#supportive parents ftw!

[midday-headcanons]

FE3H Child Unit Parent Pairings(?)

I hadn't originally intended to post about parent pairings for the Beaglets. But, naturally, it's been on my mind since someone asked about it (can't remember who it was exactly, sorry).

These are not necessarily "canon", as they are child units and thus open to other marriage supports (Sylvain x Dorothea, Bernadetta x Yuri, Linhardt x Marianne, etc.). I... admittedly don't have a lot of explanation for a couple of the inherited changes, so bear with me. This is all for fun.

If you guys like it, I might do one for the other houses as well.

(inconsistent artstyle ftw yaaaay)

[toastyyjams]

waitt with that posture ask you said you played a ww instrument... which one if you do not mind me asking ( i play flute woodwind gang ! )

mweheh . funny u say that . i was flute too🎉🎉😎😎😎 flute gang ftw💪💪

posture was so needed for me and my small lungs man playing flute like playing an entire phrase w/o breathing was TORTURE more often than not i just quietly lost my breath and pretended to be playing along 😭😭 while discreetly taking the biggest breath of my life before going back

i probs woulda pursued music had it been not so expensive + parents that supported that i wouldve fulfilled my full akito kinnie goal of being a musician taking the world by storm /j

[backatitagainatichirakus]

Fic rec list.

(not necessarily Kakashi focused, but he WILL be there, taking some spotlight. Since I love him)

Sunfire by Anxiety_Pickle

Summary:

Kakashi sits frozen when the red of the Sharingan fixes its gaze his way, three tomoe spiraling. "I'm going to the Akatsuki." Sasuke says. "I'm going to find my brother." Kakashi, against his better judgement, follows Sasuke out of Konoha and straight into a rapidly evolving world-ending threat spearheaded by a familiar face. Just his luck.

Words: 43,175 Chapters: 5/?.

Second installment of a series. Kakashi takes guardianship over Sasuke after the massacre. Its, imho, so fucking good. Obkk but not yet lol.

2. With Movement and No Shades of Despair by the_rck

Summary:

Wait. Sai closed his eyes and considered. As long as this might be a genjutsu, he couldn't report to Danzo-sama without risking operational security and without revealing Root secrets to whatever enemy had ensnared him. That... That made sense. Sai could work with that. It gave him parameters and deniability. If it was a genjutsu, Sai could explore it to see what the enemy knew. Sai could approach compromised agents to test the boundaries. Sai could-- Now, the only question Sai really had was whether or not his brother was still alive.

Words: 5,572 Chapters: 1/1

Time travel, I looooove this one. Wish we had more Sai fics.

3. half a league (until the valley of death) by SpectersShadow117

Kakashi can think of no reason for Sasuke's inexplicable and drastic change in behavior. He doesn't like the desperate, haunted gleam in his student's eyes, and he also doesn't like the nagging feeling that he's missing something very important. Aka: Future Sasuke goes to Past Sasuke and gives him a reality check with Specific Intentions, but as with most Uchiha, his methods leave much to be desired. (Featuring: Childhood trauma FTW, Konoha's shitty care of orphans, and absolutely no one having a fun time.)

Words: 35,790 Chapters: 6/9

Future Sasuke tries to tell past Sasuke what to do. Sasuke does the exact opposite.

4. It Happened Once in a Dream by SunshineAndRainbows

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Summary:

Kakashi wakes up one morning with: a kekkei genkai that was supposed to have died out shortly after the Hatake had become a ninja clan; 20 years worth of foreknowledge that makes him sick to his stomach to even consider; and team training with three people he’d last known as gravestones.

Words: 36,674 Chapters: 10/?

Refreshing take on time travel. Since there wasn't actually any time traveling.

5. Book of Starry Skies by wenwen

Summary:

“One of you will be the Hokage after me,” the Sandaime says. His pipe lies smoking in an ashtray on the desk before him. “And the other will be the pillar who supports him.” This is not friendly supposition as to the future. This is a decree. Itachi thinks of his brother and his parents and his clan, he thinks of a best friend who disappeared in the night and left corpses and his oaths behind, he thinks of a village at peace instead of haunted by the shadows of war, and says, “Hai.” But Kakashi says, “With respect, I would rather not, Hokage-sama.” To which the Sandaime says, “And if I make it an order?” Kakashi’s face is perfectly bland. “No,” he says. The Sandaime makes it an order. (Itachi-centric: In which Itachi lives his Best Life and nobody wants to be Hokage.)

Words: 69,000 Chapters: 9/9

LOVE IT LOVE IT LOVE IT. Au in which Itachi never defected, and now he and Kakashi compete to NOT become Hokage. Starring anbu! it gets extra stars because Yuugao is there (many anbu Kakashi fic plainly just wont even mention her :(!! canon anbu character!! who was canonically with Kakashi in anbu!!!!!)

[hyperfixated-homo]

i am here to propaganda

platonic reinhardt and illari, emphasis on platonic.

i have seen some stuff on hanzo kind of adopting illari because they have been through similar stuff. but given hanzo still has his own stuff to figure out, i offer you reinhardt.

he has also lost people he cared about, but he still keeps going. plus he’s dealing with it a lot better than hanzo.

this concludes my propaganda. dadhardt ftw

sorry for the rant i have no one to talk to about this but please tell me you see the potential

I don't know if this was an ask for the hc game BUT!! I SEE THE VISION!!

Dadhardt is something so special to me because I always sort of view him as a mentor figure, but one that doesn't know how to be a father. At least, not in the conventional sense. He's understanding and loving and gentle but he's always more of a friend than a parent.

But imagine he finds someone like Illari. Who has no home, no family, nothing to her name but her abilities and her will. And he has never been a father- an uncle, a mentor, but never a father- but...

Well.

I CAN SEE THE VISION.

Now I will say I have always been a big enjoyer of Dadzo adopting Illari, but you're right in saying Rein might be in a better place to actually take care of her, lol. That being said, I also think it would work out because Illari doesn't actually need someone to "take care of her". She just needs support, and some time to make sense of her life. She doesn't need someone to guide her through surviving- she knows how to do that well enough. She just needs someone to show her how to be happy again, despite her trauma. And I think that's something Reinhardt could definitely do!

Might throw some headcanons in there too, just because <3

Platonic Reinhardt & Illari Hcs

Reinhardt, as an old soldier, recognises the trauma that Illari holds and understands how to deal with it. He can't heal for her, but he helps her through rough spots with stories of his past

Illari likes asking questions about Reinhardt's scars. Those stories are always interesting- either extremely funny, or founded in some epic battle. She doesn't mind that Reinhardt embellishes his stories sometimes- it's entertaining

The hardest thing to deal with is that Illari is literally magic. Like. She can summon the power of the sun. Now Reinhardt isn't unfamiliar with inhuman abilities but. How does one take care of a sun child?

Luckily, he's good at adapting. He doesn't treat it with fear or anger, which Illari worried he would, Instead, he accepts it with a sort of "well, I've seen stranger" energy that oddly helps her come to terms with her abilities

Illari uses her healing pylon for Reinhardt's old man aches. It doesn't work like standard medicine, and it can't exactly fix anything, but it can be used to treat it. Reinhardt compares it to getting a nice massage.

Illari doesn't like interacting with too many people, and doesn't fully believe in Overwatch as a whole. But she understands that Reinhardt has dedicated himself to the cause, so she'll help them with small things- usually lending some of her healing abilities, if they need it.

Illari is touch starved. Reinhardt is the most affectionate old man you've ever met. What more do I have to say

Illari doesn't love to sing, preferring to hum. But Reinhardt has such a passion for it that sometimes she can't help but join in- it ends with them dancing and singing through laughing fits, enjoying themselves and the moment

The first time Illari calls Reinhard "dad" is a complete accident. Both of them are shocked she did it, and both get quite emotional in the aftermath

All this to say. Thank you for the propoganda. Good concept, I enjoy :thumbsup: THANK YOU FOR SENDING!!

[ebdaydreamer]

Something subtle that I appreciate about Eddie’s conversation with Pepa, is that at no point is it implied that there’s something wrong with not having a romantic partner, just that Pepa worries Eddie will be lonely and become too settled to want to change that.

It reminds me of a conversation I had with my parents last week. The topic of my sexuality got brought up (I’m aroace), and my mum (who I hadn’t had a proper conversation with about it yet) was asking questions. Both my parents told me that they didn’t care as long as I was happy, but they only worried that I’d be lonely.

In the society we live in, it’s a perfectly valid fear for our loved ones to have. Amatonormativity has been shoved down our throats our whole lives. It’s honestly a fear that creeps up on me at times - what will my support system/family look like if I decide to not have a partner (romantic or otherwise)? Do I want to live alone? With people? Will I socialise enough if all my friends are prioritising their partners and family? It’s a vaild fear.

Eddie and Pepa are clearly very close. It’s only natural for Pepa to worry Eddie will be alone. But it’s not a ‘you need a spouse or partner or you WILL be lonely’ kind of concern. It’s ‘please don’t shut out possibilities because you’re afraid’ kind of concern.

Eddie wants a partner. He still needs to figure out what that looks like for him, though. Because from what we’ve seen, it’s not the perfect Latina woman who’d be a great stepmother. It wasn’t even the actual mother of his child. He’s not going to fit into that mould of a family or relationship we’re all told is ‘perfect’.

I think about what mould I’ll make for myself, but I don’t necassarily need to have figured out yet. And it’s so validating to see a character in his thirties figure out what that mould looks like for him too.

(Eddie Diaz in a QPR FTW) (i’m joking, buddie ftw, those boys are in love and should get gayly romantically married) (...but...)

[hyperfixation-symposium]

I was writing out a whole post about relationships in qsmp but I realized I didn't like how it was framed so I'm just gonna yell in a random post

I LOVE ALL THE PLATONIC RELATIONSHIPS IN THE QSMP THEY HOLD MY WHOLE HEART

and such a range??? We are blessed beyond belief?

(REMEMBER: CHARACTERS NOT CC!S) Phil and Missa Platonic husbands ftw. Roier and Jaiden best friends and so supportive of one another. Foolish and Bad's "I will prank you and be the worst person and yet I trust you so much" immortal friends. Cellbit and Forever's dedication and care of the eggs, with Cell doing everything in his power to get Felps back.

Baghera and Forever, Bad and Maximus, Wilbur and Jaiden, I could just go on forever about their dynamics.

About how the server has teamed up to protect the eggs, about the parents and their eggs, god the whole group going together to save Bobby.

I enjoy romantic stuff, and the silly joking ships, don't get me wrong. But the love in all the varied expressions of platonic love means so much to me, esp as an aro person.

I may yell about this further in another post but it's just so good seeing the friendships and love behind the fandom. It's incredibly heartwarming and I cannot wait to see more.

[carolinahope]

Defusing a bomb together, really?

Shirtless Eddie in ep 1. Where have I seen that?

It was Buck indeed. The Buddie fandom is the best. 🕵️

One gone, one to go.

I love it when they parent together. Eddie putting a foot in his mouth there a little and then immediately being the most supportive boyfriend 👨‍❤️‍👨

That whole jello call was awkward as hell. But mental healthy Eddie FTW. And the teasing as a cherry on top.

The Buck and Chris talk? Break my heart, why don't you ❤️‍🩹 Love the way they brought Shannon back. And Ryan acted the hell out of it. As did Oliver and Gavin.

Though they sure brought up the greatest hits of Buck's insecurities. Like father, like son.

[milesmoerales]

headcanon meme: a knb character of your choice bc i've never watched them and barely knows their names sorry

character headcanon meme: HIMURO TATSUYA ❄️

sexuality headcanon

pansexual, he's def the type of a guy who wouldn't mind kissing anyone in the room. drunk or sober. he literally makes everyone question their sexuality lol

gender headcanon

cis ig? i support genderqueer tatsuya agenda tho!

a ship i have with said character

HIMUNIJI.............

tatsuya is literally the man of nijimura's dream. i'm deadly serious nijimura is so, so gay the first time he saw himuro. bro even has a gay panic the whole time. not to mention they're using a first name basis. holding hands. blushing. the entire kurobas novel replace v: stopping on the way is basically their rom-com, coming-of-age movie that takes place in los angeles california where the main character falls in love with someone he met 5 seconds ago and then something dramatic happened. himuniji's canon novel deserves its own movie, produced by a24 studio, and directed by luca guadagnino. he would love them, fight me.

also nijimura is literally equal to himuro. they're literally the same age, same height (himuro is an inch and half taller but still!!), same interest in sport (basketball and table sports), surprisingly the subject they're good at is maths, they're also equally good at fighting, like both were delinquents in their past (except himuro was WILDER lmao), both are the big brother figure esp nijimura who has younger siblings (with a sick father) and raises 7 kids at the age of fucking 15 is a former captain of generation of miracles so he acts way wiser and more mature for his age, i think whenever nijimura with himuro he could do what boys his age do. being silly. being stupid. he doesn't have to get a little caught up in the role of head of household for a while or being the big brother for his younger friends. nijimura could get his youth back with himuro. also himuro doesn't have to be angst about with nijimura since they match each other's freaks and there's no big gaps between them unlike him with kagami or murasakibara. TLDR they're so fucking funny together. they're perfect for each other.

himumibu, it's another crack pair i like. i love the idea himuro would be so protective to our canon nonbinary queen king mibuchi reo from home of phobic fuckers. they would love going to pride parade together.

a brotp i have with said character

kagami for obvious reasons. himuro is totally the best brother figure kagami has. he may feel jealous of kagami's gifted skills, but aside from basketball, he literally acts like kagami's biological brother. the way he protects him and even drags him into tatsuya's deliquency during their time in los angeles. it's very understandable kagami is so fucking crumbled when himuro said they're no longer brothers after what they did--lying to their parents, fooling the cops, biking to 32 km, going to the forest and himuro wants them to stop being brothers?? be for fucking real, tatsuya!!!! also despite himuro considers him as a rival, kagami still looks up to him. himukaga brotp ftw!!!

murasakibara, bc lbr muro-chin is murasakibara's hotter and cooler step-mom. i love the way himuro dotes on him and literally the one in yosen can handle murasakibara's childish ass. if akashi is murasakibara's og mom who's strict but is actually so fond of him, then himuro as a step-mom spoils him even more to get his attention. himuro is the #1 murasakibara's chips supplier atp

alex, she's like the mom of himuro and kagami.

wei liu, foreigners duo. i always hc himuro is still not familiar with japanese culture and speaks broken japanese despite him being a literal japanese and whenever himuro and liu have a chat, they sometimes get lost in translation. liu also would teach himuro swear/dirty words in chinese.

takao, they def would form a band, doing a bunch of covers of emo bands.

mayuzumi, they never interact in canon universe, but since they're in fujimaki's dream team, i think they would be good friends (since himuro's personality isn't that annoying and mayuzumi can tolerate a person like him)

a notp i have with said character

not really have one..... but im quite not fond of murahimu romantically.

a random headcanon

at this point i believe himuro's parents sent him to a catholic school in akita (literally from a warm place to a cold place how much himuros parents have to punish him 😭) bc each day he strays further from god in los angeles lol like himuro literally picks a fight with guys who are much bigger than him on daily basis, canonically gets along with people from underworld, probably has smoked blunt and drunk alcohol despite being a minor, has fake ids/drivers lisence, makeout sessions every weekend and probably he's the person nijimura lost his virginity to......... also himuro fucks a boy in the ass or any sin he commits while a crucifix and mother mary's statue in his room watching him

also maybe he speaks english in californian accent and misses in-n-out burgers on a regular basis hes just basically a los angeles dude walking streotype lol

general opinion over said character

himuro tatsuya is basically if takasugi shinsuke (and ive's wonyoung) could play basketball, speak english, was a californian, and tall (even taller than tatsuma). he's the inspiration of taylor swift "he's so tall, handsome as hell. he's so bad, but he does it so well." he's the menace. beautiful menace.

in case you need a reference what himuro tatsuya looks like

[amazingorangedangantrash]

What if Makoto's parents are actually ultimates? Ultimate Sniper and Ultimate Lawyer? The class will probably be like 'everything makes so much sense now.'

I feel like I've heard this theory before but it might be because this ask has been sitting in my inbox for a while so its just giving me deja vu seeing it again.

But yes!

I both like and dislike the idea. On the one hand its really fun, and i love the idea of makoto getting his tenacity and skill from his parents. On the other hand, makoto's "averageness" is exactly what's molded him into the person he is, and taking that away by having his parents be talented, kind of defies the point.

That being said though it IS a really fun idea and I like the thought of his parents secretly being special and no-one knowing about it except the family. The other students find out like "hmm, we can see where the ultimate lawyer comes in, but it seems ultimate sniper didn't really rub off on you?" if only they knew HAHAHA

I also can see either parent taking either role, both are fun. I like the idea of an action mom w the sniper role, for example, especially bc it would mean Komaru went more off her mom (action girls ftw). On the other hand, i like when kids go off their opposite sex parent (idk why i find it so endearing), so the idea of Makoto being more like their mom and Komaru more like their dad is also fun (whereas makoto's truth bullets are in his head, komaru is *actually* shooting at her opponents, so i think its fair to say she's a better shot then he is).

But tysm for this anon, you make me want to see it happen!

I definitely headcanon both parents as raising their kids with good values, without a doubt. I do think the family as a whole is very passionate and does their best to support each other. It makes me sad to remember what happened to them. Wish we got to see more of the Naegi parents.

[starbitgrill]

idk if anyone else shares the same hc but collin is a old trans women to me !! !!! she's the best grandma ever she would take you to pride and if she found out ur parents didn't support you she would beat them up because i think she would be pretty strong and then she would make you cookies and tell you how amazing you are OLD TRANS GRANDMA COLLIN FTW

[hughungrybear]

Me while watching Home School Episode 9:

1. So, is Master Dilak a former student who was successfully "re-programmed" (similar to what they did to Hugo, Jingjai, and Run)?

2. Well, Mek and Mork, I got news for you - Dad loves neither of you. He doesn't even love your Mom. Unfortunately, he is just a sh*tty parent with an overall sh*tty personality.

3. Oh, no. If locking the Fab FourTM (Maki, White, Nai, and Tibet) in detention is part of Master Champ's ploy to seed chaos with GEN6, I fear for my babies, Pennhung and Phleng. The rest, I could care less lol.

4. Why do I feel like the Headmaster (played by Cindy) would eventually go against Master Amin? I just can't figure out yet if she will switch sides to support the students or will she be a more nefarious villain? Maybe Master Amin is not as villainous as he seems to be 🤔🤔🤔

5. Mek and Mork asking the right questions: what kind of parents would send their kids to a school with no known curriculum and a million baht-per-term tuition?

6. Pennhung, my child, please also store other food groups. You need more than croissants to last this hellhole 😅

7. Oh gods. Hugo and Jingjai. I share Jean's reaction during the "fight" 😅😅😅 At least, they are still flirty with each other even though we still have no idea whatever the f— Master Amin did to them as punishment for coupling.

8. I might be riding the Fuji hate train, but gods damn. Girl knows how to end a fight lol. Sorry, Jean.

9. Nooooo, Baby Phleng 😭😭😭 Biw, don't make me smack you. <after 10 seconds> Okay, we're good. All too well because I like Pringkhing ever since The Shipper.

10. Nooooo, Baby Pennhung 😭😭😭😭 Mek, I swear, if you hurt Pennhung I WILL SMACK YOU. <after 10 seconds> Oh gods, I AM OFFICIALLY IN LOVE WITH MEK. Solidarity, ftw. Shut up, Master Champ.

11. I'm starting to think Home School is either an unconventional juvenile centre or a freaking school for future assassins (judging by Run's abilities and his morbid past of killing their dad).

12. Sorry, but if the Fab Four had started kneeling before lunch all the way to sun down, how cold is that tea that the Head Master is sipping? Or did somebody replenish the hot tea (and pastries) all through the day? And with all that tea sipping, didn't she feel the need to pee? Just curious lol.

13. I'm dying to know what Master Dilak's deal is. Also, based on MDL, this series has 18 episodes (unless they got it wrong again like in Midnight Museum). So, the class planning their escape next episode is hardly the climax, but I do hope they start revealing the truth about Home School.

On to the next episode then 😊

[lyricfulloflight]

9-1-1 Rewatch

Season 5, Episode 2: Desperate Times

Of course Buck doesn't want to wait for equipment (it should be noted no one else waited either).

Eddie almost crashed to the ground in a helicopter and didn't panic. He's totally fine (this is what Eddie tells himself so doubt).

Harry Grant, entrepreneur.

Still find it hard to believe sometimes the it takes 4 days for anyone to know what happened to Detective Ransone. Atehna clearly feels the same. Even more unbelievable is the fact that no one noticed a prisoner just wasn't in his cell!

I love when Buck has a clipboard. Power tzar Buck is wonderful (sorry Chim).

Chris arrives - seriously makes me smile whenever Buck picks him up in a huge bear hug. Eddie almost has another panic attack because Ravi thinks Ana is his wife. Who notices - Buck.

Of course Buck knows all the facts about the zoo. He and Chris must have an annual membership. And then the Eddie grin - swoon worthy stuff.

Until this episode I had no idea alpacas could or would attack. So thanks for that.

Jurassic Park references FTW!

Such a lovely moment of neighbourly support and quick thinking by May.

Buck and the clipboard is back. As is he's checking in on Eddie. Also his revelation about being in a relationship where the other person isn't really all the way in the way you are - so a good moment, but also so tough to hear. I feel like Buck had had a lot of relationships where he's felt like he isn't enough and this might be the closest he ever comes to voicing that feeling out loud (aside from his parents).

Poor Maddie.

Athena and Bobby rushing home. Another cliff hanger ending.

[icharchivist]

This it's pride month, let me just say how happy I am that Granblue has so many gays of different flavours

And our trans icons

And Jesus literally supporting gender fluid rights

It's just really nice

Happy pride, Gbf fans

YEAH RIGHT.

Honestly it's genuinely so nice the amount of characters who fall in these categories to start with. It's honestly so so so nice.

And with our trans icons and our nonbinary icons in more recent years too (and Orologia our genderfluid parent ftw) all while yeah Jesus going "binary sucks, gender fluid is the way to the future" is like. thank you granblue for all of this.

Happy pride

granblue nonbinary prideflag

[mirandamckenni1]

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[beazt]

idk if it’s the systemic fatphobia, ableism, intersexism, the horrible downfall of google’s utility as a search engine, or all of the above,

but literally any given part of my body, I can look through hundreds of images in all kinds of searches ranging from “earlobe” to “fat scrunched up earlobe with crease” (for example of how descriptive the searches range) and genuinely can never find someone whose body part that has the traits of mine

genitalia and/or secondary sex characteristics? nope. ears? nope. hands/fingers? nope. skin? nope. toes? nope. moles? nope. Almost anything about my body

like there’s so many parts of my body that are just different from everyone I know, often including my parents and siblings as people who don’t share it, so I don’t always expect it to be a harmless genetic trait

“ask a doctor” is useless advice. 1) I am already a genuine medical disaster and constantly seeing doctors, running them over appointment time constraints every time, and still not leaving satisfied regarding questions I have about the much more urgent thing the appointment was for. 2) my doctor is 2 hours away by car bc closer doctors genuinely will not even try to treat me anymore. rural healthcare ftw! also can’t drive anymore due to health stuff. 3) even my doctor 2 hours away has a tendency to just shrug and say “I haven’t seen a [body part] like that before, but it doesn’t raise any alarm bells” when I DO (rarely) get a chance to slip in one of these questions. 4) I already have to use my patient portal messaging so often already for urgent/new things that like, since he’s part of a big hospital system, all my specialists can see those messages and poke fun at me for using the messaging so much & sometimes even label me a hypochondriac or worse (refusing to take me seriously in suspicion of unnecessary hypochondria &/or munchausens/factitious disorder)

im a biologist (though much more ecology focused) so im not totally out of my realm with my concerns. I know enough to know there is an infinite amount of stuff unknown about the human body. what if some of these weird little quirks about my body are signs of something else that is known, where these signs haven’t been documented/proven or are otherwise outside of the knowledge of my providers? what if they’re signs of something that ISN’T known? this part I could see being labeled as hypochondria at least; however, I am not panicking down this line of thinking often, it’s just a response my brain brings up when I cannot find any information at all supporting whether my various body quirks are normal, safe, common, etc and especially when I don’t get taken seriously when I just want a little educated affirmation that my body is safe????

don’t even get me started when it comes to people being rude about bodily differences. I typically hide so much of my body to avoid that. im lucky that many of my little quirks can be easily and/or subtly hidden.

idk this is just a rant don’t take it too seriously but good lird I am so fucking insecure about my body (not insecure about my weight anymore— don’t assume weight when I say body pls thanks)

also my dads side of the family idk what happened but his family all have several medical mysteries and unfindable body quirks so some part of me does wonder if there’s some strange genetic thing going on with his side of the family that just has not been discovered and/or none of our doctors ever even consider it. another annoying part about this is when a doc takes a medical history they rarely ever wanna hear SHIT about anything that isn’t firmly diagnosed on paper but w/e

[findingtruewealth]

True wealth is found in family.

Traditional family values are held to promote the sound functioning of the family and to strengthen the fabric of society1. They include moral concepts like fidelity, honesty, truth, and faith1 as well as beliefs and ideas that give great importance to the traditional family of a mother, a father, and children all living together2.

Some examples of traditional family values are:

Respecting your elders: This value teaches children to honor their parents, grandparents, and other elders as sources of wisdom and guidance3.

Faith: For me and my family this is faith in the Lord God through His Son Jesus and the Biblical principles associated with following Him.

Kindness: This value encourages family members to treat each other and others with compassion, generosity, and empathy3.

Honesty: This value instills a sense of integrity, trustworthiness, and accountability in family members3.

Family: This value emphasizes the importance of spending quality time with family members, supporting each other, and staying connected3.

Hard work: This value motivates family members to pursue their goals, overcome challenges, and contribute to society3.

Education: This value fosters a love of learning, curiosity, and intellectual growth in family members3.

Career: This value inspires family members to find meaningful work that aligns with their passions, skills, and values3.

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