#starting new fam in philippines

[mgasaloobinathinanakit]

AKO NA BA ANG MAY PROBLEMA?

Gusto ko lang po malamang kung may problema na ba ako sa pag iisip at sobrang sama ng ugali ko base sa mga nangyari sa akin.

Last year May lang ako bumukod at hindi na naging palamunin ng kuya ko. Simula kasi grumaduate ako ng college, wala akong stable na work. Di ako nakakatagal ng more than 2years sa isang company. Naging teller, naging CCA, naging HR, tapos CCA ulit, nag working student ako as crew before. Pinaka matagal ko lang 1year and 1mo. In short, wala akong ambag talaga sa fam namin. Papa and kuya ko yung main na nagtatrabaho sa bahay. Nung nag Pandemic, nagka work ako ng work from home pero di din tumagal kasi namatay papa ko. Dito na nagstart lahat, sa amin pa nakatira bf ko since nag wfh din siya pero di rin nagtagal. Mama ko naadik sa casino at nahumaling sa bago nyang lalaki, wala pang 1year namamatay si papa. Pinakilala niya pa as kumpare sa side ng pamilya ni papa. Kaya sobrang inis ako kay mama non. Pag di nabibigyan ng pera si mama, iiyak. Umabot sa point na mga kapatid niya, nag message sa akin, na parang kasalanan ko kung bat nagka ganon si mama. Nung mejo di na mahigpit ang pandemic, around May 2022, nag aral kami ng bf ko ng Japanese Language. Syempre, wala kaming income parehas, asa kami sa pamasahe na binibigay ng kuya ko, since sya nag introduce sa amin sa Japanese Employer na dati niyang amo. Nung nakatapos kami at nakapasa sa mga needed exams, naghihintay nalang ng processing, syempre wala kaming work, balik sa palamunin, March 2023 na nung nagkaroon kami ng work parehas ng bf ko, umuwi na din sya sa bahay nila. Nung May 2023, umabot na sa time na kami ng bunso kong kapatid nag away dahil lang sa ulam na di naipasok sa ref. Nagka sumbatan na wala akong ambag sa bahay, na si kuya may gastos lahat. Sinuntok ko kapatid ko dahil sa galit. Kasalanan ko ba na nag aaral kami ng Japanese kaya wala kaming income? Bakit may pag sumbat? Eh kahit nung nag aaral kami ng bf ko, kami lahat kumikilos sa bahay, linis, pakain ng aso, pagpapatae sa aso, hugas ng pinggan. Luto nalang di namin ginagawa since nagrereklamo sila ni kuya kapag di masarap. Si mama kasi, laging wala. Di mautusan sa gawaing bahay si kuya pati yung bunso tapos wala kaming ambag?

Edi umalis ako, pinatuloy ako ng bf ko sa bahay nila. Tinanggap naman ako ng fam niya. Nanay and dalawang nakababatang kapatid na babae nya ung kasama namin. Literal nasa isang kwarto lang kami nakatira and yung cr and sink, hati pa sa kapatid ng nanay niya. Bali 17 katao kaming nag sheshare.

Gumanda yung work ko bandang June 2023 kasi naging TL ako. Mataas ung sahod and wfh din, light lang din yung work, nakakapag part time pa ako. Pati work ng bf ko, gumanda din, tumaas din sahod. Di kami nagkakalayo. Kaya lang, yung nanay ni bf, grabe pala taas ng pride. Di namin alam kung kami ba ang mali na magsabi sa kanila na magtipid sa kuryente, sa pagkain, sa alcohol, sa tubig, since mahal na nga mga bilihin. Illegal kasi kuryente nila dati kaya kahit magdamag naka charge mga phone, and nakabukas ilaw pati TV, okay lang. Ngayon, parang lowkey na pinapaalis na kami ng nanay niya and ayaw na makipag usap sa bf ko dahil hirap sila sa kanya dahil binibilangan daw bawat galaw nila. Ang hirap gumalaw kasi ako ung nakikitira lang tapos nag aaway away sila. Lalo pa, bitbit ko ung aso namin na maingay bago matulog kasi gusto umihi sa cr, kaya kumakatok sa pinto. Ang sa amin lang, maging mindful lang sana sila sa mga binibigay namin. Feeling nila sinusumbat na sa kanila lahat, kami ba mali? Nakaka offend lang na, na aksidente ako sa jeep at di maka galaw kaya 3days akong nakahilata habang pinag sisilbihan ng nanay ni bf, tapos nung magpapasuyo sana na paihiin yung aso, nagalit kasi sinigawan daw at tinrato na parang katulong. (Nasigawan kasi mahina na pandinig ng nanay ni bf tapos naka earphone pa. Pero narinig naman yung kalampag ng aso). Dahil lang sa aso, low-key na kami pinapalayas. Gaslight na gaslight yung dating sa amin. Kasi nagpaalam si bf dati kung pwede bumukod na kami, oo naman daw, pero di namin maiwan kasi si bf ang breadwinner, ayoko pa rin gumawa ng pamilya na di financially stable. Sabay sabi ngayon na pwede naman bumukod na kami since yun naman daw gusto namin.

Pangalawang pamilya na to na di kami tanggap. Na ginawa naman namin lahat ng makakaya namin, binigay mga kaya naming ibigay, pero galit parin sila sa amin. Ako na ba ang problema? Kami na ba may problema?

Bumukod na ba kami? Pano mamumuhay sila nanay ni bf eh mga studyante pa mga kapatid niya. Di din sila pinapadalhan regularly ng tatay nila na Japanese. Nagsawa na din magpadala ng malaki kay nanay ni bf kasi pati mga pamangkin/kapatid niya pinapakain niya. (another issue na pinagsasabihan namin si nanay ni bf)

Hirap kasi pag nandito sa kanila, di lang fam ni bf binubuhay, pati mga kapatid at pamangkin ng nanay nya, parang dapat bigyan din. pag hindi, madamot kami. And kaya ayan, nagalit nanay nya sa kanya.

[the-jam-to-the-unicorn]

Alright, at what point are we getting worried about Vova being so quiet? 😰 The last thing we've heard is him being in the Philippines. After that, nothing. No video, no new visit. Where is he???? Should we worry that something happened. 🥺

He did send a sign some hours ago, congratulations for Mexico.

He's probably still travelling back or already working. It's a looooong way back to Kyiv. And after the last days and with the upcoming weeks, he's probably very tired and has a ton of work to do. The Peace Summit has to be a success. And NATO Summit is coming up. And lots of other things.

So he's either popping up in some country tomorrow, or we'll get an office pic / video. 🤗

(Considering he was barely at home lately and will rarely be in Kyiv in the new few weeks and summer vacation started, maybe he's spending some time with the fam.)

[inkycherie]

I have had the most amazing summer. In July, my best friend came to visit. I brought her to Paris (her first time), showed her around my town and other neighbouring cities around Geneva, and we drove to the south of France. I made different meals for everyone to enjoy, danced to the loveliest music, and drank the best wine(s).

The third week of August, I went back to the Philippines. We had a long overdue family reunion. Our uncle from Canada also came to visit with his family, and my cousin who works for months at a cruise ship extended his vacation.

We all flew to Zamboanga del Sur to surprise my grandma and our extended family whom we haven't seen in 13 years ! We spent a week there living the simple life, eating pandesal for breakfast, and singing karaoke kahit brownout.

The first few days of September, I spent back in my hometown. I saw Bowie again. I didn't let any minute pass without cuddling him. Whenever I'm in the PH and everyone else is back home, my sisters and I stay in one bedroom with our parents (and Bowie), chatting away until we all fall asleep. These nights were even more special because we were all cooped up in one room while there was a storm outside. Felt just like the good old days when my sisters and I would spend nights holed up in our parents room trying to pass the time until electricity was back on.

I was also sooo happy to walk around the malls with Christmas music already playing in the background ! We bought surprise presents for our parents. My sisters and I chipped in to buy papa his dream TV, and mama a new iPhone. The rest of my money I spent on groceries, more presents for the fam, pasalubongs for Jon, books, Cheetos, Spicy Century Tuna, Vienna sausages, and Spam. lol

We spent my last week in Manila. Took mama, my sisters, and our aunt on a date - brunch in Wildflour and shopping at Rockwell, and then continued to shop in MOA. I wanted to make dinner for everyone, so I made sinigang na baboy which was perfect for the stormy weather. We had drinks with our cousins before bed (red horse, spicy Oishi, and isaw at bbq).

The next day, I brought my parents to IKEA so I can buy them stuff for the house. I could tell mama was so excited to drive back home so she can start using everything we got. Uncle flew back from Zamboanga later than everyone else so the day after he arrived, he went straight to the condo so we can spend more time with him. We asked him to make lola's bistek Tagalog as he is the only one who can make it exactly the way lola does. I am glad to report that I watched him closely as he was making it - even volunteered to be the sous chef - so I will make it for dinner tomorrow.

The day before my flight, the entire family celebrated my aunt and cousin's birthdays. I made some of my specialty meals, and we ordered a bunch of other food. Of course, there was cake.

I flew back to Switzerland on the 7th. I arrived on Friday at 8 in the morning, unpacked my stuff, ate pancit canton, and fell asleep at 16hr. I woke up at 3am still tired, but I managed to clean up and do all the laundry. I was hanging clothes at the balcony even before the sun was out. I found it hilarious. The rest of the day, I spent on the couch still feeling quite sluggish and brushing off the fact that I was having chills, and my nose wouldn't stop running.

Jon and I went on a quick café date and I couldn't taste the coffee nor the pastry I ordered which I found strange but thought nothing of. We did errands and bought groceries but I started feeling sicker as the hours passed. As soon as we got home, I checked to see if I had covid. The test came out positive. Dinner wasn't much fun. I was much sicker so I couldn't enjoy the food Jon prepared for me - he made me the perfect steak which I couldn't taste hahaha and some soup to make me feel better.

This morning, I woke up at 5am and called my family right away. The symptoms are getting worse, and now I have chills, body pains, and constant headache. I will rest more so I can feel better by tomorrow. I just find this to be a silly end to an incredible summer.

[rayajhean13]

Title: Embracing Tomorrow's Working Immersion: A Personal Perspective

Hello, Tumblr world! It's me, Rayajhean Traya, your friendly neighborhood blogger from the beautiful Philippines. Tomorrow is a big day for me, a day I've been both excited and nervous about. I'm about to embark on a new journey - my working immersion. It's a whole new world out there, a different environment from what I'm accustomed to. But you know what? I'm ready to take it head-on.

I'm feeling a mix of emotions right now, a cocktail of anticipation, anxiety, and exhilaration. There's a tiny knot in my stomach, a sign of the nervous. I've been assigned to Perfect Clean, a company renowned for its impeccable standards and quality service. Although I'm a bit nervous, I'm also incredibly excited to learn and grow in this new environment.

I'm looking forward to getting hands-on experience and learning the ins and outs of the cleaning industry. I'm eager to understand the techniques, the tools, and the methods that make Perfect Clean live up to its name. It's a golden opportunity for me to learn from the best in the business.

I'm also excited about meeting new people, my future colleagues. I'm sure they will have a wealth of knowledge to share and I can't wait to soak it all in. I'm also thrilled about the idea of contributing to the team and making a difference in my own small way.

However, I'm also aware that it won't be all sunshine and rainbows. There will be challenges, I'm sure. There might be days when I'll feel overwhelmed or out of my depth. But I'm ready to face them. I believe that it's through these challenges that I'll grow the most.So, here's to tomorrow, to the start of my working immersion. I'm stepping into it with an open mind, a willing heart, and a spirit ready to learn. Wish me luck, Tumblr fam!

Until next time,

Rayajhean Traya 🌟

[snugsodium]

Art Galleries to Visit in your Next Free Time with the Fam

You have been encapsulated in the four corners of your condo in Sucat for almost 2 years. You probably forgot to keep track of how many times you visited your gallery to check for some pictures you took in different places that you have been before the pandemic started. As everyone gets a taste of normalcy, now is the right time to re-experience the outside world. Go on a road trip with family or friends. The amusement park is also a great place to unleash your adventurous self. And for those who want an adventure that is a feast for the eyes? Art museum and Art gallery dates are for you.

As the clock ticks and seasons change, even arts are beginning to transition from traditional to digital. NFTs or Non-Fungible Tokens is a digital assets illustrated in a form of digital artwork. It serves as a way to showcase Filipino artists' artwork in the digital world whilst preserving it. NFT art can be in a form of digital images, paintings, music, video, and 3D art.

There is no denying that this new innovative form of art brings accessibility and convenience to everyone since they no longer have to go outside of their condo in Sucat to go to art museums and get a glimpse of Philippine art. However, nothing still beats the nostalgic feeling that exhibits, galleries, and art museums bring. Seeing artwork in person tells a different kind of story. The strokes, colors, and textures of the art can somehow make you ponder about the artist's inspiration, his challenges in making the art, and the meaning behind it.

Get out of your condo in Sucat, set a date with your family, and spice up your day by starting your little art adventure.

Here's a list of art galleries and art museums that you can visit.

[erwinvalencia]

JOY TO THE WORLD! Send a “🎄” below ⬇️ if you love holiday decor like me! #DailyGratitude Today I’m grateful for the happiness and joy that I witness on people’s faces (including mine!) upon seeing the decorations and lights during this holiday season. It brings me back to days spent with family and friends, especially in the Philippines where gatherings, when started, don’t stop—until after Three Kings in January.😜 Have a joyful day today FAM! #joy #joyful #world #love #decor #season #christmas #tree #life #iamhere #beawitness #welcometothenow #gratitudegang #artofzest #warrioroflife #ubebae #ggfl #adayinthelife (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CmJzxavOB6B/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[gunsatthaphan]

~ Monthly BL Breakdown: December 2021 ~  

Disclaimer: All shows can be streamed here, here or here! For more info about shows, check out their MDL pages!

- Updates coming every month - feel free to add stuff! -

What came out this month? (green tick = seen or currently watching)

🌟 What She Likes - December 3rd (Japan)

🌟 Never Too Late (part-bl) - December 6th (Thailand) ✅

🌟 Not Me - December 12th (Thailand) ✅

🌟 Komorebi - December 17th (Taiwan)

🌟 The Player (bl sidestory) - December 20th (Thailand)

🌟 Once In Memory: Wish Me Luck - December 20th (Thailand) 

🌟 GenY 2 - December 21st (Thailand) ✅

🌟 Tinted With You - December 23rd (South Korea)

🌟 Behind Cut - December 28th (South Korea)

🌟 Beef Cupcake And Him - December 28th (Vietnam) 

🌟 Love at the End of the World - December 30th (Philippines) 

Monthly likes/dislikes

❣️ #GMMTV2022 - aka the most intense 4,5 hours of 2021 lmaoo but I’m really excited for a lot of the stuff that was announced! Especially The Eclipse, Moonlight Chicken and Never Let Me Go did it for me lol. But all of them look good honestly. The bls seem to be going into a darker direction compared to last year which is very exciting!! (but only as long as they have a happy ending lmao) yay!!!

❣️ DanYok (Not Me) - to say those 2 have taken over my life would be an understatement jdkhgkd. Their energy is insane and I don’t think I’ve ever experienced such a severe case of side couple syndrome hhhh. I’m super stoked for their story; there’s so much that’s untold and everything is wide open. They have made the absolute best of their minimal screen time so far and I’m so excited for more 🥺 

👎🏻 It’s been really sad to see all the negativity surrounding Not Me due to the political stuff and the novel copyright drama. I don’t wanna call anyone out but the show is making good points and for people to say it’s problematic (amongst other stuff) is sad. I hope this dies down at some point bc the show is phenomenal and they don’t deserve any of this. 

New show announcements

🎥 GMMTV2022 BL lineup: Cupid’s Last Wish, Moonlight Chicken, The Eclipse, My School President, Vice Versa, You Are My Favorite, Sun & Sky, Never Let Me Go - Dates TBA (Thailand)

🎥 I Want a Bite - Date TBA (South Korea)

🎥 You Light Up My Life Again (from Studio WabiSabi) - Date TBA (Thailand/China)

🎥 Step By Step (produced by Dee Hup House) - Date TBA (Thailand) 

🎥 Spring of Crush - Date TBA (South Korea) 

🎥 펜스밖은해피엔딩 (Happy Ending Outside The Fence) - Date TBA (South Korea) 

🎥 The Letters - Date TBA (Vietnam) 

🎥 Melody In Me - Date TBA (Vietnam) 

🎥 RIN The Series - Date TBA (Vietnam)

🎥 Work From Heart (starring GameplayFolk) - Date TBA (Thailand)

🎥 Imado Jinja - Date TBA (Thailand/Japan)

🎥 Ocean Like Me (starring Holland) - Date TBA (South Korea)

Other news from the bl world

❗️The Japanese BL “A Man Who Defies the World of BL” is getting a second season, which is set to be released in 2022.

❗️The upcoming Thai BL “Secret Crush On You” will premiere on Feb 11th 2022 on CH3 & Youtube.

❗️The production of the upcoming South Korean adaption of “Bungee Jumping Of Their Own” has been cancelled.

❗️Tonnam Piamchon and Fam Pornpawit will be the mains of Mame’s new series “Past Love in the Future”. (no leonpob spinoff. I’m sad.)

❗️The upcoming thai bl “Check Out” is set to air in June 2022. Promotional shoots have started. 

❗️Kpop singer Holland will star in the upcoming KBL “Ocean Like Me”. His co-stars are 2Z-member Bum Jun and WYEL’s Han Gi Chan. 

❗️Thai actor JJ Krissanapoom (Jaylerr) determined his contract with Nadao Bangkok and is now working as a freelanced actor.

❗️After terminating their streaming service, LINETV announced that their original series will continue, starting February 1st 2022. Details remain to be announced. 

Upcoming shows & movies for January

☝🏻 You’re My Sky - January 8th (Thailand)

☝🏻 Tell the World I Love You - January 20th (Thailand)

☝🏻 Color Rush ss2 - January 21st (South Korea; not bl!)

☝🏻 One Love - January 23rd (Thailand) 

☝🏻 Physical Therapy - January 23rd (Thailand)

☝🏻 Love Stage - January 29th (Thailand) 

☝🏻 The Restart(ed) - January 30th (Thailand) 

☝🏻 First Love Again - January 30th (South Korea) 

☝🏻 My Ride - January TBA (Thailand)

☝🏻 The Love of Winter - January TBA (Thailand)  

☝🏻 In Your Heart - January TBA (China) 

☝🏻 Something In My Room - January TBA (Thailand)

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Happy New Year everyone!! 💜 

xxx

[cloudy-leonhart]

AOT veterans with a Filipino S/O!!

[author note: did I write this as soon as I posted the first part?? yes. I like writing for this, it’s so fun lolol up next, Marleyan Warriors!!]

Summary: not much, just the AOT vets with their filipino S/O.

Gender Neutral Reader.

Recommended Song: Buwan - Juan Karlos.

Theme: Fluff, Modern AU.

TW: Swearing.

Characters: Hange, Levi, Miche, Erwin, Moblit, Nanaba.

Hange Zöe

Honestly they fully immersed themselves in your culture, as you know Hange LOVES learning about new things, discovering about your culture, they probably forced you to go the Philippines with them.

They started asking people for directions in english?? You had to step in translate for them, in which they responded to ask to teach them the language.

Yes they keep a small notebook of words they think are interesting. Yes even swear words are in there, not to mention they absolutely just butcher the way you say it.

One time when you both came back, Hange told Erwin that Bakla was a word for a good man, and they laughed their asses off watching Erwin tell people he was Bakla LMFAO.

They actually visited your province, they met your family and was surprised at the fact that they owned a whole farm, they tried to learn with your siblings on how to harvest rice, they nailed it btw.

they named your carabao, Sawney, and your chicken, Bean.

And respectfully so, your family started to call their animals by the name Hange gave them.

They started to cry about the fact that you guys had to go back, and like every time, your mom and dad encouraged y’all to bring filipino snacks back home, in which you did, because you knew that you’d probably miss it when you flew back home.

You guys have a tradition of going to the Philippines for your guys’ anniversary.

THEY SUPRISINGLY LISTENS TO FILIPINO MUSIC

They were the one to suggest Aegis to Levi but they prefer someone like Jireh Lim.

Favourite song is probably, Buko. They love the guitar in it.

Levi Ackerman

He first found out you were Filipino when he caught you packing a balikbayan box for your family back home, (for those who don’t know, balikbayan box is a box full of your country’s snacks to send back to the PH for your family to try.)

He had asked you what it was, and you answered that it was for your family back in the Philippines, in which he responded with helping you, and mainly scolding you about the way you packed it.

“Idiot, pack it like this, so you have more space to place stuff.”

When he first went to the Philippines, he first noticed the cleanliness of the hotels, he looked at you with a ‘is this why you’re so good at cleaning?’ look. 

God when I say your parents loved him, YOUR PARENTS ABSOLUTELY ADORED HIM. He would clean for your mom, and not only that, your mom approved of his cleaning technique, yes she told you to marry him that second.

And that you did, you had your first wedding with you family in the Philippines, and another in where you guys currently lived.

Bye, he absolutely looks AMAZING in a Barong. Your dad helped him slick his hair back.

Your mom and him, bonded of cleaning, sometimes when your mom needs help removing rust on her pans, she calls Levi.

like Hange he and you go to the Philippines for y’alls anniversary. 

Please save this man from the streets, I’m not saying it to be mean but this man almost gave his wallet to a bunch of kids who were hungry.

You gave money instead because you didn’t want your man to be broke lmfao.

He loves seeing you so happy while you’re in the Philippines, he just thinks it’s adorable when you speak your language.

Aegis listener, absolutely no discussion, mans listens to them while cleaning, he listens to “Sayang Na Sayang” religiously.

when Aegis plays in the house, you know it’s a cleaning day lmao.

Erwin Smith

Please, remember when I said Hange told him bakla was a word for a good man, yes, that’s how he found out you were Filipino, you literally was so dumbfounded, you waited for him in the living room, your friend’s laughing over the phone, man thought he did something wrong until..

“Erwin, can you tell me why you’ve been telling your friends you’re fucking gay??”

Yeah he’s got trust issues now. But he wasn’t that shocked to find out you were filipino, he just thinks it’s neat, he butchers pronouncing shit, he tries to learn filipino jokes??? It’s really bad, like you need to stop him from telling your family to save HIM from embarrassment.

He knows how to cook barbecue lmfao, he sits at your family’s barbecue spot and cooks for them, your dad appreciates the help so much lmao, also he loves drinking the gulaman whenever he’s there, your dad gives it to him for free because, he basically considers Erwin his son now. His awkward, barbecue-cooking, son.

You guys go on hiking in Mt. Butalao, yes you sneak peeks when he’s climbing because his muscles flex, and he sweats. You guys go on a double hiking date with Miche and his S/O all the time.

He was kind of fearful when you went to a province to get in touch with your grandparents, he watched you help their carabao back into their pens, he’s scared of carabaos, don’t blame him-

Surprisingly he’s as good as your dad in basketball, bye I just know the women of your community comes to watch him, he’s ripped, you’re jealous but you don’t say it lmao.

He’s got those jeep keychains lmfao, the fact that he kinda looked like a lost puppy when you’re traveling, like so many people, so little space-

please educate him, he’s confused on everything-

he probably listens to Eraserheads, Huwag Mo Nang Itanong. Yes his ultimate song. 

Miche Zacharias

probably the only veteran that knows what to do?? Beside Moblit?? He knows how to bless, he knows to call your parents nanay and tatay. He also loves going to where there’s a lot of Filipino street food because he loves the smell, he prefers the smell of bananaque over anything, hotcakes are a close second.

mf was scared when your mom suddenly said, “Oh yeah, I kept your childhood spider.”

YOU OWNED A MF SPIDER?? You were all like ‘omg i miss him’ he was a little scared bitch omg.

You had to explain that you would buy them from the local toy store and you and your friends would make them fight each other to the death.

HE THOUGHT IT WAS GONNA BE SMALL- IT’S A WHOLE MF TARANTULA BYE

you know those dyed chicks you get from winning a game, yeah, he was attached to one you guys won, but as always, they weren’t going to live long, I think he sulked for a whole 2 days. He named the chick Richard AHAHA.

ah yes, absolute unit in basketball, yes you and Erwin’s S/O would watch them play basketball together with your guys’ dads. Yes y’all gossiped about how hot they were in tagalog.

Just saying, Miche got some that night. 

He doesn’t fit in tricycles- neither does he fit in jeepneys lmfao- he kinda has to sit on the ground if you force him to fit, in which he has to awkwardly crawl to get out lmfao.

He literally looks godly while hiking, you guys don’t go to your parents’ house when you first arrive, you guys hike.

You guys go whenever y’all feel like it honestly.

“hey hey, reader, Mahal Kita.”

He listens to anything in filipino honestly, he likes chill filipino songs like Tell Me Where It Hurts by MYMP.

Moblit Berner

He’s a researcher, he makes sure he doesn’t disrespect the culture.

he knows to bless and all that jazz like Miche.

Wait but your family loved him as soon as you told them he was a doctor lmfao?? He’s in nursing.

He’s basically already apart of the family, all your little siblings call him kuya Moblit, he absolutely thinks it’s adorable.

when you guys are sending a balikbayan box, he places toys he bought for your little siblings in the box, with a note written and translated by you for them.

Moblit also knows about poverty in the Philippines, he’s apart of an organization where they give to those who can’t afford real food, even when he’s back home with you, he donates from abroad, everyone knows him as the generous kuya.

honestly I can see him as someone who’s also known by your community, people call him kuya Moblit or tito Moblit, it’s very wholesome when a kid asks him to carry them.

This man looks so nice and kind on the outside but when you guys are at your tita’s bday party and there’s a whole mf buffet, he’s a whole beast.

You know when your uncles have like, food stacked on their plate, and like a cup of buko pandan at the side?? yes, him. definitely.

He’s kinda like sasha in this au, he loves the food so much, he probably finished a filipino dish by himself (it’s the palabok)

he’s also a god at making ice candy?? like he’s so good at filling up the plastic with the liquid lmao.

you guys adopted a stray dog in the community and his name was Moblit, your family takes care of him while you guys are back home.

genuinely, it’s mostly wholesome with him, he doesn’t really do anything wrong besides butchering pronounciation.

Moblit probably watches boxing with your dad though, it’s just too accurate not to be true.

More of a movie watcher than a song listener, his favourite movie so far is Four Sisters and A Wedding.

he cries every filipino movie, them do it to you.

Seven Sundays, he cried for days straight.

Nanaba

Nanaba found a filipino flag from your collage years in a box, asked you about it, then encouraged you to visit the Philippines because she wanted to meet your family. 

Okay but your family thought she was a guy because of her hair?? 

your siblings can’t say Nanaba, so they call her Ate Nana.

She was kind of jealous of your bond with your family, she knows she shouldn’t be, but she couldn’t help it since her and her father’s relationship absolutely sucked.

And you know this, you had talked with her about it too, it was kinda like a, “are you okay?” and “it’s nothing.”

You had to drag her out to family events, eventually, she started to feel like she was apart of the family, she went swimming with the fam, did karaoke nights, she was basically in the family now.

She felt really happy that you decided to help her educate herself in your culture, and that your family openly accepted her into your family.

when you and her married, she wore a baro’t saya for the wedding reception and she looked absolutely gorgeous in them. She took your last name.

Your mom taught her to do the tinikling dance, and she mastered it easily, you of course danced with her.

she kinda had a guilty pleasure of going to McDonalds in the Philippines, SOLELY FOR THE ROOT BEER FLOAT, that stuff be bussin.

she forces you to go to McD’s whenever’s there’s a new flavour released.

Nanaba loves going on the jeepney, she likes the fact that you ring a bell when you have to get off and she does it every time you guys use a jeep for transportation.

Nanaba knows one word in filipino and that’s Mahal, she uses it so weirdly though, but she’s adorable so you let it pass.

“Reader..erm, I mahal?? you?..” 

she’s both a listener and a movie watcher, she listens to more modern filipino singers, like Patch Quiwa.

Favourite movie is when Vice Ganda’s in it, she just thinks all his movies are funny.

[hazygrains]

2021 was definitely one hell of a ride. There were a lot of great moments and a fair share of struggles. I got hospitalized, moved to a new home, got a new job, had another Psoriasis flare-up, met new friends, and have grown as a person. I actually had a lot more to add to the list, but those were just some of the highlights and low points of my year. I know it has been tough for most of us with the virus still out there, mutating, the typhoon leaving a trail of devastation, and not to mention the incompetence of this government. I just really hope you are still hanging in there.

I posted this on my IG account last year but just forgot to also post it here on my blog. ┏(￣▽￣)┛

The first quarter of my 2022 has been okay so far. Though there were times I felt like my days have been repetitive, like all I did was sleep, eat, work, repeat. But yeah, I guess that’s inevitable since I’m at home most of the time. It's just a phase and it’ll pass. Anyway, here’s just a quick update on what has been happening this first quarter:

Ever since the year started, I haven’t bought any ceramic/stoneware pieces. It’s like I’ve suddenly lost interest in collecting more mugs/cups ever since I hit a total of 102 pieces already. Also because of this, I've been able to save more! (≧∀≦;)

I’ve been into reading mangas since I started reading my first manga in December of last year. I’ve finished 6 already—Demon Slayer: Kimetsu no Yaiba, Chainsaw Man, ReLIFE, Blue Hearts, I sold my life for ten thousand yen per year, My Little Monster—and I have a lot of ongoing series that are still not completed yet.

I'm trying to use film every chance that I get. I really want to document events and my travel getaways using this medium, but I was shocked by the prices of film stocks nowadays. Soooo, I have to make sure my shots would be worthwhile!

I have a pile of TBR books here! I’ve already started reading a few pages from 3 out of 7 books, but I just couldn’t bring myself to continue and finish them. I already told myself that I will get back into reading last year. What happened now? Meh.

The first week of this year, Asis and I got sick. We had the flu, with symptoms similar to omicron, but we didn't get tested for COVID because the antigen/PCR tests were too pricey. So, we both self-quarantined. It was the same with my friends, workmates, and family. It was like every citizen of the Philippines had the flu then. I was also grateful for my company because they sent an EG care kit—pulse oximeter, thermometer, rapid antigen kit, medicines/vitamins, masks, alcohol, betadine gargle. It was really timely! Grateful for EG! By the way, we were also boosted! Yay!

I finally opened an investment-linked life insurance. I know, I know, better late than never. I really need to save up now and be wise with money. This is still a work in progress.

Kaye, Madchen, and Andrei’s birthday event celebration; EG fam lunch-out/overnight (will post a separate blog)

La Union getaway with Asis (will post a separate blog)

So, that’s about it. We are already scheduled for passport renewal tomorrow and we will also visit my parents after. It’s already Sunday! Back to work again tomorrow. Okay, I've got to get back to reading To Your Eternity manga. I'm almost done with the last volume. I'm just sad that the next volume is still TBA. Laters! x

[oh-mother-of-darkness]

asks (26)

@spickerzocker​ said:

hey there! just a heads up that i tried to click on the "why i don't ship" explanation link in your faq and it says that there is no post with that url/it's generally broken. also your "a conversation about recovery" thing is beautiful and hurts in the best way and i love it. have a nice day!

Yes, I intentionally took that link down awhile ago, and last night I went and updated some of the tabs on my blog. Here are my basic thoughts:

I wrote that link years and years ago, while I was first navigating the internet and while I was still figuring out important things about my own identity and opinions. I ran my blog differently back then, but by the end of the first few months, I knew I was uncomfortable with shipping. 

As people began to interact with me and my work, I told them over and over again no, I don’t want to talk about that, and I don’t want to write about it, and it makes me uncomfortable. I don’t think that was a common position to take at the time, so it wasn’t what people expected from me. 

During those years, I felt like I had to justify myself and give a valid explanation. I wrote that post explaining why I had that boundary, and I put it in a place where anyone could find it.

I said no when people asked, let them make jokes about it, and made jokes about it myself in response. As time went on I got more and more exasperated when I had to repeat myself. I wrote definite rules into my ask box, request tab, and FAQ. People still asked. I wrote it into my description. People still asked. 

The truth is yeah, there’s a pretty simple explanation for my discomfort. It makes sense. It’s easy to understand, and most folks think it’s a “good enough” reason to leave me alone. The difference between young-me and current-me is that I no longer feel the need to justify myself. 

None of y’all need to know why I set the boundaries that I set. My explanation isn’t relevant, and I’m not obligated to give it. I said no. That’s enough. 

I think a good number of folks remember my explanation from the past, and I don’t mind that at all. There may be a time where I talk about it again, in a more appropriate context, so I guess we’ll see.

That’s a lot of information in response to a very helpful ask. Thanks! The link is gone now, and I’m so pleased that you enjoyed the fic :)

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Anonymous said:

U suck

Kenza sent this anon as a joke. She’s right, and I thank her. 

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Anonymous said:

I'm a doctor and ive seen it all.....but the milk fic made me gag

Excellent

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@wingedskyes said:

Ah. Wait. I wasn't on anon....uhm. oh well. It's fine. I like milk and am not ashamed. 😆

I don’t think I received another message from you actually, but I too like milk and I’m glad we’re on the same page

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@thelittleredheadedmusician said:

To add to the milk discussions: my best friend from home and best friend from college have each finished a gallon a milk by themselves within 2 days.

I do that too, every once in awhile. When the milk craving hits it’s a gallon a day

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Anonymous said:

"TIM! POUR HIM. A GLASS OF M A L K!"

Hold on I have to google some things

Yeah this is funny

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Anonymous said:

I have read that milk fic three separate times and every time I’m laughing just as hard as Tim and dick by the end it’s just so excellently executed and builds so perfectly that by the time dick cracks I’m ready to go too and I just lose it it’s amazing I love it

Awww anon I’m so pleased :)

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@the-smartass-under-the-mountain said:

Just wanted to drop by and say your recent fic with Tim antagonizing Damian with increasingly outrageous milk concoctions had me giggling. It was so cute and refreshing to see Dick enjoying Tim's little prank. And Bruce's reaction to just... walk away was fantastic!

Thank you! I’m always so thrilled when y’all think the jokes hit

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@njtheboywonder​ said:

I havnt really enjoyed a fic in years, but i stopped to read ur fanfic with tim drinking milk just to fuck w dami amd it made me smile. Thanks, for writing it.

Oh that warms my heart <3

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@bruciewayneisbatman​ said:

Tim Is totally the guy who would drink ridiculous amounts of dalgona coffee to annoy damian, according to that fic.

Had to google that one, but I guess so huh

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Anonymous said:

(diff anon) but that birthday fic was so good oml and you have opened my eyes as to the batfam in quarantine this is such a Concept

We’re all here dying..... together...

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Anonymous said:

Happy birthday! 🎉 or belated! 🎂 thank you for being in the fandom. 😊

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Anonymous said:

To anon! Sorry. I forgot to add that! Anyway, thanks to them we get a lovely fic. I hope you have many more birthdays! 😊

Message for you anon

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Anonymous said:

Your writing gives off good vibes

Hear that guys I “passed my vibe check.” Is that what the youth say these days? I am an elder now and I do not know

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Anonymous said:

finding your blog while being relatively new to batman fandom is such a bliss. your batfam content especially is *chef's kiss* amazing.

Thank you my darling :) I’m glad you’re here

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Anonymous said:

Best line in a fic? Hard to pick just one, but this particular one from "Just Desserts" by fyeahbatmanandrobin on Tumblr is one of my faves: “Anyone else would be hard-pressed to provide the particular brand of excitement you bring to my life, Dami.”

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@noisypaintersong​ said:

For the line thing: "I don't doubt it. Bruce Wayne, the unexpectedly normal guy wrapped in a mystery wrapped in a superhero wrapped in an enigma wrapped in a fake socialite wrapped in a businessman wrapped in a secretive billionaire." He paused. "…You're the seven-layer burrito of Gotham," he pondered. - Barry to Bruce in 'Of Friends and Foes' by Paganpunk2 on FFN. It's one of the funniest things I've read someone say to Bruce LOL

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@kirakats​ submitted:

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Anonymous said:

“I do know that according to everyone else, there is no chance, no future, no universe where I stay a hero.” Describes my frustration with the way DC treats Damian so accurately. Let the kid be a hero dammit.

Thanks! That’s really helpful. I’ve got a decent answer to my question now. 

@kurawastaken​ submitted:

So this is Kenza retaliating against me for the milk fic. I very much hate tomatoes and specifically ketchup. This photo (1) is a nightmare and (2) fulfills its intended purpose.

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Anonymous said:

I love your blog!!!

And I love you 

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Anonymous said:

quick question: how do you think jason reconciles with the fam?? i think in the comics they kinda just reboot and now he’s on better terms. but like what conversations happened, yknow??? (you’re doin great work by the way, it rips out my heart but it’s great)

This is an amazing question, and I’ll be thinking about it for the next bit, I think. That would be a really interesting topic to explore in depth

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@angel-gidget​ said:

*hugs you real tight* would you please send this to the first 10 people in your dash? Make sure someone gets a hug today and stay safe!

Oh thank you for the hug <3

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Anonymous said:

I hadn’t been aware of that Memphis petition, but I live in Memphis too (Altho I know you said you just grew up there so you may not be living here currently haha) so ig I just wanted to say thanks for bringing it to my attention!

!!!

I’ve been in Texas for six years now, ever since I started school, but I’m still in and out of Memphis for family purposes. Love the trash heap of my birth 

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@damianwaynerocks​ said:

hey! any chance you know of any other dc heroes around damian’s age?

Sure! You could try Billy Batson, Jon Kent, or Maya Ducard

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Anonymous said:

hi! i don't know if it's okay to leave anons like these but ive been feeling down because my country has passed a bill that deprives us of lots of human rights freedom and i want you to know that i just found your blog through the damian/bruce + justice fic and it comforted me. im slowly going thru your works and so far they are all comforting. i love your stuff, thank you.

Philippines? I’ve heard some things, and I’m real sorry y’all’re going through that. I don’t know that there’s anything I could say about that to help, but I hope you’re finding joy somewhere

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@awesomeness-ofgaybitches​ said:

Tumblr hates you. The links in your bio and to your fic masterlist don't work on mobile. I'm sorry.

FUCK

[fasa-umich]

Bea Fandiño, FASA 2020-21 Co-President

One Last Time

We’re gonna teach them how to say goodbye...

3/19/2021

Wowee, what a whirlwind of a year. These past twelve months have been filled with so much to be proud of—I even started a list of “Proud Mom Moments” last May so I could document all the small triumphs worth recognizing. It’s as if I’ve been planning out this testimonial since my election into the Co-Presidency, so I only laugh as I try to put all these thoughts to paper the day after my testimonial was supposed to be done (sorry ading Janielle—Filipino time, am I right?).

“Pick up a pen, start writing.”

I want to start off by saying that this year was not easy. It wasn’t for anyone. Our board came into our tenure hitting the ground running, full of visions and concrete plans for FASA, only to have them thwarted time and time again by circumstances out of our control. Let it be known that if this was a normal year, our board would have absolutely crushed it. x1000.

But it wasn’t a normal year. And you know what? We still crushed it. We changed the game. And while it can be so easy to focus on what could have been, doing so would distract us from celebrating everything that was.

This was the mentality Izzy and I pushed at the onset of the summer. Yes, FASA has traditions. There are certain aspects of our programs that everybody loves and expects to see each semester. But FASA is also dynamic. Every year, boardies are challenged with finding the balance of upholding tradition while trying new things and pushing the boundaries. And with the nature of this year, there was no better time to challenge ourselves to do the latter. Because we wanted to do more than just “survive”—we were ready to reach new heights.

Pinay Power looking fire as hell

So what exactly was FASA this year? If I had to choose one word, it’s resilient. Bouncing back after each hurdle, our boardies refused to give up on this org; as did our members, who stayed with us through it all. PCN can’t happen in person? Cool, let’s turn it into a frickin’ MOVIE. Can’t have big group gatherings? Okay, let’s leverage our FAM’s to build stronger small-group bonds. Can’t travel to external orgs? No big deal, let’s organize virtual discussions with our Michigan Philippine Student Associations and our fellow Latinx friends on campus. Even in the face of adversity, FASA resiliently remained rooted in culture, tied together in family, and strengthened by our dedication to the community.

Pop quiz: What are the three ~pillars~ of FASA?

None of this could have been accomplished without the perseverance of our board. Without Janielle’s commitment to high quality. Sean’s willingness to ask important questions. Josh’s contagious, positive energy. Kris’s flexibility and open mindedness. Christine’s constant, uplifting support. Lauren’s willingness to step up for anyone and everyone. Angelina’s dedication to collaboration. Jason’s careful consideration for vision and purpose. Jolene’s innovative ideas. Estelle’s passion for navigating cultural discussion. Kate’s constant communication and initiative. Sam’s critical eye when we’re overthinking things. Kaitlyn’s honesty with what she believes is best. Izzy’s never-ending drive to make sure each person feels heard and supported. To my boardie family, you are an absolute inspiration. Your work ethic is unmatched, your care invaluable, and your determination a force to be reckoned with. It has been a true honor to work with you, to learn from you, and to be your friend.

“And I know we weren’t perfect, but I’ve never felt this way for no one.”

When people ask me what my favorite aspect of the Co-Presidency is, I actually find a strong parallel with my past experience as Performance Chair. In performance, you get to see people grow throughout the year, building up unique confidence and boldness through cultural expression. As Co-President, I had the honor of seeing that growth extended as I watched those same individuals rise as leaders and come to own their position in FASA. Through the trials and successes, to be granted a front-row seat in that journey is a privilege, and I thank each of my boardies for letting Izzy and me join along for the ride. We definitely took a more hands-on approach this year (hopefully you didn’t get too sick of us, lol), and with that, an even deeper understanding of the efforts and motivations of the people who make it all happen. And being challenged to make the tough calls, actively listen to what people have to say, take action to move forward, and use my voice to stand up for what I believe in, I learned just as much from my boardies as they (hopefully) did from me. Even as Co-President, there is always more FASA and Filipino culture to explore, as well as more to learn from those around you.

“I wanna talk about what I have learned, the hard-won wisdom I have earned.” -Boomers

On that note, FASA would not be standing so tall—well, as tall as a Filipino can be—today if it weren’t for our general members. To my first years: Your energy is what kept FASA fueled this entire year. To my sophomores: Thank you for sticking with us, engaging with our programs, and keeping FASA a part of your life. To my alpha dings juniors: Literally, I can’t imagine life without you. To my grad student population of ~2 (and growing!!): You are history in the making! Keep the momentum going! And to my seniors: I’ll save the sappy goodbyes for when you leave my life forever in a month (mom and dad, I already know I’m gonna cry and you’d best believe I’m bringing you down with me). But in all seriousness, your constant support over the years has shaped FASA into the community we know and love.

Like I said before, FASA is dynamic. It’s ever-changing. But even if the FASA 10 years from now is different from the FASA we know today, the impact we have made on each other’s personal and cultural journeys remains true. That’s the beauty of this family—stripping away the official title and positions, at the end of the day, we’re all just defining our own Filipino American experience together. And though FASA will continue to change, that personal impact is something that will stand the test of time.

“No matter where life takes us, nothing can break us apart...I just wanna be with you.”

Okay yeah yeah, I know I’m a sap, just let me be Feelings Chair for once. Before I wrap things up, there are a few people I want to acknowledge:

Mai-Ly and Elisa: X FAM BEST FAM!! Seriously, you should be incredibly proud of yourselves as FAM Heads. X FAM broke records this year, and I could not be more happy with the top-tier music videos, hella extra [exclusive] merch (other fams be jealous), COASTERS (lol), and overall stronger fam. Thank you for putting up with my sometimes overly Type A agendas and being so flexible amidst the craziness.

Kris and Josh: Long! Live! FASA! Performance! You guys were faced with a lot of difficulties this year. But in the end, you kept performance not only alive, but also fun and something members looked forward to, whether virtually or in-person. I am so incredibly proud of you and honored to have been your dancer :).

Izzy: The Isa to my Bella, the Pierogies to my Beaf. Thank you for being the absolute best co I could possibly ask for and the most amazing friend in the world. You challenged me to keep the big picture in mind and were integral in helping all of us (especially me) balance hard work and fun. As someone easily caught up in the grind and instinctively expecting others to be the same, you kept me in check and indirectly reminded me to take a breather and make sure board was enjoying what they were doing. I will forever have a love-hate relationship with our three- to six-hour calls, and you will always have a spot in my GCal for a Thursday night meeting-turned-dinner-turned-therapy session. It baffles me to think that we weren’t that close before 12 months ago. Thank you for being not only my inspiration as a leader but also my constant as a friend.

Team Isabella 4 Life

So where do we go from here? Admittedly, we couldn’t do everything we wanted to do this year. Izzy and I had a vision for FASA, and it can get discouraging when you’re not able to see your vision through. But at the end of the day, we had to accept that we might not be able to reach the end-goal. If the best we could do right now was focus on the present, make the most for our current membership, and set FASA up for future success, then we were gonna give that our all. And if the INCREDIBLE drive and work ethic of our Interns is an indicator of anything, I have full confidence in the passion, leadership, and people that will continue to join our organization and further its growth. FASA is in good hands—I can’t wait to see where it goes next.

“Your position is so unique.” “So I’ll use it to move them along.”

Looking back on why I ran for board in the first place my freshman year, I remember wanting so desperately to be able to give back to an organization that had given me so much. Thank you, FASA, for giving me the opportunity to do just that. Whether as a general member or Performance Chair or Co-President, I hope I’ve been able to create that safe space that makes FASA feel like home. I said it last year, but I will say it again—FASA, thank you for trusting me. It’s been an honor growing with you.

Mahal na mahal kita,

Bea Fandiño, FASA Co-President

[kimjoongs-main]

50 questions tag

tagged by: @jenuminous (ty bby ily)

tagging: @kimyeongues @linosgf @cheonsajaemin @hyuckiebabyy @bitchendery @moonblssm

1. what takes up too much of your time?

—hmmm probably sleeping, facetiming my friends, writing, reading webtoons, watching stuff on youtube etc

2. what makes your day better?

—that thing parents do when they cut up fruit for you and give you some :( my dad always cuta up watermelon for me whenever i’m stressed out

3. what’s the best thing that happened to you today?

—my cousin and i went out and had a girl’s day, we went to the mall, got our nails done, and just had a great time

4. what fictional place would you like to go to ?

—any place that gives you powers basically, so like bnha for example, or this webtoon i started reading called unordinary

5. are you good at giving advice ?

—it depends on the situation but generally i...guess so??

6. do you have a mental illness?

—hah

7. have you ever experienced sleep paralysis ?

—nope and *knocks on wood* i hope i never have to

8. what musician inspires you the most?

—cl, i just...love her

9. have you ever fallen in love ?

—yes

10. what’s your dream date?

—stargazing hands down

11. what do others notice about you ?

—the first thing people usually point out is my height sjdjdjs :’)) i’m tiny tiny

12. what’s an annoying habit you have?

—i tend to comb my hair back when i’m stressed out or nervous and it makes my hair all tangled

13. do you still talk to your first love ?

—yupyup

14. how many exes do you have?

—none

15. how many songs are in your playlist ?

—i have so many playlists for different moods shdjd, but the number of songs on my phone is around 200

16. what instruments can you play?

—i used to be able to play the violin but i stopped

17. what do you have the most pictures of ?

—my three friends, jaemin heh, and as of right now my godson

18. where would you like to go before you die?

—thailand

19. what’s your zodiac ?

—cap sun, pisces moon/rising

20. do you relate to it?

—i relate to cap sun and pisces moon sometimes, not so much my rising tho

21. what’s happiness to you?

—feeling nothing but joy, having a hard time keeping a smile off my face

22. are you going through anything right now ?

—well.....

23. what’s the worst decision you ever made?

—taking ap chem JSJDJDJS

24. what’s your favorite store?

—ooohooohho there’s this cute store i found in the mall at the philippines, i forgot the name but it was something like papemelroti?? but it had these cute little trinkets and stuff for scrapbooking and omg i fell in love

25. what’s your opinion about abortion ?

—woman’s body -> her choice, that’s all i’m saying abt this

26. do you keep a bucket list ?

—i used to when i was 10, but nah

27. do you have a favorite album?

—any album by journey

28. what do you want for your birthday ?

—ummmm money ig?? or maybe a new backpack bc they always break halfway thru the year

29. what are people’s first impressions of you?

—people usually say i’m rlly quiet when they first meet me, and they’re not wrong

30. what age do you seem according to most people ?

—it depends, someone thought i was in college when i was like 16, and someone else thought i was a hs freshman when i was a senior lol

31. where do you keep your phone while you’re sleeping?

—charging on the desk next to my bed

32. what word do you say the most ?

—what, oh, or just keyboard smashes

33. what’s the oldest age you would date?

—19

34. what’s the youngest you would date ?

—idk if i would???

35. what job/career would most people say suit you?

—a teacher, but as much as i love kids i don’t think i could handle teaching them

36. what’s your favorite music genre ?

—mmm i’ve been really into indie lately

37. if you could live in any country in the world, where would it be?

—not sure, but probably the philippines since i’m from there and i know the language well enough

38. what is your current favorite song ?

—symmetry by jt roach and emily warren, it’s so calming

39. how long have you had this blog for?

—a little over a year now, but i’ve been on tumblr for around 3-4 years

40. what are you excited for ?

—my fam and i are going to a resort tmr and i looked it up and it’s so pretty:((

41. are you a better talker or listener?

—depends on the person, there’s some people who i talk w more, and there’s some people who i just sit and listen to more

42. what was the last productive thing you did ?

—i did the laundry this morning, sweeped the apartment

43. what do you want for Christmas?

—again probably money or a new backpack

44. what class do you get the best grades in ?

—math and bio

45. on a scale of 1-10, how are you feeling right now?

—8.5

46. what can you see yourself doing in ten years ?

—probably being a nurse or traveling

47. when did you get your first heartbreak?

—when my fav teacher revealed to our class abt what she was going thru, it really hurt me to see her so upset

48. what age do you want to get married ?

—in my 30s maybe

49. what career did you want to have as a child?

—i really wanted to be a photographer at one point, but other than that it’s always been a nurse

50. what do you crave right now ?

—sushi, there’s a sushi place a mile from my apartment and im debating whether or not i should go skfkd

[keepingupwithfundies]

Bringing Up Bates Season 8 Episode 10: A Wedding to Plan & Fun with the Fam!

We catch up with some of the non-newlywed Bateses. Carlin and Erin are making lots of work for Chad with Carlin’s wedding backdrop. 

-T 

Since Alyssa and Michael are in town still from Josie’s wedding, Erin has invited them to hang out and get the cousins together. They go to the Muse, which is an indoor kids’ space with toys and crafts. Chad is particularly chuffed to see Carson playing with toy tools. Kelly asks Brandon what’s going on with the book, and Brandon says they have just sent it to the editor. Brandon is waiting to hear from him to finish the art. Whitney is glad to have Alyssa’s girls getting to play with all the cousins. Whitney says it is special for them to all get together. Whitney says she wishes they lived in Tennessee, Alyssa says Allie would love that. Kelly asks Michael about what’s going on with her, and she says she does a lot of travelling. Kelly asks if she thinks about moving back home to be close to the family and Kelly says she knows Chicago isn’t forever. Kelly says she knows all the kids won’t live around them, but it doesn’t hurt to hint. Kelly also jokes that she would say they need more weddings so everyone comes back more often but Gil would veto that. Alyssa says they’ll be back soon for Carlin’s, but after that, unless the boys get on it, it might be a while between weddings.

At Chad & Erin’s, Gil brings the little girls over to hang out. Erin has made pumpkin muffins which look every tasty. Kelly is glad that even after marriage the sibling bonds are close. They all make homemade cards which Erin says she and Carlin used to do that all the time. Callie is making a birthday card for Kelly. Gil is holding Everly and grateful he doesn’t have to share her. Brooklyn wakes up and seems confused that there are so many people in her living room. Gil says Brooklyn is so funny, Miss Personality and she gets right into coloring cards with the girls. Erin says right now she is living some of the best moments of her life- her little sister are there, at a great age, and someday they might be married in another state so she wants to treasure these moments. The playdate concludes.

At Gil’s church, Gil, Lawson, Nathan and Trace are there working on getting the building ready. The boys are often busy so it is not often they are all there together. Trace is working with Chad, is a part time deputy sheriff and considering going full time. Kelly wants to have their first service and Gil doesn’t know when that’ll be. Nathan has been spending a lot of time overseas working on a 911 system in the Philippines and a medical helicopter system to transport patients between islands. Nathan is planning on going to helicopter school. Lawson says he has a new album coming out which is the best one yet. Lawson has been working with a vocal coach to push himself, and his brothers and fathers tease him for the “silly sounding” exercises he does. Kelly is hoping the church will get finished enough to have a service or a wedding for one of the older boys. Jackson says, “The older boys are doing a lot of things, getting girlfriends is not one of them.” Lawson says himself and Nathan are too busy, but Trace is around and available. Gil says they are building the church debt free, which is why they are doing what they can little by little.

At Whitney’s, Whitney and Carlin are awaiting Erin and Kelly to talk wedding and making ornaments to go with Erin’s CDs. Zach also is there for the food. “The last I heard, you were thinking cathedral?” Kelly asks. “Things have since changed,” Carlin replies. “Are you still marrying Evan?” Zach teases, and Carlin gives him a look as she says “yes” and Zach says “that’s all that really matters, you can get married anywhere.” Carlin is struggling to find something on their date and has decided on outside. Carlin is worried about the weather, which is why she didn’t want this initially. Erin says you need a good backdrop for an outdoor wedding. Erin says Chad will build a stage- and the producer asks Chad if he knows what his part will be. The stage will feature two large windows with dramatic curtains and a chandelier.  Next, they all start painting ornaments with Erin. Carlin says she and Evan will have a first dance, and then she and Gil will have a dance. Kelly thinks that is precious. Kelly says their family doesn’t often dance since it can be sensual but Carlin has always wanted a Daddy-Daughter dance and there is nothing wrong with ballroom dancing- it is wholesome and they are all for it- but they should probably take classes since they don’t know how. Kelly says she wants Gil to learn so she can dance with him too. Carlin has the song and she is emotional especially because she is moving and it isn’t going to be the same. Carlin says it is all becoming real, and that she is gonna be a wife. Carlin says the most important thing is that they get married and Evan says they are gonna make memories whatever happens.

[mariposalass]

A Moment into Forever

Summary: A friend and an adopted brother join hands in marriage in early July, and Mari couldn’t be any prouder of the two.

Notes: It’s the Love Beyond Magic wedding, and you’re invited to read this story along. Here’s a quick reference masterlist related to the wedding event: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9. Also, huge shout outs to @husband-of-lucoa, @moonkiss-kid, @jenny-snoopers-world, @jaklovemail, @self-shipping-angel, and theselfshippingwitch (I can’t seem to tag you properly for some time) and their f/os for the guest cameos in this story.

Setting: Zellerbach Garden of Perennials at the San Francisco Botanical Gardens in San Francisco, California and Mari and co.’s house in Daly City, California; July 7, 2019

Tags: crossovers, Love Beyond Magic, self shipping, fluff, wedding, guest cameos, few mentions of character death

Morning arrives at the Tan residence one July Sunday, there is so much activity to get the last minute things done: from setting up the backyard for the reception to getting some of the food cooked to the bridal party needing to get ready for the big day. The ladies (Issa the bride and bridesmaids Mari, Kairi, Hermione, and Issa’s old friend Mona Roque) had their makeup and hair done by some friends led by Michiru Kaio in the master bedroom on the ground floor while the guys (Harry the groom and the groomsmen Ahkmenrah, Kirby, Ron, and Issa’s old friend Samuel Hidalgo) got ready inside in what will be Harry’s former room with Kirby on the second floor (the couple would move into the master bedroom after their brief mini-honeymoon out of town). There are exchanges of encouragement and stories and a bit of shenanigans here & there, but it went all smoothly.

After everyone got ready and got dressed, Mari and Kairi escorted Issa out to the porch at the now mostly decorated backyard of the house for the first look and bridal party photo shoot. The girls, the bride wearing an ivory spaghetti strap blouse, a long blush tulle skirt, and black chunky heels, whereas the two bridesmaids (along with Mona and Hermione) are dressed in embroidered blush dresses, chatted for a bit about what is going to happen. Her hands are tightening their grip onto her pink and white floral bouquet out of nervousness, although her face didn’t show that much at all with her trying to remain calm before the first look and bridal party shoots.

“So, today is finally here,” Mari spoke up first, “The day you two are getting married.”

“Absolutely, sis,” Kairi smiled before turning her attention to Issa, “Harry is so going to be floored once he gets down here to see you. I mean, we managed to hide your outfit for a couple of weeks without him catching onto it yet. He’s usually the one who couldn’t his nose away from any secretive stuff.”

“Gee, thanks guys, we all need it,” the slightly nervous bride thanked her soon-to-be sisters in law, “Come to think of it though: I’m just as surprised as you two that we hid it so well, he didn’t even bother to ask us.”

“Not a problem,” Mari noted, “I guess we did it so well indeed.”

“I can’t wait to see his reactions to you in a top and skirt rather than a dress,” Kairi giggled at the thought of her older adopted brother having dropped jaws upon seeing his future wife in a different outfit than he had imagined from the white lies they have given onto him for the last couple of weeks.

“Well, dream harder, Kairi,” Issa rolled her eyes a bit with a shrug, “I’m placing bets that he’s going to wear his eyeglasses all day long and forgetting to fix his hair for today.”

“Quick, everyone, the groom’s coming!!!” Mona’s panicky voice soon alerted everyone that Harry’s about to go to the backyard porch, sending everyone to hide from his line of sight.

“We need to go before he catches us,” Mari told Issa as she and Kairi went back inside to the master bedroom.

“Or else,” Kairi chimed in.

“Okay, girls, just don’t heckle at him on your way out,” she reminded them in advance.

Both girls nodded as they went back inside, leaving Issa alone to have some peace and quiet before he shows up. Good Lord, it’s been nearly a decade when they first met? Nearly a decade of dating has come by and it was so surreal to think that it would lead to this moment.

The memories were coming back to her in flashbacks in a film: the first awkward meeting, Harry’s major heartbreak from breaking up with Ginny and disowning his canon realm, the first awkward date, bonding over their hatred for tight enclosed spaces, the upset that she has to go college and get a job at the newspaper company they work for ahead of him, countless times of flirting with each other, a couple of times they would argue and yet make it up afterwards, the multiple dates and trips together, the many sleepless nights working on articles and races against the deadlines, that little engagement surprise at Ron and Hermione’s wedding a few months back. It must have taken a few minutes to go over them, but it felt like an eternity for her.

Just as memory lane keeps running in her mind, a familiar English male voice soon woke her up from its trance, “Hey, I thought about of dropping by before the whole thing starts. Just to, you know, not to get so tense about the day ahead of time.” Issa turned around and she was quite happy to see that he was there: the man she’s going to tie the knot with, the brother of two of her dearest friends. Harry James Potter looks absolutely dashing on today: his bangs have slicked back with gel, he managed to sneak in contact lenses (again, but he’s getting better at wearing them in a near daily basis nowadays), the scar has been partially concealed with a little bit of concealer, and this is so un-Harry-like as if the guy was trying too hard to look good for her. But still handsome nonetheless.

And like the rest of the guys who’s not Kirby, he’s wearing an ivory white dress shirt, gray dress pants, and brown shoes, finished with a layered owl feather and gold-tone wiring buttonhole. Unlike the rest of guys though, he does have a suit jacket on that matches the pants in color & fabric where the buttonhole is attached onto and a blush tie that compliments her skirt.

She was totally floored by the whole look he has pulled off, and she couldn’t help but to blush hard behind her hand. Harry, on the other hand, was stunned by how lovely Issa is as well: to be honest, he was expecting her to wear something more white and in a form of a dress if you asked him beforehand, but the top and skirt combo is quite a welcoming refresher from the amount of white dresses he has seen on brides in many of the weddings he, Issa, Mari, Kairi, and, yes, even Kirby have went to in recent years.

Her hair has been styled into a messy bun with braids, the makeup was done well for even amateur standards (thanks in part of Michiru’s clever skilled hand), he could even sworn that he could sniff some of the perfume she usually has on, but beyond that, it probably has to do with the sweet elegant aura and grace she always gives off that makes her unorthodox bridal outfit more stunning in his eyes in a good way.

“I see that you decided not to give up on the old locket for the big day as well,” he admitted to her when he noticed that the silver heart locket necklace she usually wears being a stand out from the other pieces of jewelry that are in gold before solemnly pondering on the significance, “Perhaps your cousin would’ve love to be here to see this day happening if she was still here on Earth.”

“Yeah, I wish Serena was here to see us getting married,” she smiled back while holding back the tears with the mention of her late beloved cousin bringing back old memories before bringing up another thing near and dear to his heart, “She was unfortunately ill for most of her life, I afraid. I guess the same can be said for Uncle Sirius and your parents if they weren’t, you know, killed off too soon, right?”

“Same, same,” he agreed as he too tried not to shed so much tears before the ceremony could even begin.

As the two were finishing up on the remembering the dead, they soon got distracted when they overheard giggling and cheering from their friends and family: including the bride’s parents and relatives coming in from the Philippines and the entire fam bunch & circle of friends with a co-worker of theirs taking the pictures as discreetly as possible. Issa’s dear old best friend Jenny and her feline detective husband Snooper are also present along with their respective families and with some new family members, including a pair of genius tech prodigy brothers and a friendly bear & his bird lady friend.

What surprised the groom the most was that some of the people he knew did actually travel from the UK to Daly City via San Francisco. He was surely expecting that many from his neck of the woods not to come besides Ron & Hermione who arrived a few weeks ago to help out in the last stages of planning and Sayeko, Levi, Erwin, Mike, Zoe, and Levi’s father Roland who had agreed to come to the event, even especially with Ginny understandably choosing not to go not as to rub things between them on the wrong way, but seeing Remus, Tonks, and Teddy being at the house before heading for the ceremony is more than welcome. The last living Marauder gave Harry a warm hug, Tonks kindly gave him a few words, and Teddy happily proclaimed to everyone present that Issa will become his godmother upon marrying his godfather, which actually everyone giggling and laughing at the coincidence.

And the most surprising of them all was that his biological cousin Dudley Dursley of all people arrived from his current place at Manchester, England to California out from Mari’s invitation and Luna was there as well. He’s well aware that he and Dudley have made amends and still sending correspondence over mail and calls & that these two are dating each other for some time, but the fact that both of them are here in one sitting has flooded him with gratitude that he hugged Mari tightly out of happiness Dudley even admitted he was worried about coming to the wedding in the first place out of fear, but Harry does appreciate the effort he and Luna made to come over nevertheless.

After the bridal party and family pictures have been taken at the backyard, everyone headed out to the San Francisco Botanical Gardens and into its Zellerbach Garden of Perennials for the ceremony. The garden within a city park is already filled with a diversity array of plants and flowers from around the world that wasn’t necessary to decorate the whole place like crazy (and also to comply with state & city forests and parks rules), but there’s a small ceremony table under the gazebo shade and a God’s Knot set with three differently colored ropes hanging onto a small ring which in turn is hanging onto a wooden peg. There’s also a park ranger on hand as accordance to the rules. Because both fathers on both sides have leg injuries, both sets of parents choose to sit down before the ceremony begins.

After some moments of quiet talk and waiting, the ceremony begins: the first one to walk down to the gazebo was the Doctor, dressed in black & white and carrying what appears to be a rolled up scroll of psychic paper, then next came Harry trying to not worry so much as he headed for the gazebo on his own, the first 3 sets of groomsmen and bridesmaids went down in pairs (Ron & Hermione, Mona & Sam, and Kairi & Ahk) went next with the ladies carrying black lanterns in lieu of flowers, and Mari soon arrived, a black lantern on one hand and a wagon carrying Kirby on the other, walking down towards the gazebo while Kirby waves and squeaks out ‘Hi!’ at people as he guards the wedding bands inside a small box.

 As Mari walked, she could see a couple of guests smiling back at her: Dylan, Palutena, and Lucoa are there with their ever-growing clan of children (the threesome waved at her when they caught her attention), Oaklyn is also present alongside Jade (who’s trying not to visibly tear up too soon) on the right side next to the grass ‘aisle’, Sayeko and Levi are not too far behind along with Erwin, Mike, & Hanji and Roland is also present, not wanting missing his late friends’ child’s big day, Jords is also present with Tess, giving her two thumbs up, Snooper and Jenny, together with their respective families, are on the left side of aisle, giving her a friendly wave, then there’s Violet and her fiance Jonah Heston, both of them gave her a warm encouraging smile.

Once the bridal party settled down on their seats and people’s talks began to quiet down for a few minutes, Issa comes out of the entrance of the garden, bouquet in her hands and wide grin on her face. Everyone watched on as she went down the aisle on her own and approached the gazebo where the ceremony is about to start. When she got near to it, Harry decided to go down the steps to meet up with her; both of them then got the other’s hand and went up the gazebo before facing the Doctor who is already prepared for this very day.

The whole ceremony begins as the Doctor unfurls the scroll of psychic paper (but it was actual written words on it unlike its predecessors, he must have modified it for this day) and begins to talk to the crowd present, “Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today in the garden heart of the City by the Bay to witness the marriage between these two young persons...” He then turned to speak to the couple and spoke, “Harry, Issa. The fact that we’re all here with you today as you make a commitment and start a new chapter in your ever-growing love story and it has formed an intersection in all our lives and it wouldn’t been made possible if your souls haven’t met nearly a decade ago.”

The Doctor continued on his talk for a bit, asking for remembering the loved ones no longer present, daring people if they don’t want the marriage to happen (no one actually did), and then he asked Mari to do a reading of a poem they had picked before he picked up where he last left off, “A marriage is a voluntary and full commitment, made from the deepest sense to the exclusion of others and entered into the hope and desire to last for a lifetime and beyond that. Before you can declare your vows to each other, I would ask you two that you confirm that you’re intending to marry each other today. Now face each other and join hands?”

Both man and woman turn to face each other and join their hands as the Doctor began to ask Issa first some important questions, “Issa, do you come here freely and with no reservations to give yourself to Harry in marriage? Do you promise to love, honour, cherish, and protect him, forsaking all others and holding only onto him forevermore?” She bravely and calmly answered back, “I do, Doctor.” He then turned to Harry asking the same thing, “Harry, do you come here freely and with no reservations to give yourself to Issa in marriage? Do you promise to love, honour, cherish, and protect her, forsaking all others and holding only onto her forevermore?” He also reply the same way she did earlier, “I do, Doctor.”

The Time Lord asked for Kirby to bring up the wedding rings and the little puffball dashed in, holding a small wooden box towards the Doctor and offering it to him. Kirby squeaked ‘Poyo, poyo,’ as the Doctor gives him a cheeky little smile and picks up the box from his stubby little arms. Opening up the box reveals two gold rings: one was a thin ring with a curvy v-shape central arc studded with diamonds, the other was a sleek number with an elevated satin brush finish and polished bevel edges. The rings were then blessed by family, friends, & guests present before the Doctor picked them up & gave a ring each to Harry & Issa and the rings are exchanged among the couple themselves.

The Doctor then starts the next part of the ceremony: The God’s Knot unity ceremony. Harry takes the ring of rope strands from the peg on the wood board and holds onto it as Issa braids the three strands together while the Doctor goes on explaining their significance & symbolism. Once the bride was done braiding the strands with a knot, they went to sign off the all paperwork and the Doctor proceeded into making a quick charge to the couple before finally concluding the event by saying, “Alright then, by the powers vested onto me by the powers that be and the cities of San Francisco & Daly, I can finally declare you two as husband and wife. Harry, you can now...”

He wasn’t even done finishing his sentence when he saw the two finally kissing as a married couple, this quick smack of lips from the now married couple actually gave him a good chuckle, the three of them knew that people are getting impatient to get to the reception by this time. Finally, the ceremony was done and everyone present cheered on as the newly wedded Mr. and Mrs. Potter get out of the garden to have some alone time and soak in the moment.

The backyard has decked out for the dinner reception: not too fancy, but still sincere and sweet as the couple didn’t want all the silly trappings of a normal wedding in their own. Tables were spread out with the dance floor right on the middle and a lounge area besides it, a makeshift photo booth made by Kairi and Karina is also in place with a ton of props and accessories to choose from, the dinner buffet table and drinks station were stationed on the porch for easier access, and some games are available for guests to play with. Dylan’s butler Edgar and Belle’s neighbor Mrs. Potts oversee the catering service with the food and drinks made by a couple of the guests and wedding party members who offered to help in.

As everyone settles in for the party, lights began to light up as the sky enters into the dark night and, since all tables are positioned for everyone to get a good view of the dance floor, guests couldn’t help but to gush and admire the newly wedded couple dancing to Ne-Yo’s Miss Independence. After the first dance, those wanting to dance the night away are more than welcomed to the dance floor and many surely did like the soon-to-be-wedded Hestons, Oak & Jade, Jords & Tess, and Dylan & his goddess wives. Some of the guests who weren’t into dancing still have a fun time playing games, chatting to other guests, have a great dinner, and taking a ton of photos at the photo booth. Some of the bridal party also chatted with some of the guests. Even Kirby enjoyed himself doing his famous Kirby dance in one segment with two other copies of himself as backup dancers, which got everyone going aww and admiring the adorable puffballs’ dancing.

Now by this point, people were expecting a bouquet toss from the bride anytime soon, but for many single Filipinas, this was a major nightmare: being asked to catch a bouquet is like the kiss of death and they won’t have any of this bouquet toss nonsense, not even Issa’s remaining female cousin Nicola was looking forward to it. But unexpectedly, the bride already made her decision: instead of making all the single ladies to catch her bouquet, she called in Mari to the dance floor and gave her bouquet to her instead. This random act of kindness did flustered Mari by a ton, and it touched her so much, considering she WAS the one who got her best friend and her adopted big brother together in the first place.

After a long flustered speech and being socially awkward to a fault, the assistant librarian went back to her seat and was greeted by Philip who was sitting next to her even before the bouquet honor. He looks rather impressed by her talk despite being understandably nervous in front of the public.

“You did well over there,” he kindly praised her speech conviction as she settled down back to her seat.

“Gee, thanks,… Pip,” she blushed in between words.

“Don’t feel too flustered, my dear: everyone here thought it was really good,” Philip replied back before he soon realized that she was able to say his usual nickname, “By Jove, Mari. You managed to muster the courage to use my nickname without fear.”

“Uh… I actually did?” Mari’s eyes widened up in shock.

“Oh yes absolutely. But I’m not mad at you for saying it, I’m actually quite flattered,” he smiled back before he continued a little bit, “Oh, I think I might have something for you ahead of your birthday as well.”

“Yeah, what is it?” she was getting a little confused of his last sentence before her lips were greeted by his in contact; the reaction was of shock, joy, and feeling rather amused.

“Whoa, what was that for?” Mari gasped with her right hand cupping her mouth in surprise, her face turning red in disbelief.

“Now that, Mari, happens to be a kiss,” he cheekily winked back at her.

Unbelievable, her first kiss in Harry and Issa’s wedding. The feeling didn’t sink in her mind yet and she has not that many words to describe this beyond she found it quite estatic. She couldn’t keep her eyes off of Philip, or Pip, or whatever you want to call him as, until Uncle Gru informs everyone that it’s time for the bubble send off and everyone grabs their bubble tubes and circles the couple around as they head off to their mini-honeymoon (the big one will have to wait for later) out of town. After a quick countdown, all the guests start blowing bubbles at Harry and Issa while they walked out of the house and into the car for the trip.

With that one chapter finally recorded in her mind, Mari couldn’t help but to feel happy for both of them so much, knowing that they will have many great years ahead of them and their future no matter what the past and fate told them otherwise. And there is another thing that is also crystal clear: her future with Philip is also looking rather just as bright as the backyard string lights and lanterns that lit up the sky that night…

The End

[snugsodium]

Art Galleries to Visit in your Next Free Time with the Fam

You have been encapsulated in the four corners of your condo in Sucat for almost 2 years. You probably forgot to keep track of how many times you visited your gallery to check for some pictures you took in different places that you have been before the pandemic started. As everyone gets a taste of normalcy, now is the right time to re-experience the outside world. Go on a road trip with family or friends. The amusement park is also a great place to unleash your adventurous self. And for those who want an adventure that is a feast for the eyes? Art museum and Art gallery dates are for you.

As the clock ticks and seasons change, even arts are beginning to transition from traditional to digital. NFTs or Non-Fungible Tokens is a digital assets illustrated in a form of digital artwork. It serves as a way to showcase Filipino artists' artwork in the digital world whilst preserving it. NFT art can be in a form of digital images, paintings, music, video, and 3D art.

There is no denying that this new innovative form of art brings accessibility and convenience to everyone since they no longer have to go outside of their condo in Sucat to go to art museums and get a glimpse of Philippine art. However, nothing still beats the nostalgic feeling that exhibits, galleries, and art museums bring. Seeing artwork in person tells a different kind of story. The strokes, colors, and textures of the art can somehow make you ponder about the artist's inspiration, his challenges in making the art, and the meaning behind it.

Get out of your condo in Sucat, set a date with your family, and spice up your day by starting your little art adventure.

Here's a list of art galleries and art museums that you can visit.

[caatws]

4 and 20 🔥🔥🔥

muahahaha how lit

4. what was the biggest change you experienced this year?

probably my family situation. my grandpa only started getting sick this january, then was diagnosed with congestive heart failure in march...only to die from it in december. in the months between, he got rly sick and changed (he also had alzheimer’s so memory was Bad). it all happened so suddenly that it wasn’t until we were mourning him that i realized the grandpa i grew up with was gone a while before that, ya know? like i knew he was nearing the end a week or two before he passed, but we all thought he still at least had a couple months or so, but he ended up only having that short period of time.

this went on longer than i meant for it to but oh well

20. how did this year treat you in general?

bc of aforementioned events in addition to everything else, i’d say it was a pretty mixed bag. honestly, this kinda answers the prev. question more, but if i had to assign this year a Main Theme, it’d be something along the lines of the passage of time/growing up

a lot of overall things in my family changed - my 2 oldest cousins got married, my grandpa got sick and passed away in a 9 month span, my sister and younger cousin are applying to college, and we’re all just waiting for one of my married cousins to start the next gen in the fam aha.

i moved into my first apartment (tho still on the family payroll,, i’m Lucky), had my first internships, had to learn how to drive myself around the traffic beast that is l.a. i became more independent and responsible and all that jazz as a result. i traveled to japan for a school trip, making myself the first in my immediate family to actually travel to asia! (yep, none of us have been to the philippines) i had to accompany my grandparents to one of my grandpa’s unexpected emergency room trips. it truly was a year of Adulting my dudes

despite some of these worse things tho there was some awesome things, like all the new online friends i’ve made, meeting you irl serena ;)))), embracing my identity as Lesbian (this year has been so long, it feels like it’s been longer than the 9 months it’s actually been since i came out on my finsta lmao), and ofc some rad times with irl friends.

so ya overall 2018 was....Meh. took a big hit toward the end bc of my grandpa, but a lot of genuinely awesome things happened before that, so i can’t write off the whole year, ya know?

send me and end of the year ask!