the smallest quickest update possible,
the cove has long, long, long since been aware of this, but i’ve been sitting my ass here in the hospital miserable as fuck, lmao. had a buck ass wild scare for period of time that lasted way too long in my opinion, but overall a bitch is gonna be okay. without being tmi, i essentially just need to get my shit together, as the docs say, and at least start making attempts to live like a normal person who regularly interacts with the public and not a wanna be golden-crowned flying fox.
currently i’m looking at a release date of right before or a little after new years, so that's real nice. i’ll be overjoyed to be able to sleep in my own bed and (hopefully) start working again and also have access to my computer of course.
which brings me to my last point; i’m not gonna put a "release date" on the revamped witching hour now or even after i get the hel out of this place, because it seems like every time i do or even show excitement for it, the gods make it a point to make a fool out of me.
so now? now you’re just gonna log on and know.
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also worth noting that "abusive" doesn't actually mean "irredeemable" either.
there's a lot of people that have done things in the past that were bad, because they weren't taught any better, or they were in an overall toxic situation where EVERYONE was shitty (like a cult), or they were just at an especially low point and hurt others for it.
you don't have to forgive them. you don't have to ever speak to them again. you can be angry with them until you die if you want.
but society cannot function if we don't allow them to move on. to change their behavior and fuck off somewhere else and build meaningful relationships without bothering you again. we need a path for people to change, or nothing ever will.
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blehhh...
i made an aa/lawyersona of @snapscube :3 we all know and love the lawyer+silly girl duos of ace attorney but it's about time the silly girl became the lawyer
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I need non autistic people to realise meltdowns are a real debilitating thing that has a serious effect on your mental and physical health NOWWWWW!!! The way its been trivialized and lessened pisses me the fuck off. It's not a tantrum and it doesn't come from "being too weak-willed" it's painful and it's embarrassing AND MOST OF ALL IT'S INVOLUNTARY!! Don't claim to be an ally to autistic or disabled people and then make fun of people who have meltdowns. Literally get the hell out of my sight
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I'm gonna add since people misread.
No the point is not empathy in this post.
There is nothing wrong with different types of empathy levels, all are valid 🩷
What is the point tho, is that people decide what autism is, that we are all the same, what empathy is and automatically assume we either don't have it or must be a bad person if our empathy level is not the same or what they think it should be.
So please, don't speak badly of people with low empathy or whatever level. Cause I say it again.
I don't allow it, I don't condone it, and you are just as valid 🖤
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