#she's bald and she's torturing people
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So today I was on tiktok to avoid some uncomfortably relatable situations in this memoir I was reading and I saw a tiktok reminding folks to not take the mean/cruel/dirty things people do to them to heart because it usually is mostly about them...
And then I had then funniest realization... when people do you dirty often they tell you the things that would hurt them the most. My own recent behavior was the key to this clicking.
I've mentioned before that I wear wigs and that is primarily because I wear my natural hair extremely short(short enough for me to be called "bald headed"). It's cool it's edgy and unusual(especially with my weird head lolz) especially in the predominantly black area I live in(important for later as you can assume everyone I speak of is black). So I pull up the local chick-fil-a blasting my recent obsession (posted below). As I'm making the second turn, which requires passing the folks outside taking orders, I see the uniformed ladies giggling to each other. And when I pull up there's an exchange.
"Wow I love your hair." from the lady, a woman with a slick backed afro puff. (If you're a woman from the south you know the italics is dripping with sarcasm and teasing.)
"Thanks" I'm already wary because of the giggling, my musical choices and I grew up pretty much only receiving backhanded compliments.
She goes on, "I've always wanted to cut my hai- "
And I cut her off with a laugh because we both knew that wasn't true and from the coldness in her demeanor afterwards I was right on the money. But to the point of this essay growing up one of the things that upset me most was being mocked, teased and laughed at. By laughing at her, I felt I'd won a victory which in the way or passive aggressiveness is the first place prize. The same way I'm sure she thought she had an ace in the hole by pointing out my lovely buzzcut.
But the real victory was me laughing it off. It annoyed the hell out of me(because I'm a stickler for efficiency and was picking up food for family) and I didn't let it change/rule my mood. I reacted to her not my emotions on the matter.
And of course maybe I was wrong and it was a real compliment... but I doubt she would have been so mad I had to wait an extra 15 minutes for my food if it were earnest. Hazard lights and all.
#writing#personal essay#personal development#short essay#error's thoughts#cruelty#meanness#she could never pull it off#I do it and still give fem#hehehe#but you know#goth#goth music#alternative#black beauty#black women#black writing#beauty#she's bald and she's torturing people#i am she she is me#Spotify
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#my edit#terrifier#art the clown#shes bald!!!!!!!! shes bald and shes torturing people who have hair!!!!!!!
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i have never played aai2
#blaise debeste#aai2#aai2 spoilers#kay faraday#sebastian debeste#miles edgeworth#oh my gosh she’s bald#she’s bald and she’s torturing people who have hair
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Messed up twilight plushie
#the hair is able to be like folded back it’s so silly#SHES BALD SHES BALD AND SHES TORTURING PEOPLE WHO HAVE HAIR#to delete#codysight art#I guess#shitpost#twilight sparkle#twilight sparkle mlp#twilight sparkle fanart#mlp#mlpfim#mlp g4#mlp fim#mlp art#my little pony#friendship is magic#mlp fanart#mlp fandom#mlp friendship is magic#pony art#pony#joke art#doodle
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What I’m doing when I’m not working on the next moon
#smooth burrow#weedclan#clangen#clan generator#waca#warrior cats#warriors#SHES BALD!#SHES BALD AND SHES TORTURING PEOPLE WHO HAVE HAIR!!!
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Quackity asking Forever to ban backpacks and such for being too op:
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first instinct
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okay
survived the hair cut and i look so faggy now (positive)
#the true test is how will it look washed and dried? 🤔#that's scary as fuck fjdkekr#lol the whole time i kept saying 'He's bald and he's torturing people who have hair!!! 😨“#to jess and they didn't think it was funny but i did.#fhdjdkdl#anyway...#if she looks good after a shower I'll show y'all maybe.#if not... i will be expanding my collection of hats i suppose.#i mean i don't go anywhere.#but my dog looked at me like 🧐🧐🧐 so. uh.#(i mean the dog can't judge me but. she was?)#anyhow...#yay?#diaerie
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HES BALD
#*loud gasp*oh my gosh! She’s bald! She’s bald and she’s torturing people who have hair! /ref#eddie’s art#chonny jash#cj heart#first art post of 2024 and its bald heart
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Might as well post this here too 😗
#clarity’s arts#artists on tumblr#digital art#procreate#sona artwork#sona art#she’s bald and she’s torturing people who have hair#bald
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Why does he look so sad in literally every panel post-war post-hospital? Let him have one nice thing please 😭
#mha#my hero acedamia#anime#gays#bkdk#all might#i love them#i miss them#bald fucker#why r you bald#she’s bald and torturing people who have hair#help Deku#he needs a hug#please#bro
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I wanted to draw him being bothered because of a "buyer" but things ended up taking other turns,help
#maison talo#house hunted game#house hunted fanart#bald#SHE'S BALD#SHE'S BALD AND SHE'S TORTURING PEOPLE WHO HAVE HAIR
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GODS GIVE ME THE MOTIVATION TO FINISH THIS BITCH
ITS BEEN A YEAR
PLEASE GODS
#vodkart#art wip#wip#digital art#digitalart#GODS I BEG OF THEE#oh my gosh. she’s bald she’s bald and she’s torturing people who have hair!
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dont worry about me now, im doing better rn :3 plus online familysilly anyways have a
( @peoplethinkimwierd DO YOU HAVE DISCORD BECAUSE IM NOT ALWAYS ON TUMBLR OR PINTEREST AUGKENAKWN) <3
#silly#gay panic#hellpark#bitch ass motherfucker#hellpark gregory#hot fucker#idk how to tag this#art#silly ass#hes shirtless...#shes bald and shes torturing people who have hair!#bald gregory <3#anyways i slipped from a banana peel and fell off the grand canyon#and#GAYGORY
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Was in the middle of drawing and I just made my oc bald
#my art#vii rambles#vii draws#traditional art#omg she's bald!#she's bald and she's torturing people who have hair!
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