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[melz-367]

have a random need and urge to expand on the difference (in loving terms) between being hugged and being held.

like, to be hugged is a mutual sort of 'I love you', a small or big gesture that implicates a need to be close or have some form of physical contact. it can have different levels of love, whether it's a thing you do with your friends or something that you do with a person you love deeply and romantically, it can mean a lot of things.

for some people, it's a simple gesture that can happen in everyday life, and you don't even think about it.

for others, it's a huge thing, something that you only do with people you really mean it with. it's something that eases you and makes you feel good, like kisses (which I might have to get into another time lol)

but being held is a very different thing, and I've been thinking about it quite a lot recently.

to be held can be a one sided thing, unlike hugs, which are normally two sided, and it's can come off as more than a need for physical contact, it's a need to be loved.

being held is, in my view, also a lot more romantic, or at the very least something you only do with someone you trust a hell of a lot. it's more of a 'letting someone else take care of you' sort of thing, where you've gone back to basic needs and you just need to know you're loved. to hold someone is to protect them or comfort them, less of a simple loving gesture, more of a I've got you.

don't get me wrong, it is one hundred percent something you'd do with someone you love, but if you hold someone it can be a way of showing you love them, less of just showing each other love. like, something that you use to comfort someone and reasurre them that they are loved, something that you might know about yourself, but maybe they're not so sure, which is a whole other page of shit to explain, but yeah.

just, interesting, I think. small gestures that can mean so much to some people, and nothing to others.

[silverysalt]

[svechsdoll]

PK!!!! PYOTR IS ON THE BENCH!

[cvnt4him]

Happy Holidays to you too, i wish you the best

😦

[ratinthebins]

Chapter two is up now

https://archiveofourown.org/works/48632041/chapters/122818129

[pollie-pockets]

G1 pink pont transparents

[transformers-synergize]

irl got a lil busy Hopefully have 5 more pages out by the weekend, maybe a bit later depending on when I can unpack my pc at the new place

[sweet-potato-42]

the qsmp needs a break where everyone involved can sit down and agree on some stuff

Deal with the higher up admins who were treating others poorly and clearly not working towards a good experience for ccs instead just more attention

establish good rules and regulations for the admins

communicate with all the ccs involved and ask what they think could be an improvement

They NEED to sit down with the ccs and the admins and rewrite the entire lore and a plan. Its fine if they retcon some stuff or ignore stuff. But its been clear for months they dont have much of a plan. They do however have a lot to work with and it could be so interesting

Its clear most people involved really care about the server and its goal so Im sure htey would be willing to cooperate and fix the issues

[bonebuckets]

babe wake up new sherlock holmes adaptation just dropped. he’s actually jack the ripper and is voiced by Johnny Sims. also watson is immortal

[quaranmine]

what the hell was wrong with my past self i was just??? going thru my drawers in my bedroom at my parent's house because i was organizing things/getting rid of random clothes and i found a sum of money in cash large enough i don't even want to put it here

WHY DID I JUST KEEP IT? NOT SPEND IT OR DEPOSIT IT OR SOMETHING? I FORGOT ABOUT THIS??????????

[melz-367]

currently sat in school and considering all my options in this au that I want to post (despite not even having finished my current one) and I've just realised how unbelievably fucked I am for school these next 2 years, because honestly all I can think about is fanfiction and other shit and it's actually taking over my life.

...

how do people multitask work and fanfiction? is there a magic spell that solves my problems and lets me write or do I have to live with this split personality for the rest of my life? 😭😭😭

I don't even know where this is going just #theproblemsoflife

[constantchaosalways]

Sketch

Fun fact. Dahlia is a roe dear!

[swiftieinbrazil]

The Eras Tour fun fact: These were the songs that were literally performed for only ONE TIME, along with each city and date at The Eras Tour:

Have you been in one of these unique shows? (It's ordered by the dates)

2023

I Bet You Think About Me - Atlanta, GA (April 30)

Invisible - Foxborough, MA (May 20)

You All Over Me - Chicago, IL (June 3)

Breathe - Detroit, MI (June 10)

seven - Pittsburgh, PA (June 17)

I'm Only Me When I'm With You - Cincinnati, OH (June 30) 

When Emma Falls In Love - Kansas City, MO (July 7)

Picture To Burn - Denver, CO (July 14)

Back To December - Denver, CO (July 15)

Tied Together With A Smile - Seattle, WA (July 23)

The Very First Night - Buenos Aires, Argentina (Nov 9)

Stay Beautiful - Rio De Janeiro, Brazil (Nov 17)

Bigger Than The Whole Sky - Rio De Janeiro, Brazil (Nov 19)

ME! - Rio De Janeiro, Brazil (Nov 20)

So It Goes... - Rio De Janeiro, Brazil (Nov 20)

Innocent - São Paulo, Brazil (Nov 24)

Safe & Sound - São Paulo, Brazil (Nov 25)

2024

Electric Touch - Tokyo, Japan (Feb 8)

Eyes Open - Tokyo, Japan (Feb 8)

Superman - Tokyo, Japan (Feb 9)

The Outside - Tokyo, Japan (Feb 9)

Come In With The Rain - Tokyo, Japan (Feb 10)

peace - Sydney, Australia (Feb 24)

Foolish One - Singapore, SG (Mar 4)

Babe - Singapore, SG (Mar 7)

epiphany - Singapore, SG (Mar 9)

The Way I Loved You - Lisbon, Portugal (May 24)

I Look In People's Windows - Madrid, Spain (May 29)

Glitch - Lyon, France (June 3)

Chloe or Sam or Sophia or Marcus - Lyon, France (June 3)

Crazier - Edinburgh, Scotland (June 8)

It's Nice To Have A Friend- Edinburgh, Scotland (Jun 9)

Carolina - Liverpool, England (June 15)

I Hate It Here - Cardiff, Wales (June 18)

thanK you aIMee - London, England (June 22)

hoax - Dublin, Ireland (June 28) 

Mary's Song - Amsterdam, Netherlands (July 6)

Sweeter Than Fiction- Amsterdam,Netherlands(July 6)

closure - Zürich, Switzerland (July 10)

A Perfectly Good Heart - Zürich, Switzerland (July 10)

Robin - Zürich, Switzerland (July 10)

Superstar - Gelsenkirchen, Germany (July 17)

happiness - Hamburg, Germany (July 23)

We Were Happy - Hamburg, Germany (July 23)

Run - Hamburg, Germany (July 24)

Don't You - Munich, Germany (July 28)

London Boy - London, England (Aug 16)

Change - London, England (Aug 19)

So Long, London - London, England (Aug 20)

Cassandra - Toronto, Canada (Nov 22)

[greensaplinggrace]

sorry but like, as someone who doesn't vibe with fem!sub stuff and always ends up dislking fandom obsession with the man in any relationship being a Dominant Daddy Top containing more macho tendencies than personality . . i do also think that framing people liking violence in their sexual fantasies as worrying is um. worrying in and of itself.

like yeah logan being Like That in 'x reader' Old Man Logan stuff seems very ooc to me, too. but i also like animalism and brutality and violence in sex as well, and these things are not inherently abusive or "near rapist" by themselves in fictional portrayals of kink.

i don't hc logan as the macho dom! a lot of fandom for some reason considers "common consensus fanon" lmfao, but i also think that the fine line of fighting and fucking and violence and animalism is something viscerally satisfying to explore in fiction and especially kink. and characters like logan - who do actually have some solid connections to such themes - are some of the best outlets for that.

[porcelaintoybox23]

Sladick: Who are you?

Jonmund: You but medieval and healthier

[pinkheart22]

Taylor Swifts Fireplace Tiles

VS

Her 2023 Surprise Song Dresses Eras Tour

fireplace from her reenactment of her fall tumblr post

posted august 6, 2024

@taylorswift @taylornation