#stalking mention tw

[andreaxweber]

closed starter: @alice--pallas

It was just supposed to be a bit of fun, that's all that was, at the start at least. The three of them had a good bit of luck at the start but soon the trio had decided to split up to cover more ground. That seemed to be the best plan, but Andrea was regretting their choice in costume, while they were covered, the snow was making the end of the dress wet and a bit heavy. "Next year, I'm wearing a pants." they grumbled to themselves as they continued on.

However, there was something in the back of their mind, surely they were just thinking that they were being followed, that it was probably one of the scare actors. They would stop walking and start walking again a few times and those times the footsteps would either stop and start. Their heart was beating out of their chest, thoughts filled their head, bad memories of their stalker they left behind. That's when a even worse thought filled their head, what if they found them again. They shook it off and made their way over to a gravestone.

The blonde knelt down in front of it, using their sleeve to wipe away the snow that had covered it. Their blood ran as cold as the snow as their eyes stayed on the name on the stone. It was their name, it was like something straight out of a Christmas Carol, that's when they let out a loud scream, unable to contain it any longer. The footsteps still filled their ears as they fumbled to their feet once more to even run, knowing it would be difficult in the dress. "Alice! Astarion! Somebody please help me help!" They cried out as they noticed something or someone out of the corner of their eye.

[mvsicinthedvrk]

spotify starter meme for dongfang qingcang & howl jenkins pendragon // @tragcdysewn

Dongfang Qingcang would attest that he's getting better at being less mistrustful of the orchid fairy's friends and coworkers; he has not stalked their apartments since the summer, since there's been no need to since then. Yet-- when he stumbles across someone who he'd never seen before, that slowly-built comfortability begins to crash down as old suspicions arise again. "What are you doing here?" he demands of the new face, disregarding any and all simple and logical reasons for the other's presence.

( song #91, which was already used, so all comes crashing by metric is closest )

[moonglowmuses]

mallick was not the most talented at expressing himself VERBALLY. his love language was acts of service. he preferred to DO things rather than talking about doing things but falling through. mallick knew that he needed to BACK OFF. that was apparent to him now, no matter how much it hurt to do so. mallick left the BAGS OF GROCERIES on brit's front step. he'd meant to go undetected, but she came outside and spotted him there. "oh... hey..." mallick said, clearly looking upset and sad. DEJECTED. "you weren't supposed to see me. i just wanted to bring you some groceries, but most of all... to tell you that you'll never see me again IF YOU DON'T WANT TO."

@daydrcamings

[cluster-b-culture-is]

Cluster B culture is cyberstalking someone because you need to know what kind of person you should be around them.

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[helldustedstories]

wow nevermind, i wasnt trying to be weird just trying to compliment you but i take back my compliment

youre not like stolas at all and you should write stella instead since youre identical to her, a rude uppity bitch. learn to take compliments and dont assume its meant in an weird way

its no surprise you only write with the same 4 people bc youre rude and uppity and your writing might be good but its only purple prose

oh and you dont want to make other people feel bad but your always bragging and being uppity

enjoy your day i guess stella lmao

Again, normally I just delete this sort of thing and move on, especially because I don't like feeding into any sort of "drama." But at this point, this is about more than just me. This is about boundaries.

Unfortunately, I am forced to do this publicly because by choosing to continue to contact me anonymously, I have absolutely no way of having any sort of nuanced discussion with you about why the messages you've been sending me have not been okay and have crossed my boundaries several times over.

You don't know my history or what I've experienced. I don't owe you anything. But because we're doing this, I guess it's time to pull out that history and to explain to you exactly why what you did wasn't okay, especially this last message.

I have been stalked on tumblr before. It started out very similar to your first message, which I do still have saved, seeming very positive and encouraging, but it made me uncomfortable. So when I didn't answer, I got another message, this time asking to see a picture of me. I am normally fine with sharing pictures for munday sometimes, or if I feel like I'm rocking a particular look, but having someone I don't know on the internet blatantly asking, even if it is couched in another 'compliment' is wildly uncomfortable.

Again, I understand that neither of those things were malicious and were even likely well-intentioned, but respecting people's privacy online is something that is important. And when I didn't answer either of the first asks, that should have been your cue to let it go. I even turned anon off for a while because the first two made me uncomfortable.

I ended up turning it back on and got another ask, and this one felt even more bait-y than the first two. Protip: if you start a sentence with "no offense," what comes after it is usually going to be offensive. If you also have to add that something can be seen 'in a good way,' then you are acknowledging that it can also be seen in a bad way, and continuing to push that on someone else is probably not the best idea.

And when the majority of the messages go "compliment by putting other people down - actual thesis of the ask, trying to push your own thoughts onto others - other compliment putting other people down," it doesn't actually feel very much like a sincere compliment anyway. It feels like a way to continue to push your own thoughts and feelings on other people by dressing it up as though you're complimenting them.

I also have deep-seated trauma when it comes to random, unsolicited praise from people I don't know, especially when it's worded in the way that you did. Is it something I've been working on? Yes, absolutely. But telling me "learn to take a compliment" is a deeply triggering phrase, so congratulations, you're getting this whole rant instead of me just deleting and moving on.

What you said to me was not a compliment. If you have to put other people down to build someone else up, that's not helping anyone.

You sure seem to know a lot about what I post and who I write with. If you wanted to write with me and didn't get the chance, for that I am sorry. But it would have been much better if you had approached me either by sending me an ask with your actual URL or sending me an IM. I'm always happy to write with more people, but it's a two-way street. I do my best to reach out to people, to send memes, write open starters, etc, but if people don't reach back out to me, I can't exactly force anyone to interact with me.

Also, to all of your other points, part of the reason I write Stolas so well is because I've been where he is. Not exactly, not entirely, but I've been in an abusive relationship was for years. Kept going back to them despite everything because I didn't think anyone else would ever want me. Wrecked havoc on my self-esteem and my ability to form normal relationships with other people.

So sure, you can call me Stella all you want, say I'm an "uppity bitch," but I'd honestly love to see what you're referring to. I have done everything in my power to be as calm and level-headed as possible, and the only reason I am currently addressing this at all is because it has now become harassment.

If you have something you want to say to me, you are still welcome to send me an ask as yourself or IM me, and I'll be more than happy to have an actual discussion. But otherwise, please leave me alone. Please don't do this to someone else, either. You don't know their history and what might send them spiraling. If you want to send someone an anonymous compliment or try to brighten someone's day by telling them they're doing something well, then stop with that part. Make it specific, not just a generalization. If you like someone's headcanons, tell them that; if you like the graphics they edit, mention that. But don't use sending a compliment as an excuse to push your own agenda on other people, and if they don't reply, leave them alone.

[spellbcok]

@tragcdysewn asked: [ hum ] sender hums along to a song receiver is singing (sabrina and davina)

“one way or another, i’m gonna find ya… i’m gonna get ya...” the words of blondie could be heard as it flowed through the speaker above and softly spoken-sang under sabrina’s breath while browsing the shelves before her. hearing davina’s humming along, she looked up at them and cracked a smile. “you ever noticed how songs with the most stalkery lyrics are the best to sing along to?”

[mastcrmiind]

@wvsteria​ // closed starter for lily luna potter && roxanne weasley

lily had to admit, she wasn’t entirely sure what had happened on valentines night. she was still trying to piece things together. one moment she was out for a nice dinner alone, the next people were killing each other. albus was there, did she die? she couldn’t have, because dead people don’t just come back to life. that wasn’t how it worked. she knew that much. but now there were memories flooding back in her mind, she wasn’t in a town filled with stalkers and people that had her mistaken for estranged family members. they were her family. she was a witch, and she had a family. the first person she needed to apologise to was roxanne, because she’d given her the most grief, so when she locked eyes with the other, a soft smile appeared on her lips “roxy?” she raised an eyebrow.

[itwcsmcroon]

“What’s your favourite scary movie?” (marta/Jill) @demongemz

it was unexpected to a lot of people that not only was halloween marta's favorite holiday, but that she loved horror movies, especially during this time of the year and every genre from camp to the classics and yes, even the occasional gore. if she didn't have a strong stomach, she wouldn't have become a doctor, after all. she just couldn't lie. she thought over the question for a moment before deciding with a nod. "probably nightmare on elm street. the original... not the remake. a villain that stalks you in your sleep? truly a terrifying concept." she decided. "and yours?"

[blazedrawsstuff]

Claire Globin, daughter of the Plasm Wraith:

TW: Mentions of stalking and obsessive behavior below, yup she's one of those characters...

Claire Globin Daughter of The Plasm Wraith

Parent

The Plasm Wraith

Age

16

Killer Style

For as long as I can remember, I’ve been drawn to hues of gold, as well as cubic patterns.

Freaky Flaw

I’ve been told I’m crazy, even overly obsessed.

Pet

While I do have a massive collection of bugs and assorted vermin, my favorite is my Bulbmin, Paris.

Favorite Activity

I enjoy trying to get to know my peers by any means necessary. Even if it means watching them when they’re unaware.

Pet Peeve

Separation. Doesn’t matter if it’s through restraining orders, force, family trips, or worse of all; being taken away from me!

Favorite Subject

I very much enjoy biteology. Especially when it’s dissection day!

Least Favorite Subject

Monster Psychology. The professor almost always tries to refer me to a therapist, and insists that something is “wrong” with the way I act.

Favorite Color

Gold

Favorite Food

I love fruit salad. The blend of the flavors is simply divine.

Friends

Unfortunately, every creature at this school fears me, including my own flesh and blood. One day though, someone will understand me…

Abilities

Shapeshifting

As the daughter of the Plasm Wraith, Claire can alter her body in numerous ways, including taking on the forms of other people. However, she can’t copy voices or the other person’s eye color, meaning her disguises can be busted quite easily.

Skillset

Collecting

Claire has a knack for collecting vermin and insects

Personality

Claire can charitably be described as creepy. More honestly, she is extremely unstable and obsessive. It’s to the point where her own cousin is afraid of her. Claire is persistent and will go to great lengths to befriend those that catch her eye and act very aggressively should her person of affection be harmed, insulted, or “taken away” from her. If there’s one redeeming quality she does have, it’s that she is caring towards her cousin and those she’s fond of (even if, especially for the latter it’s a smothering and obsessive degree.), but that’s it.

Trivia/Additional Information

Claire’s headcanon voice is Stephanie Sheh, who voices Tharja from Fire Emblem Awakening.

Her birthday is July 3rd, coming from both the release date of Pikmin 3 and that it’s the third game. This (fittingly) makes her a Cancer.

Claire has 16 restraining orders against her from her kindergarten classmates and teacher. Claire is the cousin of Brooke Vapor, daughter of the Water Wraith.

[devilsmenu]

@wvsteria - Kono & Judith

"Don’t be alarmed now but there’s someone following you. Pretend you know me and come with me. I’ll get you somewhere safe" Kono told the other in a low tone. "My partner is going to catch him but while he is bugging you just keep up with me".

[beauthief]

"I think... I'm going to throw my phone into the pond."

[andreaxweber]

Worst nightmare (Self para)

She couldn't believe that something like it was right out of the movies she would spend her alone time watching. She would continue to kick and scream as she was shoved in to the passenger seat of the car. Whoever had taken her had thought about everything and put the safety locks on so she couldn't get out.

Her kidnapper got in the car just moments after pushing her in, speeding away from the area and letting a laugh escape their mouths. That's when her eyes widened with realisation, her whole body was filling with fear as she watched the driver taking off the mask they had been wearing. "No, it can't be." She whispered,catching a glimpse of their face from the corner of her eye. "Long time Andrea, oh I have been waiting for this day for so a while now. Not even the sea and continents can keep us apart."

She really was living in a nightmare, she had spent so long thinking she had gotten free from her stalker, yet now the two of them were together in a car going god knows where. She had to get out, but with the doors locked, there really wasn't that many options. "You're not going to get away with this." She hissed, only got a laugh in return. "Nobody will know where we are gone, we can finally be alone." Their laugh was annoying the hell out of her, angering her in a way that she didn't really think about what she was doing.

"Like hell we will be alone!" She cried out, leaning over in her seat and grabbing on to the steering wheel. "What are you doing!" Was all that she heard as she swerved the car on the road until it lost control. "Getting myself out of this by any means!" She replied as she drove right in to the nearest thing that she could, crashing the car. Thankfully she had moved back in time to get the airbag, but she wasn't without injury. She leaned up and looked over, seeing their stalker, slumped over the wheel. She didn't want to wait around for them to wait, so quickly fumbled with the door, feeling something running down her face, probably blood from the smashed glass.

She managed to get the door open with some effort, she winced in pain as she stumbled away from the car. She made sure to crash the car not far from the road, she couldn't see much but a figure standing in the way of headlights. She continued to walk towards them, smiling once she realised who it was, slumping in to their arms in relief.

[mvsicinthedvrk]

@mcrcki said : ✔ — [sophie] and [dongfang qingcang] get lost in a corn maze (listen i just think its funny if they are both at this maze with separate ppl and find each other lost)

"You." Dongfang Qingcang narrows his eyes as soon as he turns the corner of the talk stalks of corn to find Sophie Hatter. He can almost hear the orchid spirit's imagined voice in the distance, admonishing him to 'be nice.' "I have not stalked anyone through this maze, and I haven't killed anyone, either," he states, just to clarify. Before they start looking for things to accuse him of in front of Xiao Lanhua, again.

[badxsshottiexllie]

"Well according to Murfy, all you'd really have to do is annoy the guy and love kids. He'd be off your back in no time." Ellie chuckled. "If he's after me too, does that mean he wants his own harem? Or just one girlfriend and one friend?" Regardless of what he wanted, the fact that Fakeman was after them was a bit concerning.

"Soooo Mona, you have a booooyfriend?" The redhead teased, gently nudging where her should would be. "Whats his name? How did you meet? I bet he melts like butter everytime you sing." And here she goes with the 20 questions. Then again, the redhead didn't know that the limbless woman had a boyfriend until now.

@spoocys-glade-of-dreams

*Murfy turned his attention back to the files on the table. He would slide the folder with Rayman's image towards them.*

"Behold our current target of investigation. This is the guy that stepped in to replace Rayman after he was fired. We don't know where he came from, nor how he got the job.

What we do know: is that after Rayman wiped the board out, he's been taking direct orders from the High Council themselves. We also know that he's very different when it comes to personality. When he's on air he's sweet as can be, but once the cameras are off, he's horrific to deal with. Arrogant, prone to snapping at those that annoy him, and not to mention he has a dislike of being around kids for too long.

And lastly, one of my sources tell me that he's been tryin' to locate both Mona and "Rose." I'm not entirely sure, but I have a feelin' it's because of their ties to Rayman here."

"God I hope he doesn't get the idea that I might end up a girlfriend of his or something. I already have a boyfriend and he's going to have a fit if he finds out I have some kind of stalker on my ass and he can't be here. He already hates having to stay in Utopia while I'm here doing dangerous work on the daily."

[spellbcok]

a closed starter for lee yeon ( @youllalwaysbemyporcelain )

"how can you smile and have a good time?" yuri demanded, cornering the gumiho once he was alone. she'd been watching him all night. it was different than her usual surveillance. all night she watched and seethed. every smile and laugh had her physically ache for lee rang. "when rang is dead, you can still go about as normal?" her blue eyes stayed on him, focused on his reaction. she still had hope it wasn't true, and his response would be all the verification she'd need.

[devilsmenu]

nothing good happens when it's late and you're dancing alone (Ignis and Noah)

THE RISE AND FALL OF A MIDWEST PRINCESS SENTENCE STARTERS

"Maybe they're a happy person and that's why they're dancing alone? Unless they're being tracked down by someone. The feeling is awful" Noah said with a sigh, the memories of it made him shiver.