretching exaggeratedly. I should probably go get checked out.”
***
Izumi arrived at the first aid station that Bioshock had set up. The Metabolic Hero was laying hands on Katsumi as she approached and she could see her friend’s bruises start to fade already and a bit of her color return. Bioshock’s Quirk was not quite the cure-all that Doctor Izumi’s was, but it was still very effective. She knew now, from what she had read, that he had run himself ragged during Plague’s assault on Japan, pushing himself nearly to death’s door until Uncle Izuku and his sister had literally had to drag him away from the hospital wards.
“Okay,” Bioshock told Katsumi, “I think that should be good. Nothing broken, thank goodness.” His features darkened. “What the hell was Boost-Rush thinking? Dammit…”
He shook his head, his eyes going wide as he realized he’d spoken out loud. “My apologies. That was unprofessional.”
Katsumi waved him off. “Eh, you said what you said, Doc. Own it.” Her red eyes had locked with Izumi’s. For all the fierceness and bravado Katsumi put on for the rest of the world, Izumi could easily tell when she was faking it. Such as now.
“Oh, hey, Todoroki,” Bioshock said when he noticed her. “Everything all right?”
“I’m feeling a bit fatigued,” Izumi told him. She spoke each word carefully, trying to project some measure of exhaustion into her voice. She was tired, but not that tired. “I fear this new schedule is playing havoc with my body.”
Bioshock looked between her and Katsumi for a moment, then his expression changed ever so slightly. “Oh, sure,” he said. “Let me go check the coolers, see if we’ve got anything with some electrolytes for you. Why don’t you keep Kirishima-Bakugo company while I’m gone?” He gave them a little wave as he walked off.
Katsumi just gave her a look as she took a seat next to her, in one of the small folding chairs. It wasn’t especially comfortable, but that was of little importance. “You are the worst liar I have ever met, Iz.”
“What?” Izumi asked. “But Bioshock…”
“He was humoring you, Iz.”
Oh. Well. She supposed that was all right. She was still able to achieve her goal of getting to talk to Katsumi. Though perhaps she could work on the lying? Heroes did need to sometimes, well, not exactly lie, but certainly project more hope and certainty than they might have been otherwise feeling.
“Are you all right?” she asked instead. “Not physically,” she added quickly. “That much I could see.”
Katsumi looked down at the dirt. “That wasn’t a fight, Iz.” The words were said so quietly that Izumi could barely hear her.
“That level of brutality was well outside the bounds of a friendly spar,” she agreed. “Though you too were quite ready to rise to violence.”
Katsumi’s head snapped up, a snarl starting to pull at her lips. “Damn right I was. Did you see the way that giant was looking down her nose at us? She disrespected me and she disrespected the school. I had to teach one of them a lesson.”
“Did you?” Izumi asked, when she was certain Katsumi’s rant had finished. “Or were you just seeking conflict?”
“So I like a good fight,” Katsumi replied, looking rather annoyed still. “Is that a crime?”
“How badly would you have hurt one of them?” Izumi asked instead. Answering Katsumi’s question would do no good to anyone, and likely lead to a very circular conversation. Sometimes you had to point Katsumi in the direction you wanted her to go. Even if you usually had to make her think it was her idea.
“Broken nose, maybe,” Katsumi said, shrugging. “I just really wanted to punch one of them.”
She sighed. “But that wasn’t a fight, Iz. That was a damned beatdown. She was toying with me. Whatever damn style she was practicing, it’s damn good at causing a lot of pain. And… she’s better than me.”
Katsumi trailed off. She’d said something, but so softly that Izumi couldn’t hear it. “I’m sorry,” she said, “what?”
“I said she’s better than me!” Katsumi snapped. “She could have kicked my ass from here back to U.A., up and down both sides of the street, easy. But she wanted to make it hurt and she wanted to make sure everybody saw it.” Her fists were clenched hard, her knuckles going white. “This wasn’t even about putting me in my place. She was making a damned statement. Hell if I know what it was though…”
Katsumi bolted up out of her chair suddenly, grabbing it and spinning around sharply, letting it go flying through the air. It landed several feet away, bouncing a few times before it finally stopped. Izumi would give her friend credit: she’d expected it to explode.
Katsumi was visibly shaking and Izumi rose to embrace her. Katsumi’s strong arms soon found their way around her and Katsumi’s head came to rest against her. As Izumi held her, Katsumi’s shaking began to subside.
“I’m supposed to be the toughest woman around here, Iz,” Katsumi said quietly, but there was a growing fire to her words. “This isn’t over.”
Katsumi was right. For more reasons than she thought. If they didn’t do something soon, to try and bridge the gap between the two schools, things could very likely explode, in more ways than one.
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Pisces Compatibility
PISCES + ARIES (MARCH 21 - APRIL 19) Aries is the zodiac's first sign, Pisces its last. You're the Alpha and the Omega, the dawn and the sunset. You're as far apart and as close together as two signs can get. Although your differences are vast, you also have a broad expanse of material from which to fashion your relationship. Your polar positions can actually make you a great match. Aries loves to be adored and spoiled, and generous Pisces will give everything in the name of love. In Pisces' worshipful gaze, Aries feels brilliant and boundless, and his insecurities melt away. This is important for the sensitive Ram, whose "wounded soldier" archetype is healed by the Pisces nurse. In this relationship, Aries is free to follow his natural hunting instincts; Pisces prepares a banquet from his conquests. The danger: You both have vivid imaginations, but with two dreamers at the helm of this romance, the ship can veer off course. Aries is a take-charge leader, but needs a strong second mate. Bravado and confidence don't come easy to insecure Pisces, who falls into feigned helplessness under duress. Moody spells are common for your signs, and digging yourselves out of emotional ditches can be a challenge. You'll need a council of advisors to help you manage aspects of daily life—accountants, lawyers, coaches, therapists. Aries can be naturally aggressive, where Pisces is passive or passive-aggressive. You'll need to adapt your communication styles in order to be heard.
PISCES + TAURUS (APRIL 20 - MAY 20) ♥♥♥♥ This is a lovely match of two pleasure-driven sensualists. Taurus is ruled by beauty planet Venus, and Pisces is governed by enchanting Neptune. You both love gourmet food, wine and culture, and you make a creative couple with sophisticated flair. You never run out of things to discuss, whether it's the latest New Yorker piece, art theory, or the obscure band both of you love. In the bedroom, the lusty Bull is happy to enact any fantasy that Pisces' boundless imagination conjures—and there will be many. Domestic bliss is assured, and your fussy decorating styles will match perfectly, much to your snobbish delight. For the long term, you'll need to regulate your energy with each other, or you can lapse into a master-and-servant dynamic. Passive-aggressive Pisces must become more assertive, and forceful Taurus should relax his domineering ways. At times, Pisces' secretive spells can cause fissures in the foundation, arousing suspicion in possessive Taurus. Even if what Pisces is hiding is inconsequential, the act itself destabilizes the relationship. Emotional manipulation infuriates the Bull, who prefers everything above board, and hates to be blindsided. However, Pisces can't always verbalize his complex feelings as quickly as Taurus demands. Too much forcefulness can intimidate the gentle Fish, sending him swimming into unreachable depths.
PISCES + GEMINI (MAY 21 - JUNE 20) You're both dual signs: Gemini is the Twins, and Pisces is symbolized by two Fish swimming in opposite directions. You're pop psychology's poster children for commitment-phobia. Are you in or are you out? It depends on the day, the mood, the cosmic alignment. Obviously, this is no way to run a relationship—but wait. Here's a golden chance to peer into love's looking glass and see your own shadowy Id mirrored back. Yes, your psyches and hang-ups are as bizarre as Alice's rabbit-hole tumble into Wonderland. Pisces, you really can be as needy, emotionally exhausting and manipulative as Gemini says. Gemini, you are indeed capable of being a double-talking, evasive ice-tyrant with a heart like polished marble. And…so what? If you can actually own your dark sides—which we all have—you're also capable of spreading tremendous light. You must negotiate your differences with transparent honesty, though. Pisces is an emotional Water sign; Gemini is an intellectual Air sign. Unless you balance the proportions, Gemini drowns in Pisces' undertow and the zodiac's Mermaid suffocates from breathing too much oxygen. Gemini must strive to connect emotionally, and Pisces will need to lighten up. Perennial dissatisfaction is also a killer. Don't say you want something, then refuse to be happy when your partner provides it. Gratitude is an intimate act: it requires you to acknowledge that your partner can reach you, a vulnerable place. Two words to save your relationship: "Thank you" and "You're right."
PISCES + CANCER (JUNE 21 - JULY 22) ♥♥♥♥ You're a pair of softies underneath it all, even if the world sees a hard Crab shell or a tough, scaly Fish. Alone with each other, your compatible Water signs are as tender as can be. You're both compassionate and nurturing, soothing each other with sustenance and sensitivity. There's nothing a stick of butter, cookies made from scratch, or a nice after-dinner cordial by the fire can't solve. Romantic and sensual, you love to pipe classical music through the sound system, light the candelabras and whip up a gourmet feast side-by-side. Hours of kissing and foreplay will follow. Though your relationship is a refuge, it can also become a fishbowl that limits your growth. You absorb each other's fluctuating moods like a sponge, so get out of the aquarium-for-two. With your refined sensibilities, you're excellent patrons of the arts, so head to museums, gallery openings, concerts, and dance performances. Fling open your doors for dinner parties that toast an artistic friend, an esteemed poet, or a relative's good news. This satisfies your nurturing instincts, and invites new energy into your space. You must both learn when to let go of grudges, since you can be passive-aggressive and play the victim when your feelings are hurt. Slammed doors, sulking and brooding must stop. Don't excuse bad behavior with psychobabble, either (e.g., "When you said that, it reminded me of how my mother couldn't love"). Grow up, will you? If you've been cruel, simply say "I'm sorry" and offer a long hug. The power of touch can heal anything between you, too.
PISCES + LEO (JULY 23 - AUGUST 22) Your signs are very different, but you can eventually gel into a lasting relationship. Pisces is a flowy, sensitive Water sign who needs a decisive mate. Confident Leo, a Fire sign, is a natural leader, eager to rule the relationship. Because Pisces takes longer to articulate his needs, Leo could mistakenly assume he's got the upper hand, and that Pisces is content to follow. Not so fast. In your own ways, you both wear your hearts on your sleeve, but you need to tune into each other's sensitive spots. You're incredibly romantic, and the tender passion between you is great in the beginning. However, you may hit a dry spell when it's time to get truly intimate.
Secretive Pisces feels so vulnerable when his soul is exposed, and may lash out at Leo in an unconscious reaction to the Lion's strength—for example, criticizing Leo's appearance, weight or intelligence. These cruel barbs are actually just a projection of Pisces' own self-doubt, but they plunge a thorn in the Lion's paw no less. Pisces must work through the tedious knots of his insecurities, which lay deep in his psyche. Leo is a powerhouse who can run the show with his eyes closed, but he'll do best to step aside and give the Fish his chance to shine. Shy Pisces is a true creative force, but his brilliant imagination and keen intuition can be eclipsed by showy Leo. Work through this. Luxury is a weakness for your signs, and you love to indulge. You may need to take courses on money management together, or team up to make a fortune so you never have to worry about it.
PISCES + VIRGO (AUGUST 23 - SEPTEMBER 22) ♥♥♥♥ Virgo and Pisces are two of the most powerful healers in the zodiac. Virgo is an Earth sign, clinical and data-driven, always there with a practical answer and a helping hand. Water-sign Pisces has emotional compassion, the ability to empathize and absorb other people's pain. You're opposite signs: Virgo is the doctor; Pisces is the nurse. You can teach each other a lot, doing much good on the planet along the way. Virgo is the zodiac's giver, performing acts of selfless service (Mother Theresa is a Virgo). However, it's hard for Virgo to receive, since he views "neediness" as a weakness in himself. Enter Pisces, ruler of the zodiac's receptive twelfth house. The Fish knows how to surrender boundaries and allow people's energy to flow in. Pisces teaches Virgo that accepting love is a generous and selfless act. It opens the door for others to be their greatest selves, to discover their power through contributing.
At times, Pisces' emotional nature can overwhelm Virgo, leaving him ungrounded. You both need doses of solitude to reconnect with your souls. Writing, playing music (especially classical compositions or Gregorian chants), painting and creativity is healing to you both. This relationship also brings out your spiritual sides. Meditation, yoga and metaphysical study can open up great psychic channels. These practices also prevent unhealthy addictions, which your easily-stressed signs may adopt as a means of self-medicating. Watch out for secretive tendencies, which you both have as a result of perfectionism and insecurity. Communicate openly, or air your "shameful" skeletons to a confidante—otherwise, you'll beat yourselves up unnecessarily, causing distance in the relationship.
PISCES + LIBRA (SEPTEMBER 23 - OCTOBER 22) Drifting into a dappled dreamscape of your own imagination, your poetic souls entwine against astrological odds. Libra is an Air sign and Pisces is a Water sign; together you can stir a gentle sea breeze or drown in your own sexual tsunami. But oh, the romance is worth it. Like any good bodice-ripper, there's passion, intrigue and mystique to spice up this storyline. You can get lost for days in a decadent meal, a gorgeous sonata, each other's luminous eyes. While the cynics gag, they secretly envy your enchanted, oxytocin-addled bliss. Living in a fantasy is fun for your signs, and gratification eclipses all boundaries and structures. Another Sancerre, an hour less sleep—it can all be justified in the name of pleasure. It's when reality steps in that things get hairy. After waking past noon in your umpteenth limb-and-linen tangle, you remember that pesky paycheck, your stuffed Inbox, the unopened mail. Oops. Hung over and wholly unequipped to deal with the overwhelm, you lash out at each other. Without outside contact and obligations to anchor you, you can both descend into bouts of moodiness, indulgence and even depression. Balance—the Libra catchphrase—must be practiced early on.
PISCES + SCORPIO (OCTOBER 23 - NOVEMBER 21) ♥♥♥♥ You're both "spiritual beings having a human experience," Finding an equally sensitive, divinely connected soulmate feels like coming home. Scorpio and Pisces are compatible artistes who love music, drama and romance. Like a lighthouse for two ships adrift on the emotional high seas, your relationship is an anchor and a haven. However, it's not immune to the turbulence caused by your secretive, Water sign natures. Emotional withdrawal is a self-protective act you've both honed over the years, but this tactic backfires when used against each other. The trick is learning to catch a bad mood when it starts, then processing the feelings instead of lashing out. Once the righteous anger and wounded egos kick in, you're like two runaway trains waging a war of domination and submission. Scorpio control tussles with Pisces guilt, Scorpio withholding wrestles Pisces evasion, and so on. Yet, you both want the same thing: a partner who inspires absolute, unshakeable trust with a money-back guarantee. What you need to learn is how to give it before you get it. To adapt the saying, be the change you want to see in your partner. It will keep you together for lifetimes.
PISCES + SAGITTARIUS (NOVEMBER 22 - DECEMBER 21) What happens when the most sensitive, tender-hearted sign (Pisces) links up with the most insensitive, tactless sign (Sagittarius)? Disaster, unless you handle each other with extreme care. Romantic Pisces is a Water sign who craves deep emotional bonding, while independent Sag is a Fire sign who feels smothered by too much of the touchy-feelies. You'll need to balance your most distinctive traits and parcel them out in measured doses. Your communication styles don't work together naturally either. Sagittarius is honest to a fault, dishing the unvarnished truth and heavy-handed advice (usually unsolicited), then whistling while Pisces weeps. Indirect Pisces would rather flee to Katmandu than face conflict, but standing up to Sagittarius requires it. Pisces is prone to passive-aggressive tactics; yet, subtle cues and hints will sail right over Sag's head, while the Archer's arrow of truth spears the Fish's heart. What do you have in common? You're both skittish about commitment—namely, the terrifying idea of being "trapped." Since Pisces rules fantasy and Sagittarius rules adventure, you can neatly escape the daily drudge together—at least until reality comes crashing down. Still, life is always tinged with magic when you're together, and the bedroom remains an enchanting space of divine communion for you.
PISCES + CAPRICORN (DECEMBER 22 - JANUARY 19) On the surface, you might seem like an odd match—imagine a Harvard MBA in Armani dating a paint-splattered artist in Oshkosh. Yet, your signs pair well, even if you don't want to admit it. With classic good looks and a dutiful nature, Capricorn fits neatly into the system. Pisces is a flowy Fish who excels at playing the the artsy rebel, the indie darling, the adorable mess. By comparison, Capricorn seems structured and regimented—but appearances deceive. While Pisces may delight in coloring outside the neat lines Capricorn draws, the real surprise is that Capricorn is the bigger freak behind closed doors. Capricorn has a dominant, even cruel streak that can play out in the bedroom (not that submissive Pisces doth protest). Leather, whips and kinky fun—it's all fair game. You both love to find lesser-known wine, music, and art, a pride yourself on having cultivated tastes. Together, you can traverse the tony uptown spaces to the lowbrow dives, discovering cultural jewels wherever you go. Your diverse strengths could make you great business partners, too. Open a gallery, with Pisces as curator and Capricorn as financial backer.
PISCES + AQUARIUS (JANUARY 20 - FEBRUARY 18) Old and new come together in an interesting combination. Pisces is an ancient velvet boudoir with dripping candles and fainting couches; Aquarius is a modern, steel-and-glass construction heated by solar panel. Yet, this strange match can work if it's built around a shared cause or passion. You're both die-hard humanitarians, and if you share a common vision, you'll stay together for life. Pisces is a Water sign, more emotional and complex in nature than Aquarius. Contrary to myth, Aquarius is an Air sign (not Water), though it's symbolized by the water-bearer holding an urn. The lighter Aquarian touch lifts Pisces out of the murky, depressive swamp, while enchanting Pisces adds tassels and trim to Aquarius' cold, clinical reality. You both morbidly fear being trapped in a boring, conventional commitment. Since you can never really figure each other out, the attraction stays strong. A little mystery will keep you fascinated, though too much (ahem, Pisces) will make the relationship way too much work for Aquarius.
PISCES + PISCES (FEBRUARY 19 - MARCH 20) You love each other; you love each other not. Pisces is denoted by two fish swimming in opposite directions—one toward security, the other to freedom. Such tender bait is a fellow Fish who's equal parts commitment-phobe and serial monogamist! As partners in paradox, you'll play nursemaid, Shiatsu-ist, and sous chef to one another, doting until it hurts. Then, of course, comes the Great Escape—intimacy overload strikes, but you feel too "guilty" to ask for a night off from gazing into each other's eyes as some angsty singer-songwriter pipes through the iPod. Instead, you fly into a passive-aggressive panic, turning on each other vis a vis a good self-flogging. "It's not you, it's me," you call over your shoulder as the door shuts behind you (read: "I'm too gutless to demand better foreplay"). "I'm such an awful person—you deserve better," Pisces laments (translation: "You suck"). The real problem isn't your chemistry, it's that you're both so damn indirect. Communication is the 101 cornerstone of a lasting relationship, and if you keep walking on eggshells, you'll end up resentful, depressed (anger turned inward) or eventually exploding with rage. With the right prescriptions, a good therapist and maybe a couples' karate class (think: the socially-sanctioned chop to his midsection that you've been dying to deliver), you can swim together like happy little minnows forever.
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A water sign, and ruled by the moon, Cancers are sentimental and deeply intuitive. This is known as one of the most challenging signs in the Zodiac to get to know. They are sensitive and emotional, and care tremendously for their family and home. They are attached to the people around them and prefer to stay near those they know. They are highly imaginative, tenacious, sympathetic, persuasive and loyal. They love any hobbies they can do at home, are artistic as well as appreciative of art, they enjoy a quiet meal with good friends and relaxing near the water. Sometimes, Cancers can be moody and pessimistic, manipulative and insecure.
The crustacean symbolizes this sign for a good reason; Like the crab who carries his shell on his back, typical Cancers are dedicated, loyal to friends and family and stay close to home. They are all about everything that revolves around their home, which mostly includes their close circle of friends and their family. Once they find something that makes them happy, the crab will hold on tight and never let it go. The key trait for Cancers is that they are the type of person who needs to be needed. They have to matter to someone and must be secure in their love. They are brave, protective and courageous, which are a few of the best qualities of this sign. If their needs are not being met, they can become reclusive, shy, brooding and moody. Like most water signs, Cancers are quite mysterious. When it comes to friends and family, they are quite nurturing and gentle.
On the upside, these crabs have an odd sense of humor. They often find things funny when others just don’t get it. They are great listeners, and are empathetic to the plight of others. People who need someone to listen often gravitate toward Cancers, because intuition tells them that they will understand exactly how they feel. Cancers make outstanding friends. Once you are able to get close enough to them, you’ll know you’ve made a friend for life. Cancers are true to their loved ones, and do not use others to benefit themselves. They are dependable and reliable. Like those drawn to them for their loyalty, Cancers are drawn to others they know to be honest — which makes it so they will reveal anything about themselves, if only asked.
There isn’t much to it, but on the downside, Cancers can be clingy, insecure and moody if they get the impression they might be losing a friendship. On rare occasions they will lie, but that stems mostly from their insecurities about being alone.
Cancers are most compatible with Virgo, Scorpio, Pisces and Taurus.
Virgo: This match is incredibly harmonious, and you will bring out the best in each other. Intuitively, you’ll understand each other on a level not many signs can. You have a lot in common, and each are supportive and stable in all aspects of life. Your Virgo will constantly and consistently work to build your self-confidence. This is great for the sometimes insecure Cancer.
On occasion, you can both be moody or unpredictable, but in this match it is manageable. Your Virgo has the understanding and patience of a saint — meaning they can take your mood swings in stride. Their natural stability helps to ground you until your moods have passed.
Your Virgo is very loyal. They value security and stability in a relationship just like you. Routine and order are important, and you are both organized. Virgos are also very courteous, and are predictable partners. Both of you are hard-working, even if it is for differing reasons. Your Virgo feels the need to be productive, while you like to save for a rainy day. When it comes to spending, both of you are conservative and frugal. You take pride in your home and prefer to stay in over going out to party. The end result is the same, and the two of you will respect each other for these similarities.
Negatively, the both of you are critical at times. You both have a tendency to worry, and in this aspect you are somewhat unable to support each other. This can lead to irritation or nagging that will eventually blow over.
Scorpio: Of the four, Scorpio is one of the best sign matches. You’re both highly intuitive, empathetic, possessive, loyal and emotional. What’s great about that is you’ll always make your partner feel more loved than in almost any other match, and vice versa. You will be drawn to the strong personality of the Scorpio, though both of you can be controlling in a relationship. In this pair, however, Cancers feel at ease enough with the Scorpio to let them take control of the situation from time to time.
Scorpios need more alone time to recharge than other signs. This can be unnerving to the insecurities inside the Cancer, but if you are able to accept this early on in the relationship, you’ll feel better about this space as time goes on. It’s good to remember that this doesn’t mean there is anything wrong, it is just what the Scorpio needs. If you misinterpret, it can cause your Scorpio to become reclusive and possibly vindictive, which might lead to the end of the relationship. Let them have their space, and your Scorpio will be a happy camper.
There isn’t much to negative aspects for this match with the exception of both being possessive by nature. When it comes down to the nitty gritty of this relationship, however, it’s the possessiveness that makes the other feel loved and secure.
Pisces: Considered an ideal match, the Pisces partner can use their empathy to absorb your moods. This will ensure that the two of you are in constant harmony. Being a fellow water sign, your Pisces will understand you on a deeper level than most other signs are capable of. In this relationship, both of you are equally sentimental and romantic. You give each other the sensitivity, tenderness, stability and compassion the both of you need to thrive.
Your Pisces will also need alone time to recharge. Deeply empathetic signs like the fish usually absorb all emotions, both negative and positive, and this can affect them adversely. They do not require as much space as the Scorpio, however.
The Cancer/Pisces match is one that connects on an amazingly emotional and spiritual level. So much so that the two of you can isolate yourselves from the world. This can become the only negative aspect to this match in that, if your moods sour, it would be difficult for you to cheer each other up. That being said, you enjoy staying at home as opposed to going out.
Taurus: To the Cancer, Taurus is a great match. They are strong-willed and know exactly how to get where they are going, so to speak. This is comforting and inspiring to Cancers. Taurus will also support as well as enjoy your emotional needs. They have the patience and maturity to be able to shrug off most of your moodiness. The two of you have many things in common, including home, family, financial security, enjoying affection and being nurtured, and you both appreciate food and cooking. With this match, there is more likely to be an argument over who gets to cook dinner rather than who should cook.
This pair also prefers to enjoy a quiet evening at home rather than spending time socializing in loud, overcrowded hot spots. Each of you are also sentimental with people, places, routines and even possessions.
There are a couple of minor, negative aspects to this relationship, however. Cancer and Taurus are naturally jealous and possessive. Still, since the both of you are also fiercely loyal, it is unlikely that jealousy or possessiveness will ever manifest in your relationship. You are both stubborn as well, and may fight for control in the relationship. Since the two of you are a perfect match when it comes to control, it will be difficult to tell if either of you truly are.
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Klassen is genius to convey so much meaning with tiny changes in the illustrations! Klassen's art is just fabulous and his view of life seems quite quirky! My 7-year-old daughter and I love him! For some reason, this is the last of the hat trilogy for us to read. Klassen's comic timing with his illustrations is superb. He makes subtle changes to the illustrations that actually create a dramatic and humorous impact. We laughed out loud reading this. For example, Klassen shows us a large fish that fills 2 pages in profile with his eye closed. The little fish has just stolen the big fish's hat while he sleeps but we only see the big fish. On the next 2 pages, the little fish is thinking that "he probably won't wake up for a long time" and at that time we are looking at the same picture of the big fish but with his eye open. The next page the little fish thinks that "even if he does wake up, he probably won't notice that it's gone" and without changing anything in the picture except the big fish's eye we know he notices. The big fish's pupil is pointed up toward his head! Then on the next page, the little fish thinks that "even it he does notice that it's gone, he probably won't know it was me who took it." This time Klassen uses the exact same 2-page big fish picture but the fish knowingly narrows his eye. Klassen is just genius to convey so much with so little! We do not see the little fish until 13 pages into the story although the book is entirely from his perspective. Go to Amazon
Great read-aloud for "asking questions" reading strategy for first graders! My first grade students loved this book! They were really amused how the little fish made little assumptions like, "And he probably won't wake up for a long time" and the picture would show otherwise (the big fish was actually awake!) This book served as a great mentor text for teaching the strategy of asking questions. Using turn & talk, the students asked questions before, during, and after reading. I kept adding them to our "Good Readers Ask Questions" chart. The book is not that long, but make sure you give the children enough time to look closely at the pictures to see how they contradict the main character's thoughts. The students came up with lots of questions that were left unanswered after reading which led to a very lively and engaging discussion! I highly recommend this book for early primary. Go to Amazon
Another dark hat tale... This Is Not My Hat is a companion piece to Jon Klassen's earlier I Want My Hat Back, only it takes place underwater instead of in a forest; and the story is told from the point of view of the thief and not the, er, victim. The end result, however, is pretty much the same. If you don't like I Want My Hat Back because of the conclusion, you will not like This Is Not My Hat, either. It helps to have a sense of humor. It helps even more if your humor has dark tendencies. Go to Amazon
Dark-ish, But a Teachable Moment! I understand why some people think this story is a little dark for small children. The ending certainly implies that the small fish met an unfortunate end. I chose to fill in my own words where the fish are in the plants. "The big fish found the little fish and told him it's not ok to take things that don't belong to you. The little fish said sorry and gave the hat back." Simple as that! Also, my 2 year olds don't really understand death at this point, so they can't assume that's what happened to the little fish. I wonder if it's mostly pessimistic adults thinking the worst of what's going down in the place where the plants grow close together. The illustrations are dark, but very well done. My kids liked this book, so that's all that matters to me! Go to Amazon
Not one of those "& they lived happily ever after" books. It's so much better! Me and my husband are always looking for kids books that might not be seen on the traditional family bookshelf. This book is THAT book! We originally read it in a bookstore with our son and couldn't stop laughing. Such a unique book where the words narrate a story but the illustrations say something else completely. Yes the end may not be rainbows and butterflies but neither is real life. We felt like it had a good moral for our son that for every action comes a consequence. We can't wait to share it with our daughter when she gets a bit older. Adults and new parents may appreciate it more than young kids but eventually they'll get the humor. Go to Amazon
Fun to read for everyone in the family The fishy book, as my son calls it, is a joy for both adults and children alike. My wife and I found this in a bookstore before my son was even born, but we both loved it right away. I definitely have a preference for somewhat silly books, but this is both silly and teaches good lessons (stealing is wrong and that wronging someone has consequences). Go to Amazon
I love this book I love this book! We purchased it on a whim and my wife and I nearly died in hysterics by the ending. From the silent menacing victim to the "he went that-a-way" crab this book is a delight. If you are a fuddy-duddy you won't like this book because it has some dark humor for the adults who are actually reading it. I don't want to ruin the ending so I will say no more, but if you ever find yourself laughing at something in polite company only to receive glares, this book is for you! Go to Amazon
Quriky and Adorable...great for teaching prediction and critical thinking in young kids! This is a quirky and delightful book about a fish who stole a hat from a very big fish. He is very boastful and thinks he can get away from the big fish! Turns out, things might be so easy for such a prideful little fish. Go to Amazon
Yes, kids "get" the humor! Entertaining for ALL! Fall down funny Great Book for Inferencing Nom Nom! Very cool for my 6 yr old. Fantastic book with beautiful artwork What a nice children book Our kids are constantly reaching for this book- it’s funny and sweet and teaches a lesson about honesty Amazing.
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Only the Paranoid Survive: My Takeaways
6AM at the office and I’m in Randy Moss mode.
It’s one of the best books I’ve read this year.
Strategic Inflection Points will constantly occur in the lifespan of a business.
The book was written at the dawn of the internet age and is profoundly insightful.
When I moved to San Francisco in early 2015, my buddy and SF resident Kian Alavi gave me the rundown on Silicon Valley:
Go read Zero to One by Peter Thiel.
Read The Hard Thing About Hard Things by Ben Horowitz.
Subscribe to the A16Z podcast.
I devoured all three within a month while living in a 10×10 foot “cabin” with an outdoor shower in Brisbane.
As I would learn from Ben Horowitz’s book, Andy Grove is a seminal Silicon Valley figure. Mr. Grove was a co-founder and CEO of Intel. He helped transform the company into the world’s largest manufacturer of semiconductors.
Fast forward to a couple months ago, I read Andy Grove’s “Only the Paranoid Survive: How to Exploit the Crisis Points that Challenge Every Company” while working late at the office.
This blog post is about my takeaways from his stellar book.
I’ve also included recent pics of our journey here at Paubox. Enjoy!
SEE ALSO: We’re Riding The Third Wave
The Twitter building is one of my favorites in San Francisco
Chapter 1: Something Changed
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 1:
In 1994, a PR nightmare made Andy Grove realize Intel no longer sold microprocessors to computer makers. They had crossed over to the global, mass consumer market.
“Not only didn’t we realize that the rules had changed- what was worse, we didn’t know what rules we now had to abide by.”
“All businesses operate by some set of unstated rules and sometimes these rules change- often in very significant ways.”
“The lesson is, we all need to expose ourselves to the winds of change.”
Grabbing lunch with Jeff LeBrun of Pillsy
Chapter 2: A “10X” Change
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 2: A “10X” Change.
Andy Grove summarizes Porter’s Five Forces and proposes a Sixth Force: The Force of Complementors.
Complementors are other businesses from whom customers buy complementary products.
If a very large change occurs in one of the six forces, it becomes a “10X” force.
“There’s wind and then there’s a typhoon, there are waves and then there’s a tsunami.”
“In the face of such “10X” forces, you can lose control of your destiny.”
“Only the beginning and the end are clear; the transition in between is gradual and puzzling.”
Andy defines an inflection point as where the old strategic picture dissolves and gives way to something new.
“It [inflection point] is a point where the curve has subtly but profoundly changed, never to change back again.”
“When you’re caught in the turbulence of a strategic inflection point, the sad fact is that instinct and judgement are all you’ve got to guide you through.”
“The strategic inflection point is the time to wake up and listen.”
Thanksgiving in Bakersfield
Chapter 3: The Morphing of the Computer Industry
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 3: The Morphing of the Computer Industry.
Andy admits he was unable to pinpoint where exactly the inflection point took place in the computer industry of the 80s.
“When an industry goes through a strategic inflection point, the practitioners of the old art may have trouble.”
Dell Computer upending the market by selling computers via mail order, then later online.
“Few of the top ten participants in the new horizontal computer industry rose from the ranks of the old vertical computer industry, bearing testimony to the observation that it is truly difficult for a successful industry participant to adapt to a completely different industry structure.”
“The first mover and only the first mover, the company that acts while the others dither, has a true opportunity to gain time over its competitors.”
“People who try to fight the wave of a new technology lose in spite of their best efforts because they waste valuable time.”
“Simply put, it’s harder to be the best of class in several fields than in just one.”
Dungeness crab at Half Moon Bay
Chapter 4: They’re Everywhere
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 4: They’re Everywhere.
Andy Grove makes the case every strategic inflection point is characterized by a “10X” change and every “10X” change incurs an inflection point.
“A far superior competitor appearing on the scene is a mandate for you to change. Continuing to do what worked before doesn’t work anymore.”
“Steve Jobs is arguably the founding genius of the personal computer industry, the person who at age twenty saw what in the next decade would become a $100 billion worldwide industry.”
“A fundamental rule in technology says that whatever can be done will be done.”
“Customers drifting away from their former buying habits may provide the most subtle and insidious case of a strategic inflection point.”
The star of a previous era is often the last one to adapt to change.
“There is a school of thought that suggests taht software generated for the Internet will grow in importance and eventually prevail in personal computing.” (Prescient)
Paubox sales team meeting: Finishing November strong
Chapter 5: “Why Not Do It Ourselves?”
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 5: “Why Not Do It Ourselves?”
Intel’s first product was a 64-bit memory chip.
Andy asked Intel’s CEO Gordon Moore, “If we got kicked out and the board brought in a new CEO, what do you think he would do?” (Powerful exercise)
“People who have no emotional stake in a decision can see what needs to be done sooner.
“It was through the memory crisis- and how we dealt with it- that I learned the meaning of a strategic inflection point.”
Strategic inflection points can provide an opportunity to reach new levels of achievement.
“People in the trenches are usually in touch with impending changes early.”
Fortunate to be able to walk to work
Chapter 6: “Signal” or “Noise”?
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 6: “Signal” or “Noise”?
There isn’t a formula to measure or gauge signal versus noise.
“Because there is no surefire formula, every decision you make should be carefully scrutinized and reexamined as time passes.”
“Most strategic inflection points, instead of coming in with a bang, approach on little cat feet. They are often not clear until you can look at the events in retrospect.”
The silver bullet test: If you had just one figurative bullet, which competitor would you save it for?
You can use these questions to distinguish signal from noise:
Is your key competitor about to change?
Is your key complementor about to change?
Do people seem to be “losing it” around you?
Helpful Cassandras are people in a company who are quick to recognize impending change. They are usually in middle management and often in sales.
The Trap of the First Version: You can’t judge the significance of strategic inflection points by the quality of the first version. (e.g., Apple’s Newton in 1993)
Strategic inflection points are rarely clear.
Weekly staff meeting
Chapter 7: Let Chaos Reign
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 7: Let Chaos Reign.
The chapter deals with how management reacts emotionally to the crisis of an inflection point.
The sequence of a strategic inflection point: Denial, escape or diversion and finally, acceptance and action.
Strategic dissonance is one of the surest signals a company is struggling with an inflection point.
“Looking back over my own career, I have never made a tough change, whether it involved resources shifts or personnel move, that I haven’t wished I had made a year or so earlier.”
Sharing a laugh in Bakersfield for Thanksgiving
Chapter 8: Rein in Chaos
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 8: Rein in Chaos.
“Often in the course of traversing a strategic inflection point your people lost confidence in you and in each other, and what’s worse, you lose confidence in yourself.”
The valley of death is an inevitable part of every strategic inflection point.
“To make it through the valley of death successfully, your first task is to form a mental image of what the company should look like when you get to the other side.”
“If you’re in a leadership position, how you spend your time has enormous symbolic value. It will communicate what’s important or what isn’t far more powerfully than all the speeches you can give.” (strongly agreed)
Andy Grove believes the best way to transform a company is though a series of incremental changes that are consistent with a clearly defined end goal.
“Your tendency will almost always be to wait too long. Yet the consequences of being early are less onerous than the consequences of being late.”
“It is very hard to lead an organization out of the valley of death without a clear and simple strategic direction.”
“If competition is chasing you (and they always are- this is why ‘only the paranoid survive’), you only get out of the valley of death by outrunning the people who are after you.”
“The greatest danger is standing still.”
“This is exactly when you need a strong leader setting a direction. And it doesn’t even have to be the best direction- just a strong, clear one.”
“If top management is able to alternately let chaos reign and then rein in chaos, such a dialectic can be very productive.”
When “10X” forces are upon us, the choice is taking on these changes or accepting an inevitable decline, which is no choice at all.”
Paubox sales team in the zone
Chapter 9: The Internet: Signal or Noise? Threat or Promise?
Chapter 9: The Internet: Signal or Noise? Threat or Promise?
I really liked this chapter. Here are my takeaways from Chapter 9: The Internet: Signal or Noise? Threat or Promise?
“But in the long term, data rich in pictures, voice and video promise an even larger use of the Internet and therefore new business opportunities.” (Keep in mind, he wrote this in 1996)
“The Internet has potentially just as much impact on the software industry. It can provide a much, much more efficient way to distribute software.” (He basically just described SaaS)
Andy Grove describes the cloud: “The Internet fosters the emergence of a third class of use: applications and data that are stored at some other computer someplace…”
Andy correctly concludes that the Internet is a strategic inflection point for Intel, way back in 1996.
Catching up with Jeff LeBrun of Pillsy
Chapter 10: Career Inflection Points
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 10: Career Inflection Points.
Andy Grove points out that career inflection points caused by a change in environment (e.g. Blockbuster vs. Netflix) don’t distinguish between the calibur of people they disrupt.
“As in managing businesses, it is rare that people make career calls early.”
“Pour your energy, every bit of it, into adapting to your new world, into learning the skills you need to prosper in it and into shaping it around you.”
Source: https://www.paubox.com/blog/paranoid-survive-takeaways
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Only the Paranoid Survive: My Takeaways
6AM at the office and I’m in Randy Moss mode.
It’s one of the best books I’ve read this year.
Strategic Inflection Points will constantly occur in the lifespan of a business.
The book was written at the dawn of the internet age and is profoundly insightful.
When I moved to San Francisco in early 2015, my buddy and SF resident Kian Alavi gave me the rundown on Silicon Valley:
Go read Zero to One by Peter Thiel.
Read The Hard Thing About Hard Things by Ben Horowitz.
Subscribe to the A16Z podcast.
I devoured all three within a month while living in a 10×10 foot “cabin” with an outdoor shower in Brisbane.
As I would learn from Ben Horowitz’s book, Andy Grove is a seminal Silicon Valley figure. Mr. Grove was a co-founder and CEO of Intel. He helped transform the company into the world’s largest manufacturer of semiconductors.
Fast forward to a couple months ago, I read Andy Grove’s “Only the Paranoid Survive: How to Exploit the Crisis Points that Challenge Every Company” while working late at the office.
This blog post is about my takeaways from his stellar book.
I’ve also included recent pics of our journey here at Paubox. Enjoy!
SEE ALSO: We’re Riding The Third Wave
The Twitter building is one of my favorites in San Francisco
Chapter 1: Something Changed
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 1:
In 1994, a PR nightmare made Andy Grove realize Intel no longer sold microprocessors to computer makers. They had crossed over to the global, mass consumer market.
“Not only didn’t we realize that the rules had changed- what was worse, we didn’t know what rules we now had to abide by.”
“All businesses operate by some set of unstated rules and sometimes these rules change- often in very significant ways.”
“The lesson is, we all need to expose ourselves to the winds of change.”
Grabbing lunch with Jeff LeBrun of Pillsy
Chapter 2: A “10X” Change
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 2: A “10X” Change.
Andy Grove summarizes Porter’s Five Forces and proposes a Sixth Force: The Force of Complementors.
Complementors are other businesses from whom customers buy complementary products.
If a very large change occurs in one of the six forces, it becomes a “10X” force.
“There’s wind and then there’s a typhoon, there are waves and then there’s a tsunami.”
“In the face of such “10X” forces, you can lose control of your destiny.”
“Only the beginning and the end are clear; the transition in between is gradual and puzzling.”
Andy defines an inflection point as where the old strategic picture dissolves and gives way to something new.
“It [inflection point] is a point where the curve has subtly but profoundly changed, never to change back again.”
“When you’re caught in the turbulence of a strategic inflection point, the sad fact is that instinct and judgement are all you’ve got to guide you through.”
“The strategic inflection point is the time to wake up and listen.”
Thanksgiving in Bakersfield
Chapter 3: The Morphing of the Computer Industry
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 3: The Morphing of the Computer Industry.
Andy admits he was unable to pinpoint where exactly the inflection point took place in the computer industry of the 80s.
“When an industry goes through a strategic inflection point, the practitioners of the old art may have trouble.”
Dell Computer upending the market by selling computers via mail order, then later online.
“Few of the top ten participants in the new horizontal computer industry rose from the ranks of the old vertical computer industry, bearing testimony to the observation that it is truly difficult for a successful industry participant to adapt to a completely different industry structure.”
“The first mover and only the first mover, the company that acts while the others dither, has a true opportunity to gain time over its competitors.”
“People who try to fight the wave of a new technology lose in spite of their best efforts because they waste valuable time.”
“Simply put, it’s harder to be the best of class in several fields than in just one.”
Dungeness crab at Half Moon Bay
Chapter 4: They’re Everywhere
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 4: They’re Everywhere.
Andy Grove makes the case every strategic inflection point is characterized by a “10X” change and every “10X” change incurs an inflection point.
“A far superior competitor appearing on the scene is a mandate for you to change. Continuing to do what worked before doesn’t work anymore.”
“Steve Jobs is arguably the founding genius of the personal computer industry, the person who at age twenty saw what in the next decade would become a $100 billion worldwide industry.”
“A fundamental rule in technology says that whatever can be done will be done.”
“Customers drifting away from their former buying habits may provide the most subtle and insidious case of a strategic inflection point.”
The star of a previous era is often the last one to adapt to change.
“There is a school of thought that suggests taht software generated for the Internet will grow in importance and eventually prevail in personal computing.” (Prescient)
Paubox sales team meeting: Finishing November strong
Chapter 5: “Why Not Do It Ourselves?”
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 5: “Why Not Do It Ourselves?”
Intel’s first product was a 64-bit memory chip.
Andy asked Intel’s CEO Gordon Moore, “If we got kicked out and the board brought in a new CEO, what do you think he would do?” (Powerful exercise)
“People who have no emotional stake in a decision can see what needs to be done sooner.
“It was through the memory crisis- and how we dealt with it- that I learned the meaning of a strategic inflection point.”
Strategic inflection points can provide an opportunity to reach new levels of achievement.
“People in the trenches are usually in touch with impending changes early.”
Fortunate to be able to walk to work
Chapter 6: “Signal” or “Noise”?
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 6: “Signal” or “Noise”?
There isn’t a formula to measure or gauge signal versus noise.
“Because there is no surefire formula, every decision you make should be carefully scrutinized and reexamined as time passes.”
“Most strategic inflection points, instead of coming in with a bang, approach on little cat feet. They are often not clear until you can look at the events in retrospect.”
The silver bullet test: If you had just one figurative bullet, which competitor would you save it for?
You can use these questions to distinguish signal from noise:
Is your key competitor about to change?
Is your key complementor about to change?
Do people seem to be “losing it” around you?
Helpful Cassandras are people in a company who are quick to recognize impending change. They are usually in middle management and often in sales.
The Trap of the First Version: You can’t judge the significance of strategic inflection points by the quality of the first version. (e.g., Apple’s Newton in 1993)
Strategic inflection points are rarely clear.
Weekly staff meeting
Chapter 7: Let Chaos Reign
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 7: Let Chaos Reign.
The chapter deals with how management reacts emotionally to the crisis of an inflection point.
The sequence of a strategic inflection point: Denial, escape or diversion and finally, acceptance and action.
Strategic dissonance is one of the surest signals a company is struggling with an inflection point.
“Looking back over my own career, I have never made a tough change, whether it involved resources shifts or personnel move, that I haven’t wished I had made a year or so earlier.”
Sharing a laugh in Bakersfield for Thanksgiving
Chapter 8: Rein in Chaos
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 8: Rein in Chaos.
“Often in the course of traversing a strategic inflection point your people lost confidence in you and in each other, and what’s worse, you lose confidence in yourself.”
The valley of death is an inevitable part of every strategic inflection point.
“To make it through the valley of death successfully, your first task is to form a mental image of what the company should look like when you get to the other side.”
“If you’re in a leadership position, how you spend your time has enormous symbolic value. It will communicate what’s important or what isn’t far more powerfully than all the speeches you can give.” (strongly agreed)
Andy Grove believes the best way to transform a company is though a series of incremental changes that are consistent with a clearly defined end goal.
“Your tendency will almost always be to wait too long. Yet the consequences of being early are less onerous than the consequences of being late.”
“It is very hard to lead an organization out of the valley of death without a clear and simple strategic direction.”
“If competition is chasing you (and they always are- this is why ‘only the paranoid survive’), you only get out of the valley of death by outrunning the people who are after you.”
“The greatest danger is standing still.”
“This is exactly when you need a strong leader setting a direction. And it doesn’t even have to be the best direction- just a strong, clear one.”
“If top management is able to alternately let chaos reign and then rein in chaos, such a dialectic can be very productive.”
When “10X” forces are upon us, the choice is taking on these changes or accepting an inevitable decline, which is no choice at all.”
Paubox sales team in the zone
Chapter 9: The Internet: Signal or Noise? Threat or Promise?
Chapter 9: The Internet: Signal or Noise? Threat or Promise?
I really liked this chapter. Here are my takeaways from Chapter 9: The Internet: Signal or Noise? Threat or Promise?
“But in the long term, data rich in pictures, voice and video promise an even larger use of the Internet and therefore new business opportunities.” (Keep in mind, he wrote this in 1996)
“The Internet has potentially just as much impact on the software industry. It can provide a much, much more efficient way to distribute software.” (He basically just described SaaS)
Andy Grove describes the cloud: “The Internet fosters the emergence of a third class of use: applications and data that are stored at some other computer someplace…”
Andy correctly concludes that the Internet is a strategic inflection point for Intel, way back in 1996.
Catching up with Jeff LeBrun of Pillsy
Chapter 10: Career Inflection Points
Here are my takeaways from Chapter 10: Career Inflection Points.
Andy Grove points out that career inflection points caused by a change in environment (e.g. Blockbuster vs. Netflix) don’t distinguish between the calibur of people they disrupt.
“As in managing businesses, it is rare that people make career calls early.”
“Pour your energy, every bit of it, into adapting to your new world, into learning the skills you need to prosper in it and into shaping it around you.”
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Cancer! About your sign...
The Cancerian character is the least clear-cut of all those associated with the signs of the zodiac. It can range from the timid, dull, shy and withdrawn to the most brilliant, and famous Cancerians are to be found through the whole range of human activity. It is a fundamentally conservative and home-loving nature, appreciating the nest like quality of a secure base to which the male can retire when he needs a respite from the stresses of life, and in which the Cancerian woman can exercise her strong maternal instincts. The latter tends to like and to have a large family. `Nest like' is an appropriate adjective for the Cancerian home, for its inhabitants tend to favor the dark, mysterious but comfortable type of house which has something of the air of a den about it, a place which belongs to the family rather than existing as a showcase to impress visitors.
That is not to say that the Cancerian is unsociable, just that for them there is a time to socialize and a time to be solitary, and this is part of the apparent contradiction in their nature. Outwardly they can appear formidable - thick-skinned, unemotional, uncompromising, obstinately tenacious, purposeful, energetic, shrewd, intuitive and wise, sometimes with a philosophical profundity of thought verging on inspiration. Their intimates, however, may see a very different character, one with a sympathetic and kindly sensitivity to other people, especially those they love. They are able to identify with the situations of others because of the keenness of their imaginations. They are often over-imaginative and prone to fantasy, sometimes trying to shape their lives to fit some romantic ideal. They are appreciative of art and literature, and especially of drama, where the spectacle and ebb and flow of action and feeling particularly excite them. They may themselves possess considerable literary, artistic or oratorical talent. Their sharp ears and talent for mimicry can sometimes give them success on the stage, though their tendency to be emotional may make them overact. Interestingly - because they give the impression of being down-to-earth - they are often fascinated by the occult and are more open to psychic influence than the average. If they can reconcile the personal conflict of their urge to be outgoing with the reserve that causes them to withdraw into themselves, then at best they can inspire a generation, especially the youthful part of it, by their idealism. A job in which they can express this, and in which they can do well, would be as a leader in a youth organization.
In their personal relationships they are mentally a mixture of toughness and softness, often emotional and romantic to the point of sentimentality in their fantasies; but in real life and in marriage, their loving is not so sentimental but tenaciously loyal. Even if they have affairs (and they may do so, for the male in particular is open to sensual stimulation), their first loyalty remains to spouse and family, of whom they regard themselves as the protector. Both the Cancerian man and woman love unreservedly, giving much and asking little in return - in fact, one of the most important lessons they have to learn is how to receive gracefully. They are too easily influenced by those they love and admire, and swayed by the emotion of the moment. They are also loyal friends, the negative side of their faithfulness being clannishness, the narrow patriotism of "my country right or wrong"; and closing ranks in suspicion and coldness toward outsiders.
Cancerians have a retentive memory, particularly for emotionally laden events which they can recall in detail for years afterwards. they are strongly governed by childhood memories and since they live intensely in the past in memory and in the future in imagination, a chance meeting with someone for whom they had an unrequited love, even if they thought they had conquered the feeling, will easily rouse the emotion all over again.
The Cancerian has many potential faults. They can be untidy, sulky, devious, moody, inclined to self-pity because of an inferiority complex, brood on insults (very often imagined), yet are easily flattered. They can be tactless and difficult yet, because they are normally ambitious, they will curry favor by floating with majority opinions, outlooks and fashions of the day. As a result they often change their opinions and loyalties and, indeed, their occupations, and lack stability. They are easily corrupted and, because they are convincing romanticizers, can make successful confidence tricksters. Their romanticism in another sense make them ardent supporters of causes, for example a football team with whose heroes they can identify in a world of fantasy.
Their abilities fit the Cancerian for a wide range of occupations. As they are interested in what people are thinking and able to judge what they can safely be told, they can be good journalists, writers or politicians, though in this last capacity they are more likely to remain in the background rather than attain prominent positions of power. They may, indeed, change their party affiliations. They can serve in other departments of public affairs, especially those which involve looking after others, for example in any kind of service from welfare and nursing to catering - their own love of comfort and good living makes the Cancerian an excellent chef or housekeeper. They sometimes have a penchant for trade or business and are often successful as a captain of industry. This is because they are excellent organizers with a good sense of value and economy which they may combine with a flair for inventiveness and originality. The romantic side of their natures make them enjoy grubbing about in places where exciting discoveries may be made (old stamp collections in attics, etc.), and if they can do this professionally as a secondhand dealer or specialist in antiques, they will be happy. More common occupations which suit some subjects of Cancer are real estate broker, gardener and sailor.
Physically they are average to below average in height, with a fleshy body and short legs in comparison with the rest of them. Their hair is usually brown, their faces round, their complexions pale, their foreheads prominent, their eyes small and blue or gray in color, their noses short, perhaps upturned, and their mouths full. They sometimes walk clumsily.
Possible Health Concerns...
Cancer governs the chest, breasts, elbows, stomach and digestion, womb and female reproductive organs. Cancer, which can affect any part of the body, is sometimes said to have taken its name from this sign, which can therefore afflict its subjects with imperfections anywhere. This is incorrect, however, the derivation of cancer being the Latin cancer meaning gangrene as well as crab. nevertheless, Cancerians are said to be liable to breast cancer and to suffer from pleurisy, dropsy, piles and varicose veins. The excitability mentioned above can lead to weak digestion, gastritis and other stomach ills, and there is a tendency to coughs and weakness of vision.
LIKES
Hobbies
Romance
Children
Home and Country
Parties
DISLIKES
Aggravating situations
Failure
Opposition
Being told what to do ;)
Advice (good or bad)
PROBLEMS THAT MAY ARISE FOR YOU, AND THEIR SOLUTIONS
As with all sun signs, we all have unique traits to our personalities. When these traits are suppressed, or unrealized, problems will arise. However, with astrology we can examine the problem and assess the proper solution based on the sun sign characteristics. As a Cancerian you may see things below that really strike home. Try the solution, you most likely will be amazed at the results. If you find yourself on the receiving end of the negatives below, it is because you are failing to express the positive.
PROBLEM: You can be oversensitive and something of a clinging vine which may cause you to harbor imaginary hurts and slights, this can make for highly unsettling conditions with your spouse. SOLUTION: Be sure that the love you are expressing is not simply your need to hang own to someone for moral support, and if necessary, you should seek professional help in order to overcome this negative, clinging aspect of your personality.
PROBLEM: One of your biggest personality flaws, next to neediness, is the habit of being so self absorbed that you sometimes fail to notice what others are doing and accomplishing in their lives, you feel shut out and jealous if a family member has more success than you do. SOLUTION: You should make a special effort to change this in yourself by forcing yourself to rejoice over their good fortune and when you do this you find that it will eventually become a habit and you as well as they will be happier for the change.
PROBLEM: Your inability to take orders without getting angry or upset may be another one of your problems and this one could be very serious as it affects your chances of earning a good living for yourself and/or your family, since you are quite apt to walk away from any job where you feel 'picked on'. SOLUTION: Try keeping an ear out and find out how the ones who have been on the job for any length of time gets along with the boss and coworkers. If you follow his lead or simply decide that you will simply keep quiet and follow orders you will soon see how well you can be really liked by all concerned.
PROBLEM: You also have a problem with putting things off until the last minute which upsets your family and friends. This also has a tendency to make an unpleasant matter even more unpleasant when you procrastinate. Solution: Make taking care of the business at hand your prime objective from now on for, when you do not have all those worries in the back of your mind you will find it more pleasant to be around people, and you will also find that life goes smoothly for you from then on.
Your ruling planet is the MOON .
MOON: Mean Radius (km) 1,738 Distance from Earth (km) 384,400 Period of Rotation (days) 27.3217
Some more interesting facts about your sign:
The crab is a nocturnal water creature that is well equipped with its massive claws to defend itself and survives very well in the 'wilds' of the underwater world in which it thrives. They have also been prized for food throughout the ages. Crabs come in a variety of 'styles' and species and are found in most of the oceans of the world, as well as in many inland waters. Being a sea scavenger, the crabs help mankind by keeping our waters cleaner.
The color for Cancer is all the shining colors of the moon SILVER
Your starstone is the beautiful, translucent, PEARL. The Pearl can be all the silvery colors of the moon and not just white. The pearl takes on its silvery, shimmering, colors from the color of the linings of the mollusc (oyster) in which it is grown. A beautiful, perfect pearl can sell for as much as $250,000.00, so speaking of a 'pearl of great price' becomes readily understandable. This precious stone can be harmed if subjected to hair spray, acids, perspiration, and some types of cosmetics.
Rising Sign Libra
Libra Rising is pleasant and nice to be around… charisma is their middle name. They attract people to them easily. With their charming demeanor and gentle take on life, you'd think their relationships would be smooth sailing. This isn't always the case. Many times, Libra Ascendant will have many problems in their personal relationships. Despite this, they don't like to be alone. They really don't know what to do with themselves if their partner isn't with them. They often will do anything to preserve a relationship, because not only do they not want to be alone, they don't like conflict. At the same time, in times of crisis, Libra Rising will meet the challenge and then some.
Libra Ascendant usually looks good. They know the best way to walk, dress their hair, and what colors suit them best. They like physical comfort, personal luxuries and anything that is pleasing to the senses. This ascendant can be very persuasive, preferring to use a "soft sell" when they want to influence others rather than a heavy hand. They have a tendency to pass blame when they can so they can keep up the image of being nice. They make wonderful mediators and are very accommodating.
Libra Rising is attracted to those who are competent and active. They may argue a lot or compete with their partners until they learn it is okay to just be themselves. They can appear learned, even if they are not. Libra Ascendant is usually a fan of art, music and literature. They may have their own creative and artistic talents as well that reach beyond their appearance. Even though they are friendly, they may appear emotionally detached and shallow. If they sense an imbalance around them, they can get upset, demanding and even bossy until they feel all is in balance again.
Libra Ascendant is usually polite. Some may see them as insincere, but that isn't necessarily true. They feel most comfortable when they can grease the wheels to balance and harmony. Libra Rising is romantic and gracious. It is difficult to say no to this ascendant.
On the negative side, Libra Ascendant can be antisocial, rude or shy. They may be vain and obsessed with remaining young no matter the cost. They may be terribly indecisive. They may be stronger than you think. They may come across as soft, but behind that silky exterior is a will of iron. They are good at getting their own way through diplomacy.
Libra Rising is a social butterfly, and they have many friends and acquaintances. For all this, they can't help but see themselves through the eyes of others. This causes them undue amounts of worry that they don't come across at their best at all times. At the same time, Libra Rising has an amazing ability to reflect others back at themselves. They have a tendency to try to be all things to all people, which can make some people wonder if they have an opinion to call their own.
With this Ascendant, you come across as sentimental, charming, polite, delicate, refined, loyal, peace-loving, fair, distinguished, light, romantic, cultured, airy, likeable, neat, perfectionist, caring, gentle, quiet, tidy, artistic, tolerant, lenient, sociable, seductive, elegant, kind, with a taste for aesthetics. But you may also be hesitant, weak, wavering, selfish, fragile, indecisive, fearful, indolent, cold or even, insensitive.
Mars Sign Aries
Mars in Aries is associated with containable, high-octane energy. People with this Mars placement have an irrepressible urge for vigorous action and become very impatient and angry when confronted with restrictions or delays. The desire to take physical chances – to ‘rush in where angels fear to tread’ – is a marked characteristic of Mars in Aries. Because they seem immune to, and actually thrive on, danger, they are drawn to high-risk jobs, sports and pastimes. The greater the risk, and the more adrenaline they have to muster, the quicker their energy levels are replenished and strengthened. The drive to achieve personal autonomy, be their own boss, and act on their own initiative rather than taking orders or following the trend, is very strong in Mars in Aries people. For this reason, many of them have problems with authority figures and land in trouble through rebellious behavior. This is an initiatory energy which excels at starting new projects but is poor at following through. Sexually, Mars in Aries is highly libidinous and seeks instant gratification, but quickly ‘goes off the boil’.
MARS IN ARIES FIGHTING STYLE:
Mars in Aries people are natural-born, fearless – and usually invincible – warriors with an exceptionally strong survival instinct and a healthy respect for the ‘rules of battle’. Any kind of personal threat or competition really gets their juices flowing, and although they always fight to win, they also fight clean and fair. They will expect you to do likewise, being particularly contemptuous of any kind of underhanded or manipulative tactics. Mars in Aries types just can’t resist the huge adrenaline kick they get out of accomplishing a daunting challenge – and the more obstacles to overcome, the better. Fiery and strongly assertive, their anger tends to flair up suddenly but cools off just as fast. They may be quick to pick an argument, but they don’t bear grudges and are equally quick to ‘bury the hatchet’ and reconcile. Impetuously pugnacious, Mars in Aries people have a tendency to lash out without thinking and can often start fights just to ‘test their mettle’. Due to their inability to conserve and meter their energy, they’re prone to burn-out – but rarely too exhausted to resist the lure of another exciting fight.
MARS IN ARIES STRENGTHS:
High energy drive; naturally athletic; brave and bold; thrive on obstacles and challenges; quick to take the initiative; healthy libido; strong survival instinct.
MARS IN ARIES WEAKNESSES:
Aggressive and bad-tempered; headstrong, can’t take orders; rash and impetuous; careless and accident-prone; prone to premature burn-out; can’t finish things; overly competitive.
MARS IN ARIES ATTRACTIONS:
People with Mars in Aries are sexually attracted to those with Venus in Aries, Leo, Sagittarius and Libra.
Moon Sign Leo
Your Moon Sign describes your instinctive or emotional energies, your innate reactions, and the things you need to feel comfortable or secure. It can reveal your emotional, genetic and intuitive makeup. Whilst your Sun Sign describes qualities you are learning to develop and become, your Moon Sign describes those that you already are.
With the Moon in the dramatic, generous and fun-loving sign of Leo, you are likely to have an innate need to approach life from a place of fun, passion and creative self-expression. Leo is a Fire sign, and so pertains to spirit and inspiration. On an emotional level, you are likely to be warm, generous and innately confident. Leo is also a Fixed sign, implying constancy and perseverance. When you love, you love intensely. You can be counted on for your loyalty and level of support. The Fire signs are known for an abundance of energy, and you may be ever ready to shine this abundance of emotional warmth toward those you hold near and dear.
The sign of Leo is ruled by the Sun, and associated with royalty. Thus, your emotions are likely to possess this solar quality, radiating to those you feel benevolent toward, and perhaps striking out fiercely against those who have lost your favor. You are likely to have an innate sense of dignity, and will expect a certain level of treatment and respect from others. As a sign of royalty, you may have fairly lavish tastes, and will feel most comfortable when surrounded by people and situations you feel reflect your inner image of yourself.
Drama and Creativity
On an instinctive level, you are likely to feel strong emotions. There is often a passionate intensity that needs to be expressed. Leo is a dramatic and creative sign. You may find that you are always seeking outlets to pour your creativity and personal expression into. You will always feel more energized when your natural spontaneity and exuberance can be expressed. This can range from traditional Leonine art forms that involve flamboyance and self-expression such as dance, drama and design. Or you may find your creativity is easily expressed working with children, or at the helm of a business where you can see your ideas coming into form. You may find that the rituals of religion represent for you deep feelings of reverence and devotion which bring a creative dimension t your life. Whatever you do, you find your day is more colourful when you have some kind of creative outlet, and so finding ways to express yourself is likely to be important for you.
You and I are created for transcendence, laughter, caring. God deliberately did not make the world perfect, for God is looking for you and me to be fellow workers with God. – Desmund Tutu
Fun and Romance
Leo is a sign of romance. You may find that you specialize in dreaming up vibrant ways to show others that you care. You are likely to be someone who needs reassurance and affection to feel connected with another, and will look for ways to keep your romantic life alive. It is important for you to form relationships with people who will shower you with affection and fun. At this level, it is very important that you find a partner who is demonstrative, and pays attention to your emotional needs. When partners take the time to make you feel special, then you can respond by sharing all your abundance of emotional warmth with them. Win-win scenarios ensue when you are treated with the affection you need, and give others the same in return.
The sign of Leo is associated with children. You are likely to be in many ways a “kid at heart”. You will enjoy play, fun and spontaneity and can easily get along with children at their level. You may have an innate understanding of where children come from and what their real needs are. Spending time with children helps open up your own creativity and sense of fun. You may also find that life only feels complete for you when you find ways to express your ‘inner child’. Taking time out for fun and adventure is like medicine for you, and will be an important way of finding ‘food for the soul”.
Children are a wonderful gift. They have an extraordinary capacity to see into the heart of things and to expose sham and humbug for what they are. – Desmund Tutu – Moon in Leo
Leadership and Organization
Leo is also a sign of leadership. On an instinctual level, you may feel that you are here to lead others. Thus, you do best when you feel in control of situations. This is the sign of the organizer, and you may have an innate understanding of how to bring an event or opportunity together. You may a gift for social situations, and instinctively know how to bring the fun and flair into any setting. You have natural executive and leadership qualities that inspire others to follow you. When you lead from a place of confidence and fun, others will happily rally around your sunny disposition, wanting to follow you on the road to the next adventure. Your natural sense of fun and joy unites with your desire to do things well. You can encourage people to join forces and commit to a particular outcome, whilst at the same time enjoying the ride.
On another level, this sign is associated with pride. You are likely to have an innate pride in yourself and want to do things to the best of your ability. Pride can make you aim high and follow through on your commitments. But when you let this inherent sense of pride take over you, may develop the opinion that you are always right. You may have a tendency to being overly demanding, dismissive or controlling, insisting that you always get your own way. If you try to lead others by thinking only about your own needs or expectations then you will find they rebel. You will then have trouble balancing your innate need for recognition and approval with the fact that your team have turned their back on you. You must be careful not to let your natural sense of authority and dignity become self-centeredness and domination. This will lead to isolation, and the unhappy experience of not having other persons around you to share your creative ideas and abundant emotional energy.
Fierce and pure, I was the theatre of a fairyland restored to life.” – Jean Genet- Moon in Leo
Born with the Moon in Leo
At its’ heart, Leo is a sensitive and impressionable sign. You are easily hurt when you don’t get the recognition that you feel you deserve. Moon in Leo needs approval in order to keep the heart fires burning. You need to find ways to express yourself creatively, be with other people, and take up your natural leadership role. For this to happen, you must ensure you do not isolate anyone through snobbery, or make others subject to your, at times petty, emotional demands. Learning to recognize the extent of your passions, and then recognizing that others needs are just as “special” as your own will keep your feet on the ground, your heart in the right place and happy experiences flowing easily into your life.
Venus Sign Gemini
Venus Gemini guys and gals are big flirts, but they're really just playing around. They know there are many fish in the sea, and put out lots of lines simultaneously.
What's your Venus sign? Find it on your birth chart.
If your Venus is in Gemini, you're talkative, curious and a bit of a social chameleon. You have one pinky toe in many circles, and find them depending on your mood. You keep a light hold on people, and don't like anything too formalized or planned out.
Gemini in love craves life's buffet, and that translates to variety in love.
Friends Say You're hilarious, charismatic; socially curious; flexible about plans. Frenemies Say You're socially awkward; nervous; insincere; casual about love; unfaithful.
Quality and Element
Mutable Air
In Love and Romance
You're drawn to clever partners, with whom you can carry on a non-sequiter running dialogue of observations. Someone that makes you laugh gets extra points. You're hard to pin down, and will escape anything too limiting or emotionally heavy.
You don't like routine, especially when it comes to affection. When playing the field, you could spread yourself thin, and miss out on intimacy.
Friendship Style
You're a fun, lively friend that always has the lowdown on the latest gossip, parties, movies, etc. Your social network is vast, and you've got up-to-the minute information on everybody. That's because you're always gathering tidbits, and then sharing them. You're spontaneous, and jump on invites, as long as there's an opening on your calendar.
Creative Expression
You're a wordsmith, so it makes sense that you're good at creative writing. But your verbal expression serves you in many fields, and is your gift in the moment. Like a comedian, a storyteller, communication is your artform. Fashion is another area, where your eye for "what works" and whimsical outlook can bring success.
The Big Attraction
You are bright-eyed and quick to laugh, making you easy to spend lots of time with. You know how to draw out what's funny in the moment, and toss it about in conversation. Humor is a bridge between people, and you do this without even realizing it.
Looking at Venus Gemini Compatibility with other Zodiac Sign, you're a match with other air signs (Libra and Aquarius) and fire signs (Aries, Leo and Sagittarius).
Winning Your Heart
You're drawn to those that have lots of curious things to say. You don't hang around rigid or dogmatic people too long before feeling trapped. You like partners that suggest outrageous dates, with extra points for spontaneity. You'll cozy up to lovers that are tapped into the world of ideas, someone you can take rambling journeys of the mind with.
You appreciate variety in a mate, and a lover with many tricks and games in the bedroom keeps you interested. You like to flirt, and are not shy to tell someone how you feel. But you won't want to be locked into a heavy mood of deep sharing for too long.
Friends First
You've got a light way, and this puts people at ease. You're on the intellectual side, and might meet at a book club, a reading, or in the magazine rack. An ideal date is one where the conversation pops and you are alive with new realizations. You're naturally curious about people, but especially those that seem to have contradictory personalities.
Your Venus has a reputation as one of those that spreads their love around generously. The extreme of this is infidelity, where there's a commitment and betrayal of it.
In your case, it could be having several friends you flirt with, seeing if there's more there. You might not be emotionally invested, but more sensitive lovers could be expecting something exclusive. Dark side Geminis are two-faced, and manipulate, and could take advantage of those expectations.
If you're in a stage of dating a lot of people, be sure to be clear with those you meet. A shadow trait of Gemini is to have an evil twin, and in love, this could mean being duplicitous. As you become aware of different personalities you show in love, you can be honest and your partner knows where you stand.
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