#shewasaskingforit

[demigodreading]

The amount of times I heard this phrase- “She was asking for it.”

Because we were in a relationship.

Because if I loved them I would just do it.

Because I seemed like I wanted it.

Because I said yes once so it was a blanket consent.

Because I didn’t say no enough.

Because I would give in after awhile.

Because I wore crop tops.

Because I wore shorts.

Because my cleavage hung just slightly out of my jersey.

Because I played an oversexualized sport.

Because I was a flirt.

Because I was tease.

Because I danced just the right way to that song.

Because I would sing along to the sexy songs.

Because... because.. because.

I completely lost my sense of self. Lost the joy of doing the things I loved. Lost the love I had for the strength my body. Lost the love for hugs and other small touches of reassurance.

No More... No More.

I will no longer be the victim in my own story.

And in the famous words of Olivia Benson: “I’ll never be over it, but I can live with it now and I have my life back now.”

[knomrlse]

As usual, @talkthirtytome killin' it with truth. #stopresisting #complyordie #shewasaskingforit - #regrann

[tambonerd]

#Repost @skyferreira ⬇⬇⬇⬇⬇ Forgot to mention some of the other people who receive the simple "slap on the wrist" instead: pedophiles/serial rapists/racist cops that murder people/the list goes on...This system is fucked & always has been.🙃🏃 "but #SheWasAskingForIt"

[someannetaz-blog]

soooo.. this happened a minute ago. 

[explorerwithanxiety]

[leafinthebreeze]

#sexualviolence #rapeculture #victimblaming #femalemodesty #maleentitlement #slutshaming #shewantstheD #shewasaskingforit #quote

[appalacianimpressionists]

[five5]

Found our New Year 3rd #lady #shewasaskingforit #newyear (at house of plattness)

[explorerwithanxiety]

[explorerwithanxiety]

[leafinthebreeze]

#shewasaskingforit #makeyourmove #rape #sexualviolence #sexualassault