#so im sharing it 😌

[clownery-and-fuckery]

"You're too kind." Phee told him. "You'll be eaten alive, being that good in a galaxy like this."

Phee watched Tech process her words. He shrugged minutely.

"Perhaps someone needs to be." Tech said simply.

why do i do this to myself.

[n0bluev]

Another, zzz

[summon-the-divine]

Ordered a very special cake for my birthday 🖤✨

[anakinthetrashking]

Having thoughts, TLDR; explaining that Practicing Gratitude is just about learning to notice good things and retraining your brains focus area would be more helpful than simply saying "be grateful!"

I think a lot of the issue people have with being told to try like, gratitude journaling is that when people suggest it they never seem to give a good explanation?? Added to the fact that "self-care" and therapy terminology have been monetized, social media focuses on people's sanitized life highlight reels, and hashtag blessed out-of-touch influencers, and the frankly irritating Pinterest Perfect quotes and journals. I mean. There's just a ton to sort through there.

And like I've tried the gratitude thing!! And I know it's backed up by research!! But when you're in the depths and someone says something about being grateful, it is SO hard not to hear all the echos of "be grateful it's not worse", and the past shame of being cast in the light of "so ungrateful" when you're just having feelings and being upset about something, ya know?

But it finally clicked for me when I stopped using gratefulness language?? Because I also feel like that can be limiting, at least for me. The POINT of the whole exercise is to train your brain to notice good things around you, because obvs ur gonna be in a bad mood if all you notice is the bad!

Obvs it's taken a lot of work in a lot of areas to be at the point where I am, that life feels worth living more than not! But like, the more little good things you notice, the more it feels worth living. But like the gratitude language like I said just doesn't work for me lol

Especially like, the other day driving through the neighborhood I saw a woman going for a run, and she looked like she was struggling but also so determined!! And that was something that made me feel !!!!!! Like life is worth living and trying for!!

She's someone I've never met and may never see again, but seeing her living her life and trying made me want to keep trying too!

So for me trying to put that into a sentence for gratitude, it just takes the joy out I guess haha. "I'm grateful random neighbor was jogging"?? "I'm grateful I saw my neighbor jogging"???? It doesn't quite translate for me. But I could see it and focus on that feeling of fondness for a stranger, and inspiration to keep trying and that not everything is terrible all the time. Consciously focusing on something like that and letting it take up a big part of your day the way something bad might usually can feel really weird at first, but it's so nice once you lean into it??

[vanillajunmyeon]

not me going to the château de pierrefonds like a NERD because of merlin (it is 100% bc of merlin) and getting so excited about it and buying a little dragon and an excalibur letter opener (the guy selling it went you're a fan of merlin aren't you. and yes. i am)

the castle is super beautiful of course but i live like less than 1h30 away and i had never been there i'm a clown

here is a (badly angled picture) gift

[kuromi-hoemie]

hiiii

[baeshijima]

guys i saw paris x gen out in the wild

[phagodyke]

yeah I'm not gonna talk abt it am I...

[applejongho]

we are the demographic for this https://www.instagram.com/reel/C9StKmIvIlr/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

link

HOLY SHIT??? 😭😭😭😭 that's absolutely insane what the fuck. that's incredible but INSANE. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[kalpasio]

pianist anon ur so smart for that ship name 🙏

anyways i suddenly remembered this one piece i made of herrscher of the stars reader and kalpas from a couple months ago 🥹

i can just imagine HoTS!reader using their gravity powers to keep kalpas suspended in the air until he calms down like 😭 (pls disregard the design for HoTS reader, i vaguely remember doing this around 2 am im not good at designing 👉👈)

- herrscher anon!!! herrscher of the stars!!! is an artist!!! yes!!!

THIS IS

SO GOOD

HOLY SHIT

THAT'S AMAZING

WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT "NOT GOOD AT DESIGNING" THIS IS BEAUTIFUL

its so pretty I'm in tears I can't believe I missed out on writing about this, it's so perfect

reader putting Kalpas in the time out corner but it's just suspending him in the air until he stops trying to break everything 🧡🧡🧡

i imagine it takes a while for him to relax so reader sometimes ends up chilling with Emile drinking coffee and Kalpas is just. there. angy. it's probably a common occurrence in their home

also you know how fire burns more like a sphere in zero gravity???? kalpas??? becomes a lightbulb?????

[lover-of-mine]

I am team 'buck should have kept his facial scars from the tsunami'

I see what you mean and I agree with you at some level, but I think the point of him getting the cuts on his face was more for us to think about the blood thinners at all times, so they didn't think about committing to the possibility of facial scars, but I also think at some level the choice to just make them vanish was more about not forcing Oliver to forever have to sit in makeup for a few hours to give him scars every day, I think it was more of a matter of convenience. But it would be interesting, it is a bit of a pet peeve of mine the way characters never scar, like, Buck would have some of them for sure, and this could be interesting if they went for it.

[neondvcks]

i think i have finally finally figured out all the ways im tying my players' backstory elements into the plot and it has made me so happy but i cant tell anyone lmao

[cerealmonster15]

oh shit my taylor doodles

[widevibratobitch]

@anon asking about the wax cylinder recordings ill get back to you when i have some more time to make a proper post i prommy i will <3

[wesleyscreaming]

the next coworker that steals one of my tables even though we have our own designated sections is going to receive a fucking iron rod through their stomach

[bi-and-bewildered]

hi, just wondering if it's ok to reupload your gifs to other platforms with links to the original post? or how would u prefer to be credited? it's ok if not, totally understandable!

have a nice day anyhow! thank u for doing God's work

that’s totally okay! i’m really lax about people using my gifs, so as long as you don’t reupload like exactly what I post and then say they’re yours, i have no problem. you can credit me if you want!

my only rule is that knowing that i don’t care, people don’t use me as an excuse to repost other peoples gifs when they ask you not to! different creators have different rules and i ask that you respect other people’s preferences for their content if mine aren’t the same!