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[missmaybe-not]

Coffee Break with a Cute Camo Guy...Then Crickets

Hey Maybe Nots and Maybe Yeses! Buckle up for another installment in the thrilling (and sometimes confusing) world of dating app roulette. 

Today's episode involves a military guy, a late-night rendezvous, and a disappearing act worthy of a ninja master (again, because apparently vanishing acts are a recurring theme in my dating life).

We all know the drill: swipe left, swipe right, pray for a match that isn't a catfish or a profile with all the personality of a wet sock. It's a roller-coaster, let me tell you. The gorgeous specimens with bios shorter than a haiku (do you think they’re too good to be true? They usually are). The verified hotties who vanish faster than snow in the summer sun (because they never reply to messages). The pretty decent profiles with interesting details that fizzle out in a flurry of awkward messages (because apparently, conversation skills are a rare commodity these days). And of course, the ones you just skip because, well, self-respect is a thing.

But then, there are the rare diamonds in the rough. Like this military fella – decent looking (by my discerning standards, of course), who actually replied to my message, and kept the conversation flowing like a well-oiled machine. The only snag (that wasn't his camouflage pants)? His schedule was about as predictable as a toddler on a sugar rush. Mine, with its late-night delights, wasn't exactly a walk in the park either.

So, picture this: a fine night (Dun dun DUNNNN!) at 2 AM (of course!), and there he is, gracing my workplace with his presence. We talked for a whole hour – no fireworks this time, let's just say public smooching at 2 AM isn't exactly the office dress code – but the conversation was surprisingly engaging. 

Afterwards, the messages kept flowing. My hopes for a second date were definitely piqued. But then, our text exchange, once lively, began to fade like a dying campfire, like a forgotten bag of chips at the back of the pantry. Poof! Silence. Crickets. Tumbleweeds. The usual.

Finally, I gathered my courage and (gasp!) initiated a conversation - the last one, or so I said. Shocking, I know. Apparently, he was surprised it was the "last message." Busy at work, he claimed, with no time for his phone (interestingly, the same app where he religiously viewed my stories suddenly offered zero connection for basic messaging. Maybe they have a special "stalk-but-don't-talk" feature?). So, I did what any self-respecting Maybe Not would do – I stopped wasting my energy and time.

One more soldier down in the battle of dating. But hey, chin up, love warriors! There are plenty more swipes in the sea, land and skies, and who knows, maybe next time I'll find a guy who understands the concept of both communication and basic human connection. Until then, let's keep the faith (and the sarcasm flowing)!

Stay tuned for more dating adventures (hopefully not haunted by ghosts), and feel free to share your own "Maybe Not" moments in the comments!

[bkshowofficial]

Not today horny dudes! ⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #newsingle #singlemom #singleasfuck #singlemomstrong #singlemama #singleforever #beingsingle #singlemommy #50shadesofsingle #singlelifeproblems #singleparents #singlegirls #singlesarena #singlegirlswag #singlemother #singlemoms #singlegirlproblems #singleandlooking #singleparenting #single #singlemomsrock #singlewomen #singlemothers #singleparent #singlemotherhood (at Ely, Nevada) https://www.instagram.com/p/CSGREMxL6UI/?utm_medium=tumblr

[yagirlswce]

i had a mental breakdown and slit my eyebrow :)

[smalltowngirl1999]

I can really relate to this right now.....

[callmeyourjaan]

It’s my Birthday and I’ve chosen to not go to work today and stay in bed all day and maybe eat some cake later😋💛

[karevheritagehiphop]

If this is accurate...Ladies please share your thoughts. #relationships #blacklovematters #love #lovematters #marriage #commitment #choice #prolove #relationshipgoals #breakup #divorce #separated #widowed #single #singleandlooking #marriedandlooking #swingers https://www.instagram.com/p/Bxm8P8Vl4mD/?igshid=1aajceybgvga3

[hermionegrangerblack]

I’m legitimately tired of being very unimportant to anyone I enter a relationship with, for once I want to be fought for instead of being the one fighting, matter of fact I don’t want to have to fight. I’m ready for a grown ass relationship not this high school I love you one day and change my mind the next kind of shit. I want someone who will love me just as unconditionally as I love them, someone I can fall asleep with and wake up next to every morning and night... and all the stuff in between... Is there anyone out there who’s with me on this? Or am I forever alone?

[rolirangel]

No filter just the right angel.. me posing for the boys trying to look cute...yeah right..but seriously I need a boyfriend #follow4follow #like4like #comment4comment #snapme #addmeonsnapchat #selfie #nofilter #singleandlooking #gaybottom https://www.instagram.com/p/BuLemz0Bfvrl0u2gcp8DhRJS9P9_9epo0ETL1g0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1on43xdmrtmh9

[edgarvaskanyan]

This is my drawing “The Birth of the American Star” Medium: Pencil, Permanent Markers on Paper #star #american #americana #americanstar #usa #unitedstates #contemporaryart #modern #modernart #drawing #art #style #design #ink #pencil #colors #single #singleandlooking #artgallery #gallery #artistsoninstagram https://www.instagram.com/edgarvaskanyanartstudio/p/CX18Eeqgmd5/?utm_medium=tumblr

[raz0rblade-kiss]

Enjoying the sun yesterday :) #me #selfie #sunny #summer #sun #emo #goth #alt #alternative #alternativeguy #single #singleandlooking #tattoos #guyswhoskateboard #guyswithbeards #guyswithglasses #guyswithplugs #guyswithplugsandtattoos #guyswithtattoos #ugly

[yagirlswce]

fuck bøi.

[beasharpart]

SMH 🤦🏿‍♀️ . . . . . #singlelifechoices #statusissingle #openforlove #readyforreallove #singleintexas #singleincalofornia #singleandlooking #singlelife #lovelife #tobeblackinamerica #blacksinglewoman #love #relationshipsgoals #lookingforlove #singlelife #single #lookingforagoodman #lookingforsomethingreal #wherearethegoofmen https://www.instagram.com/p/CPbOOzOBgX0lKPcXZcepXjfwHFdCZl_DWeHDvk0/?utm_medium=tumblr

[xojoliemoore]

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Posted @withregram • @themelissaleger @xojoliemoore was recently divorced after a 20 year marriage when she set out to go on 50 First. Dates. 😱 ⁣ She documented the journey in her memoir and podcast, both titled Fifty First Dates.⁣ 🎤 ⁣ Jolie reached out to me via email to share that she had listened to the "Flavors of Gumball Love" series on the Gumball Love podcast, where I define each different type of attention addiction a Gumball Guy may have.⁣ 🍡 ⁣ She had came across every single type of guy!!⁣ 😮 👏🏽👏🏽 ⁣ 🎧 I couldn't wait to chat with her on this episode of Gumball Love to hear more about each guy, what patterns Jolie picked up on, and what lessons in dating she's learned along the way.⁣ ⁣ 🥳 Join us TOMORROW when this episode goes live.⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ #gumballlove #backtoyouacademy #singleandreadytomingle #singleandsearching #singleandlooking #datingexpert #relationshipexpert #datingcoach #relationshipcoach #authorsofinstagram #datingafterdivorce #datingafter30 #singlesadvice #datingadvice #dating101 #datingadviceforwomen #datingtipsforwomen #onlinedatingtips #datingin2021 #loveinthetimeofcorona #narcissisticabuse (at West Hollywood, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CPZu4jSjiaM/?utm_medium=tumblr

[smittymm1997]

[charlieinterrrupted]

hey you, slide in my dms if you tryna be my valentine 😘