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[melz-367]

have a random need and urge to expand on the difference (in loving terms) between being hugged and being held.

like, to be hugged is a mutual sort of 'I love you', a small or big gesture that implicates a need to be close or have some form of physical contact. it can have different levels of love, whether it's a thing you do with your friends or something that you do with a person you love deeply and romantically, it can mean a lot of things.

for some people, it's a simple gesture that can happen in everyday life, and you don't even think about it.

for others, it's a huge thing, something that you only do with people you really mean it with. it's something that eases you and makes you feel good, like kisses (which I might have to get into another time lol)

but being held is a very different thing, and I've been thinking about it quite a lot recently.

to be held can be a one sided thing, unlike hugs, which are normally two sided, and it's can come off as more than a need for physical contact, it's a need to be loved.

being held is, in my view, also a lot more romantic, or at the very least something you only do with someone you trust a hell of a lot. it's more of a 'letting someone else take care of you' sort of thing, where you've gone back to basic needs and you just need to know you're loved. to hold someone is to protect them or comfort them, less of a simple loving gesture, more of a I've got you.

don't get me wrong, it is one hundred percent something you'd do with someone you love, but if you hold someone it can be a way of showing you love them, less of just showing each other love. like, something that you use to comfort someone and reasurre them that they are loved, something that you might know about yourself, but maybe they're not so sure, which is a whole other page of shit to explain, but yeah.

just, interesting, I think. small gestures that can mean so much to some people, and nothing to others.

[silverysalt]

[svechsdoll]

PK!!!! PYOTR IS ON THE BENCH!

[omgjayaaa]

Chapter two is up now

https://archiveofourown.org/works/48632041/chapters/122818129

[transformers-synergize]

irl got a lil busy Hopefully have 5 more pages out by the weekend, maybe a bit later depending on when I can unpack my pc at the new place

[sweet-potato-42]

the qsmp needs a break where everyone involved can sit down and agree on some stuff

Deal with the higher up admins who were treating others poorly and clearly not working towards a good experience for ccs instead just more attention

establish good rules and regulations for the admins

communicate with all the ccs involved and ask what they think could be an improvement

They NEED to sit down with the ccs and the admins and rewrite the entire lore and a plan. Its fine if they retcon some stuff or ignore stuff. But its been clear for months they dont have much of a plan. They do however have a lot to work with and it could be so interesting

Its clear most people involved really care about the server and its goal so Im sure htey would be willing to cooperate and fix the issues

[quaranmine]

what the hell was wrong with my past self i was just??? going thru my drawers in my bedroom at my parent's house because i was organizing things/getting rid of random clothes and i found a sum of money in cash large enough i don't even want to put it here

WHY DID I JUST KEEP IT? NOT SPEND IT OR DEPOSIT IT OR SOMETHING? I FORGOT ABOUT THIS??????????

[porcelaintoybox23]

Sladick: Who are you?

Jonmund: You but medieval and healthier

[stachesainzcore]

ALWAYS AND FOREVER.

[pinkheart22]

Taylor Swifts Fireplace Tiles

VS

Her 2023 Surprise Song Dresses Eras Tour

fireplace from her reenactment of her fall tumblr post

posted august 6, 2024

@taylorswift @taylornation

[melz-367]

currently sat in school and considering all my options in this au that I want to post (despite not even having finished my current one) and I've just realised how unbelievably fucked I am for school these next 2 years, because honestly all I can think about is fanfiction and other shit and it's actually taking over my life.

...

how do people multitask work and fanfiction? is there a magic spell that solves my problems and lets me write or do I have to live with this split personality for the rest of my life? 😭😭😭

I don't even know where this is going just #theproblemsoflife

[personinthepalace]

The Discount Wiggles - Taskmaster Australia Series 2 (Fruit Salad Remix)

for @savemefrommysolitude - Happy Birthday!!

[spittyfishy]

You got any bugs on your phone?

[luvrxbunny]

i wanna be in a love with security like…imagine being in love with someone and there is NO doubt in ur mind that they love you. you could find them talking to another girl and you don’t even feel that little shot of fear because you know they don’t want anyone else.

or hearing them say things like:

“i love you”

“i’d never do anything to hurt you”

“you mean the world to me”

and believing them…!! ugh! it just sounds so romantic.. i want.

[alienaliart]

I made a collage and a playlist if anyone out there cares about this man as much as I do mwah🩸🔪🖤❤️