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forgottenloverboy · 4 months ago

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friendly and gentle reminder that it’s okay to not be into something anymore. it’s okay for your kinks and limits to change. it’s okay if something that once turned you on now makes you feel gross. it’s okay if you’re uninterested in something that once turned you on. never force yourself to do something you don’t like anymore just because you used to be into it. take care of yourself. you deserve it

#i’ve pushed myself to do things i Do Not Like because i told someone i was into it and then realized i wasn’t but didn’t want to upset them #tbh they were a bit of a boundary pusher who didn’t listen to things i say #so i never wanted to disappoint them #and i kept doing things for cheap validation #i’ve learned from it but i’d rather it not have happened #don’t be like me #this got a little sidetracked but that’s okay #loverboy speaks #important #kink safety #bi ns/fw #bi nsft #nb ns/fw #nb nsft #queer ns/fw #queer nsft #trans ns/fw #trans nsft

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