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"As a conservative woman, how do I convince conservative men to be more respectful of women?"
Translating:
"When the leopards are eating people's faces, how do I stop them from eating my face?"
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I know I've lost followers for not properly "not all men" ing my posts, and that's fine. By all means, keep your dash how you like it. But let me be clear that I simply do not care if you know a man or are a man for whom my posts or posts I reblog do not apply. I will never be compelled to expend energy placing disclaimers for a few individual men who somehow escaped male socialization, are not tempted by porn, do not have friends who support rape culture, have never internalized sexist media, do their fair share of childcare, do not demand unhealthy beauty standards from their girlfriends, wives, and daughters, always challenge sexism and misogyny in their social circles, work, and church, and are just so positively progressive that they never need to examine their own behavior or the behavior of the men around them. If you are a self proclaimed "good man" who has absolutely nothing to learn, then congratulations. I guess this blog isn't for you. Why don't you spend some of the energy you're using to tell me how good of a man you are on some other men who aren't as great as you? Instead of telling me how good you are, why don't you show me?
#i know not all men are the epitome of evil#i still put “not all men” on some of my posts#but i am trying to make women and men aware of the issues women needlessly face#of the patterns in society that people deny exist#that is more important to me than putting disclaimers on ever single post#if you're a man who cares about women and these issues i don't understand why you feel the need to direct my energy elsewhere#my post#not all men#feminism#men#for men
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“girl math” “girl dinner” “explaining this for the girlies” shut the fuuuck up oh my god how do y’all not see what you’re doing. stop infantilizing femininity and reestablishing the exact gender boundaries y’all claim to want abolished !!!!!!!! STOP IT !!!!!!!!!!!
#is this a tiktok issue? yes.#but tiktok is so prominent in my generation that tiktok issues are things i see and hear every single day#i hate it. so fucking much#it’s such a slippery slope from ‘girl math’ to ‘my husband has full financial control’#this is the main reason i do not like that chrissy girl. like come on#bimbo feminism as a whole pisses me off. you can talk about a war without making it into petty high school drama#people are dying
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I think a lot of y'all would be better at politics in general if you got away from the concepts of conservative and liberal.
They are not opposites of one another, there are usually actually a lot of overlaps between the two, and using these terms in arguments is usually just used to dismiss the other person's point without any intellectual integrity.
Also, no general political groups like 'liberal' or 'conservative' are monoliths of thought. There are degrees of how liberal or conservative someone that changes depending on the topic at hand and this stance, depending on the topic, is likely subject to change with new information presented. This mindset is the precursor to black and white thinking and tribalism within politics, do yourself a favor and stop using them.
#like describing organizations as liberal or conservative is useful if they are a single issue organization but generally most organizations#and definitely individuals are not effectively described by either liberal or conservative.#at the very least it shows a lack of critical thinking skills to address every political topic as if it fits neatly in these boxes#lily responds#radical feminism#radfems please touch#terfs please interact#radical feminists please touch#radical feminist#radfem lesbian#radical feminist theory
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“There is no fanfic on Stephs treatment I have checked” that’s like the whole point.
#I’m not saying ur wrong bc it’s not canon#I’m saying ur wrong bc ur perpetuating the misogyny that got u there in the first place#and yeah imma take it there it IS that deep to me sorry#like this isn’t like a diff in opinion on an arc or smth#this is quite literally the bigotry that fandoms supposed to be an escape from manifesting itself again with a rainbow flag over it it’s so#like first of all not that serious but concerning to me is getting into smth without knowing the source material#u don’t need to know the exact timeline of events and which specific Batmobile Bruce had in every era duh#that’d be hypocritical to say I read character to character screw the timeline lmao#but it’s like. ur telling me u adore Dick Grayson and have never picked up NTT?#u wanna analyze the queer coding in Tim’s character but you’ve never read his og robin run?#u wanna talk about Damian’s character growth but you’ve only read Batman and Robin 2020s?#u ADORRRRE steph and cass and you haven’t even read batgirls#and that’s like nonissues#my issues are u wanna discuss how Barbara is actually so cold and cruel to dick for how she handled Catalina and you’ve never read birds of#prey and actually dick never cheated so (this isn’t me being hypocritical if you’ve seen that post I just lowk changed my mind)#or if he did it was justified or whatever#you wanna talk about how Jason and Roy are soulmates and you can’t tell me a single thing besides he’s an archer a father and an addict#it’s like ur putting shit out there about these characters and their relationships and you don’t know them#and more people who don’t know them see ur shit and do the same thing#and that’s mid level issue#the BIG issue is that y’all have not unpacked ur racism misogyny or classism enough to do this and then turn around and say ur fixing dc or#whatever. u have not done enough work to speak on Jason or Damian and say they deserve better whilst u water down their anger into smth#palatable and sweet on ur white faves. u don’t get to complain about how there’s not enough about steph and all u do is spread more made up#shit to infantilize tim. and I’m not saying I’ll never read a tim centric fic that’s ooc and stupid and have fun#I do that and I don’t talk about it bc that shit should not be the main writing you find when you look for BATMAN lmao#and even then they HIGHEST problem is that even when people make more content centering the woc poc and yes even WW it still doesn’t get any#traction bc y’all haven’t unpacked as much of ur racism and misogyny as u think u have#making hcs about tim being a Barbie and Jason being a feminist and dick painting his nails is not progressive when Steph and cass are#cardboard cutouts or the vehicles through which the white men discover feminity is ok actually and nothing else#and then Duke and Damian are the token straights or allies. like y’all are so sick lmao
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it's crazy how even the most milquetoast feminist takes that have been part of mainstream conversations for at least a decade now can't be discussed without it being made about how actually the real victims are always men
#the entirety of international women's day I didn't see a single conversation about women not get derailed like this#whenever it comes up that some kind of issue disproportionately affects women#all anyone wants to talk about is 'what about men though'#and this is the response to just the most basic feminism too. as soon as it gets intersectional people get really vitriolic#I don't want to say there's no hope for women. but. well 🚬
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No matter their sexes, some people live stupid lives and shove it to your eyes. You see how emotion-driven mindless losers they are and how they gamble with their life and pay the toll. They may be the woman at work you like, your sister, your neighbour man next door... Of course it's not our job to judge people but, you know being exposed to all this nonsense makes you angry, because life is already hard.
I am angry at this type of people, not women.
#life#relationships#men#humanity#women#love#marriage#emotions#toxic relationship#toxicity#toxic love#toxic people#fuck love#fuck dating#free will#losers#people#flirting#divorce#divorced#single fathers#single mothers#feminism#fuck yourself#fuck your feelings#trauma dumping#bipolar disorder#daddy issues#mommy issues#other people
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I hate getting into something that has a canon(ish) sapphic couple, but I only end up caring about one of the two women 😭😭😭
#warrior nun? only cared about beatrice couldn't really get behind ava much#the locked tomb? INSANE for gideon. harrow is like cool I guess (I feel like I should like her more than I do idk)#and now dungeon meshi. I knoowwwww I'm going to love falin. 10 episodes in and I already find her relatable and awesome and so cool and sexy#AND SHE BECOMES A DRAGON LIKE FUCK MAN (she's still dead atm but soon soooooon)#marcille on the other hand?? I mean she's fine... but I'm not really drawn to her (I like namari a lot more tbh)#and the thing is I know part of it is the feminization of all three of them#I am not attracted to femininity pretty much ever (outside of a super sexed up version in which case gugh)#and ava and marcielle both have a very bubbly personality type that has never really drawn me in ever#they can have cool stories and I can enjoy them in that. but I have no desire to seek them out outside of that#and harrow... honestly I think it might be the way fandom sees her that makes me not care much about her?#also my feelings about the series as a whole by the end of nona probably don't help#BUT I definitely think a big part for all three is the femininity. none of their counterparts that I DO love are overly fem#(and HONESTLY I don't think harrow should be either and the fact hardly no one actually makes her butch the way I see her pisses me off)#((she CANONICALLY hated her long hair!!!!!!!!! stop giving her anything more than a buzz cut I'm going to attack you!!!!!!))#also. marcielle has green eyes and I'm sorry but I just can't 😭#I need every single character ever in existence to only ever have brown/black or gold/yellow eyes#stop with the blue and the green 😭 please#ANYWAY POINT BEING: I hate that this happens to me because I end up not getting obsessed with the ship#and mostly only getting into the single character but then I don't want to read fic about just one person#so I try out the ship stuff and shocker no one writes the other character in a way I like so I don't read it#and then I feel bad cause all my ships and main characters I'm obsessed over are men#and then I complain all the fandom favs and mcs in stories are men#but like I'm contributing to the problem!!!! but like I'm not attracted to hannibal but I like his personality#I'm not attracted to optimus but I love how fucked up his whole deal with megatron is#I DO love both luffy and zoro even though I'm not really attracted to either of them#the lotr/hobbit ships.... eh I love the world and I love dwarves and I will do anything for them so the characters don't matter much lol#AND THATS THE ISSUE 😭 the worlds of warrior nun and tlt and most of what i've seen of dungeon meshi don't really entrance me much#so I don't get into the ships for that. and I'm not attracted to both people in the ship. and I can't relate/project on both in the ship#and sometimes I find one character type less likable/annoying so that makes me not want to engage
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seeing content creator drama is so weird. like i would die. also people who try so hard for internet fame? like ur trying to get big on purpose?? thats literally one of my worst fears and i will never understand social media culture.
#thinking about. a lot of things really.#hey do any of u remember the one asmr channel that made funny/weird roleplays that mixed in occasional social justice related topics#she went from left wing anarchist to EXTREMELY conservative. like death threats to minority levels#one of those single tradwives. explicitly against ALL forms of feminism. all of em#she had a mental break and made it everyones problem#i recently found out she went on that one podcast where they harass OF models for 6 hours straight#(to harass the OF models)#she also apparently thinks we should revert to a catholic monarchy. i feel bonkers just watching her spiral#anyways thats completely irrelevant but my brain is achey from knowing too much about internet strangers#ik its not that simple but its weird seeing people try and deal w whats clearly a personal issue online#if i feel even mildly upset by smth online i go hug my mom and spend some time in the real world instead#anyways the catholic monarchy anti feminism stuff is crazy right#ramble tag
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Political rant in tags.
#Honestly sometimes I wonder if pop communism is a psyop#like#Let's take all these people with an energy and desire for change#and tie up that energy in consuming a whole bunch of media that ultimately says the same thing#and becoming obsessed with praxis#and building insular echo chambers#and shitting on anyone who wants to approach things differently#and making communist themed social media identities#and self congratulation#like it's practically the same shit that happened with feminism#and I'm just So Tired#oh and the constant emotional guilt trippy 'arguments' too#Guh I hate online activism so much at this point#I genuinely want to see positive change in the world and so many of the people who express any caring at all#dedicate so much of their energy to pointless bullshit that distracts at best and alienates potential allies at worst#and no I cannot Be The Change I Want To See In The World#I'm a closeted trans woman with chronic fatigue and barely a job at all with no local connections#The nearest place anyone wants to to organize at all is multiple hours away and not only can I not justify burning that much gas#my car has some mystery check engine issue that I cannot get resolved and I can't justify that risk either#and like#with things being as I described#What am I going to do as a single person?#*anime girl screaming while descending into fire*
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YouTube leftist commentary video talking about feminism but it’s by a leftist Man. I always click off immediately. No thank u.
#White dudes especially#no hate its just that no matter how progressive they r they don’t really understand women’s issues and are very rarely fair towards women#Same reason I don’t like hearing white ppl explaining racism or having in depth discussions about racism- especially without a single poc.#It just makes me uncomfortable. Like why are you talking about this dude. Is your voice really needed here.#Idk the commentary and leftist side of YouTube is already so male dominated#I’m not stoked to hear a guy who’s never experienced misogyny in his life try to explain to me why Barbie was shallow feminism or whatever#misogyny
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So here’s my problem with “uterus havers” or “baby makers” or “incubators” being used to describe what we used to call women: I (and many others) don’t have a uterus anymore.
So what does that make me? And why am I the bad guy for objecting to these terms?
#that’s not my only problem#I had issues with the objectification of women and reducing them to a single organ#but now I’m downright uncomfy#journal post#gender rhetoric#misogyny#woman#women#uterus#uterus haver#baby maker#incubator#feminism#feminist
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*puts my head in my hands* The reason that so many of us say, "I don't trust people who say that all men are evil no exceptions you should never interact with any of them for any reason" ISN'T because we are coddling abusive men, it's because we a) don't want to get into bioessentialism territory, and b) are WELL aware of your history of using this rhetoric to blame women who are abused by men because "Well men are horrible, what did she expect, she brought this on herself."
#tw: abuse mention#'feminism focuses too much on men!! we forget about the women!!!' I mean. in some cases yeah probably but that is NOT what is#happening here when I express my distrust of this phenomenon.#like...no I don't think we should have to clarify every discussion of misogyny with 'not all men' and I am WELL aware that when most women#go 'ugh men' they are complaining about the patriarchal system in place and do not LITERALLY mean Every Single Man#and at the SAME TIME: saying that men are inherently [x] & that 'can't be helped' and women are inherently [x] & can do no wrong#is. bad. you get why saying that men are inherently violent and [insert bad quality here] doesn't ACTUALLY fight misogyny right#you get why telling people 'this is NOT based on a systemic issue or cultural factors that can change over time and is just an Unfortunate#Part of being born as [assigned gender] that no one can help' doesn't. bode well for your cause right. RIGHT.#'welp ALL men are like this it's just The Way Things Are!' congratulations you've horseshoed back around to the very argument#people use to absolve abusive men of violence against women. look at you. real feminist hero there.#ugh let's hope THIS post doesn't get picked up by the t---fs#actually I'm going to make this non-rebloggable#lmao watch me get labelled as 'not caring about women' on The Women Blog#watch me get called a straight person when the primary thing I do is talk about how attracted to women I am a;sdkfja;lsfjksdfl
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im not a "libfem" or a "radfem". im a normalfem.
#i care about intersectional feminism and think it's fucked up how ppl act like misogyny is solved and no longer a problem.#that makes me. a normal feminist. thats it.#also everyone online isnt entitled to a complex multi-page analytical breakdown of all my beliefs and views on every single issue
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people can talk about the mischaracterization of steddie without it directly being an attack on ur weird pretentious borderline proship fanfic just fyi (but if u take it that way then…. Well)
#is anyone gonna know what this very vague post is about. i hope so#not tagging it though#idk I just feel like. why are u complaining about people saying the mischaracterization of steve is a feminization issue that is almost#homophobic just bc u want to write him as “a pretty boy in makeup” . like write him however the fuck u want but ur not immune to criticism#like. no one is gatekeeping steddie from u or policing ur fics. people are pointing out genuine fandom issues with mlm ships.#if u feel personally victimized by that then sorry bro that’s totally on YOU#but write it! write him how u want! but that’s not steve anymore lmao#if u have to change his personality entirely to write him the way u like him then sorry lmao u don’t like him#but truly it’s like get off ur fucking high horse#no one gives a single fuck about what u do or don’t do#making 8000 posts about how fandom culture is “toxic” when they’re pointing out how YOU are a weirdo!#lmao#whatever#sorry I’m a hater again full force#should I tag it#let me know#if anyone even fucking reads this 😭😭😭#oh fuck it went in the tag anyway LMAOOO don’t let me get in fandom drama again I’m just mean
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How to be a better man: Dealing with women at “the wall”
So quick disclaimer: This post is part of a series I do that give wisdom to heterosexual men. If you find this helpful great, if you are offended please be clear that is not the intent. I don’t know you, so I do not create blog posts to upset you. So that out of the way what is the wall? In the world of relationships the term “The Wall” has become a meme that describes the point in which females…
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