#so i checked the notes and it was rampant with terfs
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hey tumblr, thanks for recommending me a TERF post "based on my likes." I hope the hour I spent blocking as many people as I could bear in the notes is enough of a hint for you.
#i've seen some shit this morning y'all#like it was one of those posts that i initially agreed with but then alarm bells went off in my head at some of the phrasing#the post was about how 2-year-olds and 3-year-olds don't have a concept of gender yet because they're too little#followed by 'amazing it's almost like telling kids what boys and girls are will help them understand'#so i checked the notes and it was rampant with terfs#the main post was never tagged as anything though someone just posted a twitter screenshot#i need to find the terf tags post thing cuz i didnt have time to block before but i guess i do now#now i'm paranoid about how much of my stuff has been this shit and i never realized#anyway be careful guys it's fucking BAD out here#dimond speaks#tw transphobia#tw transphobes#and like i agree- 2 and 3 are too young for this stuff since the gender binary is so fucking strong#of course girls can play with dinosaurs if they want that doesn't make them boys#but kinds will understand that the more experience and knowledge they gain of the world around them#they barely know they're sentient yet of course they're gonna get confused#but once they DO get a better handle on what gender is then some of them are gonna realize that being a boy was the right answer all along#you cannot make that judgement for them#and also like no harm no fowl if they DO think they're trans for a while? like what's wrong with that??#this shit is complex as fuck and i do not expect a 3-year-old to get it okay?#took me til i was about 15 to even know trans people existed at all and a couple more months to realize i was one too#and i'm fucking dumb like i'm not a good metric to go off of#but even if 3-year-olds aren't going to understand that's where you as the parent have to help them understand it#but little by little#like as teenagers and adults we can just look something up and tada! there's the answer!#kids can't do that yet they DO need parents to help them#those parents just also have to be aware of how they're teaching their kids#there's a difference between 'girls like pink and boys like blue' and 'and your age it literally doesn't matter but girls like she/her'#and that was a terrible example but i'm not a parent so#you figure it out
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Hi everyone. I've been putting some thought into the best way to bring this up without making light of it, since this is a serious topic and this is a very unserious blog. I don't want to reblog a bunch of individual posts without context and explanations attached, but if I find posts that I feel are thorough and explain what is going on, I may reblog them. Here is a summary, for anyone completely unaware of what is happening:
A trans woman (Rita, URL was Predstrogen, now Cyprederone) has had her account falsely flagged as NSFW and banned multiple times as a result of a transmisogynistic harassment campaign against her. You may have seen people talking about how her transition timeline has been flagged mature content, multiple times.
Support have been unhelpful when it comes to the harassment, and dubiously helpful about restoring accounts until this latest event.
People reached out to Photomatt about the topic, who is the CEO of Tumblr. He decided to respond, claiming that Rita was personally harassing him and posting death threats about him. This does not line up with the official reason why Rita was banned, which was "sexually explicit materials". The "death threat" was a slapstick post about an exploding car full of hammers. Matt threatened to contact the police or FBI about the threat, used neutral pronouns for Rita despite being informed of her pronouns, and even referred to her as 'it' in one sentence. He referred to Rita as "pergstrogen" in one post, which may be a particularly unfortunate typo, but may also be an ableist slur. He also sent people direct messages about the topic. Matt denied any possibility of transmisogyny playing a part, and suggested that people who feel this site is not safe for trans women should just leave to a different site.
Rita has been banned for life. Several people criticising Matt for this have also been banned.
Please pay attention to this, read other posts about it, look at Photomatt's blog (archived as of 21/02) to see the way he has handled this and Cyprederone's blog to see Rita's statement.
Here are all of Photomatt's posts about the topic, please check the notes of them to see people's responses as well as people archiving his comments. Edit: These posts have been deleted. I'm unsure if there is an archive somewhere of the comments, but these links are now the webarchive links to these posts.
You gonna do anything or make any statement about the rampant transmisogyny on this hellsite (original post with they/them) (first edit with "the account") (second edit with she/her) (archive of most recent edit)
I love this site and I’m sorry so many people are determined to ruin it.
So, the terfs and neonazis are fine, but a trans women giving threatening you is where you draw the line?
You should really feel bad about how transphobic tumblr is
all you ever do is drop the ban hammer on trans women you don't like, while casually ignoring the harassment they face
can I report your beahviour, or?
it's been four hours and nothing you've said has made this decision look better
Why did you misgender her lmao
❤ (heart emoji) [I don't yet have an archive of this. Please reach out if you have an archive of this, although there wasn't much relevant in this post.]
I'm continuing to get harassment and death threats here
My Beliefs and Principles
Tweeting Rita's saved URLs
He is further arguing with people on Twitter.
[Edit] Staff have now made a PR statement about the topic.
Please give trans women your love and support, and remember that this is deeply serious transmisogyny, not just an excuse to joke about car hammer explosions.
#transmisogyny#this is a very link heavy post so lmk if i fucked any of them up#a previous version of this post included a link to a blog that was only visible if you have an account. that should be rectified now#added archived links for several of the links as well as added two new photomatt posts#cyprederone has been taken down
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i just think it's funny because you mentioned terfs but in that post's notes it's literally auto whatever and their pedo buddies vs terfs going at each other's throats it's so weird but somehow understandable because the pedos are hiding behind letists and progressive language while terfs are anti porn
that is exactly it anon. literally
pedophiles don't get along with terfs because terfs are vehemently conservative by design, whereas pedophiles only goal is to abuse and assault minors and so they dont care if their ideology is conservative or libral, it can work either way. but they operate exactly the same
where terfs find their in through feminism because their bio essentialist rhetoric appeals to traumatized and abused women who are vulnerable to those ideologies because of their pain
pedophiles find their in through leftism with personal freedom and agency arguments. a space that is full of people who have been traumatized and abused and are therefore vulnerable to their ideology because of their pain
it also provides the allusion of safety. identity politics are rampant and people assume that people are safe because they check certain boxes when in reality all human beings are equally capable of harm. but a 15 yr old who doesnt have the experience to know that sees someone who is trans or bi or a person of color or a leftist and they unconsciously assume that person must be safe. they must be reasonable, they must just be being misunderstood somewhere. surely someone who understands transphobia and racism to such a complex extent must not be dangerous, but thats dead wrong
these people know that people will make that assumption and that is why they use this kind of language and why debating them is such an issue. its all a tactic
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Oof I'm so sorry about those terfs my guy,,, I feel like terfs are becoming way more common here lol, my mogai positivity side blog is rampant with them 😔
it honestly doesn’t really bother me too much, i think the part that bugs me is just the fact that i don’t want other people i interact with having to see that shit unprompted, yknow? but honestly like,, i dont think there’s anything a stranger on the internet could say to me that would really hurt my feelings lmaoo, i genuinely look forward to the day i finally get anon hate bc that’s kind of exciting to me whfhdh like i just love the attention
im sorry about ur mogai positivity side blog :( if you want to send me the url i will check it out and say nice things in the notes
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I'm expecting some backlash soon from the message I sent. No regrets tbh. If you can only respect trans people that "Don't Look Like Nasty Men Lmaoo" then why should you be in a community built on the backs of trans women? I honestly don't get why someone would make such a gross depiction of trans people then be like "I respect trans people! Just not the ones that preform societal femininity!" Do people seriously still think dysphoria is the only reason people can be trans? Wack. Plus to portray people that don't feel the need to transition as "gross perverts who take over woman's spaces" is really fucked up? Idk i'm not good at articulating words about this. But WHY focus on this at all? What damage has trans people/or even the trans people op doesn't like have done? We all know the rapist/pervert stereotype is a myth created by NON LGBT about people that don't fall into extreme western gender roles??? To take that stereotype and just be like "Well it doesn't apply to Lgb+, only the dirty transies that don't comply to these rules." Racism, misogyny (the actual kind not the watered down terf kind), ableism, even HOMOPHOBIA within the Lgbt community is more rampant than whatever made up issues come from not respecting all trans people.
Defining womanhood by sex, chromosomes, gender sterotypes, how much sexism you experience, etc is a stupid idea. Defining womanhood at all is kinda stupid too, bc everyone has their own idea of what makes a Woman a Woman. But I know my version doesn't tell people that they have to fit MY version to be acceptable. Do you check so see if someone has a vagina before you use her pronouns? Do you turn your head to people that don't present a doctor's note of their body's chromosomes? Do you scoff at butch lesbians for "trying to act like men!" Do you deny woman's resources to those that "don't think sexism is a big deal." You don't? Am I strawmanning you? You don't like that? Maybe don't do it to others?
I think op should be allowed to resources/lgbt help. I think op deserves a life of happiness. But why should they be involved/active in a community, when she damns an innocent portion of it? It's not oppression that people don't like the shit you're spouting, and don't want to invite you into their circles.
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