#shoutout to the aroallos out there

[frogsare-friends]

my friends are told they cannot feel,make,want

but they can love

and that is okay

not everyone can feel,make,want

i am told i cannot feel,make,want, love

and that is okay

not everyone can feel,make,want, love

so i tell them how i yearn for a love i cannot feel

and how i dream of connections i cannot make

but how every part of me wants

they do not understand

they tell me if i can want

i must be able to feel,make,love

i cannot

and that is not okay

[aroapl]

Shoutout to ALL aromantics! To aroaces, aroallos, neu aros, nonsam aros. To loveless aros and heartless aros. To lovequeer aros, lovelustic aros, arolovic aros. To aplatonic aros, afamilial aros, analterous aros. To nonaesthetic aros, asensual aros, anattractional aros. To aroqueers, unit aros, primaros. To romo aros, partnering aros, polyamorous aros. To nonpartnering aros and nonamorous aros. To polyplatonic and polyerosis aros. To romance favorable, romance indifference, romance averse, romance repulsed, and romance ambivalent aros. To arospecs of all kinds and questioning aros. To aros who love being aro and aros who still have a hard time with it. To aros that are out, loud, and proud, and aros that are closeted. To gay aros, straight aros, bi aros, and aros of every identity under the sun! To aros all over the world! Shoutout to aros!! You're all so wonderful!

[objectsarebestest]

The aspec tags are trending, so I figured I would shout out aspec objectums!

Shoutout to aroace objectums who realize that there are so many other ways to love objects than romantically and sexually!

Shoutout to aroallo objectums who get accused of being “just fetishists” because their objectum attraction isn’t romantic!

Shoutout to alloace objectums who just can’t relate to the sexual side of the community no matter how hard they try!

Shoutout to atertiary objectums who are seen as the “loner who doesn’t interact with people” stereotype of the objectum community!

Shoutout to loveless objectums who reject love as a concept and care for their objects in other ways!

Glad to hopefully help keep the tags trending!

[papercranesandpride]

Shoutout to alloaros with dysphoria around sex. It really, really sucks when the form of attraction you have is one you don't feel comfortable acting on. You're just as alloaro as anyone else, even if you don't have sex, don't have certain kinds of sex, have sex but don't like it enough, don't want to have sex, etc. (To be clear, that's true for people who don't have dysphoria, too). Being sexually active has never been a requirement for being alloaro. Wanting or enjoying sex has never been a requirement for being alloaro.

And also shout out to alloaros who really do want sex but that dysphoria is getting in the way. It sucks to like sex and want sex but unfortunately your physical form is stopping you.

In very related news, you know how dysphoria gets way worse once you stop being in denial about it and accept that you do want to transition? Yeah. And I can't even get a referral to anyone until my appointment with my new primary care on June 7, so... This post is mostly for me as I navigate the lovely feelings of being an aroallo who would quite like to have sex but does not like the equipment it is working with.

[kozzax]

Shoutout to all aroallos out there btw. You're so cool n sexy for being aroallo. Keep up the good work. I'm so sorry society just. Decided to forget you existed even more than it decided to forget aroace people existed. They should pay all of you One Million Dollars for being so great.

[stonercow]

intro post :)

first off, this is an NSFT blog!!!! MDNI!!!!!!! if you don't have an age/age range on ur account ur also not getting in!!!

DNI : usual dni stuffs, you don't support palestine/zionist, over 40, fetishizer, pro ana/ed, no age, under 18, don't respect my disability/my limits that come with it, treat me like a sex toy, are fatphobic/disrespectful abt my weight (i'm a person!!)

hello everyone!! my name is andy (19, he/him), i'm a transmasc fagdyke who's been on t for over 2 years now. (also, i use ftm tags for reach but i do not identify as such)

i'm a submissive bottom (no exceptions. you will not change this i promise), t4t, and i am single but not looking for anything (aroallo)!! i'm also disabled (pots, fibromyalgia) /mentally ill so if i dissapear for times that's why (i also discuss my physical issues often on here)!!

if you'd like to support me! my cashapp is $stonercow (no pressure!!!! all money goes towards utilities, weed, or sex supplies for posts) and my wishlist is linked here :3 (all buyers will get a lil shoutout and photo wearing what you buy me)

my photo tag is pb.photos if you'd like to see any photos i've posted of myself (including my face :))

asks are encouraged!! i love talking to anons and seeing what perverted thoughts i cause you to have <3

praise me here :333 (my tag i use is below as well)

things i'm into are below the cut :))

my kinks!

intox (specifically weed and sometimes alc)

overstimulation (esp w my tdick)

breeding

being dominated

primal (as prey)

cockwarming

size difference

degredation (light)

praise

guided/mutual masturbation

pet play (i like being a dog and a cat hehehe)

hucow!!!!!

forced masculinzation and feminization (bimbo/himboification too ugh please)

nipple/boob play

freeuse (light)

cnc (light)

dumbification

spanking (light, ass/tdick)

catholic/religion kink stuff

prince/royalty kink

breast/stomach expansion

humiliation

pregnancy (no birth)

corruption

mommy kink

what i'm NOT into (you can still follow, just not for me :))

vomit (i'm emetophobic)

omorashi/pee play

scat

feet stuff

weapon play

detrans/misgendering

use of word rape (with me, if you use it on your blog its all good!!)

anal play

fauxcest/incest in general

using "daddy" as a title

feederism, sloppy food eating, inmobility

unhygenic things

burping/belching

face slapping/hitting

any slapping/physical abuse that isn't on my ass or cunt

passing out in any sense that isn't sleep/weed related

obviously i may be forgetting some but just ask me if you're curious :)

you can call me any petname (i love pretty boy, darling, and pup obviously)! if i'm uncomfy i will say, and you can call my genitals anything too, i'm very open, i prefer "tcock" and "pussy" to name a few.

claimed anon emoji's!

🦷 , 🧱 , 🦴 , 🐺 , 🤟🏻 , 🫀 , 🎸 ,💫 , 🍣 ,

the tags i use most frequently are below!! (including my photo, ask, and textpost tags!!!)

so yeah! shoot me an ask, send me a little tip for being a good cow, tell me how to use my toys, i'm horny and love attention hehe :3

[amethsys]

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#5

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#4

Orca my beloved little f,uckijng Skrunkle look at yoh AQH BABY

Freaking ugh they’re my betstie now slrry

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#3

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My #1 post of 2022

Shoutout to aroallos

Shout out to loveless aroallos

Shoutout to loveless heartless aroallos

Shoutout to aroallos who are cis and het

Shoutout to aroallos who are aplatonic

Shoutout to aroallo men

Shoutout to aroallo women

Shoutout to every single aroallo, y’all get so much shit from people in and out of the community, keep your chin up!

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[tigercomplex]

alotta the reaction to the notion that queer people are promiscuous, sexually deviant, predatory, and so on is to reject that by focusing on romance, on softness, on domesticity in an effort to normalize us in the world’s eyes and while i get it i just cant get behind that method of pushback. the goal is to dismantle the idea that hookups are bad, that sex is bad, that multiple sexual partners is bad, that sex outside the norm is bad. the romance focused approach doesn’t address this and only leaves us with the same problem, but this time brushed under a rug.

[dragonfire2lm]

(Vent) Romantic and Sexual Attraction: Two Different Forms of Attraction.

I'm wondering why the heck aromanticism and the aromantic spectrum frequently gets lumped into the same space as asexuality. I've lost count how may times I've had to explain that romantic and sexual attraction are Two Different Things...

Sure, I'm demiromantic, yes a romantic relationship is the bond I need to develop sexual attraction. But there are aroallos, alloaces, and so many different ways that romantic and sexual attraction is expressed that I am getting tired of seeing people not know the difference.

You can have romance without sex.

You can have sex without romance.

I figured out I was demisexual by way of fanfiction. I created an OC that shared my views on sex in a setting best described as a visual novel inspired harem fanfic, a collaboration with The Boyfriend, and our readers, along with a friend of ours ( I have no idea if they're still active on here or read my posts, but shoutout to @steampunkserpent they were a godsend during all this) pointed out that I might be demi.

Cue the existential crisis and hour long research binge as I absolutely panicked.

Learning I was demiromantic was relatively tame compared to that, saw a meme, realized "wait that's a thing?" and everything just clicked into place. It took me learning about both spectrums to realize romantic and sexual attraction are two different forms of attraction.

It's just frustrating because the most I can do is browse the demiromantic and demisexual subs and point it out when I feel up to doing so (I'm a lurker) and, if my muse is willing, include this sort of thing in a few of my fanfics.

It just seems kind of odd to me is all...

[amethsys]

Shoutout to aroallos

Shout out to loveless aroallos

Shoutout to loveless heartless aroallos

Shoutout to aroallos who are cis and het

Shoutout to aroallos who are aplatonic

Shoutout to aroallo men

Shoutout to aroallo women

Shoutout to every single aroallo, y’all get so much shit from people in and out of the community, keep your chin up!