#should i add all the lgbtq tags lol

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[random-gamer1942]

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Last updated: Mid September

My DNIs: NSFW blogs (am a minor, dude), proshippers, fascists, zionists, racists, sexists, ableists, anti-LGBTQ+ and any other people that discriminate

Howdy there, you lovely individual! I'm Random, though you can also call me Gamer or Rat (or any other nickname, I love nicknames!). I'm 17 years old and Dutch, Moroccan, or a creature of the infinite void depending on the topic

I go by he/him, though I'm also chill with they/them if you prefer that. I don't understand all things lgbtq+ but I'm always happy to learn (I want my blog to be as much of a safe space as possible)

I have ADHD (and likely Anxiety? Though that's more of a self diagnosis until I get tested). I'm the inattentive type, though I do still most definitely have hyperactivity (especially when with friends), thus the whole 'random' thing. It's actually a lot of fun when it's not debilitating

I like watching/rewatching shows (most common rewatches are Legends of Korra, Arcane, and Castlevania), drawing (considering getting into digital art and animation too at some point), writing (aspiring writer lol, though not as a career), talking to/hanging out with friends (my favorite people in the world!), D&D (mostly DM now but I enjoy being a player also), cooking & baking (shall one day be able to make any food), martial arts (do Taekwondo, but looking to get into stuff like BJJ, Boxing or MMA at some point) and many, many other things!

I'm part of the School Bus Graveyard fandom (and I think also that of Nevermore and Homesick? And prolly others? I still don't know how fandoms work but I engage a lot with sbg stuff soo)

Tagging system (when I don't forget):

void answers: answers to your guys' asks (I love asks btw!)

(reminder): reminders for myself, so I can find stuff in the future. Basically just a save post thing except I add tags before it so I know people don't think I'm trying to remind them (why couldn't I have made it just like 'save' :LoganStressed:)

random art / random writing / random baking: Stuff I've made! I should. Maybe actually post baking and writing stuff at some point

ranbles: My random thoughts, rants, or rambles

ooh shiny: My mutuals' stuff I like, or just stuff I really like in general

void funnies: I did a funny

I love/Omg I love: Wasn't originally gonna be a tag but I use them too much. Just when that's my immediate reaction I suppose

...and that's about it, I think? Thanks for reading, and I wish you a delightful day

[nerdysleepybunny]

Hello, sleepyhead <3

Welcome back my beloved cloud-dwellers! Welcome to the clouds, newcomers! I hope you're all enjoying your sleep. I'm Bunny! This is where I'll be posting a variety of different things, like fanfics, books, rambles, and more! I'm very open to requests or just general asks, but please remember that I am a minor!

🩷☁️N E R D Y S L E E P Y B U N N Y☁️🩷

For people who want to send an ask:

If you want to send an ask but you're unsure of if it's acceptable or not, please feel free to DM me about it! We can discuss it and work something out. Though I do expect to be treated with respect. Do not rush my writing process or demand I write something I'm uncomfortable with. I treat others how they treat me!

Also, I need something to work with. Please don’t request something like “reader x (character)”, I need promps! Details are appreciated, but don’t go so in depth that it’s like you’re writing the story yourself. All I need is an idea!

(IF YOU’RE REQUESTING SOMETHING!! Please feel free to ramble if you’re simply sharing your ideas with me! <3)

Things to include in a request:

Character(s)

Gender neutral reader, fem!reader, or no reader

Detailed prompt/scenario

Any other specifics you may want <3

🩷☁️N E R D Y S L E E P Y B U N N Y☁️🩷

Fandoms I write for:

DreamSMP (I am very behind on lore, so if you want a specific lore era make sure to explain it to me or send some clips <3)

FNAF (robotic/humanized - robotic is default, so please add if you want a humanized version)

Little Nightmares

Secrets of the Maw

Little Nightmares II

BATIM/BATDR

Among Us (crewmates will be humanized)

Bioshock 1, 2, Infinite & Burial at Sea

Poppy Playtime

Beastars

The Promised Neverland (anime version)

Sailor Moon (anime version)

The Amazing Digital Circus

Helluva Boss

Hazbin Hotel

BFDI/BFB

Flee the Facility (roblox)

Piggy (roblox)

Doors (roblox)

My ocs

🩷☁️N E R D Y S L E E P Y B U N N Y☁️🩷

What I will write:

Second person POV (default)

Third person POV

LGBTQ+

Gender neutral reader (default)

Fem!reader

Books

Headcanons

Rambles

Fics

How (character) would react to…

Character x character

Character x reader

Romantic

Platonic

Familial

Fluff

Angst

Comfort

Suggestive (kissing)

Violence/gore

TW topics (self harm, alcohol, drugs, etc.)

🩷☁️N E R D Y S L E E P Y B U N N Y☁️🩷

What I won't write:

First person POV

Smut

Masc!reader (out of my comfort zone)

🩷☁️N E R D Y S L E E P Y B U N N Y☁️🩷

Bunny's boundaries:

Pronouns: She/Her

I'm not comfortable with any other pronouns, so please only refer to me as a she! <3

Nicknames: I don't have a problem with nicknames or petnames, especially silly ones! Just, y'know, don't be super weird lol

Jokes: I'm cool with joke bullying, like "hey bitch" or other silly stuff like that!

DMs: My DMs are always open to everybody! If you have any questions or just need someone to talk to, I'm available and so is my discord if you want easier communication! But please do realize that I am NOT your therapist, nor should you be my responsibility. I have my own life and my own things to deal with. I'm just here to make friends and be silly! :3

I'll let you know if you request something that I'm uncomfortable with that isn't on here and add it. ^^

🩷☁️N E R D Y S L E E P Y B U N N Y☁️🩷

Anon list:

Emoji anons:

🐇,

Word anons:

None yet!

Symbol anons:

None yet!

🩷☁️N E R D Y S L E E P Y B U N N Y☁️🩷

Bunny's tags:

#bun updates

#buns life

#bun streams

#bun games

#bun asks

#bun writes

#bun rambles

#bun polls

#bun reblogs

🩷☁️N E R D Y S L E E P Y B U N N Y☁️🩷

Bun's Masterlist!

[left-for-carrion]

blog tags:

roach's mutt - stuff about me being a mutt/petplay

roach's angel - stuff about me being an angel

roach's god - stuff about me being a god/my worshippers

roach's scars - my own cutting stuff, please block this tag if you don't wish to see that sort of thing

roach's rambles - just random stuff not particularly kink related

roach's doctor - med kink stuff

roach's stalker - stalking fantasy stuff

roach's robot - robotic kink stuff

roach's killer - gore/snuff stuff. block if you don't want to see that

DNI:

Minors, please don't get me arrested dudes

Pro-contact zoophiles [petplay/people who identify as animals are welcome]

Pro-contact pedophiles [ageplay, fauxcest welcome]

People who sexualize disorders they don't have

RadFem

Homophobes/LGBTQ+ophobes

Transphobes

Anti-therian/anti-kin

Zionists

People who support Israel/Are against Palestine

!Warning!

This blog is fucking heavy, sh, gore, stalker stuff, ect. exists here.

Don't like, don't look. Don't say I didn't warn you. Buzz off if you don't wanna be friends or exist peacefully with me.

There is self-harm thrown throughout this, though nothing from minors. If I reblog something made by a minor and you notice, please tell me. I have no wish to interact with minors. And I do self harm myself, so there will be pictures of that. If you don't want to see that and still wanna interact, block the tag: roach's scars

I will continuously edit this, so always check if there's something you wanna know or feel free to ask, I don't bite [without permission]

I'm Roach on this blog, usually Opium on anon. If you came looking and see this, hi, you found me <3

I'm the god of mutilation of the self and others, your angel [if you want] and a mutt that needs to be put down.

I'll put the rules and tags for that below once I've made a post for how to handle those. Ask things if you've encountered me before I've made it, I promise I won't get grumbly-

I'm really off-putting and aware of it, just not sure how to fix it, I apologize :']

Figured I should make an about me post, so here goes:

I use it/its only, agender, pansexual, poly

Not dating anyone and open to anyone even if I am. [Although, if you want me all to yourself, you better tell me quick <3]

I'm mainly T4T, but not exclusively

Sometimes a mutt [Kin/Complex]

Sometimes a God [Kin/Complex]

Sometimes an angel [Kin/Complex]

Always open to roleplay

Fantasy/Scene stalker [CNC]

An absolute slut for fighting kinks <3

Feel free to bring up a kink and ask, I'm into so much that it's really hard to list all of them :']

I do do pictures/nudes, only in PMs and with people I genuinely trust. Earn them <3

I have ADHD, BPD, severe anxiety, and several undiagnosed things. I am nonverbal irl.

I'm a service dom, which means anything I do is tailored for you, and idk what kind of sub I am, I don't get to sub much because I get too anxious to ask lol. I power bottom most of the time, but I also like topping. I don't bottom when I sub unless we've worked up to that level.

Kinks list: [Faves in bold] [Not complete, anything not in dni is open]

Fighting/Arena/Ring

Worship

Cannibalism

Petplay

Robot/Objectum*

Medical

Intoxication

Fauxcest

Public

Role reversal

Overstimulation

Edging

Piss, anything related to piss

Stalker/Stalking

Woundfucking

Snuff

Body modification

CNC [The word rape is allowed, I don't personally use it much however]

Object Insertion

Knife Play

I'm open to anything not in my dni's, so feel free to send me whatever, this is just what I could think of. I'll probably add to it over time.

I do participate in fandom, I know I know, so disappointing, so occasionally I reblog/talk about things from:

Hannibal NBC

Ultrakill

i'll add more later my mind is blank

*With Objectum, I'm into almost anything mechanical, and any range of Robot, but I'm also into Plushies. So, Plushophilia.

[our-aroace-experience]

Hi! Thank you for responding to my message, I'm the anon from this post - https://www.tumblr.com/our-aroace-experience/741231717716836352/hi-i-was-on-the-asexual-tag-saw-this-blog-and?source=share

So I have a new question lol - for my aspecs out there, do any of you feel attraction to masculine/masculinity and feminine/femininity? For me that attraction falls under aesthetic, romantic, and alterous. Because (which is why using bi or pan still feels clunky for me) my attraction towards the people I liked...I guess I don't like putting any label that has a specific definition that doesn't allow for nuance. So I guess fluid and or queer fits best - it allows nuance and I need that space because my experiences aside from asexual do not fit well into concrete definitions.

I'm rambling and bouncing off ideas with yall who are reading.

For my high school crush who was my non hetero awakening - I liked how cute she was, how her voice sounded, liked looking at her aesthetic wise as it pleased me how her face was organized lol. And this actually wasn't the first time I felt attraction to a person who IDs as a girl; I always forget because at the time I wasn't aware it was a crush, a celebrity crush but a crush nonetheless - I was 12 so very unaware of anything lgbtq. The actress was Phoebe Tonkin from H20 Just Add Water, a mermaid show, and Tonkin in 2007 - 2011 had me locked in. I watched YouTube slide shows of her model photoshoots - looking back it was a clear crush, anything with her in it I was watching. (I have also been a lifelong mermaid fan since age 3 so that also probably helped.) It was the same thing, she was INSANELY cute, perfect cheeks, perfect smile, gorgeous doe eyes, sweet lips etc. I should have mentioned her in my original anon but I must have suppressed those feelings because I truly do forget about them. Oh and as I am writing, I just remembered loving to look at the Olivia Hussey in her version Romeo and Juliet too...and currently a few girls in my life I'm around that I've noticed. I must still be subconsciously suppressing these feelings.... But all of that is also how I felt about the boys I liked, past and present. Basically the soft look the cute boys - pretty, scraggly, alt, dorky boy - also had me sprung. In the past, Dylan O Brian, boy crushes from school...currently right now my newest celeb crush is a voice actor named Kaiji Tang and his voice is my kryptonite and he aint bad to look at either. But again, soft face, sweet smile etc. So yes I definitely have a favorite look and, yes, giggly daydreams about them have/has happened too. Thinking about it more, all those attributes fall under femininity/feminine - so now I'm thinking am I just attracted to feminine traits specifically cute - ya know? But then I do love me a beard, not just a mustache, (Tang has one) which I do see as a masculine thing so I also like masculine/masculinity but it seems like I lean more toward feminine. That route can be found in men and women.

Again, I hope I made some form of sense.

yeah it definitely makes sense, though unfortunately i wouldn't know any labels for that, anyone with ideas feel free to share them!

[halcyone-of-the-sea]

A question

This is unusual for me, but I have a question for everyone (or the few people that actually see this). I had an interaction with a man on here that made me question a few things -- and before anyone gets nervous the conversation was very cordial lol. But he was telling me that I should refrain from tagging my works as ‘Character x Reader’ and instead only use ‘Character x Female Reader’ tags. 

At first, I was on board with this completely, considering that all I write for is women readers anyways. 

But that got me thinking and doing some research of my own about all the other works under the general ‘x Reader’ tag. Everyone, or at least most from what I’ve seen, tags their works with ‘x Reader’ somewhere in it regardless if the fic involves a female reader, male reader, GN reader, or any spectrum of the LGBTQ+ community. Then, the description specifies what to expect. They also add more tags as well that include those intended audiences if they were to only look up a M!Reader fic, for example. The few times I’ve read fanfiction I always just look up the general ‘Character x Reader’ and find one that suits my preferences.

So, I guess I’m just a bit confused? Should I post under only ‘Character x female reader’ or continue like everyone else and use the general ‘Character x reader?’ In all my works I always add that it’s meant to be a F!Reader in the description and add more specific tags, anyways. 

I’d hate to offend anyone, and this blog is meant to include all peoples, but I’d like some clarification. But maybe my social anxiety is just spiking and I’m overthinking this, lmao?

Idk, but I’d really appreciate someone else’s opinion on this immensely as the interaction left me in a bit of a rut and I’m feeling quite bad about it.

...Gosh, sorry, I rambled there for a bit. Thanks for reading, lol.

[reduced-sour-cream]

~ HI EVERYONE ~

My name is LoLo, welcome to my blog 🩷

Figured it’s 2024 so I should probably get round to making a pinned post!

���� About me ~

• 22

• Bisexual

• Based in the UK

• ‘Owner of Pink’ 🩷

• Happily taken by a v sweet n silly enby who means the world to me (❤️ tag)

• Occasionally goth (fits more than music)

• Biiiiit of a nerd lol

🩷 What I post ~

• This is my main (and actually only as of rn) blog so I compile p much everything here!

• There’s a fair bit of fandom shit but my mains are Zelda, Ouran and Xenoblade (these are tagged respectively)

• I’m also a big fan of bugs (especially snails 🐌) and cows! (These are also tagged respectively)

• Also post my thoughts and blog random shit happening in my life (dear kitty tag - any triggers I consider applicable are tagged but please lmk if you want me to additionally tag anything else!)

• LGBTQ+ posts (lgbtq tag) - I’m queer and so are most of the people I love. I’m going to celebrate LGBTQ+ wins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

• I do fit checks occasionally (also tagged) but not very often because I’m not working right now so I’m also not going out much!

• Occasional motivation/moodboard posts (usually studyspo but there’s a bit of everything - motivation tag)

DNI if you’re going to be transphobic or ‘gender critical’/homophobic/racist/Islamophobic/antisemitic/generally hateful - you’re not welcome here

I’ll add to this as and when but that’s all I can think of for now 🩷

🩷 Feel free to chat!

[cr0wprince]

I think Atlus gives such cute KanNao moments in PQ because they’re trying to reinforce them both as cishet.

[antiloreolympus]

10 Anti LO Asks

(Note: All of these asks are before episode 206 (Season 2 finale) so some may be dated.) 1. The wild part to me about the "Persephone got approved Underworld citizenship" is it took what, a week at most? Even if you want to use IRL Royal examples, someone like Megan Markle would (if she had kept up the process) still need two YEARS to get approved of it at minimum which includes a lot of paperwork and staying in the country for prolonged time, but Persephone gets it in a few days with no process? Is there really nothing Persephone doesn't get handed to her on a silver platter?

2. "How to be a woke misogynistic :Add white before woman" I think this anon was tryna call antis misogynistic?? Which like. Some of the "criticism" ive seen is just people using lo as an excuse to be misogynistic against rs but most of it is genuine idk what they're going on abt 😭

3. ya know for claiming to be a "loving and supportive fandom with no drama" lo fans are by far the most cruel set of bullies i've ever seen, and I've been in a LOT of intense fandoms. and I can't even handwave these fans as just dumb kids, many of them are adult women who made a mid webcomic their entire world and would rather get a power high off the harassment and bullying of others who dare no obsess over what they do while still thinking they're "feminists". it's so weird 💀

4. Lol I love that the person typed that 'regular' people just drop it and move on when they dislike something. Apparently you're no longer a regular person for disliking and discussing a piece of media 😔

Anyway, LO can bite it. It's misogynistic and an insult to Greek culture among many other glaring flaws. The giant red flag of an age gap and power dynamic between them is one hell of a thing to defend y'all, and it's also a hell of a thing to praise 1 character for cheating but cheer on another character for doing the exact same thing 🙃🙃🙃

Also it's incredibly funny to me how LO stans are so so aggressive and condescending to us about disliking it when we're just minding our own business?? We ain't talking to you nor do we go out of our way to mess with your tags (tumblr is tumblr, y'know) unlike a few of y'all that I've seen specifically use the anti tag to start shit like a bunch of brats. We'll continue minding our own business talking about LO with both non-fans and fans who actually want to have a discussion instead of mindlessly praising it, and y'all should mind your own business. 

5. This comic loves to claim it’s pro sexuality, pro kink, and pro female empowerment AND anti purity culture yet loves nothing more than framing sex outsides of Hades as bad, loves to push Purity culture to make Persephone look like the best woman ever, loves tearing other women down for not being the “right” type of woman, and consistently shames others’ consenting sex lives as gross and weird despite the whole comic being an obvious stretched out mess of Rachel’s office setting DDLG kink. Like??

6. I mean I get why LO Hera doesnt murder babies and all but it is an issue RS rides off "I'm not trying to be accurate!" when she makes Hades the "perfect" guy and Hera and Persephone the most desirable/amazing with zero flaws but then turns around and goes "oh well I'm being accurate!" to make Zeus be super mega awful and just make up stuff to pin on Apollo, Leto, and Thetis like?? you can't have it both ways?? Like she obvs picks and chooses who gets to be whitewashed and who doesnt.

7. Go figure LO fans to make Netflix all but closing down their entire animation department and laying off hundreds of people to STILL make it all about LO. I have countless friends who lost their jobs all en-masse with no warning and a neutered severance plan (NF purposely made it be four WEEKS instead of four MONTHS), the majority of them and their productions by BIPOC and/or LGBTQ+ creators and they're only worried over well-off and employed Rachel? Fuck off. I'm so upset over this.

8. Completely and utterly disappointed at LO being nominated for an Eisner again. I think Webtoon has the power to just nominate it every year and ignore all of their other series.

9. Listen we all know every award is just marketing and we know damn well Webtoons just pumps the with money to nominate LO but we know damn well they're giving way more money to pump up their brand now because the Batman comic is so lazily made yet was ALSO nominated for best webcomic and they're like "one of our BIGGEST HITS big ethel energy is being printed!" despite it being one of their most hated series that is lampooned for bad art and writing. anyway they need to be taxed more.

10. HXP is such boring, basic mythology shipping. Get back to me when they give Isis x Osiris and Dionysus x Ariadne the respect they deserve.

[goweninsane]

Hey, I’m Gowen Insane but you can also call me Owen because that is my name.

My birthday was June 29th, if that’s something you care about.

I use he/her pronouns, mix it up as much as you can for a sick combo that multiplies your points gained.

I’m asexual, polyamorous, and am attracted to people of all genders. I refuse to engage in any discourse over the labels of the last aspect I mentioned. Grow a spine and read some actual queer history instead of going off of what some nut on an obscure corner of the internet says. Go and look up the origins of identities and shit. Actually, if you have issue with any of those identities or labels, or if you have an issue with them being part of the LGBTQ+ spectrum, feel free to have a civil discussion with me about it.

I’m currently dating @evil-wizard-cat and @all-the-birds-died-in-1986, who are both wonderful people who’s blogs you should check out.

I post about a lot of things. If you want an organized blog I’m so sorry but you will need to look elsewhere. I run this blog for my own personal fun and I try to tag triggers that people ask me to, but don’t expect to be able to search for specific fandom stuff I reblog.

Speaking of fandoms, I don’t really like them. Not my thing. But I do often post about Metal Gear, Delicious in Dungeon, One Piece, anything from Remedy Entertainment, and a handful of indie games that you should absolutely play.

I run @howfuckableisyourfave but I haven’t used it in more than a year lol.

I take media way too seriously for my own good and can spontaneously post long rants about the messages or morals or writing in anything. I especially like to talk about games and game mechanics, as I find the medium incredibly interesting.

If I ever have any links to other sites I’m on then I will edit the post and add them here:

I’m only on Tumblr rn lol

[mayasdeluca]

It’s fucking wild how way back when everyone thought it was appropriate to comb over every detail in their lives trying to prove that they (“fans”) were “right” and essentially attempting to out them. They trolled Ash and tried to say that Ali was cheating, knowing damn well she couldn’t directly refute it at the time. Ali wouldn’t even allow the tag “Kr*shlyn.”

But now that they are out and married and happy with their dogs and a baby… free and excited to share even a sliver of their lives… that’s when people decide it’s fun to attack them instead. The previous is no longer entertaining since they’re already out.

IDK where you stand on Taylor Swift, and complete disclosure — I’ve been a fan of hers for half my life — but she basically got built up in the 1989 era and then people decided she was annoying for being “everywhere” and entertained themselves by tearing her down.

I got zero tolerance when people do this shit. No one should get a free pass for being a “kid.” And you can tell who’s never been bullied before. Even worse now because when I was younger, at least it was in person and I got a reprieve at home. Nowadays they’re being barraged repeatedly by assholes who wouldn’t have the nerve to do it in person.

And they also have to deal with their whack job stans. (There’s one who is straight up a stalker, I swear.) I just cannot believe that people really think that just because someone has money (they’re NWSL players???), that they’d be fine with being bullied. Money is not a substitute for mental health. And no, this does not “come with the job.”

Sorry, now I’m ranting in your inbox 😅😣

No worries! Feel free to rant haha

That's what's crazy to me...I mean I know they still have a bunch of fans now and maybe they just aren't as outspoken (or they're just older now because Ali & Ash have been together for like 10+ years now so that is a long time span lol) but it seems like people were way more invested in their lives when they weren't out yet?? And a lot of people defended them while also a bunch were creepily dissecting every move, but still. Things are so much different now and obviously better with them being out and happy and maybe it's because so much time has gone by but I just feel like now there's the bunch of fans who have been loyal for however long who still support them but then the other woso fans who either never got into them to begin with or just decided to pick and choose what they "heard" about them and that's why they somehow don't like them anymore and that's why they dislike them?? It just doesn't add up. It does seem like also people who used to like them on here don't like them anymore...whether they grew out of it or whatever the case is. It's all just weird to me lol

The Taylor Swift comparison makes sense and it's just not fair at all when it happens to any of them. I mean when you think about all the soccer players, specifically as of late on the national team with so many reasons to dislike them...and yet somehow Ali & Ash are getting crap too and it's like for what?? They've inspired so many people with their love story and it really confuses me how other people in the lgbtq+ community don't at least see that or respect that, even if they may be too young to have been inspired themselves or relate to them. But to hate on them? Like why?? But then other players get a pass and I'm like okay lol

I know the fan you're talking about and the fact that they're allowed to run social media accounts for them and pass them off as "fan pages" is beyond concerning. And I don't get why people like that are also the reason other people in the fandom will hate on Ali & Ash as if that's their fault lol and not all their fans are like that so stop generalizing? It's all so annoying. The more accounts on Twitter I see the more aggravated I get honestly.

[homosociallyyours]

Your last post about the ideal stunt girlfriend! I have some thoughts on this as well. I think first of all as you said the preference is that they just do not exist that is essentially why anything and everything they do seems to be picked apart. I am not sure what it is that someone can do then if their existence is the problem. (This is only in context of the 1D fandom because I have no idea how stunt girlfriend might be treated elsewhere). The blame for the closeting is placed entirely on the shoulders of the stunt girlfriend as if she is the one forcing a closeting whereas we do not know anything going on behind the scenes. (Just want to add that there is nothing wrong with someone choosing to be closeted in order to navigate a homophobic industry and world and to protect oneself.) I know the common story told about larry is that external people are forcing things upon them or are sabotaging them and there may well have been times where they were advised strongly (or manipulated and mistreated when they were younger by those who should have tried to help them in the industry) to stay in the closet but that does not mean that they do not have any agency at all for anything especially not in the present day. Perhaps in an ideal world they may choose to disclose their sexuality and their relationship (but even if they did not they do not owe that to anyone. Anyways the problem is heteronormativity and assuming people are straight by default). I do personally believe that both Louis and Harry want to at least be recognized as part of the LBTQA community for as long as they do not state things publicly (and also show that they are together to those that recognize it. I am a larrie so that is my belief lol) and possibly do want to come out at some point (both about their individual sexualities and their relationship) but until then they do have to perform heterosexuality for many numbers of reasons. And while they do that there is a need for a stunt girlfriend whether as PR or just for the purpose of appearing straight depending on their career needs. I know people who will speak out against attacks on Olivia might still have issues with Eleanor because one is PR and one is not (this is a simplified version of the reasons and I don't want to go into comparisons or reasonings people have for anything. At the end of the day neither attacks is justified to me.)

Okay this is already quite long and I haven't yet got to the point sorry about that. I think at the end of the day the purpose of the stunt girlfriend (when there is no PR involved) is to help maintain the closet until the closet is required. It doesn't matter who the person is tbh. If it were not Eleanor it would have been someone else so people who say things about Eleanor's personality, looks, character, mistakes she may have made do not make sense to me. None of these people know her yet they have made their own head canon version of her which is always a negative version. It would be the same no matter who was in her place. I think Louis' purpose for Eleanor specifically has to do with the story he wants to tell with his music and in interviews (a story that could possibly be most similar to his actual relationship perhaps even if not entirely the same) and I do believe Eleanor specifically helps tell it (as his longest public relationship). It allows him to mention a girlfriend that has "helped him" through tough times and give anecdotes about his "girlfriend". I think Eleanor probably does other things behind the scenes like a personal assistant as well we just do not see it. But the Eleanor we do see is the image that we are shown, the image that tells the story that Louis wants told. And that story in itself is so interesting and to me just confirms things that I believe about his actual relationship. So its more intriguing to me than something to stress over or look at negatively. I don't know Eleanor but what I know is this is her job and she will do it. It is work and I don't know why it has been villainized. I understand being frustrated by the situation and feeling like Louis (and Harry) may have not been happy through stunts in the past (potentially) but that does not translate to hating the stunt girlfriend. Disliking a situation you are in does not mean you dislike everyone who is part of it. But yeah anyways the end point is I do not see any situation in which people would be happy with a stunt girlfriend.

It doesn't matter which song she posts there will always be some criticism over it. It doesn't matter if she just posts herself with dogs or doing influencing there will be a problem. It doesn't matter whether she posts about Louis or not there will be criticism in either case. Lastly it doesn't matter if she talks with Louis' sisters or not either way there will be arguments that they are not on good terms. So I am not quite sure what it is that an ideal stunt girlfriend can do for fans. I don't see any situation where people who have already decided to have a problem just based on the concept of her being a stunt girlfriend will suddenly stop. But talking about these things might help at least some people understand the bias? I just think the best approach is that she keep doing what she feels is best according to the story that she has to tell and ignore the criticism (which can be tough I know because of the immense amount of hate you can get for it). I think if I were to find and guide someone my focus would be on guiding them on how to navigate the hate and I guess general tips based on the story that needs telling. And I think when it comes to finding someone it is probably a mix of finding someone who would look like what the ideal image of a girlfriend to a popstar should look like (which has its own problems and really we need to reevaluate standards of deciding these things) and also someone who can do the other behind the scenes work too?

Idk I have done a lot of rambling (and still probably haven't got all my thoughts down lol) but it was definitely an interesting post that led to some thoughts I felt like discussing. I hope you do not mind my sending an anon with all these thoughts. You do not have to post it if you are afraid of the reaction and can instead reply in tags?

I just want to end with agreeing with what you said about considering bearding to be like sex work. And also thankyou for your post.

hi nonny! thank you for your long and thoughtful response :) i hope you don't mind that i'm publishing it-- i think you made some good points and i appreciate that you really tried to answer the question of who to pick and what to guide them to do. image would definitely be key, as would an internet presence of some kind. i imagine celeb pairings would mean more frequent but less involved appearances while a famous/not famous pair would be able to get away with fewer public spottings but maybe more in depth/intimate scenarios.

and i really think there's just no way to please everyone, but you're right that the blame for closeting seems to fall on the shoulders of the woman who's bearding. :/// that often goes hand in hand with the narrative that they're (still) being forcibly closeted instead of looking at the very real history of ex-boybanders and performers who came out, which is relatively bleak/unsuccessful and making a decision to try to gain more credibility as solo artists.

meanwhile i share your perception that they want to be seen/read as LGBTQ+ by those of us who are part of that community. signalling is real, and it's not based on stereotypes like "oh he wore makeup! he has a limp wrist!" i mean as a queer femme from the south, when i go home i tone myself down quite a lot, but i still wear/use symbols that other queer people are more likely to notice, tell stories about myself that indirectly mention my gender and sexuality, and engage with queer history when possible in ways that straight people just. wouldn't perceive.

but of course you can do all of that and STILL want or need to be in the closet!

i really appreciate you responding to my question, even though i think you're right that there's no answer that would make the hatred these women get any less virulent. i do hope that, like you said, talking about it is at least useful in getting more people to realize that maybe it's undeserved? beards don't build the closets, they just stand there to make sure nobody walks in on the person they're working with while they're half naked, basically.

[routeless-writer]

Request Rules .・。.・゜✭・.

Welcome to Routeless, an otome/dating game imagines blog, here to fulfill your fantasies!

I’m Mod Mezzo, and I am the only moderator running this blog, so rule number one is please be patient with me, lol.

𝙶𝚎𝚗𝚎𝚛𝚊𝚕 𝚁𝚞𝚕𝚎𝚜:

Be polite. Rude or threatening requests will be deleted, I will block anyone who tries to stir trouble. Abide by the rules list. Easy peasy! Just don’t be an arse.

If you prefer to stay anon, and plan to send in multiple requests one after the other, requests sent in parts, or need to request a re-do, please claim an anon by using a word, emoji, symbol, etc. It makes things easier for me, and if you send me more than one request at once, I can publish them all at once for you and/or give you updates! I don’t want to leave anyone hanging. This will also allow me to start a tag for you, so you can go back and look at your past requests easily without having to crawl through the master list.

Since this blog does accept nsfw requests, it is an 18+ only blog. I say this because I don’t want to turn anon off for you guys, so I’m warning you now. Minors DNI for my comfort and safety, and your own safety.

Other DNIs should be obvious. DNI if homophobic, transphobic, racist, acephobic, MAP/SOMAP/whatever the hell pedos are calling themselves these days, “””super straight””, sexist, TERF/SWERF, n*zi/n*zi sympathetic, just fuck off if you subscribe to any of this. Leave. Exit. The door is RIGHT there.

Also just anyone who comes here to harass me or my anons. I’m anti fucking bullying.

TWST characters that are 16/17 have been aged up to at least 18 in all my works. If you want to get mad at me for aging up characters at all, don’t. I’ll block you, delete your inbox messages, whatever. I am literally never in the mood for fandom discourse ever. I am quite literally minding my own business.

Anything that is not a request will be put under the tag “not a request”.

nsfw will be put under the “secret stash” tag.

Anything from me that is a notice/update will be under “mod mezzo”. Anything from my inbox that is not a request or posts unrelated to writing that aren’t notices will go under “mezzo mumbles”.

My inbox is always open to talk, even if i'm not taking requests. I'd appreciate if we could keep things friendly and chill, so general rules of politeness/no harassment of me or anons/no trauma dumping apply.

For questions about the rules, masterlist, the blog, or updates, the inbox is always open.

Other important tags are on my tag list, which you can view by checking my navigation page (pinned post).

𝙵𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚘𝚖𝚜:

Court Of Darkness

Dream Daddy

Ikemen Prince

Ikemen Revolution

Ikemen Vampire

Monster Prom

Mystic Messenger

Obey Me! One Master To Rule Them All (please note that I HAVE NOT started Nightbringer)

The Arcana

Twisted Wonderland

𝙵𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚘𝚖𝚜 𝚃𝚘 𝙱𝚎 𝙰𝚍𝚍𝚎𝚍:

games i will add to the requestable list once i play them!

Touchstarved

Monster Prom 2: Monster Camp

Monster Prom 3: Road Trip

Ikemen Villians

What In Hell Is Bad?

Lovebrush Chronicles

Tears of Themis

𝚆𝚒𝚕𝚕 𝚆𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚎:

Fluff

Romantic

Platonic

Smut/nsfw/suggestive

Angst WITH comfort

Comfort

^^^This includes most mental illnesses/disorders, but if you’re not sure, feel free to ask. I will let you know if I am uncomfortable. I’d like to be clear, I myself am autistic/ADHD/PTSD, but I don’t speak for everyone who is neurodivergent or mentally ill. However, if you are in need of comfort, I’m willing to put in the proper research to properly fulfill a request.

All gender identities, presentations, and AGABs are accepted, and I specify in my writing what gender or AGAB the reader is when necessary.

Any variation of a queer/lgbtq+ s/o (i.e. s/o comes out as pan, react to ace s/o, s/o comes out as trans, etc) I am queer myself and will write GAYS being SILLY AND GAY

Littlespace (sfw only, I do not write ageplay)

BDSM/subspace/domspace centered asks

^^^ both nsfw and sfw

There is a kink specific whitelist under the rules tag for nsfw requests

Character limit of 5 (unless requesting a whole group, i.e. the demon brothers, monster prom girls, the arcana LIs, dorm leaders, etc etc)

Once again, feel more than free to ask me if I am comfortable writing something! I will answer you! 🫧

𝚆𝚒𝚕𝚕 𝙽𝚘𝚝 𝚆𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚎:

Pedophilia

Incest

Non-con I’m iffy on writing, I do enjoy cnc though most cnc based writing will likely be done by me, not requested.

Yandere. A slightly possessive/overprotective character or s/o is fine, but this isn’t a yandere blog. To clarify, I have no problem with darkfic, I just don’t write much myself beyond mild angst. (And I read quite a bit I am looking at yandere blogs directly hello you’re doing a good job)

sexual age regression, sfw littlespace is fine, but that’s in a sfw context.

Kinks involving bodily fluids/“functions” outside of c*m (from either partner of any gender), sp*t, and bl*od. Simply put, no bathroom kinks.

𝙱𝚕𝚊𝚌𝚔𝚕𝚒𝚜𝚝:

Guy Avari (Court Of Darkness) (unavailable)

Oliver (IkeRev) (only available as an adult/during nighttime in story)

Luke (Obey Me) (only available for platonic requests)

Ortho Shroud (Twst) (Only available for platonic requests)

Cheka Kingscholar (Twst) (Only available for platonic requests)

[i-am-not-afraid-i-am-with-you]

Hi, I'm Mack! I use he/they/she/ze/frog pronouns (he/him, they/them, she/her, ze/zir, frog/frogs) . Welcome to my Harry Potter themed sideblog. There's a lot more info under the cutoff.

I'm gonna say here that I strongly dislike JK Rowling and don't agree with the things she's said about trans people (and transfem people in particular). I do my best to avoid supporting her. I also get that there are a lot of racist and otherwise harmful tropes, ideas, and biases present in the text. I'm trying to make sure to keep learning and helping my friends and family who like Harry Potter to recognize those things when I can.

So. About me. I'm Mack. I'm genderfluid and queer. I'm white. I'm a minor. It's not hard to make me anxious, if I post something like that please give me a minute to come back around. I have a screwy sleep schedule, but please feel free to message me at any time if you want to! I have some self esteem issues and usually have a bit of trouble reading tones and I try to use tone indicators. I sometimes use emojis or emoticons. I try to add warnings (tw _____ and possibly _____ tw). If you need me to tag anything or if I tagged something wrong, please let me know!

From this account, you can expect rants about my opinions on characters and other things from the movies or books, Hogwarts imagine things, reposts of art and writing and other things, potentially my own art if I get confident (I like drawing outfits; might post some), likely some real world awareness things, and probably more I'm forgetting.

If you plan on following, please be aware that I am really forgetful and may require a bit of patience. "Repost if..." things make me really nervous and uncomfortable. I might post about real world stuff and I might accidentally post something onto the wrong sideblog. My DMs are open for now, but if things get creepy, I'm closing them. Same deal on asks. If you want to be friends and are over 13 and younger than 18, feel free to DM me and I might tell you my main account if I want to. However, while I don't really care if you know my main, please don't seek it out on your own. Also, I don't always check through the accounts of people I reblog from, but please reach out to me if I reblog something from a bad person or someone who I don't want interacting with my posts.

On that subject, please do not interact with this blog if you are:

an NSFW blog

racist, homophobic, transphobic, xenophobic, ableist, any kind of LGBTQ+phobic, etc

a TERF/SWERF

someone who doesn't believe in xenogenders/neopronouns/ace folks/aro folks, etc (included under LGBTQ+phobic but I figured I'd state that more clearly)

a MAP/pedophile

"pro-life"/anti-choice

I got my header from Artem Maltsev @art_maltsev and my pfp from Rhii Photography @rhii on Unsplash.

I'm gonna add the tags I use so this blog can be navigated easier.

Here's how to use my neopronouns:

Example: I just saw Mack's blog. Their posts exist, that's for sure. They should remember that posting things means other people can see those things, but I'm sure they can figure that out themself, so let them. Those posts are theirs.

ze/zir: I just saw Mack's blog. Zir posts exist, that's for sure. Ze should remember that posting things means other people can see those things, but I'm sure ze can figure that out zirself, so let zir. Those posts are zirs.

frog/frogs: I just saw Mack's blog. Frogs posts exist, that's for sure. Frog should remember that posting things means other people can see those things, but I'm sure frog can figure that out frogself, so let frog. Those posts are frogs.

If I missed anything, please let me know. Sorry if you had to read all of this lol

[henrik-von-schneeplestein]

sorry we keep coming to bother you with stuff like this, but did you happen to see the nasty 'creepy comment' about ego shipping huffle-dork made before retagging it? that horrid septic-dr-schneep came in with their own stupid post. are shippers in the wrong for being upset? should there be an anti ego shipping tag for those that don't like it you think? (sorry if including their names doesn't sit well with you) ~🥀

Yiiiiikes omg I was at work and didn’t see at all but I did some ~research~ and jesus fucking christ lol

Shippers are definitely allowed to be upset at being called creepy (can’t believe that needs saying but this is the JSE fandom so) but honestly this is one of those things that I don’t even have the capacity to be angry about anymore. Anyone who ships the egos has heard this, and we’ve heard it eight million times. We know exactly what these people say about us, and we also know that no one else in the community cares. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it every day if I have to: the reason things like this are so asinine and hurtful are because ego shippers are without contest the nicest part of this fandom (they’re also the most talented, which is I think a bigger part of the issue than people realize lol - for some of those people, it truly is jealousy). I don’t give a single fuck if people in this fandom like me; it’s when I see people, especially LGBTQ+ people, talk about how ashamed they feel of shipping and making secret blogs to avoid backlash for it, that I get angry. Because to see the kindest, most welcoming people in the fandom feeling like they don’t belong - being told that they don’t belong - is heartbreaking.

I didn’t see the ‘should people who hate ego ships have their own tag’ part of the discourse, but all I can say is that if the concept of gay people writing stories that represent their own identities makes you so angry that you feel the need to comment on it in literally any way that isn’t ‘hey I personally don’t like ego shipping so don’t tag me in it or send it to me,’ I don’t think what you need is a tag, I think what you need is probably therapy. 

Unless what you meant is should there be a specific tag they can block, in which case the answer is absolutely: the name of whatever ship they’re uncomfortable with. It’s absolutely valid to be uncomfortable with/hate a certain ship - I’m sure plenty of shippers have a few - and if there’s more than one, you can easily block more than one ship name. If you hate the concept of any of these male characters being shipped together, it’s your responsibility to block all those tags. Some people may tag ‘ego shipping’ on fanworks they post (sometimes it’s nice to do - I track ‘ego shipping!’ Get that exposure, y’all!) but that’s in no way required. It’s not something that necessitates warning, like violence or sexual content; there’s nothing inherently objectionable or controversial about ego shipping (or any other queer content) so it doesn’t need to be tagged and it most certainly doesn’t need to be warned for. 

By the wayside, using names is fine on my blog. I’m definitely a big believer in ‘if what you’re saying is justified, you sign your name to it and don’t subpost or be passive aggressive; own it entirely, otherwise it’s just gossip and shit talk.’ I’ll always risk ‘drama’ to make my stance clear.  Every time I see a blog that has one of those weird insult things isa-ghost gives out in their description - idk if it’s an AU or like a joke but they’re like “’ugly carrot’ according to isa-ghost” or “’unwanted suitcase’ according to isa-ghost” - I desperately want to add “’petty shipper’ according to isa-ghost” to my description but I mean I think that might validate the ‘petty’ part a little too much jghjfgh. ‘Horrid’ is maybe a stronger word than I would use for s-d-s but I mean if they’ve made you feel uncomfortable you have a right to say so. I’ve never had an issue with people just saying on their own blog that they personally don’t like shipping which to the best of my knowledge is what that person mainly sticks to, even if I agree it’s pretty clear that her stance is the same as the people who are actively horrible to us, and I did take issue with something (unrelated to shipping) she said once so I don’t really interact with her. The blogs I’m always talking about that I really find disgusting are the ones that call us gross, the ones that claim we shouldn’t like it or should ‘trigger warn’ it, the ones who say we don’t belong in the community, the ones who say we should ‘have our lgbt cards taken away’ lol. That’s the thing - we literally are asking for the most basic of respect. The bar is literally underground, and these people just keep picking up shovels.

Honestly, my reaction to this happening is ‘well, what are we gonna do about it?’ Not in a defeatist way - I’m genuinely asking. What can we do to make sure all the wonderful, creative, talented, sweet ego shippers know that they’re valued members of this community, and deserve better than this kind of treatment? To anyone who may still be reading who isn’t actively a shipper but likes to consider themselves a kind & welcoming community, I’m sorry, but I need to ask you to do better. If you see someone saying something actively mean or disrespectful about ego shippers, at the very least, unfollow & stop interacting. I know that’s a big ask, even if it shouldn’t be, because these are big blogs and you want to feel included and have friends. But continuing to support them is by nature saying that it’s acceptable behavior, that it’s just a difference of opinion, and again, once it crosses that line, it’s not anymore. By all means, interact with people who don’t ship and don’t like shipping - interact with ONLY those people if you want. And of course I can’t tell you what to do when it comes to the downright mean people, I’m just asking you to consider what you’re saying when you tolerate people who insult and demean certain community members for no reason, and I’m also asking you not to further insult us by telling us you support us while making it very clear that you don’t care if we’re treated with basic respect or not.

And to the shippers, my ‘what can we do?’ is a genuine, open-ended question. If there’s anything that I personally can do to make you feel welcome in this community, please tell me what it is. I’m not a very popular blog at all, but you should always feel free to tag me in/send me any ego ship content and I’ll happily reblog it, and god knows I’m always around to talk about ships, AUs, headcanons, and that kind of thing! I’m also around to talk just in general - if you’re feeling ashamed, angry, or sad about your place in the fandom, I’ve always got open ears and heart emojis for you. I love you very much and I’m glad you’re here.

[yaz-the-spaz]

Hey Yaz! Drag me back into the Ziam fandom I got a bit lost hahahahaha... Hahaha.. ha.

hey nonnie! so when i first read your ask last week i def thought you were just looking for an update on what’s been happening with ziam/in the ziam fandom lately (admittedly i was distracted and not all there in the head while reading it cause i had a lot going on lol) but on re-reading your ask now i’m realizing i’m not actually sure if that’s what you were in fact looking for lol? and if it’s not, then i’m not sure what exactly you were asking for me to do and how to answer lol but i’m just gonna go ahead and do an update post anyway and if it’s not what you wanted just let me know but anyways onwards to the update…

so apologies if i’ve missed anything as i’ve been pretty out of the loop myself the last couple of months and really only know the highlights, which isn’t much, so for anyone else seeing this who’s been more on top of things if i left anything else major out that’s happened since my last glee update please do let me know or feel free to add on yourself, but anyway for those who’ve been out of the loop like me, as far as i know here’s what you missed on glee in ziam news:

liam:

released a fashion collab campaign with hugo boss on the 4th of july (shortly after he was also named a brand ambassador for them) - go check out the merch, it’s amazing (and features lots of chevrons 😏just like someone else’s merch of late) and there’s also really cool promo stuff all over his ig!

performed in saudi arabia, which got some backlash cause according to idiot twitter users performing in saudi arabia now = supporting the entire country’s anti-lgbtq policies/agenda…in other words, haters gon’ hate and make fools out of themselves in the process

performed in miami (as part of the hugo boss collab promo campaign), which sources tell me was mad packed with fans and had a higher turn-out than anyone, including his team, seemed to be expecting which is always great to hear :) :) :)

zayn:

tweeted support for unicef relief efforts in sudan

tweeted the phrase “enna sona” seemingly out of the blue but which quickly raised a lot of eyebrows cause it was literally hours (i think early in the morning on july 5th if i remember right?) after liam’s hugo boss campaign was officially released and not only translates to “very sweet/very beautiful” but is a reference to a song (from a bollywood movie ofc cause it’s zayn), the main lyrics of which include lines like “why did god make you into such a beautiful/sweet person”…could be ziam related, could be just zayn reaching out to his desi fans but either way the timing of it all was very 👀👀👀

tweeted a thank you message for his teen choice awards nom for ‘a whole new world’ - which was released in may and if you haven’t listened to it yet it’s a bop and you should definitely go listen to it right now :)

officially listed his ny apt for sale which i’m taking to mean that the goat rodeo that is the Z*gi Farce Press Tour is finally, finally officially over

also wasn’t sure which one of them to put this under cause it kind of involves both of them but the hugo boss account also liked a manip of zayn in liam’s merch, which was…interesting. though to be fair they were also tagged in it and it included the hashtag too so it’s possible it was just part of a mass-liking campaign of anything that tagged them and/or included the hashtag without really paying attention to what it was, or maybe they even just figured liking something 1d related was good promo…orrrr *tinhat on* it’s also possible the person/people who run the account are dark ziams lol

stuff i forgot:

zayn and liam were the only ones to post anything on the 9 years of 1d anniversary - zayn posted a selfie on ig (after months of radio silence) and liam posted a thank you message to the fans on twitter

thank you to @dddarklarrie for reminding me of this!

zayn posted a picture of this poem/passage on ig back in may about love and marriage that sounded very much like how we all think of ziam and their relationship 

thank you to the nonnie for reminding me of this!

zayn also posted a selfie to ig with the red wolf tat clearly in view later that same day (may 5th)