have a random need and urge to expand on the difference (in loving terms) between being hugged and being held.
like, to be hugged is a mutual sort of 'I love you', a small or big gesture that implicates a need to be close or have some form of physical contact. it can have different levels of love, whether it's a thing you do with your friends or something that you do with a person you love deeply and romantically, it can mean a lot of things.
for some people, it's a simple gesture that can happen in everyday life, and you don't even think about it.
for others, it's a huge thing, something that you only do with people you really mean it with. it's something that eases you and makes you feel good, like kisses (which I might have to get into another time lol)
but being held is a very different thing, and I've been thinking about it quite a lot recently.
to be held can be a one sided thing, unlike hugs, which are normally two sided, and it's can come off as more than a need for physical contact, it's a need to be loved.
being held is, in my view, also a lot more romantic, or at the very least something you only do with someone you trust a hell of a lot. it's more of a 'letting someone else take care of you' sort of thing, where you've gone back to basic needs and you just need to know you're loved. to hold someone is to protect them or comfort them, less of a simple loving gesture, more of a I've got you.
don't get me wrong, it is one hundred percent something you'd do with someone you love, but if you hold someone it can be a way of showing you love them, less of just showing each other love. like, something that you use to comfort someone and reasurre them that they are loved, something that you might know about yourself, but maybe they're not so sure, which is a whole other page of shit to explain, but yeah.
just, interesting, I think. small gestures that can mean so much to some people, and nothing to others.
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the qsmp needs a break where everyone involved can sit down and agree on some stuff
Deal with the higher up admins who were treating others poorly and clearly not working towards a good experience for ccs instead just more attention
establish good rules and regulations for the admins
communicate with all the ccs involved and ask what they think could be an improvement
They NEED to sit down with the ccs and the admins and rewrite the entire lore and a plan. Its fine if they retcon some stuff or ignore stuff. But its been clear for months they dont have much of a plan. They do however have a lot to work with and it could be so interesting
Its clear most people involved really care about the server and its goal so Im sure htey would be willing to cooperate and fix the issues
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irl got a lil busy Hopefully have 5 more pages out by the weekend, maybe a bit later depending on when I can unpack my pc at the new place
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Taylor Swifts Fireplace Tiles
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Her 2023 Surprise Song Dresses Eras Tour
fireplace from her reenactment of her fall tumblr post
posted august 6, 2024
@taylorswift @taylornation
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currently sat in school and considering all my options in this au that I want to post (despite not even having finished my current one) and I've just realised how unbelievably fucked I am for school these next 2 years, because honestly all I can think about is fanfiction and other shit and it's actually taking over my life.
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how do people multitask work and fanfiction? is there a magic spell that solves my problems and lets me write or do I have to live with this split personality for the rest of my life? 😭😭😭
I don't even know where this is going just #theproblemsoflife
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i wanna be in a love with security like…imagine being in love with someone and there is NO doubt in ur mind that they love you. you could find them talking to another girl and you don’t even feel that little shot of fear because you know they don’t want anyone else.
or hearing them say things like:
“i love you”
“i’d never do anything to hurt you”
“you mean the world to me”
and believing them…!! ugh! it just sounds so romantic.. i want.
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Chu Wanning type scene but with Neuvillette where somehow he got his hands on a niche gossip book detailing all the famous person's in Teyvat's dick sizes and Wriothesley's is in it
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my biggest problem with online friendships is you can’t tell when something you said actually made them laugh out loud. i want to hear them laugh. sometimes i think about sending a voice note of me laughing but it wouldn’t be genuine. i’ve already done the laugh. it’d be a sham laugh. a mere re-enactment of my delight. and that’s not good enough >:(
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