#so !! thats a thing !!!

[grossion5z]

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[tavstavernofdisasterbisexuals]

Wanted to draw a proper image of Gale for New Years Eve - Couldn't finish it in time

Wanted to finish the drawing through January - Couldn't do that either

But I didn't want to keep it in my drafts so I just did a doodle of him on top

I am so sorry Gale Fandom

[heartbeatkaleidoscope-new]

Okay but yall know "I died the tiniest death" is referencing an orgasm, right? The French call it "la petite mort" - "the little death".

[cosmic-d1ce]

do you think phil would be much more quieter after the prison ? adapt more of a 'only speak when spoken to' mentality and keep any thoughts to himself unless someone goes to him directly ? (even if he's in pain and needs help, even if he's overwhelmed and wants to leave, even if has an injury that need patching up is it just silence ?) - 💿

Yeah absolutely

It's really weird at first because Phil used to be very loud and confident but he hardly talks anymore. He avoids people and won't raise his voice unless he absolutely has to when before he was very outspoken and blunt

He goes for days without eating and doesn't say a thing, he's in way more pain than normal and he doesn't tell anyone. Forever hated it when Phil complained too much, makes him feel like he wasn't good enough. So now he doesn't complain. If he needs help, he'll get help because Forever will notice. He's fine. He can get through it. He's been through worse

Another thing that accompanies this is Phil only really talking when he "needs" to apologize

Usually its something that nobody would expect him to apologize for, like when Missa found him drinking water in the middle of the night. He didn't do anything wrong and Missa didn't expect or want an apology. But all he could say was sorry. Over and over until they both fell back to sleep. Every question was met with an apology, every attempt to calm him down was answered by a frantic sorry

Sometimes he does something and immediately breaks down, trying to explain and excuse himself, apologizing over and over through tears until he calms down. And even after, he'll mutter another apology every chance he gets

[echolaliaplayer]

Nation Wide Whedon Moment

[twobrokenwyngs]

it's midnight and, embarrassed by my inability to speak spanish, have signed up for a 6 month subscription to babbel

[vanlegion]

Woof Woof

What’s this?! I’m not dead and I’m giving you some little snippet of... what could this be? Hmm.

Looks like some sorta HR Monster. Hmmmmmm. Sorta looks like... Nah, couldn’t be. Unless?

[sadclowncentral]

shoutout to the guy who after unsuccessfully hitting on my sister and being politely declined asked her "is it okay if i ask your brother instead" and when she said yes gave me a long and searching look before sighing and going "no. i am not drunk enough to go for a dude. but you look like an angel" happy bisexual pride to this man and this man only. hope you figure it out soon king

[trudlejack]

(+part 2)

[afton-robotics-co]

The way mystery has been behaving is making me wonder . . . If I'm becoming his FP ?

[gibbearish]

love when ppl defend the aggressive monetization of the internet with "what, do you just expect it to be free and them not make a profit???" like. yeah that would be really nice actually i would love that:)! thanks for asking

[lightlistenerwindwatcher]

It's my 9 year anniversary on Tumblr 🥳

[adventures-in-poor-planning]

Today I saw a pic of a baby cowbird next 2 its nest "parent" and it was so much bigger!!!!! Which is the sort of thing that gets normal people upset about the injustice of nest parasitism but makes *me* worry if baby cowbirds get bird dysmorphia

[cozylittleartblog]

"content creator" is a corporate word.

we are artists.

[oars]

[inkskinned]

what is with men being mad any time a woman raises her voice where did that even come from. someone posted a video of a small electrical explosion, and the top comment was of course the woman screams. the second comment is women try not to scream challenge, level impossible. i had to go back and watch the video again. there is, somewhat fainty, a little gasp emitted off-camera, more of a yelp than a scream. it is mostly lost in the crack of the explosion. afterwards, you hear her voice, shaken, say, are you okay?

i am helping one of my friends train her voice pitch lower, because she wants to be taken seriously at work. she and i do each other's nails and talk about gender roles; and how - due to our appearance - neither of us have ever been able to be "hysterical" in public. we both appear young and sweet and feminine. she is cisgender, and cannot use her natural voice in her profession because people keep saying she appears to be "vapid". we both try to figure out if our purposeful voice lowering is technically sexist. is it promoting something when you are a victim to it?

a storm almost sends a pole through a car window. in the dashcam, you can hear the woman passenger say her partner's name twice, crying out in alarm. she sounds terrified. in the comments, she is lambasted for her lack of calm. how is that even fucking helping?

in high school, i taught myself to have a lower voice. i had been recorded when i was genuinely (and righteously) upset; and i hated how my voice sounded on the phone speakers when it was played back. i was defending my mom, and my voice cracked with emotion. it meant i was no longer winning the argument: i was just shrieking about it.

girls meet each other after a long summer and let out a little joyful scream. this usually stops around 12-14, because people will not tolerate this display of affection (as it has the effect of being passingly annoying). something about the fact that little girls can't ever even be annoying. we are trained to examine each part of our lives (even joy) for anything that could make us upsetting and disgusting. they act like teenage girls are breaking into houses and shrieking you awake at 3 in the morning. speaking as a public school educator: trust me, it's not that bad, you can just roll your eyes and move on. it does not compare to the ways boys end up being annoying: slurs in graffiti, purposefully mocking your body, following you after you said no. you know, just boy things.

there's another video of a man who is not allowed to yell in the house, so he snaps his fingers when he's excited about soccer. the comments are full of angry men, talking about how their brother is unfairly caged. let him express himself and this is terrible to do to someone. eventually the couple has to address it in a second video: they are married with a newborn baby. he was trying not to wake the infant up. there is no comment on the fact women are not allowed to yell indoors. or the fact that it could have been really alarming or triggering for his wife. sometimes i wonder if straight men even like women, if they even enjoy being in relationships with them.

for the longest time, i hated roller coasters because it always felt inappropriate and uncomfortable for me to scream. one of my friends called me on it, said it was unusual i'm so unwilling. i had to go to my therapist about it. i don't like to scream because i was not raised in a safe situation, and raising my voice would have brought unsafe attention towards me. even when i am supposed to scream, it feels shameful, guilty. i was not treated kindly, so i lack a basic form of self-protection. this is not a natural response. it is not good that in a situation of high adrenaline - i shut up about it.

something very bad is happening, i think. in between all the beauty standards and the stuff i've already discussed - this one feels new and cruel in a way i can't quite express. yes, it's scary and silencing. but there's something about how direct it is - that so many men agree with the sentiment that women should never yell, even in an emergency - it feels different.

is the word shriek gendered automatically? how about shrill or screech? in self defense class, one of the first things they tell you is to yell, as loud and as shrilly as you can. they say it will feel rude. most women will not do this. you need to practice overcoming the social pressure and just scream.

most women do not cry out, even when it's bad. we do not report it. we walk faster. we do not make a scene. what would be the point of doing anything else? no matter what we do, we don't get taken seriously. it is a joke to them. an instagram caption punchline. we have to present ourselves as silent, beautiful, captivating - "valuable."

a woman is outside watching her kids when someone throws a firecracker at them. she screams and runs towards her children. in the comments, grown men flock together in the thousands: god. women are so annoying.